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| 1 | CMV: Many men are genuinely intimidated by successful women because it disrupts traditional relationship dynamics.Best comment in the thread. Thanks for sharing your thoughts! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 04:34 PM |
| 0 | Mongolia shows that traditional masculinity and relatively high gender equality can coexist.You're right but for the wrong reasons. This type of equality will exist in any environment where survival is less abstracted. This isn't exclusive to Mongolian society though. Flexible role allocation coexisting with traditional masculine and feminine identities exist in all high hardship communities because survival and economic necessity take priority over strict adherence to social expectations... When survival is on the line in a tangible way there is no tolerance for treating gender roles … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 10:14 PM |
| 5 | "Nice guys finish last", AFBB statementes are kind of true for most average guys.Raw lust is a perfectly normal idiomatic phrase. Getting hung up over an adjective is quite strange. I've only noticed this in people who are not native English speakers. It may be possible that it is troubling you because English isn't your first language. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 08:04 PM |
| 2 | "Nice guys finish last", AFBB statementes are kind of true for most average guys.By that standard you don't meet the qualifications of a real woman yourself. Real women definitely experience lust towards men they find highly attractive. The fact that you and none of the "real women" you know have experienced it ever in life is quit strange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 08:00 PM |
| 4 | "Nice guys finish last", AFBB statementes are kind of true for most average guys.She explains very plainly that she feels feral attraction(raw lust) for her partner. If personal testimony is insufficient what evidence would change your mind in regards to this particular topic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 07:51 PM |
| 5 | "Nice guys finish last", AFBB statementes are kind of true for most average guys.Break the news to DMmeClownPics in this very thread then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 07:47 PM |
| 7 | "Nice guys finish last", AFBB statementes are kind of true for most average guys.Raw lust isn't real. It is probably more accurate to say that it isn't real for you personally and not something that you experience due to your unique biology, prescription regimen, and hormone profile. It is definitely real though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 07:40 PM |
| 4 | "Nice guys finish last", AFBB statementes are kind of true for most average guys.It is true but not the end of the world a lot of guys make it out to be. Most guys won't experience raw lust from a woman due to how their attraction works. However, this is true for many things in life. Not everyone will be able to climb Mt. Everest either. That is just life and guys have to reach a level of maturity to accept it. Whining about it and letting this stop you from trying is just defeatist and cowardice which are majorly unattractive traits. Currently due to how the economy is bein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 07:08 PM |
| 2 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.But the delusion had to come from real life access in the first place. Not necessarily. Just being exposed to broader possibilities is enough to warp perspective. A “like” on IG isn’t going to create that level of delusion. The like isn't what matters. Having access to the entire world and seeing a broader range of possibilities drives delusion. What wasn't even thought before seems achievable even if it is only possible for five percent of the population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 01:47 AM |
| 0 | The sexual revolution and casual sex brought about delusional standards - even for women who are not promiscuous.That is not the reason for people raising their standards. Standards increased due to the internet and social media. People are exposed to the most attractive people in the world. They're also exposed to narratives that make the average life seem terrible and unappealing. Before people were limited to their immediate social circle and local narratives that made the average life seem satisfying rather than a letdown. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 11:51 PM |
| -1 | Why do women on this sub seem to consider pregnancy to never be worth it.It is definitely cultural and a byproduct of the greed is good mindset that produces toxic individualism. It rebrands the inability to care about others, self absorption, and narcissism as virtuous. In times past those traits would be viewed as terrible vices to correct and not something to mention proudly. By contrast in cultures where people are taught to revere those that come before and those that come after you see a different perspective towards family and children. Don't get me wrong ther… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 08:32 PM |
| -6 | Why do women on this sub seem to consider pregnancy to never be worth it.Most people are heavily medicated and if they aren't themselves their parents probably were. SSRI's and other pharmaceuticals like hormonal birth control are proven to disrupt sexuality not only for the user but for their children as well. This has to be considered as a contributing factor into why many people have no desire for children and why there are more anomalies in sexuality and drive. Are they sober from pharmaceuticals and operating on their natural biology? Or are they altered in some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠I see the point you're trying to make but due to how biology works for the majority of people your proposition isn't applicable at scale. This is true for people who are medicated, detached from, or faintly feel the biological drive to couple the opposite sex. Sure, everyone being asexual or having an identical low level desire for the opposite sex would solve problems but it is entirely unrealistic. Your intent is good and so is the point you're trying to make... but you can only speak for your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Can you explain what emasculation feels like? Or is?Yes it is. If humiliated, the girlies flank and help their friend. You said men treat their friends worse when emasculated. I'm asking why because I think a few guys said something similar. There was a huge thread where many women report a different experience. Alright but why exactly? What purpose does it serve to pile on an emasculated man Through relative comparison it makes others feel better about themselves. This only works in soft artificial environments where conflict is abstracted. In e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Can you explain what emasculation feels like? Or is?I'm sure this is accurate for that particular niche demographic. I am skeptical of this particular framework outside of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 11:34 PM |
| 3 | Can you explain what emasculation feels like? Or is?This isn't a gender based behavior. It's more of a behavioral custom that is unique to certain cultures and individuals rather than a universal truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Can you explain what emasculation feels like? Or is?I'm not trying to invalidate your perspective. Just broadening the scope in some parts and highlighting differences in others. I agree with you that the N word is an insult. I disagree that the use of it is emasculation in all cases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Can you explain what emasculation feels like? Or is?He felt emasculated after losing his job and becoming financially dependent on his partner. I think this is a great example. It also has to do with gender role expectations. For a man its higher Not every man sees his value as coming from being the breadwinner. Some men would feel embarrassed by losing a job and being supported by their partner, but others wouldn't. In some relationships, having a successful partner who chooses to support you can even be seen as a sign that you're valued and des… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Can you explain what emasculation feels like? Or is?Totally accurate thanks for clarifying better than I could have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 09:06 PM |
| -3 | Can you explain what emasculation feels like? Or is?A broad categorical insult is not the same as emasculation. The N word isn't really as powerful nor does it carry the same weight as it used to. A lot of black people don't even care and will view the person using it as a hailmary attempt to try feel superior in a situation where it is obviously untrue. For example I highly doubt Lebron James would care if some random fan called him the N word. Emasculating him and destroying his image would get a retaliation. They're very different things. You'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 09:05 PM |
| 6 | Can you explain what emasculation feels like? Or is?True but that still invokes another person. I would categorize that under Love Triangle although the classification is not exact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 08:48 PM |
| 20 | Can you explain what emasculation feels like? Or is?Emasculation is a form of public humiliation or defeat that lowers the targets status in a way that is related to their masculinity. Emasculation isn't really possible in a one on one setting. It is usually orchestrated as a form of character assassination within a group against an unaware target. Think of it like the act of ambushing and jumping someone physically but a social version of that. The reason emasculation is dangerous because the only way the victim can restore their status in the m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 07:16 PM |
| 55 | What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender?Many men have the same negative attributes they like to highlight in women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 06:26 PM |
| 3 | A date asks "what woman do you admire"Its your first date with a gal and she asks you , " what women do you admire". Would the question be offputting to you, No. would you be able to answer it? Yes, with real and fictional references. What questions do you ask dates to get to know each other? Things that reveal core values, beliefs, and life philosophy. In addition to that, the reason WHY they hold these beliefs. If there is an answer that is some form of "just cuz" that is a red flag in my opinion. People who aren't inquisitive and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 11:04 PM |
| 4 | What do you think about young men feeling abandoned and demonised by left?The left weakened itself by emphasizing narrow identity interests over broadly shared material interests, creating internal conflict and making effective coalition building harder. As these niche identity groups gained power they became antagonistic and smug on social media in a way that was counterproductive to power and caused retaliation. These niche identity groups created the fuel for the modern culture war that has resulted in the alienation of young men. "Are the straights okay" "Men bad"… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 12:31 AM |
| 4 | Campaigns such as "Nuclear Family Month" are part of a broader effort to promote traditional gender and family roles.Again, what does any of that have to do with nuclear families? Whatever your cause is, I think you're making it harder to attract support by framing nuclear families as the opposition. Most people have positive associations with the concept, so taking an adversarial stance toward it risks alienating potential allies in favor of a relatively niche position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 11:34 PM |
| 3 | Campaigns such as "Nuclear Family Month" are part of a broader effort to promote traditional gender and family roles.What does any of that have to do with nuclear families? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 11:14 PM |
| – | Campaigns such as "Nuclear Family Month" are part of a broader effort to promote traditional gender and family roles.You're making a false equivalence. Comparing recognition or celebration of the nuclear family to "Nazi pride" or "white pride" is not a valid comparison. Nazi pride is associated with an ideology responsible for genocide, totalitarianism, and racial supremacy. White pride movements are often tied to exclusionary or supremacist beliefs about race. The nuclear family, by contrast, is a family structure that billions of people participate in regardless of race, ethnicity, religion, or political bel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 11:07 PM |
| 3 | Relationships are downplayed too oftenFor most people, the desire to find a loving partner and share life with someone is a natural and enduring aspiration. While there are many other meaningful sources of fulfillment, romantic relationships remain a central goal for much of humanity. The difficulty is that successful long term relationships generally require effort, personal development, and the cultivation of qualities such as communication, reliability, and emotional maturity. Many people focus on wanting a relationship without g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 11:04 PM |
| 7 | Campaigns such as "Nuclear Family Month" are part of a broader effort to promote traditional gender and family roles.If celebrating LGBT pride is generally understood as an affirmation of a particular identity rather than an attack on others, why should celebrating the nuclear family automatically be interpreted as opposition to alternative family structures? Why is it okay to celebrate one and not the other from your perspective? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 10:58 PM |
| 8 | Social media represents how people feel insindeThe feed is fake. Social media represents bots, algorithms, and manufactured consent more than anything else. The problem is that people who aren't strong critical thinkers or natural skeptics will conform to the narrative that appeals to them and use motivated reasoning to validate it. So you're right and wrong. Social media represents whatever the owner of the engagement algorithm and bot farms want it to. Gullible people without a strong sense of self then mirror what they believe to be a gro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 05:52 PM |
| 5 | Men Care Way Too Much About Female ValidationNone of that matters It matters quite a bit actually and is well established across the board. you literally need just one egg and one sperm for a kid not millions , and the vast majority only have one or two kids as well Not true, not all eggs or sperm are viable. The number of children had in actuality is totally unrelated to the reproductive logic responsible for behavior. Bateman's principle was based on a single, flawed fruit fly study from 1948 whose original data doesn't even support its … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 07:46 PM |
| 7 | Men Care Way Too Much About Female ValidationHow many eggs does a woman make over a lifetime? How many sperm does a man make over a lifetime? Look into anisogamy, Batemans Principle, and Parental Investment Theory. They're all pretty well respected and established principles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 05:10 PM |
| 5 | Men Care Way Too Much About Female ValidationBecause it’s objectively not the case that all men are that obsessed with women and female validation. I agree, but I believe this depends on life stage. For younger men it is understandable. For older men that have been unsuccessful they start facing the existential crisis of being a genetic dead end. Plenty of guys voluntarily choose to not date. Definitely not normal. This may be true for your unique social environment but not at scale. Plenty of guys have their own hobbies and interests that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 04:59 PM |
| 13 | Men Care Way Too Much About Female ValidationI do agree that men sometimes over prioritize female attention though, sometimes to the point where every activity they do and every effort they make is all solely for the purpose of attracting women. If you had 20x more testosterone you'd probably behave the same way. It's easy to critique from the outside looking in with a completely different hormone profile. This is like a guy saying periods can't be that bad because he bled from a scrape one time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 04:34 PM |
| 6 | Men Care Way Too Much About Female ValidationYeah, because the egg is more valuable than sperm. Also, not all women receive validation from men. Unattractive and elderly women get pretty much zero validation from men that aren't their friends or family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Men Care Way Too Much About Female ValidationThey do need men but they're more selective due to the fact that they have singular eggs and pregnancy has a high cost. Men have millions of sperm and don't get pregnant so they can be a bit more reckless. The problem is usually not that women don't need men. Women definitely want and desire men. The problem for most people is that the men and women that they desire, don't desire them. I'm sure you could find a nice woman to have a fulfilling relationship with. She probably won't look like an in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 04:15 PM |
| 12 | Men Care Way Too Much About Female ValidationMen don't care "way too much"... On a biological and primal level heterosexual men will seek validation from women and vice versa. You're pathologizing a basic function across the majority of life on earth as we know it. Seeking validation from the opposite sex is literally the reason you have a body. We need another human to reproduce. We're not amoeba's that undergo binary fission. I hope this helps you understand why men and women want validation from each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 04:01 PM |
| 3 | The wall isn't real. It's a psyop that benefits mediocre men.It is definitely real since everything is subject to entropy. Just because people you don't like framed it in a manner that is offensive to you doesn't mean the concept is a "psyop". The concept applies to everyone since no one is immune to aging. While lifestyle, individual genetics, and body modifications can slow down the effects of aging/entropy. Everyone experiences decline in their physical appearance with time. Some people age worse than others so there is variation at the individual leve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 04:45 PM |
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