ThievingMagpie22 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Women Have it Easier in Dating Than Men. I feel like there's a third group of men who are somewhere around the 5 to 7/10 and initially women find them 'nice' but not quite good enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/25 11:51 PM
-1	Telling men to have more friendships with woman is misleading because women treat friendships and dating the same Think they're referring to orbiters / friend zone beta type thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 09:20 PM
1	Society did not “lie” to you about what was and wasn’t attractive to women. You are not a “victim”. Think he means women chasing top-tier men they know who won't respect them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/25 09:28 PM
–	I think men act and feel more entitled to romantic success than they realise You talk as though these 'prissy' diva types are a 1/100 minority	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/25 11:32 PM
1	Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flags Interesting angle. Feels a lot of the time the regular posters in here like the current status quo and will defend it staunchly and mock anyone either giving up on dating or going the passport bro option.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 11:23 PM
5	Why do you all think men say that women don’t know what they want? Preferring a man 'taller than me' doesn't get anyone upset. Only wanting 6 foot + does though	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 11:10 PM
0	Why do you all think men say that women don’t know what they want? Definitely isn't the case for the regular guys	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 10:49 PM
2	I Cracked the answer behind the big dick and relationship material debates Why are you in this thread just to shit one everybody's opinons?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/25 09:20 PM
2	Women want men who are kind , Emotionally available , considerate but they will throw away all of that for a guy thats just tall , funny and good in bed You're asking to get angry responses, calling them either stupid or liars	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 07:34 AM
–	What actually is friendzoning and fuckzoning? That first one isn't the friendzone, the second one definitely is though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 10:34 AM
0	Men must radically change to counter the current epidemic of women having inflated egos As short men are being bred out of existence, we must ensure men only choose to partner with women under 5"5 as a counter-balance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 12:19 AM
6	Women on reddit who claim to be single and perfectly happy due to potential dating partners not meeting their standards are often miserable in reality. I don't feel its ever just them being happily single that gets men angry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 11:09 PM
2	Women need to be choosier than men upvoted for 'doggie dog' world :D	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 10:10 PM
1	What women really want I feel like they pick someone, then justify afterward (and sometimes use excuses)	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 09:11 PM
11	How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men? Sounds practical, but everyone on here just claims they'd "rather be single" than do that	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/25 10:10 PM
2	How is it not male hypergamy to expect women at their peak to pair off with undesirable men? So... they'd have to drop their standards and maybe include some 7.5/10 guys?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/25 09:28 PM
1	Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'. I'd have thought there would be differing posts but its nearly all "why should i change" answers	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/25 11:24 PM
1	Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'. I thought this thread might give some enlightened response but its more the same "why should i go for a 3/10 chump" responses	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/25 10:53 PM
2	Why do women say they want one thing but actually respond to the complete opposite thing? Seems like one thing got answered several times when it was only a tangent of their post/rant and the title of the post got largely ignored or dismissed	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/25 10:41 PM
2	Why do women say they want one thing but actually respond to the complete opposite thing? Why are there like 20+ responses in this thread like this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/25 10:24 PM
0	What’s up with “attractive men are bad and not interested in monogamy, unattractive men are good and loyal?” Would there be a a doubling down on "keep picking 8+ Chads, but be REALLY picky with personality" or would they suddenly now include the very richest / most charming 6.5-7.5 also?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 10:34 PM
2	The "Friend-zone" is often deliberate manipulation. In that scenario you weren't dangling the carrot to them	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 11:39 PM
0	If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier men These men do exist in women's eyes but not as dating material.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 11:02 PM
1	The Man You You Want vs The Men You Are Attracted To I'd say that women who are 7/10 or above have PLENTY of options, maybe not unlimited like the 10/10	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 11:01 PM
5	People should think about their priorities before complaining about dating. Thats a load of crap. None of the guys on here are the choosers and most aren't unreasonable either	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 11:19 PM
1	Why do women say they want nice guys but there are subreddits making fun of nice guys. you're just making excuses for the woman who says one thing and does another	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 09:33 PM
8	Why do women say they want nice guys but there are subreddits making fun of nice guys. I'm surprised that no women in this thread have seen this behaviour in their friends or acquaintances, instead all deciding to shut the topic down	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 09:32 PM
2	Who has it rougher when it comes to dating women or men? In this community not so much. They would be aware of it but are reluctant to ever acknowledge it here	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 10:19 PM
3	Being Indifferent to Women Will Get You Many More Options I think it was only in my mid 30s that I stopped excessive sweating and blushing when I spoke to women something I thought would never go away.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 11:13 PM
2	Do you think the idea of the 666 is the sole reason why you, or some men struggle to get dates or sex? It's definitely important early days of a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 09:02 PM
1	Being called "sweet", "nice" or "gentleman" means they are not attracted to you Friendzone may not be intentional from woman, but it differs from being rejected / ghosted if said person keeps them around but at a distance in the coming weeks/months right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 09:01 PM
9	Being called "sweet", "nice" or "gentleman" means they are not attracted to you Different scenario though. Being rejected / friendzoned while being called "sweet / nice" is something different	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 08:57 PM
0	Ladies do you agree with this hot take? Being friendzoned is not real? I mean hey often the guys make decisions which lead them to get friendzoned but you are calling the phenomena a hoax?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 09:37 PM
1	Why social media and dating apps have destroyed dating for average men and wreck the mental health of average women True, but thats probably the partner more being lazy or doing the job badly so the wife has to re-do it. As i said, having your house in order is "nice" when you're already in a relationship but won't likely get potential women to notice you in the first place? At least thats my experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 09:27 PM
1	Why social media and dating apps have destroyed dating for average men and wreck the mental health of average women Its not that you're doing anything wrong its just these things you do easily "work / clean / cook" aren't things that attract a potential partner as such. Maybe in a blue pill world potential women would feel all warm and fuzzy knowing the male can step up and cook	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 09:18 PM
–	Modern Women Are Incapable of Accountability No blue pillers here going to say anything?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 11:47 PM
4	Why do you think so many women have the same dating issue 5 men are not approaching 9s and 10s. They'd be rarely going above 6.5/7s	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/24 12:41 AM
2	“I want a man that takes the lead” doesn’t free women from taking initiative At some point she probably lost interest because you werent tall/rich/charming/handsome enough or got a better deal	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 03:24 AM
1	What dating standards are fair for women to hold? Can nearly come up with equations for first world countries. Eg, the 6/10 guy trying to get the 3/10 lady but she demands a 7.5 or above.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 10:57 PM
1	Its not that women give bad advice. Its that men arent honest about what they really want. Because if you are a 5/10 you only deserve a 2/10	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 12:15 AM
4	Society encourages Fukbois, especially women Interesting thread. Several people giving first-hand examples and nearly all of them being shut down or disregarded.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/24 02:20 AM
–	Abruptly learning about female standards can lead to mental disarray These things may have been learned gradually rather than abruptly	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 11:55 PM
–	Abruptly learning about female standards can lead to mental disarray So what do you do? spend an indefinite amount of years "working on yourself" and hope eventually you'll meet someone. Actively seek out women and get used and rejected? or just focus on career and hibernate away from the dating scene? I know i've done all these 3 techniques	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 11:25 PM
4	Women having high standards will have positive effect on men. Some are venting. Some are upset and have given up. The ones doing well to great aren't here commenting so it looks like a huge pity-party to some	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 09:07 PM
1	Gold Diggers Aren’t Real There is a difference between wanting to be "looked after" and being a merciless "gold digger"	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 12:07 AM
1	The Guy Tiers in The 80/20 Rule of Single Women Chasing Men Not lying. Just theyve already dismissed 80% of the crowd who werent tall/handsome/well-off and now complain that this 20% they are going for aren't great	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 11:10 PM
4	The Guy Tiers in The 80/20 Rule of Single Women Chasing Men A lady who friendzoned me claimed she only wanted a partner who was "loyal and honest" and added the caveat "rich is a bonus". Yet she spoke of several guys who she met at the casino as "he seemed nice, but didn't seem rich enough" <-her words! At first I thought she was joking but maybe she had no filter on the gold-digging thing. Ironically she's landed a 60 something retired businessman who has already cheated on her and she left him for a week and returned already.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 11:07 PM
1	Women do not have high standards. They just look for someone who is better than themselves and a lot of women are doing better nowadays than men. That only leaves a small amount of men for them to choose from. Because there is high standards or just "standards" and theres overly-high standards. Guess it depends on a variety of factors	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/24 08:44 PM
2	Women do not have high standards. They just look for someone who is better than themselves and a lot of women are doing better nowadays than men. That only leaves a small amount of men for them to choose from. Most of us here would accept that if it was just "earns more, not by much but more"	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/24 08:39 PM
1	Women do not have high standards. They just look for someone who is better than themselves and a lot of women are doing better nowadays than men. That only leaves a small amount of men for them to choose from. Not so much if a 4/10 lady only seeks a 5/10. It's when they don't want anything a below a 8/10 perhaps	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/24 08:31 PM
1	Society seems to believe that the average woman is entitled to her pick of the litter with men guys in the thread : Yeah it sucs Ladies in thread: Big deal, get over it	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/24 05:34 AM
3	Who is the "good guy" who struggles with dating? I think that is closer to the defintion of beta/sap rather than good guy	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/24 01:16 AM
6	Women generally don't want us men to try to be friends with them, so it's up to us to act accordingly and listen to them. Some of them are blurry too. They can skate between totally not interested one day and very interested a day later. Women would definitely be able to sense this with body language alone	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 10:55 PM
2	Women generally don't want us men to try to be friends with them, so it's up to us to act accordingly and listen to them. Yikes, that aint cool. I was kind of the "therapist / friend zoned guy" for a similar friend who i slowly got less and less attracted to, was there while she broke up with 1 guy and started a relationship with another. Turns out I was lucky not pursuing her as shes a user / gold digger in a lot of ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 10:49 PM
1	The fact that the majority of blue pillers not only downplay but outright deny that women have become delusional in their standards or that there is a serious issue in dating is a huge red flag and tells you they are not interested in an honest debate people being turned down on a date because theyre "not rich"	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 11:48 AM
1	The fact that the majority of blue pillers not only downplay but outright deny that women have become delusional in their standards or that there is a serious issue in dating is a huge red flag and tells you they are not interested in an honest debate All the "top" women either have their Chad and Brad and all the rest are either waiting for their brad in shining armour and won't settle for anyone below a 7/10. Pretty much selective breeding where short/ugly/awkward will be extinct	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 08:52 AM
1	The fact that the majority of blue pillers not only downplay but outright deny that women have become delusional in their standards or that there is a serious issue in dating is a huge red flag and tells you they are not interested in an honest debate I appreciate the honesty in this post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 11:13 PM
1	Do you think most men would forgive a cheating girlfriend if she was a good girlfriend ? That might be the case in third world countries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 09:49 AM
1	When women say "I have a boyfriend," it is usually still a personal rejection I read the OP scenario as being an Average Dude at the bar, seeing a obviously single lady out to meet guys maybe sitting alone at the bar, Average Dude she doesn't rate approaches her after he sees her flirting happily with other hot guys a minute earlier tries to buy her a drink, and then she kinda drops the "i have a bf" to get him away from her before he starts sleazing on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 08:49 PM
1	Most women don’t pick men based on their status or money Funny you say that. I'm 5"10 and my ex was 5"4 and she said she preferred someone taller than me (6"2)	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 07:05 AM
2	Most women don’t pick men based on their status or money I don't think that. From what i've read around here, 7/10 men are being declined by 4/10 women because they either aren't tall or rich.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/24 02:51 AM
11	If you're not making $100k or more looks don't matter as much as you think. Where I live its more "what job do you do, if you dont mind asking?" which is a lot more subtle than "what do you earn?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 11:54 PM
7	Bars are one of the only real social spaces left where one can meet women. But they’re problematic for so many reasons. They do work and earn yet most will honestly tell you "he has to earn more than me"	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 08:42 PM