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Crazy thing is 12 year old boys probably didn’t care much about shorts on a girls childlike body. Especially at a camp with a lot going on and plenty of girls probably wearing slightly longer short. The male staff on the other hand…. Well that was probably the real concern. Boys were probably just wondering where they could get some water guns. I think boys are groomed to care and be so controlling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:13 PM
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Because men can never leave women the fuck alone. It’s crazy. Always have been entitled. But some how talk about how they are giving up women? Nah. They fuck first woman to walk by and offer to put out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:45 AM
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I’d have left him there. I hateeee possessive jealous men. No logic. Glad he’s an ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:59 PM
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The lack of men’s domestic violence shelter ones always kills me. Like… most of the ones for women were started by victims of abuse or family of victims of abuse. Men have always had the majority of money and power, make your own. Secondly, what’s hilarious there are tons of men shelters. Homeless shelters. They aren’t fucking unisex. Most homeless shelters are for men only because any woman who would go would obviously be assaulted. That’s why there are specific women’s shelters. And usually wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:21 AM
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I’d press charges and get a restraining order tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:53 AM
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Dudes will fuck a model the first night, crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:52 PM
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Lmao I’m married but if anything happened to him, there’s no way I’d do a fwb, men have always gotten way to attached way too quick. And too entitled with time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 08:16 PM
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I think that’s really gonna depend on the person. Not everyone wants a relationship. Most people want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 08:13 PM
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Having enjoyable sex comes from low self esteem... stellar logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 08:02 PM
1

I keep seeing these dudes saying men are putting off marriage and it’s hilarious 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 11:38 AM
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Lmao what???? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 11:34 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 11:34 AM
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Yeah like I’m not seeing what their exact issue is. Young people get horny and fuck. How does that effect settling down?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 11:33 AM
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Lmao I’d loooove to hear the answer here as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 11:31 AM
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As someone who’s husband was their first kiss... lmao why does it even matter jfc XD like honestly, is it an insecurity thing? People have sex with the person they are going out with now. If it doesn’t work out, move on to the next. It maybe take many relationships to find someone to settle down with. It’s not that serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 11:23 AM
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Divorce rate is at an all time low in decades.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/20 10:36 AM
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Spiritually is now biologically? Everyone knows hormonally there is a change. It doesn’t create a spiritual bond, obviously as plenty of people are fine with hooking up and the hormonal effects change over time.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 01:48 AM
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Is there really though.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 11:43 PM
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Meh. Like I did the whole purity thing. My husband was my first and looking back and years down the road... it’s not that serious. That’s probably why others don’t take it seriously. But everyone is different. Sex has no inherent morals other than what you choose to attach to it. I didn’t even do saving myself for me, just a conservative upbringing. No one should be harassed for their choices however. But, you will see women are shit on at either end. Women who have had multiple partners to some…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 11:41 PM
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True and understandable. I think across the board though people are drawn to happy energetic people who are full of life. People that you just like being around, that make you smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 05:26 PM
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Maybe . I think most men are 6/10 or less though XD So maybe that’s just me. I like fat dudes anyway. The amount of self loathing and feeling sorry for themselves and mad at women in those groups of dudes is high. I’m honestly surprised and happy to meet awesome confident big guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 05:21 PM
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It’s really not. Women in studies regularly report preferring average men and dad bods. I always assume less attractive assholes blame their looks when in reality they don’t want to assume there is anything wrong with their behavior, personality, or lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 05:17 PM
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Oh yeah. Men only believe what they see. And quite fucking frankly they don’t even mind being lied to to fulfill a fantasy. They’re already lying to themselves the moment they look at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 11:40 PM
2

Idk guys. Do you know who a huge percentage of gay erotica and FanFiction readers are? Oh and yoai?! Women love that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 01:49 AM
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I’m only into it if I’m the one being dominant XD I mean I tolerate being a sub when I have to but there’s nothing like pinning a guy down by the throat and smacking him across the face a little while I’m riding him and watching him get more turned on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 08:56 PM
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Idk. My husband is totally happy with the extra cash from my sugar daddy. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 07:42 AM
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It could be something wrong with the relationship yes. But you’d know better than us. It could also just be something in his you can’t change. I childhood experience. First porn he got ahold of. It can be so many things.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 03:10 AM
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That imply all these women are single or looking for a relationship. I’ll always advise younger women to avoid age gaps. I rarely see it turn out well. I’d never be interested in the type of man who like such younger girls. Most of those women would feel the same. There are too many men that date in their age range available. It’s not really hard for women of any age to find men. Plenty of younger men fetishize older women. That’s not an issue. I’ve never actually really seen a woman be desperat…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 03:11 AM
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Because many older women have been that younger girl at some point, it’s a protective thing. They were young too. They dated older guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 02:40 AM
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This is honestly one of the few reasonable posts I’ve seen on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 01:05 PM
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Everyone is still sticking with the alpha bullshit huh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 04:33 PM
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9 or 10 pm to midnight or a little after when we have extra energy. 1 kid. Bedtime is 8 for him. I vouch for an only child lifestyle XD
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 10:25 PM
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Some dudes want a hot hole to put it in daily instead of maybe quality sex a few times a week. Like it just makes no difference to those types. It’s weird. I’d rather a few times a week, and several hours to play around and actually have fun verses daily 10 min fucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:35 PM
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Lmao dead
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:32 PM
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The theories here are wild. I’m not touching a man who doesn’t do housework with a 10 foot pole. That’s a child. Who hasn’t been raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:32 PM
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Exactly. Now everyone has to be consenting and into it. Used to women were just told to deal with it and didn’t know what an orgasm was.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:26 PM
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... does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:25 PM
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I think most people aren’t up for solo commitments either way. Seems like a smaller selection of people are. Everyone says men will be happy with one hot girl but even ugly dudes wind up cheating. Seems like women are more likely to leave. And men don’t care to put in the effort to find another woman as it has no real benefit maybe. That aside, plenty of people are also wanting a long term partner, have 0 interest in upgrades or outside relationships. Humans have complex mental systems, we don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 12:48 PM
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Historically it was always much higher. Dropping lower after rights were gained and no fault divorce was allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:35 PM
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Yeah I meant from prior modern age. Women had rights and education in 2000 last time I checked, women’s suicide used to be drastically higher. Now the rates are climbing for men and women but that’s a separate issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:34 PM
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Women’s suicide rate has been dropping and over all happiness is going up along with more women experiencing better health and happiness alone. I can’t see society going backwards again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 02:39 PM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 02:37 PM
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Lmao please. Long term relationships isn’t a goal for Everton anyways especially not at the start of sexuality. It’s a dying practice because it’s pointless in modern times.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 02:46 PM
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If he’s not out to use her then there should be no issue with maintaining the friendship level if she’s indicated she does not want more. A mans feelings are not a woman’s responsibility. Be clear, if you can’t handle the current state of things, leave. Because many women, apparently more so than men, genuinely can enjoy and do have meaningful friendships with the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 10:54 PM
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That’s not a maintainable dynamic which you yourself stated. You’re not going to convince her to love you and if your really can’t be friends with her and are going to try to push add her to see things your way and try to make her see you’re the right person for her, then honestly? You need to leave her alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 10:51 PM
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Honestly I’d hope your aim would be to handle your feelings as appropriately as possible and trying to untangle those feelings from what evidently is a valuable friendship. Maybe counseling. Particularly for the feelings of doom and no one else going to work out or be good enough. That’s a lot of emotion to push onto one person even if you keep it to yourself which I’d hope you do instead of coloring your friendship with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 08:12 PM
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Your anger is over some imagined entitlement though. You’re saying that she’s like hurting you by not returning affection or feelings. She’s never been interested but you allowed you’re feelings to develop so far that you’re angry she liked your brother? That’s completely misplaced anger. Misplaced anger is dangerous. There is no reason to feel that level of anger or jealousy over someone who’s not even considering a relationship with you much less not in one. Attention from one specific person …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 07:49 PM
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It’s crazy that’s the biggest thing you have to worry about. That’s possessive and angry and violent and if I were your friend and read that I’d honestly be afraid to be around you. Maybe she knew keeping you as a friend was healthier or even safer dude. Just that statement is major warning flags. Sadness at a lost chance, understandable. Anger? That’s dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 07:34 PM
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It’s 70-80% for current or previous partners and women are most at risk for being murdered within the first two years of leaving a relationship by that person. Also there is still a high risk for violence as well aside from murder. DV is common.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 03:05 PM
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How is a woman supposed to know the difference between a real friend and someone pretending to be to get something out of it. That behavior sounds predatory. Accepting gifts and attention from someone lying about being a friend is not. For men saying often women aren’t being clear. Stating attraction and leaving when it’s not reciprocated would be the most clear communication and yet isn’t done in those situations. It seems men get something by at least being around the women or it’s better than…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 02:40 PM
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Oh I do agree. And within good reason. A bad choice in mate can prove fatal. And not even uncommonly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 02:15 PM
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Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 01:39 PM
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This very well said an accurate. If I don’t see a man as sexual, I don’t. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 01:39 PM
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It’s not when someone else will see her as more from day one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 01:35 PM
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That just sounds like lack of emotional intelligence and seeing women as something you want instead of an individual which is likely why men like that have trouble maintaining a relationship in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 01:34 PM
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Or maybe they actually enjoy their friendship and are hoping these guys will get over it or ignore those feelings since dude will want to fuck just about any woman anyway. You can put those feelings aside when a friendship is more valuable I’d hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 01:33 PM
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I think most men seem to be open to being romantic with any woman they are friends with as long as they get along and are some what attractive. Women seem to be a bit more specific about traits in a mate..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 01:31 PM
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Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 10:55 AM
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Yeah agree. It’s still weird and a bit fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 10:53 AM
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I mean young adults have always looked to elders for advice and guidance. Don’t play naive. Why do you think there is an age requirement for political office? Life experience plays a significant role in someone’s thought process and influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 10:52 AM
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No. Not different standards. If I’m interested I’ll give consent to what ever. If I’m not I’m not. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 11:27 PM
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I’ve never experienced a matching outfits stage... o.0 erm.... wait like literally? Because maybe don’t. Like most people enjoy relationships as a way to relax and open up to someone. Playing dress up like that sounds stressful. And the matching, seems? Idk neurotic a bit tbh. I know it’s your preference though so you’re really just gonna have to look for someone who really really wants that or just let off dude.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/19 01:01 PM
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Yeh that sounds awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 03:20 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 04:58 PM
2

Female suicide used to be much higher so... pass?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 04:57 PM
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Fair.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/19 03:09 PM
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4 years, though 6.5 together. Why would he resent marriage because of his own personality? It’s equal say in everything. He just doesn’t like making decisions. I’ve seen plenty of long term marriages, very happy, with more passive men. Those were the relationships I looked up to.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/19 02:34 PM
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Never. I married one. Heavy preference. It’s actually dominating men I find boring. Most men aspire to be that. Except they just wind up looking ridiculous for the most part.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/19 02:11 PM
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The nerdy shit. Fully agree. And fat guys. We have the same type XD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 02:19 AM
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Intelligence. I’m mostly completely unaffected and unloved by men until they open their mouths. Intelligence with a dose of charisma and self assurance. That’s for immediate sexual attraction, but not necessarily someone I’d consider being with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 02:17 AM
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I meant the ultimate fantasy for the most part. Not practicality. Practically we like reasonable cars. However I don’t have an interest in buying some dream car someday. My husband does.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 07:13 PM
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Wild. I think this generation has less sexual partners from what I’ve heard. I’m only in my early 20’s been married 4 years, and most other young people around seem to quickly settle into longer term living together situations. And hell in this economy it’s hard not to. Idk. I don’t know a lot of girl who have enough free time to chase abecrombie dick. We all got jobs. Most people seem to just wind up with whoever is in their circle and the occasional online thing that turned out well. But defin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 04:13 PM
0

Possibly. My sex drive is very high.... if the sex is worth it. If not? Lololol fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 02:38 PM
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Lmao I don’t think that’s a big concern. I saw an sold as lady working as a dominatrix XD Men sexual fetishes are wild. There’s higher supply then demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 02:32 PM
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Only 10% of men. Dude I’m pretty even more than that are happily married. That’s a wild number. Studies show women prefer more average men as it is. Why are men pushing so hard that women want these absolute studs. Is it to deflect? I don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 02:31 PM
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Yeah but men with less interest in sex would probably getting women off even less than they already are and then everyone would be miserable 😝
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 02:28 PM
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Lmao heels show you don’t do work? Wtf. I’ve told everyone I spent the summer working in landfills. I busted my ass and I’m proud even if the pay was shit. Heels just make your ass and legs look nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 10:18 AM
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I think this is more grooming than nature. Especially in a capitalist society. But plenty of people just don’t feel the need for all that. It’s a much more personality based issue and probably has a lot to do with your circle of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 10:14 AM
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Seems about right. Men are that way with cars too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 10:13 AM
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Lmao, nice
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 05:28 PM
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Women do more of social and care taking work, not just senseless acts of kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 05:27 PM
0

And yet men beg or ask over and over for pity sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 05:20 PM
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Safety risk isn’t a requirement for charity. I mean are you honestly suggesting women would be better people for risking their safety for sex? That’s crazy, for police work or fireman work or something sure. But sex? Like that makes them less empathetic? That’s insane. Women are safer, and less likely to die from weird accidents, true, but most of us think of people were being safe for and that’s enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 05:19 PM
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I know men offer pity sex. I’ve seen plenty of guys do that with women they weren’t attracted to at all. But they felt safe and still nutted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 05:10 PM
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Dude sex with randoms comes with a lot of risks. Women are more prone to std’s, pregnancy, and that sounds dangerous as fuck. Also I’d assume most men get off during that pity sex. Regardless that’s not safe for anyone. but there is no situation in which I’d even feel safe doing that. Also, being uncomfortable or unsafe? Yeah that means a woman typically can’t get aroused. Which leads to painful sex. Being empathetic isn’t about helping strangers get off dude. If I’m showing empathy to strangers…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 05:09 PM
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Why the fuck would you give sex to random people? And no, plenty of women don’t do it as a reward for a man not cheating, just because they want him to enjoy himself and feel bad for not having and equal sex drive. You don’t need sex to not cheat. You could simply leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 04:44 PM
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This is also why women are much more prone to care taking careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 04:42 PM
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“Men have allowed women and oppressed groups” So who wasn’t allowing them before?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 04:39 PM
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Like choosing to teach, do nursing, day care and over all humanitarian job while also taking care of the emotional well being of the home?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 04:37 PM
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Aren’t they though? Like when they are already in a relationship? Straight women aren’t getting enough orgasm or enough sexual fulfillment and often do have sex just for their partners sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 04:34 PM
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But we just established they’re more likely to leave in sickness and disability.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 11:00 PM
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It’s not worth all the extra time energy and stress and lost work time at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:27 PM
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If that’s the case why would the numbers be disproportionate? All spouses receive life insurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:27 PM
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Just haven’t seen a woman ever leave a great man who was going through a struggle and that be the only reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:14 PM
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But there isn’t just magical money waiting there to collect. It’s sick care, not end of life care. Putting in that much work when you’re talking maybe a decade or more of sick or disability care? And for parents as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:14 PM
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I’ve never seen women lose interest over weakness, but usually childishness and a lack of interest in active partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 05:49 PM
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Then why do you think it happens that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 05:48 PM
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Not about showing weakness. But women’s sexuality is mental, is exhausting caring for an adult. But it’s done out of love despite romantic life dying. So despite them not getting much out of it, they’ll do it anyway. I’ve been there. Sex was the last thing on my mind but not because how I saw him changed. I was just dealing with so many facilities and paperwork. It wasn’t a priority. I’m lucky he made a full recovery and things are back to normal including sex. Man children are different though,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 04:59 PM
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Also, many illness and disability which is included is very long term. They aren’t exactly gonna easy cash out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 04:46 PM
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Women are usually already care givers and groomed to be so so it’s easier to take on that role. Women are also much more likely to care for elderly parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 04:45 PM
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That seems all the same. Any inclination towards wilder sex gone regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 04:14 PM
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Completely understandable. We seem to go through stressful phases mutually so it just never conflicts. Maybe partners with higher empathy experience this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 03:54 PM
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Same here. We have some sexual patches like where we wanna fuck a lot/daily. But then can go weeks without and it’s just whatever. We actually enjoy doing things together though so maybe the need for touch and intimacy is already satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 03:48 PM
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Sounds like she experimented, got it out her system and is fine with basic sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 03:24 PM
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Masculinity is defined differently by culture so...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 06:28 PM
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Men are actually much more likely to leave their wives if they become disabled than vise versa. Women are more likely to stay with a man who cheated than vise versa. Everyone seems to have their own odd limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 03:56 PM
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No but it’s not acting like they don’t care. See that’s an even worse turn off. I’ve never been attracted to someone who wasn’t attracted to me, ever. Not even capable of it. It’s more along the lines of someone who so fucking desperately wants a chance but have already given up as they don’t see it as a realistic goal in any way shape or form.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 01:14 PM
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I don’t think you’re getting in. A guy even trying at all because he thinks he has a chance in hell just makes me bored as shit. I’d like to hear an example of what you’re talking of because pretty much if I show interest in a guy and then he try’s to impress me I immediately lose interest. Like something about a guy thinking he has a shot? Idk, just tells me he has the wrong background for my type. I’ve got a super nerdy fucked up fat boy gamer fetish. They don’t have game.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 01:02 PM
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Because guys pursuing me has always been a turn off and now I’m married to someone I picked?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 12:56 PM
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0 to me. I’m immediately repulsed by anyone trying. I like to pursue. Absolutely kills the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 12:51 AM
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Oh he’s comfortable with lying in general? Most shit bags seem great at first but he just let you know he’s a shit bag early on, congrats. Run.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/19 10:57 AM
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Lmao honestly dude, I said fuck it grabbed someone with nothing but the personality traits that I wanted and we’ve been building up ever since. It’s been messy but I grew up poor. Items and status can always be taken away. Proper companionship is invaluable. And honestly, we’re finally hitting a steady point. It was worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 10:30 PM
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Maybe. If you’re looking for rules on how people are supposed to act it’s likely due to feeling out of control. All people are different, some act in similar patterns maybe. But everyone can react different ways, convincing yourself that there is some secret rule to how people are. It’s unhealthy. Even in the whole first contact thing I’m sure I broke every rule of how I’d show interest or what have you. There are no rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 10:13 PM
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I get that but unfortunately illness can cause physical ruin. That’s why I brought it up. I was so swollen with water when I was on the brink I death I got stretch marks in every place you can imagine and even though I run miles a week and am thin, there is shit only surgery can fix. It’s really that bad. I’d been boated with an extra 24 pounds of water. That’s not even including things other women experience like prolapse from extreme pushing which a good kegal routine cant save you from if lab…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/19 07:34 PM
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I know it doesn’t for everyone, it’s still a lot and women in America specifically need to be careful. We have a high maternal death rate and that doesn’t include permanent health changes. I wish I had known. I really wish I knew more.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/19 07:02 PM
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I said it absolutely ruins “some women’s” bodies regardless. So does mine.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/19 07:00 PM
0

I married . It’s pretty equal. Pregnancy almost killed me. We don’t have to bare the burden of pregnancy. Learned my lesson. Done breeding.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/19 06:37 PM
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You realize there are other aspects to health than weight right? Like if all the disorders and diseases that can nearly kill a woman during pregnancy and cause her to need medication for life. I wasn’t talking about getting a bit fat. That’s like the most shallow thing to worry about. I literally meant body function.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/19 06:27 PM
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Pregnancy absolutely ruins some women’s bodies. No matter how fit they are.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/19 05:57 PM
1

No problem. It’s sad most men try to wear a mask. But what we find attractive is very social as well. I hope that eventually men start and women start trying to break down their separate barriers so everyone can just breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 10:35 AM
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Honestly I prefer really passive men. My husband is particularly emotional. Some women are different, and I mean that on a biological level. It’s estimated about 10% of women have a male responsive brain. They are not trans however and very much identify as the women they are. I’ve been in therapy just during my husband sessions and his psychologist remarked that I seemed to have more “male mindset” I’m also bi and my preference is much more for women but I grew up in a very conservative culture…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 12:40 AM
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The only thing that’s effected either of our sex lives is stress and medication. And as stated before things are better for both of us now so.... 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 09:18 PM
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Agree like there are plenty of normal people in happy satisfying long term relationships out there. I swear some people like to ignore that “little fact”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 08:52 PM
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It’s hard, but marriage isn’t meant to be a cake walk. Just a long walk 😜 Seriously though, it’s how you view partnership. For me, marriage is partnership. I only did what I knew he’d have done for me. Now he’s back to work and I get to go back to college and stay with our son. Loyalty and real partnership I feel is always rewarded. Sometimes years go by, and they’re fucking hard. But in the end, just having someone who has your back no matter what? That’s priceless. I don’t even think most peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 08:33 PM
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A lot of excellent points for this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 08:25 PM
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Honestly, I really feel like men deflect to the problem with their issues being some stereotype of women being selfish and needing an alpha male or some shit because they aren’t ready to address the actual issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 08:21 PM
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Pretty much this entire idea is toxic and unhealthy. If you want a mutual partnership where you both carry each other through anything you have to open up and also not doing so can be more damaging to your health which isn’t fair to your partner anyway. I’ve pulled my husband through and helped him on his own journey of being diagnosed as bipolar and almost losing a battle to depression that landed him in a coma and in and out of mental health facilities for months. He’s been doing well for a wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 08:19 PM
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Yeah. Tbh what women actually want is often different than the stereotype the world tries to push women to want. We’ve lived in a hyper masculine male dominated world forever. Of course that’s gonna be pushed as the standard. Is it what every woman usually wants? Nope.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 10:36 AM
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A more rational view.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 12:46 AM
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That’s in comparison with previous reports of how the direction is growing. Why is choosing out of marriage a concern for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 12:29 AM
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Here’s a link with the numbers. https://www.nar.realtor/research-and-statistics/research-reports/highlights-from-the-profile-of-home-buyers-and-sellers
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 11:35 PM
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In any case.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 09:42 PM
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Actually the number show more women opting out. Like when asked by choice. Women in their 30’s are the highest growing home buyers in the market and many just are content to live alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 09:24 PM
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Lmao 🤣 at least someone here is reasonable with some humor thrown in as well 😜
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/19 05:11 PM
1

This is actually very well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 04:01 PM
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I’m having to debate going back on medication to be around my son. I’m perfectly functional away from him. But technically PPD can last years beyond what people originally knew. I actually wanted to rectify the situation by blessing a childless couple instead when my son was much younger. It would have been the right thing to do. My family lost their shit. So I’m making everyone else happy while I get a few moments of joy every time I make a good grade or bring home a paycheck.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/19 01:47 PM
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Very few options at 30 o.0?
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/19 01:44 PM
1

I posted separately on this thread first mentioning I was a questioning lurker. I guess I should have put it here but there were only 5 total responses at the time so I didn’t think to. I was also curious what the answer would be without context as well.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/19 01:43 PM
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Marriage and childrearing haven’t been full filling as a unit. I love my husband and our marriage is based on friendship. I never really want children but against my better judgement, listening to all the advice I’ve gotten from other women that feelings will change during pregnancy or when I first held him, I had a son. I got none of that. I had severe post partum depression, maybe psychosis. Labor nearly killed me and I was on meds for years to recover. School and work are the only things that…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/19 12:55 PM
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The only thing that has made my mental health trash was traditional life style. What would be your thoughts on that?
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/19 11:52 AM
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Doesn’t feminine change literally from culture to culture, it’s an abstract idea so if you don’t believe it’s a solid factual thing that’ll improve your life there really is no value to it. I’m a curious lurker here btw. I’m trying to figure out the obsession so note this is meant as non hostile.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/19 11:51 AM
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It’s social. Talk to kids who grew up poor and had to contribute young male or female. Myself and women I know wouldn’t dream of existing anywhere without making money or grasping for a job ASAP of on a was lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 11:47 AM
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That’s... literally sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 11:45 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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