Think4Yoself Archive

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2	Do you agree/disagree with this discussion that women should not fuck around till their 30's in finding a husband? Straw man. Nobody is arguing to obsess about getting married. There is a noticeable shift in mindset when a woman decides "I've had my fun, now it's time to settle down". The argument being made is instead of making that shift at 31, make it at 24. That's when a woman has the most leverage in the sexual marketplace and when she is best positioned to be the best possible long term partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/22 06:14 AM
1	Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful. You can literally sum up half your list by saying "Be attractive". be skinny, but can't have muscles and look masculine, have big boobs, have a fat ass, have long hair, not wear makeup and magically be pretty without makeup, have a hot body but magically not wear anything revealing, be hot without knowing they are hot (?), and shave daily, even in winter are all either 1) phrases that are another way to say be attractive 2) ways to become more physically attractive 3) reasons a woman may be cons…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/22 06:02 AM
1	Men are not intimidated by intelligent women, this is simply not where our priorities are Having an opinion on everything is a bad thing. If you genuinely think that you are smart enough, well read enough, and have enough personal experience to have an opinion on every single issue, at best you're obnoxious, at worst you're a narcissist. Being self-aware enough to know what you don't know, now that is the type of intelligence that is attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 07:54 PM
1	Is it hypocritical for a low n-count or virgin woman to prefer/demand a high n-count man for commitment or marriage? I don't think the entire concept of hypocrisy applies to the sexual marketplace in the way most people try to apply it. Men and women aren't the same and they don't want the same thing in a partner. If every person had to possess all the qualities they want in a partner, everybody would have to be gay. As far as relationships between men and women go I think the hypocrisy you find is that people who have standards get upset that they don't meet somebody else's standards and so shame them for hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/21 09:50 PM
6	Hundreds of protesters gathered in front of a UMass fraternity due to sexual assault allegations The whole debacle around alleged sexual assaults on campus has been such an incredible source of pessimism for me for two reasons in particular. First, in action, the entire process is outrageously sexist against both men and women. On the side of men, it's obvious. The whole apparatus relies on the assumption that men are little better than monsters who prey upon women at the slightest provocation. Obvious bullshit. On the other hand though, there's the idea that it's the responsibility of men …	/r/TheRedPill	22/09/21 01:58 AM
1	What percentage of men are either creeps or abusive? Because women do the buying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 07:04 AM
12	Is Marriage Good For Men? - Video I mentioned on the Discord Last Night. Masculinity, at it's very core, is the acceptance of responsibility, particularly for your own life. Lying to yourself prevents you from finding solutions to the problems in your life mostly because it prevents you from actually being able to identify the problems in your life. It's weak, passive, and childish. Look at the original comment. Instead of taking responsibility for his relationship which would lead to it either ending or improving, he's being passive and sleeping around on the side. …	/r/TheRedPill	09/07/21 06:30 AM
14	Is Marriage Good For Men? - Video I mentioned on the Discord Last Night. Now you're moving the goal posts. I never once said anything about lying to her, I said he shouldn't lie to himself. What he does or doesn't say to her is irrelevant. This is an anonymous internet forum and Rule #2 of this particular sub is no moralizing. Why, here of all places, did he feel the need to obfuscate that he was cheating? Because it's easier for him to do that than be honest with himself. It's weak as fuck.	/r/TheRedPill	09/07/21 05:35 AM
9	Is Marriage Good For Men? - Video I mentioned on the Discord Last Night. He should own it because you gain absolutely nothing ever by lying to yourself.	/r/TheRedPill	09/07/21 05:10 AM
25	Is Marriage Good For Men? - Video I mentioned on the Discord Last Night. An LTR that is open without one party's knowledge is just called cheating. I'm not judging you for cheating, I am judging you for trying to dance around it like a bitch. Own it.	/r/TheRedPill	09/07/21 04:21 AM
1	Best mental health books for men The Obstacle is the Way by Ryan Holiday	/r/askTRP	24/04/21 09:37 PM
3	Men or women are not "privileged". There are just some advantages/disadvantages of being man/woman and they just envy each others advantages while overlooking the disadvantages. Same, I attended a "Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion" seminar for staff at a flagship university and it sort of hit me in the middle of the presentation and I commented to the presenter that I agreed that discrimination is the opposite of privilege but why does one require the other. Apparently that was evidence that my lifelong privilege has created a sense of entitlement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/21 01:11 AM
2	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? You're presenting victim blaming as a barrier to getting help as if it is only a barrier to men No, he isn't. You're just interpreting his comment that way because it conveniently fits the narrative that you're actually the bigger victim here. Instead of acknowledging that was he said was absolutely correct, you've turned it into a competition where the one who claims the greatest victimhood status wins. You should really consider why you're so determined to argue with somebody who hasn't actu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/21 02:27 AM
4	Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? If you gave a shit about the boys, the girls would have never been kidnapped in the first place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/21 02:17 AM
1	Men who don’t value friendships with women also don’t value relationships. They just want sex. Do you have a source for that 40% claim?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/21 01:21 AM
2	What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single? Because that’s what happens when you see someone as the other and separate from you — it is easier to dehumanize them, especially if you want something from them That's absurd. By that "logic" the WNBA dehumanizes men since it deliberately excludes them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/21 05:24 AM
2	What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single? There are few if any that exist today because women have invaded all of those spaces. The Boy Scouts, The Elks, and Kiwanis are examples of organizations that filled that role in the past. I answered your question, your turn. For the third time, why do you present this argument as if we absolutely must exist on one extreme or the other? Why are you outright stating that our only two options are no male only spaces or spaces where all men inevitably act in the most monstrous way imaginable?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/21 04:02 AM
2	What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single? That would depend on the fraternity. A middle ground would provide the benefits previously that came from those spaces, specifically support systems and social capital, without devolving into the worst case scenario that you immediately jumped to and pretended is the desired and inevitable outcome (that fallacy is called the false dilemma, if you were wondering).	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/21 02:27 AM
2	What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single? Nice deflection. Again, why do we have to operate on one extreme or the other?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/21 01:55 AM
3	What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single? Why does it have to be one extreme or the other?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/21 01:32 AM
1	What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single? One of the most overlooked negative side effects of feminism has been the complete demolition of male only spaces. Those spaces were and are terribly important for men to create a support systems and develop social capital.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 11:25 PM
1	What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single? So you’d agree that nobody holds the moral high ground when it comes to conquester on conquerter violence? Because the argument I’m making is that no reasonable person can claim the Americans killing 25,000 people and conquering territory in a war is somehow morally outrageous while taking the side of the Mexicans who killed millions of people in a genocide to conquer the country originally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 07:04 PM
1	What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single? I don’t understand the relevance of the point? The comment I was replying to stated that the “(the Mexicans) don’t kill you in the process” as if the Mexicans aren’t overwhelmingly descendants of the Spanish who committed a terrible genocide against the native populations of Mexico. They don’t have the moral high ground here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 06:34 PM
1	What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single? About 1/5 of the population of Mexico claims indigenous descent. But it gets sort of murky when you consider mixed heritages because we aren’t very good at figuring out where to draw the line on this sort of thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 05:05 PM
1	What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single? Except I never said otherwise. I’m not the one expressing moral outrage here. You are. And the Mexicans did the exact same things you have expressed such righteous indignation over the Americans doing. It’s silly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 04:55 PM
2	What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single? You took the land from the Mexicans, the Mexicans are taking it back from you. What goes around come around. And the Mexicans are nicer, they don't kill you in the process... Are we really going to pretend like the Mexicans didn't kill off millions of indigenous people? Get the fuck outta here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 09:23 AM
11	Why do Red Pillers demonize and make fun of independent, careerist women and "Free spirits"? Aren't these women compatible with their vision of anti-marriage, pro-casual sex, pro-hedonism life? Red Pill knows about the game and plays it. MGTOW knows about the game and doesn't play it. Tradcon knows about the game and wants to change the rules back to the original version.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/21 06:53 PM
2	Some men view being attracted to women's bodies as "violent" and equal to male violence against women Every time that a woman flirts with a guy at a bar that’s she’s not interested in so he will buy her drinks, she’s using her sexual power. Every time a girl goes on a date with a guy she’s not interested in to get a free meal, she’s using her sexual power over him. Every time a wife uses choreplay to imply she would have sex more often if her husband did the laundry more she’s using her sexual power over him. Pamela Anderson married a guy so he would pay off hundreds of thousands of dollars of h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/21 05:51 PM
2	Some men view being attracted to women's bodies as "violent" and equal to male violence against women The quote you responded to was Women can freely use their sexual power over men, and some do abuse it for their own gain You responded with No they can't. If women harass men or use a position of authority to prey on a man, they are doing something immoral and should be called out and punished. You literally just said women can't use their sexual power over men. That is completely and obviously a lie. If you can't even acknowledge such a basic, simple, obvious truth, then why are you even postin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/21 02:46 AM
2	Some men view being attracted to women's bodies as "violent" and equal to male violence against women Are you really trying to argue that women don't have sexual power over men? That's absurd.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/21 02:19 AM
6	Women aren’t accountable because men don’t care Isn't it obvious? Her.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/03/21 06:22 AM
0	Q4W - how WOULD you structure society so that men and women and the future generations would EQUALLY be able to flourish into the future? Because it was relevant to a question asked about giving women the right to vote in regards to the topic of structures within a society. Why are you determined to argue with me? Why do you project malice to all my statements? (To be clear, those are rhetorical questions and I don't give a shit about your answers, their purpose was to encourage a little self-reflection)	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/21 10:18 PM
1	Q4W - how WOULD you structure society so that men and women and the future generations would EQUALLY be able to flourish into the future? That women were given the right to vote without the responsibilities required of men to receive the same right. I’ve offered no commentary or opinion, I’ve only stated that simple, irrefutable fact. You’re just so desperate to argue with somebody that you have to attribute all kinds of hidden motives to simple statements. It’s certainly not a productive way to approach the world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/21 09:35 PM
1	Q4W - how WOULD you structure society so that men and women and the future generations would EQUALLY be able to flourish into the future? That is not true. You've assumed that because it's convenient for your argument, but I've never stated and don't believe that registering for the selective service should be a prerequisite for voting rights. I've simply stated that currently and for the last 100+ years, it has been a requirement of men and not of women. Men are required to accept further responsibility in exchange for the right to vote and women are not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/21 09:05 PM
0	Q4W - how WOULD you structure society so that men and women and the future generations would EQUALLY be able to flourish into the future? Again, irrelevant. Men have to offer something in return for the right to vote, women don't. Full stop. Why that dichotomy exists is not relevant, that it exists is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/21 08:30 PM
1	Q4W - how WOULD you structure society so that men and women and the future generations would EQUALLY be able to flourish into the future? No I don't and I've never suggested anything like that at all. Straw man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/21 08:28 PM
0	Q4W - how WOULD you structure society so that men and women and the future generations would EQUALLY be able to flourish into the future? That’s irrelevant. You can try to justify it however you would like but doesn’t change the fact that men were required to fight and die for their country when called upon in exchange for the right to vote. Women were not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/21 07:42 PM
1	Q4W - how WOULD you structure society so that men and women and the future generations would EQUALLY be able to flourish into the future? I think roughly 15 million American men have been drafted in the years since women were given the vote and not one single woman has. That’s not only relevant, it’s clear cut evidence that women received rights without the corresponding responsibilities required of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/21 07:21 PM
0	Q4W - how WOULD you structure society so that men and women and the future generations would EQUALLY be able to flourish into the future? In the case of the right to vote, the requirement to register for the draft.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/21 07:00 PM
5	[Q4All] Do women in general actually enjoy being smaller and weaker than men? It's because small, in this context, is synonymous with secure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/21 08:10 PM
1	Q4W - how WOULD you structure society so that men and women and the future generations would EQUALLY be able to flourish into the future? A UBI doesn’t force any outcomes whatsoever. It just creates a starting point other than zero. You’re being so deliberately obtuse that I’m embarrassed for you. I’ve also never used Vice as a source for anything, but I’m not surprised to see you once again try to change the topic of debate because you can’t provide any evidence whatsoever to defend your claim. This would have all been way easier if you just admitted that you made up your original statement and no actual evidence exists to suppor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/21 07:48 PM
1	Q4W - how WOULD you structure society so that men and women and the future generations would EQUALLY be able to flourish into the future? Because socialism can pretend to be about whatever it wants, but it's actually about power. It's about forcing outcomes onto people whether they want them or not. The only people found to work less hours under a UBI were students and mothers to young children. In both cases, an argument can be made that time invested into education and parenting leads to greater production in the long term. That's a great theory, but it doesn't stand up to scrutiny. A UBI does not provide a disincentive towards …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/21 11:00 AM
2	Q4W - how WOULD you structure society so that men and women and the future generations would EQUALLY be able to flourish into the future? No they are not. The Soviets paid a wage based on the completion of an assigned quota of work. If you didn't work, not only did you not get paid, but you got charged with being a parasite and thrown in prison. If you have to work to receive it, it's a wage, not a UBI. It doesn't matter if the government or a private company pays it. It doesn't matter if you live in a socialist or capitalist country. Payment in exchange for labor is a wage. It is not a UBI, because a UBI is provided to all citize…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/21 03:59 AM
2	Q4W - how WOULD you structure society so that men and women and the future generations would EQUALLY be able to flourish into the future? I don't think you're stupid, but I do think you're deliberately being dishonest about what a UBI is because you have a goal of winning the argument instead of a goal of telling the the truth. The fundamental component of socialism is social or governmental ownership of the means of production. Full stop. Nothing more and nothing less. To apply anything else to that is dishonest. A UBI is not included in socialism in any way, shape, or form. You just listed a bunch of socialist countries. That's …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/21 01:18 AM
3	Q4W - how WOULD you structure society so that men and women and the future generations would EQUALLY be able to flourish into the future? That's not even close to reality. UBI is a social security program, it's not socialism. Even if it was, that's not what I asked you for. Instead of broad, false generalizations, I'm asking specifically for evidence to support your claim that a UBI (not socialism, but a specific basic income program) has resulted in worsening economic positions. Give me a country and a UBI program that has had the affects you've claimed. Just one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 11:30 PM
1	Q4W - how WOULD you structure society so that men and women and the future generations would EQUALLY be able to flourish into the future? You claimed that a UBI has resulted in worsening economic conditions everywhere that has tried it. I'm not asking about socialism or economic theory, I'm asking specifically about a UBI. Can you support that claim with any evidence at all?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 10:34 PM
2	Q4W - how WOULD you structure society so that men and women and the future generations would EQUALLY be able to flourish into the future? So no?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 09:51 PM
1	Q4W - how WOULD you structure society so that men and women and the future generations would EQUALLY be able to flourish into the future? Do you have a source for your first sentence? Because I've never seen anything suggesting that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 08:40 PM
1	Q4W - how WOULD you structure society so that men and women and the future generations would EQUALLY be able to flourish into the future? I think it set a dangerous precedent for giving women rights without the attached responsibilities that were and still are required of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 08:36 PM
3	How to choose a wife according to the Red Pill? TRP doesn't present itself as a holistic anything. It presents itself as uncomfortable truths in a world full of lies. And regarding marriage, TRP would suggest that at this specific moment in time, marriage is a poor decision for men because the risk is not worth the reward. That hasn't always been the case and does not have to always be the case, but so long as it remains the case, men shouldn't consider marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 07:42 PM
1	What is the best piece of advice from RPW? The point is that your partner deserves your best, or at least better than strangers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/21 11:03 PM
1	What is the best piece of advice from RPW? I think three things: 1) That guy had a point, even though he handled things poorly. 2) The woman in question was blowing things out of proportion because she wanted the internet to simp for her. 3) Your comment adds absolutely no value and I'm confused why you felt it necessary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/21 08:20 PM
17	What is the best piece of advice from RPW? I think it's the context that matters. I remember a post on relationship_advice last year where a young woman posted about how her live in boyfriend was pissed at her for dressing up when the landlord and the maintenance guy came by. Obviously, that's ridiculous.....until you consider that she has been working from home and hadn't bothered throwing on anything other than sweatpants and t-shirts for six months. He gets her in sweats and the landlord gets her to make an effort to look good. I thin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/21 09:03 AM
1	"The Wall" did exist for previous generations' women,but it's much less hard for modern ones None of that has anything at all to do with the entire concept of the Wall. It has nothing to do with women living a life of relative comfort outside of marriage. This is like having a conversation about racism and you keep bringing up the weather and pretending that they have something to do with the other. The Wall is a concept that deals exclusively with the sexual and relationship marketplace. The entire debate is within the frame of relationships, not socio-economic status or anything else.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/21 07:17 PM
1	"The Wall" did exist for previous generations' women,but it's much less hard for modern ones You're deliberately misinterpreting what is meant by "the Wall" in an effort to make it seem not important. Specifically you are pointing to women's economic status as if it is important to her value in the sexual marketplace. It has very little impact on that. Your entire premise is based on a faulty assumption.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/21 12:08 AM
2	Some of the men who complain about dating on here sound like SJWs There are clear distinctions between economic identity politics and social identity politics, but they are both identity politics. If you aren't smart enough to defend your position, why do you have one? It's far better to say that you don't know than to express a position that you can't support and don't understand. People do change economic class all the time, that's an irrefutable fact. In 1990, more than 1/3 of the people on earth lived in extreme poverty. In 2015, that number fell below 10%…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/21 07:08 PM
3	Some of the men who complain about dating on here sound like SJWs It’s arbitrary because it’s based on your personal whim instead of an objective standard. Religion is a basis of identity politics but it’s not immutable, people convert to different religions or become non-believers all the time. Economic class is the same way. People gain and lose wealth all the time. Bernie ran two very popular presidential campaigns railing against the millionaires and billionaires the same way feminists rail again male privilege. It’s identity politics. I never said you’re …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/21 09:14 AM
4	Some of the men who complain about dating on here sound like SJWs It has nothing to do with immutable or not. You've just arbitrarily decided to draw a line there because you want to engage in identity politics while simultaneously demonizing people who engage in identity politics. Economic class and religion are two examples of areas where people play identity politics using non-biological, non-immutable characteristics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/21 04:59 AM
-1	Some of the men who complain about dating on here sound like SJWs I would argue that "pro-worker" is just a different form of identity politics. It's still dividing people into groups and pitting them against each other under the guise of good vs evil, victim vs oppressor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/21 04:19 AM
7	Why are so many young men falling behind on the dating market (and just life in general)? The path was never easy. You just believe it used to be because that’s the narrative that’s consistently parroted by people who have an agenda to downplay male achievement and promote female achievement. It has no basis in reality. Women drive well over half of the spending in the west, so the narrative in place caters to them. The idea that people at any point on history had “an easy path” is delusional. “Abuse a woman into marriage”. What an absolute dogshit take.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/21 05:36 AM
13	Why are so many young men falling behind on the dating market (and just life in general)? They weren't "handed everything" at any point ever in the history of the world. That's complete garbage, but it's a really good example of why they quit now. It used to be that men accomplished something and it was appreciated. Now when men accomplish something, society tells them to remember they only accomplished it because the patriarchy cleared the road for them and their male privilege delivered them straight to the finish line. Their hard work, effort, and commitment was nowhere near as im…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/21 04:31 AM
10	Q4All: "We treat women and girls like training wheels to help boys and men grow up, and not as individuals with our own desires" Just how true is that statement? It's not "ability to attract" it's "ability to win the approval of". There's a very big difference. It's something like 1/3 of boys in the United States are raised by a single mother and have no male teachers before middle school. They're trained to seek the approval of women who are the only people in positions of authority and responsibility in their life. It defines their childhood. It's the only thing they've ever been taught so it's naturally the default approach to life for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/21 09:00 PM
5	Women need Men Literally they do. Who's going to pick up her trash? A man. Who's going to maintain the power lines to her home? A man. Who's going to produce her food? A man. Society requires men to survive. That's an irrefutable fact. That's the entire point of the post. You can't possibly be this dense.	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/21 09:29 PM
4	Women need Men I see what's happening here. You're trying to reframe the original post instead of discussing it in good faith. The post is about how collectively women need men much more than the reverse. You're changing the terms of the discussion to be about how and individual woman don't need an individual man, as in she can survive without a husband because of the society that exists around her. You're also using terms literally and instinctually entirely incorrectly and that's adding to the confusion. If …	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/21 08:35 PM
13	Women need Men You're on TRP parroting the talking points of Strong, Independent Women (TM) as if they have merit. I'm not mad, I'm amused.	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/21 08:07 PM
41	Women need Men You're incorrect. They do need men in a literal sense. Just because the "strong, independent" HR representative things she's more valuable to society than the truck driver or the trash collector doesn't make it so. Without men there would be nobody building and maintaining roads, bridges, tunnels, schools, or hospitals. There would be no plumbers or people maintaining water and sewer lines. There would be no electricians or people maintaining power plants, power lines, or cable lines. There woul…	/r/TheRedPill	20/02/21 07:53 PM
1	Women have a starry-eyed view of "careers" and are less likely to take on a breadwinner mindset You have two options in front of you: Option 1: You trade 30% of your waking hours for money for at least forty years. Option 2: You trade 0% of your waking hours for money for the duration of your life. If you think the first person is more free, I can’t help you. That’s simply not reality. The employee is infinitely more oppressed than the housewife and women chose that oppression with glee.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/21 08:10 AM
1	Women have a starry-eyed view of "careers" and are less likely to take on a breadwinner mindset Nobody wants to work, period. That’s the point. Women acted like work was somehow liberating. It isn’t. Effect on society? Women raised the next generation, that’s literally the most important role in a society. Good luck convincing anybody that spending 40 hours in a cubicle filing paperwork as an HR representative has a greater effect on society than raising your kids properly. As far as wages, sure after doubling the work force and stagnating wages for sixty years you can’t raise a family on …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/21 07:29 AM
4	Men don't care about a woman's education, career, or money. The salesman doesn't get to decide what the buyer wants. If you want a good man you should be willing to provide what that man's looking for. Why is it that people are this sub are absolutely incapable of honestly interpreting the comment they are replying too? He is very clearly not saying that it's in women's best interest to be a cashier at McDonald's. What he is saying, is that having a degree is not, in and of itself, beneficial to your dating market. It may be beneficial to your in other ways, he never stated anything that disagreed with that, but it's not something that most men care about when it comes to looking for a wife. B…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/21 01:52 AM
2	Women have a starry-eyed view of "careers" and are less likely to take on a breadwinner mindset I’ve never understood how women could view second wave feminism as a win. The most valuable thing in the world is your time. Women got to invest it in their children and their communities and when their children were able to be largely self-sufficient they could spend that time however they wanted. My grandfather traded 100,000 hours of his life for money working a manual labor job, outdoors, on the railroad in central Pennsylvania. My grandmother traded zero hours of her life for money. They ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/21 05:16 PM
1	How to surrender if I'm better than he is at (some) things? Die on your hill, I guess. If this is the biggest obstacle facing your relationship, you're very, very lucky.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/21 04:26 AM
1	How to surrender if I'm better than he is at (some) things? Except he doesn't. She listed three things that she is apparently better at. She never mentions the music in specifics. With tech stuff he doesn't take it out on her, he just doesn't ask for her help. For running, he is sometimes passive aggressive. You have decided based on that one thing that he's a bad person. That's ridiculous. Yes, it would be better if he was perfect, but if this is the worst thing wrong with her relationship she should thank whatever God she prays too.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/21 04:06 AM
2	How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness? LOL, more personal attacks from the person with nothing of substance to add. Whoever saw that plot twist coming!?!?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/21 04:00 AM
1	How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness? See this is the problem. The original comment that started all this was a guy making a true statement, but it was short and unspecific. You and another person have taken that lack of specificity and used it to attack his position. Since he didn't lay out very specifically what he meant regarding every aspect of the OP's claim you guys decided to project a pretty disgusting opinion on to him. I, on the other hand, responded with a very thorough comment covering a lot of bases and answering quite …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/21 03:37 AM
3	How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness? Yes. I’m of the opinion that being lonely is not in any way shape or form similar to being the victim of a felony. How appalling of me. Imagine my utter shock that you’re now relying on personal attacks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/21 01:12 AM
6	How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness? What's happening here is the position that you are supporting is losing badly, so you're trying to change the terms of the debate. What "most people" said is irrelevant. I didn't read all of the comments. I don't care what all of the comments say. I responded to this particular comment because the OP was being incredibly dishonest. I don't care what the thread OP posted said. That is also irrelevant to this discussion. If you actually read my comments, I have never expressed an opinion on how pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/21 12:09 AM
7	How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness? Why are women who end up single owed sympathy? Answer: They aren't. Where did he ever express support for people mocking people who have self-harm fantasies? Answer: He didn't. You are reading into his post whatever you need to read into it to maintain the illusion that he's a monster and you hold the moral high ground. Unfortunately for you, this does not reflect reality in the slightest. Imagine comparing being a single woman to being the victim of a crime. Just stop while you're miles fucking…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/21 11:04 PM
8	How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness? He said "I have no sympathy for an average woman that ends up single and alone." That is nowhere near the same thing as mocking people for self-harm fantasies. You are not approaching this in good faith and you are being terribly dishonest. The proper thing to do here is to admit you are in the wrong and you are deliberately misinterpreting what another person said in the most heinous way possible, instead I'm sure you are going to try to draw an even smaller box around this to somehow justify y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/21 10:11 PM
10	How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness? This is textbook false dilemma. If you don't condemn their behavior, it means you don't condemn their behavior and that's the only thing it means. Anything else is you projecting positions, opinions, and motives onto other people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/21 09:15 PM
20	How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness? Yeah, the guy said "I have no sympathy for an average woman that ends up single and alone. She had her chance, she wasted it." And somehow the OP read, "It's perfectly fine to mock women when they express self harm fantasies." It's not even remotely close to the same thing. It's completely disingenuous and dishonest. It's really indicative of a society wide problem. Winning the argument, even if it requires you to be intellectually, morally, and ethically bankrupt, is more important than solving…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/21 08:03 PM
22	How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness? Okay, Cathy Newman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/21 06:31 PM
1	How to surrender if I'm better than he is at (some) things? You do realize that it's possible to be both right? Out of the whole list of things that exist, she lists three that he's mildly insecure about. And somehow that makes him not a good person in your eyes? That's such a terrible approach to life.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/02/21 09:21 PM
7	CMV: People nowadays are unhappy in their marriages because they have unrealistic expectations. Thank you. People measuring the success of a marriage based on the feelings of its participants is silly. Marriage wasn't created as a tool for people to find happiness, it was created as a way to ensure social stability. Women were provided for and protected, and men were guaranteed paternity (at least in theory) and provided a reason to contribute to a collective society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/21 03:48 AM
2	It's cognitive dissonance for TRP men to be Pro Life while wanting to engage in casual sex with as many as women as possible I don't think most or even many TRP men are anti-abortion as much as they are eager to point out how an ideology like feminism that professes to promote equality isn't interested in acknowledging or taking any steps towards rectifying the severe imbalance that exists between the gender with regards to reproductive rights. It's about pointing out hypocrisy and injustice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/21 11:43 PM
3	Help. Am i hitting the wall? If you didn't want answers, why did you ask a question?	/r/askTRP	13/02/21 07:36 AM
1	Men and women are more similar than RP people often think, and more different than BP people often think. And I gave you the benefit of the doubt the first time, but then you did it again and I that point I just have to assume you don't really know what you're talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/21 02:31 AM
1	Men and women are more similar than RP people often think, and more different than BP people often think. Except nobody has ever said women are the gatekeepers of relationships. You've got it backward.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/21 02:15 AM
1	Men and women are more similar than RP people often think, and more different than BP people often think. See, that's the point. Instead of acknowledging the actual intent behind the saying, you've decided the reinterpret it in a way that is clearly different from the intent and then claim the whole statement is wrong. It's a terribly dishonest way to discuss anything. What was your point exactly? Basically what you're doing is the equivalent of saying men can't be sexist because men and women are so much more alike than different. It's petty, pointless, and intellectually dishonest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/21 01:52 AM
1	Men and women are more similar than RP people often think, and more different than BP people often think. You're ignoring the nuance because it's inconvenient for your position. It's sort of like how men are more disagreeable than women on the average and on the extremes, but if you took a random man and a random woman out of the population there would be a 40% chance that the woman is more disagreeable. There are commonalities and there is significant overlap between the genders, but the differences are still there and still noticeable. It's not men who put pressure on their partners to get married…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/21 01:35 AM
3	Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)? And the crazy part is that you absolutely do get paid for raising your children, it's just not immediate. If you do a good job at it and you're children grow up to be competent and successful, they take care of you in your old age. That's the deal. You invest in them in their youth, they provide for you in your old age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/21 10:46 PM
2	Men and women are more similar than RP people often think, and more different than BP people often think. Men are perfectly willing to fuck women they would never dream of marrying and women are perfectly willing to marry men they are absolutely not interested in fucking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/21 10:35 PM
2	Men and women are more similar than RP people often think, and more different than BP people often think. I disagree with both of the areas where you critique what you believe to be redpill ideas. First, both men and women aren't hypergamous. Hypergamy is marrying up the social hierarchy. Men are not hypergamous, they are perfectly willing to marry down. Women are not. Men and women are both capable of branch-swinging, which is what you are describing and is entirely different than hypergamy. What you're doing is the equivalent of a man getting punched in the mouth by another man, and the one who go…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/21 10:11 PM
2	Hold up...isnt EVERYONE Hypergamous? No, I'm not. You're the one who is only viewing this through an economic lens. It's a social status lens. There is a difference. Teresa Heinz married a US Senator. Chelsea Clinton married the son of two members of Congress. Ivanka Trump married the son of a wealthy real estate investor. Kamala Harris married a partner at the third largest law firm in the United States. Beyonce married Jay-Z. They were all women of high status who married men of high status because women don't marry men beneath t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/21 08:21 AM
1	Hold up...isnt EVERYONE Hypergamous? Repeat after me. That. Is. Not. Hyper. Gamy. If Teresa Heinz married the manager of the local Staples, that would be the man being hypergamous, and the woman marrying a man beneath her in the social hierarchy. Marrying a US Senator is not marrying down for any woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/21 07:54 AM
1	Hold up...isnt EVERYONE Hypergamous? That's not an example of hypergamy. John Kerry was a United States Senator at the time. He didn't have her wealth, but his position on the social hierarchy was at least as high as hers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/21 07:48 AM
21	Hold up...isnt EVERYONE Hypergamous? Hypergamy means marrying up the social hierarchy. People confuse status within the social hierarchy with status within the sexual marketplace. They are not the same thing. In the case of men, their status in the social hierarchy plays an important role in determining their SMV, but the same is not true of women. A woman's SMV is not very related to her position in the social hierarchy. In fact, most of the women with the highest positions within the social hierarchy in the United States are ther…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/21 05:31 AM
6	Hold up...isnt EVERYONE Hypergamous? Then why did you say your personal definition of hypergamy means that men are less picky and will fuck most women if given the chance if you know that isn't what hypergamy means.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/21 05:15 AM
24	Hold up...isnt EVERYONE Hypergamous? Hypergamy does have a set definition. That's how words work. People just ignore it when it's convenient for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/21 05:08 AM
9	As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same. Why do you assume that I'm suffering? Why do you assume that I've had negative experiences to shape my views? Literally the only thing I said was that society hardly values men at all. Instead of providing any evidence to refute my position, you just ignored it and implied that somebody must have hurt me and I must hate women. What you're doing in actuality is proving my point. You were condescending and passive aggressive because I'm a man and therefore my opinion isn't valued (unless I happen …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/21 11:53 PM
7	As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same. I would argue the opposite is the case. Men are hardly being valued at all anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/21 09:52 PM
3	As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same. Somehow you managed to both be wrong. 35% of men are obese, 40% of women are obese. Women are more likely to be obese, in neither case are more than half of the population obese.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/21 09:05 PM
16	As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same. The fact that men are socially/culturally/romantically valued not for who we are, what we do, or how we look, but based on what we provide is deeply and alarmingly dehumanizing. No?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/21 09:01 PM
3	Why is it a problem if only ~70% of young men have sex? No the issue is the lack of male utility. If this were 3% of men, I'd agree with you in part that it wouldn't be an important matter, but it's a full third of men. The overwhelming majority of these men don't take it out on others in violent or terrible ways. That's you stereotyping because of your own irrational and indefensible feelings towards half of the population of the world. The actual problem here is that civilization requires men. They are immeasurably more valuable to the functioning …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/21 03:53 AM
4	Why is it a problem if only ~70% of young men have sex? It's extremely telling that you immediately jump to the tactics of shaming, emasculation, and straw man arguments. Are you capable of having an actual conversation? Nobody has said that we need to drop everything and cater to these men, what we've said is that this is a genuine issue with real societal wide implications. That you can't even acknowledge that much is absurd.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/21 08:45 PM
6	Why is it a problem if only ~70% of young men have sex? No, it is a real issue, it just doesn't directly affect you, so you don't give a shit about it, peak female solipsism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/21 08:15 PM
3	What should women take from TRP? I think the biggest thing women should take from TRP is that men are unhappy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/21 03:22 AM
3	Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice? I can’t speak for womenkind as a whole, but I am genuinely attracted to those traits. Yeah, if I had a dollar for every time I heard that I could hire Jeff Bezos to be my personal butler. All the other women were lying about it, but I can tell that you're definitely telling the truth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/21 02:20 AM
0	CMV: A man being obsessed with "virgins" is as creepy to women as he believes not being a "virgin female" is degenerate in the eyes of men Women write out whole ass lists of things in their dating profiles for the minimum acceptable standard in their eyes (must be 6 feet tall, must have a good job, must be college educated, must accept that my kids come first, must treat me like a princess, etc.) but as soon as a man expresses one preference, all of the sudden that's just positively unacceptable and dehumanizing. The hypocrisy is astounding.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 04:18 AM
1	Is men's value at an all time low because of the population of the world? It's not that women never found the majority of men attractive, it's that they never encountered near the number of men that they do in today's age because of online dating options. It keeps the hypergamous hamster running constantly and it gives women the illusion of a choice that they don't actually have. Women and men both make the mistake of believing that the opposite sex thinks like them. Women would never give the time of day to a man objectively beneath them in the social hierarchy, so t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 02:12 AM
1	Taking biological sexual attraction to its natural end, will a certain percentage of men always be inherently undesirable? Two things to consider. The Duc de Lauzun was a terribly ugly man but was able to seduce arguably the most eligible bachelorette on the face of the earth. Robert Pattinson had a stalker who would wait outside his residence for him. One day he walked up to her and casually asked her out on a date. He spent the entire date bitching about his life and how miserable he was. He never heard from her again. Women's attraction is different than men's in that they are attracted to strength, confidence, a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/21 01:38 AM
1	N-Count Megathread Imagine this hypothetical scenario: You put two identical women in front of men with one exception, one has an n count of 5 and the other has an n count of 105 and ask men which they would prefer to be in a committed relationship with. Men will overwhelmingly choose the lower n count. Men seek out relationships to guarantee a source of intimacy. If women have given that intimacy to tons of other men, it's not worth as much to the man getting it exclusively.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 10:47 PM
3	N-Count Megathread You ask for an example, I give an example, you decide that example isn't good enough. Imagine my utter shock. Sheryl Sandberg is the COO of Facebook, on the Board of Directors of Disney, and wrote one of the most well known feminists books of the last decade. But yeah, she couldn't possibly count as source within a well known media body.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 10:40 PM
-1	N-Count Megathread Because that’s how male and female sexual strategies work. There’s millions of years of evolutionary biology behind it. Then you’re the exception that proves the rule (or more likely you’re lying in hopes of getting scraps of female attention from the sluts).	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 11:01 AM
2	N-Count Megathread Because it’s always better to pay for a worse version of what other people have gotten for free. Don’t you know anything?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 10:37 AM
0	N-Count Megathread You’re right. The problem is that a woman’s perspective isn’t the only perspective and Sheryl Sandberg and you are pretending like it is. In this case it isn’t even the most important perspective. Men are the gatekeepers to relationships. They always have been. What they want in a partner is important. And they want lower n counts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 10:36 AM
4	N-Count Megathread “When looking for a life partner, my advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner." That's Sheryl Sandberg, one of the most powerful women on the face of the earth. Her advice to younger women is literally to waste the best years of their life dating shitty men bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/21 07:23 AM
2	Why do MRAs ignore that a big number of divorced men don't even want primary custody of their kids? I agree with you, but that isn't even my main point. My job isn't a sacrifice. I spend at least half my time at a desk and 99% of my time in the air conditioning. The "absent" fathers I was referring to were working life threatening, back breaking, manual labor jobs. They were, in a very literal sense, trading their time and their body for their family's wellbeing. For somebody to sit their pampered ass in the air conditioning on their laptop and talk shit about those men, to find those men lack…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/21 12:51 AM
6	Why do MRAs ignore that a big number of divorced men don't even want primary custody of their kids? If you call trading ~100,000 hours of your life for money so that you can put food in your children's bellies and a roof over their heads "being absent" then you're absolutely full of shit. It was an incredible sacrifice that men made for their families without complaint and to use that sacrifice as an excuse to punish modern men is appalling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/21 12:04 AM
0	Is this BAD gift giving? I wish I could upvote like four or five times. I'm glad that posts like this come up every now and then on this sub because it's a helpful reminder that "redpillwoman" or not, AWALT. You're the lone exception to that in this thread. The boyfriend is being petty and passive aggressive because he doesn't feel appreciated. The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference. You know like buying a toothbrush for yourself and getting the same one for your boyfriend but his is supposed to be signifyin…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/12/20 05:03 AM
8	The End of Democracy Part 2: The Next Great War An interesting post, but I think you are glossing over two important factors in a war between the US and China. First, the Chinese will inevitably have a morale advantage because of their state controlled media. Perhaps the American media will rise to the occasion, but they aren't exactly a shining beacon of competence. Second, production ability will be heavily skewed towards the Chinese. Americans don't make anything anymore and those skills eroding society wide will have consequences when it …	/r/TheRedPill	14/12/20 08:46 PM
8	Conservative Men in the U.S. - Time to Start Planning an Exit Strategy? The first half of your post is you crying about how you're such a victim and the second half is you seeking advice on running away from your problems. My advice is face your problems head on a solve them.	/r/TheRedPill	13/12/20 04:35 AM
5	Should i leave my GF? She is bellow average and fat I'm pretty sure having a fat girlfriend isn't ruining your SMV, you're doing that yourself. You let your friends decide what is and isn't good enough for you and you asked this question because if dumping her backfires you want somebody to blame instead of owning the decision.	/r/askTRP	10/12/20 09:07 PM
2	Does your parents' relationship influences your outlook towards your partner? How do you know it was a criticism? You don't know what he said or how he worded it or how he intended it. You just know how she interpreted it and my point is that she is pretty clearly interpreting everything as an attack and that's not useful because if you assume everything is attack then you also assume everything is malicious and that's simply not realistic. If her vagina is a different color one day from the previous day it's perfectly reasonable for him to be noticing that and asking out…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/12/20 08:46 PM
6	Does your parents' relationship influences your outlook towards your partner? I noticed that bit about the pimple too and it made me pause for a second. She seems hyper defensive and I think it's likely an overcorrection by her because she's desperate to avoid the situation her mother is in. People never consider defensiveness as a tactic all the way to the end. If you think about it in terms of war or conflict, defensiveness only wins by bleeding the other side so badly that they voluntarily quit. If you want to maintain a relationship, avoid defensiveness at all costs. …	/r/RedPillWomen	09/12/20 07:19 PM
34	Should LVW pursue LVM or just be spinsters? This logical fallacy is called the false dilemma. Choose the third option, become a high value woman.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/12/20 07:29 PM
2	The "Think as you like but behave like others" Fallacy You're operating under the assumption that there's something virtuous about the fight. You're wrong. The whole point of the law is to say that you can't win with unconventional ideas using conventional tactics. Blend in. Build strength in your position. Fight battles on your own terms. Win.	/r/TheRedPill	04/12/20 10:00 PM
1	Dealing with negative men? You're thinking is fucked up and it's creating a self-fulfilling prophecy for you. Your mindset is that men are little better than beasts who can't control their impulses and their impulses make them treat attractive women kindly and unattractive women monstrously. That's absurd. Men have positive interactions with women they aren't attracted to all the time. You have decided that you're unattractive. You have also decided that men treat unattractive women poorly. Therefore, you've decided that …	/r/RedPillWomen	01/12/20 12:17 AM
2	Dealing with negative men? You are almost certainly wrong. You know how incels blame all the women in the world for being terrible and that's why they aren't in a relationship? That's what you're doing. If your position requires 3.5 billion people to be terrible at an instinctual level, your position is simply not based in reality. What's more than likely the case here is that you project terrible motives on to all the men you meet, assume the absolute worst of them, and attribute malice to every action they take. Because…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/11/20 11:28 PM
6	Dealing with negative men? If you meet an asshole in the morning, you met an asshole. If you meet assholes all day, you're the asshole.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/11/20 10:59 PM
2	Has anybody else noticed that when you are looking for a partner, you don't find him but... Women are probably better at sniffing out desperation and validation seeking behavior than men, but men aren't slouches at it either. And that's the most unattractive mindset a person can have.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/11/20 03:30 AM
2	How to quit porn? Start on December 1st. Pick a day of the week. From 12:00am to 11:59pm on that specific day don't watch porn and don't jerk off. On January 1st, add a second day. On February 1st, add a third day. Keep snowballing that until you get it under control. I started this in June by skipping porn and jerking off on Tuesdays. Then I added Thursdays, then Saturdays, then Wednesdays, then Fridays, and most recently Mondays. I'm going to keep slowly but surely adding rules until I get to no porn and jerkin…	/r/MGTOW2	21/11/20 04:52 AM
5	Comprehensive Guide to Modern Text Game I'm a millennial as well, but I work in student affairs so I interact with college students all the time. I think your saying is pretty accurate. Jean Twenge estimates that 18 year old Gen Zers are comparable from a maturity standpoint to 15 year old millennials. Think about that. You were more mature before you got your driver's license than they are as college freshmen. I don't know that they aren't present, they just aren't present in the way you might expect. How present were you in 9th grad…	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/20 06:46 AM
15	Comprehensive Guide to Modern Text Game You're amusingly very right and very wrong at the same time. Women in Gen Z lose their virginity later in life than Millennials and they have less sexual partners comparatively. That's simply a fact. Millennial women had confidence to the point of delusion. They were on the receiving end of tons of encouragement and praise and thought they could have it all. Gen Zers have been on the receiving end of much more direct and indirect criticism from their peers because of social media. They are decid…	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/20 02:28 AM
1	Men and women after sex The only area I'm referencing with the moral superiority is not being able to refrain from sex before a committed relationship. The underlying message there is "I would totally not have sex with anybody unless it was a committed relationship if I could, but there's no way to do that today, so I have to act like everybody else even though I don't think like them." That is lying to yourself. "I'm doing this because I have to, not because I want to" is creating the illusion that you're better than …	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/20 09:42 PM
1	Men and women after sex I never said that you did. You are reading into my post what you want to read into it so that you can claim victimhood status. I don't care how many people you did or didn't sleep with, you don't have to justify that to me. Your statement that "I don't think that in this time, my country and my age it is possible to wait with sex until one is married or in a fully commited relationship" is simply not true. Again, as I said before, you have to be willing to criticize your own thought process and …	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/20 09:32 PM
3	Men and women after sex You are making the faulty assumption that men and women view sex the same way. They don't. The male point of view after sex with a woman they aren't interested in committing to is similar to the female point of a view immediately after giving a "let's just be friends" speech. That person has a role from your perspective. You assume they are okay with that role because they continue to participate in your life in that role. You aren't responsible for the covert contracts they set up with themselv…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/20 08:21 PM
1	Best Red Pill books, what are your recommendations besides the ones listed below? Ego is the Enemy is by Ryan Holiday. It's the 2nd book of 3 in a series about stoicism. The first is The Obstacle is the Way, which is my favorite book and the 3rd is Stillness is the Key. All are worth a read. A few other suggestions: When I Say No I Feel Guilty by Manuel Smith, it provides good exercises and teaches a good mindset for standing up for yourself and setting and enforcing boundaries. The Red Queen by Matt Ridley, a really interesting book about the science behind sex, evolution, w…	/r/askTRP	10/10/20 09:38 PM
28	Most People Fail At Most Things Most Of The Time The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way. - Marcus Aurelius	/r/TheRedPill	09/10/20 06:26 AM
5	Is anyone else annoyed by how reddit constantly recommends therapy/couple's therapy for every minor thing? It's a generational thing. Millennials and especially iGens have a particularly bad habit of appealing to authority to solve their problems. This is another example of that. It's why you see no MLK in today's racial activists. MLK owned the problem and wanted to solve it. Today's activist want to complain loudly but want somebody else to solve it. It's why you see them screaming at college administrators. They don't want to solve problems or face ideas they don't agree with, so they yell at the …	/r/RedPillWomen	25/09/20 08:31 PM
6	I think porn ruined naturalism for me. How do i get back? This is what I'm in the process of doing. In June, I said no porn and no jacking off on Tuesdays. In July, I added Thursdays as a second day each week. In August I added Saturdays. This month I added Fridays. Some people can do cold turkey, but I'm more successful when I'm making constant, measurable progress.	/r/askTRP	13/09/20 06:34 AM
8	Thoughtful Steps: advice on acting out goals I've been most successful at achieving goals when I set vague, general long term goals and very specific, measurable short term goals. Because you set the long term goals very broad, you can basically never meet them, but you can always work towards them by meeting the short term goals and you have a lot of flexibility in setting your short term goals because they change regularly. For example, if you set a long term goal to be happy with the way you look, your short term goals working in that d…	/r/TheRedPill	12/09/20 12:20 AM
52	33 Years of Marriage Wasted I did not. If it happened tomorrow then I definitely would, but this was several years ago and I wasn't ready to hear such a harsh truth and couldn't fathom what I had just heard. I do remember isolating myself for the rest of the day and just working through the thoughts that I had in response, especially because this was what I had previously considered a successful marriage. They were married well over 60 years and she literally said it in the car not ten minutes after we left his memorial se…	/r/TheRedPill	08/09/20 08:31 AM
145	33 Years of Marriage Wasted My grandma is the one who Redpilled me more than any other person, article, video, or personal experience. My grandfather was born so far below the poverty line he couldn't even see it. He was in the Army during Korea and spent the next ~40 years working a manual labor job on the railroad. He placed his family firmly in the middle class through sheer force of will. When his health started going my grandmother made his life absolute hell. She brought up affairs that he allegedly had 60+ years ago…	/r/TheRedPill	08/09/20 04:35 AM
13	7 days vacation, 40 approaches 5% is one out of 20 .05% is one out of 2000. You should clearly not be insulting people's intelligence.	/r/TheRedPill	22/08/20 06:04 PM
6	What made you go MGTOW/REDPILL? My grandmother never worked a day in her life. My grandfather was in the Army during Korea then worked 40+ years on the railroad. He was born so far below the poverty line he couldn't even see it and willed his family to the middle class through sheer determination. When he died my whole family was there for the service where my dad and both his sisters gave eulogies and afterwards, where only my brother and I could hear her, my grandmother said "I don't know who that great man was they were tal…	/r/MGTOW2	20/08/20 05:48 AM
2	Why does contemporary culture embrace a lack of personal responsibility and adopt a victim mentality? It's actually a whole logical thought process that is based on one faulty assumption. It's based on the idea that people who have a lot of money didn't earn it, and since they didn't earn it they must have received it based on luck, and it's not fair for somebody to have a lot of something based entirely on luck when others have nothing. Obviously step one is false, but the people making the claim aren't the guys who made a ton of money, it's their kids and grandkids who inherited a lot of money…	/r/askTRP	30/07/20 01:45 AM
49	"friend" not so friendly after knowing my views I think your mindset is backwards. Every time you learn something about somebody it's a good thing. In this case, you learned that she's a person who bases her entire world view on prejudices, especially the kind of prejudices that absolve her of responsibility for the failure to form meaningful relationships with the men in her life. If the other people involved are monsters by definition, then it certainly can't be her fault things have worked out. You should be happy to learn that about her a…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/07/20 05:56 PM
1	What are some non-fiction books that truly have been useful in your daily life? The Obstacle is the Way by Ryan Holiday The Righteous Mind by Jonathan Haidt I also recommend Until Proven Innocent by Stuart Taylor to every man. Duke lacrosse was the warning sign we all ignored to the world we are living in right now.	/r/askTRP	26/07/20 03:36 AM
3	Instead of cooking like their mothers, they drink like their fathers. How luxury leads to downfall You can't say there are reasons why this is the case and then not support that statement with evidence. The fact is that if racism plays such an important role in wealth black people in the north would be significantly better off than black people in the south economically. That's not the case. And neither of them would be any worse off than Asian people, which is again not the case. It also doesn't explain differences within the black community itself. For example, the American born children of…	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/20 12:33 AM
7	Instead of cooking like their mothers, they drink like their fathers. How luxury leads to downfall Almost everything called racism today is actually discrimination based on economic class. The same issues with drugs, crime, and poverty that inner city black kids are born into, white kids in the Sun Belt, Rust Belt, and Appalachia are born into as well. We just don't bother making excuses for the poor white kids.	/r/TheRedPill	10/07/20 05:39 PM
18	i just had an epiphany after a blowjob It's a misstatement not an overstatement. 41% are obese, another 27% are overweight, coming in right around the 70% that was stated.	/r/TheRedPill	09/07/20 08:39 PM
2	What are some "lesser woke" cities in America you would recommend? I lived in College Station for a while and really liked it, it was several years ago now so I don't know how it might have evolved though. A&M has big time engineering and business programs, which are generally less woke than schools with big education or liberal arts programs, and it's arguably the most conservative public school in the US, but it's still a college town and those come with their own obstacles.	/r/askTRP	06/07/20 05:30 AM
64	Pareto's Other Theory If you have a chance read The Coddling of the American Mind by Haidts and Lukianoff, they lay out six different factors that all sort of converged at the same time to get us here. It's a really insightful book. 1) Intense political polarization. This goes all the way back to the Bork confirmation, Newt Gingrich's takeover of the Republican Party, Clinton impeachment, and basically 15 years of outright obstructionism by both parties. You used to be able to disagree respectfully, now there is pres…	/r/TheRedPill	30/06/20 05:43 AM
1	Why Are Ugly Girls So Entitled Whereas Many Hot Girls Are Cool? This. It's a strategy that makes sense for ugly girls. They generally have very little to offer and deploy some insane shit tests out of insecurity. They're looking for one of two extremes, a guy who can pass the tests, or a guy who fails so miserably that she'll always be in charge in the relationship but he will pay for everything.	/r/askTRP	26/06/20 05:14 AM
8	Accepting that I've lost an Alpha? Why would you compromise your principles to date somebody with extreme views then?	/r/RedPillWomen	25/06/20 10:38 PM
7	Accepting that I've lost an Alpha? Anytime anybody makes passing reference to the other person's political views as being an issue, it comes across as self-righteous and insecure. The truth is that a very, very tiny fraction of the population on one political extreme or the other have truly disgusting views. On the other hand, a majority of people go out of their way to demonize and even dehumanize people who disagree with them because that's easier than acknowledging the weaknesses in their own views. It's a sign of immaturity. …	/r/RedPillWomen	25/06/20 09:56 PM
13	Accepting that I've lost an Alpha? The question isn't "Are there more alphas out there?" The question is "What do you bring to the table to get them to commit?" My interpretation of your post is that your ex believed you to be annoying, nagging, self-righteous, and immature. And even in your own post, all those things shine through. I give the same piece of dating advice to everybody: Have terribly high standards and be worthy of the person who meets them. You can get boys to chase you when you play games, but you can't get men t…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/06/20 07:40 PM
1	Me and 6girls in a house over the weekend One of my favorite ways to sort of innocently move a conversation in a more sexual direction is to ask the girl to tell the story of her first kiss or ask her how old she was when she had her first kiss. It's not overtly sexual at all, but it's almost always followed up by "How old were you when you lost your virginity?" Once that question gets asked all sexual questions are on the table and that sets the tone.	/r/askTRP	25/06/20 06:04 AM
5	Too Many Red Pill Posts About Idiots and Their Twitter Cancel Culture I remember seeing an interview with Jonathan Haidt where he referred to social media as a consensual hallucination. I think that's the most apt way to look at it. Once you grasp that concept it's easy to recognize it for what it is and show it the proper level of attention, which is to say little to none.	/r/TheRedPill	22/06/20 02:48 AM
14	What do you think the dating world will look like in ten years time? I think relationships will continue to die off unless sweeping changes are made. There's no repercussions for false rape claims, there's no repercussions for false domestic violence claims, there's no repercussions for false stalking claims, and in some places men can be forced to pay spousal support even if they were never married. There are a lot of Boomer and Gen X men who were bitten once by divorce and swore off marriage, and there are a lot of Millennials and Gen Zers who saw it happen to …	/r/RedPillWomen	13/06/20 11:04 PM
1	Pimp? Don't bother. It's awful. It's a poorly written and barely edited rehash of the absolute basics of MGTOW philosophy.	/r/askTRP	11/06/20 10:30 PM
1	How To Get Laid In June 2020 Do you have a source? I'm not doubting you, just genuinely curious. I've always believed that chaos makes people less horny because scarcity and stress negatively affect sex drives and those clearly increase during war/famine/etc. But now that I think about it, I don't remember if I just assumed that or if it came from a reputable source.	/r/TheRedPill	10/06/20 07:50 AM
1	Gen-Z: The Good, the Bad, & the Ugly The one area where you got it slightly wrong is sex at a young age. Gen Z is actually losing their virginity later in life than Millennials, surprisingly enough. They are also doing things like getting first jobs and driver's licences later in life. It's because, as a generation, they are terribly risk averse and outrageously overprotected. They live in little bubbles and can't handle rejection, conflict, or even the thought of being uncomfortable. Jean Twenge estimated that a Millennial at 15 w…	/r/TheRedPill	09/06/20 07:29 PM
1	Why do hot chicks tease you by suggesting to pair you up with a fat/ugly girl? Exactly this. I think if she's fishing for compliments the best thing to do is drop a subtle neg. Look at fatty. Look back to her. Look back at fatty. Look back to her. "Nah, you're a little bit prettier."	/r/askTRP	26/05/20 03:30 AM
1	I was a different man, and have changed thanks to this sub. The most mindblowing part of understanding the redpill mindset is the hindsight. The two relationships that I was the happiest in we weren't exclusive. The first was in college, she was a foreign exchange student. The second was in my early 20s and I was trying to find another job which would require me to relocate and there was no long term future there. In both of those cases I had outcome independence because there were no consequences if the relationship failed. In both cases, I was sleeping…	/r/TheRedPill	21/05/20 09:34 PM