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I've noticed recently a lot of stories on social media from guys who call themselves single parents but then describe just being a divorced, co-parent. When you say "single mother" the image isn't one of a divorced woman who shuffles the kids from house to house weekly. It typically refers to a woman who has no co-parent helping, no shared custody, nada. Often even no child support. That's not to say that coparenting isn't also difficult, but true single parenthood is basically a ticket to a soc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 03:57 PM
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That part seemed sus to me too. Who would give up their dream PhD program for their partner to do a 1 year masters elsewhere? It's not even really 1 year. It's 10 months, with holiday break in the middle. Even if you absolutely hate the idea of going long distance, 1 school year of it is easily tolerable. If my guy made a similar claim, then I'd be asking to see the acceptance letter/email.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 11:52 PM
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lol, yes! Thanks, I will edit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 08:21 PM
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I was just making this same point in another sub*. Someone's evidence of FDS being "as bad" as incel subs was that we don't allow male posters. Meanwhile, you don't even have to look as far as facebook to see why keeping men out of certain spaces is necessary. ALL of the big women-centric subs right here on reddit, even the male-pandering and lib-femmy subs, have women only flair options. And those options are frequently used by posters (and also frequently ignored by male posters). They would p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 05:25 AM
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"Standing around outside watching a guy point as his expensive gadget for 20 minutes isn’t a date; that’s selling your camera to a stranger on Craigslist." And he expected it to take MORE than 45 minutes! What... a hour? Two? That's a lecture. He planned photography 101, but she didn't sign up for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:11 AM
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Right? And look at the site name: "I got standards, bro." Seriously making fun of women for having such high standards as... not wanting to participate in the dissolution of someone else's marriage/family. Edit: I also just thought about it: imagine if women didn't require singledom as a basic standard? Then they'd ratchet up the bullshit about how only .001233% of men get all the women and women would supposedly rather be polygamous sister-wives with the "top" men than give the poor, regular, s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 04:45 AM
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Exactly! If they did that to a man, or a man did it to them, then they'd be posturing and ready to fight. It wouldn't be viewed as anything other than threatening. But somehow women are supposed to take it otherwise? I'm at the point of annoyance where I just tell them to stop blocking the sidewalk. I feel slightly safer doing so because it's always outside of my building, which is nice & locked up. It's very annoying to have to deal with at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:18 AM
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Ugh, I've had men do the same. I usually have to park on the the street and walk up to my place and a few times (all at night/evening too!) Men pull into the sideroad leading to the back of the building and literally blocking my path down the sidewalk. It's baffling that they could think that this is anything other than inappropriate and borderline threatening. This is why there is a disconnect for me when men here on reddit complain about how haaaard it is to not be seen as cweepy :(. Most of t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:16 PM
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The only detail I've ever seen given isn't actually from the handbook. They complain about the "maximum female benefit" rule on the sidebar. Of course they twist it into some extreme seeming thing, when in reality most of the advice all over reddit is for maximum male benefit whether it is explicitly stated or not. They also totally fail to acknowledge that maximum benefit can often mean that the woman should just leave the relationship. It's not some ploy to teach women to manipulate, as they c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:07 PM
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Was her killer an incel? I knew he was disturbingly obsessed with her, but I had never looked into whether there was anything deeper there. I used to love her covers so much. Her cover of Lonely Day is still in the playlist, and whenever it pops up on shuffle it catches me off guard & I get a bit sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 11:40 AM
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The fact that people are even bold enough to livestream that also makes me think that they are pretty confident that they aren't going to be caught. Is anyone even LOOKING to catch them? I'd think a livestream would be way easier to track down? Just all around disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:24 AM
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Watching friends behave like this in relationships is so hard. At some point you just get tired of hearing about it, but you also want to be available as support. I have a friend whose boyfriend regularly uses the silent treatment to manipulate her, because he knows that she will come running & be desperate to get his attention back. At one point he literally told her that he had wanted to break up during one of his intermittent ghostings, but he didn't want to be alone. And she just accepted it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:53 PM
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It's almost funny that even the loose, male-cenric feminism of those subs is STILL not enough for them. It's as though they just don't want women empowerment at all, even if that "empowerment" is fake & done through pandering to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 08:58 PM
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I think they do realize this, but just choose to ignore it. Reminds me of the article about "the bumbler" archetype that men seem to run to in these situations. https://theweek.com/articles/737056/myth-male-bumbler The author even directly mentions some male celebrities who turned into bumblers when their friends predatory behavior was exposed. The bumbler doesn't know things, even things about which he was directly informed. Jon Stewart was "stunned" by the Louis C.K. revelations, even though w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 04:10 AM
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Yeah, I definitely have noticed that misogyny and especially extreme & violent misogyny seems to be having a disturbing rise among young guys. Even just the incel stuff, a lot of those guys are teens, late teens, early 20s. It's one of the downsides of the internet that kids can easily access the writings of adults, and then pick up whatever negative things those adults are expressing, like extreme bitterness and resentfulness towards women. Also, I'm sorry but: As a millenial woman I'm sandwich…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 06:36 PM
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Well that link was an unpleasant read. Basically the whole biblical definition of adultery is just women as property. Actually, it seems like a pretty direct parallel to biblical laws around slaves. Harming another person's slave required compensating the "owner," not the actual victim. They might as well just say that they view women as personal slaves and get it over with. It shouldn't surprise me since I knew that was the general biblical placement of women, but I hadn't previously considered…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:01 AM
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A man committing adultery, which is meant to be a deadly sin? Open your heart, be forgiving! A woman bettering herself so that she won't have to be reliant on a cheater? Unforgivable. Put a stop to that immediately. Beyond ridiculous. I hope she changed the locks while he was gone. -_-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 12:21 PM
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Same. I'm skeptical of his retelling. He mentions "in the heat of the argument" which is the kind of think you say when you know that you are wrong and are trying to justify it. Seems like a euphemistic retelling of his side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 12:17 PM
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Yep. This is exactly why I eyeroll whenever I see certain male-dominated sections of the internet make claims about women's standards for appearance being too high & supposedly causing issues in society. Like, no, women's ideal appearance has remained pretty much the same always, and that has never been the primary factor for judgement anyway. Men's standards change with the wind, meanwhile they will endlessly argue that every variation is due to biology. As though we didn't all clearly see that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:36 AM
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You know the quote. Like a compass needle that points north... People seem to conveniently forget all of his erratic behavior prior to her. If his fans placed the responsibility where it belonged, then they'd have to explain why they continue to support someone who has done/said things that they would condemn anyone else for. The same fans who insult & degrade female rappers over much less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:10 AM
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I'd also say that any man who wants to do something so clearly and inarguably painful and potentially dangerous as getting a BJ from a woman who just had a root canal (infection risk,hello?) Is just a straight up sadistic sociopath. No normal person would want that. Demanding sex specifically is one problem, but it becomes 10x worse when that form of sex seems directly chosen to be the most damaging to a recent surgery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 07:16 AM
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he's clearly a total turn off to her Notice he says that the sex dropped off when they moved in together. That is SUCH a common inflection point in a relationship. Can't hide all the shitty, low-value behaviors when you are living in the same house. And yeah, tends to be a big turn off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 07:46 AM
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I honestly like the long ones, so I'll stand alone here! Clean and well-groomed, but yeah I definitely don't mind the length. I have a strange thing for men who look-but-do-not-smell like cavemen. Carefully curated hobo chic, if you will. Keyword being "curated." So not just lazy men who don't feel like grooming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 09:40 PM
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I unknowingly had a very large, benign uterine tumor that would cause me horrific stomach pains at random times. Like you, I also thought it was appendicitis as did the ER doctor who finally discovered the actual issue. It was later suggested to me that the pains could have been the tumor torsing itself. I was just 21 at the time the pain sent me to doctors multiple times over a single semester. The first time I went, the male doctor working the ER labeled it as food poisoning. I pointed out tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:39 AM
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He took away her choice completely and forever, in an irreversible manner. That is just evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 04:56 AM
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I think it's a matter of extremes. The problem in many relationship subs is that a situation like what you mentioned in your second paragraph: Periods of low sex drive or working through some issues ... that is one thing. No intimacy after a fight? Makes sense. We all go through ups and downs. will be labeled as withholding affection and abusive, rather than just a completely normal temporary reaction to an argument. There's are some who are so eager to paint a woman as being in the wrong, that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 03:11 AM
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Yes, this frustrates me so much. Not wanting to have sex with someone that you are upset with is not "withholding affection." These same people will also claim to believe that you should never have sex just to please someone else. It's contradictory. So I guess the solution is that women should just not be upset in the firstplace and always be happy, mindless servants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 03:05 AM
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We don't have to imagine that... women also experience that. All the time, lol. I've been in a situation where a guy was talking to my friend in a bar, and when she wasn't giving him much he came right over to me. As though I didn't see them talking literally 2 feet away. When I responded accordingly, he jumps to the next friend. Right down the "attractiveness" totem pole. That's not even getting into all the women in relationships with guys who openly obsess over beautiful women on social media…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 02:05 PM
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You will as an average woman, get the same level of romantic passion (I.E. thoughtful gifts/dates and emotional availability) from men around your level of equivalent attractiveness aa you would if you were attractive by virtue of men having naturally a wider range of what they find attractive. That is definitely a benefit. But several of the responses and the OP of this thread are completely ignoring that there are non-romantic benefits that highly attractive women get that are quite extreme an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 01:32 PM
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In order for things to be true as you stated them and for our crime statistics to be so off, I would think that there would likely have to be some grand conspiracy occurring. Yet the US government and legal system are still heavily male dominated. Why would these men conspire to dismiss other men and uplift women in such a way? And if you don't think that a conspiracy or any intention is behind it, then how can you explain the numbers being so off that the group who makes up the majority of curr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 12:22 PM
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Physical weakness does not equate to biological or evolutionary inferiority. That is a misunderstanding and anthropomorphizing of evolution. In evolution, stronger is not better. FITTER is better. More well suited to the environment is better. Men having greater physical strength does not inherently make them inherently freer or more successful. Particularly in modern society where technology is rapidly reducing the value of physical strength. Success through manipulation is still success. If yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 11:58 AM
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Yep. They would just assault other men and civilian especially women and girls in the countries they are placed in. As they did before women were allowed to serve. This is not even something we have to guess on, because we've seen it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 06:50 AM
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But they are still above soundcloud rappers on the job ladder. They at least make money and can support themselves to some degree. Soundcloud guys don't make money by posting music. It really should be treated like a hobby or a side thing while some other job is held. Instead, many just straight up live with parents (or, unfortunately, pick-me girlfriends) and make a beat every so often while claiming they are too focused on music to get a regular job. I know a guy who quit college and refused t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:10 AM
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The guy compared female hairdressers to soundcloud rappers, who are typically jobless and moneyless guys living with parents and using the "aspiring rapper" label to avoid actually working, since they are too "busy" making 1 beat per day. He is basically implying that hairdressing is not a real profession and just some BS that women say to delay getting a "real" job. The response is saying that hairdressers actually make money, so it is a real profession. She just specified women because the guy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:05 AM
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Ok, if you think women's jobs are in the home - are YOU living up to your role as provider? It's always a "no". Of course not. Most of the guys who say this will also complain about being expected to pay on the first date. -_- Tbh I sometimes think that the expectations now are worse than traditional ones. At least tradition puts women strictly in the domestic sphere. Now it's like we are supposed to work AND do all the domestic stuff. No longer just a bang maid, but a bang maid tenant/roommate.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 05:56 AM
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I was gonna say, aanana laffy taffys are gross. FDS has odd taste in candy lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 06:04 AM
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My ex was like this. I constantly felt like I was being lectured, and worse was when I finally had a chance to actually share my own thoughts he would completely miscomprehend (or maybe intentionally misinterpret) whatever I said into something that he could "correct" me on. Glad I'm out of that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 06:57 AM
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And more than that, why do they want for the rest of us to be used for sex? At the very least, they could stop trying to spin whatever degradation fetish into some big social issue trying to make us all feel guilty for not participating in it. I truly do hate this new standard where people tie themselves in knots trying to come up with a social justice reasoning for everything they do. What happened to just accepting that certain things you like/do aren't feminist, but no one is perfect and so i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:52 AM
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This should be obvious, particularly to anyone who can make any claim to being a feminist (even a liberal one). The societies currently where women have little choice in marriage have much less issues with incels, since men will likely be married off due to cultural norms regardless of what they do. Yet they have more sexual violence and just an overall worse environment for women. Supporting a sense of entitlement to sex, or the view of sex as a necessity, will inevitably be taken advantage of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:46 AM
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Yep. Sounds like something written by someone who never/rarely actually goes on dates or even interacts with women. Even the most desperate of pick me's would be confused & probably turned off by a "date" at the grocery store. Plus what would it expose? Is he looking for an extreme cuponer or something who will take the 50 and somehow get 200 worth of stuff? Most adults should who've lived on their own should know how to shop for groceries, so this would not reveal anything special.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 04:35 AM
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Wow, I laughed hysterically at "involuntary organ donation." I was not expecting that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:59 AM
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I agree with you. Honestly, at times these posts remind me a bit of the type of posts you get on the tinder sub. It feels like some conversations are had just to be posted on reddit later. And just to be clear: I don't think that posting things here is inherently bad. If the convo provides something teachable or evidence of the common tropes that we talk about here, then it's nice to share it. But sometimes it just seems forced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 05:53 AM
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I know several men who don't. My roommate/landlord (barely ever stays here,tbh) is an older man who doesn't in spite of us being in an urban area. We are also very near to a veterans services facility which, unfortunately, means that many mentally unwell men are regularly in the area (not trying to generalize, but some are homeless or they would be waiting for the buses as I skated to school and it is just obvious). Our apartment complex is gated, but still. The most I've seen him do is lock the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:15 PM
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Also bizarre to think that having such crazy standards as wanting a man your same age means that you think you are "all that." If you just saw the responses you'd think she was required for a male-supermodel, billionaire, crime-fighter-by-night. Nope. Just average height and within her age range.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:19 AM
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"Well...society doesn't let men talk about their feelings" Who in society? Other men. It's other men making fun of you, women are ENCOURAGING you to get help. It so deeply annoys me on those threads when they completely skip over this aspect to talk about 1 girlfriend they had who didn't indulge them by acting as a free therapist. And then of course jump to "my current girlfriend is so different" aka she bears all of his mental burdens along with her own. Or they talk about their mothers once te…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:53 PM
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As if scrotes like him are on her mind all the time while she's selecting what to show and not show to the world... Someone said recently on this sub that being in a society that caters to you imbues you with an unconscious, low-grade narcissism. Now I see it everywhere. Men like him really can't imagine that women don't do everything with them in mind. From getting dressed to going to work (funny he mentioned nurses, every nurse I know has to deal with a TON of bullshit from men) to posting on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:33 PM
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I love video games, and I do think that a lot of RPG fans get really deep into the lore of certain games & actually show some empathy for them. But I've never ceased to be amazed at the complete dissonance between how empathetic many are with fictional characters & races versus real life people and groups on whom the fictional characters are clearly based. One easy example is that powerful females characters who don't take shit are generally pretty popular in games. Not so much in real life, esp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 08:39 PM
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Peopleoften use it to soften whatever they are saying. And to make sure they can label it as a joke/"not that serious" when the other person actually takes their words for what they are. Its like concern trolling but for normal social interations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:13 PM
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I'm applying for my code now. I recycle accounts regularly so this one doesn't have a posting history here but... I'm definitely female & I read here lots so please approve me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:04 AM
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