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I love you all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:42 AM
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That's an awesome comment!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:34 AM
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That's good! 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:20 PM
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Noooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 07:35 PM
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You're the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 07:25 PM
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https://youtu.be/R6r7LhcHHAc?si=CazPyh9dkqVPvBYv I hear men and women do it, but a lot of this stuff is aimed at women. So, I'm not sure if I'm misunderstanding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:52 PM
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Are women given a harder time for "vocal fry", compared to men that have "vocal fry"? I didn't know there was a term for it until recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:43 PM
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It was like 8 hours or so? It's quite fast paced because it's always moving forward. You never get stuck or anything. There's lots of different outcomes if you replay it and make different choices. I don't plan to play it again though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:32 PM
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Just finished playing The Quarry with my girlfriend. It's a fun, casual game that you can play together. "Choose your own adventure"-style interactive horror movie game. I played with Game Pass. Not sure if I would have paid much for it otherwise though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:11 PM
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I wonder what she did!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:43 PM
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That's the most 22 year old looking hand I ever laid eyes on!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:45 PM
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I'm too dumb to figure out what the statement means or why anyone would be mad at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:43 PM
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This might come off as c0p3, but I swear people here say I look younger than my age. Why do you care, dude??? You're probably wiser than your age. You're ahead of the game!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:28 PM
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I always wanted a spring in my step. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:22 PM
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yes I would date myself Was this ever in question?!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:13 PM
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Been playing The Quarry with my girlfriend. It's good fun!! I recommend it if you'd like to play a very casual Halloween game tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:05 PM
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Fuck a fattie and shut up. Is this a new t shirt slogan, Lilith?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:38 PM
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women do think about it. I believe that men and women think about it. You will find women that say they don't (and behave like they don't), and you'll find men that do the same. But in general, we should all be cautious and taking precautions. When I’m going home, I’m holding pepper spray in my pocket and keys. My husband doesn’t really do it. I'm with you! Your husband should absolutely do the same imo. Just like my girlfriend should be more cautious, but she's more relaxed than me. Perhaps due…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:27 PM
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Sure, but on average who do you think is more cautious and takes more precautions? I honestly don't know. Every guy I know does. Every woman I know does. Maybe it's the area I grew up in? “Women have to think about it all the time” != men have no fears. But I think both men and women have to think about it all the time. The statement that "women have to think about it all the time" implies that men don't, and I don't know why we'd assume that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:21 AM
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men make everything nice so weird and creepy. Possibly cooties related.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:35 PM
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People aren't always rational when they're scared. I guess some people grip on to things to feel better too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:21 PM
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I'm proud of you regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:00 PM
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So true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:59 PM
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Because it doesn’t look cute. Samurai swords are cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:56 PM
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Yeah, agreed. Lots of men (me included, obviously) get scared, are always trying to be aware of our surroundings. This particular topic is a major pet peeve of mine, because I've seen people suggest that men can walk the streets at night without fear. Lots of men are scared. It's a particular trigger because of personal experience, so I have a bias. I'll see people jogging alone at night sometimes (men and women), and I'm always thinking they're crazy haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:53 PM
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Well...she's right about it, isn't she? Sure, men have to think about not getting beaten up as well, but men also have more chances to fight off an attacker. Well, there are a lot of men that are in fear. The idea I see that, "If I were a man, I could walk alone at night!" It appears to lack empathy. I don't walk alone at night. Why would those people assume men walk alone at night without fear?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:49 PM
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Also this is what I mean by men being bad at it I tried 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:44 PM
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I've thought about using my phone as self-defense when it's the only thing I have with me I'm sure a lot of men and women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:42 PM
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I prefer condescension. Good talk, little guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:40 PM
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you say you guys do. Do you believe that most guys do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:39 PM
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Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:29 PM
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It's the cooties, I'm afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:22 PM
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Men's love is conditional, transactional and fake. Women's love is deep, selfless and consistent. Agree completely. What you've said finds surprising support in the emerging study of infectious egoism. Russian researchers Dr. Ivanov Popovich and Dr. Natalya Korolyova, of the Moscow Institute of Anthropo-Social Pathologies, have identified a unique microbial agent, Cootis maschika, which they propose as a catalyst for distinctly self-centered male behavior. Dr. Korolyova’s complementary study, "S…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:21 AM
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I love you all
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:00 PM
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Ahh, I see what you mean. I was a little surprised by the N counts, honestly!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:56 PM
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Why are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:53 PM
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Every time I post an obvious joke someone has to come along and refuse to beat the PPD autism allegations. Dude, I know! Haha Some people can be so eager to be victims. "The fact that I couldn't tell you were joking... says a lot about the rampant misogyny/misandry on the sub!"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:48 PM
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I'm out of the office atm, but when I'm back I can detail the research that took place roughly between '83 - '87 in Montreal. It was a series of studies carried out by Élise Moreau that conclusively demonstrated cooties and their effect on the male psyche.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:26 PM
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husband who has been asked and warned multiple times. That'll be the cooties, I'm afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:06 PM
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愛してる、みんな。
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:51 PM
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Years later most of my personality is as a result of her So now we know who to blame!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:41 PM
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I'll let the rest of Team Men know!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:29 PM
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The males are stinky. The women are fetch. NEXT!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:22 PM
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Duuude, my hair has gotten really long recently. I hate the feeling of it on the back of my neck. It feels suffocating. No idea why. Definitely getting it cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:35 AM
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I'm not interested in having children, but if I did, I'd look into adoption. My girlfriend feels the same way. There's already a child out there that needs support, so it seems like we'd want to do that. Obviously, this is all just hypothetical, so it's easy for me to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:34 AM
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Ooo, down from 15k now?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 07:28 AM
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I love you all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 07:07 AM
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Say it louder for the people at the back, sis ! Y'all👏want👏to👏be👏hypergamous! The problem is, males are icky and stinky* 🤢 Women are soooo fetch. Now y'all know why we choose the bear 🤣 🤣 🤣 *Also cooties
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:59 PM
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I don't read much, but I'm reading 人工知能は人間を超えるか It's a book about whether or not AI could realistically surpass humans, and what that would look like. I'll likely stop reading halfway through!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:48 PM
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I love the way you write these posts haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:14 PM
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They don’t know these women on a personal level yet every guy I’ve ever asked has a celebrity crush. I agree with a lot of what you said (I think it applies to both genders though, but that goes without saying), but I just wanted to check one thing. When people say "celebrity crush", whether it's Margot Robbie or Jason Mamoa, do they honestly mean a crush? To me, a crush is where I always have that person on my mind, I wish I could be hanging out with them, watching a movie with them, talking to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:13 AM
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Interaction was probably limited, so I'm guessing personality is out that leaves the physical. It's been many years since I had a crush, but it was always personality first and foremost, not physical. I kind of thought that was the same for everybody else? If crushes were just based on appearance, I would have had a lot more crushes!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:12 AM
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Since it's Halloween month, and PPD is talking about creeps, have you guys seen the Creep movies? They're found footage horror!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:47 PM
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SophisticateD?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:22 PM
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Men: "Heey! My name's Dave. What's up? I like The Beatles... I recently tried the full meat McRib and loved it!" Also men: "hi... im john. different guy to dave... i actually dont kno him. anyway i rlly like system of a down nd im vegetarian." The hypocrisy is insane! Make it make sense y'all 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆 🤣 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:27 AM
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Simp somewhere else. Your comment us not gonna redeem men fur her. Just pray she never has a son. I give up on humanity. Please check out the very real memoirs that I referenced. The very, very real ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 08:02 PM
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You make an exceptional argument. Much of this was outlined in the stellar research carried out by 吉本 in 北海道. Her memoirs ("クーティーズ : 男性の最悪") succintly explain the male phenomenon that you're describing. She puts forward the theory (after months of research and peer reviewed studies) that males have "cooties". I have concluded, after years of research and seminars, that women are wonderful. I hope this helps! Don't let PPD males get you down.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:56 PM
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That movie was way better than I expected. It was very effective!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 08:51 AM
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I'm very sure you are, dude. Go for it!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:31 AM
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I agree with everything here. This is why questioning your preferences is a good thing. It's worth questioning them, and reflecting on why you have them. I feel like some people stick their head in the sand and think, "Can't help it! Can't help it! All preferences are okay! Polly want a cracker!" Silence, Iago!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:36 PM
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Francis Ngannou 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:06 AM
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I'm trying to picture my girlfriend right now suddenly taking up smoking. I'd basically be worried about her, and do my best to support her quitting. I want her to live long!!! She's constantly badgering me about how much coffee I drink (she still buys me coffee now and then though, HA!), so it's only fair!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:46 AM
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I'm a Web developer! Good luck, dude. How long do you have to complete your fronted assignment?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:21 AM
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Dude I looked that up. You got me!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:46 AM
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If a foreigner was visiting your country for the first time, but they could only eat one meal/snack that is uniquely popular in your country, what would it be?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:32 AM
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Moo Deng!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 05:38 AM
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You make an excellent point tbh. The only thing I'd add to support your argument is the extensive research carried out by 吉本. She explains her entire project in her flagship memo, "クーティーズ : 男性の最悪" She puts forward the theory (after months of research and peer reviewed studies) that males have "cooties". I take from this that males are, in most ways, worse than women. My own conclusion (this is my own conclusion, not the conclusion of 吉本) is that women are wonderful. Anyway, overall, I agree with…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 12:49 AM
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I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 11:48 PM
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hi guys.... AITA for telling my boyfriend I Choose The Bear? We've been together about 5 months and 12 days now. He's really sweet, but he struggles opening jars (you know those jars for Doritos salsa dips). Anyway, I was listening to a podcast I enjoy (a "feminist" one, I suppose). They were saying, "It's not all men. But like... if you had a bag of jelly beans and one was poisoned..." This reminded of Donald Trump Jr's logic regarding Syrian refugees and it got me craving skittles sooo bad. My…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:08 AM
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It's the cooties. People seem to forget this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:36 AM
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Because I think Tom Aspinall has proven he deserves his shot at undisputed gold. It's an injustice. Obviously I'm not affected personally, but God dammit, I want it to be fair!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:19 AM
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I am asking, would you rather have gf with giant boobs or gf with no boobs but skinny Oh, okay! Either, I don't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:58 AM
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Are you basically asking, "In terms of physical appearance, do you prefer an overweight woman with bigger breasts, or a slimmer woman with smaller breasts?" Because if I just apply your question to my relationship, I would say I want her to do whatever makes her happy. If she was overweight to the point of death, then I want her to lose weight immediately. But not sure if that is answering the core of your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:45 AM
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Just finished watching the first episode of Dragon Ball Daima. I thought it looked a bit dumb from the initial trailer, but I actually liked it. I think Dragon Ball left too much of an impression on me when I was a kid. I'll just like everything from that series
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:35 AM
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I'm not convinced that it's not, but I haven't been convinced that it is. I love the Patterson footage, and I lean towards it being an awesome hoax. People now look at it and say, "It's just a guy in a suit " - but at the time, the creation of that suit is amazing, and it's not giving enough credit to Patterson and Co. It was a really effective hoax at the time. People to this day think it's real. Do you believe Bigfoot is out there?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 11:42 PM
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I wish Bigfoot was real.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 11:35 PM
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Here are the responses: "Yeah, I agree, OP. Women lack empathy. That's why." and "The gender pay gap is real. BTW, where are all these guys paying for everything? I always go 50/50 on dates. Get off TikTok." Bleep boop bleep
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 11:26 PM
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I listened to the All American Rejects and made Dragonball AMVs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 10:47 PM
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Who is? Wait... isn't this a bit ironic?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:20 AM
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I mean, if she consented and knows he is looking in order to "perv"? Then it's just a couples thing they do. But without consent and without her knowing, I think it's wrong, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 02:40 AM
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Hey, I tell you I love you nearly everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 12:18 AM
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https://youtu.be/5JT-Uej1PA0?si=POOAagm2--3EGDTx
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 12:02 AM
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I can only speak personally, but I've only ever put forward my concern that you were going off the deep end a bit. Some of what you've written is very bleak about 50% of humanity. I only hope that you don't get upset or feel offended by that. That's the last thing I want. I don't think that would help you, it would only radicalise you further. But like I said before, I might be taking it all too seriously. I just felt I should speak up if I saw somebody slowly getting radicalised. It's possible …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:51 PM
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I pick 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:40 PM
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OUTTA NOWHERE!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:50 PM
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Not seeing how this is different from women on twitter/tiktok explaining how the “I choose the bear” meme is totally not sexist. Do you think it's a sexist meme?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:32 PM
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I remember when I was a little kid, a group of us boys wanted to know how tall we were. We were so dumb that we thought feet meant... well, feet. So we got our most flexible friend to measure us by him counting how many times his foot could touch us from the bottom of us to the top of our heads. Like he was doing a karate kick stance starting low, until his foot reached our heads. Some of us ended up being sixteen feet tall or something. Why didn't we think to lie down and have him walk beside u…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:01 PM
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You can’t trick your body into not developing health issues by citing affirmations. Challenge accepted!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:40 PM
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the thought of them just provokes angst in my being. I know this sub is basically just jokes, but I'm honestly worried about you. I think you need to talk to someone (a woman, probably) who is mature and level headed regarding gender. I've DM'd guys in the past that I felt were going off the deepend into misogyny, and I think you're at a similar point. Maybe further along. It feels wrong to see somebody becoming more and more radicalised in real time and not speak up about it. Unless you're just…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:39 PM
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I think everybody should put aside the resources to handle an emergency situation. My gf and I have our own money, separate bank accounts. We pay bills 50/50. Obviously there are times where we just buy each other things without counting the pennies, though. But the point is, if either of us needed to leave, we could.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:21 AM
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Might be different men you're talking about or something. I don't hold either of those positions, but I may be super special and incredibly awesome. ...I am, but it could be a coincidence!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:17 AM
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Yes, I would be concerned. I think what you're both doing is fucked up towards the other people, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:11 PM
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Mostly agree, except for one part here: creepy old males I would have said, "creepy old stinky males". I just feel it further strengthens your argument, but it's a matter of taste, I suppose. Overall, agree! 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:18 AM
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I'd rather be picked. I want my partner to be in a relationship that they desire. It's about them as much as it is me. I'm not interested in dragging someone kicking and screaming. I want them to be into it, for their sake and for mine. My girlfriend and I have been together a long time now. If I got the slightest hint that she "settled," I'd leave immediately. I'm confident that I'd find someone else who does desire me, or I'd be alone. Either way, I'd be happier. Of course, I know that this is…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:29 AM
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Lmao lmao I wasn't sure at first, but you've convinced me. Wtf was he talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:05 PM
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tall bald/buzzcut men with giant beards and tattoos Unique af. There truly is someone for everyone!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:03 PM
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Just because a fact might sit uncomfortably with you, does not make it a lie. Aw, man. 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:59 PM
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It's because males are selfish, smelly beasts. They are slow to commit because they are constantly looking to have sex with younger, more attractive models. But once they're in a relationship, they can't bear the thought that a woman might find someone else if they break up. It's due to the abundance of cooties that males harbour within them since childhood. Males have cooties, women are wonderful. It's just my opinion, could be wrong obvs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:49 PM
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I think they're lacking mainstream stars, people such as Ronda Rousey and Conor McGregor are gone (he was meant to fight this year. Says it will be 2025 now. Who knows). But I feel that the quality of the fights, the feuds, and the crazy moments are still there!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:13 AM
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Ahh, I see! Well, I'm not much of a chef, but miso soup is always great for me when I'm feeling under the weather!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:26 AM
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Takeout could be good! Can't you get the day off from work??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:16 AM
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Those sound like fun storylines! My gf and I also bond over WWE. We haven't watched it recently, but we always go to one of their live shows when they are in our area!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:43 AM
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Oh, that's WWE, right?? I haven't watched it since Wrestlemania when Cody won. Has it been good?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:25 AM
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Anyone else looking forward to UFC tomorrow? I hope Kayla wins, I hope Raquel wins, and I hope Alex wins. Actually, I change my mind. I hope Roundtree wins. Ler's gooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:20 AM
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That gif is hypnotising me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:17 AM
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Girlfriend, I went through the same damn thing. This is typical of the males in my area too. You're not overreacting. He doesn't care or respect your boundaries. Big 🚩energy. I'm so close to writing off males. "FINE. GO HANG OUT WITH YOUR CATS AND WINE!" - Don't threaten me with a good time y'all lol 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:20 PM
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hi guyssss.... AITA for being a woman in a male dominated environment? For the past year or so, I had been working as a librarian (posting this from the library). It was a good job, and I had fun, but due to local budget cuts, I was let go. I desperately needed the job as I was already behind on rent. This has essentially led me to becoming homeless. As I walked the streets at night, I just felt so uncomfortable. I was the only woman in this environment of destitute, near-suicidal homeless peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:09 PM
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I think you're meant to end the sentence with "Got it." So red pillers are selfish and bad, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:28 PM
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I definitely see and have experienced "niceness" not being rewarded, especially in the workplace. For example, if you are honest and just, you'll probably fully admit to your mistakes at work. But this can definitely bite you in the ass. If there is a culture where nobody admits fault, you will come across as useless, simply because you have the integrity to admit your mistakes. But even in my professional life, I would rather live honestly and lose my job, than suck up or lie in order to keep i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:25 PM
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Depending on the person, you don't need to be nice to get with them. I would say some people value more shallow qualities than whether or not somebody is "nice". That said, I would never compromise my personality in order to get with somebody. I've never had problem attracting women, and I'm in a LTR, so I appreciate that it might be easier for me to stick to my principles on it. If someone's not a nice person, they should strive to be, even if they're already successful with women. They shouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:36 PM
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hi guys... These are my top 10 "standards" for those wondering. This is just my type, guys. Don't take offense. It's very unique amongst other users of PPD. Have a decent job (obviously I will have my own money too. It's just important we can support our family) Don't mind baldness, as long as he doesn't wear hats to cover it up. I'd rather he work on his insecurity. Obviously I'd help him. He should understand that I wear makeup for myself, not for other men, and not because I won't work on ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:48 PM
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Rlly tellin on themselves 🤣 😂 Now they all know why we choose the bear 🐻 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:32 PM
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Hmm. Not really sure how that will resolve the cooties epidemic among males. In the long run, this could be better for wonderful women (all women). I get your point though, Windmill. As always, you make a great case. EDIT: You make a fantastic case.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:39 PM
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Police officer that murdered her ex-boyfriend's wife gets questioned about it 20 years later One of my favourite interrogation videos!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:49 AM
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"Heh... so you finally figured it out? I'm not real, Think Day. None of this is. You've been a pawn in a very calculated plot carried out by The Redeemers. Everyone you think you know, everyone you think you love. They never existed. I'm going to go now, but live the rest of your life knowing.... it was all just a fib."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:26 PM
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Agree 100%..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:41 PM
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On a serious note, whilst I like the drama, why was his first instinct to start filming her? I remember when I lived in Japan, I left my wallet on an arcade machine. I forgot about it and left the arcade, got back home and spent 4 hours at home before I realised I left my wallet. When I got back to the arcade, my wallet was still there, even with loads of people playing on the machines near it. I miss Japan.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:44 AM
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I've no idea what happened. The video is so short and I can't trust anybody in it. If somebody dropped something in front of me, I'd say, "Hey man! You dropped your thing. Give me 50 pounds now pls." Or I point it out to the staff because I'm busy. Obviously I demand 50 quid again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:26 AM
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hi guys... AITA for not being an asshole when everyone else was an asshole to me? Me and my friends were at a party. Stuff happened. I was super sweet, but my friend said I was being an asshole. I should point out that he was being an asshole all night to me before then too. So, guys... based on this very fair and objective representation of the events, AITA? Pls guys help me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:23 AM
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Do you think people can take things without asking or checking? I don't know what your view is.. Maybe I grew up on too much Judge Judy, but her actions seem so weird to me. Don't know how relevant gender is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:18 AM
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I speak three languages, and I never felt like I was so much better than others for it. I need your confidence, mate!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:27 AM
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People that assume all women share the same view are cut from the same cloth as your OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:23 PM
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I think this is one of those weird scenarios where some people share an immutable characteristic (like gender or something), but they are different people with different views and opinions. I could be wrong, but I think that's a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:17 PM
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Check out my original comment. Solution 1 and Solution 2. I'm a solution 1 kinda guy!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:09 PM
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Yes! Thank you for saying this. It gives both parties a chance to leave. Ideally, this conversation should happen waaaaay before trying for kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:00 PM
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Yeah. Wait, why wouldn't it? Of course it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:03 PM
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We had this conversation before. I tell her because it could be a deal breaker for her. I know I could get one myself. But I feel she ought to know. There are women that agree with me on that (I did a thread on it recently. Lots of good discussion) I am not making it her problem. She is not making a decision. I am getting one regardless. If she hates it, I would leave. I would leave for both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:55 PM
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Precisely!! Leaving is always an option. It's better for both of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:51 PM
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Solution: Tell your partner at the beginning of a relationship that you believe paternity tests should always be done. If this is a deal breaker for either of you, you can leave. Solution 2: If you didn't tell your partner at the beginning, and she got pregnant suddenly, tell her you are going to get a paternity test whether she agrees or not. If this is a deal breaker, then again, you can both leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:13 PM
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Just finished playing a game called Gotham Knights. It reviewed terribly, but I really enjoyed it. I must have awful taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:10 PM
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One of my favourite troll videos about ugly people. https://youtu.be/VdBey_x5ukM?si=TM4dSU9VY-7QI7TP If you're quite young and get mad at this video, I promise you she is trolling. It's a funny bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:24 PM
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I would prefer to date in the West. I want my partner to have freedom. For purely selfish reasons, I want to know that she chose me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:19 PM
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These males really be tellin on themselves 🤣 🤣 Now y'all kno y we choose the bear 🐻 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:17 PM
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The sub is just kind of funny. It's definitely filled with varying degrees of misogyny and misandry, but they are sort of cartoonish and predictable. There's only a few users I will respond to in a serious way on here. So, it's a bit entertaining + the odd interesting conversation here and there. It improves my life about as much as Discos do. They're crisps you can buy in the UK. The salt and vinegar is soooo good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:31 AM
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NTA omg ty ty 😭 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:54 PM
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no ty ty ty 😭 😭 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:22 PM
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OK but im NTA about wanting that bit of space for £3 tho right? Phew.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:19 PM
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hi guys... AITA for asking my boyfriend for some space? We've been together about 2 years and 21 days now. It's been great! He's super caring and really sweet. My ex was hotter but whatever. My birthday is coming up, and my boyfriend has been going overboard with the preparations. He's insecure that I'm spending too much time with a male colleague, and he's trying to win my affection over him. I found out from his brother that my bf is planning a surprise party at my work right in front of my re…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:01 PM
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Yeah, all the time! I'm amazed at how fast she is able to do some of these. She will crochet characters for my key ring too haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:03 PM
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I could be insanely energetic and motivated to do something, but then I hear my girlfriend knitting, and it instantly relaxes me and makes me wanna sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:09 PM
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Ah yes, LTR’s. AKA The extended honeymoon phase. What is that? We've been together about 20 years. I thought LTR meant Long Term Relatiinship, but I may be using it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:49 PM
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Perfect response!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:06 PM
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I find time to practice my music 2 hours a day whilst being in a LTR. I find 2 hours quite easily tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:51 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:47 AM
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Just had a second comment removed for "Contentless rhetoric". I mean, I agree with it, but what am I supposed to do? Put forward actual arguments on a debate sub? Pfft -- alright, grandad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:43 AM
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Ommmgggg, I can't stand these type of debate Lords. I saw a really cringe one the other day. This one Even if he made a good point, I couldn't listen to it. Way too cringey. He pretends to write little notes as if he's some 1970s LA detective.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:05 AM
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It's alllll so quieett
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:56 AM
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hi.... AITA for calling the police on my boyfriend? We've been together about 5 years now. Things were going well until he overheard me talking with his sister about my ex-boyfriend. My ex was an awful person, very abusive and controlling. But he gave me orgasms so I kinda reminisce and smile about that sometimes all the time maybe. He overheard me talking with his sister positively about the orgasms my abuser gave me, and he stormed out. He slammed the door really hard to make sure we could hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:52 AM
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The assumption here is that I'm friends with women who mistreat their partners on a regular basis, but this assumption is false 100%. This is the problem with these types of generalisations imo. It's similar to when you'll see some people say things like, "You may not be misogynistic, but do you call out your friends when they catcall women? Do you call them out when they treat your girl friends like meat?!" I mean, no. I don't befriend those people, and no, I don't live in an eternal locker roo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:19 AM
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Oh, hun. We don't shame y'all for your preferences. Go try and date whoever you want. Just leave us alone when y'all wanna go your own way 🤣 🤣 🤣 really telling on yourself with this question. Okay, that was my empowered, badass PPD chick. I'm gonna try a guy now. ahem Howdy, partner!! Ya got any supplieeess? Ah, shit, that's my cowboy impression. One second. Okay. ahem lol we don't shame ur preferences. Just don't cry to me when I'm 30 after 10 Chads have pumped and dumped you. Okay. All good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:59 PM
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It's important that my girlfriend is very attracted to me. I'm not comparing it to "porn" or whatever. I'm comparing it to how she had shown her attraction to others. Not everyone feels or displays "visceral attraction" the same way. So it's always going to be relative. If I found out my girlfriend displayed much more attraction to another guy in the past, then I would leave her now. I don't want to drag someone kicking and screaming, I'd like them to be attracted to me. If she's not, we don't n…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:05 PM
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It's 3am here, and I just watched a mini "documentary" on "smartschoolboy9" I can't sleep at all now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:10 AM
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NTA ty ty ty 😭 😭 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:07 PM
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hi guys.... AITA for checking my boyfriend's phone? My bf and I have been together for about 4 years now. I was watching a movie on Netflix called 365 days. It's about a toxic man raping women, but the shirtless actor is hot so I kept it on. Anyway, my bf and I got into an argument because he wanted to play his guitar whilst I was watching the show. I super politely and very calmly said, "Honey, those sweeping arpeggios are sick, but I'm just enjoying this rape scene on TV. Could you lower the a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:03 PM
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Thank you for your response! I agree with a lot of what you said. Just out of interest, how did the conversation go with your partner? Me and my girlfriend were in immediate agreement that a paternity test would be done, but the truth is, just like you, we don't ever plan on having kids. So, even though we agree, it's still pretty hypothetical. Was your partner quite strong on paternity tests? Did you have much back and forth?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:08 PM
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I agree. If my partner felt that the relationship was harmed by me wanting a paternity test, I think it would best for both of us that she leaves the relationship. I'd end it there. But like you say, that's why this conversation is best had early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:59 AM
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If testing his children is a requirement the man has, he should be sharing it early in the relationship, well before any planned pregnancy. This is like any other relationship requirement. Totally agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:43 AM
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I 100% agree. It's the right thing to do imo. If you aren't making your partner aware of a potential deal breaker to them, you're potentially keeping them in a relationship by ommission imo. Clearly this is a deal breaker for many people, so I think it's best for both parties that the mother is told.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:40 AM
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Ohh, no I just mean, after a while you start to remember certain usernames. And you can sometimes be like, "Oh, it's them. Let me guess -- they will defend men/women." I agree, it can be fun to argue sometimes though haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:39 AM
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It says you can't do it to "get the last word"? I'm only tempted to block people when I see their username and immediately know what their position will be based on the genders. It just clogs up the thread with predictable stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:56 PM
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The weather just stopped being too hot (for me anyway) too! I can finally wear hoodies aggaaiinn! Hope you enjoy your time here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:12 PM
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its more like, its a moot point. get a paternity test and solve your own problem. what the fuck do you want me to do about it? i can't provide evidence of paternity. (in the case of cheating, i would, one time only, be like, go through my phone then, idc. but with paternity there is no evidence i can just provide). its the guy putting labor on the woman when he could just solve the problem on his own. I agree with a lot of what you say, and it's interesting that you bring up what your therapist …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:15 PM
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Ahh, I see. But do guys... do stuff with them? Or just sleep in the bed with them??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:58 PM
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Do I want to Google a body pillow? I'm scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:54 PM
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why would you ask for a paternity test when they are $100 on amazon and you can just do one yourself? That raises an interesting point. In my opinion, I think a guy should tell his gf if he is going to get one. Not for drama (obviously), but I think it's the right thing to do. Discussion of this topic shows that there are women that will feel quite upset that their partner wants one. In fact, quite a few women say they'll end the relationship if their partner got one. I think you need to give yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:50 PM
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Perfect. Thank you for the response! Sorry to read about your personal story btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:13 PM
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I think my problem with those types is that, in practice, they do think all men/all women are like that. They will make an assumption about a stranger because "all women/men are like that", but when push comes to shove, they'll concede, "Okay, maybe not my mum/dad, they're one of the good ones." I agree that you'd probably be mentally ill to hate all men or women. But I think there's quite a few people that spread that rhetoric, and it's not harmless. Because in practice, until shown otherwise, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:11 PM
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Do you hate men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:03 PM
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why would anyone reject a paternity test? In the sense that, they would think asking for a paternity test would cause great offence, whereas discovering a secret "go bag" would be acceptable. I personally have a problem with neither. If I discovered my gf had a go bag, I wouldn't feel offended. She would just be preparing for a potential reality that we know people have gone through, no matter how perfect the relationship seems. they are less than $100 on amazon and the mother doesn't even need …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:48 PM
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LOL Yeah, you're right. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:20 PM
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Misogynists who dehumanise women in that way are awful people that need to be called out, surely? I think we should call out people that seem to hate half the population due to an immutable characteristic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:47 PM
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This ^ and actually for the women who do truly hate all men this is why usually. Theyve experienced countless men that truly hate all women and make women suffer so they figure they will do the same. Right? This is why misandry is justified, and tbh women are wonderful. Y'all males be telling on yourselves 🤣 🤣 R... right guuyysss???
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:42 PM
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Yeah, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:04 PM
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Sometimes we can’t explain our feelings through words.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:56 PM
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Hmm.... Not sure you thought this through. Overall, you make a relatively sound argument, but you forgot to add something like: ahem Right? 🤣 They're really telling on themselves 🤣 🤣 Males: "I have blue eyes" Also males: "I don't have blue eyes" Now ya'll know why we pick the bear 😆 Other than that, I agree with evety word you say, Windmill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:18 PM
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What do they do whilst the sun is down?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:48 PM
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One of the best threads on PPD. Great to see the responses!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:07 PM
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Cooties, too. They probably have cooties.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:03 PM
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but she also called me in the morning to ask if I was going and I said no. Respect to you for just saying no. I know lots of people that still get dragged into things because they can't say no to people. I'm not ragging on them, but it's a good quality you showed imo!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:20 AM
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Ugh... I wish! No, it's quite a bit before that😭 It was because his girl friend asked me to be her boyfriend, but I was already going on a "date" with her friend. Lame stuff 13 year olds argue about haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:31 AM
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I will occasionally have a memory of when this kid at my school said, "I don't like you. You're a womaniser. That's what you are." I didn't know what it meant at the time. But it still feels weird to imagine a 13 year old calling another 13 year old a womaniser. This was many years ago too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:20 AM
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Gotta s lot ot good stuff on! Who do you want to win tonight? I'm hoping Alexa Grasso beats Valentina. I like Valentina a lot, but Alexa has grown on me haha. I would not be surprised if Valentina pulls it off though. She's so good. I hope Merab beats Sean too. I'm a bit worried for him though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:17 AM
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Anyone else watching Noche UFC?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:59 PM
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It's really interesting tbh. This idea seems to be a big divide between some men and women on reddit. One side thinks it is so obviously a compliment One side thinks it is so obviously an insult. I would break up with my gf over this. No questions asked. I wouldn't even hesitate. I feel like it would be best for her too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:29 PM
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I was a bit more blue pill when I was younger. I feel bad because I gave my best friend lots of "just be yourself bro" advice. I only said it because it worked for me. But I didn't realise I was actually quite attractive and never had trouble with social skills (both through pure luck). So "being myself" just worked out. When I got older, I realised there's a lot more to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 01:46 AM
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I don't know about formal support groups, but there are lots of cool chatrooms that can take place in different environments (apartments, cinema etc.), and people will talk and play movies on the screen I've not gone in one but I'll sometimes see ones for "Religious debate", "Politics chat" etc. Support groups sounds interesting!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 01:42 AM
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No it's not. I have something in my pocket right now Girl clothes never have pockets. You got exposed. Windmill not a woman. Confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:08 PM
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hey guys.... 👋 AITA for asking my bf to move out after he told me what I can and can't watch on TV? I sat their quietly as he said things like, "YOU AREN'T WATCHING THAT SHIT! I AM THE MAN. MEN CONTROL FEMALES. YOU DO AS I SAY, OR YOU GET THE FUCK OUT! MEN RULE, FEMALES DROOL!" I really calmly and politely said, "Bryan. I understand your feelings. And I completely get that I might be at fault. But I think we need space. I will pay for a taxi for you, and you can have some space too." But I woke …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:56 AM
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Hi! Thank you for your response. I think finding out your husband has a child conceived while you believed you and he were monogamous isn't much different. Yeah, I would agree. I suppose the only difference is that, in the case of paternity fraud, the father would be led to believe the child is his. Whereas, for mothers, she would likely know whether or not the child is hers (unless they do something freaky at the hospital, swap the babies etc.) I'd think the emotional cost would keep it from qu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:19 AM
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That’s where requiring a paternity test is an act of cruelty and wrong. That's perfect. Thank you for responding!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:51 PM
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Dude they're not on their foreheads. Who tf says that? If you wanna know their body count, you need to make a deal with a Sexigami. If you make a deal with a Sexigami, it cuts your attractiveness in half, but you get Sexigami Eyes. This allows you to see a person's body count floating just above their heads. I didn't wanna tell you but ffs you're persuasive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:49 PM
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Lmao I love these fantasies you people come up with. Let me guess, Father Christmas is tooottaaalllyyyy fictional too, right? Geez you guys, cmon now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:29 PM
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Okay. They're not the same. They're completely different. Totes different, even. You support people carrying out paternity tests though, I assume? You support go bags and paternity tests, I am guessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:27 PM
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The paternity test is checking if somebody isn't who you think they are. They've wronged you in a way that you couldn't understand. It's a very simple test to ensure that the father knows they haven't been wronged, which we know can and does happen (though rarely) I disagree with mandatory tests. I would tell my gf that I'm getting one done, and if she said, "That's fucked up. Clearly we have different values. I'm leaving you!" I'd agree with her, and I'd even help her pack. EDIT: I should add..…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:26 PM
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Neither should be necessary, for sure. I shouldn't have to avoid walks alone at night, but sadly, it is a bit dangerous here. Both actions are done as a cautionary measure in the event that the person we are with may not be who we think they are. I see no problem with either, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:15 PM
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It's only happened with a few people when I bring it up. Essentially, I've always been in support of go bags and the like. I would never be offended if I discovered that my partner had one. We all know relationships where people change, become abusive etc. So it's very important that both parties have "exit plans" so to speak. When I've had this discussion with friends, it's always interesting to see them initially reject paternity tests (because its accusatory towards the mother), but support g…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:58 PM
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Okay -- so, you're still a virgin, so you haven't "robbed a bank" yet. Why haven't you "robbed a bank" yet? Is it only because of the consequences? Feel free to answer in DM if you prefer. I'm not trying to bait you, but I haven't spoke to somebody with your viewpoint before. So I'm trying to understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:56 PM
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Paternity tests, go bags, secret bank accounts I love seeing the mental gymnastics required to support one but not the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:50 PM
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Hahaha, that's so funny. She's like the masked magician that revealed how the tricks were done, innit. "This ancient knowledge has been passed down from generation to generation. Disciple... do you make this Vagina Oath, and swear to keep these secrets within the monolith?"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:48 PM
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Cooties too. The fathers normally have cooties.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:41 PM
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Okay, I don't care about innuendo. You don't want pity sex, but rape would be preferable to that? That makes absolutely no sense to me. Please DM me if you'd prefer. I'm trying to understand what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:02 PM
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I'm not trying to bait you or anything, but what do you mean "other way"? Is there some other euphemism you can use? Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:12 PM
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This story got me thinking about why I would never ever think to rape somebody, and why I'm repulsed by it. Even doing a rape "roleplay" (which ex gf have asked for), I would refuse. And it has nothing to do with consequences. Obviously it's fucked up, but even from a very selfish point of view, it can't be that fun to do? Many men on this sub constantly talk about wanting to be "genuinely desired", they don't wanna be second choice etc. etc. Those kind of guys (I would include myself as someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:29 AM
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I guess for a first time visitor, NYC might be a good bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:58 PM
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Damn. I am severe sight impaired, so not able to drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:57 PM
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I wanna visit America and just casually walk around and experience day to day life for like 3 months. I always do this when I go abroad. But my girlfriend said, "You can't just walk hour long distances in America. They expect everybody to drive or use public transport." She reckons the roads don't have lots of pedestrian crossings. That can't be true, right? I think she's messing with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:45 PM
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I agree!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:14 PM
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I agree, Windmill.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 06:53 PM
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I think you want to say, "vast majority". I always understood what you meant, so it's no big deal! I just thought, "Wait - have I been getting it wrong all this time?" Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:35 PM
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I notice you always say "fast" majority. I had to Google it because I thought I was going crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 01:19 PM
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So happy this comment is here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 01:10 PM
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I'm really enjoying it!! My gf and I will play Fable 2 co-op once I've finished Fable 1. What do you think of the brand new Fable being worked on? The graphics look very impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:15 PM
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I've only played Fable 1 so far, but basically, there are clothes, haircuts, beards, tattoos etc. Each item has an "attractiveness" stat. A lot of the things I'm picking are to make me evil and scary. I bought a home and thought it would be funny to get married whilst being this murderous awful villain. You can't play as a woman in this one. Not sure if they changed how it all works in Fable 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:01 PM
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I finally got back into playing Fable 1. I've made my character ugly and scary looking. He's a villain. You can't get a wife in the game without a certain level of "attractiveness". Wtf guys. Why is PPD infecting my game?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:52 PM
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OP, I think what you've realised is that... well, women are wonderful. I know it's not all males. Of course! Little three year old males can't do anything about it. They might even be one of the good ones. So it's not all, and thus I'm not a misandrist. Look at this way... Jelly beans. Imagine if you had a bag of jelly beans, but one would hurt you. And... I can't remember how the rest of it goes but they all live happily ever after. The End.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:48 PM
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Yeah, they just have some really bizarre posts though. Women can have bizarre posts too, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:53 PM
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No reason to believe she's not a woman. Women aren't a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:28 PM
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Personally, I think it's when a male (with cooties) pays a woman (no cooties) for sex. She takes the money and says, "Okay. Thanks. This is prostitution, right? We are about to do a prostitution thing? I'll only have sex with you because you paid me." He responds, "Yes. I am engaging in prostitution. I pay you this, and we have sex." She says, "Dude, are you sure? We are agreeing this is prostitution?' He responds, "I confirm this is prostitution. We are doing it. I told my friends its a prostit…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:43 PM
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I get what you're saying, but I think it's immoral to lie about it. If your answer makes them question the relationship, you need to give them that freedom. You shouldn't deny them that. It's like if a salesman told you a white lie about a product. Maybe the salesman thinks, "Well, that detail isn't a big deal to me" - right, but it's a big deal to the customer, and by lying, you aren't giving them the freedom to take it or leave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:14 PM
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Totally agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:05 PM
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twiddles fingers. looks at phone. throws paper ball at Jim Discuss Oh! Oh. Sorry, sorry. Yeah, I think there are people that crave validation, for sure. If I felt that my girlfriend was more attracted to somebody else, I'd just leave. Makes us both happy! I guess my only real disagreement is the idea that I think it makes other men more manly or whatever. I'm arrogant as fuck I know, but if my girlfriend wanted a guy because he was a taller or something, I wouldn't feel "less" at all. I already …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:17 PM
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But I don't really agree that misandry, actually hating all men simply for being men, is justified. To believe that to be a man is to be inherently evil. So if that's actually what OP is describing when they say misandry, I wholeheartedly disagree. Tbh, I don't think OP was saying that. I could be wrong though. So, it sounds like you agree with the OP. Thank you for responding!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:36 PM
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To preface, I don't fully agree with the post, but this is a really bad response. Which part don't you agree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:02 PM
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Cooties too. He probably had cooties.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:30 PM
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Oddly enough I can't match with straight women on dating apps. Not with that attitude, januarypessimist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:06 PM
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It worked out great for me. Seriously dude, if my girlfriend recoiled in horror because I opened up emotionally, then she can go be single, or find a guy who bottles them up. I don't give a fuck at that point tbh. I truly believe most adult women in a relationship desire that both parties are open emotionally. Maybe I'm just naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:56 AM
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it’s annoying to pretend to care about mens interests or what they talk about Yes! Exactly! I'm sure the feminists and egalitarians in this thread will give you a hard time. They'll call you out. Any minute now. They will. Definitely for sure. And then people like me and you have to waste our time arguing obvious facts with them, innit?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:39 AM
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I've always thought this too haha I remember reading about him here, and then I looked him up. Immediately I was like, "Yeah, of course people think he's attractive." He has typical masculine traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:17 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:51 AM
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He didn't, but I did. ...so lions really can't talk...?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:48 AM
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I don't downvote, but once somebody says, "You do realise that..." or "Story time" - I just ignore the comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:22 PM
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Yea but I go to debate class twice a week. I will point out her logical fallacy for not being interested, and she'll be forced to get with me based on fax and lojik alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:20 PM
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I've not seen the show, but in general, your quarrel should be with two camps: People who say "Women need to choose better at the very start." People who say, "Women can sense inceldom and misogyny immediately. This is why some men struggle." Both parties are suggesting that women have an innate ability to discern someone's motivations and sincerity. I have no doubt in my mind that you already call out people in camp 1 and camp 2 -- no doubt whatsoever, so you can safely ignore my comment!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:13 PM
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Cringe anime villain wannabe vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:08 PM
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For sure! That's why it's always important to discuss / debate with people based on arguments, not gender. Like on this sub, you often see men arguing with men, calling eachother out. And you definitely totally always see women arguing with women, calling eachother out. It's why I like this sub tbh!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:12 PM
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Lmao <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:17 AM
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What do you mean by sexual arousal? Like if a sex scene came on TV, men could decide whether or not their body got aroused?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:06 AM
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This is correct! Someone could say, " I want women to accept as fact that I am the richest man in the world." and it would work. Maybe my OP is a bit confusing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:59 AM
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Right? It's terrible seeing other women in this thread disagree with OP, but agree with the males. I'm sure you'll call them out. I definitely will after this episode of Fawlty Towers is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:31 PM
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Get males to treat women with respect??? Males are stinky tho 🤧 Women are just wonderful I think maybe tbh probably like wtf so fetch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:47 PM
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"Oofy doofy" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:01 PM
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But women literally wouldn’t wish terper hate on anyone, male or female. Women aren't a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:24 PM
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Ah, I see. Hopefully that helps out, u/FineDevelopment00
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:35 PM
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It reminded me of this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:47 PM
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I think it's a reference to a niche 1960s sitcom that originated in Argentina. It was later broadcasted again across TV in Europe, and then had a brief rerun in the Midwest of the United States. Can't remember the name though. So frustrating!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:52 PM
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I understand your frustration at not getting dates or whatever it is u/Bewpadewp - was this your frustration?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:01 AM
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Okay, fine. Seven foot then. There's no pleasing some people!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:16 AM
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Oh I know this one! The name of the horse is Sunday.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:22 AM
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An excellent post, OP. Well thought out, and I love how measured your arguments are! It's great to see that other feminists agree with your portrayal of males and women. I would only add that males have cooties eww stinky. Women are just better, like, omgwtfsooofetch.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:03 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 12:39 PM
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Not flowers (just don't care about them. More of a hassle really!), but me and my girlfriend will often get eachother random gifts. It's great! There was that one time she left me roses by the staaaiirrsss.... ...Surprises let me know she carrreesss....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:53 PM
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I looked through your thread, and cross checked the claims you make here with the actual comments there. I've come to ageee with you that males are, like, ew cooties gross. Women are, like, omgukiddingmesooofetch!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:42 AM
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Chill out, dude. I doubt you're terrible. Few people are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:43 PM
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I have to agree, OP. Like you, if I say, "Males have a tendency to harbour icky cooties." it doesn't mean I'm saying it's like totally fetch. It just is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:58 AM
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I've been with my partner twenty years. We don't want children, but if we were going to have one, I'd tell her ahead of time I want a paternity test on the child. If she wanted to break up over it, I would agree with her. Obviously our values didn't align, so I'd rather leave tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:38 PM
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Think of all the cooties 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:27 AM
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It's funny seeing males get upset about this 🤣 I agree with OP. As it stands, males are like icky stinky yuck. Gurl power is sooooo fetch!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:21 AM
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Reddit is social media I suppose. Give her your Reddit profile. That'll go down well, I imagine!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:52 AM
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No reason to believe this. Women aren't a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:48 AM
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Do you agree with the OP that the man should be able to waive all parental responsibilities?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:22 AM
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I mean, trans people are a tiny percentage of the population, but I'd like to make sure they're treated fairly in life innit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:19 AM
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Not heard that one before!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:56 PM
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Did you understand the first paragraph? I have no idea what they're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:21 PM
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Smelly males.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:50 PM
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Ah, I see! Thank you for your response. That makes a lot of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:10 PM
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Answering this as an egalitarian woman, I'm not a feminist. Slightly off-topic, and I bet you get asked this a lot, but what do you mean by that? I did some googling, and I found varying answers as to why some people identify as egalitarian vs feminist and vice versa. What is it that feminists do/believe in that you don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:40 PM
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This is just my personal experience. I don't know if it will be helpful at all. When I was younger, I got obsessed with the bass guitar because I loved the Red Hot Chili Peppers. I became good at the bass guitar and everybody at school and college wanted me in their bands. Through this, I organically was noticed by lots of people, including women. Had several relationships from there However, I was also lucky because I'm quite attractive and not fat. I never got into that stuff for women, I wasn…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:31 AM
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There are quite a few women in the comments of this thread justifying the existence of it. What do you think of their views?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:56 PM
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That's perfect. Thank you for your response!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:02 PM
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Hm. After careful consideration of all the facts, I think it's because males are just sort of stinky poo poo. Women are just like, better. omg wtf so fetch.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:52 PM
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What are your thoughts regarding the women that are turned off by the idea of being with a bisexual man?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:33 PM
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I hope she calls your bluff and makes you use flashcards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:59 PM
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Why are you mad when women accept your no? I'm not. Anyway, glad we had this chat! See you next week!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:38 PM
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Yeah, for sure. It was a meme response to her idea of valu-... Don't worry. Nevermind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:26 PM
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Lmao, so did I? I just looked it up, and some people say it means dark hair, some say dark "presence" My life has changed today.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:26 PM
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Pretty sure a person with a masters degree isn’t dumb Yeah... I'm saying, "Don't trade your intelligence to be smoking hot." Bless you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:14 PM
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I'd gladly trade my intelligence for being smoking hot. No way, dude!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:44 PM
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You don't have to hold back, you know. This is the Internet!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:18 PM
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Good luck, mate!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:14 PM
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Smelly males!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:04 PM
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I've never seen Seinfield, but I know Friends also had its share of male and female icks comedy. Janice's laugh being a famous one haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:00 PM
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no i dont have sympathy because its not okay to trick someone into being with you i have sympathy for the urge to lie, but not for actually doing it Ah, I see. I absolutely have sympathy for women who feel pressured to (edit: and act on) shave, wear makeup, be nurturing, and any other number of gender roles they face. I understand you don't and that's alright. I hope we can destigmatize people that diverge from gender roles, rather than telling them to man up and stop whining. We're definitely s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:48 PM
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In another comment, you said that gender roles suck for everybody, and that OP should agree with feminists on that. I definitely agree with feminists on that. I despise gender roles. But your comment here seems really insensitive haha. Do you not have sympathy for men and women that feel pressured to adhere to the gender roles and mask? I'm assuming they can't just turn it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:21 PM
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It's alright. I was joking. Bad joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:11 PM
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i no i guess i dint relise lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:53 PM
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Yeah, that was the... Nevermind. ur rite lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:40 PM
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bear Why is it always bears with you lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:32 PM
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You don't think there are dumb guys in relationships? I am one!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:31 PM
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You should do a main thread on it. Show these losers that smell yucky and have lame penises what's upppp.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:17 AM
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Also, I think it's part insecurity. I tell someone all the awful things about me first, so that way they'll leave me now instead of later when I'm attached. My girlfriend was like that at first, but it was because she had this OCD like obsession with "honesty". Like, if she didn't immediately say the "bad stuff" it would be lying, even if nobody asked her haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:43 PM
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You're saying he's in with a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:03 PM
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Agree with everything you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:45 PM
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Hahaha "Before we get married... I need to know you can trust me." "Of course, I trust you! We live together and everything. What else?" "I need to insert my dick inside your ass."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:41 PM
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I've never been into it, despite past girlfriends asking me to. I think one of them suggested it because she just assumed I wanted it? I don't want to shame anyone, but it's not for me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:21 PM
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It's an interesting point. I'm convinced these passport bro guys are just a little stinky and like ew omg wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:15 AM
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Maybe. But a commenter above you seems to agree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:13 AM
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Alas, I do think you're a troll anyway Even if she was, there seem to be others that agree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:42 AM
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So yucky and smelly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:39 AM
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showing that level of cheapness on a first date probably wasn’t the best move Awesome. Thank you for responding!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:42 AM
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Great points. So, what do you think of the person in the TikTok video? OP makes a wonderful point that its emblematic of the sort of low quality males that women have to deal with. Do you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:18 AM
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Nail on the head. Males are like smelly poo and stinky I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:58 AM
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Ohhh that's the worst. Especially with MMA haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 04:11 AM
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Anybody else watching UFC now?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 03:50 AM
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It's important to note that some people can just smell the inceldom and misogyny from a distance, so ensure that you work on yourself to remove these traits. For example, the fine gentleman in your photo, other than being a smooth operator with a killer smile, he obviously didn't harbour any ill will towards the women he approached. If he did, it would have been sniffed a mile away!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:23 PM
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Two points I agree with are: "Men/women aren't a monolith." will sometimes be said by the same people who say, "Oh, that bad thing? Men/women don't do that." They're a monolith when it suits them. I find it utterly boring and predictable when two people from a group have opposing views, but rather than argue with each other (God forbid), they will argue with the one person outside of their group. You will often see threads where OP makes a claim that women think X.. Someone will say, "OMG OP, no…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:14 AM
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Damn -- you've reached your limit with it, haven't you? Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:22 AM
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100% (no, 110% actually) agree with you. Men tend to be smelly and stuff. I think women aren't and are just like, better I think. 120% actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:19 AM
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I think the posts also show that the vast majority (women, feminists, egalitarians), do not care about the language. Since it's rarely ever called out by them. I actually thought that was the joke, but I think you might be right!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 05:31 PM
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If someone did all of the things on that list that'd be a huge turn off, it's too theatrical Would you change your mind at all if they did all those things, but also said: "Okay, pleeaaassee will you have sex with me? Oh, come on, dude. Please????? Why not? Come on, maaaatteee Why are you walking away? COME BAACKK!."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 12:28 AM
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Pulling out her chair at the restaurant I've had mixed results. Next time I will try and do this before she's sat down. I'll report back with my findings!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 12:24 AM
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Relax, mate 👍. Just saying women aren't a monolith. No reason to believe she's not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:40 AM
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I'm not so sure it's even a her. Women aren't a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:27 AM
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Totally agree. Women are just cooler at stuff than males imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:20 AM
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The Queen of PPD with another banger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:50 AM
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If you are dead then there is no point dating anyways. And this is precisely why the guys on this sub get nowhere. So defeatist!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:46 AM
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Yeah, I think that's true. And I didn't mean to suggest that you were personally telling men to call out other men! That said, there are also women that almost never experience sexual harassment / catcalling. I did a post asking some women here about it, and you can find posts on subs like TwoX where women are asking why they don't get catcalled. As always, women aren't a monolith I suppose. Link to my old thread about similar tipic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:58 PM
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Because men behaving badly when they know they are doing something wrong don’t do it around other men• Anecdotal, but this has been my experience for the most part. This is why it always confused me when people would say, "It's your responsibility too! Call out your friends for making misogynistic jokes. Tell them it's not cool to grope women!" Like we're all cool jocks in some 80s movie locker room. I'm not friends with those people. Why would I be?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:42 PM
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Maybe not that. Maybe, "You don't say No to me, wench!"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:06 PM
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Women aren't a hivemind, right? No reason to believe OP isn't a woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:48 PM
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I'll be honest, I didn't read the OP. Just messing around, mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:03 AM
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Duh. It depends on case by- DISCLAIMER: Of course it depends on case by case. I'm asking IN GENERAL. If you aggregate their experiences Pfft. Whatever, dude. I'm going home.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:32 AM
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Lmao. God I love PPD so much
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:09 AM
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Guess one place where they can be learned? They have Udemy courses for everything nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:07 PM
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No, that's one of her gimmicks, and I always use her posts as an example that it rarely ever gets called out, even by feminists (who you'd think would call it out, surely?) She's doing a public service, and her posts are responsible for like, 70% of the entertainment of this sub!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:09 PM
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When I was in a band at Uni, there was a woman who kept trying to get with me at every gig we did. To be fair, she stopped as soon as I told her I had a girlfriend. I spoke with my drummer about it, and it turns out he would sleep with her whenever he "got desperate." He called her "dial-a-shag". He'd only call her when he was drunk and no other girl wanted him after the gig. He's the only "player" I knew personally. It sucks because he's a great drummer haha. Does that fit your criteria? I've n…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:50 PM
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Omg. Sarah? Is that you? I've been scarred for life, ya big meanie!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:48 AM
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I do this too, but I've noticed some disadvtanges in the work place haha. It's like pro athletes who take steroids. It means that if you don't take steroids, you're at a major disadvantage. In the work place, when you're the only one practicing self-ownership, it can cone across like you're incompetent or something, or like you're being "down on yourself". Doesn't stop me from doing it, of course. Like you say, it's incredibly freeing and productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:46 AM
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This is true. You make an interesting point because many people will say things like, "Why would somebody lie? It's an anonymous forum. Who cares." But as you say, it can have emotional impact on people if they speak the truth. Or, to be more pessimistic, lots of people just hate the idea that "their enemy" feels that they have been proven right.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:40 AM
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It's between Melissa and Alice imo, but these games are so tough. Gun to my head, probably Alice. The main issue with Melissa is "stable career" might mean we can't travel a lot, but that's just an assumption based on little information. Maybe her career allows her to work and travel freely? EDIT: Just read again and realised Alice wants children. So, it's Melissa.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:09 PM
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I'd never heard of this either. We seem to be in the minority. A lot of women and men seem to be aware of this on PPD haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:59 PM
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Agreed, but there are some people here who can relate. Like https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/H0ysFIZmLB and https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/je9mClAKna So, there definitely are people that can relate to OPs premise! Maybe have a chat with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:34 AM
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I don't think a person is pathetic for being fat or not caring about their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:09 PM
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Not trying at all with her looks Being fat Damn, those seem a bit harsh!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:17 PM
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As you watch more media, see how many times a woman is called a "coward" vs how many times a male character would be. That's a good one to look for. It's almost like playing a game of "yellow car"! Although I do see more and more yellow cars lately. Wouldn't be much fun in New York I imagine...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:16 PM
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It looks like they made some mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:43 AM
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It looks like they made some mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:42 AM
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That’s a lot of effort to pretend I didn’t hit a nerve. If it helps, you struck a nerve with me. So, don't listen these guys. You've got better striking than Poatan!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:24 PM
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Wanna go on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:14 PM
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Queen, do you ever miss?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:25 PM
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Slampiggy sounds like a pokemon.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:21 PM
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It's not much to go on (fun idea, though). I only really need F + G, but "easy to get along with" is doing so much heavy lifting haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:18 PM
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We've been together nearly 20 years now. So, a decent amount of time. Like I say, maybe I'm unique. Or maybe I'm just wrong! As far as I know, she doesn't have a go-bag, but I'm just assuming I wouldn't be offended. If I got in that scenario for real, maybe I'd react differently. Logically, I would totally understand it. We all know men and women that have been cheated on, or abused, by partners nobody would expect it from.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:22 PM
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I don't know if that's true for everyone tbh. If I found out my girlfriend had a "go bag" in case I became abusive in the relationship, I wouldn't be offended that she had this "just in case". I'd totally understand the need for her to independently and reliably get away at any time. I don't know if that's unique, but we've been together for a long time, and I know she wouldn't care if I got a paternity test. If she did, the relationship would be over anyway, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:14 PM
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I agree with this. You are judged by your peers for how you present, regardless of whether or not that person would be romantically interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:20 PM
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I love the Cathy Newman reference, but we are probably the losers for knowing it, rather than this guy not knowing it haha. So you're saying that....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:18 PM
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I'm not saying you are insecure, because I don't know you after all, but if you are, there is nothing wrong with admitting it. I totally understand why men and women would be insecure, or concerned about how people will treat them if they don't look "good" Attractiveness makes such a huge difference to your life. Before I lost weight, I was insecure about my weight (although, I guess I still am now! It doesn't go away), but it's a totally rational insecurity imo I think some women that feel the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:13 PM
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This is absolutely true imo. I'll similarly see some people underestimate the time, effort, or enhancements required to achieve a "lean, but not too buff!' build haha. It's amazing what social media is doing to the male and female "gaze".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:09 PM
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Tbf, I think men whining about women gets more easily banned on reddit. So, this sub is kind of a haven.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:02 PM
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Do you think people generally react the same to both scenarios? Or are people more sympathetic to the man being controlled by his partner? I haven't heard this in a while, but it sucjs if people really are using it as an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:00 PM
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Yeah I know, I agree. It's just looks/perception, not based in any real depth. It's like if a guy says he likes certain hips because it shows a woman is healthy, he's just talking about what gives him tingles probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:20 PM
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Ohhhh, I see. Yeah, it's just looks then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:12 PM
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Making you laugh was my goal for today and now you've shut me down before I even got going.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:16 PM
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I didn't know that taller = healthier. Where are you sourcing that from? (Not being a dick, I'd just never heard that before.)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:13 PM
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Based on this, Mary. I don't believe in god though, so no idea if she'd be okay with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:36 AM
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Over there. On that thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:12 PM
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I can't build muscl- oh God dammit,I suck at this game.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:40 AM
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I don't know who those members are or what the cult is haha. You are way more into this, but it does sound fun! It reminds me of this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:33 AM
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I thought I was a bit in too deep with this stuff, but I have no idea who you're talking about. Maybe you're in a little... deeper than you thought? Haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 11:34 PM
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Toxic masculinity, alive and well on PPD. "I'm not actually toxic. I only say it to these guys who claim to be alphas!" - this argument is the same bad argument used by people that body shame fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:06 PM
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I'd ask her if she thought Rachel was in the wrong with the whole Mark situation. Come to think of it, it's a great PPD topic!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 07:53 PM
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If I was hit on by 80 year olds, I'd feel confused I suppose. Insulted? That sounds so insane haha. Definitely feels like I'd nr viewing them as lesser than me. God, it feels so gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:02 PM
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This kind of comment feels like we forget about the mental side of traumatic events sometimes. Have you never seen a much bigger guy be a bully victim? I used to see it at school all the time. If the big guy is frozen by fear, trauma, whatever it might be, then strength doesn't matter much. This is why my mum was able to physically abuse my dad growing up. He was terrified and frozen in fear. If we wanted, we could have all teamed up and beat the shit out of her. Why didn't we? We were scared. O…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:17 AM
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Women aren't a hivemind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:01 PM
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I don’t want a 6 headed, 6 dicked man, Yes, you do! The multitasking alone would be impressive. More gaslighting from the bluepillers, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:14 PM
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Look at you, asking questions to try and understand somebody else. You're doing it now, you sneaky little abuser!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:23 PM
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It doesn't happen all the time, but I will occasionally have the same comments thrown at me, and I've been in several relationships. My current one (hopefully my last!) is very long term. It only demonstrates to me the lack of humility and maturity from the person making the comment. You can safely write them off. I've no doubt there are women that experience the same kind of thing here. Somebody repeatedly tells them, "You've hit the wall, and your marriage is failing." - yet she herself knows …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:17 PM
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Yeah I was only messing around, mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 11:25 PM
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As a man, I can tell you that I am not influenced by social media or any sort of online consumption whatsoever. If you like my reddit comments, remember to smash that upvote button, and send an award! #man #lonewolf #scarierthanbear
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:40 PM
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Since when did I have to disclose that wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:28 PM
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When I go that way on my phone it opens up another thread from PPD, wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:33 AM
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Upvoted for spitting facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:00 PM
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Those ones over there. No. Yes, yes! Warmer. No, you're way past it now. There you go. Warmer, warmer. Perfect!! There. Those ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:05 PM
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Another banger as always, queen. Agree with every word you say. Nice to see quite a few people agree with you here 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:06 PM
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No, man. If I asked my male friend to go out for a beer and watch the new planet of the apes (When will it be on Disney+? WHEN??) and he said, "Nah." - I would be insane to respond in anger. It would be the same if a romantic interest rejected me. ...Though I must say I have no idea what feels like...😎 *
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:33 PM
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There are many women that would disagree with you, but yes, you and I agree. I just would expect consistency from those people that object to the language to object to it for both genders. I believe OP does it purposefully because it provides ammo for the anti-feminist group that can say: "Look! See! She can say women and males. She can liist 41 demands and claim its the bare minimum. She can say we should shame men for being pathetic if they want a sex robot, and all these women here will agree…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:58 PM
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But wouldn't people striving for equality across the gender spectrum want to call out dehumanising language, regardless of whether or not they are directly referenced? You would expect to see feminists of both genders to call OP out, no? It shouldn't just be the feminist men (and those men aren't using dehumanising language typically).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:47 PM
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But wouldn't it be silly of women to call it out (by your logic), since we have examples (like the OP) of women that do it? I wouldn't say "women" do it, just because a minority do. I'm sure you don't, for example. Just like I don't say "men and females" Haha. Men aren't a monolith. Women aren't a hivemind. Etc. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:39 PM
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Honestly, check out all their other threads where they do the males / women thing. It's very clear that one gets called out more than the other. I agree with you regarding writing from the opposite. I think this particular user does posts in an effort to get people to agree with the take and make everyone who agrees look a bit nuts haha. I could totally be wrong, but either way, I love their posts, and it makes the sub interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:38 PM
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I agree with all your takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:07 PM
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Please never let the mask slip. It will be tempting after a while, but I haaaate it when good online characters give in. Imagine if Nathan Fielder broke character all the time, it would be so lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:44 PM
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I think their posts are great! For example, the deliberate use of "Women and males" seems to be done to illustrate that hardly anybody ever calls them out on it, when of course they would be called out if it were "men and females.' I honestly think it's a great little character haha. We need interesting projects on this sub imo. I understand how it can frustrate those that want good faith discussions, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 09:31 AM
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Dude I'm really not! I have no dog in this stupid gender war. I agree with you 100% that hot people get more attention. It's pretty privilege, the halo effect, right? You answered the question clearly imo. You don't think women should go after pretty boy "chads" that can get any woman they want. You said something like that. The only bit I'm confused about is when you say 'women' (who aren't hivemind) are not going after those men, yet you also say those Chad's can get any woman they want? It so…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:46 PM
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I really wasn't trying to fish any particular answer out of you. I just wanted to check if you actually agreed with the advice, or if you were just flipping it on those guys as a gotcha thing. Like when some guys will say, "Women need to pull themselves up by their bootstraps and express no emotion." I'm thinking, "Wait, do you actually agree with that advice? Or you're just trying to 'own' sone stranger online?" Haha. They end uo agreeing with stuff they never normally would. Obviously women sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:26 PM
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Okay, but you agree with your advice? That some women who find themselves in a repeated cycle like this should maybe not go after the hottest guys, because the average guys might be kinder? Obviously it won't apply to all women (nor would it apply to all men).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:55 PM
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What if the vulnerability was something like: "Sorry I didn't shout back when that guy catcalled you. I was worried he might come over and kick my ass."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:04 PM
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But you do agree with the advice? You might suggest to some women on PPD that they stop focusing on the hot guys because sometimes the average guys are kinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:01 PM
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I think men and women do this. I'm a man, and I make attempts to hide my blemishes and promote my strengths, for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:57 PM
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It's not much to go on. I'd likely go with option B since that's a lot closer to my partner now. I don't think option A would like me either haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:56 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:21 AM
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My SO, without a doubt! Nothing against trees, of course. They seem lovely, and their bark is certainly worse than their bite.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:45 AM
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It is such a stupid rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:00 PM
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What about Whiney the Poo? Hmm?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:14 AM
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I actually forget sometimes tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:09 PM
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That's a horrible thing to say. I assume you're being facetious?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:31 PM
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That's such a shame, dude. It was a perfect opportunity to grow out of prejudice but instead people just double down no matter what. The mysognists and misandrists truly have so much in common I swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:01 AM
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That story of the Russian woman sounds absolutely horrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:02 PM
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Dp you get post-socializing anxiety? Like you can't sleep because you're thinking about things you said "wrong" or came off badly etc.?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:26 PM
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Kind of semi related, but who here has seen Grizzly Man? It's a seriously compelling documentary. I love it when the vast majority of a documentary is footage captured by the subject of the film. Check it out if you haven't!!! Anyone have any recommendations for similar style documentaries？
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:36 PM
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The bear thing has been discussed a lot. I really do want to avoid generalising men and women. Like earlier when some guy was asking, "How can you possibly trust women?" -- I said, I trust some and not some others. Some men want to control the people in their lives. Some women want to control the people in their lives. I dunno what to tell you. I'm not sexist I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:01 PM
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My girlfriend and I have been together 18 years. I'm doing fine. I don't know if you're confusing me with someone else you know. Have you seen the new Planet of the Apes btw?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:53 PM
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I so badly want to watch the new Planet of the Apes but there is no cinema in my area. Even if there was, I'm severely visually impaired. It's so much easier to watch at home. Let me pay money to rent it digitallyyyy!! I know piracy would be rampant though. Oh well. Anyway, yeah. Men want to control you or something. I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:50 PM
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Do men not see how much they tell on themselves with this stuff? How incapable they are of empathy, how untrustworthy they are, how disingenuous they are, and lastly, how embarrassing they are? The person posting this says they are a woman. Hopefully, this small moment has healed your prejudice! Reflect on why you assumed they were a man, and then reflect on how you were wrong. Please let this be a teachable moment! Please please 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:01 AM
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I just woke up, but if I understand all the added stipulations, you are basically saying that this person is incredibly unlikely to harm me. So, I'd go with the woman, of course haha.I have a million things more in common with the woman. I'm not sure why you had to make her believe it is morally okay to attempt ruining someone's life though. That doesn't exist in the "man vs bear" version, right? Unless you assume all men have some innate evil in them. DISCLAIMER: I watched Grizzly Man too many …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:56 AM
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There's nothing I like or dislike inherent to men or women. It feels weird to think about an entire gender in that way. I love you all, people of PPD!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:49 PM
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No women in my real life have answered "bear". Granted, they're all a bit older than a lot of people here I imagine. So I don't think it makes women as a whole seem unhinged or anything. But I don't think many people will say, "You picked bear? Holy shit. Rape really is bad!" So, if that was the point I don't know if it is effective. It's funny though haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:15 PM
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What about Cry Bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:03 PM
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The same slouched, craned neck pale skinned dorks I don't appreciate being doxed like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:45 PM
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I can't speak for other people, but I often see women and men using language in a hivemind sort of way. You'll often see some people say, "We (my gender) don't think like that/do that/ care about that." Implying a sort of hivemind. Or you will see people questioning posters of their own gender saying, "Are you really a woman/man?" because they have a take defending the other gender. Again, implying a kind of hivemind mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:55 PM
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The 'situstion' might change hut I don't know to what. I don't feel deceived by makeup. I assume a lot of women I meet wear makeup for all kinds of reasons, and I've stayed with my girlfriend for years not because of her makeup. I do think it's hypocritical if a woman that wears makeup thinks a man wearing lifts, or wearing a hat to hide his bald head, are being uniquely insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:43 PM
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I don't think I could handle being with somebody who just agrees with everything I say. Part of what makes my girlfriend and I feel whole (corny I know, leave me alone!) is that we have different views and support each other. Obviously, our core values are the same (she's not a racist, misandrist, mysoginist etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:34 PM
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That's it. You've asked for it. I'm going to write another Bumble post, but this time you can only use Bumble in an isolated forest with a bear, and the bear decides whether or not paternity tests should be mandatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:28 PM
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Why do you think they have changed the feature so that now women don't have to initiate? I am lucky enough to have avoided the burden of online dating apps haha, but it seems like that was one of the core features for Bumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:25 PM
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I think one of the best things men can do for their sanity is to delete TikTok so they stop getting all their shitty ideas from the app. Probably good for men and women haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:17 PM
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Men are not paying for the makeup. They're paying for the date You broke character! You said "men"! I'm telling the teacher on you now. I agree with you btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:41 AM
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Yeah, I wonder why she does that! I know lots of misogynists that do it because they are distancing women from being people like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:26 PM
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I don't know if I'm just noticing it more because I've been reading the sub more, but a lot of people just seem so mean and sassy to each other here. I see some usernames and instantly know what their take will be based on the gender being discussed haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:59 PM
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I love your flair btw! I've been wanting to see a ManBearPig joke ab9ut this for ages haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:51 PM
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My assumption was that the message is to express exactly why people should be cautious around all men. The idea is to use these two statistics to justify why people should be cautious of all men. Many people are reluctant to embrace the rhetoric because it mirrors the rhetoric that racists use regarding black people and crime rates. I'm guessing this is what OP was attempting to demonstrate. No idea why they couldn't be more direct about it in the OP though haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:45 PM
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The OP is suggesting a phrase to express exactly why some women will feel safe with a bear. "Despite making up 36% of the population, men represent 99% of sexual predators." It could use some tweaking, but what do you think of the core message?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:57 PM
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I wouldn't be friends with somebody that would negatively judge me due to the actions of somebody else. How could I trust them? I understand if we aren't friends though. If somebody said, "Honestly, I don't know you. This isn't good for either of us." I get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:28 AM
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Dude, I know haha! I think in the sequel we should change it from a bear to something else. Like, a sloth but it speaks English and does nothing but tell you boring anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:11 PM
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So you would think nothing of it if a guy said that and left the plane ? Perfect. Thank you for responding!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:09 PM
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Just out of interest, how would you feel if you saw a young person on an aeroplane say: "I'm getting off this plane because there are a lot of Muslims on board. I fear for my safety now." If you like, assume that they exit the plane via some sort of epic parachute jump. And they land in a forest alone... With a bear. Gid dammit!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:17 PM
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The OP of this comment thread will only respond to this one. MY PREDICTION. LOCK IT IN!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:08 PM
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I'm assuming you would extend the same empathy to racists or xenophobes who have personally suffered at the hands of individuals from minority groups? If so, hats off to you! (Not really, I'm insecure about my hair) I think empathy is a first step to a genuinely sincere and just world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:59 PM
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I don't know. Not to get philosophical, but there are probably some decisions guided by emotion which means society doesn't just kill people they deem burdens on the system. For example, when my dad decided to a punch a hole because he lost a darts match, he made a poor decision guided by emotion. But he obviously made lots of good decisions in his life too! What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:52 PM
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Would you be opposed to the phrase suggested by the OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:30 PM
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So, are you opposed to the phrase suggested by the OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:58 PM
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I think there are logical decision makers amongst men and women. And I think there are emotional decision makers amongst men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:59 AM
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That's an insane thing to say. A lot of good in the world has come from the fact that we all (men and women) can vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:11 AM
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Do you kind sir have any evidence to disprove this? I hope this isn't taken badly, but the way you write reminds of this: https://youtube.com/shorts/7YAhILzSzLI?si=BsW6N0EK4L2JVUH4 I wonder if it truly is a Reddit thing! Haha. I'm not saying you're wrong BTW, just thought it was funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:39 AM
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I don't know if it's true that either party is more wild than the other. I could only speak anecdotally. I think you'll find parties where women over step boundaries, and parties where men over step their boundaries. I just don't know enough. Not sure why I'm commenting. I probably shouldn't tap the little "Post" button. Ah, screw it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:28 AM
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I get what you're saying, but it sounds like you contradicted yourself a bit. If it was all about strength, why would you pick the panda? As you recognise, they may be stronger but it's because.... statistically... Pandas attacking humans is low (I don't know if that's true, but cmon dude, look how freaking cute they are!). So it sounds like you are basing it off of a combination of strength, statistics and temperament, not just strength in mind. Why would you oppose OPs suggestion of the phrase…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:21 AM
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LOL men keep changing the terms of the hypothetical to suit their argument. So now the bear is hungry and murderous, not merely doing its own thing as any female hiker in the woods? Why do you assume the poster is a man? Her flair says she's a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:12 PM
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What is the relevance of their attractiveness? I haven't seen OP explain it. Anyway -- a promiscuous person wouldn't share the same values as me. I'm in a long term relationship now, so maybe my view would be different if I had been single for last 17 years, but I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:04 PM
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Fellas, is it gay to wear a coat?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:09 PM
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women can't do bad things lol. And Think_Day is sexy af. KayRay1994 Checkmate. And thx btw, but don't shout about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:55 PM
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Funny stories?? Every fight I've been in, "win" or "lose" was pretty damn awful. Never want to do it again tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:43 AM
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Women aren't neurotic weirdos who compare themselves to abusive women. Women aren't a monolith, right? I'm just extending some empathy to the people (men or women) who feel slighted by remarks like "If an abuser is getting more positive attention than you, look at yourself." You can't speak for all women. They aren't a hivemind after all. But I only ever hear about men's experience with DV when it's in the service of telling women to shut up about a man that abused them. I appreciate your point,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:10 PM
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Absolutely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:11 PM
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I'm not sure if you meant to respond to me (my reddit mobile sometimes does that lol), but I would agree. If your potential partner thinks less of your gender group, then it's an early sign they will think less of you, and be abusive. I certainly wouldn't have got with my girlfriend if I felt she thought less of men as a whole. I'd be concerned that she'd assume I was less than her by default. ....I mean I am less than her but that's just councidence!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 11:59 PM
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If an abusive man gets more women than you, you need to take a good, hard look at yourself. That's kind of a horrible thing to say. Women have agency. Of course there are some abusive men "getting" (whatever that means) more women than some genuinely lovely, unattractive, non-abusive men. It can't be that people are moral failures for not attracting the opposite sex. That sounds crazy to me. There are abusive women that get more attention from men than some other women. Those other women shouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 11:32 PM
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Ah. I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:55 PM
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I don't think women generally are condescending. Neither are men. I think you'll meet people that are, sure. Women aren't a monolith after all. So, the idea that we'd need a gendered term seems off. Sinilar to how OP wants to use "hyoergamy" haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:52 PM
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Your comment got me thinking about what I consider shallow. I would only really consider immutable characteristics shallow. But then I thought, "Well, if I wanted a woman just because she had a high paying career thanks to her mum's company, I would feel kind of shallow." I guess... if the characteristics don't inform you much on the person's personality / character, I would call it shallow. What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:47 PM
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I agree with you! It's similar to "mansplaining" in that way. We have all met men and women that are condescending to us based on perceived gender roles (men assuming women don't know about tech / women assuming men don't know about household). Even men being condescending to other men, and women being condescending to other women. Similarly, I'm not sure why "hypergamy" should refer only to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:38 PM
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Yes! I think lots of people are. Both men and women. In fact, it's more like they don't want their "enemies" to feel like they've won. That's one of the reasons why you rarely see people say, "You're right. I was wrong." on the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:16 PM
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I expect that dating app Black Mirror episode to come to life. Great episode.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:55 PM
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I don't know. My girlfriend and I always say never to go food shopping when we're hungry haha. We end up buying way more than we need to because in our minds we're like, "Omg that'd be so good right now!" Post-hunger clarity allows us to make more sensible purchases haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:05 PM
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This happens a lot on the subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:53 AM
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However, the Q4W are usually such absolute bullshit, bottom-of-the-barrel gotcha attempts, that I cannot NOT be suspicious when I read something like that. I agree with you regarding the "gotcha attempts", for both Q4W and Q4M. What could be the gotcha attempt in this post though? Or am I being naive? Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:16 PM
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I'm cheating on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:16 PM
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I've been with my partner nearly 20 years at this point, and we have zero plans to have children. If we had one, I'd want a test. So, I'd let her know of my intentions (I'm not going to lie to her), and if she felt that the relationship was over because of that request, then I would agree with her. Clearly, our values do not match. I would leave. (Easy for me to say now. I'd probably be whimpering in a corner halfway through a second tub of Ben and Jerry's. But on reddit I'm a badass. You don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:50 PM
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I think they mean do it on the down low. On the hush hush. On the SNEAK.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:37 PM
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Have you just discovered that some women lie? You are such a clever boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:31 PM
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Okay, but what about women with partners? I'm here all week, folks!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:31 AM
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I kind of assumed that too. But if the OPs story is true, why did she text back in surprise and asking "why?". If I were her I'd think, 'Phew. I got to be polite, and he doesn't even want to call my bluff on it!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:32 PM
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I agree but why did you abandon me when I needed you the most?! ~ woody
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 07:53 PM
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Yeah I'm with you, but it sounded like you were shaming that user as somebody with no hobbies and "nothing better to do", when it turns out we all judge people for willingly hanging out / sleeping with awful people. It's not a big deal imo haha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:45 PM
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Hm? If some guy at my gym is best friends with a confirmed racist, and continues to willingly hang out with him - then I'll think negatively of him a bit and then move on. It's not a full time job or anything. Plenty of time to work on projects, hang out with your partner, and pursue your hobbies! Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:16 PM
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Yeah -- kinda confused me too. Unless they have some weird bias against men. No. Surely not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:43 PM
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Yeah, I agree. I've never seen catcalling as proof that the person is attracted to you. My experience with catcalling is that it typically happened in groups, almost like they were trying to impress their friends. If a lone person catcalled me in some secluded area, I'd be concerned because then I know their focus is on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:13 PM
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I think they agree with you. They meant that the Left feel the Right have a low opinion of the working class. And that left wing women share a similar "pull yourself up by your bootstraps" view of men. Maybe I've misunderstood it instead though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:18 PM
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Agree with every word you say. Great comment!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:16 PM
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Yeah, of course. I think the reality for many of us is that both partners work. My relationship is no different. I was just responding to the idea that a poll would show more men want to be a stay at home husband vs women that want to be with one. If the drawbacks of staying at home are known to many women and not known by many men (as the other comment seemed to suggest, but I could be wrong), you would expect there to be a balance in the poll, I.e. "Heck yeah! I wanna be a stay at home husband…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 08:10 AM
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I think you make a good point, but wouldn't it kind of balance out then? Like, lots of women would love to have a house husband because being a SAHM has so many drawbacks that they are aware of. I can only speak anecdotally, but as a man, I felt like an utter failure / useless person when I had no job and took care of the house. And yet, when my girlfriend had no job, she felt useless, and I never thought negatively of her at all for it. It's gonna depend on the people for sure. Being able to sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:41 PM
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Lmao why did this make me laugh so much
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:09 PM
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Yeah. Like I said, the problem solves itself, no? So, do you think men should feel insulted if their partner has a bug out bag? I guess everybody is different, but I would totally support anybody having one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:30 AM
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So you wouldn’t be insulted by her mistrust…good for you. That doesn’t change though, that some women have feelings about their partners not trusting them…..why shouldn’t they know? I wouldn't see it as some sort of direct mistrust. I'm very confident I won't lose my mind and become abusive. But we all know relationships that seem perfect for years and things can change for all sorts of reasons. If she wanted to have an emergency fund, or bug out bag, I wouldn't feel like she mistrusted me direc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:46 AM
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Why should your partner not know, that you don’t trust her? I feel like this logic is a bit misguided imo. I was reading the other day about women who have a relationship "bug out bag / go bag" in case their partner becomes abusive. Maybe because they've experienced abusive relationships in the past. I believe this is important, and honestly I think men and women should do this. If my girlfriend had one, and I later found out, I wouldn't be insulted. We've been together over 15 years now, but an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:15 AM
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