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| – | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipI hope you don’t ever procreate, and if you don’t I hope you never have a daughter (though you probably already wish that, don’t you?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 03:14 PM |
| – | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipI have no clue what you are trying to say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 02:54 PM |
| – | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipYes, thank you! Also; statistically speaking; there are way more men than women on dating apps. The ratio is something like 7:3. So yes, of course men get fewer matches and more rejections. That’s just basic math!! And let’s be real - most dating apps are glorified hookup platforms. No one (especially women genuinely looking for a meaningful connection) is rushing to Tinder hoping for emotional intimacy. This guy’s logic has quite literally transcended him. I don’t even know him, but based on hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 02:27 PM |
| 5 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipTotally agree. It’s always ironic how men and women are often looking for different things, yet it’s usually men doing the loudest complaining. They’ll talk about wanting something meaningful, but act in ways that show the exact opposite - then blame women when things don’t go their way. You can’t have it both ways: pushing for something casual while pretending it’s serious just to get what you want. It’s not just dishonest, it’s exhausting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 06:25 AM |
| 2 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipYou can’t just pin the declining birth rate PURELY on women’s independence or lack of enforced monogamy. A huge part of the issue is the economic reality that so many couples who actually want children simply can’t afford to have them. Stay-at-home parenting is no longer a viable option for most families; women are working not just by choice, but out of necessity. Wages haven’t kept up with living costs, childcare is unaffordable, and working conditions are often exploitative. If society were mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 06:21 AM |
| 7 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipFraming relationships as something society should “guarantee” just because that’s how it used to be is a really outdated take. Yes in the past, social structures were built around marriage and reproduction - but that was tied to survival, limited rights for women, and rigid gender roles. We’ve evolved since then. Today, relationships are based on autonomy and mutual choice, not obligation. There’s no solid evidence that society is “falling apart” because not everyone has a partner. Pew Research … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipPersonally, I think it often comes down to entitlement. I’ve seen plenty of women date men who are in a much lower socio-economic position, so it’s clearly not just about money or status. The real issue is when some men act like women should be interested in them or feel obligated to have sex with them, that mindset is just off. No one owes anyone attention, interest, or intimacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipWell it sounds to me like the modern man and modern women aren’t compatible since they both look for different things in a relationship, so why force it? Like I don’t understand. If being in a relationship with the opposite gender sucks, then why are we complaining about not being in one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 05:31 PM |
| 6 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipWell the evidence is that you are unable to pull any women or even have anyone be interested in you seriously/long-term. It’s so clear that you hate women. You’ve had bad experiences with women and you have met other men who also had bad experiences with women and came up with the whole narrative that dating sucks for the average men. Hate to break it you, but that’s not the case. The average man is out there having sex and being in relationships, you are just not surrounded by them. Look at the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 05:20 PM |
| 0 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipSounds to me like you low key hate women :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 05:13 PM |
| 4 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipWell it sounds to me like you are an “unattractive” person physically or personality wise. It doesn’t matter what you do, in a world where looks are everything, no matter how much effort you put in, nothing matters. Irl, there are so many people in relationships. By your logic it would be mean that attractive men are the only ones in relationships, and there really aren’t that many attractive people out there, statistically speaking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 05:10 PM |
| 7 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipWrong. I’m a conventional unattractive woman. I’m in my 20s and never been approached or liked by any man. I’ve always been invisible wherever I go, and don’t get acknowledged by anyone, both by men and women. But I’m not out here complaining and being upset by my circumstances, you can’t force attraction. I am not entitled to a man’s attention nor even intimacy. Being upset about the opposite gender’s disproval of me, does nothing for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipCorrelation does not equal causation. There are serval more concrete reasons as to why marriage and fertility rates are low, but that’s another argument. From what I’ve observed, I find it false. Most women end up datings/marrying men who are less attractive than them. Have you considered that you’re biased become of the type of women you choose to approach? Have you met women organically? Not in bars, clubs or dating apps where people are just looking to hookup with the hottest person they can … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 04:53 PM |
| 8 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipHave you considered that no one’s entitled to a relationship or even sex? If you want something transactional, you can always pay for companionship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipI’m be honest, the average “man” your describing is probably unattractive by society’s standards, physically or personality wise. I’m an unattractive woman who is pretty much invisible to men. I never get approached by anyone nor even acknowledged by others. It sucks but I honestly can’t blame others for not being interested, you can’t force attraction. Being unattractive sucks for both genders, you can’t blame a specific gender for it. If the average woman isn’t attracted to the average man, no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 04:36 PM |
| 17 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipHave you considered that men (like you for example) are willing to sleep/engage with women who they don’t really find that attractive but women chose not to sleep/engage with men they don’t find attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric Courtship“Don’t provide much in value” - can you elaborate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipI feel like it all boils down to the idea that men need women but women don’t need men. Both sexes clearly want different things so I don’t see it ever working out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipWomen don’t need men, but men need women. It’s that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 03:59 PM |
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