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Thinkforyerself/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 10:02 AM
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I wasn’t talking to you. But since you’re really bad at focusing on you I became your problem that’s all.
/r/MGTOW224/02/20 08:38 AM
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I feel super sad for these guys. The thing is it’s so easy to fix the one problem, which is trauma unless the person is a narcissist may they always have grace. But the ones who can fix themselves, damn, get someone to help you unpack and identify what’s eating you. And, learn to find who you are not based on reddit or “the holy thou shall not do from other people WHO-ARE-NOT-YOU!” Find YOU! Once you identify everything, get the very thing that protects you “awareness” not paranoia will you be a…
/r/MGTOW219/02/20 08:22 AM
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And, I still made you convince who you are to me and I still didn’t have to do anything. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 10:31 PM
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How is the man high value when he has no wisdom to regulate his self esteem? Where’s the wisdom in that? Just to let you know 007 is used to marketing terms to sell to the millions. The drama and stds, Hollywood is not responsible for. A man can have money, but if the end game is Harvey Winstein. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 10:29 PM
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Just make sure you find yourself another stable man so you can use the current one with his wives to pay for you and your stable guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 10:10 PM
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Nope go doesn’t really win, but Ho does take out the narc idiot out of the market so. That is the win. Idiots with idiots. Asmart person always perceives the glass always full. There will always be opportunities because smart people make them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 08:50 PM
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Ya, but player men are lost men and of course they accept lost women. C’mon, the world wins. People who make up shut about other people, who listens to shit? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 08:37 PM
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Alright old man. Lol, you’re so sensitive to strangers over the internet. Tell me what the other people in that nursing home tells you. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 08:34 PM
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You’re an old man who will die alone in a nursing home. You have no money and you’re broke. I don’t need to tell you who I am. I’mnot Stupid like you who needs the internet because your dad beat you up. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 08:26 PM
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Then find someone who isn’t mad with you, stupid! Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 08:11 PM
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Well, it’s a term. I should be more precise. Melina Gates, Michelle Obama, Jessica Alba and all those women. When the term “think like men” means think like everyone but know who you are. I am in the SF area. I see the women who fight over dumb things like pay but that comes with poor education from their parents. I see it on the film sets, I remember this one dumb chick, claims she was doing over 1kk as a software engineer and no one wanted to be around her. She was fired off that film set. How…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 08:07 PM
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You’re an idiot who wants alpha fucks when alpha in the long run dies with dementia. You don’t do your research and here you are spewing more shit. Your parents taught you were nothing and here you are trying to prove something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 07:59 PM
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Dude, you are second hand smoke to society and your parents made sure to treat you like shit that why you’re going around spewing your hit. Late 70s, you’renin a nursing home dying a lone because dementia got you. Good luck! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 07:57 PM
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Don’t even reply this idiot. He’s trying to manipulate you to believe what he’s normalized as what call shit behaviour. This discussion is over. Lol, tell me how hot women go for Old tinkly men. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 07:56 PM
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Most women will say that they won’t share, and they’re not lying, that’s how they really feel. Until the right guy comes a long. What the fuck is wrong with you? Till the right guy comes along. You must be so lost you don’t know who the fuck you are to say shit like that. Buddy, do you even know who are you? You sound like your family problems run super deep and you have no social skills to even utter “until the right guy comes a long.” Lol, figure yourself out. There is no right person who does…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 07:53 PM
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Unless the women have no clue who they are, which is usually the case. But, in all situations like this, this idea never long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 07:45 PM
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Dude, you must have the lowest self worth to even think pologamy. Do you even know who you are? Figure that me out and ask yourself what’s important to you? Seeking validation from somebody else or validating who you truly are. I irked with one chick like this at work where she was in a shared relationship. Could never keep her emotions out at the door, I fired her. When you need therapy, you need therapy for even allowing some idiot convince your worth sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 07:43 PM
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Dude man, you’re forced into a war torn country going through cultural revolution China, it was either survival be cannibalized by your own country men. Raise the red lantern was a good movie!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 07:39 PM
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Ya but let’s be frank. People who experiment really have no clue who they are. If it long term, never.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 07:38 PM
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Ya, but it’s usually narcissists who share this idea and we all know narcs are second hand smoke. Good thing Dementia is the downfall of narcs. Really? You’re going into pologamy to take care of that???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 07:37 PM
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I know ugh, you must not know who you are and have such low worth to normalize pologamy right? Lol, the monarch and Jeff warrens. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 07:35 PM
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Be a lone forever with nothing but corgis. The fact someone has that much control and needs that much validation. I question whether the omen in that marriage were conditioned to have such low worth. Please know Jeff Warrens and any monarchy is a fucked up. I mean we don’t even give a shit about the Royal Family. I don’t know if adult who would kneel to another adult. You have to not know who you are to accept and normalize shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 07:32 PM
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On top of that, your firm boundaries forces you SO to build tension for you and yourself hence making the experience of consent better. I love that you know your self worth! You make it exciting!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 09:16 PM
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It’s rape. Problem is it was going to happen. She has already been conditioned before the accepting the poor relationship with this idiot right. Any woman with a strong sense of self would never allow a person to touch her in any way. I would never allow myself to date this piece of shit let alone him getting angry with me at the haunted house. Mind you, I had to experience a lot and deal with people in the most kindest way, I would’ve rejected this idiot in the politest way before courting. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 09:13 PM
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Ya, I feel like she was conditioned to accept his abuse. But, OP who is crying about her statement is like fucking second hand smoke.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 09:00 PM
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Before even letting yourself go to bed with someone like that, I would have already asked the guy why he even slapped me in the first place! I would’ve avoided being raped in the morning. Hell, I would dump the mother fucker for even being that aggressive with me. Sadly, I feel like she has been conditioned to live a fucked up life. -_____-
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 08:58 PM
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Omg, please that boyfriend do not breed. His type is the shit on by his parents childhood and now the whole world has to suffer. That boyfriend is what we call useless because he will never have awareness and he has to validate his stupidity by manipulating others. The good thing because he already knows what type of personality disorder you have. After 70, Dementia will kill him. Lol, He is the second hand smoke to this society. The girl though, sadly. She grew up conditioned to be with shit li…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 08:56 PM
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Only if you let people effect you though. The saying is very true. You don’t put yourself first, you will come out last. :P.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 04:45 PM
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Hmmm, I don’t entirely agree with that either. I know women who think like men and don’t boast about how they can be exactly like men. But, they don’t call themselves men and they have very strong male figures in their lives. They are proud of who they are and what they represent and don’t emasculate their partners. I do ask this, are you talking about people you have met from your experience? Do you believe they know who they are? Do you believe they have come across to you as lost/aimless in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 09:17 AM
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Can I share this. Imo, resentment comes from poor coping skills and Thor are usually taught. Anyone knows life has it’s hard knocks but if we are not taught at a young age to have thick skin, I find it very hard for to ask for help when most people already have their own problems to begin with! :/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 09:07 AM
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Weeeeeeeeeeeeeell... I want to agree with you, but let me share this. :D. No matter how much I dislike or dislike the person, I can’t label that person a narcissist unless they’re actively seeking help THEN I can go on with the latter. I can, however, say the person has qualities that anyone and everyone should treat as red flags. Narcissism and Sociopaths are taught. It’s learned behaviour. It’s based on poor coping mechanism stemmed from parents who spoil the child for achievements but when it…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 08:42 AM
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To focus on me, man! The hell I care about your opinion. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 07:12 PM
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Only a few, but we get a long afterwards. People can’t read my mind so I’ll show them what’s on my mind. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 07:08 PM
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I don’t need to. I only asked for another opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 11:11 AM
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My understanding is misogyny- contempt of women and feminism- contempt for men. But both have hate. Lol, I don’t associate Narcissism with self love. How does a narcissist love themselves when they have to manipulate you to validate their self esteem. Faaaaaaar from self love. Far from self worth! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 10:42 AM
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If a dude touches me without consent, I do the smart thing like any human being pull aside and tell him to not touch me and also let him know I already know he doesn’t mean any harm but still don’t touch me. He does it again, I punch him out. Simple. If you have a problem with someone, tell them. Paranoia only happens when you don’t address it RIGHT AWAY!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 10:39 AM
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I highly doubt RP even understand why they’re angry in the first place. The thing about feminism and misogyny come from the exact same type of people Narcissists, but they I bet they dated each other to hate each other. The thing about these people is that narcissism never gets better and dementia kills them off. Why does someone like you, OP, care what these people think? Get to know you, don’t give a shit about how people look at you and be happy and grateful you still have the opportunity to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 09:58 AM
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Na, you’re too old for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 02:26 AM
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Lol, why you even bother to argue with me then. You must be insane too. Guess we can both be together then. When do you want to have coffee? I just like how you lie to yourself. It’s entertaining. It’s like you’ve failed everything in life and trying to cover up in hopes that no one’s see what you’re doing. How does it feel to be as old as you? Any words of wisdom? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 08:49 AM
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Easy women accept easy men. A person with a lot of wisdom, not saying she/he is better than the person you call “promiscuous” but will see someone who is that promiscuous comes with a lot of drama and that can effect work and everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:02 AM
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The thing is I have no right whether I know, like you or not. I have no right to tell you what you are. I know what you're dealing with and it’s not up to me to tell you what you are. I’m sure when you are having tough times, you will seek help. And when you seek help that is when I can give you a name. Although you may not have problems getting younger women for now. But you haven’t asked yourself the question would women younger than you want to take care of you when you can’t take care of you…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 01:38 AM
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Oh no, an old narcissist like you dies with dementia like all narcissists! Who wants to takre care of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:27 AM
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She has a right to reject you and she will and has. You can go find your 1%. But those people you find are just as sick as you. Do ya favor, we already know you have narcissism. Your fate of Dementia will set in like the other narcs and then you die. What else do you want to know old man?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 05:47 AM
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You can’t chance that people stare at you. What you can do if reinforce your boundaries and focus on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 05:36 AM
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Don’t think those guys don’t get away with murder. Most, in fact all narcissists, sociopaths, pscychooaths will die by Dementia. You know how hard the brain has to work to hold lies? They’ve never built coping mechanisms. Go to an old folks home. You can’t help but see these people could’ve saved themselves. Nope!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 05:32 AM
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Are attractive to broke women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 05:28 AM
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Biggest question, are you looking to get laid? Or, are you looking to build a life with? I think you need to ask yourself that question because anything you do, you have to do with intent!
/r/seduction30/12/18 01:26 AM
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Red pullers and gold diggers are always burned by their families. They just use relationships to hide that pain. Really, with a mom and dad giving their son healthy advice to date and face all their problems and understand people can be shitty would they go around searching for the answer. Almost every rich unhealthy guy and gold digging woman I’ve met says the following “how can I control them?” It’s like who the fuck controlled your childhood? It’s a fucking mess. Visit an old folks home. Tons…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 07:50 AM
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Dude, I’m going to tell you what’s happening and what you can improve on. What you’ve displayed in case 1 is being an absolute creep. Case two, white knighting which is also lying to yourself. If you are in the phase of wanting to smash. Let that be known. There’s nothing wrong going to people who you want meaningless sex with. Btw, you and the other person in your debate. Neither are right or wrong, it’s difference of opinions. But white knighting will get you absolutely nothing and you’re furt…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 07:42 AM
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It’s be yourself and know your self so well “what you like and don’t like” then ACCEPT someone who knows them self as well as you. Of course it hasn’t worked out. Have you put enough effort to get to know who-you-are???
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 07:30 AM
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Dude, gold diggers are made. Just like narcissists are made. These people aren’t born, they have shitty parents. Like this one chick I know, came from a well off family. Family lost all money, but the mom only talks to the daughter when she wants money from the daughter. Daughter grew up having to fight for herself, but she cane from with one shitty disorder narcissism. I remember billionaires rejecting her and she would tell me she was the one who rejected them. Her father doesn’t even acknowle…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 07:25 AM
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Thank god narcissts attract each other! Just wear birth control and don’t breed. People like that are the dumbest people who end up alone in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 07:18 AM
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You might have a point here. I know a very successful designer her soon to be husband is 15+ years older. She works super hard and makes her own money. She is in love. First thing I saw, was security. Never once did she mention about his wealth but the things he does for her. But the old food I got, ya he creeped me out. Not everyone is like that!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 11:08 AM
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Ya man. Dude, I had an old man throw money at me I took the money but never took him. First thing I remember was how creepy he was when he began to kiss my cheeks. I told him to stop and he was offended. The money was great though, but that old saggy body. You have to have a lot to offer to a younger woman besides money. And if you don’t want that transaction to give her solely money you have to work to establish a relationship. You can’t demand it, but by then why do I want to date my dad when …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 10:30 AM
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Doctors aren’t rich btw. Doctors do make bank, but they are still working class.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 10:24 AM
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You’re an angry old man with mom issues. You already know you’re dying alone in a nursing home. Of course you have no talent, how are you supposed to make bank? You’re just jealous of me. Why because what I have is what you lack. The youth to learn from your mistakes because no woman wants an angry bitter man who won’t make anyone feel safe! You can still learn but here you are trying to blind me. No way old man. You fucked your life over. I’m too young and happy for a stranger from the internet…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/18 08:14 AM
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O, you are old... ya, in grained. Oh well. You divorced too? You drink yourself to sleep too?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/18 01:06 PM
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Well, I am in my 20s and I still do model. Now, I am seeing a great guy and I make more money than he does but we never focus on what I make. We do both work hard to understand each other. I had to tell him he can hurt me sometimes and he understands because we took it slow and we started off as friends. I will tell you sound angry compared to the guy I date. You can tell you have a lot of anger because you’ve been choosing the wrong girls, but I bet you it’s because your parents didn’t teach yo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/18 09:06 PM
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Well, I did attract a doctor. But, when he told me the worst he could do to me was break my heart but kept trying to see me. I know myself pretty and manipulation doesn’t work well and I avoid thirsty peoplez. Why because I know there are many guys like you out there who can make an amazing home and not hold a MD and be Dave Chappelle. :D. We are out there, but I am a person who will take my time. I hate being forced. I just ask for one thing, I just want to feel safe! :D
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/18 10:23 AM
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I just want to hug you and let you know, I’m sorry one person showed you a horrible side of her. I also want to encourage you, not everyone of us is like that. The person you dealt with probably grew up in a terrible environment, and probably used you as a distraction to get away from reality. But don’t you think by focusing on the reasons why a lot of women are so terrible is wasting your time and distracting you from finding and amazing person? :D. I hope that helps! :D
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/18 10:18 AM
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Well, as a self made woman, it does scare me when a guy shows me his “Nice” car and asks me to come over to see his “nice” place, which also has some “nice” toys when he already won me over when we were able to bond over mutual things. I look for two things, safety and wisdom, that’s all I ask for! We ladies are out there, sometimes I want to hug those guys who believe just because one bad egg, all eggs are bad. :( And if wisdom and safety is a high price and my hypergamy, that is what I will wo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/18 10:12 AM
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Dude.. that women in the video talking. I already know who fucked her over and it isn’t herself. It was her parents, her parents paid for EVERYTHING. Worst trauma to have is being sheltered. She learned shit nothing. She’s trying to not to disclose because she’s trying to protect her pride. Her “Ums and Uhs” indicate she’s lost so she accepted someone lost and she carried those awful habits and now she sounds like 13 and still trapped at 13 in a older body. I know women who are district attorney…
/r/MGTOW29/08/18 06:19 AM
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Alright, I get it that you have pent up and I get you. That was frustrating. As a doctor, I encourage you to focus on you and be the bigger person. People hot or not are all humans. Your girlfriend likes, loves you because you two were able to connect in the most kindest way. Yes, the past hurts but it never makes for the future. Whether someone is having a bad day, you can be the bigger person and tell them their day will be great. Yes, you can’t save everyone but it starts with you, Mr. soon-t…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 07:06 AM
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What you’re dealing is with an individual with nothing but trauma. This guy shouldn’t even be dating at all! He needs to work on himself. You continue, you will be a full blown relationship addict because you’re allowing him to set the course. Of course men lead, but women always set the pace and vice versa. Whoever is the most stable one in the relationship. Ask yourself, what is this man to you. This is a journey that will test your self worth. I know this will hurt for me to say, but this is …
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 05:17 AM
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Dude, study relationship addiction. Take an addict and addict to attract one too. Bet you, understanding yourself and caring about you and only you will force you to be observant of a girl’s and ANYONE’s intentions and mental health. Codependency isn’t neediness, it’s addiction to control. Resolution, accept and take responsibility for your own trauma. Easier said than done.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 05:08 AM
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Wow this is a strong statement, but I get and I’mtaking to personal you’re ONLY talking about that one woman who is damaged and not ALL women. Yay!!! i’m So glad you can talk about but IDENTIFY a heavy stone omg person. Looks like you really took the time to get to know yourself to not stand for low self esteem behaviour. :D. Take it easy and go so slow, the tension and more importantly, a interdependent partnership is worth it in the long run! :D
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 05:00 AM
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If they’re billionaires, they’re more than 13s. Lol. But, those girls are very few and usually date other billionaires too. On that note, I suggest it’s better to focus on yourself and make you identity so strong, you will attract a girl who loves and values herself very much she’ll show you how to value and depend on yourself too.
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