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Have some self respect dude. She started by drunk texting you. Now she's dicking you around and disrespecting your valuable free time. She sounds like a total shit show. Don't text. I'd rather step on a pile of broken glass than hang out with a girl like that.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 03:17 PM
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I feel like no girl will ever live up to the same standards I hold for myself Yep, don't expect them to. Find a girl who looks up to you because you have those qualities, and then take her along for the ride. Get her into the gym and train her. Instead of sitting home eating ice cream and watching movies together every night, tell her that you're staying in and working on a hobby project, and encourage her to work on her hobbies too (don't literally order her to be productive, but be interested …
/r/askTRP09/12/19 03:09 PM
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Ultimatums are fine so long as they're swiftly and strictly enforced, and enforced in a matter-of-fact way without emotion. An example: Girl is rude. Guy says "Don't talk me to like that." Girl says "Fine." Girl is rude again 30 seconds later. Guy says "Don't talk to me like that, if you don't apologize right now I'm leaving." Girl gives some snarky insulting reply instead of apologizing. Guy puts on his shoes to leave. Girl says "Wait, no, stop. I'm sorry, OK? I was just..." Guy says "Try again…
/r/askTRP09/12/19 03:37 AM
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Don't bring it up. The thing with mate guarding is that it's a no-win situation. There's no case where bringing it up helps you: 1) Your friend is lower SMV. Your LTR would never be interested. Mate guarding would be weird (needless). 2) Your friend is similar or higher SMV. Your LTR is attracted to him, so she turns him down because spending time with him would feel like cheating. Mate guarding would be weird (excessive, you've already won). 3) Your friend is similar or higher SMV. Your LTR is …
/r/askTRP09/12/19 02:36 AM
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I'm in a similar financial position, and I'm also relatively new. Here are some tips: Investopedia is your friend. Learn about all the different markets and asset classes. Stocks, bonds, forex, commodities, etc... Stocks: You'll be keeping an eye on quarterly earning calls, examining company fundamentals, and taking some pride in your partial ownership of the company. Bonds: Low risk, fixed payout. Good place to park cash if you just want to beat inflation. Government/municipal bonds are safe un…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 09:58 PM
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Try not to let a single joke/thread run on for too long. Don't beat a dead horse. It was over when she said 'yeah, whenever you want to be put to shame.' It was over right there. You say 'Lol, adorable,' and then you move straight on to setting a date/time. When you go back and forth too many times like this it just gets nauseating. Don't feel obligated to try to "win" these by producing a better and better lines ad nauseam. Sometimes the right move is to just "lol" it and move the interaction a…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 10:10 AM
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Women can sometimes lay it on thick with social obligations. I usually advise men that it's their right to skip family holidays, work events, or friend gatherings at their own discretion. There are myriad good reasons to skip these things. That being said, your reasons here suck. You should go.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 10:02 AM
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I go to my LTR's work stuff. The whole crew gets black out wasted every single time. I never thought twice about it being a bad idea, but it's always been fine, I think.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 09:53 AM
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You know, I used to think through all this shit in the calculated way you're thinking through it here. You're not wrong, there are real subtexts here and responding in different ways for different effects can teach you things and give you results. After enough experience though, you eventually transcend all this bullshit. When I read a text like that my internal monologue is going "BITCH, WTF ARE YOU DOING RIGHT NOW!? This is extremely childish and disrespectful. Don't jerk me around. I have oth…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 09:43 AM
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+1. Cheating is fine. Men are not built to be monogamous. Harams used to be a normal thing for successful men. Lots of cultures still have side chicks and mistresses as normalized thing, and the uncovering of an affair isn't a world ending event. You should be slaying pussy left and right when you're in the early stages of an LTR, and this should be obvious to your LTR prospect. If she catches you cheating later on you should be able to say "Well, I mean, are you seriously surprised?" Monogamy i…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 09:07 AM
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Bang the girl while he watches, then take a shit on his floor to demonstrate even more dominance. Or maybe, you know, just forget about it and move on, because there are millions of girls out there without weird strings attached.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 09:00 AM
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A lot of girls pay lip service to being feminist just because it's the ambient environment they grew up in. Watch her behavior. Does she try to correct peoples' speech for PC-ness? Does she bash on men, male privilege, and complain about toxic masculinity? If she doesn't behave like a feminist then whatever, it's fine. Some girls saying their feminist is like that person who hasn't been to church in 25 years calling themselves Catholic.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 08:58 AM
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Don't mate guard. It's literally broadcasting an anxiety right out in public. If the other man has lower or similar SMV then the chance of anything happening, especially while you're there, is literally zero. So don't risk broadcasting your anxiety over literally nothing. If the other man has higher SMV then she should know what the deal is. If you've been running the relationship correctly then you should be fine. She'll think back to that time early on when she was a little rude to you and you…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 08:54 AM
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Yes, exactly. In these cases it's very obviously and very literally exactly that. That's what the 30 year old wants too, and if you fail to be her dominant daddy figure she'll nag you incessantly, call you a "man child," and then divorce rape you a few years later. They all want that dominant daddy figure, it just becomes harder for them to bring out that side in a man as they get older. Feminism certainly doesn't help. 30 year olds date up in age for the daddy vibe too. It's not uncommon to see…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 08:33 AM
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That's a weird question. Who cares. She was a 28 year old 7 approaching the wall. It's not like I reverse gang banged a group of 19 year old porn stars.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 08:26 AM
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Fair
/r/askTRP07/12/19 08:23 AM
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Yes, they do persist. It's a shit test. Keep up the quippy replies coming and don't buckle. "I don't know, I lost track at some point." "Uhh, like... a few thousand? I dunno, yeah, like 10,000 I think." "Oh, I'm a virgin actually. You couldn't tell?" "Do you want to fill out a Freedom of Information Act request or something?"
/r/askTRP07/12/19 08:21 AM
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Are you over 40?
/r/askTRP07/12/19 08:08 AM
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backup’s backup’s backup. Yup. That.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 08:07 AM
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I usually confirm the day of. "Yo. Dinner at 7 still?" A typical response form an interested girl will be "Yes!" Then you say "Cool, cya then." That's it. It's all about the tone. "Yo. Dinner at 7 still?" is very casual and matter of fact. Obviously, there are bad ways to go about this. If you want her to ghost on the spot you can go with "Hey! Remember me!? Are we on for 7 today? I mean, I'm looking forward to seeing you, but if you're busy that's totally OK, we can do whenever. But I hope you'…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 08:05 AM
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Stop engaging with this dude. He seems a bit off.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 07:41 AM
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I went out with a 28 year old 7 from Tinder once. We were talking about the nature of online dating and I asked her to show me her Tinder from her own phone. She had 2,500+ unread messages. That's why they ghost. A lot of the time it's not even conscious on the girl's part. You entertained her for 2 nanoseconds and she gave you her number, but then she goes to take a piss and when she gets back she already has 30 new matches to go through. She probably just straight up forgot about you.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 07:35 AM
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I'm 30. The average age of the girls I sleep with is 18-23. I wasn't really competent at dating until I started dating 18 year olds at age 28+. There are a lot of things that are just mandatory when you're 30 and you're out with an 18 year old: You will be setting the schedule, you will be picking the locations, you will be making all the decisions. You will be responsible for creating her comfort and enjoyment, but she will not be responsible for creating your comfort or enjoyment (if she recip…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 07:32 AM
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Agreed. He could respond playfully. "OK, well if you have any free time between frolicking in meadows and drowning in a pool full of puppies, we should hang out." Sometimes the girl doesn't even decide until after the fact if she was being flighty or flirty. If he fucks up she'll be saying "Ugh, I tried to bail on this guy but he just isn't getting the message." If he responds playfully and nails it then she'll be going "Hahah, I was giving him shit when we first met and he was just so cute abou…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 07:14 AM
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Yeah. I don't text girls either. In person I flat out ignore them as if they're literally not there. I also try not to look at them or make eye contact. Once in a while a random girl out in public will start riding my dick without prompting, and then I'll grace her with a "hello."
/r/askTRP07/12/19 07:06 AM
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The grammar and exposition here are so bad that I'm not even sure of what I just read. Improve your English. This is a pretty low bar, but being generally coherent and intelligible will help your SMV. Seriously.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 06:59 AM
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Trial and error. It'll get easier. One lesson for your experience here: I bet you could sense that the kiss wasn't going to happen, but you went for one anyway because "That's what you do at the end of a date." A first date doesn't have to involve a kiss. If it doesn't feel right then don't try to force it.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 06:57 AM
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/r/askTRP07/12/19 06:55 AM
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I think you're missing something here. Based on his other comments in this thread, OP seems to have serious social anxiety issues. Guys just starting out will get those newbie gains and then start wearing form fitting clothing. Their friends will say shit like "Did you paint that shirt on this morning?" Or maybe "So are you going to start punching people out on a regular basis now?" It's just guys playfully giving each other shit, but BP'ers with serious social anxiety won't know how to respond …
/r/askTRP07/12/19 06:49 AM
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Jesus, no. This is like giving the controller to a new player and watch them accidentally shoot a teammate, and then accidentally drop a grenade, and then in order to avoid the grenade they accidentally jump off a cliff. Don't send that. Lose her number, it's over. It never was in the first place. But there's a useful lesson here to be learned about texting. You shouldn't have Haha'd her message the next day, nor replied to it at all. It's a beta trait to try to continue every thread of conversa…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 06:36 AM
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Little baby can’t push himself to the gym 👶 You're not helping.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 06:22 AM
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You're not helping.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 06:22 AM
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I didn't really exercise at all until I was in my late 20's. I started when a friend showed me the 5x5 routine. Heavy weight lifting just felt so good. I did have a few of those excuses in my head earlier in life, but really I just didn't know how to work out properly. I'd go to the gym once or twice per year and do some stupid dumbbell curls and a few pushups. It was always tedious and didn't feel satisfying, so I put exercise in the permanent procrastination bin. That turned around when I lear…
/r/askTRP07/12/19 06:21 AM
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Yep, basically this.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 06:11 AM
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It sounds like you might be playing aloofness games a little too far in. Lots of guys make this mistake early on when learning game. You meet some girl at a bar and catch her interest by being all uninterested and socializing with everyone other than her. When you do interact with her you play the quippy shit-test-deflecting asshole. You get her number and then take forever to text her back. When she finally gets your text she thinks "OMG, I wasn't sure if this guy liked me. He finally texted!" …
/r/askTRP07/12/19 06:09 AM
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If you could tone down the asshole thing just a notch, that'd be great.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 05:47 AM
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Yeah, that definitely counts as flirting. But in that specific case remember that flirting is sometimes just intended as practice, and not meant to go any further. Men do it too. If you're interacting with someone of the opposite gender, and it's not a work situation, and there's some mutual attraction, then flirting is just the default mode of interaction. That sounds like what's happening there.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 05:45 AM
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I know, right? How have I never seen this before? Scrolling around one of the comment sections I see an entry from Roosh in 2013, "Good writing." She never loved me. She was just bored. Now she’s not. You can have her as long as she doesn’t have a better offer. Or a job. Her own money. A Nintendo. A dog. A Netflix show she likes. You can have her for as long as she’s desperate as you while everyone offers her everything. You need a woman so damaged she drives everyone else away. A woman as lonel…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/19 05:32 AM
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Take all of the advice here as you will, but keep in mind that both men and women will give you tremendously varied and inconsistent advice on how to do Tinder. Ultimately, reality is the only arbiter of your profile's quality; all that matters in the end is "Do you get quality matches? And do you get subsequent dates?" Try out different suggestions and see which ones actually work. Try not to get discouraged. Testing different Tinder strategies can be difficult because the competition is so bru…
/r/askTRP06/12/19 07:40 PM
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It sounds like you're giving this girl was too much attention. Her compliments are probably disingenuous and she probably sees you as a beta orbiter. Women get off on being mean to physically attractive men who display too many beta behaviors: "Hey, you're hot. But you're still kind of a loser. I'm going to give you compliments and then watch you get excited, and then I'm going to ignore you because it's funny how you don't get it." She's just trolling you for attention. Girls love free attentio…
/r/askTRP06/12/19 05:20 PM
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The 7 hour rule is a good rule of thumb. These things aren't immutable like gravity, but they're good reference points. If you're literally 1 in 100,000 in terms of physical attractiveness then this might not apply. If you're a multimillionaire rockstar this might not apply. Etc... There are more mundane circumstances too. Maybe you're interacting with a girl who is just passing through town. She's feeling adventurous and the prospect of chilling at your place sounds better than going back to he…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/19 08:45 PM
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