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| 1 | Best way to ask out, or give my number, to a shop workerSo I should play the horny desperate dog every single time I see a woman? Whether at work, groceries or the gym? I should give my 100% effort trying desperately to flirt with her and make her laugh? Is that what you’re saying? which guy can stand this for more than a week max? What if I just give up after trying with 99 women and then the 100th likes me but I don’t try hard enough? Just what if ? I should be horny and interested and annoying 24/7 in order to have any chance of impressing a woman… | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 08:40 PM |
| 1 | If a Girl Smiles at you and you Don't Even Smile Back/Look Her in the Eyes, Does She Get Offended?so live and die alone is the new life hack? | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 06:52 PM |
| 1 | If a Girl Smiles at you and you Don't Even Smile Back/Look Her in the Eyes, Does She Get Offended?well maybe that’s my paradox, I’m only attracted to “slutty looking girls” (your words not mine, I have nothing against dressing scantily, toplessness, I like it when women show their feminine side) but I only like listening to Chopin, Brahms, Wagner, Schubert etc, so maybe I very likely will stay single for good. Well to me, country music is slightly less trashy than hiphop🤷 maybe elegant, but worlds apart from piano and concertos | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 06:25 PM |
| 1 | If a Girl Smiles at you and you Don't Even Smile Back/Look Her in the Eyes, Does She Get Offended?yeah right, it’s being very specific to like piano and concertos, but if 99,99% of attractive girls only get wet to trash hiphop music of drake and weekend then it’s very broad and open minded, right? give me a break | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Men who are in long term relationships - did you ever feel that you will ‘miss out’?yeah, but old fashioned church dating, not the modern street give me your number dating, I highly doubt a therapist would help you with that | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Daygame problems with localsI didn’t say that there isn’t one single girl who is into classicals, I just said it’s almost impossible that said girl is also attractive, it’s just so lame and boring, I’ve seen hundreads and thousands of girls already, when they are attractive, all they wear is see thru leggings, all they listen to is degenerate hiphop trash, all they are attracted to is tall Chads or guys with hubdreads of followers on insta, it’s the same everywhere, it’s like a copy or cloning machine, they seem to be the … | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 06:00 PM |
| -3 | Best way to ask out, or give my number, to a shop workercome on stop fooling around with elegant words, a guy has to change a lot for a girl, a girl can just stay the way she is, very simple | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 05:56 PM |
| 1 | get girls numbers but cannot closeyes, more or less that’s true, you may get a number here and there, you may get a kiss here and there, hell you may even get married here and there, but ultimately they want the Chad, but in the case of marriage that would be catastrophic for the beta guy, because he has to pay for all the stupidity he did | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 05:33 PM |
| -6 | Best way to ask out, or give my number, to a shop workerBut why is it always the guy which has to give up his principles and the things he likes while the girl can stay the way she is without any concessions? | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Daygame problems with localsI’m actually very open minded when it comes to music taste, on parties and festivals I can very well dance and enjoy “normal” music, it’s the other side that can’t take anything which has anything to do with the old days, it has to be the trashiest most vile and uncultered music, at college some used to consider me a weirdo for listeing to Paul Mccartney and similar music, I mean of the modern music that’s some of the only ones still having some taste, but no, even such music is considered backw… | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 05:30 PM |
| 1 | If a Girl Smiles at you and you Don't Even Smile Back/Look Her in the Eyes, Does She Get Offended?But he’s saying the truth🤷 may girls play mind games with the second option guys, only so long until they get to their Chad (best 5-10% of guys), | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 05:20 PM |
| -1 | If a Girl Smiles at you and you Don't Even Smile Back/Look Her in the Eyes, Does She Get Offended?Are there any girls out there that are both attractive and have not fallen to the degenerate music trends? Like is it possible that out there some girl who goes to the gym and takes care of her body also happens to mostly like classical music of Brahms and Schumann and isn’t a fan of the modern music trends of hiphop and the likes? Or is that only a dream? | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 05:18 PM |
| -1 | Daygame problems with localsAre there any girls out there that are both attractive and have not fallen to the degenerate music trends? Like is it possible that out there some girl who goes to the gym and takes care of her body also happens to mostly like classical music of Brahms and Schumann and isn’t a fan of the modern music trends of hiphop and the likes? Or is that only a dream? | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 05:17 PM |
| 0 | Best way to ask out, or give my number, to a shop workerAre there any girls out there that are both attractive and have not fallen to the degenerate music trends? Like is it possible that out there some girl who goes to the gym and takes care of her body also happens to mostly like classical music of Brahms and Schumann and isn’t a fan of the modern music trends of hiphop and the likes? Or is that only a dream? | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 05:16 PM |
| 1 | get girls numbers but cannot closewhen you’re short, ugly, inferior in their eyes for whatever reasons, then all your approaches are only considedred a harrassment, I don’t want to deal with that sh!t, I fully believe that if you don’t 100% fulfill their criteria you’re better off disapppearing from their sight and their life altogether, that’s why I never took the girls seriously that flirt with me at the library (crazy stories to tell) or girls who want to sit on me at a party, they’re just messing with me, they only want the … | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 04:59 PM |
| 1 | get girls numbers but cannot closeok it’s not magic, it’s bs | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 04:55 PM |
| 1 | get girls numbers but cannot closeaha? So you see one of these typical see thru gym girls, you say I’m only looking for fwb, then it works because you’re being honest? 😂🤔 give me a break | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 04:22 PM |
| 1 | get girls numbers but cannot closeor I can just stay single and work on my abs and avoid these morons | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 04:20 PM |
| 1 | get girls numbers but cannot close“What separates you is confidence, integrity, and staying consistent.” Again huge contradictions from you, do guys who sleep around or have had several girlfriends have any integrity?😂🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 03:30 PM |
| 1 | get girls numbers but cannot closelol I think I’ll stick to the gym and cold showers and my pathetic approaches from time to time, and you can go to these qualified magicians😅 maybe they’ll suggest you to do yoga and chill out a bit? And let’s be honest here, we are writing in the seduction forum about dating and sex, which therapist cares the least about that? Do you really in your mind think they give a damn about a guy who can’t get pus$y? I think I would never mention my issue with women to anyone, let alone a psychiatrist o… | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 03:28 PM |
| 1 | get girls numbers but cannot closewhat moves? If I’m a huge burden on them and they think I’m a waste of oxygen, why would they want to be approached by me? I see their disgust before I even utter one syllable, or maybe I’m imagining this?🤔 in any case, my eyes don’t lie, I recognise when a girl isn’t interested right away so why bother, but then again there were girls who intensively flirted with me and sat on my lap (unasked) and I still didn’t say one word 🤷 | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 03:01 PM |
| 1 | get girls numbers but cannot closeWhat if you’re simply a boring, lame, low life loser? I’m not saying like literally, well I’m doing okay, I passed my exams so far, I can still pay my rent, my style is nice etc but I feel utterly boring and bored, there is no life in my everyday life, my only output is the gym, but otherwise nothing interesting to tell, well I do have a couple of things which are somewhat interesting, like a polyglot-like interest in 6 European languages, classical music and paintings, but which 20-30 yo girl w… | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 02:53 PM |
| 2 | How to stop being perceived as husband material?Well then I’m lost, I have no balance, I’m either needy and lowlife loser or confident self-assured but nihilistic/indifferent, but when I say indifferent it’s like literally, once a girl flirted heavily with me and then sat on my lap at a party (I didn’t tell her to do anything, all by herself) and I was in my indifferent mode so I just pushed her away and went home alone😓🤷 also I always had this voice inside me that tells me deep down that no girl wants to be with me anyway, so why bother, all… | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 10:23 AM |
| 1 | get girls numbers but cannot closehey its totally random but I think yoi’re cute and would like to mert up someday maybe for coffee? Something like that. I don’t have the ability nor the desire to be her clown and talk sh!t for half an hour like how PUAs do on youtube🤷 | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 10:21 AM |
| 1 | How to stop being perceived as husband material?haha too much value on a relationship? I’m the last person on earth to have a desire for a family wife and kids, I’m also not a ons guy, I just like romance and experience with women, but believe me, I like to cook my own food, listen to my own favourite music, I think I’ll get extremely bored and stressed out if I were to spend my whole life with someone. But kinda right, I feel that what I do doesn’t fulfill me at all, and some kind of relationship with a woman could fill that gap, I were that… | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 09:08 AM |
| 1 | How to stop being perceived as husband material?and what will they tell me? Sign up for a yoga class? 😅 stuff like that are the biggest bs, a cold shower gives me more confidence than these folks | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 09:06 AM |
| 1 | How to stop being perceived as husband material?where should I ever start? Everytime I start a new day with motivation, I get sunk back into the loser mentality because I spot some beautiful girl and I know that in that moment I have nothing to offer her, which in turn affects my progress in life and studies, I can’t improve the aspect of life and work if the aspect of dating doesn’t improve and vice versa, it’s a never ending loophole😓 I did survive years and years of wretched single life, gym helps with that too, but there is little desire … | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 08:52 AM |
| 1 | How to stop being perceived as husband material?haha why would they have any interest in you if you play uninterested and unavailable all the time and you’re not Tom Cruise? They would want to be with a guy they’re both attracted to and getting interest and initiative shown by him, but if a guy is unattractive they are rarely impressed by these little games | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 05:18 AM |
| 1 | How to stop being perceived as husband material?? | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Men who are in long term relationships - did you ever feel that you will ‘miss out’?well, depressed people, people with anxiety in life, sure, but when it comes to dating and women, no, never heard of someone benefitting from that🤷 | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 05:07 AM |
| 1 | get girls numbers but cannot closeyeah, well, just did some approaches and got numbers a couple of days ago, but no substance, no connection, went nowhere, was simply embarrassing | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 05:06 AM |
| -4 | Men who are in long term relationships - did you ever feel that you will ‘miss out’?lol that’s the reply people get for every issue in life, I never heard of someone having benefited from this | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 09:49 PM |
| 1 | get girls numbers but cannot closeok then where to start? I don’t feel like I have what it takes to become a successful doctor if things with women didn’t improve one mm my whole life, and I don’t feel confident around women because I don’t feel like I’m a successful person or that I’ve achieved something that makes me proud. At the same time you see guys barely finished high school and they get to know a new girl every week😕😓🤷 | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Is ‘Just be yourself’ good or terrible advice?sounds very easy, but the moment I see an attractive girl, I want to get to know her, and I know deep down I have nothing to offer, I don’t even know whether I want a ons, fwb, a relationship, or something in between, no idea, I see beautiful person, I just feel like spending time with them, but it’s like two people speaking two different languages, I don’t vibe with 99,999% of girls anyway😓🤷 | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 09:18 PM |
| 1 | get girls numbers but cannot closelol well I used to tell myself I’m an absolute winner two years ago when I approached like 200 girls for their numbers in total, I got nothing, nil, only having subjective confidence backed by nothing gets you nowhere | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 09:15 PM |
| 2 | get girls numbers but cannot closeI’m an absolute loser when it comes to talking to girls and relationships. So now I think I’ll just satisfy my urges from now on only with mastbation and then just get to do stuff of the day like studying, working and sport etc. ALTHOUGH it always makes me feel like sh!t afterwards😓 I have huge anxiety issues when it comes to relationships, I fear being responsible for someone else, I have anxiety of being “boyfriend” in the spotlight when the girlfriend wants to present him etc I also like how … | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 08:09 PM |
| 1 | get girls numbers but cannot closewtf is there to talk about and seduce nowadays? The whole world is collapsing with inflation, war and immigration. I really don’t understand you guys🤷 | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 08:08 PM |
| 2 | 24 year old virgin with mindset issues, help appreciatedI’m an absolute loser when it comes to talking to girls and relationships. So now I think I’ll just satisfy my urges from now on only with mastbation and then just get to do stuff of the day like studying, working and sport etc. ALTHOUGH it always makes me feel like sh!t afterwards😓 I have huge anxiety issues when it comes to relationships, I fear being responsible for someone else, I have anxiety of being “boyfriend” in the spotlight when the girlfriend wants to present him etc I also like how … | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 08:07 PM |
| 0 | Is ‘Just be yourself’ good or terrible advice?I’m an absolute loser when it comes to talking to girls and relationships. So now I think I’ll just satisfy my urges from now on only with mastbation and then just get to do stuff of the day like studying, working and sport etc. ALTHOUGH it always makes me feel like sh!t afterwards😓 I have huge anxiety issues when it comes to relationships, I fear being responsible for someone else, I have anxiety of being “boyfriend” in the spotlight when the girlfriend wants to present him etc I also like how … | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Is ‘Just be yourself’ good or terrible advice?Yeah right, be yourself… There is nothing I love more than the music of Schubert and Mozart, and old paintings. I challenge you if there is one single girl out of millions and billions of girls who would accept me for what I like and wouldn’t say I’m a weirdo and backwards because I love classical music, so much for “being yourself” So my only chance to ever have a girlfriend with girls, let alone have the slightest interaction with girls nowadays, is for me to act like I’m a fan of degenerate h… | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 08:05 PM |
| – | What Am I Missing?I’m an absolute loser when it comes to talking to girls and relationships. So now I think I’ll just satisfy my urges from now on only with mastbation and then just get to do stuff of the day like studying, working and sport etc. ALTHOUGH it always makes me feel like sh!t afterwards😓 I have huge anxiety issues when it comes to relationships, I fear being responsible for someone else, I have anxiety of being “boyfriend” in the spotlight when the girlfriend wants to present him etc I also like how … | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 08:03 PM |
| 1 | How to approach and talk to girl in metro, Who's a 9 or 10?If you’re above 185 cm you’re good, otherwise, don’t ever even think about it, the 8s and 9s (a 10 is a 9 but each of us makes a certain girl a 10, but there is no 10🤷) anyway, the 8s and 9s most of the time look at me like I’m a subhuman and a waste of oxygen just if I dared look them in the eye, only because I’m slightly below 180 cm🤷 disgusting. Apparently a couple of centimeters decide on your worth as a human being😓😕 And I actually don’t look so bad, my face is a solid 7/10 (confirmed to me… | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 08:01 PM |
| -3 | How to stop being perceived as husband material?I’m an absolute loser when it comes to talking to girls and relationships. So now I think I’ll just satisfy my urges from now on only with mastbation and then just get to do stuff of the day like studying, working and sport etc. ALTHOUGH it always makes me feel like sh!t afterwards😓 I have huge anxiety issues when it comes to relationships, I fear being responsible for someone else, I have anxiety of being “boyfriend” in the spotlight when the girlfriend wants to present him etc I also like how … | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Men who are in long term relationships - did you ever feel that you will ‘miss out’?I’m an absolute loser when it comes to talking to girls and relationships. So now I think I’ll just satisfy my urges from now on only with mastbation and then just get to do stuff of the day like studying, working and sport etc. ALTHOUGH it always makes me feel like sh!t afterwards😓 I have huge anxiety issues when it comes to relationships, I fear being responsible for someone else, I have anxiety of being “boyfriend” in the spotlight when the girlfriend wants to present him etc I also like how … | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 07:54 PM |
| -9 | Men who are in long term relationships - did you ever feel that you will ‘miss out’?I’m an absolute loser when it comes to talking to girls and relationships. So now I think I’ll just satisfy my urges from now on only with mastbation and then just get to do stuff of the day like studying, working and sport etc. ALTHOUGH it always makes me feel like sh!t afterwards😓 I have huge anxiety issues when it comes to relationships, I fear being responsible for someone else, I have anxiety of being “boyfriend” in the spotlight when the girlfriend wants to present him etc I also like how … | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 07:54 PM |
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