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| 145 | Happy International Womens Day | QUEEN SUPREME | This-Register | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 02:05 PM |
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| 3 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.What you're saying is true but liberal straight women will never admit that because most of them tend to moralizing their dating preferences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 02:04 AM |
| – | Women dislike weak and shy guys more than violent misogynists and I'll die on that hillTo be fair, they also only befriend women who are like that as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Most young women prefer bad boys, but they would almost never admit itLool true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 07:47 PM |
| 0 | Most young women prefer bad boys, but they would almost never admit itThey do but they'll never admit it, funny you think they will admit that here tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Women know when other women are low quality. Redpill Men chase them and call it 'Female Nature'.Alot of women do not outgrow the high school cliquey behavior( even well into there late 30s) and as such any woman that doesnt fit into their circlejerk of a group gets labeled all sorts of things because they have to fill in the gaps themselves since they dont know her very well. So technically in their minds, if they paint her as "low quality" then thats the truth in their minds. Its far easier to dehumanize a "slut" or a "pickme" than someone who is just trying to live their lives as they ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 01:38 AM |
| 15 | You can't LOGIC your way into a women's heart. For men here - autistic analysis of every single detail is one of the reason for failure in dating.Its amazing how they just throw around the word autism like its a quirk or something as if its not a real disorder with a whole spectrum dedicated to it lool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 04:27 PM |
| 3 | You can't LOGIC your way into a women's heart. For men here - autistic analysis of every single detail is one of the reason for failure in dating.idk ive never met an emotionally intelligent woman in my life, if youre autistic or neurodivergent they dont try to understand why that is when they can simply deal with someone else who is easier to vibe with. Women can be exceptionally judgmental unfortunately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 04:24 PM |
| 5 | Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠This used to be true before social media dictated that the standards must be perfect in order for you to generate any sort of social currency with people. Nowadays youve got have the finances, social popularity, ideal body type and be an all around "successful" person in order to really date women these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 05:25 PM |
| 4 | Most men here don't just have dating problem, they're severely under-socialized in general.Yea, exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Most men here don't just have dating problem, they're severely under-socialized in general.However, I want to object - just like no one is owed a relationship, also a relationship cannot be gatekept behind vague criteria like "proper socialization" or BS like "you need to love yourself first". I agree with you tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 09:11 PM |
| 3 | Prediction: More and more men will opt out of pursuing LTRs with women because it's not worth it (unless you want kids and a family)I mean this is already happening if you think about it. Just look at the type of guys women go for these days, there are very few of them to go around already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 03:01 PM |
| 2 | What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender?Alot of women dont practice what they preach as it relates to dating or relationships. They use their standards in dating as a hallmark to show their morality and good nature but in reality attraction is still blind and unfair and they end up dating the exact opposite of what they say they're attracted to. Oftentimes, this is why you cant really ask them for dating advice because theyre not even aware they do this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 12:13 AM |
| 18 | Man flu is real and proves that women don't have empathy for men.Idk bro that sounds like a typical flu to me. Women can get that too yk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 12:24 PM |
| 3 | Being confident doesn’t matter if you’re not seen as competent.Bro is being so self-righteous like he's not also chronically online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Being confident doesn’t matter if you’re not seen as competent.They will try to disagree but its true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Women consistently reinforce that attraction is Amoral. Yet continue to moralize unsuccessful Mens inability to be selected. Depending on Narrative and ContextI mean, women or men who try to moralize dating and the failings of it also feel the same about loners or neurodivergent people. In their minds, being a social butterfly whose both physically attractive and having all your ducks in a row is the way how they classify a person as being safe/deserving of more of the same. To me, its just natural selection wrapped us as new-age filters women use to govern their interactions with people because its overall safer for them. And yes, women also use this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 07:26 PM |
| – | Most men do not have passions or hobbies in their life because they focus more on getting a job and making money, even if it is not what they are passionate about, for a stable family.Well I guess it varies from culture to culture but in Jamaica where I'm from most of the men I know are heavy football and cricket fans, very sports-oriented. Alot of them like video games too as do I. What's the problem with that? It doesn't need to change the world to be a hobby. Most of the women I know irl love to go shopping and go to the salon or read. That's not changing the world as far as I reckon but women enjoy what they enjoy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 11:56 PM |
| – | Most men do not have passions or hobbies in their life because they focus more on getting a job and making money, even if it is not what they are passionate about, for a stable family.Idk I find more men these days to have a variety of hobbies while women are the ones struggling to get into hobbies on average. That is just my anecdotal experience though, I assume it varies for different people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 11:49 PM |
| 0 | If you are not willing to adapt to the dating market, your complaints about dating is unreasonable.Exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 07:55 PM |
| – | There are women who care about status too and that includes a man's social skills.I addressed what you said but you're choosing to ignore the point because it doesn't suit your agenda. In all that you wrote, all I could tell is that you have some hung up on men being socially popular in order to get with women. If you actually lived in the real world we'd not on reddit, you would know those men men are the ones statistically higher to cheat/ pump and dump and abuse you guys but because you'll never adjust your preferences and there are so few men of that caliber available to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 02:19 PM |
| – | There are women who care about status too and that includes a man's social skills.I as a lesbian woman am also telling you that the metrics you go about attempting to find men is literally the reason why you have the gripes you do with men. It's not a hive mind Lithe, just because a select few silly women decide to date socially popular men who pump and dump you or cheat on you doesn't mean that that's the same for all women. It's not our fault you're clueless to that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 02:06 PM |
| – | There are women who care about status too and that includes a man's social skills.And this is why women seem to be "struggling" with dating these days because they all want above average men but there simply aren't enough of them to go around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 01:35 PM |
| – | There are women who care about status too and that includes a man's social skills.Then why are there so many men who refuse to learn social skills? Then why are so many men refusing to go get good jobs? Because that's also a gripe for women, some of you think having status equates to being a good person when that's usually very far from the case. Most of the women ik irl who have plenty of friends are nasty, rude and pigheaded and bully whoever doesn't fit in and as such they go after men who are like that. Those same guys are the ones most women complain about when they talk… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 01:09 PM |
| 0 | Men need to let go of the need to constantly defend women whenever they are criticised.They think being simps will fix their problems. If they actually spoke to women irl they'd know that having a little backbone is sexy to women. It's the simps and apologists that get used and rejected constantly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 11:48 AM |
| – | Men going their own way is not the answer against feminism.I love practicing mgtow tbh cause dating women these days is pointless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/26 08:05 PM |
| -1 | Men have so it so easyIts true, women will put up with alot more from men than vice versa. Edit: downvote me idc, I dont live on reddit like the lot of you and Ive seen it play out that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 04:20 PM |
| 0 | There are women who care about status too and that includes a man's social skills.Status is about the only thing most women go by in terms of dating tbh, because of how unsafe men can make them feel in general, they tend to go after men with wide social circles who will vouch for them. Does this mean youre an inherently awful and untrustworthy person if you have no friends or very few? No but its indicative that youre not a "normie" and it would take more effort to vet you. Most neurodivergent people fall into this category and unless you make a concerted effort to change who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 04:05 PM |
| 3 | There is no such thing as a men having a skill issue.To be fair, for many its a coping mechanism because life in reality can be unbearably cruel to some people so for others its safer for them to assume its a shortcoming that can be fixed rather than an issue of unfortunate circumstances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Women choosing abusive men is a skill issueWomen love themselves a good Chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 07:04 PM |
| 5 | Men need to stop trying to get women to like them.Yea I agree. If someone likes you, they'll make the effort. You could be a jobless lazy bum and if a woman or man likes you, they will let you know. No amount of working for it will make them like you if they already didn't like you in the first place. If anything, you'll just end up humiliating yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 01:56 AM |
| 10 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choicesCause it's very common and I'm tired of people scapegoating neurodivergents and incels for this. I get we're an easy target but it's certainly not my fault yall choose so poorly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 12:46 AM |
| 12 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choicesYea, every woman will think they're the exception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 12:32 PM |
| 4 | I think a large percentage of men are dropping out of dating because there is no love at the end of the tunnelIt's been a long time since I've read a post on here and came to the end of it wondering what on earth they were trying to say. Wow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 11:22 AM |
| 52 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choicesThis is honestly pretty fair. Most women go after Charming bums who couldn't care less about them in the long run then place their bad behavior unto men they wouldn't date. They're both trying to free themselves from accountability while also protecting the kind of men they're attracted to which is why you can't really feel sympathy for them when it doesn't pan out how they expect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 05:11 PM |
| 7 | unselected men for some reason blamed for the behavior of the men women actually chooseBecause they don't want any other kind of guy. They want th9se guys to change their behavior so they generalize to make it seem like a "men" problem. Doing that shifts blame away from their piss poor choices | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Women "love" men for what they do for them, not who they are.Yea, this is true. Especially In today's dating world where things are so tough financially | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Women have no idea what an average man isIt's not a problem solely exclusive to women though, men do this too. People will want the best of the best to date yk, nobody's going to waste their time dating someone whose average because society on a whole doesn't really value average people especially in a capitalist society where you're always moving to get the next best thing. It's sad but that's reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 02:42 AM |
| 5 | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.Yea, its very hard to find women who arent into using you for what you can provide, whats worse is that the behaviour is not frowned upon so alot of them will gladly do it because of the validation. Dont feel too bad about it though, women who partake in this sort of parasitic approach towards people, dont just do it to men, nobody is spared when it comes onto to getting what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Some women or some feminists only say that MGTOW men should actually go their own way, because they think only losers are MGTOW.Yup, straight women would lose their minds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 12:25 PM |
| 5 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.That's quite fine, as long as they don't jump to 2 or 3 when they find out that they're just another option for 1. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.This is the question indeed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 12:53 AM |
| 0 | You’re not a good person just because you proclaim so.I personally think it's because they're looking for handouts why they keep trying to push this narritive cause it's definitely not true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 05:07 PM |
| 11 | You’re not a good person just because you proclaim so.That's why I stopped trying to be a good person amd going out of my way for people in general cause people use that as a means to take advantage rather than pay it forward. Focus on giving kindness to those who show kindness to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 05:06 PM |
| – | Men who have trouble dating just need to leave it alone and focus on other thingsThis is truth. Unattractive women have learned to focus on other things like hobbies, career, friends or traveling. One thing you learn about dating in general is that people tend to do alot more virtue signaling as it relates to who they say they're attracted to vs who they're actually attracted to. At the end of the day, you've just gotta learn that it all still comes down to basic biology, the best are chosen and the rest are not. It's life 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 04:39 PM |
| – | Most people will find love if they achieve the following things:This is truest comment in this entire comment section. Wow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 11:08 PM |
| 8 | Most people will find love if they achieve the following things:You know, like the type of men that view themselves as predators and all women as prey (🐟). I love the part where you answered my question but now you're strawmanning about my predator vs prey analogy to distract from the fact that you yourself would probably never date an unattractive poor person. As a queer woman myself I'm a little disappointed at the disingenious take tbh. I've dated plenty women and that really is how it is lmao Edit- Also, didn't like 51% of yt women vote conservative in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 06:24 PM |
| 6 | Most people will find love if they achieve the following things:Yea, exactly, men. And they breed up with women who want them for what they have and their status. Then their children perpetuate the same mindless, insecure ideology and reproduce more greedy men that women love and the cycle continues. I mean just look at Elon Musk or Donald Trump. Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 06:13 PM |
| 7 | Most people will find love if they achieve the following things:Lmao sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 05:54 PM |
| 15 | Most people will find love if they achieve the following things:As a queer woman myself babes, I beg to differ. Looks and money will most definitely get you far. Nobody's gonna care about dating you if you're an unattractive poor person who cant afford to do what most other people can due to their privilege. That's common sense that has played out for centuries and acting like those things don't matter to women is a coddling tactic at best and a bare-faced lie at worst. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Conservative men are hardcoded towards destroying women.Good, glad you agree cause last I checked women arent stupid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 05:12 PM |
| 4 | Most people will find love if they achieve the following things:Quick, what is the biggest threat to women as a woman yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 05:10 PM |
| 12 | Most people will find love if they achieve the following things:It's called an anology. Look it up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 04:29 PM |
| 6 | Conservative men are hardcoded towards destroying women.So, in other words, nobody should be held accountable for who they vote for because the choice(because that's literally what is it) itself shouldn't exist in the first place? As a non American woc I find that a bit laughable given the ratio of educated women far outnumber men in most countries nowadays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 04:27 PM |
| 10 | Conservative men are hardcoded towards destroying women.51% of yt women voted for Trump in the last US election btw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 03:51 PM |
| 16 | Most people will find love if they achieve the following things:I'd rather ask a fisherman how to catch fish than the fish themselves. Everyone knows looks and money are stepping stones to achieve most if not all the items on this list and to say otherwise is to be contrarian for contrary's sake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Most men who are struggling with dating have not exhausted all optionsWell as you would know having any kind of mental illness will severely impact confidence. It can be managed but it's not like people still won't pick up on the fact that somethings kind of off about you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Never settle” has slowly morphed into “never compromiseThe problem is that most women are realizing these kinds of partners are a minority therefore they'd rather stay single and wait their turn with these men rather than play the "what if" game with something less than The same goes for men who have endless options so you can pick choose and refuse, why settle for a 5 when you've had 10s? It's sad but that's reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 12:48 AM |
| – | Women have far too much of an in-group bias to ever have fair discourseInteresting, can't block you. But it's boring arguing with incels online and I got work. Ik this is the only time a woman will actually talk to you tho, so hope you enjoy. You can find your m0th3r and go chuck 0ff into her given that you even know who that is. Have the day you deserve little boy ✨️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 11:29 AM |
| – | Women have far too much of an in-group bias to ever have fair discourseGood boy. Keep sym and hop off my comment lmao, not my fault you're such a l0ser | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 11:20 AM |
| – | Women have far too much of an in-group bias to ever have fair discourseSym then. Research that battyboi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 11:11 AM |
| -2 | Women have far too much of an in-group bias to ever have fair discourseIf the shoe fits tbh. Research what internalized mysogyny is and sym if you don't want to engage in that kinda discussion or don't believe it exists. 😮💨 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 11:09 AM |
| 0 | Women have far too much of an in-group bias to ever have fair discourseI've honestly never seen that play out in irl. Bystander syndrome most definitely affects everyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 04:21 AM |
| -1 | Women have far too much of an in-group bias to ever have fair discourseChat is cheap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Women have far too much of an in-group bias to ever have fair discourseLmao I've never seen women do any of this irl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Women have far too much of an in-group bias to ever have fair discourseThey literally only do this online, most women irl struggle with internalized mysogyny and centering men in their lives so the only women they'll really actually stick up for are women in their own friend groups. It's made even worse if you're a woman who is disabled/deformed/struggle with some kind of mental illness then they'll just ignore you or isolate you for it. Edit: Definition of internalized mysogyny. Readers are leaders %2082-108%20Internalized%20Misogyny.pdf) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 02:54 AM |
| 0 | Asking women for advice does not work.You don't speak for all lesbian/wlw women, if you visit the r/wlw and r/queerwomenofcolor, a majority of women also have a hard time understanding attraction hence the "usless lesbian" trope in those subs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Asking women for advice does not work.If you want to know how to catch fish, consult a successful fisherman, not a random fish. This is facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 04:29 PM |
| 7 | Asking women for advice does not work.Chat is cheap, actions are everything and yes, even women who date women also encounter this problem. The issue is that alot of most womens' behavior is socialized to be performance at best and people pleasing at worst; and they do it with everyone, friends, family, men and even coworkers. It's so ingrained that when they meet antisocial and autitistic people who fail to pick up social cues, it causes them to have a knee jerk reaction to avoid them because they don't know how to perceive people … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Society and weak men stroke women's egos for simply just existing, which makes many of them entitled and self centered.I agree, some women literally love the attention/adoration they get from literally everybody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 05:25 PM |
| 0 | This "treat me like a human" thing that women repeat is something men could say too.Exactly. Like I thought that's how heterosexuality works, when did we get to this point where it seems like women dont feel any kind of attraction for men? The mind boggles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 10:20 PM |
| 6 | This "treat me like a human" thing that women repeat is something men could say too.I think what I said flew right over your head. I literally said women are desired more therefore there feelings are accounted for more than men and here you are making it about sex( cause you brought that up, not me). Yea, I don't argue with clowns so we can agree to disagree kid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 05:12 PM |
| 6 | This "treat me like a human" thing that women repeat is something men could say too.She's basically saying she has the options to date passively, it's not like men who have to either decide to put in alot of effort or not try at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 05:06 PM |
| 6 | This "treat me like a human" thing that women repeat is something men could say too.You are a man so you probably don't grasp this Idea but men seeing women as only usable for sex gives some women the liberty to engage in unempathetic behavior towards men in general. Although the statistics show that women are likelier to face sexual or domestic violence from their partners, they will still use this black and white rhetoric that all men want is sex and use that to devalue the feelings of men online who will likely never be able to be in relationships with those women anyways be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 05:02 PM |
| 10 | This "treat me like a human" thing that women repeat is something men could say too.If you know basic biology, then you know the answer to that question. Women also know the answer to that question as well. Whether you as a man desires them for who they are or not, the choice is still ultimately up to the woman. That's why you have a handful of men and women who will always have plenty of options while a majority of limited. There's not much that can be done about that, that's just how it is. This is why women can say whatever about men and feel justified in saying it because t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 04:51 PM |
| 29 | This "treat me like a human" thing that women repeat is something men could say too.Women are more desired than men are, they can afford to say whatever they want because they know it doesn't matter cause men will still chase them. That's the reality unfortunately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 12:58 PM |
| – | Women are not attracted to men and all major sides of the gender wars already lend support to the notionEhh well I'd like a billion dollars in my bank account right now, doesn't mean I can go abracadabra and it happens yk lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 03:26 AM |
| – | Women are not attracted to men and all major sides of the gender wars already lend support to the notionPerhaps he's wrestling with the possibility that he may be gay and doesn't want to admit that to himself therefore he has to resort to pretending like it's a "woman" problem and not a "him" problem. He did mention that at the end of his post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 03:20 AM |
| – | Women are not attracted to men and all major sides of the gender wars already lend support to the notionBro, touch grass, find a hobby or go be with a guy. Seriously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 03:15 AM |
| – | Women are not attracted to men and all major sides of the gender wars already lend support to the notionLool as a lesbian myself, I certainly wish that were the case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 03:07 AM |
| – | Women are not attracted to men and all major sides of the gender wars already lend support to the notionIt's insane cause you wonder where they're trying to go with this argument, sounds very counterintuitive if she's getting ready to lay it down on them only for them to say "you can't be attracted to me because women's sexuality is a social construct 🤓☝️" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 03:07 AM |
| – | Women are not attracted to men and all major sides of the gender wars already lend support to the notionSo you're argument here is that female sexuality doesn't exist or is a social construct? Okay. I'm going to go out on alimb here and entertain your assumption because ik you're probably just bored and felt to sh1tpost but think for a moment what you're implying here. Lesbians exist outside of this idea however and as much as they would love it, not every woman will consider herself attracted to women and therefore those lesbians would never have a chance of dating a straight woman. Secondly, you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 02:59 AM |
| – | Women are not attracted to men and all major sides of the gender wars already lend support to the notionOkay but we're not living in the 19th century, through their efforts, women during the 20th century were able to get alot of freedoms for women and as such, some of them have used this to explore their sexuality and learn that sex as a whole is great given they have an attentive partner. I'll never understand why women on this sub complain about men wanting sex like a it's a chore but I know many women in my personal life who seem to really enjoy it with their partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 02:36 AM |
| 3 | Online dating is “broken” but somehow millions of people are dating 🤔I mean you're not wrong about the patience part. Many people just don't have the patience to play the game these days | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 02:15 AM |
| – | Women are not attracted to men and all major sides of the gender wars already lend support to the notionThey're mostly attracted to a small percentage of men that fit their emotional, ohysical and mental needs, the only problem is that there aren't many of them so they have to heavily compete to have them. It's the same for men who only want the top percent of women as well. Everyone outside of the top 1 percent of these attractive people will have to face the fact that they are left with each other( the other 99%) and just like that, gender wars are born. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Everyone wants validation, but the redpill and their ilk take it too far.Women also do that too, it's not like all women are virtuous or good yk. That's the point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Everyone wants validation, but the redpill and their ilk take it too far.Pick better. Goes for both men and women imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 03:16 PM |
| -1 | If women want to see certain changes in men, they should reward the men who embody that idealThe first rule of dealing with women is that it's their prerogative to change their minds about things. You must take an "actions speak louder than words" stance with them because most of their opinions are formed out of fear of retaliation from men or judgment by other women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Everyone wants validation, but the redpill and their ilk take it too far.Alot of them pretend they don't but they most definitely do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/26 01:00 AM |
| 3 | Decentering Women Isn’t Anti-Woman. It’s Actually Feminist and Healthier for Men TooYea, the juice is definitely not worth the squeeze | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Everyone wants validation, but the redpill and their ilk take it too far.I hope someday every straight woman experiences great, jaw-dropping sex, sex so good they actually orgasm from it so they can stop talking about it like sex is a favor to men and not something that is actually enjoyable for both parties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 08:06 PM |
| 1 | “Men want love too” until you explain that relationships should NOT be seen as the cost of sex.Most people have discretion and the ability to have self control in terms of sex especially if sex is risky Like I have met many extremely handsome men i don't immediately fawn over and fuck. And I am sure many men are the same vice versa with hot women You say this like women dont enjoy sex with someone they find attractive? What point are you trying to make here? When I say "attractive", I'm not saying that they're you're stereotypical Chad, that guy could meet all your criteria so you feel sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 12:28 AM |
| 1 | “Men want love too” until you explain that relationships should NOT be seen as the cost of sex.You speak about women like you're a monolith. I've personally seen women do this. Obviously some have a different strategy but it's not like yall don't choose wrong or make mistakes in dating either. And it's certainly not like some of you don't sleep around with men you find attractive, to say otherwise is a flat out lie. Edit- It's ironic you mention "hot" when I literally said "men you're attracted to" which can literally mean that guy fits the physical/mental/emotional needs you're looking f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 12:18 AM |
| -3 | “Men want love too” until you explain that relationships should NOT be seen as the cost of sex.Women will jump into bed with any man she's attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Men, why are you surprised that attractive women are attracted to attractive men af/bb? And should women feel the same?And they both end up with each other in the end anyways. The "gender wars" are hilarious istg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 12:35 PM |
| – | Men are spinning narrative about them being desperate but they are desperate for top percent of womenLool bet you she thinks herself in the top percent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 11:34 AM |
| – | Men with high self esteem are better optionsTrue, it's a self fulfilling cycle in a way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 02:29 AM |
| – | Men with high self esteem are better optionsYou're not wrong which is why there seems to be a shortage of men with high self esteem because there rizz is off the charts most of the time so theyre usually taken. It's quite sad but that is another facet of natural selection at work imo. The ones with the best features and attributes are chosen over ones who don't. I don't see how this really can be a debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 02:28 AM |
| 0 | You CAN be emotionally intimate with your friends. Many just choose only limit is in relationships.Men do that shit too. No. Actually, it's far more common for men to maintain their friendships and connections while in a relationship than women do based off of what I've seen. I've even heard of scenarios where women want to plan their wedding and they don't have any friends or family to be bridesmaids or even attend. It's quite sad, everyone wants a village but no one wants to be a villager and all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 06:35 PM |
| 5 | You CAN be emotionally intimate with your friends. Many just choose only limit is in relationships.You're getting slack for this because it's common for most women to cut off their friendships when they get a partner. Do you notice how more women are calling you out more than men are? Yea, codependency these days is a big issue overall however at the end of the day society places more value on romantic relationships than on platonic ones. Hence why when women get divorced, trying to rekindle those friendships into something deeper is more difficult because they've never flexed those muscles b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 05:37 PM |
| – | Guys seem not to understand the concept of enjoying one’s company.So you're saying that men shouldn't take sex as the only form of interest women have in them? I mean sure but that's really what differentiates a friendship from a relationship. If you don't have the guts to confess how you feel then you can't fault them for reading your cues wrongly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 07:01 PM |
| 1 | "Really good people don't demand a reward!" is bullshit logic.Exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Struggling with depression is a major red flagtoo many people ignoreAnd they exist fyi. So many disabled people are in loving relationships with people who care for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 11:17 PM |
| 6 | Men severely underestimate how bad they actually are.I mean that's got to be what you're saying. You don't live in a third world country I'm sure cause a majority of the base here is from the US/UK/Canada. I'm from a third world country and its just as bad with those guys as well but I didn't bring up this first world/third world argument to discuss who is better or more pathetic. I pointed it out as an analogy to portray that whether you're a great person or not, you can still get into a relationship with a great person or shitty person. It's all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Men severely underestimate how bad they actually are.Lol really?? You should probably get out out more. Everything in dating luck that's why shitty men and women can still get good partners and good people can still be fucked over. That's reality, you'll never know who you're gonna meet and when, just the luck of the draw. The rest is up to you and that person and how you both feel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 11:47 AM |
| 9 | Men severely underestimate how bad they actually are.So youre saying youd give up living in a first world country, and go live in a third world country just to crack some pussy? Sheesh no wonder the women like clowning yall on this sub lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 03:30 AM |
| 8 | Men severely underestimate how bad they actually are.Yes, similar how to its just luck that you were born into a first world country and not some destitute third world country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Self-centered men just can't handle the change that comes with having kidsWell according to women they never choose wrong, these are the creme de la creme. Sounds like a them problem to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 02:51 PM |
| 1 | what happened yesterday on this sub only fuels the pointless gender warsIt's mostly just a game to alot of the people on here imo. They claim to he in "happy relationships' but they always seem to end up on this sub venting their heart out to be as cruel as possible which is why the comments under that post were as bad as they were. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 12:30 AM |
| – | Men and women are equally disposable in relationship, but for different factorsEveryone is disposable tbh, I don't quite agree with the factors for both women and men but people are disposable in that you can simply always find better. There are over 8 billion of us, if one doesn't match what you're looking for, you can simply move on to the next | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 01:11 AM |
| 1 | "Don't make dating/relationship your goal" is the worst possible adviceLol if you look at the divorce rate, it's truly not bad advice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 09:33 PM |
| 1 | "Really good people don't demand a reward!" is bullshit logic.I think this logic only truly applies to dating cause no way in hell would they be applying that logic to someone who contributes to charity work or helps those in need. The gratitude and recognition is meant to highlight their contributions and inspire others to do the same. As it relates to dating, you can't just expect to take, take, take, take and berate others for wanting a little appreciation for it but unfortunately that seems to be the case these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 09:29 PM |
| 2 | What would your (hypothetical) partner think if they saw your Reddit account?They'd probably think I get off on arguing with people online | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 03:56 PM |
| – | Y'all need to talk to a woman who is not single by choice to understand where men are coming fromPeople that do these things tend not to be single for long. I agree with all of your points except this one. We all should aim to be our best selves to minimize misery in the world but by no means does this mean we will still be able to find relationships/connections with people just like that. Things like mental illness, unattractive physical features and just the dating culture that has been curated by social media makes it harder for individuals to get into relationships or form connections w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 03:23 PM |
| – | Y'all need to talk to a woman who is not single by choice to understand where men are coming fromIt's a spectrum though, if anything that makes it far more hilarious because instead of being understanding or just dropping this woman as a friend, here you are online berating her for being "not so good looking" and "acting like a toddler". You do you babe, big up yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 03:16 PM |
| – | Y'all need to talk to a woman who is not single by choice to understand where men are coming fromIdk babe if this person gets on your nerves this much maybe just don't be her friend or is this what you and your your close friends bond over? No projection, my friendships are nice as they are. also no i would drop a guy for the same behaviour. Talk is cheap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 03:08 PM |
| – | Y'all need to talk to a woman who is not single by choice to understand where men are coming fromWell that is a very different situation. She just sounded like a b1tch with a sense of entitlement. There are those types as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 03:02 PM |
| – | Y'all need to talk to a woman who is not single by choice to understand where men are coming fromWell yea, judging from your other comments you and your friends do sound like a bunch of bullies fr. I'm autistic and feel things more deeply than others but I find men to be more understanding of it than women are. It's very sad that the mean girl behavior carries so far into adulthood for so many of you because that's not how you learn perspective but I guess not everyone can be that lucky or open. Yall will do that for men though qnd it's hilarious to see you drop your friends over it when yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 02:14 PM |
| – | Y'all need to talk to a woman who is not single by choice to understand where men are coming fromTypical mean girl behavior when it comes to other socially inept women btw which is hilarious because they will take this "emotional self-centerdness" from 7/10 Chad's but they'll never take it from their friends. Which is why so many of them tend to drop their friends when they get into relationships with men because they know how hypocritical it looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 01:48 PM |
| – | Y'all need to talk to a woman who is not single by choice to understand where men are coming fromSo idk have you ever tried talking to her about it? This person is your friend right? It sounds like she could be on the spectrum or have some kind of social ineptness that none of you care to talk to her about because it will make things uncomfortable. If she's really your friend then you should care enough about her to help her work on that, nobody likes a fake friend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 01:46 PM |
| – | Y'all need to talk to a woman who is not single by choice to understand where men are coming fromInterested to see the answer of "why" to this question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 10:42 PM |
| – | Y'all need to talk to a woman who is not single by choice to understand where men are coming fromI definitely agree. Most women will always pretend unattractive awkward antisocial women dont exist untill it's time to point out some self serving situation that calls for them to belittle men about their troubles tbh. Seen on social media and seen it irl. It's quite pathetic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.It's the same for unattractive women too though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Why is virgin used as an insult if sex and relationships are supposedly not important?Human connection isn't easy and sometimes unavailable at certain points. Exactly, I have lots of close acquaintances but because of my autism it makes forging close connections not s easy. Glad somebody finally talks about this, thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Why is virgin used as an insult if sex and relationships are supposedly not important?People need to stop shaming men and women for choosing not to, or having trouble with, dating and sex or general socialization As an autistic woman, thank you for saying this cause it shocks me how nonchalant people are to brag about their success with social connections as if society is just and fair in how they see people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 06:18 PM |
| 8 | Some people are not meant to find a partnerI honestly agree. It's not very fair but just like how you don't have a choice in being born poor or rich, you don't have a choice on whether love will find you or not. Some people are just lucky like that. Be prepared to be bombarded by naysayers cause people hate when you mention "luck", nothing worse than knowing your chances were favorable because of no doing of your own . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 12:48 AM |
| 1 | No one told men that good manners and good morals translated to sexual desire within most women.Nice guys always finish last tho so how is that lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Being successful at dating in 2026 requires MUCH more than looks and skills most men cant even fathom yet.lmao ikr | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 12:02 PM |
| 7 | Being successful at dating in 2026 requires MUCH more than looks and skills most men cant even fathom yet.Yo bro, thats alot of work, man or woman, why tf have yall made dating so complicated. lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 02:11 AM |
| 6 | If you’re not the most attractive dude and you don’t have the most “game”when it comes to women, being a kind and caring individual can maybe make up for thatI dont get attracted to women fortunately but from my interaction with them that's how they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 12:18 PM |
| 12 | If you’re not the most attractive dude and you don’t have the most “game”when it comes to women, being a kind and caring individual can maybe make up for thatWomen hate to admit it but it's true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 01:56 AM |
| – | Sexless men don't exist, only poor men do.This is facts tbh, you'd be surprised how many women fold if money is involved | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 11:34 PM |
| 2 | As a man, giving women you're interested in your number instead of asking for theirs is much better.I agree, both parties would be comfortable and no hurt feelings would be involved because it really would be a gamble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 11:28 PM |
| 1 | The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapyidgaf as in not concerning without with dumb shit is very attractive It's fascinating that you gave specifics for the latter but were vague about the former. "Dumb shit" is very subjective | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 06:47 PM |
| 1 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"Most of them grew up without proper father figures so they seek those out in men which is why we've seen some men lean heavily on this idea that men must be charismatic( "have rizz") and be able to be athletic or financially sound( he doesn't even need to be rich, he just has to have a job that can take care of himself and her). As a fellow millennial woman, it's quite bizarre but thus is the effect of single parent household and emotionally neglected girls. It's not their fault but it is the sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 06:36 PM |
| 1 | The fact that prostitution is partially or fully illegal in most of the world is proof that the world is misandrist.I agree, it would also be safer for sex workers as they don't have to worry too much about crime being committed against them being seen as "fair" because what they're doing is illegal. Whether it's midandrist or not is a different story though, I think the only reason it's illegal is because it might unintentionally promote human trafficking which is already an insurmountable crises the law can't control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 04:07 PM |
| 4 | Changing your behavior does not earn you a relationship, only validationI think the fundamental truth of it is that some people will just never have luck in relationships, because that's really all it comes down to. It's not something to be "earned" it's something that just happens for you. It's a trend nowadays to treat relationships like its some sort of reward for good people but awful wicked people are in loving relationships too, so are idiots and so are criminals. It's really just the luck of the draw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 11:40 AM |
| 4 | Why do we have a generation of "weak" men?I agree, it's so tone deaf to berate people in worse off situations than you and then brag about how your advice has helped you personally when everyone's circumstances are so different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 11:30 AM |
| 2 | Is it true women will always have more value/suitors than men in the dating market?Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 06:47 AM |
| 1 | It’s smart for a man to stop being friends with a women after she rejects himI agree. On top of that, the friendship will just never be the same imo. It's safer for both parties to part on amicable terms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts for men who stay mad at womenYour failure is the fact that you chose to look down on us lecturing us as if we had an inherent moral deficiency that led to us being here It is the trend these days I'm afraid. People successful in their social connections/relationships/life oft enjoy coming on reddit to sh1t on the rest of us that aren't as lucky to be in the position they're in. They've been privileged their entire lives and can only play pretend to understand the woes of people they don't even know. Like rich people preachi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts for men who stay mad at womenYou are, of course, correct. Identifying that you are clearly not a woman, just by the conclusions you (incorrectly) jump to, and the way you act so wounded on having misogyny exposed- your gender as a dude was not difficult to ascertain. I was being sarcastic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 04:51 PM |
| 0 | Thoughts for men who stay mad at womenI didn't make my post with any presuppositions- just identified a likely reason for frustration and a solution. If that doesn't apply to you, you wouldn't be getting so mad. Well it's not like the men who are going to harm women are going to listen them now would they? The fact that you aren't a woman is why I pointed it out- not because you seem to disagree with my original premise, which is- again- "women are people." Miss you don't know me irl and I'm pretty sure if I agreed with you you'd pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts for men who stay mad at womenI am sorry that you are a subpar man. It is time for you to get a new account, since this one has been properly outted as belonging to a dude. Good luck trying to imagine that by posing as a women you can recruit actual women to your cause- whatever that is. Well thanks Nancy Drew 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts for men who stay mad at womenIt should not be controversial to suggest women are human people and should be viewed as such. I don't have to be the mouth piece for all women to make such a statement- and if you find it controversial, you should think about why. You still haven't provided evidence as to where anyone on here has said that. You're literally just repeating yourself. Obviously I am going to condescend to you, when you make a post that implies that because most women know their abusers and rapists, that means we c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts for men who stay mad at womenBelieve whatever you want to believe honey. Your post on this sub also doesn't make any sense to me, you dislike men but you'll never stop dating them so you spend your time on subs like this trying to preach to a choir. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts for men who stay mad at womenIf you, as a "woman" think that it is "rage-baity" to request dudes view women and wholly complete human people with all of the capacity that assumes, maybe that tells us a lot about you, and your choices. You still haven't provided any evidence whatsoever that anyone here has indicated that men don't see women as people though. This post was very specifically geared towad men who stay mad at women. That is not men in general; that is not most men, but a very specific group of men who are making… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts for men who stay mad at womenLool but most of the time violence committed against women are at the hands of their partners or people in their social circle as indicated by multiple studies such as https://rainn.org/facts-statistics-the-scope-of-the-problem/statistics-perpetrators-of-sexual-violence/ https://www.wgn.org.uk/get-informed/myth-busting/ so how do you reckon that? Personally as a woman I was sexually assaulted by my ex and I know many women who also knew their perpetrators beforehand. If anything your post just s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.It's even worse in the workplace too if they realize a woman is autistic or socially inept. It's quite sad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 02:45 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts for men who stay mad at womenIdk babe, how does them being "furious" negatively affect you. It's not like they're going out of their way to be around women. Most of them on this sub probably don't even care what most of you have to say tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 02:34 PM |
| 1 | The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapyTrue, women will say alot of things but at the end of the day they will want someone who will be strong for them and in today's world an "idgaf" attitude is a definite turn on for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 02:14 PM |
| 5 | Women contribute a LOT to "nice guy angst".At the end of the day, women either want excitement, help or agreeability. If you cant do any of those then most of them will flat out ignore you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Women don't love you, they love what you can do for them.True | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 08:49 PM |
| 0 | Women are more attracted to social status than social skills.Lool you just proved OP's point tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Women are more attracted to social status than social skills.Women will say otherwise but it's very true. It's especially true if your autistic and are socially disabled, if you're an outsider, if you're not wealthy or have some kind of social standing, they won't find you very attractive. We're living in a world where you flaunt your partner for how they look or what they have which is why society is more forgiving of moderately unattractive partners if they provide some sort of status or wealth. If you have neither, good luck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 03:29 PM |
| – | We should start telling people when they are younger you aren't guaranteed a relationshipTrue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 11:21 AM |
| 1 | We live in a world where women think their farts don't stinkLmao fqcts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 11:37 AM |
| 1 | "Rizz" is not an actual thingRizz is real but if youre physically unattractive it can only get you so far tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.I think most of the women who tell men to just get over their fear of rejection are the ones who were never struggling in the first place. You'll hear the same advice from attractive men, for whom rejection, though experienced, is usually soon rewarded with acceptance. True, it really is a sort of privilege they're not even aware that they have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 02:42 AM |
| 3 | Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same?In simple terms, they can afford to be evil. That's wild tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 03:54 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The types of men who pay for intimacy? CowardsOh, and confidence? How the fuck do you become confident when 98% of your experience is rejection? Self-reflective men aren't confident. The more intelligent you are, the more self-doubt you have. Stupid people are usually confident as they lack self-awareness and critical thinking. I'm not saying all intelligent men lack confidence, though. It's just a general tendency. Exactly. That's why those with rizz or confidence can be so scatterbrained about their approach and still get chances from wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 02:51 AM |
| – | "Just talk to women as people" and its even worse when you realize they genuinely like you as a person, yet none of them sees you "that way"Yea, it's pretty strange ngl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Spoke with my wife about gender equality today.Sure, even the ugliest males used to get women who are desperate enough to deal with them, doesnt mean those relationships dont fisel out after a year or so, in the long run, weaker males know they cant provide willfully for a lifetime partner so they mate with multiple ones over a shorter period to ensure at least they have good times until a stronger male comes in and wipes them out. Make no mistake either, those weaker females always entertain multiple weaker males to increase her chances of … | /r/MensRights | 11/04/20 07:37 AM |
| 3 | Movie Recommendations?Mulan, not the cartoon, the original live action | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/20 06:33 PM |
| 0 | Spoke with my wife about gender equality today.lool I'm married and successful, why tf would I be bitter over some snot nosed incel. 😂😂 Grow up kid | /r/MensRights | 18/03/20 11:26 PM |
| -1 | Spoke with my wife about gender equality today.Lol I'm not wasting my time reading your poorly put together comment. OP literally said his wife suffered from sexual assault( you should fucking read the entire post instead of blabbering out your bird brain). Again plenty of dick in the world out there, if all a male can do is sit with me and talk about gender politics after he knows ive been assaulted, then that male is a piece of shit. I'm so happy my husband is high value enough to know better, I hope yall incels dont breed because OP liter… | /r/MensRights | 18/03/20 06:05 PM |
| 0 | Spoke with my wife about gender equality today.I reckon he has if he has to come on reddit to get opinions from strangers to know if what he did made sense. 😂 | /r/MensRights | 18/03/20 05:44 PM |
| 0 | Spoke with my wife about gender equality today.Hes literally talking to her about mens rights after some random man held her down and raped her. If you were in that position and your female partner came to you and started talking about womens rights, I'm pretty sure you would react the same way. If you say otherwise you're either lying to prove your point or trolling to be an asshole. I was sexually assaulted a few years ago and my husband wouldn't dare talk to me about these things afterwards because he knows when I say men are trash its ex… | /r/MensRights | 18/03/20 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Spoke with my wife about gender equality today.Why do you even bother arguing with them, probably a bunch of virgins who probably havent found any women who wanna put up their shit. It's great though, hopefully they dont reproduce, got enough jackasses in the world. | /r/MensRights | 18/03/20 04:31 PM |
| -1 | Spoke with my wife about gender equality today.Wow, I hope she dumps you. Sounds like you need her more than she needs you tbh. It's also pretty funny too, because if you feel she's oppressing you or knew she would cry "fake tears", why di you stay with her? If she's as toxic as you say, why dont you aparrantly care enough about yourself to leave? Oh, for free sex and her vulnerability from her assault? Okay. Yall males, I swear, yall pick the must vulnerable women to hang on to because you know only a vulnerable woman who doesnt value herse… | /r/MensRights | 18/03/20 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Advice on Dealing With Insecurity About Being Attractive?I feel the same way, I see other women so interested in makeup, have boyfriends and do girly girl things like spa days; that's the complete opposite of how I naturally am. I mean I'll dress up and look lovely but I guess men prefer more feminine types. It doesnt help that I also work in a more "masculine" field. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/20 03:53 AM |
| 34 | Indian men are so embarrassingI'm half Indian too but even I am happy I was born in Jamaica and not India, it's like a subculture of manchildren over there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Touching when dating😒I'm sorry that happened to you, my ex had assaulted me too after I went to his house. You cant help porn sick losers, just gotta avoid them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Confession TimeOh, it looks fun but I just need to find the origami paper, it looks tacky when you do it on regular paper 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 04:46 AM |
| 29 | LVM LOGIC: Did you know that letting a guy buy you a burrito bowl means you're interested in his $12? This guy calls it "money" 😂Let's be honest, probably borrowed it from his mom 😪🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 04:45 AM |
| 3 | Confession TimeWell I'm trying to find new ones but for right now: creative writing coding( it's my major in uni but outside of projects I like to dabble a bit) reading Playing with my little doggo. I wanted to get into Origami but I cant find the specified paper anywhere, I would also take up tennis but I havent found a place that offers lessons yet. Also I'm learning Japanese via Duolingo, I grew up doing Spanish but I'm a little rusty | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Confession TimeSame here, I wasnt focusing much on men till I joined FDS but I feel the support is helpful at times. What hobbies do you have? I'm doing a bit of languages and creative writing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 04:31 AM |
| 3 | Confession TimeTBH, not much. I've been so focused on completing these assignments and worrying over this Corona thing that dating is the last thing on my mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 04:29 AM |
| 15 | Do you know a HVM who gave you some faith in men?My Math lecturer in university, he really had a passion for what he did and changed the way I looked at it, my science teacher in high school, he was also pretty passionate about the subject and often did extra lessons with us. He never believed in leaving anyone behind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 04:21 AM |
| 56 | LVM LOGIC: Did you know that letting a guy buy you a burrito bowl means you're interested in his $12? This guy calls it "money" 😂They turn it around on you because they dont want to admit their financial situation. Like no bro, $12 doesnt make you a millionaire 😪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 04:17 AM |
| 5 | I wonder why he "can't figure her out" ....Oh wow, what a kissass. Guess pickmeishas come in all shapes and levels. Tbh if I were in that position, I'd go to HR and if they fire, they fire because I'd rather have no job than be shamed into entertaining some bald beer-bellied husk-of-a-man. If she decides not to tell HR, well she can always videotape there interactions and bring it to HR then and if they do nothing about it, put them on blast on social media or the news( after I quit that is). Plenty places to work in this world, they're … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 02:40 AM |
| 10 | I wonder why he "can't figure her out" ....No, him asking himself that question doesnt mean anything, I've personally had some questionable creatures acting as if they're fucking leo DiCaprio, meanwhile they out here looking like beetlejuice. 🙄 Even if he did have influence, they're probably the desperate types who he got bored of so he constantly pursues this one because she's "such a mystery". Truth is, women cant win either way but it's better she go to HR and complain cause if that were me, lol, he'd be in a world of hurt. 😪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 02:27 AM |
| 27 | I wonder why he "can't figure her out" ....She will most likely go to HR because my girl doesnt sound as if she's too afraid to let him know she's not interested, he'll thrown a mantrum because "she just wont get with me" and then start harassing her. Males are very stupid creatures. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 02:16 AM |
| 36 | Such a disgusting porn-addicted man. Sadly, theres plenty of them out there. Found on r/creepyPMsDid he literally ask "how am I a perv", I hate men 😪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 12:46 AM |
| 101 | I wonder why he "can't figure her out" ....Oh, I smell a trip to HR | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 12:33 AM |
| 12 | I feel ill after reading this, especially with all these children involved.How disturbing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 12:32 AM |
| 5 | "He is hesitant because he lives far away." BS!I hope one day, this kind of love finds me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 12:29 AM |
| 6 | It took some timeThis happened to me when I found out I was pregnant for my ex fwb at the time, i wasnt ready for kids and he offered no emotional support( didnt even check up on me), i had to do the tests and stuff mostly on my own but housemates would help me out around the house all while having to deal with work. Long story short, i miscarried and didnt have to have an abortion but by god, it threw any feelings I thought I had for him out the window. You never know the worse luck your bad luck saved you from… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 05:04 PM |
| 36 | CALLING ALL MALES! DO YOU WANNA ASK US A QUESTION??True, who cares really? They hate strong woman therefore theyll always dislike what we say. makes no diff to me 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 01:52 PM |
| 4 | (25m) lied to me(20f) and abused me for 5 years x postedI know it's hard but the best thing for you to do is leave and find a life for yourself. You must have some extended family or friend you can stay by till you get on your feet. If you stay in a relationship like that, make no mistake, itll kill you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 05:02 AM |
| 28 | Man "jumps at opportunity" when new mother agrees to get a puppy - then calls her an asshole when she can't handle raising their newborn & puppy alone.How do women end up marrying sacks of shit like this, I will never know. Then all the resentful little incels keep spewing their nonsensical bs. omfg man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 03:10 AM |
| 29 | What the meanest thing you’ve said to a guy who deserved it?I told a guy to go suck him mother before, kinda helps when you have the "dread and terrible" Jamaican stereotype( I am Jamaican) and the accent to boot. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 03:00 AM |
| 9 | How To Date In The Age Of CoronavirusI'm staying home, fuck that shit. My HVM can wait 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 10:51 PM |
| 4 | I’m learning faster and faster to cut these loser clown idiots off at the pass. My dreams don’t die the second I meet some dude. 🙄Lol it's almost like men want to be women and women should be men. Sick fuck 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 10:42 PM |
| 3 | Your sexual history is YOUR business.Same here, only my first ex had that problem but no one has asked me that question since so this is fucking unheard of to me. Wow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 04:53 PM |
| 18 | My mom said it herself: most men don’t know what they wantThat's so cruel. omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 04:44 PM |
| 11 | My mom said it herself: most men don’t know what they wantKmt I'm 24 and I been knew men dont even know if sugar is sweet or water is wet. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 02:45 PM |
| 52 | Reminder: Focus on your dreams, not men.Exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 02:43 PM |
| 7 | I overheard a pick me on the busSo true, it's honestly sickening when you think about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 01:08 AM |
| 7 | MAN-PROOF YOUR FINANCES OR GET DESTROYED...Thank you, he told me he advised my older sister to do it and since then, she's the second best money-manager in our household, she's single but she's out here making that money so she couldnt care less I guess 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 01:07 AM |
| 23 | I overheard a pick me on the busSometimes I honestly feel that way too, you always hear men and the media talking about pretty girls intimidating men so we have to approach them. Little did I know they just want you to approach them to fulfill their fantasy of an ideal women chasing them. It's so pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 01:04 AM |
| 7 | MAN-PROOF YOUR FINANCES OR GET DESTROYED...Yea, I'm 24 years old and really just starting out so stock investing is something I wanna try. My dad also told me it's a good thing to have if I ever get stuck between jobs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 3/7/2020Okay, thanks 👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 12:55 AM |
| 9 | MAN-PROOF YOUR FINANCES OR GET DESTROYED...Thank you. The real estate and sell and resell is a good idea. I dont live in the states so we dont have 401k but I do know I'm on a retirement scheme. Investment in stocks and bonds would also be a good idea too but I think it's best to research it well or find a stock broker who can explain how it works. 👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 12:54 AM |
| 21 | I overheard a pick me on the busProbably, I used to fall for it way back when because guys usually treated me like the doormat while they went after the so called "bitches" or they just outright rejected me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 11:35 PM |
| 22 | I overheard a pick me on the busObviously they're wrong but due to their porn sick minds, they view beautiful women to be nothing but mere objects to their ego, I mean just look at the dichotomy they used go spew out. If you're beautiful, you're less intelligent but if you're intelligent, you can't be beautiful. Its fucking disgusting man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 10:58 PM |
| 70 | I overheard a pick me on the busIt's so sad beautiful women always seem to be pickmes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 09:55 PM |
| 16 | #MakeHimWait2020. 90 day minimum.Really is the epitome of giving up on yourself if you think about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 06:42 PM |
| 29 | I feel like giving upAll I can say is, just focus on you. Take a break from dating, relationships and love is not the be all end all of a womans life. The best things in life often come to you unexpectedly so the more you force it, the less likely it'll happen. The greatest relationship you'll ever have, is the one you have with yourself. I'm in the same boat I guess, I dont get asked out on alot of dates, I dont use dating apps and I'm not actively looking but I see it as a win because I can use this time to improv… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 04:49 PM |
| 17 | FDS RESCUE MISSIONI guess maybe she doesnt want to get hurt so perhaps she just pretends as if she loves it but I mean look at that, she's getting hurt anyways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 04:38 PM |
| 144 | #MakeHimWait2020. 90 day minimum.I feel they hate you after they sleep with you simply because they psychologically hate themselves, I mean honestly think about this. Someone literally just willingly decided to sleep with you and give you pleasure but then you turn around after the fact and shame them. Why would you shame someone who decided to lay with you? And more importantly, why would you lay with someone you feel is less than for sleeping with you? Stay single ladies cause these boys dont know themselves... 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 04:32 PM |
| 104 | Mark is hardworking and straightforward ladies! He wants a woman who values all this effort and hard work he’s is putting into communication😂😂I'm guessing hes rating her on her looks. Shallow pos | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 02:28 PM |
| 51 | Mark is hardworking and straightforward ladies! He wants a woman who values all this effort and hard work he’s is putting into communication😂😂Lol, hes probably a 0 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 02:27 PM |
| 7 | Let’s sign this petition to take scumbag PornHub down.Done 👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 03:26 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 3/7/2020I dont own any debt. At 24, I'm glad I've gone through college and university debt free but thanks for the heads up anyhow. 👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 3/7/2020Okay, I'll research on it. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 01:16 AM |
| 30 | Men: You get what you giveohh shit 🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 07:38 PM |
| 7 | Woke up this morning wanting to tell my ex about my most recent exciting news, thought I would tell yall instead!Congratulations 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 01:51 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 3/7/2020Nothing to do with dating but do any of you have any ideas on investing money? I have a few ideas such as stocks and buying a house and renting out but what other ideas do you all have? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Twitter poll on how good straight men are at pleasing their partners. You'll be so surprised at the result!I was never able go orgasm on my own, I've only ever been with two guys and the never have. I'm single now and sometimes I worry over it but i guess it's just more practice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 01:33 PM |
| 17 | Happy "What about international men's day" dayEvery year they ask the same shit, ots like they're stupid or something. They probably dont know cause they're not really "men" to begin with. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 01:59 AM |
| 3 | Happy International Womens DayThey hate women, but at the same time need women to fulfill their sexual desires, if they had a conscience, it would be a pretty disturbing thing to think about so having a day dedicated to a topic they're so jaded over is uncomfortable to them. That's how I see it in my opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 12:13 AM |
| 4 | Happy International Womens DayTheres is, it was November 19th... He stupid or something? Guess he didnt know cause hes not a real man? Idk 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Another TradWife meme that makes no sense as usual. The only way to pretend they’re empowered in a patriarchy is by constantly pretending words mean different things than they actually mean.Wait what? 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 06:03 PM |
| 9 | How to become a racist LibFem or TradWife Pickmeisha in one helpful illustration! Brought to you by the racists at r/TradWife!This is disturbing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 05:33 PM |
| 6 | Another profile outing a LVM on Tinder. Sisters warning sisters 👯♀️True, what I'm saying though is when these white men travel to other countries, they usually are met with a alot of disdain. In most developing countries, citizens usually think they're weird or unstable because of what you hear in the news. To date, none of my friends have dated white guys and have few white guys as friends( they usually have their boyfriends but the white guys hang around in hope of a chance) but the general verdict is that white guys are creepy. I can understand your idea of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 03:22 PM |
| 4 | Blocked!!Lols you could have still gone out on a date with yourself. That shits nice 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 02:34 PM |
| 5 | Another profile outing a LVM on Tinder. Sisters warning sisters 👯♀️TBH I feel they save their misogynistic bullshit for white girls and desperate colored women trying to escape their homeland. I'm a half Indian half Jamaican mix and I dont know if it's because of our ethnicity but I've seen few cases where white men actually get that bad. Could be wrong though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 02:25 PM |
| 9 | Male Lurkers say that FDS doesn’t focus enough on self improvement, but what they *really* mean is we don’t improve the way *they* (LVMs) think we’re supposed to. LVMs who wrongly think they’re HVMs get this confused because they think Pickmeishas are HVW & domestic servitude makes women happy. 🙄Yo girl, no joke. You even have some women actually agree with them that women got more opportunity than they do. No bitch, we as women got way more to lose so providing for ourselves is a fucking no-brainer 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 02:18 PM |
| 6 | Men don’t lose sleep knowing you are working over time building up their self esteem up (usually for the next woman) while they are tearing yours down. Just say no, you are not his therapist. Let him seek professional help. How are you gonna be his peace when he’s disturbing yours?Wait is that Matthew Mconahey 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 02:01 PM |
| 5 | Don’t send long paragraphs explaining how you feel to men who don’t careI've never done this but the sheer disrespect you must feel after writing such a long paragraph only for it to be ignored would get me so fucking angry omg. Might literally kill him 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 02:00 PM |
| 11 | And dying with cats is supposed to scare me into a relationship like that?! LmaoEww 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 10:45 PM |
| 22 | In one sentence, comment your best dating advice...GO!Always. It's a mood | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 09:32 PM |
| 19 | And dying with cats is supposed to scare me into a relationship like that?! LmaoWorking in the IT industry, I feel it's because they feel it gives them a right to treat women that way. As a programmer myself, I've met alot of guys who simply see women as holes to fuck, its pathetic too because most of them dont even realize the first programmers were women. Not to mention how they resent that you even made it in the field. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 09:30 PM |
| 26 | And dying with cats is supposed to scare me into a relationship like that?! LmaoYea, I'm a techie woman and after just starting out in this industry I can confirm, men are trash. It's why I honestly gave up on men, its horrid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 09:26 PM |
| 19 | And dying with cats is supposed to scare me into a relationship like that?! LmaoSame | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 09:24 PM |
| 12 | And dying with cats is supposed to scare me into a relationship like that?! LmaoHorrifying. Stay single ladies 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 09:22 PM |
| 3 | FDS works. Here's my story. It's long, so prepare yourself.No, he got to sleep with you. All I'm saying is the man gave a very fuckboy like answer, when he realized you wouldn't give it up, he had to change himself which is good but again, seems like alot of risky investing to me. Then again, im not much of a woman too worried about relationships so I guess it's just my way of looking at things. 🤷♀️ Congratulations on your 5 year marriage though, I hope it continues to go well. 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 07:00 PM |
| 1 | FDS works. Here's my story. It's long, so prepare yourself.Yes I realize but he literally told you its because you didnt act like other women and sleep with him right away, he had to work for it. Either way, I just see it as a lose, lose situation since in the end he got what he wanted albeit he had to change himself for it. 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 06:54 PM |
| -3 | FDS works. Here's my story. It's long, so prepare yourself.Yea, if you actively look for a relationship, by all means but why even bother looking? HVM are rare and for the ones that are there, their already taken so now it's up to us to either wait forever for an HVM or turn an LVM into an HVM? ( because tbh based on his answer that's what I'm getting from the story). Rather just be on my own 😪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 06:48 PM |
| 4 | FDS works. Here's my story. It's long, so prepare yourself.All that work just for a good man? My synthetic is just fine, thanks very much. Congratulations anyhow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 06:42 PM |
| 11 | A satirical tweet that's much more real than it seems; take care of yourself first and foremost, ladies!I honestly just did a double take cause I was saying it sounded so familiar. Wow 😪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 02:50 PM |
| 7 | It’s quite disrespectful in my opinionYuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 01:58 PM |
| 12 | Mood.tbh I've always been curious of dating girls but I never had any luck, I only ever been with two guys in my life but I hope next time, it's a cool ass woman cause men are fuckry 🙄😪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 12:33 AM |
| 3 | A man *demanding* women lie to themselves and act like theres any man thats great, or amazing. some are less trash, but they were all trash in one form or anotherLol they can kiss my fat ass tbh 🙄🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 04:03 AM |
| 5 | A man *demanding* women lie to themselves and act like theres any man thats great, or amazing. some are less trash, but they were all trash in one form or anotherOmfg people really try to sell you that horseshit about wanting a equally fit Male partner? It's so sad women settle for mediocrity.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 12:58 AM |
| 5 | Last week I went on a date with a 26 y/o man who said he never wants to get married so that other married men will be jealous of him 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️Wow, imagine having your whole love life centered around what your fellow sex thinks of you? How pathetic 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 12:51 AM |
| 6 | Apparently, my sister and I are "shallow" because she doesn't want to date a guy and I'm telling her she doesn't have toHer friends probably have never had guys be so nice to them before because they bend over backwards for lvm and are jealous of yall. Tell her to put her foot down and tell them it's none of their business, if they continue, just tell her to find new friends. Simple | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 09:02 PM |
| 5 | I was reading replies from non-cheating married who were asked why they had refrained from cheating on their wives. The overwhelming response?True, as well as stuff you're passionate about | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 08:55 PM |
| 1 | I can't even. I'm good enough to fuck but not date wtfWow, I'd goodly tell him bout his mother 🤣🤣 Hes lucky. He didnt just seem like he disappointed you, seems like a disappointment in general. 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 08:39 PM |
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