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| 1 | Redpill men in LTRs, what do you do if youre going through major life difficulties, since you believe that women will unconsciously hold it against men for having major chinks in their armour?Don't get me wrong. They do exist but hard to come by. I have mad respect for girls like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/20 03:25 AM |
| 14 | Redpill men in LTRs, what do you do if youre going through major life difficulties, since you believe that women will unconsciously hold it against men for having major chinks in their armour?Vast Majority of girls will bail at the slightest hint of "opening up". There are some outstanding ones that does otherwise, but they are extremely rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/20 03:33 PM |
| 1 | The hottest 1% of Men tend to be able to sex with a lot of Women, what advantages do the hottest 1% of Women get?how men should "step up" and ask her out. lol From what I've seen it's usually the super hot ones that made the first move. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/20 08:12 PM |
| 6 | Men who think "men age like wine" while saying women hit the wall are exactly the same as fds women who look at an obese, unhygienic woman and call her a "queen."I think you are picking the most extreme example tho. In most movies couples are in similar age range. X-men is more because the franchise wanted to shoehorn implied Magneto/Mystique relationship. (And also JL's popularity since the hunger games cause some changes in the plot) I sincerely doubt they were actively trying to create an age gap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/20 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Men who think "men age like wine" while saying women hit the wall are exactly the same as fds women who look at an obese, unhygienic woman and call her a "queen."People who age gracefully do so. Both male and female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/20 07:14 PM |
| 2 | The hottest 1% of Men tend to be able to sex with a lot of Women, what advantages do the hottest 1% of Women get?per attractive women who have committed suicide from loneliness and depression I don't understand why this is downvoted. Not everything is what it seems on the outside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/20 07:04 PM |
| 1 | There's a good reason why FDS does not preach self improvement like TRP does - "self improvement" is constantly thrown at and practiced by women.high school girls are already trying to prevent wrinkles. Most girls start doing makeup before they start puberty At times I think girls care more about aging than men actually do. I was watching GoT with friends few years ago. When Cersei showed up we(guys 20-25) we were all going gaga over her and some girls were saying how she's old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/20 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Was dating easier in the 80s?Some of the crap I see posted on the internet about how women reject men today is fucking horrible. Is it just me that got lucky? I've never been badly rejected. (I mean sure there were unpleasant rejections, but nothing "horrible") | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/20 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Believing that men in their 30s have it better than women in their 30s is pure wishful thinking.Nor are they going after 18 year olds. I've known some guys in late 20s~early 30s dating 19-21 year olds but not a single case of it was of them chasing girls in that range specifically. They just happened to get to know each other thru same interest (hobby etc.) An example was a 31 year old guy that I knew dated a 19 year old. Before her, he was chasing a recently divorced 37 year old woman. Mind you I've seen an opposite version of it too. I knew a 19 year old guy that dated a 29 year old woma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Can someone be so good-looking that they become a "freak"?Of course I can't say how her internal experience was, and I never knew her THAT well, but it definitely seems like ridiculously beautiful people like that probably have to deal with some amount of stigma (for lack of a better word), especially when their actual personality is so contrary to their looks. When I was at my all-time low back in high-school. There was this girl who was always polite/kind to me (I mean she was my friend's GF so that helped I guess) when lots of people treated me like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/19 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Can someone be so good-looking that they become a "freak"?After talking to her for a while I now think women that are that attractive intimidate a lot of people from approaching them just based off of how good they look From what I've seen incredibly good-looking girls are the ones that make the first move. (And they don't throw "hints" they are pretty straight forward for lack of better word.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/19 03:10 AM |
| 1 | I Think it's Time To Check Out on WomenMy friend left NY and lives in a dry cabin in Alaska and works seasonly as a plumber in Prudhoe Bay for the oil fields. He thought he was checking out but then fell in love with some Eskimo chick lol I've heard so many cases of a person going, "Fuck relationship! Fuck getting married!" then bumping into future hubby/wife so many times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 02:30 PM |
| 19 | Why do some men fail to realize 'chad' is good with women because he put years of effort into it?6’4” handsome guy will never be a video gaming basement dweller LOL I know a guy who's literally a gaming and anime enthusiast +Tall dark and hansome. He doesn't do much to flirt, girls do it for him at that point he just responds the right way. Looks aren't everything, but people greatly underestimate what it can do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/19 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Any other late bloomers in here? How does your past affect your relationships nowadays?I basically went through the same. I got lucky tho. I was hit with major depression during sophomore/junior HS years, most stopped hanging out with me. But I had close friends including girls would still hang out with me and help. I miss them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 08:37 PM |
| 1 | The amount of women who will next a good guy for a Chad, is pretty portionate to the amount of men, who next an average nice girl, for a hot bitchy Stacy.From what Ive seen, super good looking friends in my experience tend to prioritize character as long as girl is cute and has flat belly. I got out of Stacy phase when I was 20. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 02:27 PM |
| 1 | People who had big changes in their appearance, have you realized any changes in the way people treat you?Sort of ugly duckling here. (Wasn't ugly per se, but I looked like a kid even for a high school guy and fat, depressed, shy etc.) How I felt had lot more to deal with how people treated me than appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/18 11:15 PM |
| 2 | [Q4M] what are some activities you enjoy doing that are absolutely against redpill teachings?In my experience (albeit limited), people who aren't polite is out of insecurity, equating it to weakness. I was watching an interview with a former Mafia boss and he said the impolite ones in prison were who didn't get respected on street. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/18 02:21 AM |
| 2 | [Q4M] what are some activities you enjoy doing that are absolutely against redpill teachings?I used to be into Arma series, but nowadays I just don't have the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/18 01:01 AM |
| 3 | [Q4M] what are some activities you enjoy doing that are absolutely against redpill teachings?I don't understand why cooking is viewed feminine? Most professional chefs and cooks are male. Also the one of the most macho industry out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/18 12:17 AM |
| 6 | [Q4M] what are some activities you enjoy doing that are absolutely against redpill teachings?Treating other people politely. It's possible to be alpha and be polite. There's a difference between "OMG IM SO SORRY" and "Oh, My bad" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/18 12:16 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] what are some activities you enjoy doing that are absolutely against redpill teachings?LOL one of the most notorious player I knew was an anime fan and didn't exactly hide it either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/18 12:14 AM |
| 2 | [Q4M] what are some activities you enjoy doing that are absolutely against redpill teachings?I don't understand how playing video games are so bad. There's a difference between spending 20-30 minutes on a game vs HOURS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/18 12:12 AM |
| 2 | [Q4M] what are some activities you enjoy doing that are absolutely against redpill teachings?its his attitude, not the action. This | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/18 12:11 AM |
| 4 | I've never had bad reaction from being shy as long as it was out of childlike attitude.True, gotta admit the ones that made the first move were already attracted to me on physical level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/18 05:59 PM |
| 2 | I've never had bad reaction from being shy as long as it was out of childlike attitude.Some of them. Bare in mind that shyness was during initial encounter. I eventually relaxed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/18 05:32 PM |
| 2 | I've never had bad reaction from being shy as long as it was out of childlike attitude.you are still going to get more success by not being shy. Absolutely. What I'm saying is girls won't be repulsed by being shy (Out of positive attitude) Not that they will be attracted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/18 05:31 PM |
| 2 | I've never had bad reaction from being shy as long as it was out of childlike attitude.mid/late 20s. but you maybe right as they mostly happened in HS/early years of College. I'm no way near as shy as I was. Bare in mind that the ones that made first move seemed to very secure in themselves. They were also VERY good looking so I guess they are used to guys acting like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/18 04:08 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women Are Not Most Attracted To Older Men Like The Manosphere ClaimsI've known some guys in early/Mid-30s that dated girls 19-21. Let me give you an example. A grad student that I knew began dating a sophomore (I think she was 19) and he was 32. The irony is he wasn't even looking for girls in that group. Before he met her he was actually crazy after a married 38 year old dance instructor (she was hot). After getting rejected (for obvious reason), he ended up meeting the girl and began dating. Did he go after her because she was 19? No. Was she looking for "dadd… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/18 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Explain the complete lack of any sort of 'bro code'The only guys i've seen that truly stick to the bro code are high status dudes. That's been my experience too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/17 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Finding yourself - how?It's a lifelong journey. (Although significant processes can happen quite early) Check out Carl Jung's Individuation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/17 10:41 AM |
| – | Let's talk about prenups, this time the actual law.Question, let's say I got married while living in Oregon, but now reside in Texas. Am I subject to Oregon or Texas Law? (I assume Oregon, but to be sure) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/17 01:05 PM |
| 3 | Do you have a Chad story?I dunno man, one of my buddy is a 6'5" engineer who's also ridiculously good looking and by all accounts decent guy. Oddballs do exist, check out Pat Tillman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/17 08:14 AM |
| 2 | QFMEN: Would you rather a woman stay with you during your struggles or a woman be enamored with you for your power?A, although I don't think it's possible I've known few cases where the girl stayed from the early on, but I'll admit they are very rare. The only thing is I can't say they are the exact scenario said here as they happened in high school/college where money/career isn't a big concern, but the issue was with the guy being (somewhat) chump/shy or to use the term here, "Beta". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/17 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Women categorize men solely on looks, this is what either makes a guy "creepy" or not. Personality comes second.I agree to an extent, but what kind of energy a guy puts out plays a huge factor too. (Through facial expression, body language etc.) When I feel shitty/not confident/desperate, I'm freaking invisible or appear creepy. For E.G., I've had a girl run away to their friends at a party to stay away from me. Happy and confident? I've had a car full of hot sorority girls stop in the middle of a road to invite me to go to beach with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/16 02:44 AM |
| 7 | What rights do men have that women do not?Well for people under 30, the standards for "fat" in a woman is anything over 115 pounds. The only place that I've seen that to be the case is high fashion magazines. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/16 08:16 AM |
| 1 | If feminism is good for men, why are so many men against it?Do you know what the word actually mean in literal sense? How would you feel if I use the word that equates to "removal of female sexual organ" when I talk about women? I think something on the line of "tone down" would sound much more reasonable. I'd like to know what you mean by current toxic hyper masculine culture. If you are talking about douchey Affliction T-shirt wearing types, that's not masculinity, but insecurity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/16 01:48 AM |
| 2 | If feminism is good for men, why are so many men against it?they are trained to think emasculation is bad from a young age and few people ever challenge this pre-conception. Could you tell us what this "emasculation" please? It's just that different people mean different things with the word so I'd appreciate if you could give some examples. Thnx | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/16 12:58 AM |
| 1 | If feminism is good for men, why are so many men against it?I think most men are pretty neutral about and pretty sure they agree with reasonable ones. For E.G., remember the lady who got fired for not wearing heels? http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/life/nicola-thorp-high-heels-row-its-sexist-to-insist-that-women-wear/ 99.9% of guys (feminist or not) would agree that was insane that she was practically forced to wear one. However, men don't really seem to be crazy about feminist initiatives. Could you give us some examples of it please? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/16 12:51 AM |
| 5 | Q4RP: What are some things you think TRP gets wrong or exaggerates?I'm 50/50 on showing emotion thing. In my experience simply acknowledging problem or sad emotion is fine. It's a problem when someone delves into it and start whinging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/16 01:27 AM |
| 3 | Q2Women: Is it rude to hit on women/girls outside of nightclubs or bars?I second this. I bar-tended for a while to improve my social skills. It helped me more than anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/16 01:07 AM |
| 2 | What TRP men actually need is love.Actually, despite me being "Closer to Red purplepill." I totally agree with this. What people don't understand is that loving oneself does not mean "Don't improve yourself." And to truly improve oneself, one needs to truly accept and surrender. I was an awkward ugly duckling myself (yep, the total package). It wasn't until I started feeling good and happy when girls started coming to me. Believe me when I say this, girls can just sense the energy a guy is putting out. I know it sounds like new a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/16 02:34 AM |
| 6 | Women like nice guys, just not sensitive, over dramatic queensIf by nice we mean well mannered, polite, and socially savvy while out in the world then yes. Well said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/16 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Honest question: Why were my feminist friends silent about the horrible mass sexual assault that happened in Cologne, Germany on NYE?Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/16 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Honest question: Why were my feminist friends silent about the horrible mass sexual assault that happened in Cologne, Germany on NYE?Actually, I did to one from Northern Europe (Not Germany tho). She just flat out didn't answer at all. The rest of them I didn't even bother because when I posted about the controversial "beach body ready" commercial, http://www.theguardian.com/media/2015/apr/27/mass-demonstration-planned-over-beach-body-ready-tube-advert saying I don't understand why that's sexist and why people are angry about it at first place and how men are under just as much pressure to look good, they flipped their shit. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/16 06:52 PM |
| 1 | The Nice Guy / Asshole DichotomyThank you. I know PLENTY "Nice guys" who are chilled out, relaxed, easy-going who are crazy popular with girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/16 06:27 PM |
| 0 | What are your takes on this? super hot Guess model marries non-CEO non-celebrity guy at 23Hmm... I have known few, but extremely attractive guys. To the degree of getting hit on just walking around by attractive girls. Believe it or not as long as the girl was 6/7 or above, they seemed to go for personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/15 03:33 AM |
| 1 | What are your takes on this? super hot Guess model marries non-CEO non-celebrity guy at 23Had no idea how much they made... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/15 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Do you think men flock to TRP because the rest of society doesn't care about their struggles?TL;DR: Asian guy in a boardroom meeting asks the producer of a K-Pop themed kids TV show if it will feature any asian males. Holy fucking shit. Of all things, NO ASIAN MALES IN K-POP THEMED KIDS TV SHOW? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/15 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Am I the only one around here who is not attracted to "alpha males" ?THIS. Alpha doesnt mean being arrogant or obnoxious and in my opinion its a stereotypical impression of what "Alpha" is. Ive known some people that were in the most elite units of the military(US). Note, this can cme from other fields too, but just giving an example. They are some of the most soft spoken people Ive met. Thats why I find douchy frat boy types hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/15 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible for a man to be sexually objectified?Hell yes. Seriously, just go to Spain. The girls are way more open about this. Girls there pretty much catcall on guys. Or try hanging around extremely good looking guys. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=75aX9mlipiY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/15 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Men do not age better than womenFrom purely physical standpoint, It boils down to individuals... but late 30/ 40s is really pushing it unless the person has freak anti-aging genetics like Hu Bing. (Chinese male supermodel) http://i.imgur.com/jwHxVxS.jpg This guy is in early 40s. I disagree with women's attractiveness declining for women by deafault either as long as she LOOKS great. I once met a girl and I asked her how's college? Turns out shes actually 32. I couldnt believe it! She did not have a single wrinkle and wasnt eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/15 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Men do not age better than womenCommitment is different story tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/15 07:04 PM |
| 2 | What does PPD think of this podcast episode: "Bad Advice from the Internet - Women Love Assholes"?I should've clarified the childhood "I don't care" attitude is what's needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/15 07:04 PM |
| 2 | What does PPD think of this podcast episode: "Bad Advice from the Internet - Women Love Assholes"?Even when I was a chump due to "be nice to girls", those types never came across as true asshole to me. Sure, were they "nice"? Hell no. But asshole? Another hell no. What I recommend to BP when flirting with girls is that go into your child self. Remember the days girls were just people and you loved to tease them in a light-hearted fun way? That helped me tremendously. EDIT: I should've clarified the childhood harmless "I don't care" attitude is what's needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/15 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Red pillers, do you have any stats or evidence showing that men are most attractive in their 30s and 40s?I think women over 29 that have taken good care of themselves have no problem getting laid. Commitment from men is a different story however | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/15 09:34 PM |
| 1 | If TRP advocates men to fuck "sluts" and marry "virgins," then why the whining with women fucking "alphas" and marrying "betas"?strategy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/15 02:22 AM |
| 6 | In what ways is the red pill LTR similar to or different from conventional Male/female, Dominant/submissive relationships?Dominance has very ugly meanings, when it really can just be a normal and healthy facet of your personality. THIS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/15 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Do women have sixth sense for "Future Alpha"?I meant that as in girls doing it unconsciously. My bad, should've clarified. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/15 10:09 PM |
| 3 | Do women have sixth sense for "Future Alpha"?I actually noticed that absurdly good looking guys tend to go for a relationship when they come across a well-adjusted cute girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/15 09:43 PM |
| 2 | If TRP advocates men to fuck "sluts" and marry "virgins," then why the whining with women fucking "alphas" and marrying "betas"?I was referring to date alpha marry beta. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/15 09:33 PM |
| 5 | Do women have sixth sense for "Future Alpha"?Hmm... makes sense... Only one of those guys I knew before they met their GF. As shy as he was, I just knew he had this innate self was extremely strong. I'm not necessarily talking about this whole Alpha thing, but he just was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/15 07:42 PM |
| 3 | If TRP advocates men to fuck "sluts" and marry "virgins," then why the whining with women fucking "alphas" and marrying "betas"?Either you're a virgin or you're not. Correct me if I'm wrong here, but I don't think they mean a literal virgin, but a serial monogamist with low partner count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/15 07:21 PM |
| 2 | If TRP advocates men to fuck "sluts" and marry "virgins," then why the whining with women fucking "alphas" and marrying "betas"?they're angry that they have been duped about these facts and weren't provided with a full copy of the rule book Well said sir | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/15 06:35 PM |
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