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DiscussionThisIsMyAccount135/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 05:48 PM
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Purge Week!ThisIsMyAccount135/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:40 PM
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Purge Week!ThisIsMyAccount135/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:40 PM
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CMVThisIsMyAccount135/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 04:15 PM
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Question For MenThisIsMyAccount135/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 11:11 AM
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Test
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 04:35 PM
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You just apply for jobs randomly? Or you have family or network connections? And what kind of coding? I have an eng degree and do forecasting shit right now.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/21 10:23 PM
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Any advice for getting to the states? STEM degree, was speaking with some recruiters just before the pandemic but they ghosted me after the border closed. I have a "good paying job" in Toronto now instead but the wage is dogshit compared to the US. I've tried contacting those recruiters but the leads seem to have gone cold. Edit: canadian citizen so I can get a TN visa
/r/TheRedPill24/04/21 10:00 PM
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Yeah that's true. We'll see. I mean it's not like I have a choice I haven't met any quality girls yet anyways so life just takes me where it's gonna take me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 06:53 PM
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Women like attractive guys. A nice guy who is hot will have girls swooning over him just like a hot serial killer will. Too many retards trying to be dark triad psychos these days instead of looksmaxxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 11:56 PM
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Nah fuck that. I just got into a serious fwb and that's enough for me lmao. In my late 20s I'll get serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 10:16 PM
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My tinder got better pandemic... Or maybe my game has just improved. But dates are literally free. And nowhere to go = invite them straight over. I got a number of dates from old in a month before I met my current fwb. I know your supposed to spin plates and shit but I'm lazy, and also it is covid so seems best to just stick with one for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 10:03 PM
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I agree with the symptom, not the cause. Boomers were raised on romance, they believed that "love conquers" all and all that bullshit. Truth is that love doesn't conquer all, it requires hard work from both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 09:56 PM
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Did you ever sleep with her? Anyways In Canada it's legal. You can buy shit more expensive government weed online.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 09:49 PM
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Exactly what I was thinking There are certain "characteristics" that drastically increase the likelihood of having and STI.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 01:07 PM
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I was quiet shy and introverted in uni and still got laid. But I look good so
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:25 PM
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Yeah... I can either be in a collapsing society getting my dick wet. Or in a collapsing society as a lonely incel watching porn every day
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 06:03 PM
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Lol idk life seems fun anyways. Smoke weed trade stocks work get pussy. Honestly I doubt many of my friends are gonna have kids or a family. These Puritans are so annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 05:42 PM
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People talk about hypergamy, which is true. There also alot of single women who don't really try to date. Like they have money and a job, they might fuck like once a year but other than that they're completely of the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 05:40 PM
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Exactly. Before I turned 20 I still bought that get married to a nice girl etc. But then I realized that it wouldn't be for another decade. And I would be missing out on 10 years of sex. so I actually started trying to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 05:37 PM
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I feel so bad for those guys honestly. Like I have fucked around a bit (sub-Chad) so let's say I was celibate for the rest of my life at least I've already been there done that. I also find that I don't mind commitment as much once I've experimented with different girls. But I see like 30 year old dudes with ugly girls way below them in looks. Must be the inexperienced guys, desperate for some puss.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 10:14 PM
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That was me in my first ltr. I just wanted to lose my virginity. Now, I would rather be celibate than be dating a bitch again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 10:11 PM
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Women only become liberal and feminist when there is a shortage of alpha males.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 06:23 PM
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Lol yeah. Everyone is talking about "liberal women" on this thread as if liberal women are somehow magically different than... Other women? Liberal women are desperate for a masculine guy to put her in her place... Every feminist I fucked was into kinky submissive shit. Look how many soy boys live in Seattle or Toronto or some liberal area. So yes, AWALT and good luck being in a 50/50 relationship especially with a liberal woman, she will just treat you like a bitch. There is no equality when it…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 02:36 PM
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Yes. People forget that many people having kids are 35 - which means they were in their 20s in the late 2000s. That was a long time ago. We're seeing the USA birth rate drop every year as those people get past the childbearing years. There's kind of a delay in noticing how many gen Z aren't going to have kids. I'm childfree and know a ton of others who are too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 02:32 PM
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Fuck, sometimes I hate Canada. Cold af, high af taxes, boring, lower salaries less job growth. People talk about the healthcare system here, but if you're upper middle class the us system is better than ours LOL. Wait times are so long. I'd love to move there but it's really hard to immigrate. Best I can do is a NAFTA work visa. To get a green card takes decades, I'd be an old man by then. Maybe I'll have to marry an American.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 02:22 PM
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I'll probably wait a while too. Early 20s just seems a bit too young to have a surgery like that. Re abortion I guess cuz I already got a girl pregnant and she got rid of it right away maybe I'm overly confident that all girls will.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 12:09 PM
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Yeah ikr. They are irrational. I think it's one of tomassi"s iron rules, always be in control of your own fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 06:17 AM
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Whoah Miami sounds great Florida is the place to be rn, no lockdowns either
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 06:16 AM
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Wish you were in Toronto bro We could fuck our fwbs and larp as Chad's when we hang out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 12:29 AM
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I rarely see influencer fuckbois irl. Might be more of an American thing too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 12:17 AM
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I agree lol. I have a no strings attached fwb. Shes fine if I see other girls, as long as she doesn't hear about it. Right now I'm the only guy she's seeing. We just do fun shit, smoke weed, snd have sex. She's on birth control. If that fails she would get a free abortion. No worries of having a kid. I really can't complain
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 12:08 AM
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Women posting their L"s online
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 12:51 PM
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Well for me gaining weight was good because I was lifting. However I pulled girls when skinny too (I still am kinda skinny) but I've always been above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 12:47 PM
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Do they still feel "empowered" about being a corporate drone at that point? Lol. When does the realizing kick in that Chad McChadstein boss only wants pretty young girls around to get some ass when he's feeling the urge. You are nothing but whores for corporations.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 12:44 PM
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Not really Today average guys can get an obese single mom with half-black kids. It's just the nature of hypergamy. However self improvement is always a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 12:42 PM
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I used to be one of the beta provider types. Then I realized that I was gonna have to wait at least 10 years to get laid again (once I was in my 30s) and miss out on sex in my prime while others were banging. Unfortunately in today's market you need to take what you can get or else you're missing out. I keep warning my inexperienced beta provider friends too but they don't listen. Chad's and sub-chad guys who have messed around a bit will have much happier marriages if we choose to go that route…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 12:40 PM
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It's easy to tell. I fucked a barely legal girl lately who had already had a body count of 9. I honestly felt bad for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 12:36 PM
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It's not the only thing but it does matter. Women with high N counts are a disaster, great for sex and fuckbuddies but I'd never be in a relationship with one. Guys with low N counts are also red flags, it means he's a loser or timid. It's a weird dichotomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 12:35 PM
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What are women supposed to do? Date men they find repulsive? Lol. Men could collectively decide to go Trad at any time but they always prefer their porn and sex dolls and being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 12:34 PM
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Disagree most guys started watching porn in high school and never stopped
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 03:06 AM
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All white people?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 08:42 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 08:35 PM
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Lol ya see my comment about my Indian plate posting woke stuff all the time and yet only fucking white guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 06:54 PM
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Yes, I've noticed this too. I see all kinds of ethnicities in interracial couples - Indian - Asian, black - Asian, white - every PoC. I saw a very attractive Asian male Indian female couple the other night.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 06:50 PM
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Haha appreciate the insight. Hope you find somebody b.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 06:40 PM
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Yeh elites and top politicians control society lol. 99% of Americans have little power or influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 06:37 PM
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You're acting like sjws are some fringe minority. Check out what Kamala harries, and other prominent politicians are saying these days
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 06:30 PM
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I am a white male myself. I'm not jealous of myself, and I also don't think white people are any better or worse than other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 06:29 PM
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One thing I can mention is that the " fight white supremacy" women are often insincere. For instance, I had an indian-canadian plate who would always post woke shit on Instagram and yet she was only taking white dick. AoC is dating a white guy and Ilhan Omar cheated on her husband with a Jewish guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 06:24 PM
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Yeah makes sense, same as the girl I smashed yesterday
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 12:43 PM
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I mean I'd like to. But I'm not chad idk if I can get multiple girls at once lol. I'll do my best and take what I can get. How's your girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 12:30 PM
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I can tell genuine vs fake i think they can too. I think what these people are noticing is that a generation of men is literally not raised to be assertive and confident. They are raised by beta simp father's. So where would they learn? So then whatever idiot fake asshole is the only guy with. A shred of confidence or masculinity, so women are attracted to him? Idk. As a 23 year old I find i stand out from most guys just from not being a simp lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 12:17 PM
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It will be interesting to see if this holds going into the future too. We don't really have a large sample size even in my parents generation the only people who didn't have kids, either couldn't, or were fucked up / losers who never got married. Voluntary childlessness and also being single post 30 is a pretty new thing. I suspect your right that childfree relationships allow for a much stronger bond to develop.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 12:13 PM
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I don't think most people on this sub has ever dated or met any women. They speak only in caricatures. Some psycho serial killer chad is stealing my gf! I had alot more success than some of these blowhard douchebags who tried to act and talk like some moron bad guy. What matters is assertiveness. I'm also a nice human, I want people to succeed. But I don't fall for bullshit and I pass shit tests. And looks matters too. Be nice - but stand with a straight back.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:59 AM
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Source on introverts vs extroverts?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:54 AM
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Yeah we're gonna hang out again this week. Definitely plate material, she's 5"1 and 100lb super cute and petite but not gf material. Other girl was a time waster and also suicidal lol. Dodged a bullet
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:45 AM
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Aye broski Just smashed a tinder date , first time I met her 2021 is off to a good start
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 01:42 AM
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Sorry can you explain how slutty women get hot husband's and conservative women get fat balding husband's? Seems that most guys get bald and fat regardless of how slutty their wife is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:35 PM
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It's already accessible in most of western europe, canada, australia, and much of east asia. This is a usa centric debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 08:35 PM
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True perhaps in the usa, since you're referring only to white men. However there are many races of men in the world, just about all of them would benefit from more traditional gender relations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 11:29 PM
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Is it game? I think it's just big dick energy A cute guy with big dick energy will get laid even if he has the charisma of a rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 10:44 PM
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Well, I'm canadian, so it's not like we don't have access to birth control and reproduction. As a childfree person it's important to me, because I never want kids and obviously there are a range of options to make sure that never happens. When I was 20 I got my then girlfriend pregnant, even though she was on the pill. It was like a bucket of cold water thrown on me, I could see my life going away. Luckily, we had already discussed this and were both on board with an abortion. It was pretty easy…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 10:33 PM
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Good luck Tonite Hope you get a fwb / whatever you're looking for Keep abortion money handy just in case
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 10:02 PM
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Yeeee let's go Literally online dating + redpill has turned me into a huge misgynist. I see women as a pussy on a stick that's putting out annoying shit tests, that's basically all I value her for lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 09:32 PM
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Should I play it cool and then escalate hard on the 3rd date? Or just escalate again tonight?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 09:15 PM
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Bro she literally lives in the condo next door to me. It just happened by luck. It's like a 1 min walk for a $10 date there's no downside. Trust me I'm not getting caught up in the bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 09:08 PM
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Oh yeah I wouldn't be in a relationship with her. Our dates are cheap af I only bought her a bubble tea last time so it's not like it's costing me anything. In a way it would be fun to wait her out then pump n dump her. Anyways I have a different ho coming over Sunday so that should be good too Edit: I also smashed a girl in my car about a week ago. Old is doing alright so far since mid December I started using it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 09:05 PM
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Lol date is pretty shit tier but we are in full on lockdown, don't totally wanna dox myself by saying what exactly were doing. No she said her new years resolution is celibacy. Idk what to say to that, that's why I'm cautious about her being a time waster. She let me grab her ass and rub her thighs but when I moved in to kiss she didn't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 08:56 PM
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Oh yeah that's good advise. Goin on a date tonight myself. We already went on one day where I escalated but we didn't fuck. I'm giving it until date 3 before I next her. This is #2.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 08:41 PM
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Hell realize it's easier to get laid in his muslim country than in a western one loool (unless he's a Chad)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 07:15 PM
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Yeah something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 06:46 PM
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Boomers rioted to end the vietnam war. The older boomer was only 19 when the civil rights act in 1964 passed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 06:45 PM
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I don't necessarily mean politically liberal I mean liberal in the sense that they weren't following the traditional life path of their parents. Woodstock? Rock and roll? Hippies? Very different from their parents at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:20 PM
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Lol who considers boomers a bastion of traditionalism, they were the most liberal ever
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:18 PM
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No. They will do better in hookup culture in general not just old
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 04:20 PM
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I mean, doesn't this just mean that women under 20 are less picky? People experiment with all kinds of things as teens. Their standards go up as they get older. I guess we will have to see if this generation is still the same in 5 or 10 years. However I do think that more men will be successful with casual sex as we're kind of learning more about it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 04:06 PM
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Yo congrats on the sex. Go option #1
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 03:37 PM
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Welcome back Was sad when u deleted your account before
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 12:25 PM
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You predental?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 02:30 AM
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I mean, yeah I do. But I also want my girl to be earning money. I'm childfree so there's no reason we both shouldn't be working. I'm fine with evenly splitting chores and cooking etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 09:33 PM
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Women vastly overestimate the rate of male success on online dating. Girls ask my body count sometimes. I never answer. But they always guess at least 2x higher than it is. I told a girl once I hadn't gotten laid for 3 months (pre redpill lol). She said ohhh my goddd , that's Soo long just get on tinder haha. No insight into reality.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 01:48 PM
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Hell yeah. Just abort that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:11 PM
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Can you post a pic? I'm kinda the same though, I've been getting so many matches lately and I just stopped giving a f about them. I don't smash that many either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:47 PM
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What? Take your meds pls
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:38 PM
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I have seen some white women age well, but only those who don't drink and do hardcore skin care. And probably genetics too. But yeah the average white woman is actually pretty hideous when she gets to her 50s and beyond. I think white men still look good as long as they don't get fat, even with wrinkles skin they just look more wise and serious as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 12:34 PM
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Canada There's mixed race couples of all kinds but certainly the vast majority seem to be same race, nothing like you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:59 AM
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I think I've only met one non-white guy in my whole life who didn't have a fetish for white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:22 AM
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Whoah I have never heard of this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:21 AM
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I live in Toronto and every girl I talk to wants kids it seems...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 12:28 AM
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Every woman I know shaves her body and pubic hair. Every guy shaves his front, and at least trims pubes and armpits.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 12:14 AM
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The whole thing is that we are looking at it wrong. Being "happy" isn't actually something that is a normal emotion, or possible all the time. Actual happiness is moments of joy. Life is always tough, for most people. I look at life as a slog. Alot of meh. Contentedness about what I've done for myself. But if you look to be happy every day you will be depressed because we simply don't have the events in our day to day life to cause happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 12:12 AM
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Yeah I don't think it is class if anything rich people have less kids. If you look at birth rates in asia they're even lower than europe and south korea has the lowest birth rate of all time right now I believe. It seems like every girl I meet on OLD is below me in terms of looks / SES and they also want kids. It's fine for spinning plates but I want to find a nice childfree LTR but can't find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 12:08 AM
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Are you rich/poor what race etc? You are 110% into the concept?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 11:34 PM
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Nah. The worst is AFC (average frustrated chump). Too good looking to give up and buy a sex doll and a big screen videogame console. Not good looking enough to avoid sexual frustration. Guess which one I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:53 PM
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Why not? I hope it holds too, though. Like when you have a bigger group of people who don't want kids it's alot easier and better
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:40 PM
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I know lots of people who can but still don't (either they never found the right partner or they just don't want to).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:34 PM
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I have to say for me it's not that I can't afford a kid (what many people claim is the reason), I actually just don't want one. I don't want to sacrifice my life and put in the effort
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:32 PM
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Young people are fucked up in many aspects Many people need help. Even the millennials dating experiences from just 7-10 years ago are way out of date today
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:30 PM
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Yeah I do really well with just about every non-white group. The only white girls who show me interest are fat :(
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:29 PM
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Because fertility and age are correlated. An older man is still fertile hence can be attractive. An older woman is not. "Attractiveness" is just what nature put there for you to want to fuck somebody and reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:14 PM
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Idk the arabs near me stand around in large groups of all males around their car in parking lots. Arabs are stereotyped for going to clubs and turning it into a sausage fest /scaring off all the girls. Definitely kind of "hood" but they don't seem like the kind of guys who are doing well in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:10 PM
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When I was in mexico many of the Mexicans looked pretty fat... Like American style fat. Maybe its different in other areas. But the latino stereotype of curvy latinas and macho mustached men seemed to be out of date.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:06 PM
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Where do white people fit in here lol? Kinda left out a big group.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:04 PM
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Yeah for a period I thought that I was ugly. But then I talked to some less attractive friends who literally got 0 matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 03:16 PM
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Women vastly overestimate the number of matches I get, the number of dates I go on, and my body count. I'm above average but not Chad (yet). There is pussy out there for me for sure but it's alot of work. Tee hee just get on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 02:39 PM
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How old are you? And what gave you this mindset?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 01:22 AM
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I think alot of guys exxagerate, while women under count
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 01:11 AM
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Everybody struggles with dating Dating advice has been around for a long time In the online era physical looks is by far the most important
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 01:28 AM
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Gonna be alot more than 30% this year after the pandemic lockdowns in many countries and states. It's like the 90/10 rule now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 01:26 AM
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Done
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 11:39 PM
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Lol I mean unless the many people in LTRs are cheating (they aren't) then you're a wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 01:30 PM
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I mean hookup and sex culture seems very prevalent in tv. So incels and basement dwellers make up this whole narrative where everybody except them is hooking up non stop in a wild fuckfest. In real life, at least in the upper middle class world there's a mix, of casual sex and relationships. Casual sex isn't usually random hookups though it's more like fwb, seeing exes, or people being indecisive. There are alot of people who stay in doing nothing, and don't have sex. I think that the obsession …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 04:50 AM
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Yeah it seems nice to me I wish more people knew this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 04:44 AM
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Yeah but that's your parents' culture you're talking about, is based in christianity. You want that culture but don't want to change your lifestyle for the biblical ways. This is a common theme. There are literally 5 churches within a 10 minute drive from me - anybody can change their lifestyle next week if they wanted to. Most people just prefer a free and modern lifestyle when it comes down to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 06:36 PM
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Are you white? Also, sometimes you just get unfortunate genetics. I'm speaking as a tall upper middle class white guy. But there are alot of incels here, especially east asian and south asian people, from my experience. But yeah, generally the most successful people ignore all the feminist brainwashing received in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 06:34 PM
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There's still lots of tradcons too loll they're just religious. The people who are fucked are the "secular + trad" people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 05:48 PM
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Spiritually, yeah it probably is. The solution to that is religion, I've said this to all the miserable and depressed guys on here. there are just other sacrifices to be made of you pursue a religious life. "Awww, man, you mean I can't have my weed, porn, and sex dolls?? Nah fuck that shit I'm sticking with my depression and misery" is usually what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 05:45 PM
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Probably 5 or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 03:44 PM
1

I have a question, most of the south is full of english descendants. Where did they come from in england? They just seem much different, ultra racist and ultra religious. Not that there's not elements of that in england too but the south takes those to a new level. Was it some sub-cult in england than came to the south and ended up multiplying alot? Or were they shaped by living conditions in the usa over centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 03:19 PM
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I've never met anybody who wants to go back
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 03:17 PM
0

I prefer natural partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 03:16 PM
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I feel like FOMO is a big thing in the west. So a guy feels like he's missing out, and goes online. And he meets other similar people. They circle jerk about how bad things are until they're all depressed and giving up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 03:15 PM
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Yes stay off hard drugs. That's the number one issue in the west, imo. But as a childfree liberal hedonist, I love the west. I just work, gym, eat, hobbies, and fuck. One day I'd like to settle down with a childfree woman and travel the world. Most of my friends are the same, it's a cool vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 03:14 PM
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Look I agree there is malaise, but it's not that bad, you've been reading too much doom porn. It will no doubt happen one day but you should live in the moment and enjoy it. Also, if you want a trad life why not go to church or another religion? There's still tens of millions of christians in the usa, this sub seems to ignore they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 03:10 PM
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Men are literally declining in testosterone. And every generation has been less masculine in the west for like 4 generations now so it makes sens that people have been complaining. It's a cycle - hard times make strong men - strong men make good times - good times make weak men - weak men make hard times We are headed rapidly for hard times. Don't be surprised if at some point in your life men get sick of annoying women like you and you are back into a burka.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 03:05 PM
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Yes it does
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 03:03 PM
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I wasn't rural but my mom also limited my tv as a kid. I see the same thing as you. It's like I'm an alien sometimes because I don't follow whatever pre-made archetypes are shown on tv. I don't have Netflix or watch TV or even sports, and I don't care. I'm happier that way. But yea in general there's soys and then there's ultra masculine beasts, both make me cringe. I'm just a normal guy who is friendly and polite but also enough T to fuck well and stand up for myself when necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 03:01 PM
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I think it depends. For upper middle class, and wealthy, then yes it's quite good. However not sure I'd enjoy being poor / part of the underclass. If that were the case I might prefer to move to a poor country with more community and more safety nets. Individualism is great for people with higher iq, but for dumb people it's a disaster. But who cares what some dumb feminists say, if they yell at you for being a white male. The older, Karen style femjnists are annoying at work. I find Gen Z femin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 02:56 PM
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Late term abortions are very rare. Usually due to the discovery of a catastrophic birth defect. It is justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 12:02 AM
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I'm in favor of this- the world is overpopulated anyways. A woman should be able to have an abortion or remove her tubes at any time for any reason. A man should be able to get a vasectomy at any time too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 11:48 PM
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What's wrong with what he wanted? He wanted to be a player rich dentist. Doesn't seem abnormal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 11:00 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 06:04 PM
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Where did my boy pre dental go? Looks like he deleted his account
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 05:47 PM
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White women are the most entitled bitches out there. Women are coddled in a way men are not. It's just a fact Other races of women are catching up, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 01:19 PM
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Boys showing aggression get put on hormone blockers and pacifying medications.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 01:56 AM
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Haven't you been to nyc or toronto. Like half the population is from a 3rd world country. Can't you just get laid there?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 11:20 PM
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This When a girl is into me, she's into me, it doesn't really matter what I say
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 04:19 PM
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What percentage of people marry somebody they met in college? I'd imagine it's pretty low, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 02:28 PM
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The west is fucked If youre below average iq and money, you are fucked in the ass. For those wealthy and useful enough, you might be able to live a kind of decent life. Similar to brazil. There's nothing you can do but watch it fall. The west was built on christianity, this gave us wealth, and then people gave up religion. I'm not a christian myself so it's kind of hypocritical to say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 02:26 PM
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Op either doesn't live in the americas or is trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 02:20 PM
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Weren't the puritans a small group? I'd imagine even in the 1600s they were a small minority. How many people are still of pure puritan descent with no intermixing of other ethnicities/races? Probably close to 0. I don't think puritans have anything to do with much today given that they don't exist anymore. Protestant christianity, in general, sure. But christians didn't invent tinder. They are the ones trying to hold onto to the old "normal" ideas of dating marriage and sex, a losing battle, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 02:14 PM
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Man what's with this caricature obsession of latin america and spain lol Have you ever been to Mexico? It's not a bunch of tall muscular macho cowboys banging thicc latinas LOL. They're just as obese as americans
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 01:55 PM
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This lol. American colleges sound insane. From what I heard it seems like people are hooking up non stop. Then compare to my canadian college experience where most people just had gf's (there was some hooking up but american hookup culture sounds pathological to me)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 01:45 PM
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Yeah I found hooking up to be a mess, the girls were always so emotionally fucked up. Plus I'm not Chad enough to bang hot girls casually so it's kind of not worth it to me. If they were more mature it would be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 01:12 PM
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Sorry I'm confused? What does partying or not partying in college have to do with Kevin at 30 years old looking for a wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 12:56 PM
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Honestly, it's possible for an old man to be attractive. Even with wrinkles and if he's bald. Because for men it's more than just looks, it's your frame, face structure, fitness, general masculinity, and wealth. Big dick energy is a thing. Now that skincare is becoming popular the next generation of men will look even better as they age. Balding is unfortunately not really curable yet. But as I said it's not a death sentence if you're jacked, rich, and/or fashionable. But the biggest issue that …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 07:38 PM
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Is that a good thing though.. the people reproducing most are religious extremists of all types, and stupid /poor people This is assuming that fertility is hereditary, and I've never seen any evidence of this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 07:04 PM
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Men don't care about whatever "historic power" bullshit you're talking about However now that an increasing number of men are unable to get married or even have sex it's a legitimate concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 07:02 PM
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It was heavy but even a heavy meal at home is still far better than eating at McDonald's.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 06:57 PM
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Sounds like redpill lol However the average silent still understood innate redpill far better
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 04:42 PM
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Lol some guys want a committed relationship People generally date their own age. You think rollo is fucking 22 year olds because of his "game"? Dude looks like he lives in a trailer park and hunts squirrels lmfao. Are there really that many "successful beta" anyways? Most average guys do have relationships and sex throughout their 20s, just not much casual sex. In 2020 most people have a sexual history, male and female and there's nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 04:20 PM
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It would be too much... Bitches would literally be soaking themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 11:34 PM
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In 2020 I'm convinced that everyone is mentally ill, literally ever girl is on anti depressants. Most guys don't seem to be on pills but I know so many guys who clearly suffer from un-diagnosed depression - they just sit at home and smoke weed. I just think that everybody is on an even playing field when it comes to mental illness and dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 11:23 PM
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Many gen z women just like feminine men in general. Translation: they like weak betas whom they can boss around and make miserable. Female nature has not changed Masculinity is becoming less popular than ever with the successive generations And it's a bad thing. Women like masculine men, just be masculine without being a racist/sexist dickwad. Ask the Boomer/Gen X divorcees how being the feminine nice guy partner worked out for them. Also the "cute" guy only works when he's like 16-23. After tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 11:17 PM
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Dobermans are beautiful man. I hope you can get it enough exercise I need an alpha chad dog to go along with my alpha chad self lmao Hahaha true or wishful thinking 🤔🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 11:08 PM
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Yup I still want an LTR eventually- not necessarily marriage though because I feel like marriage is another factor which sorta 'ties you down'. I'd like a committed gender neutral partnership - like a marriage but we never sing the papers. "American Dream" (a nightmare in my opinion lmao), I want an exciting life with lots of travel, lots of spontenaeity, not being tied down The american dream was nice in it's day, but with technological changes it's outdated. We now have effective birth control…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 11:02 PM
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I'd say mental illness has no impact on dating success. If anything being a little crazy helps average guys. The people struggling the most are the most average, most boring and stable guys without the Chad looks. Ugly people just fuck other ugly people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 10:51 PM
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I wouldn't say that we're not family oriented - young people like to spend time with their parents and siblings and stuff. And a spouse+dog is still a family. Just not as interested in the kids part of it. I also prefer a condo, how much space do you really need. I'm not huge on dogs myself but if we did get bored we could get a dog. Sometimes even a dog seems like too much commitment lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 10:50 PM
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Lots of men struggle with this we just hide it better lol. However the number of absolutely insane and hysterical females I see suggests that they're much more mentally ill than the average man these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 10:32 PM
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People are definitely still into LTRs and commitment lol. Unironically NAWALT, at least for professionals. However I think a much greater emphasis is placed on "fun" in a relationship as well as people recognizing that things won't necessarily be permanent. Sometimes people move on. I know a guy who has been dating someone for 4 years and says they don't plan on being together forever. Edit: evidence of this is the popularity of hinge. Alot of hookup culture is women being dumb sluts who think t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 10:24 PM
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Yea bro exactly. By my 40s and 50s I'll have money, and hopefully a woman. This is time to start living! Travel excessively with a partner slobbering on my cock. Viagra is a thing no need to limit your lifestyle. Our generation can't afford a single family home and don't want them anyways. They are building so many condos in urban areas because that's what people aged <35 want. You're not projecting, what you're seeing is common for middle and upper middle class professionals these days. HOWEVER…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 10:17 PM
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Yea My motto is that if I'm not getting laid then there's no excuse to not be improving, no excuse to not be lifting or reading or investing or cooking. Even if I have no luck with hoes this week/month/year/whatever I always enjoy cooking a steak, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 08:58 PM
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It depends where u are The resorts can be a sausage fest, all American guys have the same idea as u If you're actually in the country I'm sure you could fuck some locals tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 08:18 PM
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Lol same My only value now is make money, improve myself, have a good time and fuck bitches along the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 08:15 PM
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Hell no
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 03:49 PM
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Idk, in my age group alot of guys feel they're getting fucked over (20s). I'm sure alot of them are clueless but they are not ugly or homeless. Yeah the football players and Chad's are doing great but that's not most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 05:37 PM
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Nah I'm not balding yet. If I pull back my hair you can see its recede a bit at the temples. However when my is styled normally you can't notice anything at all. But its definitely starting, I know it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 05:03 PM
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When I go home for Christmas I'll see my doctor and talk about It
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 05:00 PM
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No I've never tried it, I'm scared about that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 04:46 PM
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Same They're either choosing not to, or being forced into not having them (it's hard for alot of guys to get a gf). As I said above, for people In this age group, it's acceptable to say you dont want kids, and acceptable to get an abortion, but NOT acceptable to actually have a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 04:28 PM
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I was in an LTR for 1 year, basically having sex 4+ times per week. I know some guys with higher n counts than me but actual times having sex it's not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 04:21 PM
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I've always wished I was circumcised lol. It's just so much more aesthetic. I guess I could just go get it now but it seems like a hassle lol. And no chick has complained about it. First cosmetic surgery I'd get would be a nose job to fix the bump on my nose, and later on probably hair transplants.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 04:06 PM
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Yeah fuck that lol Good way of putting it bro
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 09:03 PM
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It's ultimately a pyramid scheme. I think society will collapse once the boomers are all in retirement, doesn't matter how many immigrants you have coming in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 07:58 PM
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Also there seems to be a decline in mixed gender social circles - other than at parties my circle is all dudes. We meet most girls from OLD. I feel that there is a decrease in mixed gender socializing in previous generations which might contribute to less couples (could just be my circle tho).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 07:56 PM
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Yeah this is pretty much it. We live for the moment, and for experiences. Kids just increase barriers to experiencing this. Some people are in relationships some are just having casual sex but no one wants kids. Imo we're at the point where it's more acceptable to say you don't want kids, or to say you had an abortion, than it is to actually have a kid (during your 20s). That's for the "winners" the upper middle class. The "losers", the downwardly mobile and working class probably won't have kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 07:56 PM
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Why do you assume there will be massive Mexican immigration? Mexican fertility rates are now below replacement and are dropping like a stone every year. There were "floods" of Mexican immigrants from the 70s to the 10s because Mexico had a fertility rate of 6 while the USA was 2. USA is now 1.7 while Mexico is at 1.9 and dropping alot faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 07:32 PM
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Same lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 07:29 PM
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The number of childless boomers is low, but prior to that childlessness in America was common, with around 25% of women having no kids. My guess is that this was due to infertility - and today's childlessness is caused by choice or inability to find a partner rather than infertility from polio or measles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 03:15 PM
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https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-rise-of-childless-america According to this study, 26% of women born in 1990 will have no children. The number of childless men is always higher than the number of childless women, so maybe 30 or 35% of millennial men will be childless. The numbers are a projection and are skyrocketing in this study every year a woman was born in so it could end up much higher for millennials, and likely will in Gen Z.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 03:11 PM
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Same in the Toronto area, it seems like the only people with kids are rich white people and Fobs. But 2nd and 3rd generation immigrants dont seem to have many kids at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 03:08 PM
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Once you're poor for a little bit, you stop caring that you're poor. Then you dont care if you can't afford your kids. However I'd say that there is also a religious component, religious people of all background and Faith's have many more children too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 03:06 PM
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Lol, even at the grocery store here full time employees make 20/hr in the union and get benefits. Those jobs are still around in Canada unions haven't been as gutted. But we are certainly heading in your direction too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 03:40 AM
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Yeah fuck em They're working in a warehouse after finishing their history meme degree getting no pussy and doing drugs. I have more motivated friends now. At the time it stung for sure tho. Now I try to be supportive of men, virgin or not, if a guy is a virgin I'll be nice to him and give him advice and courage
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 08:39 PM
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Maybe in Canada things are better By working class I dont mean minimum wage schleps I mean factory workers or union workers with decent wages.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 08:38 PM
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This. Theres absolutely no lack of masculinity among working class people. The working class crisis of drug addictions is happening because many jobs are being sent away or automated. The working class that is sto working is fine. I'm very concerned about the white collar males, they're huge cucks and soys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 02:25 PM
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I got bullied for being a virgin when I was 17 and 18... brutal by my 'friends'. Jokes on them now they're drug addicts and losers now, I've got way more pussy and relationships since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 02:10 PM
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Money talks You can get anything if you're willing to pay for it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 01:58 PM
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Just cook bro Just shower bro Just get a haircut bro Nah, I know lots of decent looking guys with careers, who do get haircuts and clean their rooms, who can't get a gf in a big city
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 01:51 PM
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Maybe mentally weak, but go to any small town and I can tell you that the fatties, dummies, and uglies are procreating alot more than the city people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 01:48 PM
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Yeah women honestly seem to not be bothered if they're getting no dick. That said many are on the carousel. But I also know alot of gen z women in relationships, or who are virgins(!) Who dont mind being single. Either way they can snag a hot dude for one night and then be celibate for 3 years and then get another dick on demand when they feel like it, not like they need to stress about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 01:46 PM
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Yeah its gotten surprisingly bad, my average friends have literally given up on dating... good careers nice pictures on OLD decent social skills... couldn't get a gf and they've given up. Boomers just say stupid shit like get a good sense of humor. A number of guys have a very small or zero social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 01:42 PM
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Women at least had to go out to the bar to get attention
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 01:40 PM
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Yeah this seems accurate, guys are either becoming neets/drug addicts, the ones who dont seem to becoming far right. There is a far right church near me with a radical preacher yelling about brimstone and fire, theres alot of young guys who go there, his audience is made up of like half under 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 01:37 PM
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G
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 01:35 PM
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I dont mind being single, because I'm an introvert. But in terms of sex I definitely get alot more in a relationship, at a non Chad man. I'm still above average tho so it's not a death sentence it must be hell for ugly single guys tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 01:30 AM
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The be fair call her daddy will be full of sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 01:23 AM
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Nah, hook up culture is very real But not everybody participates in it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 07:55 PM
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Go to church and have babies lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 10:00 PM
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Yeah idk, I see commenters here always saying that city people have more sex and that flyover people are fat, it might be true, bit statistically rural people have alot more babies. There are almost no babies in big cities
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 09:50 PM
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I'm A man lol This is just what I've noticed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 06:42 PM
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So you're saying you meet higher quality guys on OLD than in church?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 04:39 PM
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Compared to Mexico, yeah every us state is much better off in just about every metric. Even the poorest us state, Mississippi, has a similar hdi to England. Not saying the USA doesn't have major problems but let's not be delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 04:36 PM
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I mean you seem pretty successful Basically all these pills and ideologies and bullshit came up because it's getting harder and harder for average guys to date and find a partner. So we could say that in general marriage is still the end goal, even most redpill guys end up getting married. To me I would like to sleep around in my 20s then settle down a hot professional woman and enjoy spending time with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 04:28 PM
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Theres nothing you can do. Only religious or poor people have alot of kids. When poor people become wealthier their birth rate drops alot, look at Asia and Latin American that both have low birth rates now. Immigration just puts the top IQ asians or Latinos into low fertility western culture and ends their high IQ family line faster. Over time religious groups will outbReed everyone- be it muslims, mormons, or amish or fundamental Christians. Muslims are outbreeding Europeans in Europe and amish…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 04:23 PM
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True, but wouldn't bringing "your" people in from Mexico or wherever just create another shithole like mexico? Latin America in general is a giant shithole, always has bee always will be. So yeah you can bring in immigrants from there but over time it will just increase poverty and decrease living conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 04:20 PM
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I'm sure the upper class women were quite attractive but 99% of peasant women would look like shit due to malnutrition. It would also depend on the time period, ancient Rome was quite wealthy and men would have multiple sexual partners, and people were well fed in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 04:15 PM
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Same. I guess it's against redpill but I like a woman with a career and ambition. Kids fuck this up though, but if you're childfree you can be equals for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 04:13 PM
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I disagree that traditional gender roles are bad - if you're raising children. In fact i think people trying to have equality while raising kids is a mistake. In a childfree relationship though equality Is absolutely possible and that's what I want. Super equal and In an ltr with a career woman, but no kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 04:11 PM
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Online interaction isn't as fulfilling as face to face. As far as I can tell dating didn't change much from pre to post pandemic- dating app use Is ubiquitous in every type of living- city or suburb. If anything apps made it easier to date in the suburbs - swiping is the same whether you're downtown or in a white picket fence type area. In the suburbs of Toronto people hookup all the time they just drive to your basement apartment or whatever. People will start meeting up online for stuff imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 10:55 PM
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80/20 rule If every guy started selling drugs only the top 20% of dealers would get laid Anyways, based on the obsession here with having a stream of constant casual sex it seems like most of you guys are desperate. I dont plan to be a drug dealer just to get laid I already get laid like normal guys. And being a fake asshole doesn't work, but also being a nice guy doesn't work. Be assertive and confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 09:12 PM
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My goal is to get a girl, fuck her till she catches feels or we get bored, then dip. And repeat that until I wanna settle down. That's basically what all my late 20s and 30s friends do, my early 20s peers are looking for ltr lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 09:02 PM
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I have self respect A little chub okay A fatty, no way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 08:59 PM
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No it's because they're ugly Or because they're attractive but have been mostly in ltr
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 08:56 PM
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This. Even though the media shows that people are sleeping around and living the sex and the city life through their 20s and 30s, most upper middle class people are in an ltr around their mid 20s. There are exceptions for instance people in school a long time like doctors. There is lots of pussy to be had for a 40 year old bachelor but expect most of it to be single moms and other women you wouldn't wanna marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 08:52 PM
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Gay Mods remove
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 08:46 PM
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It's a cycle is guess People forget. I never forgotten but alot of people have forgotten how hard life was just 100 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 12:11 AM
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Lol true I'm also planning to take some pictures and seriously get back into the old game this weekend Even on my shit profile here in Toronto I'm getting a decent amount of matches just with lower quality girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 09:52 PM
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Haha a lil bit. Honestly I just got kinda bored of the sub too. Theres only so much to debate around hypergamny and 80/20 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 07:49 PM
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😛
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 07:40 PM
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That's not true actually. Asian fertility in the USA is the lowest, who have a large % of immigrants. White and black, the least % of immigrants, have 3rd and 2nd lowest respectively. Hispanics have the highest fertility, but also the group that has experienced the largest drop % in the past decade (not just in the USA, but also Mexico, costa Rica, Argentina, brazil, etc.) Youd be surprised when you look how low Latin America's birth rate is. Ironically and kind of tragically the true native Ame…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 11:47 PM
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Let me tell you, its biological. Why do feminist women ask you to degrade them and treat them like a slut in bed? Sex is intimate and brings out peoples inner desires. In general for men that's to be ultimately dominant and for women it's to be submissive. There are exceptions tho, obv.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 11:45 PM
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I'd say even in the past 5 years the number of women who dont want kids has grown alot... friends, co workers, at the bar... you meet them everywhere. Alot of these women are in committed relationships to it's not just "sluts" living some wild childfree life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 11:42 PM
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Be careful what you wish for. People complain about western degeneracy and bla bla bla but when you're reduced to living on a small farm and dying at 55 from dust poisoning like my great grandparents you are gonna want you tinder, Netflix and wine back lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 11:37 PM
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And the USA has high fertility rates for the developed world, South Korea is the lowest with 0.8(!) And Japan, 1.4, Germany, 1.5, Italy, 1.2, Canada 1.5
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 11:36 PM
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People who try too hard to be dark triad are cringe and I can spot a fake from a mile away. Dont be a pushover and dont be afraid to take what you can and ask for what you need. In any situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 03:02 AM
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Why do you say that you miss the fun bus if you're working in your 20s and 30s? I'm early 20s doing the grind at some boring job, but it's not like I work 24/7. I go out with friends after work or do stuff on weekends. Even during covid I'm still having a decent time. I grinded my ass of during uni and I still had 2 gfs and a couple ons/Fwb and many other dates over the 4 year program. "Having fun" in your 20s and 30s is just a luxury for the upper middle class kids. As the economy becomes more …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 02:54 AM
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Dude sounds pretty successful to me. It's pretty normal for ghosting and other weird shit these days. Honestly theres alot of mentally ill people and single moms out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 02:48 AM
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It depends on what you want. I could go to a church and get a gf. But it would be a long term commitment with the expectation of marriage. But that's not what I want right now, so for me it's not optimal and I prefer to just play the OLD roulette and see where things go (prior to covid at least). I'm somewhat successful at the latter (22 and still improving alot) and I'm sure that if I hung around a church enough I'd eventually get that gf too. While it wouldn't be optimal, I would still be "suc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 02:46 AM
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That's not true, in the western dating mindset. A hot , tall , wealthy guy with big muscles is hot and desirable. It doesn't matter what country, city, or state you're in. Honestly it doesn't matter if hes black, white, or Asian. The only thing that might stop you from being "successful" in any given location is prejudice/xenophobia if you are a minority, but generally in most big cities people are open to inter racial and inter - cultural dating. And even in your own A hot country guy is a "ooh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 02:43 AM
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Honestly nothing... Nobody cares about men especially ugly ones
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 01:37 AM
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25+ is alot, how does he meet them? He just super good looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 01:32 AM
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Same, I actually have great Gene's and high IQ and its selfish af to not pass them on. But honestly idc, I just wanna live a selfish and happy life, hopefully with a wife. Upper middle class people do usually marry or get in an ltr but you're right alot of them just don't have kids anymore. My area is full of childless 30 something professionals
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 07:39 PM
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Uh no not really, plenty of normal guys with average social skills can't get a gf either
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 07:31 PM
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Wtf is wrong with all the people here saying 21, 23, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 12:30 PM
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Lol nice And it takes practice. Honestly being in An ltr is a good way to improve, after my 1 year LTR I'm good af in bed. The downside is that it takes alot of money and commitment...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 03:19 AM
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Society is so divided in every way, by class, race, religion, region, and political orientation. There are lots of "trad" young guys, even in a city, you just don't know them, because they meet at church, in pro life clubs, and gun clubs, and you don't hang out in those circles. However in general yeah the culture is definitely heading towards less marriage and less kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 03:11 AM
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The urban-rural divide is huge. In the city, there's so many childless people, especially under 40. In all honesty none of my colleagues who are <35 have kids, and most won't. We're still entering into the new era, fertility rate is gonna drop alot more as new generations come along.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 03:08 AM
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How did you meet all these childfree couples?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 03:00 AM
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ITT: men say pleasure, women say purpose Is redpill wrong??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 02:56 AM
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Lol RIP Dick game not on point yet
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 02:53 AM
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Idk lol. I've honestly never been ghosted, and I haven't ghosted anybody. If the date goes bad either me or her sends a text saying yeah, it was nice meeting you but it's not gonna work out and the other person says ok, best of luck Maybe I just attract nice girls? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 01:21 PM
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Dont have an idea for a business lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 01:19 PM
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In public, yes. Most men vent on reddit on other sites, which are quite misogynist outisde of the mainstream subs. Main problem is that men won't stick together, its cut throat and if one guy fucks up due to "zexism' that's one competitor out of the way.so the cycle continues.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 01:19 PM
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That sounds great. Since I started my white collar job over a year ago I've actually gotten more sexist, the Karen's at work are incredibly entitled, passive aggressive, and incompetent. They treat everyone like a kid. Not all women, but most of the white women who move up to become managers are awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 01:17 PM
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It's impossible to have an egalitarian marriage with kids. Ultimately the woman will end up doing more especially in the traditional mother roles. So right away, unless shes trad it won't work out because she won't be happy. I'm not tryna have all the extra stress and lack of sleep anyways. Work, cook nice dinners for each other, fuck, and do fun things together is where it's at
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 01:13 PM
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I've noticed this too. I'm only 22 but even at our age lots of girls are in ltr, looking for something serious. But at least half don't want kids. So I think in general most people still want to partner up whether it's an official marriage or just living together but fewer want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 01:05 PM
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This Omg ya I make powerpoints and make 60k, yaa it's like so interesting I love my career so much. Haha yaa I fucked 10 guys in France, ya they were all hotter and had a bigger dick than you but that's ok I'm past that phase now
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 12:51 PM
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It's so easy for women to get laid, if a guy isnt fucking 10 hoes a week they think "tee hee must be an incel". Yes, some guys are getting laid in college. No, in general it's not regularly unless they get a gf. Women just have a bad grip on reality you shouldn't ever take their opinions seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 12:48 PM
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Omg did you never read redpill? Never raise another mans kid bro
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 01:19 PM
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That sounds beta af tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 01:18 PM
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It's your bubble. We have a tendency to apply our bubble to everyone else. But if you're: Asian/white, wealthier, more educated, more religious. You're more likely to be married. But not everyone is like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 01:16 PM
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Alot of marriage is about status for women. They wanna marry a hot guy so all their friends can see that they married a hot guy. It's not logical but then again neither are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 01:10 PM
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Everyone hits the wall. It's about how you age relative to those around you. When you're 40, more men will be bald, or fat, or failed to have a career, etc. So if you have a full head of hair, are in shape, and have a good career at 40, you'll be attractive. Also, it's so rare for a 35 year old to be dating a 20 year old in real life I'm convinced nobody on ppd ever leaves their basement. You usually see single 30 and 40 year olds dating other single 30 and 40 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 07:09 PM
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I'd fuck a female version of myself. But idk if I would date myself. I guess theoretically I would because we'd both know what to do to get along.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 05:08 PM
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Lol buddy is salty that you're childfree. Idk why it makes people so mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 05:06 PM
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Same I was a kissless virgin going into uni
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 09:11 PM
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Do you think we're gonna see more guys going gay on the down low as well? Like I've never had sex with a guy but I like intimacy, I think if I had 0 chance of ever being intimate with a woman I'd consider trying it with a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 09:04 PM
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Yeah betas are necessary for a stable society. It's just gonna collapse cuz the undesirable men are either gonna give up and just LDAR, or join fringe and destructive social movements (like the alt right). Both are already happening and in 10 years you'll see it more and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 01:42 PM
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When I looks on 40 or 50 year olds fb, I often see pictures of parties like 15 or 20 years ago. Every guy was so average, skinny arms, maybe balding, below average fashion. So it wouldnt surprise me it was easy to get laid back then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 01:39 PM
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I havent looksmaxxed but I've put more effort into how I dress and look. Honestly I got dates before but I wanted to go to the next level. However I started the process during covid so it's hard to compare before and after. I do feel better just for myself after I started lifting though which is nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 10:19 PM
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It's hard to tell, if you dont ask. However I can tell when a guy is bullshiting/exaggerating their body count for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 07:43 PM
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Theres a reason that the vast majority of trans people are mtf... Life as a man is more of a struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 09:18 PM
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Ya I'm bored at my cushy office job so I just post on here I've been on both sides, its shit grinding out a minimum wage job but I get way more existential dread at a corporate office job...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 06:14 PM
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Poor people working 3 part time fast food jobs dont have time to argue on ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 04:32 PM
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Did you shower??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 04:25 PM
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How many kids does op have? If being childless is such a problem I'm sure he has a super trad family with 9 kids
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 03:28 PM
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Yes, the higher peoples education is the fewer children they have on average The fastest reproducing people in the USA are amish who dont stay in school past 16 years old The highest IQ societies japan China singapore South Korea have the lowest birth rates in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 03:16 PM
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Lol I dont think they want it Amishes don't even use electricity
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 01:09 AM
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What treatments?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 01:00 AM
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https://dailycaller.com/2019/07/31/amish-population-america-growth-rates/ We will be dead unless your longetivity shit really comes thru
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 12:31 AM
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Yeah in general its true and less religious In the long term amish orthodox Jews muslims mormons and fundamental Christian's will take over if they keep way higher birth rates
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 12:23 AM
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My mom didnt want kids originally, my dad forced her lmao. I guess I'm glad he did. Here in Toronto though alot of guys dont want kids either probably cuz it's super liberal as well as HCOL. Highest abortion rate lowest birth rate in canada lesssgooo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 12:02 AM
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My guess Is women too. Pregnancy is pretty difficult on her body. It also affects her earning power and career more. But men are more indifferent, I don't think we get baby fever as much. If your girl is childfree you probably are ok with it. That's my guess anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 11:51 PM
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Yessir. Trending in the right direction. Tbh like half of women were childfree that I met on campus ofc they might be changing their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 11:36 PM
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Yeah but Even if its 60%, that's still so low compared to the past. According to this right wing study https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-rise-of-childless-america 25% of women born in "91 will end up childless. So itll be like 1/3 for our year, but I think the trend will accelerate and be more like 40% It's good just tryna find my dink peeps lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 11:04 PM
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Yeah everyone has their own path. And western society/media makes it seem like everyone is hooking up non stop when in reality most people dont have crazy n counts. But sex sells in hollywood. Personally I am all for balance, not necessarily repressed sexuality but not promiscuity either. Unfortunately in general we our headed toward promiscuity and I do partake but ideally I'd like to see a balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 01:54 AM
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Also, idk how much experience you have but dont take ppd too seriously alot of people on here are depressed or angry or mentally damaged
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 01:42 AM
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Interesting I always felt like the Muslim girls at my uni were horny, they basically dressed like the white girls in tight jeans they just covered their head. I never made a move on one. Do your parents still talk to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 01:39 AM
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And I think people dont understand what casual sex is It's not as much hooking up with randoms every night, as it is Fwb, hooking up with ex gf, situationships, etc. Why did you wait so long if you dont mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 01:25 AM
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I could see it being a fuckfest tbh. Our generation is nihilistic and the average marriage age keeps rising. I think alot of people are just gonna say fuck it and do whatever feels good and exciting. FWIW I see body counts rising alot as people hit their mid-late 20s and into their 30s. My late 20s friends are having alot of casual sex (both male and female) while early 20s people are still looking for LTRs and have had 0-5 partners (more naive). Idk if your experience is similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 01:11 AM
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Shit lol I dont even know how far I've come, what in my post history stood out?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 12:58 AM
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Bruh I cant tell if this is a larp or not but it unironically works My bro does it all the time. He will even wait a month, then fuck, then dump her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 04:07 PM
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I dont blame them Women their age are going on onlyfans while the guys are jerking off in the basement Society as a whole is fucking over men The feminists got what they wanted why are they complaining now?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 08:24 PM
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That what they said in march "flatten the curve" but now our hospitals are empty
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 08:17 PM
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I would say these conspiracies are crazy but the government be shutting down everyone in their houses for a virus that 99.999% of people survive. We have evidence now that this virus just isnt that deadly unless you're very old and very sickand the govs keep finding new excuses to shut dwn. Something is fishy for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 08:13 PM
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Do you want kids? I noticed that in your post history you mentioned hooking up with a pencil dick 9 months ago, are you guys in an open relationship? As far as I can tell, career couple + dink is the way to go but I'd like more feedback on this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 07:20 PM
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M22, yes it has gotten better I was kissless virgin in high school, had a couple ltr in uni as well as some casual hookups. My dating game was getting better and better but currently it is not great due to covid. Oh well at least I have time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 07:04 PM
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Yeah I'm talking more about old school liberals Their children do seem to be more radical left wingers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 04:52 PM
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It's a nice idea lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 02:36 AM
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Lol seems like it sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 02:29 AM
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I mean the constitution says all men are created equal so it's basically going against the most important line in the country lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 02:27 AM
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Eh idk I'm not a tradcon It should be free and legal, where I live, it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 01:02 AM
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Re: guys who said no to sex thinking women cared are suckers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 12:58 AM
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Abort it Theres a whole single mother movement anyways, like 50% of USA births are out of wedlock
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 12:57 AM
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Better get it before new justice barret bans it😂. I have some Cf friends actually basically thru my ex but I havent told my parents or best friends. I've considered just lying and saying I'm infertile later on cuz I think my dad would be upset lol And yeah you can take your SB as a guest to parties and other social events, networking, it can be a pretty wholesome arrangement imo. But that might change, girls can make money on onlyfans now, so why have a SD.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 12:56 AM
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snickers How are these dudes so delusional lmao I literally had no experience with woman before college and yet it turns out that I was basically redpilled just from being a man, even before reading redpill content.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 12:51 AM
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Prety much lol Maybe the post on inceltears or something Or basically, it's just 90% of normal guys who are now in an ltr or marriage and off reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 12:49 AM
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Social stigma is what's needed to prevent single moms crisis. Also alot of governments pay a fuckton of money for people to have babies, it doesnt avtually increase the birthrate but a bunch of welfare queens make a living off of it. On the flip side it's also cruel to force a single mom, if she left and abusive man or a guy ditched her, to starve and struggle without a safety net. So yeah if society shamed single moms it would be best.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 12:47 AM
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And I guess the final group is guys who cant get casual sex but accepted that they're not in the top SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 12:44 AM
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Jenv on ppd was saying that her husbands vasectomy reversed and she got pregnant lol. But yeah it's super rare. Would you tell your friends/family? And idk, being a sugar daddy just seems kinda hot, I'd like to help her get thru college and give career advice too, I think SB can be more than purely transactional, SBs often become close with their SD even though they both know it cant be permanent
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 12:43 AM
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Men who want casual sex and get it (not slut shamers) Men who want casual sex and dont get it / missed out on college partying (bitter and slut shamers) Men who dont want casual sex 3a) cool guys who dont really care 3b) religious guys/tradcons (slutshamers, but usually not as bitter about ut as 2).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 12:39 AM
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There is literally no rush. You have total freedom to do whatever whenever. So you can re-evaluate what makes you happy at that point. Just be careful bro you never want an accident. I would keep SB very quiet. Personally I wouodnt do escort but sb is fine (I know it doesn't make sense lol). Nobody has to know anyways. SB just seems like a cheat code to quality pussy. If I'm not DINKing in my 30s then I'd do it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 12:33 AM
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That is true, my family is like half liberal half conservative... the conservative half has over 2 children on average, the liberal side is having like 0 5 children. Over time this makes a big difference, especially when you consider that my conservative family isnt actually that right wing and they're non religious. The conservative side has more problems with divorce drinking and general drama/dysfunction. But they make babies. I'm a joyless status seeker hedonist tho and I enjoy it. The brain…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 12:24 AM
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I'm an introvert so I probably would lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 11:41 PM
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Ye I was gonna say once you're 30 and working is the perfect time to go full Chad. I'd even consider becoming a sugar daddy at that point. I'm having a great time since lockdown started tbh even though I'm on a record dry streak since I lost my v card (over 4 months now). Life is what you make it go kick ass as a bachelor and have fun while improving on yourself, then kick as being chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 11:35 PM
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Just use condoms bro Only girl I got pregnant was my ltr lol (wasnt using condoms). I've never got an std or an accidental pregnancy from a casual thing (however I also havent had 20 casual partners like you have)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 10:52 PM
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Lol when are you gonna start
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 10:47 PM
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Yes, in general liberals are people who are able to hold back their desires in check enough to have so many choices and yet be ok. For an intelligent person, you can have the choice to do drugs but go to work instead. Talk 60s live 50s. For Dumb people with no impulse control they cant help themselves from making bad decisions. That's why I believe liberal values and individualism are only good for higher IQ and wealthier people. Dumber people (and I say this with no disrespect, it's not their f…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 10:45 PM
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So damn bluepilled smh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 07:28 PM
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Double income no kids You are so cool Fwb = friends with benefits fyi
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 03:53 PM
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There is nothing wrong with doing the casual thing tbh Personally I wanna have an ltr and be DINKs but fwbs are pretty dope too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 03:28 PM
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Or banging fat girls for ons
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 12:45 PM
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Ltr but not necessarily marriage and no kids I want to become jacked and super attractive (working on it) Progress in my career but FIRE and dip early cuz I can Travel alot
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 07:12 PM
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Ive seen no evidence that any country is cracking down on immigration. Even Japan's borders might open more soon
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 11:08 PM
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How are they gonna stop it? Theres been like 2 beheading in the past 2 days in France and the governments response is to teach more Arabic in schools lmao Arrogant to think any government can stop a religion,it has existed for hundreds of years some weak pussy called Macron isnt gonna do shit about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 10:22 PM
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I think them gaming non stop and shit is completely cope, they would much prefer to be able to at least have sexual or romantic relationships with women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 08:49 PM
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What do you mean, all of western Europe is projected to be majority Muslim by 2100 at least, newborn babies in France are already like 20% Muslim Fastest breeding groups in USA are mormons, evangelical Christian's and amish
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 07:50 PM
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It's already starting, the only career path for lower IQ guys is basically McDonalds or selling drugs. This will lead to all kinds of problems, nothing is more dangerous than bored, expendable, and unproductive men. Women are doing better than ever and having great careers but lots of men I graduated with dont have their shit together at all. Maybe this will change but I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 07:47 PM
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In theory yes, but this seems to be only making women and the top 30% of men happy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 07:45 PM
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It will be worse in 10 years, all the current 21 year old males' smv will be higher and they can actually get casual sex, so they will be making up for lost time and experiences. I'm not surprised that casual sex Is down though, alot of guys a) have no game b) spend all day video gaming and c) increasingly more young people are living at home (who economic shit) I do think plenty of genz want to be in a relationship though. I know some people who are desperate for it, people who get casual sex g…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 07:27 PM
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My dad has great advice. Hes right almost every single time He never gives advice unless I ask him tho so sometimes it requires an uncomfortable conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 09:15 PM
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So then the smp is similar
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 08:47 PM
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Kinda like canada, we have universal healthcare but you can still make money. Or course, most of our rich end up living and getting medical treatment in the USA anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 08:44 PM
1

Didnt tinder come out in 2012. So it's likely that most women in their 30s today have been on tinder at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 08:31 PM
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Cuz you already know her and are comfortable with her, so the sex is good but you dont have to deal with any bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 08:21 PM
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Fwb is cool Ons is shit Boss level: ex-gf who is now fwb
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 08:17 PM
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Good man I dont mind individualism either. It really does benefit the most intelligent and best looking. Receding hairline aside I'm ok in looks and well above avg. In intelligence. It is a problem for less intelligent people who cant understand that the Hollywood life is fiction, and are just genetically lazy or stupid. Some people look down on them but I have sympathy, the idea that "all men are created equal" is a lie, so I also don't fault poor people for their failures as much. They would b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 08:15 PM
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Times changed, people need to realize this Particularly white people with boomer parents, children of immigrants understand this better, I just got lucky and figured it out somehow lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 08:00 PM
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Oh shit lol I meant guy, not girl Would be cool to have a bi gf who brings home girls to have a 3some with, though. But yeah, irl sexuality is so much different and more complicated than what hollywood shows, which is a bunch of emotionless strangers hooking up non stop
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 07:57 PM
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Yeah lol, but he will regret it when his gf has a new girl over every weekend and hes dumpster diving barely pulling anything My first partner was in an ltr and I felt that pull to go explore. I lowkey think Its good for men to go thru a hoe phase in college. I did, and I found that it wasn't really as enjoyable as I thought. Now I dont really care about body count, I'm happy with an exclusive fwb or ltr, whatever comes along first.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 07:49 PM
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In 30 years women will be chaste and back to only sleeping with a man after long term commitment Only a certain percentage of more tempered and intelligent people can handle living in a liberal and relaxed society. I can handle it but for many people they have a stronger pull from their base desires and it fucks everything up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 07:44 PM
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That just seems like such a bad idea lol. A woman getting casual sex is so much easier than a man doing it. I think a better option would be to swing or at least have 1 other couple you can have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 07:41 PM
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Casual sex takes alot of effort. I already went thru my hoe phase in college and while I wouldnt turn down casual sex, I'm looking more for either exclusive fwb or LTR now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 07:40 PM
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I'm not having kids but I would tell my daughter straight up, men are horny and fuck and will do anything to have sex with you. Once they get it they have power over you. My son I would tell him that he needs to be alpha, lift, and not be a nice guy. Serious and good looking men are more respected in every area of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 07:38 PM
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It is women who wanted society to be like this So no I dont really feel sad However it would benefit both men and women if their parents were honest with them about the smp. That way people could tailor their lifestyle accordingly and we'd have fewer single women in their 30s who missed out on the chance to have a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 07:36 PM
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Women arent lying You can assume people will sleep with other people until you talk about being exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 07:35 PM
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This. The only moral thing is to do what's best for yourself. You think any people in top positions care about others? Problem ---> solution. Simple. A good example is when my ex got pregnant. As soon as I heard my only goal was to make sure she gets rid of it. Because I don't want it, fuck all the morality shit. I dont go out of my way to fuck others over and I'm actually pretty respectful. but you gotta do what you gotta do to get what you want sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 07:34 PM
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That's good to hear. I'm early 20s and my hairline is receding in the corners already. I'm on minox but idk if I wanna take fin because of the erectile dysfunction side effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 07:26 PM
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So you've only had sex once? Can you marry others in the south asian community?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 05:27 PM
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Did you find that being south asian hurt your dating prospects? I live in a heavily south asian/arab area, the fobs are always married, but I see alot of younger guys who appear to have no dating prospects and dress like shit. I'm assuming because they gave up. The liberal/whitewashed arab guys dont have a problem but most arabs I just see standing around their cars at 1 am, in groups of all men. It's just more like the 90/10 rule instead of 80/20. There are also plenty of white guys who look li…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 05:13 PM
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So many straw men lol I swear these arguments on happen on reddit In reality most men and women have had a mix of casual sex and relationships, (to varying degrees, obv) and don't "get angry" at others for pursuing what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 03:59 PM
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Idk I've been in circles with alot of partying, unless they're really attractive it's usually just guys going out and getting drunk, "broo i was so drunk last night". It happens but not all that often. But as I said I'm sure its highly circle dependant, cant really discount someone elses experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 03:03 PM
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Idk. Maybe when they get older, in my average, early 20s friend group majority of sex is in relationships. Also alot of asian / indian average guys buy into the "asians cant get laid" meme which hurts them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 02:54 AM
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Idk, in real life most guys are either in relationships or single. Certainly not sleeping with many women at once. Casual sex does happen but unless you're in the top 15% of men it doesnt happen that much. People who are locked out of the dating market completely think that it's a total fuckfest and everyone is hooking up w everyone non stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 01:19 AM
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Its gonna go down more, why would anyone want to bring a baby into this right now especially when it cant even go to school? Also, in the long term many people are not meeting and marrying due to the pandemic who might have been otherwise. Birth rate would only go up if we also had no access to birth control and abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 04:18 PM
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Yeah, this is true. Only autistic online people are intimated by career women. Irl its attractive for both the man and the woman to have a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 06:08 PM
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I actually did that, everyone just played the game then went home after
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 10:36 PM
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When talking to a young person I usually just say I don't want kids. When I'm talking to an old person I just lie, it's easier. I am excited for the next decade or so, the number of children being born is going to plummet as gen z enters their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 09:27 PM
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That's what I thought. Whem I moved out on my own I had no idea how to meet people or be an adult. I went from having tons of friends I knew since I was a little kid, to have none. Things really didn't fall into my lap like before.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 09:24 PM
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I got better social skills, started working out and generally became somebody that people want to hang out with. And I just got lucky and met somebody who introduced me to alot of people. Even for them though, like theres the circle... and that's it. It's just hard for guys to meet irl I guess. But yeah idk... something just changed and all of the sudden people would be talking to me and liked hanging around me. Maybe I was autistic before or something. I'm assuming it's me that changed though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 09:15 PM
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A shocking number of men seem to have no social circle at all (I used to be one of them) If you approach guys and start talking, you seem weird. I dunno what changed, but men are doing badly in this new society. Maybe its tech. The only way to make friends is to have friends, it seems. I made a bunch of new friends when my old friend moved to my city. Then I met all his friends and became friends with them. You need money to make money, you need friends to make friends :(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 09:06 PM
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Agree with this I am kinda rugged and women find it hot. I think it increases my attractiveness,basically the sexiest guy is a conservative who is in shape but with liberal social values. For instance I like to hunt, it's almost s completely right wing activity and women find it hot, no matter what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 08:21 PM
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I'm privileged and I still don't want kids I'd rather live an easy life with my money than waste it raising kids. Generally poor people have more kids. It's not actually about economics, lots of people just dont want em
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 08:17 PM
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Why should we? Why do so many men not want to be husbands or fathers? Almost certainly for the same reasons. I agree. There are just as many men as women who don't want kids in our generation. And guess what, virtually nobody has a problem with it except the crusty old guys at "conservative publication inc". People 35 and under are quite a bit different.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 08:15 PM
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Black
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 04:43 PM
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Knowing gender issues helps in real life though. I find at work, it explains group dynamics as well as leadership dynamics and styles. Normies always wonder "wHy DiDN"t ThIS WorK" when in fact it's easily explained by gender dynamics, Karen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 04:42 PM
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And, unexpectedly, the only group of men who supported each other that I've seen, were evangelical tradcucks. They had the love of God for one another and that crap, but it was actually nice to see guys somewhat working together and talking about their issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 02:21 PM
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Firstly our sex drive is higher. So we just wanna fuck something, which makes being single worse. Alot of guys are douchebags too, if you're single its like saying you're a loser. I thought it was cool how women never judged each other for anything about sex, some were virgins others were hoes and they didnt care. Men should be more supportive of each other but unfortunately the opposite seems to be happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 02:11 PM
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Guys go through a hoe phase too, usually in college. I went through a period of religious tinder swiping, I got a few kills. Now I've experienced that, and I'd rather just have a gf. I think generally the guys who obsess with casual sex are the ones who never got it. If a casual fuck comes my way I'll take it, but really I'm just focusing on my career and eventually finding an ltr now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 02:04 PM
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So, what are the implications of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 01:34 PM
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I think you're asian then, if I had to guess
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 03:29 AM
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I am surprised What are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 03:12 AM
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Sheeit You seemed like a reasonable chap Are you white?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 03:08 AM
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Ok old man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 02:38 AM
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Fertility rate converges to 1.13 when women are given free reproductive choice. Source? In Europe and canada on average it's about 1.5, which is pretty free. In South Korea and Thailand (and probably every east/south east asian country once they develop) it's gone much lower than 1.5
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 05:49 PM
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Yeah in the city just waiting for marriage to have kids until the average age of marriage, there's already a chance it will be too late. Luckily for me I dont plan on having kids so it doesnt matter when I meet my partner, but still, it must be stressful as fuck when you hit your 30s and are still childless, if you do want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 04:52 PM
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Yeah, my dads advice on how to get laid was "you have tinder, dont you?" Fucking boomers. But I cant blame him, hes from a totally different time. Things are changing rapidly now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 04:47 PM
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I dont, if anything it's the opposite, most gen z dont want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 04:01 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 03:58 PM
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Correct. U mad?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 03:48 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 03:47 PM
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U mad?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 03:34 PM
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Yep. How many live in the bronx? Its segregated by neighborhood, just because in aggregate the city is diverse doesnt mean its neighborhoods are. Take a look at the racial dot map.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 03:32 PM
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Nah, they dont actually like it, if they did they wouldnt live in wealthy all white areas
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 03:17 PM
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No guys does that if hes looking for casual sex For LTr it makes more sense to be picky
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 11:23 AM
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People will still filter however they want, it will just take more vetting. I honestly don't understand the current obsession with "equality" - as if everyone has to be the exact same! We have different skin colour, different religion, some people are poor some rich, some smart some dumb, some fat some thin, it's just life and we are not all the same. Equality should mean equality before the courts, not erasing any human differences (which will never go away). Rich white liberals are the ones us…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 11:09 AM
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Fat people are ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 11:14 PM
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Heres another "hypothetical scenario that almost never happens but we will use this to determine that all men/women do X"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 07:31 PM
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Of course I would. Instead I have to toil for some mediocre ass pussy. Luckily as a guy I have many interests like day trading so i stay occupied even when single.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 06:52 PM
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Yep, I was hooking up with an ex over the summer, the sex was great and we had a good time. Shes in another "ltr" now though. Sex with an ex after 6 months is great, you still know what each other likes and how to please each other but the emotions are somewhat dissipated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 05:03 PM
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And ltr for me is somebody I enjoy spending time with, like fucking, and maybe split rent with. Its somebody I can do fun things with like travel. If those conditions aren't being met I would end it. People are very outdated with their views. Ltrs are to accessorize your life not to find true love. We live in a disposable culture and ltr are not different from everything else. Just find a new one, you will probably hook up with your old ltr(s) at some point anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 04:52 PM
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Why are people acting like OkCupid is a reputable polling company, rather than a dating business with an agenda? It's like reading a report by Exxon that says that climate change is fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 04:14 PM
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Lmao bruh I have the same n-count, also all during college. I also study maxxed and didnt fuck as much as I could have. Also, after 5, I feel like I've proven to myself that I can get pussy, and I'm focusing on other stuff now. It's not really chad territory but I also know alot of guys at 0 or 1. The snip is a good idea. In college theres the whole broke student thing and chicks wont keep it. Once you show that you have money suddenly they want in on the action. A quiet snip is a good way to pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 01:35 AM
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Yep, my friend is dating someone in finance, she was the one who brought it up to him, that she didn't want kids. They're doing well together. What is your body count? Am just curious lol. Also what's your ethnicity? I guess Indian because I saw a comment once that had the typical Indian speech pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 01:12 AM
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I'm with you, tbh. I look around and the average young woman is far ahead of the average young man. The number of HVM is getting way lower vs. The number of LVM with a video game obsession. I'm early 20s and yet I already feel far ahead of most guys my age, just from having a degree and a decent paying job. Many more false HVM exist (who are losers) but they read some PUA or redpill books. Women are catching on to this too. Unlike trp I don't really care what her body count is. For her to be com…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 10:35 PM
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Agree, hooking up is so easy for women thanks to old. If she "feels like dick" that night she could download tinder, put up one pic, and have a guy in her bed an hour later. Nobody will know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 10:16 PM
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Even in canada the sex ed is ass, no mention of family planning or abortion, no mention of gay sex, nothing about gender identity. And honestly these things are all important to know about in 2020.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 04:37 PM
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I'm out of the loop can you clarify lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 04:26 PM
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Introvert chad: mysterious, taboo, strong and silent Introvert beta: autistic, school shooter, loner Extrovert chad: life of the party, sociable, open Extrovert beta: loud, clingy, annoying A chad can basically pull anything off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 04:18 PM
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This is true, when I look at pictures of parties from just 10 or 15 years ago all the guys are so ugly, skinny, balding, no fashion. And yet guys supposedly had an easier time getting laid back then. We're seeing 80/20 with everything, from dating to income to social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 04:16 PM
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Are you black? Unfortunately black women arent respected that much in canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 11:13 PM
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You said you're religious though. Do you think that affects your friends not getting divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 11:11 PM
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Idk, you seem angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:44 AM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 07:55 PM
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It was tongue in cheek. See below
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 07:22 PM
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It was tongue in cheek Jobs like raping women for wearing revealing clothes, being sexist, being redpilled, keeping women under control
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 07:21 PM
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They're doing the jobs white people wont do, unironically It would be beneficial if all of Europe converted to Islam immediately. Problem with islam isnt the religion itself it's that its followed by 80iq inbred desert retards for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 06:41 PM
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Sex robot
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 06:39 PM
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I've only dated and hooked up with girls that appreciate I'm not a cocky asshole. The classic party girl is repulsed by me but good introverted girls seem to love me, honestly I get along with them way better anyways. Too many guys think "assholes get laid" and that there's only one kind of guy women like. "Just be yourself" is a bad strategy but being the best, most attractive version of yourself while still being authentic works for me. I have my own niche of girls that are attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 05:52 PM
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A good friend is asian and he has only dated white women. But it seems like a weird dynamic, he worships white women (compared to the rest of his family who date asians). I actually don't think asian-american men are ugly. It's more like they're insecure, they struggle with identity issues from my experience. Cuz asian americans act more "white" than white people (in terms of crime, income, etc.) and yet are also sometimes seen as marginalized POC. And yet they still face racism from whites and …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 05:20 PM
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And don't we also have to consider what's best for the adults life, ie the mother/father. Maybe she is in school. Maybe she doesn't feel like she would be a good parent. Maybe she just doesn't want kids. My ex and I are both childfree, when we had an oops she just got rid of it. Life is too short to waste on stuff you don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 05:15 PM
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Idk, I live in one of the most diverse cities in the world and it is rare to see an amwf couple....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 05:09 PM
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Just get a vasectomy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 05:04 PM
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It's just a societal level shit test
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 02:50 AM
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There used to be requirements to vote... be a land owning white Male.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:52 AM
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Go on trp, most guys are obviously larping.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:49 AM
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Most tradcucks are outcasts who wouldnt be getting any pussy anyways. They're just nice incels who fed the poor and go to church on Sunday. I know a bunch of church betas who married really pretty girls. They're only 24,25 and I can already tell the girl is bored as fuck, probably fucking chad on the side. If you go to church as a chad redpilled 30 year old you can meet some quality ltr a$$, but church girls are the same as every other girl they're not into betas and simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:40 AM
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I made a post earlier today, modern dating is quite nice you just have to lose the tradcuck ideals. Dumping a partner after a fling is fine. Just accept that things are temporary and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:38 AM
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Whites are actually in the middle of money in the USA. Pretty much every asian group out earns whites on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:31 AM
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White men are just more attractive than asian men Its genetics. Whites are highly eugenic in their mating, indian men are just given a wife traditionally hence no selection pressure for attractive traits. It's common for Indian immigrants to be wealthy in the west and still not be able to get laid. Black men are also attractive but as others have said there is stigma around them as well as poverty. It occured to me while I was in the gym recently. I was working out next to this short but jacked …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:31 AM
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Women arent stupid, they're just women. Women follow the dominant man and the dominant social trend. And social media has amplified this x1000. If the dominant trend was "I hate black people" they would be posting that all over social media. I also dont think many black people think its sincere either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:07 AM
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Its just supply and demand. If you keep buying shitty products from a shitty company, well the store will stay in business.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 11:16 PM
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I think with it becoming more accepted for women to be childfree it is easier for women to feel justified in their choices 💯, half her housemates were also cf and the other half were totally understanding and supportive. I don't want it Is a valid reason. Thanks for the advice. I hope I and everyone else can find it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 11:04 PM
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Wow, that's really bad luck! What are the odds of a vasectomy failure, like 1/10000000 lol. Glad you guys got it taken care of, though. That's interesting, when my girl had hers it was the same thing. She was giving me blowjobs a couple days later while we followed the dr.s advice too. After a week or so we were also back to normal. I didnt go back to using condoms but she stayed on the pill (she missed a few days before). It didnt seem as dramatic as we would expect. Were both cf and she says s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 10:43 PM
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Bro wtf That's disgusting get cured or wear a condom
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 10:29 PM
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White women are only like that cuz white men are either pussy crazed degenerates or huge cucks and simps and betas. I admit I fall into the first category. If every white man started lifting, shunning sluts, and passing shit tests white woman would literally be running at us to get married. Men are the natural leaders. White men (and pretty much every race of men in the west) are soft and women dont like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 10:28 PM
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Nice. Sounds like you and your husband are great together already and no children is just icing on the cake. The libido drop is natural, basically it's the body's response to decrease her likelihood of getting pregnant again quickly. It makes sense in caveman times for sure. If you dont mind me asking, did your abortion affect libido?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 10:21 PM
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Lost their free time, sleep, bodies, sex life, hobbies, and on, and on, and on... No fucking thanks! 😂 Is it sexist to say this? Women are much much looser after giving birth. I slept with a woman who had a baby and put it up for adoption. I honestly couldnt feel anything ☹. That plus the lack of sleep would just kill libido. Yep. Literally everything about childfree life is better. I should have said in my post, single women are sad, not childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 10:08 PM
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I'm not gonna waste time arguing a strawman In this case he is photoshopped
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 09:51 PM
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That is a very sad sub lol. Regretting having kids would be worse than regretting not having kids. I've already had 2 childfree girlfriends, sadly it didnt work out. Childfree allows you to look for deeper qualities than just somebody you want a baby with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 09:50 PM
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I guess. I'm just really horny and I like pussy. It's not that I put pussy on a pedestal it's just that pussy is what brings me the most enjoyment. I already have plenty of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:27 PM
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That's cool. See, you're legitimately happy being childfree. I just feel like alot of women don't end up meeting a guy they want to have kids with, and then cope by saying they're childfree. CF + happy marriage or LTR >>> tho
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:18 PM
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Hmm ok, I've never been to the UK In the midwest USA people are literally walking bags of fat. Hard to be worse than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:05 PM
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White people in Europe look alot more attractive than white people in the USA
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:48 PM
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Alot of the posts on redpill subs seem like larps
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:45 PM
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Obviously photoshopped and manipulated in the first one
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:44 PM
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Maybe. But all our basic needs are covered by welfare.i honestly believe that if you took women out of the picture most men wouldnt give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:42 PM
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Idk Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:40 PM
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I'm very calm irl and thoughtful, kinda quiet. Online is where my true inner autist comes out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:27 PM
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Interesting. Yeah I guess things started changing around 2018. I was a total incel sperg until 2017 so i missed most of it. For some reason I feel that the whole western world went off script when trump won in 2016, and things are fucked up since.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:25 PM
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Instinct. After I fucked a girl I'm not attracted to I gst post nut clarity and am disgusted with myself. I just want to get away from her. Same way you feel when you cum all over yourself while watching porn, then feel disgusted and think I'm a fucking degenerate. However, after I cum with a girl I like, and am attracted to, I love cuddling with her and kissing her, just feeling the bliss and elation of the romantic connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 06:07 PM
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It did seem pretty nice then. Like women were liberated, but not as bitchy, and people still had to meet irl so it was better for average guys. I was only 13 then so I'm talking out my ass but that's the impression I get. I'm also childfree so idgaf about having kids. Its exploding in popularity, at this point its more common for a young woman in an urban area to not want kids than to want them. Works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 06:03 PM
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It's not supposed to be a flex I just always see people complaining that tall white guys have it way easier on the sexual market So I'm just saying my opinions may be biased if it is easier for me than other men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:45 PM
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Stop looking for a life partner and just find somebody you enjoy chilling with, and stay together until you dont enjoyt it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:41 PM
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And also, everyone I know is on birth control or uses condoms, and has a contingency plan. For hookups people use condoms. There was one couple using only pullout, but she was firmly set on abortion in case of an accident. Overall genz upper middle class seems pretty responsible and educated with their fertility and sexual health. It's mostly lower class guy I found who were reckless and not using condoms during hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:26 PM
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The girls who will fuck me for a ons are generally girls I would never want to date or hang out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:19 PM
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You are Canadian eh. I guess people have different experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:17 PM
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I mean idk, I've never heard somebody say they're in a relationship unless they're actually in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:16 PM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:10 PM
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Yeah ltr, long term relationship = committed We get tested first We talk abt birth control and abortions If all is clear then no condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:10 PM
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Why not both. Looks matter most so be the most attractive you can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:41 PM
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in a band Holy shit literall gen x
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:40 PM
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Plus, a pussy is just the best. I'd be open to a gay experience, but at the end of the day nutting in a pussy is just so much better than nutting in an ass. I've never fucked a guy though so I guess I cant say for sure. Certainly in a commited gay relationship there is much less drama around periods, pregnancies and birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:19 PM
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I agree, people trying overall to get a hetero partner but will be ok with some same sex shit on the side while single. I'd actually suck a couple of my friends dicks if they wanted me to. But I dont think they're comfortable with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:17 PM
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Why do women wanna be men so badly lol. Women just arent into sports cars or golf.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:11 PM
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Ya, dont see anything wrong with that. A friend to split rent with and fuck and go eat sushi
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:10 PM
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They could but I doubt they actually enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:06 PM
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She was a larping tranny (pbuh)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:06 PM
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They dont really die out that fast. The falling madly in love stage sure but you can enjoy their company for some time after.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:05 PM
2

I just wanna bang all the women on ppd, tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:53 PM
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Intimacy Sex Someone to do fun stuff with Someone to split rent with I'm sorry you probably had a bad experience and are now bitter. Also people look at relationships the wrong way. It's not about true love or finding a life partner anymore. It's about those 4 things up there and as long as the relationship fills those criteria we gucci.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:52 PM
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You're a degenerate gay. Of course you would say that. Straight is different than gay male.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:49 PM
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Sex is more frequent and better for people in LTR aka "good girls" Edit: this post sounds like a cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:48 PM
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I agree actually. I've always wondered if its genetic, or due to actions. Like, white people need to realize that our skin is more sensitive to the sun. Tanning alot damages it badly. When you look at pictures of white people from the 70s and 80s they were literally burned all the time. Today we spend way less time out in the sun. And now skincare is becoming common. So we will see in 30 years, I guess. Also white women tend to binge drink and party alot more than non white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:42 PM
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I'm sure it is. However some realize that simping doesnt get pussy. You can either go through a dry streak as a simp, or as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:36 PM
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Good girls are usually a little lonely in college. After college they find a good job, a high quality bf who they are emotionally intimate with, and get fucked well by him every night. Sluts fuck everything in college and get blackout drunk, destroying their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:30 PM
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You have experience in worldly pussy but you most frequently post on incel subs? I'm just telling you how it is, single women of colour, either foreign or western born, like white men. It doesnt mean they dont like coloured men at all. Theyre not 2 exclusive things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:28 PM
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Idk tho. For instance when my mom was young and pretty, she didnt want to have kids, and wanted to be a career woman. My dad kinda forced her to have kids. When I see her today in her 60s, shes so frail, and often lonely (social groups die out as you age) and when I imagine her like that but without her kids it just makes me sad. We are what makes her happiest even though she herself didn't think she would want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:26 PM
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Yeah. Even for a slightly above average young guy like me it's hard. If I was below average I would just be a fat slob
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:18 PM
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Who they end up married to isnt who they fuck in college. Also alot of immigrants are already married when they get here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:15 PM
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Nah you're just coping. It's not that way at all from my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:06 PM
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Sad But that honestly seems to be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:45 PM
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This. If pussy was off the table I would not work, I would not go to the gym, i would not do anything except get fat, play video games and die at 50. It is what drives men. You ever notice women dominated spaces never get anything done. At work they just Meet, talk, humm and haw, discuss, consult, and then the final result is shit. No drive. Even during lockdown my chance to get pussy has gotten low and my personal grooming has gone down. We need pussy and it drives us.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:38 PM
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It's not just whitewashed non white women that prefer white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:12 PM
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Nah fuck condoms. Never used them in an ltr. For a hookup, yeah wear them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:07 PM
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I heard fin has erectile dysfunction side effects that might not even stop when you stop taking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 10:19 PM
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Exactly. I just keep getting better with age. Only issue: balding. Currently on minox but honestly I dont think it will make such a difference. Oh well I'll just be a jacked wealthy bald guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 09:13 PM
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It's a good subreddit. So many loser guys manipulating women and treating them like shit. I'm a guy btw
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 07:49 PM
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Its gonna go up alot in the next 20 years But it is 15% currently of 45 year old women have no kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 07:46 PM
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Also 5 Girl #1 half white half native American. Tightest pussy so far. Gripped my dick amazing. No noticeable change in tightness after her abortion Girl #2 fat white. Loose pussy shit sex ons Girl #3 native American. Thicc and really loose. She had a town bike reputation so theres that. Girl #4 thin but curvy white. I'd say average. Average sex but we didnt really vibe. Girl #5 thin brown virgin. Really tight and really wet. Not as tight as #1 I honestly think it depends on how much she works o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 07:38 PM
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After looking at the statistics, it made more sense to me why I still managed to get laid on tinder even though I always considered myself average, and I havent looksmaxxed and only 50% gym maxxed. I'm white over 6 feet not obese and with a college education. Just by being not obese you're already ahead of many guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 07:20 PM
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Not necessarily, alot of logistics and manufacturing are in the suburbs. These would be more male dominated areas. Idk about the USA but in the Toronto suburbs just about every house has a rented out a basement apartment where professionals live. Finance/media/some tech are in the cities. But those are female-dominated industries (apart from tech).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 07:18 PM
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Yes we will be
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 06:04 PM
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Of course not. Women don't know what they want and are totally clueless about everything. They are happiest in the kitchen when they don't have to make big decisions about anything. Theyve been lied to by big business since the 1960s into thinking that making powerpoints for GloboCorp makes them happy. It's up to men to control women and eventually once gynocentric society collapses women will be back to their proper roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 05:52 PM
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No offense, but you're probably below average then. There is pussy out there on OLD even for average guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 03:47 PM
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Edit: and saying you dont like old is like saying you dont use computers at work. Whether we like it or not this is the main way people are meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 12:14 AM
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Agreed. There is so much coping here. If you know what you're doing on old it's not bad at all. Match, talk for a bit, meet up, see where things go. I did fine on old despite not even using a looksmaxxed profile. I've been off it during the pandemic and just working out though. I lowkey like OLD and hookup culture. It suits my lifestyle and we have alot of sexual freedom (to old people, hookup culture doesn't mean literally having many ONS every weekend). My n count isnt even that high (only 22)…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 12:12 AM
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I've lied. Women ridiculously inflate the number of sexual partners I have. "Oh you're decent looking and on tinder, you must be hooking up with someone new every weekend tee hee" So I always tell them I've slept with more than 15, even though it's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 04:06 PM
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I just saw this comment now. To me, doing something you're passionate about seems like a cope. Maybe it was true in the Boomer age idk. But nobody likes their job, the perfect job is rare. I give zero shits about my job right now. But it pays well. I look at it as something necessary to fund my lifestyle, put away as much as I can and yes retire early. Make money -> travel, make money -> get pussy. Simple shit. The people holding out for the "perfect job" who are "so different" because they "don…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 02:42 PM
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I've seen this too. It seems pretty sad, the kids barely see their parents. I honestly think people should be more open to the idea of not having kids. Take a look at yourselves as a couple, and if ignoring the kid is how you think you're gonna avoid a divorce/imbalanced gender roles, just don't have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 03:31 PM
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That's not a good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 03:15 PM
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Fear of missing out. These guys stayed virgins in hs and college while other guys were out fucking, having gfs, etc. Its a thing for men maybe not women as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 03:03 PM
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I have always found the sex much much better, and more frequent in an ltr than on a ons.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 03:01 PM
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Yeah I dont get why doctors discourage it. We are grown adults, we can smoke, drink, join the military, but can't make the choice to snip our balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 02:09 AM
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Loool thanks, zygote is the correct word. Or parasite. Nah, neither of us do. It's just easier to stay clean that way, plus I don't want to accidentally end up pregnant. Benefits of monogamy while staying casual. I dig it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 01:52 AM
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Lmfao damn Where tf are all these bitches saying this My girl better be sucking dick or else I wont be with her long. Never had a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 01:49 AM
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Smart. I should look into that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 01:47 AM
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Idk, on Friday nights the guys and girls in the dorm would hang out and drink together, sometimes leading to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:10 PM
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Theres plenty of men in bigger cities who look like shit, they just fade into the background more. They just stay in their apartment and don't go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:04 PM
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Sorry you have a shitty sex life and your gf never wants to fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 08:50 PM
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Idk, my gf's have always fucked on command, and were open to exploring sexually. In a relationship my girls were way more open to exploring than ons. Myself I am not a big fan of anal. And before you say I'm the chad she tries it with, I am above average but skinny and not looks maxed. I do have a certain big dick energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 08:35 PM
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It reeks of "guy who has never had a gf but imagines it would be like this" Everybody knows that most partners will have a sexual past.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 08:25 PM
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You ask your partner what sex acts shes done with her ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 08:23 PM
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That's awesome. Again, I'm jealous of both of you. My fwb is a strange story - we were bf/gf then broke up. But we stayed fwb for 5 months after. Then we didnt talk for like 18 months. Then this spring we started talking again and were fwb until she got another bf late in the summer. The sex gets better every time lol. I'm sure this isn't the last time we will have sex. We will never work out as a couple but we vibe in bed. We even made a fetus together. Thanks for the nice wishes. Does your guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 08:21 PM
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How tf would I know what sexual acts she has performed in the past? Have I been creeping her on hidden video cameras or something? Is this something someone actually cares about? I'm convinced this is a larp cuz I've literally never heard anyone talk about this. If you and your partner are good in bed together, that's good👍
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 07:59 PM
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Idk, even average guys were getting laid in the dorms first year, or at least once or twice. But after that first year it's all downhill, and after graduating it gets even harder. Has every engaged in casual sex? Probabky more than 30%. Regular casual sex, probably 30%. Is my guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 07:49 PM
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Exactly. You're smart. Luckily we live at a good time. Tonnes of women are childfree and becoming childfree. I'd even say that the majority of college women currently don't want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 07:44 PM
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Glad you understand what a fwb is... alot of people think its somebody you just regularly hookup with. A regular fwb can actually be really rewarding! You do fun couple stuff, plus intimate sex (usually good), you care for each other (some emotions in an fwb are ok), but you aren't so connected that the bad stuff creeps in. An fwb over years sounds cool. How did you guys meet? I had an fwb but then she got another bf so we had to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 07:36 PM
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Guys definitely spin and twist things to make it sound like they are having alot more casual sex than they really are "This one time I was hooking up..." (one time out of one?) "I always do X or y" (but again no indication in real terms) I hear these ambiguous statements from young men so often. I know I developed a reputation as "the guy that is always hooking up" after 2 different tinder hookups... somehow people decided that I was a womanizer and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 07:29 PM
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Bro my life is so much better after discovering childfree. My life has no more timeline. No rush to find a "fertile" woman. No financial stress. I don't care about the future. It's like peak nihilism. When my ex had her abortion I wasn't CF yet. However, looking back I'm so glad she didn't keep it. I really don't want the responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 07:12 PM
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Hooking up isnt really as good as they say it is. I've tried it, ok, but I prefer to have a gf or a fwb. Most people move on from the hookup stage, although hookups will inevitably happen during the "dating" process too. The people who never experiences a hookup are the ones who get caught up in it and think everyone is hooking up all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 07:06 PM
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That seems low lol. I believe that after college hookup culture isnt nearly as common as portrayed in movies and culture. But yes it's common in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 07:02 PM
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I've always been skinny. I can tell right away when a girl is ltr material vs hookup material. Hookup I keep a nsa mindset and they are usually somewhat damaged. However i did hook up after a first date with a girl who became my gf. Never weasel my way in. I just invite them (or invite myself over) for a drink or a bong rip and then it progresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 03:55 AM
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My hookups treated Me like shit lol. Idk where these ideas are coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 07:47 PM
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Yeah my hookups treated me alot worse than my fwb and ltr were even better than fwb. Basically the more often you see the person, the better you should expect to be treated (and treat them). I do legitimately care about my fwbs, I give them career advice, support, whatever. But I don't let myself get to that next level of emotion for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 06:21 PM
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They are also misleading about their ages. Like a 45 year old man pumping and dumping 38 year old, lower smv women is much different than a 22 year old plating multiple hot women his own age. But they give young men this impression that having plates is normal. Why do they give us this bad advice? I dunno. but the actual "Chad's" almost always have a gf. Also they might subconsciously want us to not date when we are young so that there is more young pussy for them, idk. Divorced white men are cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 05:33 PM
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It is funny that average men encouraged promiscuity in the 60s and 70s when it benefitted them. Now it no longer benefits them so casual sex is bad, all women should be chaste. However as I said in other comments I think the biggest whiners are middle aged divorced guys. Young people "get" it more, and marriage/children are no longer the standard. We just go through life chilling. I was sleeping with someone for 2 months, just cuz it was fun. We never discussed exclusivity or dating. We just had…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 03:28 PM
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Bars lol? Is this 1980?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 03:18 PM
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It's because the average guy can follow TRP but in the era of OLD he won't get laid. We live in a culture where casual sex is celebrated yet 90% of guys can't partake. It creates resentment and cognitive dissonance. It's hard for young people, me and my friends are average looking and upper middle class, nobody is a virgin and we have had gf but it's a struggle, and nobody is slaying puss on the reg with casual sex. Trp is also heavily leaning towards divorced and bitter older men. Women just fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 03:15 PM
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What are you talking about lol. Women have been pursuing careers since the 1970s. Young people today are so narcissistic they actually think they are the first generation to have sexual liberation or have women in careers lol. However I agree that a huge redpill contingent is bitter older loser divorced men. My early 20s friends are all average looking, upper middle class in income and dating is a struggle but it's not like anybody is a virgin or never had a gf. Also rp thinks casual sex is just…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 03:09 PM
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That's currently where alot of leftover white women are going. Bottom 30% white men are really bottom. There are also alot of single people of all races and both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 04:35 AM
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No but it goes against ops point that men will over time develop to become more high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 03:40 PM
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Actually, lower socio economic status people have been having more babies in the west since the late 1800s industrial revolution. Prior to this, wealthy families had more babies because more of their children survived. You're just pulling things out of your ass, if anything there has been a dysgenic fertility effect in the west going on for over a century.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 03:23 PM
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Yes that's true. I always found datings apps to be a struggle, but then my short and less attractive friends said they literally got 0 matches. If I got on old enough I will eventually bang an average chick. Some of My friends will never ever even get a date from old which must be depressing af.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 02:27 PM
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Ok, but anti depressant use for white women has skyrocketed, and now increasing for all women. You can say liberation makes you happy but in reality it hasn't. Women don't know what they want and are masters of delusion, everyone knows that. When something fails they double down rather than stand back and evaluate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 01:57 PM
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That's because tradcucks are badly outbreeding the seculars, especially among white people... go to any evangelical church the traduccks ALL have 3 or more kids and yet in the city my educated coworkers have literally 0 kids. They will make up an increasingly large share of the population in everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 01:55 PM
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That's already what people do for the most part. Ppd is exxagerating things. The main problem is that there are not as many good careers, especially for men. So if you're not a hot womanizer, AND you don't come from wealthier parents or make money in a career, you're in trouble - those are the guys getting it the worst. Like a long term grocery store employee. Or they choose to work on their career but are not family oriented. Its guys who are stuck in between. I know losers who work at the mall…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 01:51 PM
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Where would people meet tho Few people go to church. Bars are not as popular as they used to be. Clubs are just for hooking up. Other than niche hobby clubs I dont see many spaces to meet anymore. Young people are priced out of high density, high action cities now too. Lots of people use dating apps looking for an ltr. I'm not saying it's an optimal strategy but honestly it's out of touch to say that everyone is just looking for a quick hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 01:47 PM
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Same, my parents gave me horrible advice. I got horribly burned in my first LTR. Then I spent a summer chasing casual sex non stop, and slowly learned thru trial and error. Then I learned redpill and got into another LTR. Much better this time. Fucking boomers lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 01:45 PM
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Nah tbh. Once the middle class is gone everybody will be poor again. Eventually we will forget what being middle class is like, stop worrying about "quality of life" and just start having more babies again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 01:41 PM
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It happens in the brown parts of the Toronto area. Most of the brown men cant compete in looks or in status (housing is expensive af) so they just become petty drug dealers or soundcloud rappers. Quite similar to African Americans in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 01:39 PM
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Maybe. But its already happened in canada and heres what's happening: 1st gen immigrants: conservative, lots of babies 2nd gen: hedonistic, no longer following traditions, liberal. Brown women marry wealthy brown men or attractive/wealthy white men. Some brown men are good looking and join into the casual sex culture, most are not, and drive around in loud souped up cars and join gangs/sell drugs. The "minority majority" areas of canada have the lowest fertility rates. White rural Areas full of …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 01:35 PM
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Be as good looking as possible Be social and interesting Be lucky Be wealthy But not too much, cuz women can also sense fakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 06:19 PM
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Unless you're the top 0.1% of men the sex and the city lifestyle is not possible (unless you're gay) Male oriented shows like American pie, the inbetweeners, etc, follow young men showing their struggles to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:04 AM
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Nice larp lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 07:28 PM
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I already fucked around in college, I wasnt a huge fuckboy but I had 2 girlfriends and 3 casual things (also both by gf were casuals either before or after too) as well as many more makeouts, dates, and bjs. I already feel like I got it out of my system despite being only moderately successful. It's not like I was banging dozens of 10s. I'm now working on my personal fitness, career, and hobbies. I'd like to find a LTR, and we can travel the world and do fun stuff together. Get a dog maybe. Howe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 07:26 PM
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I dated a girl for like 4 months, until one day she asked me directly if I supported trump. I said "yes." She got all upset but because she was already my gf she just got over it. Shed be like "ugh, I cant bleiev I'm dating a trump supporter". Anyways after me all the other guys she dated are also trump supporters. Got a type, I guess, which is what my original post was about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 06:37 PM
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This thread is just women coping lol Women dont like the corporate life and this is biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 04:51 PM
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Hmm that's a good point tbh, with the money you saved from having no kids, if you're smart and middle class, is more than enough to pay for good old age care. I never thought of it that way. I think it's really acceptable for people my age (early 20s) to not want kids. I've met so many people, including my 2 exes and most of their friends, who dont want them. We'll see if they change their opinion as they get older tho. I still want a long term partner, just no kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 07:09 PM
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Do you think being childfree has improved your relationship? To me having kids seems pretty awful and a good way go ruin a sex life and marriage. Also, do you have Cf friends, and are you worried about getting old with nobody to take care of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 06:37 PM
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Obesity is most prevalent in black communities. The south has a high black population which skews the numbers. White southerners (the conservatives there) are fat too but not nearly as fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 05:44 PM
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For white dems. For immigrant dems it means increasing welfare and more open borders.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:44 PM
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I'm talking based on values not who they vote for. Just because Mexican immigrants vote dem doesnt mean they have progressive values lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:41 PM
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Ya idk. I'm pretty normie myself so I cant relate but I just do my own thing anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 03:58 PM
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It's less today. It still exists but it's less. One for economic reasons. 2. Because of technology people go out less ie more gamers.3 demographically colleges are much more diverse, my uni had so many foreign students and pretty much only the small minority of white students partied like crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 03:55 PM
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Yeah I just lie about politics with every chick I smashed/dated. Tbh. It's called wokefishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 03:48 PM
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I'm kind of in the same boat, I dont really change who I am. Sure its led to some rejections but it's also a led to a niche of women who are really attracted to me. Given that the "average woman" is really just a dumb thot in 2020, I dont see any downsides to this. Most dumb thots instinctively dislike me because they know I dont give a fuck about them. Shy, quiet, and introverted girls are very attracted to me though. Edit: I'm also over 6 feet and blond, so I'm sure my looks help.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 01:22 PM
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And yet is always the "strong women" with "options" who are 38, single, and clearly depressed even though they put on a fake exterior. You're delusional. In about 30 years traditionalism will be back in style simply because traditional people reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 01:17 PM
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1 year? That's long af lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 10:50 PM
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I wonder if it's a Canadian thing. Exclusivity seems given here, but when I was banging an American girl she was quite clear that we were NOT exclusive...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 10:49 PM
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Is there data from 2020?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 10:07 PM
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Sounds about right, depends on how much they partied in college too. But I think it's going down in cities too, as rent becomes unaffordable af alot of people are living at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 09:56 PM
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Or it's not as high as you think... If you only fuck around with BPD damaged hoes, your sample is biased. For hookups, my partners (admitted) ncount was 12 11, and 4. For LTR, it was 2,0,0. these were average and decent women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 09:16 PM
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Tinder has been out for over 8 years, before that people hooked up at parties and bars, before that there was Woodstock. We have been sexually liberated for at least 40 years (more like 60), none of this is revolutionary or new to Gen Z.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 09:13 PM
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Boomers were fucking degenerates lol. This is nothing new. Your grandma was more likely to be a whore than a prude, I hate to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 08:45 PM
1

I never said they would want to. I'm just musing about it as an alternative to birth control pills, which op says fucks up your body too. I've been through both abortion and plan b with a partner. It was tough, for sure, but overall not that bad. It probably depends on the woman for sure Vasectomy is the best option. It should be more normalized tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 10:08 PM
1

I agree that a more natural approach is generally better. Can any women answer this for me? What about simple pullout method, plus abortion if things go wrong. This would have to be a guy you trust to pullout obviously. And abortion would have to be accessible (in many areas its free). Would this method work? The woman would probably go through 1 or 2 abortions, if done "correctly". Just wondering on your opinions. I personally dont mind using just condoms. Eventually I'll probably get snipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 09:41 PM
1

We compare our lives to the boomer experience - but the boomers are a one off generation. We are just regressing back to the mean. I had never heard that before. However, I guess it makes sense, I found Indian women to be pretty liberal sexually actually, but without the ultra feminism and "manliness" that white western feminists have.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 08:48 PM
2

I do agree that the number of alt righters is quite small and they're basically just a left wing boogeyman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 08:32 PM
2

It's always been like this lol You think in Victorian England they were getting married for love? And in fact love marriages dont exist or didnt traditionally exist in pretty much the rest of the world, like India or the Arab world.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 08:30 PM
1

Jesus this post, this sub, and RP is becoming a meme and autistic as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 08:29 PM
2

This. Abortion is great. While I can't be 100% sure she won't "change her mind", a sexual relation with a woman when you've both agreed on abortion in case of an accident is great. Completely cuts my risk. And in a time when there is so much more to life than having babies, why should she be forced to have a kid she doesn't want? Ofc the snip is the best idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 08:19 PM
1

I mean, weed can be good for hookups, as in "hey, come over and smoke" - I had 2 tinder dates where I went over to her place after to "smoke" and then we ended up smashing. But this just reinforces the 80/20 rule, weed makes the date better but you have to have been attractive enough to already get her out on the date (and she already wants to fuck). Getting drunk at a party evens the playing field for more guys. Weed is chill af in a relationship though, stoner gf are pretty cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 02:33 PM
1

Alcohol use is it its lowest point like ever (in the usa) Weed might be up though, but I'd hardly consider it a 'social lubricant' that highly social people use and leads to casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 10:37 PM
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Theoretically it shouldnt matter, as a man you should do what's best for you. If that involves a short term relationship with a woman in her 30s so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 10:36 PM
1

Yeah I'll be able to afford a house too cuz my parents are well off. If you're not well off, you re pretty much fucked nowadays. We need to reform the system before it collapses, I'm not really that greedy but I know if it gets bad enough they will "eat the rich" (which they think is me) while the actual rich like bezos are in their bunkers in New Zealand.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 09:24 PM
3

Pretty simple lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 09:23 PM
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Those are the normal dynamics in 2020. Young women can date whoever they want, can be in a relationship, have casual sex, literally anything they want from age 18 to 28. Young men are desperate and pick up the scraps, outside of Chads. However there are a large pool of women who don't settle down and are still single going into their 30s, when the quality men their age are already married. Lower quality men are left, or divorced men. And the quality single men at that age are making up for their…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 09:23 PM
1

All good reasons to not have kids. I'm excited for my future tbh, once I settle down with my long term partner/wife I want to live an easy and carefree life. Lots of travelling, sex, and hopefully a cf friend group. Kids tend to ruin all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 09:18 PM
0

Yeah life is hard. Especially for men. Suck it up. Grit your teeth and smile when life is throwing shit at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:32 AM
1

So the richest man in the world had an unsatisfactory sex life and cheated then divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 12:57 AM
2

Would you rather be single for life or fuck that 5?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 12:55 AM
2

So what? It's your life. There are people who are better looking than you, richer than you, smarter than you. If you compare yourself you will always be miserable. Fucking jeff bezos got divorced even.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 12:26 AM
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Yeah I agree ultimately. I've seen so many guys spend hundreds of hours and hundreds of dollars going to the club every weekend, talking about women non stop, and they pull a 6 or 7 like once every 2 months. Having a gf is much better unless you're a Chad. Hollywood has made it seem like everyone is having non stop casual sex when in reality it's not true and it's never been true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 12:24 AM
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Not every red piller is alt right, but most alt right people are either redpilled or blackpilled. Alot of losers go alt right because 1) they have no social pressure to conform and 2) it's a good outlet for angry people. Alot of redpillers do too. Then the tradcons are kinda blue but also redpilled and probably do more than the alt right by having lots of kids, but believe all races are equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 01:48 PM
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Yeah I see it all the time. Beta nice guy with a more attractive woman, always in her late 20s, always looking like she has some baggage. They don't usually look that happy and it's clear that she's in charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 01:42 PM
2

They wont
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 01:23 PM
2

Can you take a day trip out to a state park ? Sometimes I just drive to a park and camp there overnight then drive back. It's a nice way to get out fr a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 02:54 AM
1

There are different categories. Religious right and secular right. Most "conservatives" today are secular right, meaning they want to fuck pussy and be left alone by feminists and pay low tax. Only the religious right are actual conservatives, rooted in biblical ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 01:22 AM
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Yeah boomers are literally clueless about why there are so many young people rioting. Massive generational divide. Boomers were all married with a good career and a house by age 25. Today's 25 year olds have nothing, and nothing to lose. Personally I'm doing alright in the new system but I totally understand where the rioters and radical leftists are coming from. It's not actually about george floyd or any particular cause. Theres just a shit ton of people with literally no purpose and no future…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 01:19 AM
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I dont see it either. The losers / incels / uglies might be more "conservative" cuz they don't buy into all the bullshit cuz they have no social pressure. But as far as actual, devoted christian conservatives go theres very few in Gen Z.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 01:14 AM
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Well, just go in, look the manager in the eye, and give him a firm hand shake! Surely he won't turn down a fine young man/woman like you! Don't forget to pull yourself up by the boot straps too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 11:33 PM
1

Tabarnak c'a ben changé depuis les jours de Labatt Bleue pis Export A au Québec huh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 11:26 PM
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They do like to say bro alot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 11:17 PM
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Y
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 11:17 PM
4

Everyone needs at least one bad bluepilled oneities LTR before they get into pills😂, or be at least 19
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 11:01 PM
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I dont buy the economic argument. Why did the birth rate drop so low in the 1970s if its economics? Things were cheap, housing was cheap and the future was optimistic. Its dropped because of culture, lots of people just arent interested in having kids, men no longer want to be beta providers, and the court system is badly biased towards women. But really ina modern society full of distractions people just get busy when they're young and forget to have kids tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 11:00 PM
2

You can absolutely become more attractive by being fit and wearing nice clothes. It's not just all face.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 08:22 PM
1

What's your body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 08:20 PM
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Humans also used to live in caves and shit in the forest. Doesn't mean it's an ideal condition or something that we should accept today...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 03:53 PM
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That's just dating in 2020 lol. Hook ups, cheating, ghosting, dry streaks. It used to confuse me, until I realized that you just have to give up on finding an LTR/marriage/kids, and treat it as a big game. Some dates seem to go bad but you fuck afterwards. Others go well and you get ghosted. Live for the moment, have fun, try to score pussy and go with the flow. Your ex hooked up with another guy that night, nothing to feel bad about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 03:52 PM
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Everyone under 25 is childfree lol. When I used to chill with my exes friends and their bf's we would talk about how we don't want kids, "fuck kids", "glad were never having kids", etc. My guy friends don't want em either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 12:18 AM
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I'm your age lol. Your peers will mostly be serial monogamists with a few hookups in between until they settle down in their early 30s (for men) and late 20s (for women). Alot of people our age don't want kids too so it will be interesting to see how that plays out. Definitely not saying umc are like tradcon or anything. Edit: but maybe there are tons of dentists out there spinning plates but I just find most professionals over 25 are dating someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 11:43 PM
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Oh ok, so you're an old man telling me I havent kept up with the times 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 10:47 PM
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I am 22, turning 23. You? As I said, "hookups happen" but it's not a lifestyle. You appear to be mgtow based on your comment history which makes me think you don't know much about anything, anecdotal or otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 10:14 PM
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They never go out irl. Good looking guys get the most pussy, and nobody ever thinks about autistic red or blue pills. Irl body count isnt really that big a deal, we assume everyone has a sexual past, unless shes fucked a huge number of people nobody cares. Alot of it is just a cope, guys say that "only chad has sex" so they feel better that they're still 25 and a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 09:43 PM
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Agree, rp is mostly lower class men. They get mad when I point this out. But its 100% true from my experience. Not saying umc or wealthy people never sleep around, or don't hook up. But they usually do this for a few years in college then start their career, then settle down with a few ltr then marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 09:31 PM
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Also how are str and ltr defined? I had a "gf" in college that we both clearly had no intention of ever getting married and we knew it would end once we graduated. But we were still exclusive and dated for a while, and called each other bf/gf. Is that short term or long term? Is long termed defined as strictly marriage-oriented?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 04:18 PM
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Yeah I agree with that. And it shows in the employment numbers, the majority of people doing STEM and med school etc. in Canada are either immigrants or children of recent immigrants. However I'd say that women have alot more "fun" than men, the obsession with dogs and travel and carousel riding is a female thing, only a smaller percentage of men can fully participate. I have also travelled and had casual sex but nowhere near the levels that upper middle class women have had.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 04:16 PM
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I'm 22m, n count of 5. For my casual sex partners I knew right away I didnt want to be around them much, and I just pushed them away and viewed then as another notch. For the 2 girls it ltr'ed I could tell right away we has a connection and we vibe alot more, the sex was more emotional and I was alot more attached right away. For me it depends on the type of girl I'm sleeping with I guess. Although maybe if I were to hit 10 or 20 partners I just wouldnt gaf even if we were compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 10:48 PM
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Lol the country dance halls aren't exactly big in Toronto Sure there are nightclubs but imo theyre highly overrated as a way to pick up girls. The dance halls sound fun though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 10:30 PM
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How does it break down by race? This sub is mostly white and middle class and remember that the majority of the USA is not white and middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 06:16 PM
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OP is 48 years old and is married to a high n woman, despite never getting much casual sex himself. He also admitted to feeling regret at missing out on the lifestyle. Of course because he missed out on both Casual sex and settling down with a low n woman this means that every woman is a slut with a body count of 30+.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 06:13 PM
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Yeah, western men of 80 years ago had 30% higher T, almost no obesity, many worked physical jobs / were veterans so they were muscular (though gyms weren't as common), had much more earning power relative to women, were socialized in large groups such as church and sports leagues from a young age, so they were more confident and with better social skills. They also had larger social networks. So yeah, "average" man has gone down. However women should be careful with what they wish for because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 09:54 PM
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Going to bars Lol, maybe if you want to pick up a 50 year old biker woman with a smokers voice (or maybe a guy). Are you a boomer? Nobody goes to bars these days (even before covid).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 09:46 PM
2

What? I'm not gonna marry my exes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 05:50 PM
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I'm 22 years old lol. I've had 2 long term gf as well as some hookups and casual sex with fwbs. Dating is fucked for sure but I'm not looking for marriage or kids ever so I just go along with it and have fun on the ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 05:42 PM
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Hes very bitter for a 25 year old lol. I thought he was like 50 year old dude who got divorce raped and cant see his kids anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 04:57 PM
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A tradcon conservative doing shrooms? Lol. Jesus was into shrooms or something. Then again your leader Falwell just got caught being a literal cuck so I guess I'm not surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 06:59 PM
2

I cant think of any tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 06:52 PM
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And in 1950 men had 30% higher testosterone, close to no obesity, and men were naturally redpilled. Everything is relative, so yes men earning less in relation to women does actually make them lower quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 05:37 PM
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Fatter, lower testosterone, more feminine, less earning power relative to women, more drug/porn/video game use/dependance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 05:28 PM
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Just my eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 05:09 PM
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Womens average standards are higher Mens average quality has gotten lower Hence, women are not satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 05:00 PM
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It's not just punjabis lol. We have an equal number of Sikhs and Hindus here. But yeah generally the punjabis are the ones involved in gang crimes and other stuff.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 03:11 PM
1

True but society also rewards femininity. You have to be bluepilled to have a corporate career, or at least be able to pretend (like me).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 12:05 PM
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God Dern Austrerlalians comin' inter are cuntry aNd takin' are jerbs. Murica!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 12:01 PM
1

"We need to be more like sweden" Love it when leftists say that. Anyways they will be more like us soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 12:00 PM
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Bro, we're just going back to our natural ways. Were gonna live in caves, live to age 25 and hunt buffalo. You're also a sexist for not wanting this, it's just how things will be going forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 11:55 AM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 12:31 PM
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Just come to canada, there are so many Indians and they're all like that, you can just live with them and never have to adapt at all.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 11:52 AM
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I've met a number of white guys who said they would prefer arranged marriage like they have in India... or basiclaly any kind of system other than we have now. The grass is always greener...
/r/askTRP11/09/20 11:51 AM
1

Canada. Dont mind grease but I sometimes get acne so a sunscreen that doesnt Inflame that would be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 05:23 PM
1

Can you recommend any sunscreens?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 04:54 PM
1

Lol nah. I'm not bitching I'm just being honest. I've lived in a similar rust belt city. It is what it is, no judgement. The rich Toronto people cant afford houses there anymore either and are leaving. Once work from home becomes normalized that city is fucked, all that will remain are foreigners and refugee welfare recipients.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 04:53 PM
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Nahh it's not selfishness. It's a cope, a rationalization for an increasingly shitty society. "I wont be able to have kids, so I might as well put on a happy face" Most people want kids at their core, but are no longer able to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 04:13 PM
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Was gonna say lol. In Toronto nobody has a kid at 29. Kids are for the mid 30s, or increasingly never. Tbh having an abortion is much more acceptable than having a kid now. When my ex did a fetus deletus all her friends were so supportive and it wasn't that big a deal. But none of them want kids, and would say wtf if she had kept the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 04:07 PM
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This... I'm shocked at the number of guys my age (early 20s) who have no interest in socializing. They spend all their night gaming or watching Netflix Sometimes I'll ask somebody to hang out, get lunch or a beer or whatever. They're like "why?" They don't understand the concept of socializing just for the sake of socializing, and would rather be at home
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 04:05 PM
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Torontonians are so miserable lmao. Yet they think they're superior to the rest of the province. That said, torontonians are also much better looking and less obese than the rest of the province. There are alot of drug addicts and fat fucks and white trash in niagara, Hamilton, Kingston, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 03:53 PM
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So, I don't think it's easier or harder. I've lived in both conservative and liberal areas of canada. The liberal areas, relationships are more fluid, people come from out of town, you might have a casual 2 month fling then part ways. In the conservative areas, more people are from the region and never left, thus have stronger family ties. It's harder to get casual sex but it's easier to find someone who's looking for an LTR. I'd imagine the north/south usa is the same way but more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 03:52 PM
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Loool I immediate had this thought. When I travelled down south I was shocked at how obese everyone is. Not just a little gut, but like entire bodies covered in fat. That said, the fit southern military right wing type guys are known to be pretty hot. And southern belles are cute too. But you have to find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 03:49 PM
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No. This is just zoomers doing a thing and then saying 'ZOMG first generation to evar do this lolol' Talk to guys from the 70s 80s and 90s. It wasnt really rare for ons back then. The only difference was that they actually got married after a few years rather than staying single for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 05:49 PM
1

It's because there are alot of larpers online. The discourse that happens on ppd doesn't occur much IRL. Men who never get laid think that everyone is hooking up all the time in a constant orgy. I'm sure there are some narcissistic men who date multiple people at once in perpetuity but yeah, normal well adjusted people don't really do that. And average guys usually don't have enough matches to do it even if they wanted to. Hookup culture is not actually hooking up with multiple people all the ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 05:48 PM
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I think men have the potential to age better, however alot of men just let themselves go and therefore look like shit However let's be honest, a 45 year old man who is working out, has good fashion, and is still an interesting person, is pretty attractive regardless of if hes balding or if he has some wrinkles. It's just that the majority of middle aged men also get fat and out of touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 04:35 AM
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Honest question: I am very white, I don't wear sunscreen but I also rarely go our in the middle of the summer, I never burn, and when I do to out I wear a hat. I will get a little pink if I'm spending the day out during the summer on occasion. Will i be okey?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 04:33 AM
1

I hope you find someone. You might have to lower your standards in terms of looks in your bf though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 01:18 PM
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Yeah nobody would expect to be the king if we moved to the past. What they're talking about is they want more of a purpose, and a society where male skills are valued. An average office shmuck would be much happier in some army, with the purpose and camaraderie that goes along with it, even if his life was shorter and harder. That's the point. Ofc the women here totally missed that because they can't conceive that comfort isnt the be all end all of existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 01:17 PM
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Alot of the people who live that life while young get married and have kids too. How many billionaires don't have kids? Almost none. The middle class looks up to that lifestyle even though its unattainable. "Omg I went to paris #travel4lyfe" and are always chasing after it. For most of us, real life is work, fuck, sleep, die. It's pointless and boring. The rich/media just put a false view of what life is into our heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 12:58 PM
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I agree with this actually. In the media, being single is portrayed as being so cool, people aren't tied down, everyone is hooking up all the time, people save alot of money and travel all the time, and have good jobs. But I live in a condo complex / neighborhood with tons of single people in their late 20s and 30s. It's pretty depressing actually, everyone looks miserable, and the people look like they watch too much Netflix, and pornhub. Everyone has a dog. The most fulfilled people I know wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 12:50 PM
2

Sad to see the stupid "lol men r bad" answers on here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:39 PM
1

Arent you like 45?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 04:24 PM
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Yeah the people who hook up regularly are a small minority of men and women. So for people in that scene they think its everyone. I have an incredibly large and diverse group of acquaintances and friends in canada, and while hookups do happen, the majority of people are either single or in a relationship. There are lots of people on ppd who a) never hooked up or know many women so they believe that every woman is hooking up every night b) guys who hooked up once or twice and say "you're a loser …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 03:34 PM
1

Hookup culture exists, but at the same time it's not like average people are out hooking up every weekend. The majority of people in canada are in ltr. And it's very liberal here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 03:30 PM
1

Interesting comment. One of the best predictors for support for trump among white women was marriage status. Basically married white women voted trump, single white women voted Democrat. In my experience wokefishing is needed at the start. If you go up to a left wing girl and tell her "I like trump" she will go away. However I just avoid politics until we know each other well. Eventually it comes up but honestly even the most leftist woman I dated didn't really care, as long as I wasn't a misogy…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 10:59 PM
4

men don't prefer thick women the dating market is just fucked, it's a cope Usa is obsessed with black culture for some reason and apparently being obese is now considered a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 12:36 PM
1

Some guys are just lucky lol. By conventional standards I'm less attractive than some of my friends but I did better with girls. Cant explain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 12:08 AM
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Yeah they do. Of my circle of high school friends, I'm the only one who had a regular sex life thru college (I had gfs and hookups). The rest just gave up. Idk how to fix that. I'd get a dog once I have a long term partner but I think if I had a dog before it would just make me lonelier lol. And more stuff to take care of. I've always had a shit tinder profile but I still get matches, I'm over 6 feet and blonde I guess that's enough. I could probably get alot more pussy if I looksmaxxed and phot…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 11:33 PM
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I'm seeing alot of guys who look totally checked out fat, dishevelled not even showered since covid started. I admit I need a haircut and stopped putting as much effort into my fashion. However I actually started eating healthier and I'm in better shape than before. I also didnt lose my job which helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 05:13 PM
4

People want what they don't have. In the boomer (and earlier) times everyone was marrying dating and fucking starying in their teens or 20s. In my grandpas day it was just assumed that every man would be married and would be fucking his wife every night. In our times people are having trouble dating having sex and getting married. Therefore our culture is sex obsessed. This idea that nobody had sex before feminism is totally wrong. Sex was actually more common and just a normal thing, like anima…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 04:04 PM
1

Positive about trp: self improvement, dont be needy, be manly, find a hobby, dont put pussy on the pedestal. Negative about trp: the rest is pretty autistic and decreases your ability to have a good and healthy relationship with a partner. If anything blackpill is more likely; I'm above average guy, average frustrated chump you could say. The amount of pussy I get didn't change from pre to post redpill. Chad will slay regardless or his politics, pill, and probably isnt even on reddit. The guy I …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 03:50 PM
1

Lol. Women don't actually care about politics. Look at the tinder experiment when a sexy nazi was getting hundreds of matches. The guy I know who got the most pussy I've ever seen, was a racist redneck asshole, who degraded women every day and played on the football team. From personal experience the feminist women like to be degraded and have kinky roleplaying in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 03:19 PM
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Tbh, I've hooked up with some girls off tinder, some times we were sober sometimes not. But yeah I agree generally alcohol is involved. I just don't know why this is particularly interesting or newsworthy, people who abstain from alcohol are unlikely to be looking for casual sex. I also don't like the phrasing of the post: it suggest you have to be a degenerate alcoholic, and be into the "lifestyle". But that's not true, I'm pretty sober but will have a drink or three on the right occasion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 03:16 PM
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Covid will accelerate every social trend. Women have gone months now without being bothered by betas and ugly guys. They can stil swipe on chad and get attention though. Their standards are now higher than before. Small businesses will close and big businesses will gain. The middle class will continue its decline. Family formations will decrease. Social unrest will increase. Drug abuse will increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 03:13 PM
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It already was a thing. In my area you see hundreds of people in their 30s with dogs... with a partner or with kids not so much. Covid will make it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 03:11 PM
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Lol no unattractive high inhib nerd is getting laid regularly from going to the club. What planet are you living on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 02:58 PM
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Yeah, but is that really related to casual sex or is that just a normal activity. People in western countries have been meeting for drinks for centuries. We meet up for drinks after work, drinks with friends, drinks with tinder dates... it's nothing new lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 02:57 PM
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It's so overrated lol. To get attention from women just talk to her and have a decent personality and decent looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 11:06 PM
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Why do they need trp for that? They just need more practice socializing. I had terrible social skills before uni. I got lucky and got a gf and had inherent rp properties somehow, but I basically just kept putting myself in social situations talking to many people joining clubs etc. Rp+ bad social skills = autistic. I greatly improved my social skills just by being social and forcing myself out there, long before I heard of rp. I'm happy because I found my own social style too. All the "rp" peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 09:41 PM
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Hotter girls seemed more bored when I fucked them, heavy girls were more into it. I give 110% with ltr. Hookups might be lower quality and I dont really care so I just fuck her until I cum then leave lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 09:32 PM
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It might be selfish, but at the same time we only get to live once. Might as well do what makes you happy. For me that doesn't include kids🤷🏻‍♂️. Plus the world will be shit in 20 years, climate change, debt, etc. I see it as being more selfish to put a kid in that situation. You should check out the YouTuber jenny mustard. Shes a childfree minimalist living in london with her long term partner david. I think the guy is pretty lucky that's what I'd like to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 08:57 PM
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Let's be honest the black community has always known rp. For a long time white people could easily graduate, get a great job, get a house, and a wife, quite easily. Black people generally didn't have this same life path. Working class (and increasingly middle class) White Americans are now facing a similar problem, fewer good jobs, decline in family structure divorces drug addiction etc. Rp is mostly a lower class thing. Umc and upper class whites still don't need to rp. The lower down the socio…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 08:27 PM
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According to this research, 25% of women born in 1992 will end up childless (and increase for every year after that). 55% of women born in 1992 are currently childless. If you're born ~2000 and the trend holds, around 33% of women born that year will be childless - likely disproportionately educated women, hence what you see at university. Keep in mind this think tank has a right wing bias. https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-rise-of-childless-america I think it's a good thing, our generation just pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 08:17 PM
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Yeah true, there are alot of childfree people irl for sure. My first ltr didnt want kids, and 3/5 of her roomates didnt want them either. My 2nd ltr also didn't want kids and when her roomate had an aborton they were totally fine with it, glad she was no longer pregnant etc. The girls I hooked up with actually do want kids, you'd expect the opposite. The only thing is that women also said they didn't want kids back in the 80s and 90s too but then changed their mind... my mom for instance didn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 07:17 PM
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Is r/childfree "normal" women though. Or is it obese unattractive women who couldn't find a partner, coping? The same way mgtow says "hmmph well I never wanted a woman anyways". But it's definitely acceptable to have kids later.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 06:50 PM
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Lol do you have plans to go visit the 3rd world?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 04:44 PM
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Also, re cubicle farms nothing makes me dislike women more than having to deal with Karen's bullshit at work. This is what a feminine controlled environment looks like and it sucks ass. If I didnt have a good income or a career path I'd absolutely tell them to fuck off and go be a plumber or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 03:23 AM
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Yeah I'm 22... it's kind of scary to think how fast I'll be 40. I could so easily waste my entire childbearing years using tinder and having flings/short term relationships which is basiclaly what I've done since my first ltr
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 03:20 AM
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I tend to agree actually, from about age 17 to 20 I was in a bad depression, I couldn't stand on my own two feet. I did manage to get out of it without SSRI or hurting myself and got my life back on track. I'm much more mentally tough than alot of people and alot of stuff just doesn't bother me. This shit phase of my life almost looks like a blessing in hindsight because now I'm entering my career and adult life must more resilient than most young people today. When you've been to hell, a little…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 03:17 AM
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Good point re japan. Maybe humans just can't handle modernity look at the mouse utopia experiment
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 03:08 AM
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You're talking as an average guy. Chad has the 3rd path of slaying tons of pussy with no commitment. But yeah I'm seeing more of this lately. Like average bros in their late 20s and 30s who appear to be single, just chilling together, going hiking or travelling or whatever. Probably not getting that much pussy but life is what you make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 03:03 AM
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Lol no sir. Middle class area.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 02:58 AM
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That's already happening tbh. People don't notice it yet but in the past 2-3 years I've detected a slight shift towards what you describe. Idk if it's because rp is going mainstream (is rp actually going mainstream? It's been around a long time) or if it's just a natural shift back towards conservatism.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 02:57 AM
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TRP is the natural state for men, even European men were basically RP prior to ww2 and the baby boom. Mexicans slap their women to go with morning coffee because they know it keeps the pussy wet. They don't need reddit to know that. I see alot of middle class fuckboys going around lately, I dunno if that's their view of rp or if it's just how they are. Eventually the middle class will slide into poverty and rp will just become the default again tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 02:55 AM
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Thank you. That was my point. I'm a young man and I see it. At least half my friends from high school are drug addicts now. For the average or below average financially successful women it's basically impossible to find a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 02:41 AM
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Huh. I'm a man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 01:09 AM
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Disagree. Alot of guys sleep around in college then get a high paying job and an ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 03:28 PM
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Corporate landscape is awful for young men. I can't stand listening to these shrieking middle aged Karen's.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 03:04 PM
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I never looksmaxxed and I still got laid off of tinder. 6"1 and white. I see alot of guys trying hard and they still get basically no pussy. Now that I started looksmaxxing I'm single again and not getting laid. But that's mostly due to the pandemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 03:03 PM
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Oh that. Yeah, the 80/20 rule seems kind of true tbh. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 09:53 PM
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What are okc interns telling us?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 09:44 PM
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The numbers dont add to 100 and with 30% of the responses being not applicable I dont think we can draw much from this data. Its hard for me to tell if young men are fucking less or more than in the past since I only turned 18 in 2015. I do know alot of guys who struggle though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 09:34 PM
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Why am I still here? I dunno first of all I'm bored second of all I want to be a chad plating 9s and 10s. I agree redpillers are mostly full of shit in fact I believe most of the stories on that forum are larp. Mostly I'm just bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 04:20 PM
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Ok "bro" glad you're one of the cool people that has a totally normal social life. Fat fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 02:29 PM
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Not even odd. Just below average looks, and losers. Like the dude in the big lebowski. Just cant attract that many women. One is a leftist / antifa type, another one is a racist Christian, a few others dont really care about politics. Casual sex is rare because we aren't Chad. Only the top % of men get casual sex. women will sleep with guys like us but for a one night thing why would they choose us when they can get a muscular chad on speed dial? And idk. When I came out of high school I was a k…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 01:57 PM
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Yeah. I've had zero pressure from my parents to get married or have kids. Literally none. Which is nice. I enjoy fucking around. Even if it's not sexual, I enjoy being able to do drugs or just chill with my friends with no pressure. Probably get less sex than I would be if I was a boomer and married at 22. But I'm still having fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 01:37 PM
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Also, who cares if they talk about killing their baby. Just be grateful you're not gonna get stuck with an unwanted pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 01:31 PM
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Idk. I maintain that the number of men who were in this "lifestyle" is no more than 5%... I think you need to accept that your past is your past. Start looksmaxxing and gym maxing if you want success on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 01:30 PM
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Idk. None of the women I dated wanted a baby. They were also late teens / early 20s. Theyll probably end up having 1-2 babies in their mid 30s like most umc women end up having. If a woman wants a baby, she gets a baby. What men want is pretty much meaningless, in 2020.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 01:22 PM
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Lol idk. My experience at college was that most people aren't experiencing wild drunken sex with dozens of women. That's a hollywood thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 01:19 PM
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22m here. It depends. Of my close friend group from high school (6 people), they have pretty much had 0 relationships. Maybe a 2 month relationship when they were 18. They're kind of losers though, but Not virgins. My new friend group is average guys with money and who put in effort to look good (yuppies). They have relationships. But at any given time most of us are still single. If we put in alot of time we will find something eventually. Casual sex is rare. I've never really run in the chad c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 01:13 PM
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Yeah. Having kids is totally optional for all my guy friends. The girls I dated told me "fuck that I'm aborting right away if i get pregnant". Having choices is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 12:59 PM
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What do you mean didnt meet women in abundance? Do you mean virgin? Or just low n count?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 12:50 PM
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Did the fin hurt your boners or lower your t?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 09:40 PM
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Shit. It feels kinda pointy on the top at the back. 🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 09:23 PM
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I said this a few weeks ago, the post wall woman still has it better. The betas are now betabuxxing and getting married. The omegas are wailing about muh betabux because they werent even good enough for bb status. I'm decent looking and tall, working out. As far as physical fitness goes I'm not worried about fattening. I also have an ok skin routine and dont get burned. Only problem is balding, I'm 22 and on minox alrady. I see some older bald dudes in shape and well dressed and they look good t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 09:13 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 06:08 PM
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That's good. Our moderate, mainline churches are dying (Anglican, etc). Catholics are staying flat mostly due to immigration. Muslims are growing alot. Evangelical (American style bible thumper) are also growing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 05:18 PM
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Yep. I've had fwb but it was always after I broke up with my exes. In my experience the women aren't able to do it. Hopefully as they get more mature more fwb opportunities will work out. If not I'll just keep getting into relationships then breaking up before a year. Not the most moral but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 05:16 PM
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We have subdivisions that are 95% asian or Indian immigrants. Then cross the road and its farmers fields, 100% white racist bible thumpers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 05:11 PM
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Interesting. My friends are pretty diverse from white and east/south asian backgrounds. I'm sure they might have more pressure from parents to settle down. I wouldnt call any of us artsy. Nobody breeds more than white rural Christian's though (in canada at least).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 05:07 PM
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Edit: I looked at your post history and you have basically the same n count as me lol. I'm 5 women 0 guys. 22m I just never had a standalone fwb, 3 of my bodies were either ONS or a couple hookups, then also 2 relationships. I want a fwb though it seems to be best for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 05:04 PM
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What city? But yeah, it's a common mindset. I'm having fun, why ruin my lifestyle with a kid? Location matters too, my rural family members literally have 1 million kids each. I don't mind settling down with a woman I just don't want kids. For me, goals are: nice condo - dog - partner/gf - do alot of travelling - fun friend group. Edit: we're early 20s though, so who knows if we change or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 04:57 PM
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That's a good way of putting it. Less of a caricature. We are very responsible with school, work, rent, etc. I also think the USA has more of a casual sex culture than even canada or the rest of the world. I need to be in at least a short term relationship to get laid with regularity. I liked the way you put everything tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 04:25 PM
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Did you ever realize hw much demographics are against us? When boomers were young like 50% of the population was their age. You could go to any event and statistically there would be tons of women your age to mingle with. For gen z pretty everywhere is full of old people. Unless you live on a college campus or maybe a trendy gentrified area (people in their 30s).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 04:10 PM
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Yeah. If working class whites and black (and all working people) United and focused on the elites" criminal activities things would be different. Of course that's never happened and never will happen. The closest were the labour movements in the 20s combined with the fear of the working class going communist like russia scared the shit out of the wealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 04:02 PM
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And yeah, people often have no choice, if you take a gap year, then do a bachelors then masters you're coming out of school aged 25... a couple years building the career then you're 28 or 30... especially for women that's old. But then let's say you want to live a little, travel, etc. Then you're suddenly 35 and still childless.... Credentialism is huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 03:52 PM
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Yeah it's honestly not that bad, as long as you have some upward social mobility, are decent looking, and have decent social skills (admittedly rare in 2020). It's kind of fun living a selfish hedonist life, not wanting kids, doing drugs, eating out too much, and doing things boomers hate (childless millenials at disney.) Relationships are short term that usually turn into fwb at the end which end up in disaster. I feel validated going out with my above average friends. Even if we don't get a hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 03:50 PM
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Yeah. I've realized that white liberals are basically the problem. Men from traditional cultures around the world aren't all that different. You could put an american evangelical Christian, a Muslim from Saudi, and a hindu in the same room and they wouldn't be too far apart in terms of their opinion on women and sex. Of course, that's why this will never happen as any kind of unity among lower classes and traditional values people would be bad for the ruling class. 🤷🏻‍♂️ I just watch as the prol…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 03:37 PM
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There is huge overlap between the alt right / white nationalists and the manosphere. The majority of the manosphere isnt alt right but most of the alt right is manosphere. You can see where the current demographics are pointing - lots of arabs and Africans, not so many whites and asians. Who thought that in 2020 we would all be online identifying by some cringe internet identity group.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 03:24 PM
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I appreciate the response. I'm not trying to be racist but for most of us whites it's just assumed that a black person will be a thug (but most, especially liberals would never admit it). In the Toronto area there are ALOT of Arabs, Somalian, and Pakistani 2nd gen immigrants who adopt the thug culture of black Americans (or at least what they think black Americans are like). It's kind of funny because they try to be so threatening. I've spent alot of time in Detroit and chicago so I don't really…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 03:20 PM
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Maybe it's old fashioned thinking but to me being a full adult is having kids and a family. That this part is being left for later or even never is why it seems like we're not growing up. Regular adult life (working, living alone, etc.) is pretty easy for me. That said pretty much none of my friends are thinking about that right now (early 20s couple years out of college). We'll be in our 30s before we start thinking about this but I suspect that at least 50% will probably not ever have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 03:14 PM
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It's only going up after this pandemic. Even the faint hope for sex for average single guys has gone away.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 03:03 PM
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And just because you weren't in the sexless category doesn't mean you have a sex life. You could fuck 1 disgusting fatty and be in the "not sexless" category for the whole year lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 02:39 PM
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Rich parents. I'm umc. Yeah, I was never chad so I dont actually interact with the stacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 02:38 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 01:55 PM
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At least I know it lol. Most guys under 23 (in particular non whites) are either redpilled or blackpilled or incel. Feel bad for the bluepilled 30 something betas at work. Or the 50 year old married nice guy simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 01:43 PM
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My last 2 relationships I just got into because I wanted to have sex lol. The first one I dumped after 4 months the next after 8 (once they get too boring or bitchy). Might as well use my education and IQ to make money 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 01:29 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 01:27 PM
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My goal is to own a condo/house be a sugar daddy once I'm in my mid 30s. It seems pretty sad but it is what it is. I don't think I'll ever be good enough for consistent casual sex. And unless I meet a unicorn girl I doubt I'll find marriage material. What can I say, men work for pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 01:25 PM
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Idk, I see women doing better than men at just about everything. 19 year old women seem like a young woman to me, while many 19 year old men seem like children, or autistic with no social skills. Like men are developing later, while all the 20 year old women from my high school were travelling the world posting cute insta pics idk what the men were doing but they sure weren't travelling in large numbers living it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 01:22 PM
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I think our societal elites see a problem. In reality without the prospect of starting a family or getting laid worker bee beta males just dont care. They'll play vidya all day. This is a problem for the country's finances and its future. Other betas get destructive and join a gang or sell drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 01:19 PM
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This. Nobody cares on an individual level. But when an average looking guy with his shit together and a decent career path can't get laid (I've seen it in Canada) then it becomes a societal problem. What you said about thuggishness might be true, I see alot of guys looking comical (to me) - trying very hard to be a thug. Usually brown or Arabic people. I've wondered if it actually helps them get laid or if it's just a reflection of never getting laid in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 01:06 PM
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Yeah I honestly disagree. Canada was extremely patriarchal and conservative until the 1960s. We're just coasting on the strong foundation built back then. Most of the people in the big cities are middle eastern asian or Indian immigrants anyways so obviously this "liberal" strategy didnt work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 12:59 PM
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It seems like they give up. I saw some suburban dads yesterday looking like shit, ugly cargo shorts, sandals, no haircut, fat. Maybe if you get married too young this happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 12:55 PM
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Meet women at the bingo hall lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 12:33 PM
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Ah the elusive tradcon Chad. A fellow canuck too. How many kids do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 08:18 PM
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How are you making money now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 06:00 PM
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nah. You free market people are just selfish and greedy. When the outsourcing/insourcing/downsizing affects you you'll realize that you're not a special snowflake Enjoy it while you can because mass importation of h1b foreign white collar labour is coming soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 04:25 PM
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Lol. We'll send your job to China, have a low af minimum wage, no health insurance, and unaffordable housing. Just pull yourself up bu the bootstraps! Its capitalism bro, you're just lazy! Late stage capitalism only works for those with IQ > 110, from rich families, or willing to be immoral and suck dick, and screw over the working class. Disclaimer I have a 125 IQ, from an umc family and have no problem sucking dick to move up. That said it doesnt take a genius to see that the system is failing…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 11:18 AM
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Havent bought gillete since that ad lol. Every time I'm buying razors I forget, then I go oh yeah and pick up a different brand instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 11:15 AM
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That's a tiny minority of (stupid) men. Most average guys go into adulthood with a false view of hookup culture, and get disappointed when they realize that only alpha men participate. Then they eventually find LTRs and settle down. Religious or conservative men might do only LTR sex. I dont see anything wrong with that and most don't do the moral preening. I do know a few ben shapiro type losers who rant about how "modern feminism is ruining our women and causing degeneracy" and those guys are …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 11:09 AM
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Yeah. My n count is 5, 22m. Women have hilariously over-guessed my body count, and the lowest guesses were around 10. They can't fathom the possibility that it's hard for average men to get laid. I was on a tinder date once and the girl got drunk, and it slipped out that her body count was "around 30, maybe more". She called me a virgin when I told her mine was only 4 lol (bluepilled at that time and didn't think to lie).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 11:04 AM
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Thanks for that link. That basically answers my question. Ifs is a right wing institute though, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 02:58 AM
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You're a unicorn lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 02:06 AM
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Younger people seem to be really unable to see past these labels. However, imo life is a joke. Choosing a "side" is just something people do to create a vibe and persona that they like. Though they will never say it, even most evangelical Christian's dont actually believe jesus is coming tommorow. People just want to be part of a group. My advice is to pick a group you like and be 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 12:15 AM
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I never lie about it. Leftist women just assume I'm leftist for some reason. I don't correct them. I'm pretty progressive in most eras honestly, pro choice pro woman education etc. But because I like guns, dont hate men / white people and am against affirmative action I'm literally Hitler.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 12:03 AM
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So you're saying nice guys get pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 12:00 AM
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Ya I still struggle to get laid. Just having experience isnt enough. But ya still miles ahead of some virgin friends. Just trying to improve, get fit and save money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 11:53 PM
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Practice young too. Sexual success / dating in late teens or early 20s, means you're far ahead of your peers who dont have this same experience. I'm far from a player but I still cringe at what I see my virgin early 20s friends saying / doing with women. I got lucky at age 19, and also had some innate skills and decent looks. But since then I've had relationship and hookup experience (22 now), and experience begets experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 11:31 PM
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I disagree with this post, tbh, I know alot of guys who do everything right, decent, good career, average looking, no fat, and still get 0 casual sex and not many relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 11:12 PM
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What a dumb post. Your worldview is skewed if you only use your own experiences as evidence. Stats show the bigger picture. The ideal case is when the stats line up with your real world experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 11:05 PM
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Damn. I wish I had your problems. The amount of effort I put into finding hookups vs the reward as a male was too high so I gave up. You have the lifestyle an average guy would kill for but are unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 10:53 PM
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The thing is, though, you could easily find sex. You're probably looking for other things. A "LVM" (to use femcel terms) can not get sex or affection; women are disgusted by him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 01:33 PM
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I dunno lol. Travelling is fun, but I never got the hype about it. I think it's a generation of people with no purpose in life looking for something. Weve got so much "diversity" anyways I dont see why I would need to travel.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 01:29 PM
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Pretty much lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 01:21 PM
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Thanks My goal is financial independance too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 01:19 PM
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Yeah if you hang out with 18-22 year old women you'll see how popular it is. Its another generational divide that even a 35 year old dude wouldnt pick up on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:48 AM
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In 100 years the mormons and amish will rule the USA, if current fertility trends stay the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:23 AM
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I'm not saying women want this or that it's good. But overall it's still better to be in her position than his position and he will never get the last laugh. It's a theoretical exercise But point taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:22 AM
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Achieving a childless life while partying traveling and making money is much better than the male alternative, which is being squeezed out of the dating market and remaining bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:14 AM
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College girls look up to cool wine aunts these days. It's what they aspire to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:13 AM
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But you ancap. Right there I automatically stop respecting you hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 01:44 AM
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In secular circles, almost all of them. However there are still a large number of religious / traditional women that are "invisible" to the thirsty RP men chasing casual sex. Same with n count, abortions, etc. The numbers already seem high and then you factor in the 30% who are rural or conservative women. You realize that the numbers are astronomical for urban liberal women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 01:27 AM
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I've had women call me a "deep, dark thinker" when in reality I'm kind of an antisocial and grumpy loner. Look privilege is real (I'm only top 30%. Cant imagine being top 10%).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 01:25 AM
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You took too many mushrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 01:24 AM
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Oh gotchu lol. I mean in the big cities housing is so unaffordable you need a partner or you're gonna be living with real roomates. It sounds decent to me. A roomate you fuck, drink with, get a dog with, and split rent with. I guess romance is dead but I would enjoy that. Children are pretty much a no go, and abortions and birth control are free (in Toronto and other progressive cities). It's a good life but it's not similar to previous generations. You have to make the most of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 01:22 AM
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Eh, kind of agree. I, 21m (say a 7/10) have met 2 decent gfs and hooked up / fwb with 3 girls from OLD in the past 2 years. My standards are relatively high, I dont fw fat chicks. This is also with me putting low effort into my profile. However for every lay there are 50 days of lonely swiping, matching with ugly girls, or girls proving they're not interested past the talking stage. It's a huge time waster. So yeah OLD got me off the ground floor - from an autistic virgin to a guy with some expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 01:16 AM
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Roomateship isn't bad, if you actually go out, try and get laid, and have fun. If your roomates are losers who play video all day then yea it's pretty depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 12:48 AM
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Yup this is true. The sisterhood is a real thing. Women of all races are getting along great right now. They like access to chad. They would rather share an alpha. Alot of women also don't really want kids. You're delusional if you don't think there are single alpha men at older ages too... maybe divorced. They will always have fun. The new ideal for women is college, travel, career, and then settle down as the cool wine aunt. Things are going badly for men, we"re less connected and more atomize…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 12:46 AM
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Yeah I've had both. But I've been alot more casual since the first 2 gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 04:05 PM
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More and more (young) men are going without sex. Therefore the value of women will keep increasing. Look at onlyfans. We all want what we can't have. Women don't really need redpill. Therefore they might become FDS "queens". That said I would expect FDS to be comprised mostly of overweight and otherwise attractive women, irl. A hot woman can lock down commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 03:56 PM
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And it did absolutely nothing. Hungary has seen moderate fertility increases. Japan is flat and South Korea keep dropping and now has the lowest fertility in the entire world!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 03:32 PM
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Hard core mgtow is just cope. "Oh yeah, you keep rejecting me? Well Fuck YOU! I never wanted sex in the first place!!" That said all men should be independant and not put pussy on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 03:31 PM
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Maybe, but it seems like an increase in fwb/non monogamous sex benefits women disproportionately. Fr instance men are having less sex on average than they did 20 years ago. If we look at japan it just results in alot of incels and dudes playing video games. But yeah, even "dating" is pretty casual, like I was seeing a girl for 3 months, it was exclusive, we got along and had fun. But we went separate ways because of our jobs. After that an ex had just broken up and we were hooking up for a bit. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 03:23 PM
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That's not true. I believe their retention rate is over 80%.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 03:20 PM
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Are you latina?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 03:02 PM
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Mexico: 1.97 Brazil 1.75 Colombia 1.9 costa Rica 1.5 puerto rico 1.0 argentina 2 USA 1.73 Number of children per woman in her lifetime on average. Replacement level is 2.1. A few shithole central American countries are still above 2.1 but its dropping like a rock across Latin America.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:54 PM
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Yeah but all races have a fertility below replacement in the USA. Latin America is below replacement. India!!! Bangladesh are below replacement. East Asia has a lower fertility than the west. Iran has a lower fertility rate than the USA. The only people producing babies are 1) sub saharan Africans and 2) middle east / north Africa.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:46 PM
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Idk. I was completely autistic with women until 19, never even touched a girl or looked her in the eye. Then I got tinder and got lucky. I did well on the date and eventually we fucked. Now I'm 22 and I've had 2 LTR, some Fwb, as well as one night stands. I'm in the process of improving myself as much as possible. I'm certainly no chad but I'm such a long way from where I was 2.5 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:40 PM
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Source: https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-rise-of-childless-america
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:32 PM
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Lower class areas are depressing as fuck. Maybe you can live on free shit but it's sad. I have family money and I also have my own career. We are getting ahead as you said, largely due to being fiscally responsible. And look at the long term. Look at brazil. The direction the USA is headed in terms of inequality. I will be living in the luxury condo while the "poor" today is living in the favelas tommorow.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:23 PM
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What do you mean it's no longer prudent to conserve? Those saving money are getting ahead. Those with a good education in a valuable field are getting ahead. In fact, NOT being responsible in 2020 sounds like shit, look at how the lower class is living, paycheque to paycheque and a huge drugs problem, no medical insurance. I guess if you come from a rich family you can fuck around. Social and especially political conservatism are dying though, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 01:55 PM
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Meh I don't think "conservatives" are really losing. Most gen z are blackpilled, and apathetic. Younger generations generally lose the old left right political dichotomy and are more socialist vs far right, as well. Also, just because the media is left wing doesn't mean there aren't large swaths of the country with conservative values.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 01:53 PM
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It really depends, I agree that women aren't "sleeping around" as much as maybe 10 years ago. But their standards are higher and they are sleeping with a select group of Chads. Also having kids isnt that popular, alot of couples I know say they dont plan on having kids. So I guess they're only conservative in the sense of being in a monogamous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 01:50 PM
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Damn. Thought liberal arts college were only for liberal arts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 04:00 PM
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Ok, but why would you go to a liberal arts college? Tens of thousands in debt for potential access to pussy? American universities are pretty wild though. The top Canadian universities are almost entirely Chinese and Indian... the party life isn't big Though I agree, my arts friends did get more pussy in uni than my stem friends... but now after, we have careers, some have girlfriends, while the arts people are working minimum wage from their parents basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:54 PM
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I tend to agree with the overall concept, plus sugar daddies are now a thing, theres hundreds of sugar babies at the university of Toronto alone, which skews the dating market for men older. However I disagree with going out to fuck older ladies. Spend your 20s focusing on career, lookaxing, and lifting. Get a vasectomy. Then slay in your 30s. If I can't get laid in my 30s I will legit just become a sugar daddy, at least I have money. Also: university is good, just don't take on debt for a degre…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:30 PM
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Absolutely. I am both (inside) but on the outside I have little edge and seem like a square. I'm lifting and bulking, hopefully it improves a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 03:19 AM
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Easy in theory. But in practice, you're 18 or younger, going into college right? I hope you do well next year, but it might not be as easy as you think. Although us colleges are known for sex and partying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 03:16 AM
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This. Theres no reason you cant be open, communicative, bla bla bla and still dominate her in bed, be in shape, and not take any shit from her. I see some guys trying to play the "bad boy asshole" card but only that card, and they seem like idiots. Maybe it works on some women though. Likewise the "nice guys" are just cringe and it doesnt work. You need a balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 03:09 AM
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And to add to this: I hate seeing guys struggling who make these posts - reading up the poor advice from a guy who's either lying or naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 03:06 AM
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Why do you say that? I just see alot of guys giving up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 12:07 AM
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Read Hemingway lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 12:43 PM
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As a UMC person, I don't really think it's cope. They have fun in college. Then UMC women date around, sure, but it's usually monogamous with other wealthier guys their age. They are usually in a serious LTR once in their mid or late 20s. However, yes, cheating is common in UMC marriages, or swinging, or whatever. It's not perfect by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 12:41 PM
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I've had fun in relationships. I've also had horrible times in relationships. Right now, though, I have a good group of friends to chill with and a nsa fuckbuddy. It's pretty much the best of both worlds, I can bust a nut when I'm horny but don't have to deal with a relationship or drama. Good friend group + casual sex is the pinnacle of male existence, imo. This is difficult to achieve, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 03:02 PM
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Idk bro. I'm horny all the time. But I also have standards, if I would be ashamed to be with the girl in public I dont smash.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 02:59 PM
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I think it depends on the size of the city. In smaller cities iG is good, where social circles are more entrenched and people know each other better. In large cities so many people are transplants. OLD is better. Just my theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 05:44 PM
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This is an atrocious article. 10 paragraphs to explain away this fact: YOUNG MEN AREN'T GETTING LAID. I don't care how many bisexual, pansexual, demiqueer transwomen are now tolerated in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 09:30 PM
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This isn't really surprising. I know alot of sexless young guys out there. I noticed that bars and clubs are becoming much meatier too. It's at least 65% dudes now. I basically never go out to bars/clubs and I've gotten more pussy than most of my friends who do. My theory is that old, bitter divorced Gen Xers and Boomers are cleaning up, leaving not much choice for the rest of us young men. Plus, women are now out earning men so beta buxx doesn't really matter. You need Alpha buxx, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 09:27 PM
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Yeah, if 5 dudes fuck the same slut we get 5 men + 1, one woman +5, but 4 other women +0. It happens in smaller cities especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 08:07 PM
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On this thread, the men have higher n counts than the women. Are the redpillers claims about hypergamy wrong? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 07:17 PM
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22M, my n count is 5. 2 gf, 3 hookup. If you count other stuff than PIV my count is like 7, and including making out is around 10 or 11. I don't reall keep track that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 07:14 PM
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There are many factors, some cultural, some economic/logistical. Economic: Longer commutes, more student debt, high housing prices, women now out earn men, fewer good jobs. Cultural: Worse socialization, political correctness, decline of structures to meet people like churches, hookup culture, general cultural shift away from fertility, people have more options. As a personal example, I could actually afford kids, I just don't want them. I choose to focus on other things like hobbies and friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 07:10 PM
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I think you misunderstand. I still want sex and pursue it. But if I don't get it, or have a drought, it's fine, I have lots of things I'm interested in. I don't value my worth as a man by the amount of sex I'm currently getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:54 PM
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How come the stats show more sexual partners today, though? Were people lying back then? Or was it more that everyone just pared off in a couple, leading to alot more sex on average, but with lower n counts? Also, abortion rates are much lower today.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:01 PM
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It's all about balance. (North) Americans don't understand this concept, and never will. I wouldn't want to marry a super slut. A woman will have a sexual history. So will a man. It's only a big deal for a man if he has no history. For me, I know I've messed around with women. I would expect that women have messed around with men. At age 22, I know that women are also likely to have more sexual partners than I do. It is what it is. If a man wants to have kids or get married, he's gonna have to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:00 PM
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MGTOW is common sense. Not the movement itself, but some of the ideas. I'm not "MGTOW" but I always go my own way. If that makes any sense. I do things that make me happy. If I get laid, it's good. But pussy is just pussy. Live life to enjoy it. You don't always get what you want. I have memories of great times with women. Even if I never got laid again I'd still have that. As far as the elites go, they are completely isolated from the reality. The general dysfunction is moving up the SES ladder…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 02:51 PM
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Lol, pretty similar here. When I'm putting in work I can get laid. But it's not constant. It's alot of effort. Some guys I know are hooking up constantly. Other guys have had a gf for 3 years or something. I guess if I went for landwhales I could get laid constantly lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 11:25 PM
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Churches have more women in attendance than men. Fyi.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 11:04 PM
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You don't believe that the top 20% of men are getting most of the action? It is possible that in Europe the dating scene isn't as fucked up as in North America. Where do you usually find looksmatch women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 10:29 PM
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Yup. They compete for the top 20% of men in their 20s. Once people are in their 30s the other men have more power and decide it's time to have some fun themselves. Hence no commitment from either side. I know the feeling well, though. Like for me it's a barely ok woman, below my looksmatch. I think eh, it's been a while, why not fuck, but I'm not really all that attracted to them. I have standards and I don't go for the chicks too far below me. Honestly join a church or something. Pretend you be…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 10:21 PM
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What do you mean teens are having more sex now? Teen sex rate is at an all time low. Anyways, yeah, stay off bc. That shit is toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 09:59 PM
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Yeah I know what you mean. For me, looksmatch takes alot of work, and they always want a serious relationship. If I went for fatties I could hook up on the regular. You're using old with the wrong mindset. Stop being mature and responsible. Stop looking for the future. Go on a date to have fun, if it goes well, fuck them. If you fuck multiple times, become fwb. When that inevitably gets stale, you know theres more out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 09:56 PM
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Not really. There is currently confusion because the patriarchal society that is millenia old is changing. The old rules no longer apply to the modern sex market, and alot of guys are getting left out. One can either adapt or sink. Don't be poor or ugly in 2020, lol. Liberal democracy, and all its ideals, are going down the toilet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 01:09 AM
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I prefer FWB. I like to get to know the woman, but still not have to deal with an actual relationship. Relationships are okay as well because of the constant sex. Hookups are just gross. I've had 1 hookup, 2 fwbs, and 1 gf in 2020 so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 09:26 PM
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Yeah it is a big city thing. When I lived in a smaller city I also found that pretty much everyone was married by 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 04:09 PM
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That's the plan. Make money and lift. Yeah I guess the 30 year old women are the backup plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 01:55 PM
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I'm only 22 so I'm not even thinking about marriage rn lol. It's just comforting to know they're out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 01:37 PM
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Because their life will be shit if they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 01:22 PM
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This. Or try being 50 working minimum wage, dead end jobs. Renting month to month. Not only will you get no pussy your life will just be shit. Even if I fail romantically I'll still have a nice apartment and money to travel/buy cars and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 01:20 PM
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Seems clear to me. Given that I'm building a professional career, if I do end up wanting to marry I don't think I'll have a problem getting those women. I might prefer something younger but it's comforting to know that there are a huge oversupply of 30+ professional women looking for a similar SES partner
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 01:17 PM
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Yeah, this is true. From first hand experience, white, Gen Z men are just not going into that many professional career paths. Many "drop out" and do drugs. Others do trades, which make decent money but a career woman doesn't want to marry a plumber. Immigrants are increasingly taking over STEM and financial jobs. It's hard to know what to do, I can tell them they need to sacrifice a bit to focus on a career but young guys just aren't interested. On the plus side, it's easier for people like me o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 10:45 PM
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Advice on IG game?
/r/seduction20/06/20 08:42 PM
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Originally: blue pilled, and right wing politically. This was just the default because of the way I was raised. Got a gf and that relationship deteriorated badly because I failed every shit test, white knighted for her, etc. Relationship ended with her bitching at me and totally owning me. Miserable. After this i had middling success hooking up. Mainly due to my poor fashion and acne. Still bluepilled and right wing. Naturally good looking so I guess that's why I pulled a bit. Started looking in…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 08:11 PM
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This was something I had to accept. It wasn't the fact that it was 2020, the shithole city I was living in, or anything external causing me to have no social life and a poor sex life. It was me. Once you stop whining and feeling sorry for yourself it gets better. Young guys like myself are fucked up by overly feminine upbringing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 11:22 PM
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Actually it's a very real concern. A flirty text to the wrong woman and you might be cancelled... fired investigated for sexual harassment, unemployable, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 11:14 PM
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Yes, muslim immigrants generally become more conservative as a reaction to our degeneracy. White western females are generally repulsed by Arabic males. This free pussy ain't for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 09:20 PM
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Yeah, things go in cycles. I've noticed an increase in the number of women IRL who just want to be housewives. I know a chick who went to uni for STEM, decided the 9-5 grind wasn't for her, and just married a man with a good career and is now pregnant. Anecdotal. I'd like to see a nice balance. Sex isn't wrong outside the marriage, but people need common sense because random hookups benefit neither gender in the long term (as you point out).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 03:07 PM
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I enjoy the modern life, all things considered. I enjoy being atomized and having atomized friends. Nobody will judge me for anything (except being racist or sexist) and I can do whatever I want. Being a typical "selfish, childless millennial" is fun. You just have to let yourself have fun. I used to be pretty trad too. I realize it might not be as fulfilling, and I probably don't get as much pussy as an average guy got in the past. But I'm having fun. I agree that long term our society will col…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:47 PM
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maybe, but really the opposite is happening. New condo buildings going up in Toronto are 90% asian immigrants. Unless you're wealthy it's difficult to afford.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:37 PM
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Fewer marriages, yeah. Fewer kids, the birth rate is going down. More hookups, yes. More single parents yes. Fewer abortions though because of better birth control. These are based on statistics. On average people will have less sex. We can look at japan or South Korea to ascertain the future here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:25 PM
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I hate that being fat is acceptable these days. I will literally fuck anything - as long as it's not obese. Unfortunately with my current SMV pulling chubby girls is what it would take to get alot of pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 02:53 PM
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i used to be one. i don't know if it's fear that much. i don't know what it is but it's like just being angry about shit all the time. a good example is abortion. 5 years ago i was mad all the time that this degeneracy was allowed, bla bla bla. then one day i just stopped caring. i was like "i dont have the energy to be angry about this shit all the time". later on my fwb had an abortion and it wasn't that bad. something to be avoided but not the end of the world. really, i think conservatives w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 02:47 PM
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I disagree with this. The "liberal" areas you're talking about are generally that way because of a high concentration of minorities, notably black and Hispanic people who live in cities. As far as the whites go - there's the very liberal whites who live in gentrified areas. Then there's the wealthy suburbs. The motto for these whites is "talk 60s, live 50s". They are pretty conservative in their life choices despite being politically liberal. Once you get to the middle class whites you see more …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 02:36 PM
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how old are you, btw?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 12:46 AM
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have you noticed whites' skin tones getting darker? i haven't personally. i see more dark skinned people lately but they're mostly immigrants from mexico and india.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 10:43 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 09:53 PM
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The math is accurate I just dont feel like explaining how birth and marriage rates work lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 08:45 PM
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Because alot of American men are rednecks and their whole deal is not being like the stuck up Eurotrash. Remember that the USA was originally settled by European misfits and weirdos who in some cases literally got run out of Europe. Then they hacked through the bush for hundreds of years, probably removing the more fashion conscious members.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 08:20 PM
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Because white people aren't built for the USA climate. It's much hotter and further south than the Netherlands, for instance. Also, "redneck" is a thing and American men like to sit outside grilling burgers and burning all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 08:17 PM
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Theres the ethnic angle too. White men can date across if it's a woman of colour. The hottest and fittest girl I fucked was "of colour". A white girl of similar attractiveness would not give me the time of day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 12:01 AM
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It's real, you're just not invited to the party. I was shocked when I broke into the world of casual sex. These girls are fucking, all the time. Just not with you. I almost wish I never saw this because then I realized what I'm missing out on. My fwb's roomates had different Chads over all the time. I'm not Chad but when I do hookup it's pretty discrete and you wouldn't know anything is happening unless you were in the room. Alot of the time you just have to know the girls. They're not even off …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 11:14 PM
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Popular thing among young women: hypergamy and "childfree" Popular thing among (lower 60%) young men: giving up, incel, porn I guess it kind of leads to the same place. In some ways us second quintile (20-40%) men have it worst. We try to get laid, it's right at our fingertips but Chad still gets the pussy. Lower tier can just give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 11:00 PM
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As a guy in the 60-80% range in his early 20s... anecdotally this makes complete sense. At best I can get a 60% woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 08:27 PM
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We can do some analysis on this: 2019 marriage rate: 6.5/1000 2019 birth rate: 11.4/1000 (it was in the 13s and 12s for most of the decade). 40% of births in the USA happen out of wedlock. Assume almost every married couple has children (6/1000). 6*1.4= 8.4 So we can assume that births in the USA will decline to around 8.4/1000 in 10 or so years once these people are past childbearing years.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 08:24 PM
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>I hope that pressure on single people will ease even more That's not what's happening though. I'm seeing more and more material mocking singles as losers, or singles feel bad about themselves. We want what we can't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 04:58 PM
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What's your n?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 01:46 PM
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Sure but I'm blue about other things. Notably alot of the redpillers seem like cumbrain bitter divorced dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 01:39 PM
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Purple is a mixture of red and blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 01:35 PM
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I'm hoping the vasalgel stuff becomes available soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 01:24 PM
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I do have emotions for other things just not when I'm having sex. General apathy? Sure, I have that, who doesnt. But apathy isn't a mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 01:12 PM
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You and most others are underestimating the number of "childfree" people under age 25 today. Expect for it to become totally normalized in the next 5 or 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:53 PM
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Hm that might be true. I know alot of guys give off vibes that they get alot of pussy but I've never actually seen them go home with a girl. Alot of it is lies and bullshit. Or guys use words like "when I'm hooking up with girls" even if theyve only had one hookup, etc. So they make it seem like they get alot more than they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:50 PM
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Same here lol. 21 and never getting married or having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:46 PM
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This makes so much sense as to why 90% of what is discussed on this sub never happens in real life. Incels, radfems and bitter divorced dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 03:40 AM
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They're all sleeping with somebody, it just seems that it's not with US. Dunno who's getting the casual sex with the hottest girls. But yeah women are fucked. I know all the girls at work are getting laid but it's not with the other young guys for sure. I'm 21m btw. After 11 months of grinding it out on old I've got 3 women in the rotation that are usually dtf. Decent chicks not fatties. One is an ex who became my fwb after not talking for a year. I don't know how the average guy copes because I…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:25 PM
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Sure but only 15% of American women age 40-45 are childless - and this is down from 20% for the same group 15 years ago. Childfree is common but that group is also quite loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:15 PM
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Meh. I have no problem hooking up, and having no emotions. It's actually preferable for me than a relationship. I'm also not depressed nor do I have anxiety. The bigger issue is that, like a drug, hookups warp your mind. I don't even desire relationships anymore. I don't know if I can. The more I hookup the less I want to date seriously... To be sure, I'm not a chad or hookup machine by any means but I still prefer casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 10:11 PM
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I have sympathy for you guys. You're probably right that society will collapse. It's not just ugly guys that can't get laid anymore. Alot of guys aren't getting laid and men are no longer working together to help out less advantaged friends. It's every man for himself. Incels should be mad as hell. I would be angry if I couldn't get laid. I hope we can reform society to something liberal, yet more just in its mating preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 01:47 AM
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Agreed. My dad is beta as fuck, failed marriage, gives me horrible dating advice. Thank God I found the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 12:17 AM
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You're in your 30s though. It's different for guys in their 20s right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 06:31 PM
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I think it's both... boomers have much better social skills than we do. But tinder also fucks up the sexual market (speaking from experience). I have decent looking friends, good jobs, who can't get a gf. Some of them date uglier women. I've done decent compared to my friend group and even then it's hardly impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 06:25 PM
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Lol yeah, I mean that's what I'm doing pretty much. Not saying I'd martyr myself. Live life and enjoy consequence free sex. I'd already have a kid by now if feminists hadn't gifted us abortion. Doesn't mean I can't recognize that the previous model was superior for building society up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 07:05 PM
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I think it was more beta, average men in the 1960s. they thought that if all women were "empowered" they could get lifetime access to easy pussy. Of course this backfired spectacularly. Rich guys have always fucked as much as they want, throughout history.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 05:46 PM
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It's worse for their mental state. They feel like losers, in a culture where everybody is hooking up all the time, they can't get any. Obviously alot about hookup culture is an illusion but the miserable sexless men believe the image of society, then feel bad that they can't join.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 05:44 PM
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Blue pilled in the fact that it allows betas to marry. Red pilled in sense that it teaches women to be subservient to their husbands, teaches couples that they should have sex. Talking about the Bible, dunno about others. Yes, the west would be much healthier and happier if we still followed the Bible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 03:08 PM
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"Russian values" are way healthier than American values, tbh, I say this as a westerner. At the end of the day our culture promoting feminism is making us miserable and our economy will collapse at some point. I'm not a prude but things aren't going well here, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 03:47 AM
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Delusional post, not to mention you're ignoring immigration. However, white people will increasingly be conservative and religious and the religious nutters keep having more and more babies while the seculars die off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 03:42 AM
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I'm from a tradcon background (evangelical Christian, not amish or anything crazy) and I can confirm that they are still pumping out babies like mad. The normal person fertility rate must be very low, because there are alot of Christians having alot of babies. Yet fertility overall is still way below replacement levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 03:34 AM
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Men work for pussy, at the end of the day. Especially in the West. You get in shape a good job etc. to get a good wife. When increasing numbers of men have no hope and no realistic chances at improving their situation, things will get bad. The government wants to pacify men through feminism, porn, weed, etc. Its working for now but not forever. If I had no chance of getting laid I'd be mad as hell. As the "incel" category moves further and further up the SES ladder and looks category (80/20 rule…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 03:31 AM
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That's because Putin has a policy in place to raise Russian fertility. His plan is for Russians to have more babies, instead of the Western plan to import millions of immigrants, or the Japanese non-plan to just die off silently. Make some big changes to the legal system, economic system, and give some cash bonuses to Americans and watch the birth rates grow. Hungary, Poland, Slovakia and Czechia all have rising birth rates too. Our culture and governments don't currently place value on fertilit…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 03:27 AM
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From my end, there are alot of loser men. Lots of drug addicts, potheads, minimum wage workers. Shitty economic circumstances causing low income I won't judge them for. But being poor doesn't mean you can't lift or have to smoke weed all day. Nothing stopping a low income guy from doing day game (free) and taking girls on cheap dates, having a clean apartment, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 03:23 AM
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You might have a point here. I've always wondered if the anger directed at betabux is just incels angry that they are now 35 and still can"t get laid, even as a betabux! I'm a natural beta learning to LARP as an alpha lol. But if worst comes to worst, I'll be betabux with a big house and a prenup. At least I'll have a nice house and cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 03:21 AM
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I noticed this too. I started self improving and immediately my boomer grandpa started shitting on me. And my mom too. Oh I might damage my work life balance . Oh I'm not treating women respectfully enough (actually I am). Oh maybe you wont get that job. I get so fed up. Honestly all their lives were pretty shit so I dunno why I'd take advice from them. The grandpa on my moms side, preboomer ww2 vet is based as fuck though. Redpilled too (but not a thirsty hoe like TRP men), he kept his wife in …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 03:02 AM
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I've turned down sex alot of times because the girl was chubby or ugly. My n count is much lower than some of my friends with lower standards. I seem to attract 2 kinds of women. Fattys who want casual sex and cuties who want a serious relationship. I want casual sex with a cutie. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 02:51 AM
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yeah love exists. but the word "love" in the english language is shit. Use the greek definitions of love Agape: means "love: esp. charity; the love of God for man and of man for a good God."[2] Agape is used in ancient texts to denote feelings for one's children and the feelings for a spouse, and it was also used to refer to a love feast.[3] Agape is used by Christians to express the unconditional love of God for his children.[4] This type of love was further explained by Thomas Aquinas as "to w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 11:43 PM
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Yeah pretty much. I can easily keep the attraction going in an LTR and I'm pretty alpha that way but I struggle to get casual sex with a girl that's not fat or chubby. I don't really know what to do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 11:19 PM
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There were also way more young people back then. At the grocery store, 50% of people are already over 50. Back in the 80s the population was younger and people were hanging out everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 10:17 PM
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Yeah most likely. Firstly theres already a rise in childfree women, and many are "career" women who don't want to marry. People underestimate how many under 25 women are "childfree" and this hasn't really shown up on fertility stats yet. Also the majority of gen z men are struggling to get laid. Sure, this might change, but women have many older men to choose from now, sugar daddies, etc. So young guys are bitter, when they reach an age they can start fucking they just do that instead of have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 10:16 PM
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How do I fix that lol
/r/seduction14/05/20 10:10 PM
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Then why are most redpillers in their 30s and 40s, and already divorced? At the ground level, from what I see, guys in their early 20s are looking for relationships, for the most part. Not to say they would turn down casual sex. But it's not the end goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 09:09 PM
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When I watch shows, see interviews, etc. from back in the 70s I realized that all these guys already have TRP built in. It's just common sense, they were much more masculine than they are today. It was just the default mode for men. Then I look at betas like my father, who raised me. I'm not full redpill but no doubt I learned some helpful advice from them. One issue I have with trp is that they come across as bitter divorced dads. I'd much rather find a good women, than use trp to maintain alph…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 09:00 PM
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Lol 3 months isnt that bad of a drought for most guys in their early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:33 PM
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Do you have one?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:24 PM
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Most people meet online, whether its casual sex or relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:14 PM
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And how many others on here, FDS, redpill, etc. are trannies or mentally unstable people living vicariously through their reddit stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:13 PM
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This. I don't know why people act like "hookup culture" is some kind of new phenomenon. 70s, 80s, 90s all sounded pretty wild, plus there was more drug use. The kids these days are pretty tame in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:11 PM
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Fuck off Ethnic tranny Nice larp.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:17 PM
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Yeah bro. The girls I dated were always decent. My last gf actually had a hot body, tight pussy and well shaped ass. The girls I had casual sex with were usually uglier, chubbier, and less attractive. Of course, TRP's response is that my game sucks and I don't lift enough. So who knows lol. Also, once women are close to the wall they get desperate and will fuck just for going to get a coffee. So that definitely makes pumping and dumping easier. Rn I'm young and the best way for me to fuck a hott…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:20 PM
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White men can be easily the most attractive if they have good genes, in shape, fit, fashion, etc. However, there's also alot of (and increasing in numbers) ugly, fat, drug addicted white men. Black men are also attractive as they have big muscles, and are naturals with game. I love light skinned Latinas, Arab women, and even whitewashed Indian women can be attractive. White women can be very attractive but many hurt themselves with their feminist, and un-feminine behaviors, as well as tattoos an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:13 PM
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And, the people who are still doing well on paper, the Upper Middle Class children, are just doing drugs, travelling to Europe to "find themselves", and studying arts while foreigners are flooding in and taking these UMC jobs. The only group in a good position to start with is fucking themselves over and will be lost in the next generation too. Source: one of the few UMC children from my area who is actually maintaining a UMC lifestyle *on my own* rather than living off his parents' money thinki…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:06 PM
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I have noticed this too. The truly high-value females are either in a committed relationship or have one or two discreet, older, HVM fwbs. The women that sleep around alot are usually average, or plain looking, or obvious thots. TRP is also good as a beta rehab center, but again I think the best goal is to use those skills to land the best relationship, maintain alpha status in the relationship and be okay with moving on if necessary. The guys who spin plates in perpetuity seem to be bitter divo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:56 PM
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Women have no reason to marry men, given their financial independence. Men have no reason to marry either, especially since sex is no longer guaranteed in the marriage and no-fault divorce. Also, kids are an expensive burden these days so why bother marrying if you're going to be childless anyways. I do feel bad for single post wall women as they age, though. The older single men just play more golf and go on more cruises. Women get 30-40 years of great fun, then it sucks. Men get a lifetime of …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:47 PM
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The way that "white people" mated for a long time was quite different than today. Monogamy was more enforced and people met thru church. Women had no choice but to submit to their husbands because the husbands provided for the family. ​ In 2020 the game has changed. So whites and other have to adapt. > And black people make the coolest music disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:39 PM
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Well, I mean strictly following trp I would say sure, have an abundance mindset. That said, in reality it's harder to get pussy when single. And even harder to get quality pussy (7 or higher). Up to you. Just remember the grass isn't always greener.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 05:23 PM
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France is alot less isolated than USA/Canada. Redpill isn't dead but I don't think people realize how lonely it is here in canada for some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:43 PM
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Sounds awful lol. Unless I was a chad, she would be fucking alot of guys while I was fucking maybe once a month. Why not find another couple, maybe friends, and swing with them? Seems much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:23 PM
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Lol alright dude. You think your anarchist fantasy will be realized but actually a brazil scenario is what's happening. A small % of wealthy people and the majority living in shithole barrios. You will be in the latter group. Enjoy :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 12:34 PM
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Yes I agree. Some guys just can't be saved. Like theoretically everyone could lose weight, practice their social skills but in reality there are mental barriers many people have. It's much worse for them now due to hypergamy. As an AFC, I can pull a fat girl or below average girl for casual sex. Girls who in the past would have been marrying the less attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 12:19 PM
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Well yeah, if that's your mindset then it doesn't matter. Low future time orientation. Your great grand kids might curse you, though, after their living standards have collapsed and they're back to farming dirt for their feudal overlord. Personally I'd like a nice life for myself and a nice life for my descendants if I have any. Hence the high future time orientation, and why I'll stay relatively wealthy while others become poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 12:02 PM
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Agree. Women can rack up massive n counts while men struggle. The worst part is the illusion of choice. Why stay committed when you could just dump this person and get tinder again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 11:11 AM
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Lol you have a similar story to me. Lost my virginity in college at 19 after I met a girl on tinder... dated her for 10 months too. Not a hottie but not bad looking. Bad case of oneitis. Fwb with ex for 4 months. Got her pregnant while fwb. Moving on lol. Then a long dry streak where I hooked up with a fatty every 3 months. I went on some dates with better looking girls but it didn't work out. Made out with some hotter girls but always seemed to get cockblocked. Then I met a cutie in my last yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 10:45 AM
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Well yeah, being upper middle class generally requires certain traits, like intelligence, consientiousness, and future time orientation. Those traits also lead to monogamous relationships. UMC generally has the full family intact which causes kids to be raised with similar values and perpetuate the cycle. I kind of see "hoeing" around as a race to the bottom (as one of the intelligent umc people mentioned above)... yeah I've messed around a bit but those traits are a block on impulsive behavior.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 10:34 AM
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Lol its 2020. Who has friends anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 01:28 PM
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What's the systemic issue? I just signed up for stem lol. Most of my white friends are studying history or dropped out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 07:13 PM
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White men aren't up for the challenge, you're right. Most of them think that "masculinity" is listening to rap music and being the cool white sidekick to the black guy. Higher paying STEM fields in university - almost no white guys, all foreigners and 2nd generation immigrants. High paying white collar fields (law, marketing etc.) Have a high concentration of white women. Meme degrees also have alot of white guys and girls. I don't see how white guys can compete with non white guys when the high…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 04:52 PM
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So what do you think the next step is / future looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 01:52 PM
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Also depends on the work you put in. I'm probably around 20% as well. I make fucking a priority and rejection doesn't discourage me. So i get laid sometimes. Gamers/blackpillers/tradcucks can also be good looking (especially tradcucks) but it's not a priority to get pussy. If I stopped being a lazy cunt and started doing more lifting... yeah I'd probably get more. It's all about the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 11:04 AM
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Yeah most of us are going to die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 10:53 AM
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Yeah, nah I just discard her when things get too tough lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 10:52 AM
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When everyone games... the 80/20 rule comes back into play. Just dont be short lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 10:51 AM
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97 here. It's both. Some are blackpilled and gave up with women. Some are redpilled. Almost none are bluepilled though. I find with guys our age it almost goes the other way. I find them fake and projecting alpha status but they're not really getting laid. If it works for them that's cool but I find it too much. I went from bluepilled, to blackpilled, and the black pill led me to the redpill, now I'm purple. I stopped caring about marriage/the future and decided that my well being and pleasure i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 10:50 AM
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Oh, totally agree with that. I've been in relationships where I totally get distracted by the other options. I've also been in a situation where she is. You think the other "options" are better (or that they even exist) and it can ruin things. The dog walks to the water with a bone in his mouth. He sees his reflection and it's a dog carrying a bone twice as big! He barks at the reflection and drops his bone in the water. Now he has no bone. Not exactly abundance mindset but still, it happens. Pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 10:42 AM
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So you're saying those in cities will be more red or black pilled? I find dating easier in the big city. I currently live in a hick city (pop in the hundreds of thousands but not huge) and there are options. The problem is that most guys are working blue collar jobs and are already jacked. They just seem to know game intrinsically, maybe taught by their dads. In the city there's so many bluepilled male feminists and soy lattes. I seem pretty alpha in comparison. In my town though it's hard to ke…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 10:27 AM
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It might be, although the older millenials (reddit soyface) are just so cringe and bluepilled that's it's not a very high bar to seem redpilled in comparison. I do notice that younger people in high school and first year uni are very fashion conscious. Much better dressed than I was at that time. I dunno. I see alot of guys projecting big dick alpha status but not actually getting much pussy. I think the new norm is hookups between groups of friends, and serial monogamy. Marriage and ltr are goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 10:22 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 10:15 AM
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Nah But I'm tall and thin and have a handsome face Probably could be Chad but I'm too lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 12:00 AM
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Yeah pretty good. My hookups are always less attractive than me though. Hot girls looking to hook up are at Chad's place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 11:55 PM
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How old are you/them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 09:31 PM
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That's what I figured lol. Hence why I said "claimed"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 09:17 PM
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I'm 21 but don't plan on getting married either. Can't see many of my friends doing it. There's just no benefit. I don't mind monogamous relationships but 6 months is long enough for me, 1 year is the max. My plan is serial monogamy, with some hookups in between. Especially since I don't want kids... why get married? As far as kids go it's also a massive drain on my life. Most of the early 20s women claim to not want kids either. Fertility is gonna plummet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 09:03 PM
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Hmm, there's definitely women that sleep around. I fucked one who admitted a body count of over 30. Another one of mine has 20. But I also know women with 0, 1, or 2. The women with 20 and 30 skew the perspective because 30 guys fucked her. So everyone must be sleeping around. So it's really a mix of both. People who say every woman sleeps around are wrong. But I think it's common for a woman to be serially monogamous, with some fun in between. No doubt that a woman's n count will be significant…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 08:49 PM
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Is it possible for you to write a comment that isn't dripping with bitterness? Are you a 55 year old dude who's been divorced twice?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 06:21 PM
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The kid can't become the legal Child of the biological parents if they sign away their parental rights. However there's nothing stopping the kid from reaching out and talking to his kids I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 06:09 PM
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He he well last time you guys in QC rioted when there was a draft
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:10 PM
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What's the point though?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:04 PM
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Women seem less interested than men lol. At least in their 20s. Unless they get baby fever, women have literally no reason to commit nowadays. Men are probably more interested in it because they think being married is a way to lock down regular access to sex. I live in a place that is far from a "large coastal city" but it's the same deal here. It's all casual sex and 6 month relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:00 PM
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This is why I believe a war is coming soon. It's the "solution" to all the problems endlessly discussed on this sub. Millions of men go to war. The ones who come back get praised as big manly heroes, and raised to alpha status in the eyes of their women. They also have significantly reduced competition (in fact probably more women than men). Most of the world was constantly at war for a long time. We've accumulated alot more men than we'd normally have had. And masculine traits are basically use…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 10:26 AM
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I think it's a negative, in terms of fashion. I want my woman to be fashionable and putting in at least minimal effort to look nice. Even if it's just at the grocery store. Same goes for men, btw, I've never been a fan of wearing sweatpants in public. Makeup is highly overrated, excess makeup is worse than none. I find women more attractive with less makeup, like yeah, we know what you're hiding. Its generally just the vibes though. Women who go out in tracksuits give off a manly butch vibe. Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 10:19 AM
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Probably. Girls who find you hot are dtf even during the lockdown. Source: girl came over to fuk yesterday. The lockdown give guys getting little or no sex a good coping rationale for why they're not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 10:14 AM
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Lol, from the male mindset sure, from the female mindset they get way more attached than us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 09:21 AM
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Lol you're a lunatic and this is why women should not be allowed as leaders.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 10:56 PM
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Sure, but OP was talking about white people specifically.i dont really know how things have changed for others but I'd imagine it follows similar lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 10:32 PM
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More or less, yeah. The Bible has great advice about individual and societal behaviors, morals, and a framework that can be applied into your own life, to help with self improvement and mental health. Also the repentance/acknowledgement of human imperfection and sin nature is spot on, we do need a savior. Where I don't follow is the Jesus is fully God fully man, sent down to earth by a benevelant God, eternal damnation, creationism, the holy spirit, etc. The holy rollers are annoying as fuck too…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 06:14 PM
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Learning about oneitis was a huge blessing for me. I realized that the one bitch I had been dating was just 1 of 3.5 billion. Then I found someone else. I'm currently single but i know I'll find someone else again, at some point. Just enjoy the sex and company, break up when it gets boring or you're no longer happy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 04:29 PM
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Church.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 03:46 PM
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What do you mean by this: Stop being so serious, stop trying so hard to keep your partners. Leave before you start to resent your partner. You will see naturally relationships become more and more casual in nature, and as a result you have more time for other partners. So far I've followed the serial monogamy strategy. Are you suggesting to enter into a relationship and then break it off after 3, or 6 months? My first breakup was after a year and it was awful. Next was 6 months and I wasnt as sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 03:32 PM
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Since when in the USA erotophobic? Everyone knows American girls are sloots that always open their legs on the first date (coming from a Canadian, with personal experience). If you want to see people be weird about sex, come to Canada. Yeah it's a super liberal country but people are still prudes about sex, a weird combination.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 03:20 PM
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Just get a hobby bro
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 03:16 PM
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Lol. Take a look at the East Indians taking over white-collar jobs in the USA. In 10 years the white middle class will be destroyed just like the white lower class has been destroyed by the collectivist Mexicans. Individualism only works in a very narrow scope.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 03:15 PM
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Yeah I agree with this. Before, say, the 1990s (but really the 1960s), most white families stayed together and went to church. The church was really the center of the community life. Sports teams, community meals, dating, etc. White fathers helped out and guided their white sons, encouraged them to be manly, etc. That's totally gone now, and the majority of white fathers are simping beta cucks in sexless marriages. They don't bother helping their kids become masculine. I was badly fucked up from…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 03:11 PM
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Human really are a pitiable species.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 10:33 PM
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No. She has to be thin, have good teeth, and not be ghetto/trashy. But other than that yeah I'll fuck pretty much anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 10:09 PM
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Stop obsessing with casual sex lol. A small minority of men are able to have satisfactory sex lives thru casual sex along.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 08:29 PM
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Above average male here: I've gone on lots of dates with decent looking women from Tinder/Bumble. I also live in a smaller rustbelt city (in Canada) that has alot of Boomers, fat people, and single moms. It doesn't always work out, but then again I don't see any difference with approaching a girl on the street and getting her number. The flaws will expose themselves as you get to know the person better. Also: the women I've gone on serious dates with / been in relationships with from OLD were mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 08:26 PM
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I mean it's been below replacement since 1972. It's fluctuated between 1.7 and 1.4 children per woman since then. It's not so much declining as it is staying low. > Among the population that was never married, there was a large increase in the proportions for those in their twenties and thirties in 2011 compared to 1981. For young adults aged 25 to 29, the proportion who were never married rose from about one-quarter of this population (26.0%) in 1981 to close to three-quarters (73.1%) in 2011. …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 03:49 AM
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Theres alot of single mothers in canada too despite abortion being free and legal. The government gives huge incentives to single mothers. Their kids grow up and the have never lived in a household without welfare. It makes me sick that we are working hard to support these people who knowingly raise kids in a bad situation so they can make money. Basically the middle class cant afford kids while the single moms are paid to have kids. Anyways sorry for my rant lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 03:17 AM
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Most single moms turn out disastrous. Abortion is a much better option. A child raised by a single mom 1) doesnt have the right discipline a father instills 2) learns only to live on welfare (gov support + father support) and 3) has no father figure. Not surprising the poorest communities hve the most single mothers and it's a perpetuating cycle of poverty. The potential single mother should do what's best for her child and society, and abort it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:49 AM
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Yes please goddam I want the least amount of responsibility as possible. I want her to abort it and I want to financially abort it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:25 AM
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Ohh nvm thought this was for men and women. Nah I'm not 20+ but I'm higher than 4
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 10:00 PM
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Yikes. Well I'm above average already an I'm only 22
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 09:27 PM
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Safe to assume the vast majority of people have at least some kind of sexual history. It's also safe to assume that a woman will probably have a higher n count than me at my age. Male SMV peaks in the mid to late 20s. Dating a virgin girl can be annoying, as you have to show her everything in bed and move slower. But it's also really cute and sweet at the same time. n-count for women can build up real fast. An ex had 2 partners before me, and last time we talked about it she was at 8. I hate to …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 08:40 PM
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ah true. well so far she's gotten an abortion, 2 plan B pills and a ton of free meals and wine from her dudes. hopefully she feels nice and empowered. she's not even that good looking lol. yet shes living every man's dream in reverse of unlimited access to sex. hard not to be bitter when you see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 08:23 PM
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I know a girl who sleeps around with alot of guys, makes them pay for everything, and them dumps them when they get "too clingy" or start "catching feels". I feel bad for alot of these dudes she's using. But hopefully they learn in the future. Dunno if she's FDS or not but she basically follows their rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 07:39 PM
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RedPill and fucking dozens of plates etc. seems fun but then I look at the people I meet IRL who are into this lifestyle. Basically aging, bitter men who seem like roidheads. Nothin wrong with sleeping around but it seems more like a pathological lifestyle as opposed to a healthy one. Also, I suspect that the vast majority of men overstate their sexual prowess on Reddit. Again, my life experiences show that what the men of Reddit are saying isn't really the norm. Maybe I'm wrong about this thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 07:35 PM
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Hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:03 PM
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Back in the 1800s I'd probably be killed by her family for doing this. It's not my fault we live in a world with strong, empowered and sexually liberated women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 04:32 PM
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General self improvement - this is a given and everybody should do it even if they're not looking for sex. You feel better as a person. Carefully planned dates - yeah nah. Maybe when I'm old and rich. Giving her an orgasm - yeah if she doesn't cum during sex I'll rub her clit or eat her out. It makes her happy and she comes back for more. Hygiene - Another given, it's a basic life skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 04:27 PM
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Maybe. Personally I just put my own needs first and that's what I wanted to do. I do agree that shit like this is why women say "all men are trash" and turn into feminists. Modern life is fucked idk what to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 04:10 PM
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Nah I'm comparing the 20-30 year old guys from the past (who are now in the 60s and 70s) to the 20-30 year old guys from today. The Boomers today aren't still running around chasing women but they are still social and have good social skills, including with the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 03:58 PM
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Yeah, this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 03:56 PM
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Good point. It just kinda happened, we hooked up for like a month then I figured "might as well". I'll dump her when I get bored of it. Probably not the best reason to be dating someone LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 03:54 PM
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Also not sure why japan is always so focused on. Germany, South Korea, most of eastern Europe, southern Europe, and some progressive regions in the USA have birth rates just as low as japan, or lower. Only difference is that 1) japan starting aging earlier than other countries and 2) they have almost no immigration so the problem is more pronounced. Far as I can tell people have no problems getting laid in Europe and just focus on other things than having children. It's more economically egalita…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 03:27 PM
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BB should take his own desires into account. Does he want to start a family? Then getting married is an acceptable trade-off and he should be thankful that at least he's getting what he wants in his 30s. If he doesn't want a family then he should fuck as many sluts as possible in his 30s and 40s. Point is, though. BB is still not ugly, fat, unemployed, or lazy. The guys screaming about BB are the ugly ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 03:03 PM
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I'm surprised when I see videos and stuff from the 70's, 80's, and into the 90's. An average man had so much more swagger and confidence. They did put alot of work into getting laid. I don't know if our lower sperm counts / diets have something to do with it. I watch Boomers at work - they're so natural with women. Always smiling, being social, going out for lunch. Then I look how the young people are - quiet, awkward, and don't really socialize. Also, hookup culture contributes to guys getting …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 02:57 PM
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How do you get a bigger social circle? I'm ok with socializing but most of my friends don't throw parties or anything like that. Can I just find new friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 01:33 PM
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We're hornier. That said I've never dumpster dived. My standard is: girls gotta be thin and have good teeth. Otherwise I'm gonna jerk off instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 01:29 PM
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Yeah I've wondered this too. Are the AF/BB guys just 30-something who still can't get laid, AND the women didn't settle for them so now they're bitter and trying to tear down every married guy as a beta? The "BB" guys are still attractive, intelligent, in shape, and successful. Just not the chaddy, exciting guys she fucked in college. She's not beta buxxing for a fat neckbeard that's for sure. Raising a family is a perfectly respectable thing for a man to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:01 AM
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Cool wine aunts are what the modern 20-something college women aspire to be. It's a path littered with drugs, stis, abortions, boxed wine, and anti depressants. Choose wisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 04:55 AM
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Salty as fuck. That said I do find that once the unmarried, childless women hit their 40s they age real fast and they seem to lose any redeemable qualities in their personality. Which makes sense from an evolutionary perspective. Married women with no children seem fine. The combination of unmarried + childless is what does them in. Women burn bright fade fast. Men live a more stable existence, the childless ones just keep playing golf, drinking beer, living the bachelor life. My HONEST advice t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 04:53 AM
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Sorry your sex life sucks but that's not a legitimate refutation of my point. Also, you can either have taxpayer funding for birth control and abortion, or taxpayer funding of single moms and food stamps. It also a perpetuating cycle of poverty
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 05:19 PM
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Life ain't fair, my man. But I don't understand the hatred either. I would call myself high beta and I've been more successful than most of my friends in terms of getting laid since high school. When I hear from a decent guy that he's struggling to get laid, or a virgin, I help him out. I feel insecure about my sex life, i can't imagine how bad he must feel about his. I think that everybody is insecure about their sex life and the vast majority of guys are getting way less than theyd like you to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 05:14 PM
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No, I don't think so. The wealthy, fiscally conservative guys I know get alot of pussy, but always in a committed relationship. The fuckboys who try to hookup alot don't have much interest in politics. Left wing soys are delusional and think that respecting wimmin will get then laid. The libertarians, and alt right guys get no pussy at all. Basically the conservative rich guys just follow life script. A few long term relationship, marriage, then kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 05:03 PM
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Not if you put yourself in that mans role. I'm not arguing that porn is good I'm just explaining the allure of porn to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:36 AM
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Here's what SHOULD happen: - Legal, easy and free access to abortion becomes law. This puts women's minds at ease about abortion becoming illegal. Abortion becomes normalized and acceptable as the last line of defense in the case of unwanted/unplanned pregnancies. - Legal, easy and free birth control becomes available nationwide. Woman: "Hey doc, I don't want kids in the next 5 years" Doc: "OK, here's an IUD". Man: "I don't want kids" Doc: "Here's a vasectomy". - A man has the right to opt out o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:59 AM
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Meh. Ideally you would be getting laid enough to be sexually satisfied. With female empowerment - more money = higher standards, and more focus on consent in marriages - more and more men are not getting the sex they need. So they turn to porn. It's not really good or bad. Porn allows us to experience what every man craves at his base level - huge sexual choice, and we put ourselves in the shoes of the porn star who is fucking every woman. We live vicariously through porn. A fantasy would be jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:23 AM
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As a horny introvert, sexlessness is worse. Usually one or two social situations is enough per week - even sitting with the guys at the lunch table at work is enough for me to be socially satisfied. I actually have a deep connection with the people who are actually my friends. Sex is a constant biological need for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:08 AM
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Part of the good experience of sex is knowing that you're good enough to bed this woman. It makes you feel like a man, you feel like you accomplished something. The tingle is just part of it. If all we cared about was the good sensation of our dick being rubbed we would just be content with jerking off all day. Sex is more than just stimulation of your penis. That said, I'm okay with sugar baby relationships. The man has something of value for the woman, and in exchange she becomes his baby. Alo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:38 PM
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Me: "Do you find this person to be attractive?" Him: "yeah I'd tap her" Me: "She 's trans, has a yeast infection, do you still fuck this person?" Him: "If she has a dick yeast infection like then no, if she had surgery and no dick one 6 months ago then yeah" I did ask, so... do I get something for proving my point? Opinions change based on newly available information.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:06 AM
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Man's role in life is to struggle and build. That's the way its always been. The real men are the ones who face their demons, adversity, insecurities and failures head on and with honesty. Diamonds are forged under pressure. Greater struggle but greater gain. The men who fail to do this become bitter, drug, vidya, porn, etc. addicts, and now tranys. It's just more exposed now because alot of labour jobs are redundant and alot of men feel useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:02 AM
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It's called mental illness and I recommend they go figure themselves out rather than LARP as the opposite gender. I have an overwhelming gut reaction of disgust around any trany.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:50 AM
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Interesting. I mean it works for me, I'm way less worried about knocking up some girl if she's childfree. You guys don't have to wipe shit off their ass. Win/win I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:55 AM
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What's the deal with childfree people? I noticed in my circles alot of people don't want kids. I'm trying to figure out if it's just random selection bias or if it's a trend. These people aren't like the crazy r/childfree cat ladies btw. Also what's the demographics of your friends like? I find the women don't want kids and the men are indifferent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:03 AM
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Sure, go ahead. Love chatting with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 09:09 PM
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I think you're just coping. If there is any change it will last for a month and people will go back to normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 09:09 PM
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That's fine. I'm not living my life for the approval of others but with my own well being in mind. It's a difference in the male v. female mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 07:46 PM
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At least I'm learning this now while young. There's alot of bitter older dudes (like my father) who are divorced and got fucked over, before they learned their lesson about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 07:44 PM
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Physique is a mixed bag. I'm tall (over 6 ft), white, but very lanky and skinny arms. That the gyms are closed are not making things better. Personality-wise I'm quiet and people think I'm shy; in reality I just overthink things. In terms of social circle it's not the best especially for meeting women. Basically I plan to just keep improving on everything, I've made progress in terms of physique, personality and becoming more confident and outgoing. I appreciate your comment, it's hard to tell w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 07:40 PM
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honestly i am, all things considered. obv in a perfect world i would be fucking a different FWB for every day of the week but it's not. shit's dry for guys in their early 20s but i've done alot better than my peers and my SMV is still rising every year. nobody should be in an LTR over 1 year before they're 28 unless they have a true unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 04:24 AM
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Hmm what do you think about my current "strategy". Basically I date girls but not with the view of marriage. I date them for my own satisfaction: I enjoy the regular sex, the intimacy, friendship, etc. Once I get bored, or trouble arises I find an excuse to break up. 3 months 6 months 1 year is maximum I would go. As a hedonist the most important part of life is my own personal pleasure. Is it bluepilled? I just don't see why I should bust my balls finding casual sex when I can get as much sex a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 04:03 AM
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Haha wish I could lower my standards like that. I've fucked a few below average girls in hookups and then had a couple LTR with average girls. Fat is a huge turnoff for me though. I had the same realization as you though. I went from Tradcuck to hedonist. Take as much pleasure out of life as you can. Just wanna fuck and smoke weed tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:44 AM
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Bluepill in general is the default. It's the way we're programmed to be by schools, society, media. You don't need to discuss it online - just go talk to married betas in sexless relationships. Redpill is controversial and not PC, therefore we need to be online to talk about it. How far would you get asking said beta about the dual mating strategy in person? Chads are always the evil frat boys in the media. Evil potential rapists like Brett Kavanaugh. Redpill beliefs are very interesting and pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:29 AM
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Nothing societal is going to happen. The men with socialization issues, depression, and anxiety weren't getting laid before and they won't be getting laid after. Women who are accustomed to casual sex will jump right back into it and have a good time. People are not enjoying the closed abortion clinics and the threat to their bodily choices. Expect the pro-choice side to pick up some moderates. Abortion is infinitely preferable to being a single mom. Couples that do well during the pandemic will…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:20 AM
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Honestly, not sure anything can be done. You get so jaded by everything... I'm M in my early 20s and I already don't care. Things like divorce, cheating, girls only being into Chad... etc. kinda just make you give up. People my age break down into two groups: those who can get pussy - just let loose and fuck anything that walks. Those who can't get pussy totally give up and go to video games, weed, and porn. Neither are healthy mindsets. I'm in the former group - I also gave up on healthy relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 01:28 AM
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This is the sort of person who "should" be reproducing, but isn't though. Individually everyone should have a choice, but a trend where a person like a university professor has no kids, while poor people on welfare breed every day, doesn't bode well for the future of society. Something must be out of balance in the way men and women interact, and in the economics of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 11:05 PM
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I'm aware that poor people exist and are breeding more. The people in trouble in the sexless epidemic are lower middle class. And the middle class prefers discretionary spending. That said the overall number is too low. Just because some poor people have more babies than average doesn't mean that the average fertility rate isn't coming down (it is).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 10:33 PM
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Sexlessness is just one part of it, thought. College educated people, who are having sex, also don't want to have kids. Thus the number of babies being born in the USA is below the replacement level. The USA is currently in a shift where the birth rate is plummeting and this will have profound implications on society, as well as future social programs etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 10:28 PM
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If their fertility is lower than the national average, how does that help the problem? Fact is: poor people can't afford kids or are on drugs. Middle class people (like my friends) don't want kids because it would impede their lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 10:22 PM
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Good for you. If there's something you want, go for it. Life it too short. I prefer relationships because I'm not chad enough for casual sex. I also enjoy emotional connections with women, even if it's shallow (I promise I'm not a SIMP). That said I've never had a problem with my gf not fucking. If it became a regular thing for her to refuse sex I'd dump her ass, immediately, with no regrets. Do what works best for you and don't take advice from women. They don't even know what they want. If you…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:22 PM
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Race is a legitimate consideration when it comes to dating. I don't think "white male privilege" is really that big a thing in most daily life, but when it comes to dating, I am absolutely privileged to be white. Also, many people in the USA and in other countries are opposed to inter racial or inter caste dating. It could be a legitimate issue in some conservative families.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:12 PM
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I find it easier. Quite honestly I had horrible social skills during my first 2 years in college. I had no friends and stayed inside all day. I was tired of being a virgin loser so when I turned 19 I got Tinder and found a gf. I kept forcing myself to be more social and I actually talk quite a bit now. I have a number of friends now but they're mostly spread out in various cities - no big deal, I'll just go to the bar alone and start talking. Or I'll join a sports team and meet the people there.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 08:59 PM
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We just need to fuck lol. It's in our biology. When I get lucky, I feel like a million bucks. When I'm getting laid regularly, I feel like a big swinging dick alpha, content, manly, and able to hold my own with the boys. Doesn't mean I'm depressed when I'm not getting sex. I have hobbies, interests, family, sports. But in between my 'time passing' hobby activities I'm always looking to get laid. Basically the activities just pass time and fill social needs while I'm looking for my main need - se…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 08:49 PM
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