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7

That is an incredible turnaround. If I had to guess, I would have guessed that men's attitudes changed more positively than women's, but I never would have guessed women would have gotten worse, much less that much worse. If there's any consolation it's that male victims are overall getting more sympathy and less blame, at least according to these numbers. The drop from men is bigger than the increase for women. Still though, I wonder to what extent this phenomenon is specific to sexual abuse an…
/r/MensRights10/03/22 06:34 AM
21

“Kimchi-nyeo (woman) is a word of revulsion, but kimchi-nam (men) isn’t,” lmao
/r/MensRights10/03/22 06:24 AM
0

The answer is that equality went out the window the moment things got tough, as it always does. Equality is for the good times. For hard times, it's "women and children first".
/r/MensRights10/03/22 06:23 AM
2

It's starting to be like this with bathrooms too. A few places around town have a "women's bathroom" and an everybody's bathroom. Nothing reserved for men.
/r/MensRights07/03/22 01:04 AM
12

This article illustrates so many of this sub's talking points that it almost seems intentional. If this were on anything but a mainstreamish news outlet I'd call it fake. This is why by-women-for-women-style articles are so important. Give women enough time to talk to an audience of other women and they'll tell you exactly who they are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 05:58 AM
13

They broke up in 2018 after a 17-year relationship. The older child would have been 14 or 15 at that time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 12:57 AM
12

"Calm down. Calm down. Touch grass." NPC-tier responses. What's next, "Who hurt you?"? Or maybe "incel"? Rent a brain.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 12:55 AM
3

She resents the husband for using her for "free" childcare. If she doesn't enjoy being a caregiver to her children then why does she want to take them with her in her escapist fantasy? Just to deprive the husband of them?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/22 03:56 PM
2

She's also stated that she has gained more sympathy for and understanding of men and the male condition. That seems like a major understatement. She was in therapy afterwards. For like months. And that's with her being able to STOP living like a man. The rest of us have to do it for 80 YEARS. I'm only glad I at least get to be gay, I could never live a straight man's life any more than she could.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 02:22 PM
2

I love how she simultaneously complains about the pay gap while making it clear that she expects the man in the relationship to be earning more. That's how it seems to me anyway
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/22 10:10 AM
3

Why no firefighters or EMTs?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/21 07:52 PM
1

Being wrong about something doesn't make him an incel.
/r/MensRights26/11/21 06:12 AM
2

Because in her mind, one child is worthless if she doesn't have the full picture, just like having blue paint is worth very little if it's not part of a painting. The child was never a human to her anymore than the man in the relationship. They're just components of a goal.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/21 11:02 PM
1

Is this some sort of polyamory or other unconventional relationship terminology?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/21 10:59 PM
1

Unless all four grandkids are from the child who doesn't live with her, the price for marrying this woman is responsibility for THREE generations. Incredible.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/21 10:47 PM
1

Progressive women: MEN NEED TO CHANGE. Progressive women: WHY HAVE MEN CHANGED???
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/21 10:43 PM
1

Just specifying "cis" is virtue signaling in itself
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/21 10:41 PM
1

She means white
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 03:45 PM
2

A whore
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/11/21 02:58 AM
3

I'm gay and I have never fucked a guy out of fear, nor have I heard such a thing from any gay/bi guy in person. Assuming your described experience isn't an outright narrative-serving lie, it's not typical of sexual interactions with men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/11/21 01:48 AM
1

Male feminists are weak, and women despise weakness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 07:36 PM
6

Nor family court
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 04:43 PM
2

keep your hands to yourself work hard be the best man you can be for me be the best man you can be for my daughter Do these women just really not get that men are humans too with our own needs and wants? Jesus Christ
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 04:40 PM
3

Lol the parasites are breeding more parasites, enabling them doesn't help
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 03:24 AM
2

What's really sad is she's already got the engagement. Her best strategy at this point is to go through with the marriage and divorce him after, and she probably knows it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 03:14 AM
2

I'm not saying people should always listen to their dad, but if her dad gave her this advice and she's still asking, then she's already decided. She's just looking for validation for the decision she's already made.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 03:13 AM
1

Which actress is the porn star?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 03:11 AM
1

The comparison of boyfriend to the baby daddy makes me wonder if it makes her realize what a loser she reproduced with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 03:05 AM
2

How would you say the match is for the man?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 02:58 AM
2

Every modern woman believes she deserves much better than average.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 02:56 AM
1

That's a very unfortunate last name
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/21 04:49 PM
1

Do men typically just have a laundry list of demands like women do? I'm gay so the guys I see on Tinder are gay men, who may differ from straight men, but I don't remember ever seeing a "list of demands" while on Tinder.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/21 11:52 AM
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That's the thing though, men generally don't -- and shouldn't -- seek to "destroy" someone in a breakup. So this sort of advice shouldn't be followed, even if it comes from a woman (which you seem to think is important enough to mention).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/21 11:48 AM
3

The link you posted in your comment that starts with "See same story different woman."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 04:02 AM
6

It's [removed] now. Did that just happen after you posted it I wonder?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/21 09:22 PM
2

"Turned out to be abusive" Translation: I decided it was abusive after I made my decision to end it (or better yet, after HE decided to end it). Relationships and people do not "turn out to be" abusive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/21 12:04 AM
1

This link doesn't work for me :(
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/21 05:57 PM
6

I would imagine she has only decided to become “non feminist” after it backfired so badly for her "Born-again trad" or something similar needs to become part of the lingo. I know there's born-again virgin but that's too specific.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/21 05:43 PM
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That's what's crazy, she wants all this support and provision and she doesn't even want to have sex with the guy providing it. Why would she expect a man to want such an arrangement?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/21 05:26 PM
1

Nope, just like the femcel subreddit that had the problem of women being inundated with messages.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/21 04:58 PM
2

I'm bad at guessing ages admittedly but I would have guessed 40.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/21 07:51 PM
2

That single button though
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/21 01:56 PM
1

"2000 grand" is 2 million. And yet your statement would still be true.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 07:44 AM
1

Hahaha thats what i thought, you wont show me the "overwhelming data" because it doesnt exist. Your misunderstanding of my claim -- which was that there's overwhelming data to support differences between men and women IN GENERAL, not about this one specific difference -- does not obligate me to argue in favor of your misunderstanding of my claim. I understand that frustrating an opponent to exhaustion is a good way to win arguments, but the fact that you're able to declare yourself the victor of…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 12:21 AM
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"The differences that I can't deny are real, the ones that I can successfully cognitive-dissonance away aren't". I don't have to "win" this discussion with you, because my discussion with you is about delusion. You're proving my point for me with your continued insistence on this delusion that men and women have identical psychologies and social behaviors. You ought to crawl back to your bluepill subs where you belong. Everyone here has had too much experience with women to take you seriously.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 12:15 AM
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Sex differences exist, as indicated overwhelmingly by data. You can deny it all you want but it's observable -- and observed -- reality. Edit: "Waaaaaah, sexist" -- nobody here cares. Go back to your bluepill subs if you want to win arguments that way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 12:02 AM
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Not every individual or even every group sucks in the same way equally, that's a lazy-brained take.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/21 11:31 PM
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No, it's women. Men understand honoring their word more than women do. This is not an "everyone does it" issue.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/21 07:43 PM
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"My first guy did A, my second guy had B, my third guy was C, my fourth guy..... minutes later ... and my 20th guy did T. Now I expect nothing less than a guy who will do/have/be A, B, C, D, E, F, G, H, I, J, K, L, M, N, O, P, Q, R, S and T. What's unreasonable about that?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/21 01:35 AM
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I honestly don't get if women with expectations like this genuinely believe they'll be fulfilled, or if it's just a coping strategy -- "I'm single because I haven't met a guy who satisfies my standards."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/21 01:33 AM
1

Paying up didn't help for the commenter himself. She came back for more a year later.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/21 09:22 PM
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My point is about the carelessness of the mother. Protecting the child's privacy is the right thing to do.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/21 05:50 PM
51

> when you care more about a random child's privacy than that child's own mother
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/21 04:10 PM
5

Yeah, I don't remember what I was thinking when I made that comment but I made a mistake. Someone else said the same thing earlier, but deleted his comment. Oh well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 02:11 AM
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I'm really not interested in "muh white supremacist" whataboutism.
/r/MensRights22/06/21 05:44 PM
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All you're doing is legitimizing their bullshit tactics by repeating them. You are entering their arena of argumentation, and they are more experienced and more dishonest than you are. Forget morality, if you wish; this is still a losing strategy.
/r/MensRights22/06/21 05:43 PM
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We already blame all Christians for the actions of few across the western world. Your example is not good. Yes, and doing so is unjust. It seems like the only groups you aren't allowed to generalize always seems to be primarily made up of women...Very curious. And it should be ALL groups that are "safe" from unfair generalization, rather than NO groups. You're not doing anyone any favors by stooping to the honesty level of feminists for the sake of "equality".
/r/MensRights22/06/21 05:31 PM
10

Gynocentrism.
/r/MensRights22/06/21 05:19 PM
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This is complete bullshit. I find feminists to be vile and contemptible but most feminists do not "want to kill male children". Are you going to take responsibility for Elliot Rodger's murders? No? Then why would you put the blame for these at the feet of feminism? This is a woman who is just fucked up, a total outlier. Feminist-dominated countries have hundreds of millions of inhabitants. You're gonna get a few lunatics. If someone murders her children because she thinks Jesus told her to, are …
/r/MensRights22/06/21 05:17 PM
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It sucks but I think with an outlet like Vice, this is probably intentional. This is an outlet that's openly and maliciously hostile to men. So videos like this are meant more as a gloat about their lack of value of men than the subject depicted. "Look at all these men who died and suffered. Look how we just ignore it to focus on women." It's deliberate. That's my semi-tinfoil theory anyway.
/r/MensRights22/06/21 04:56 PM
0

This question is not relevant to my comment, which states that "speculation doesn't justify a criminal charge".
/r/MensRights22/06/21 04:46 PM
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My hypothetical scenario is assuming that women have the right to terminate a pregnancy. A woman would therefore have no reason to give or withhold consent to conceive because they would already control the pregnancy. Then, if she says no and he says yes (to being ok with the idea of conception) she would be fully within her right to terminate, correct? Under my scenario this question no longer makes sense in full because she wouldn't "say" yes or no, but the answer to the part of your question …
/r/MensRights22/06/21 04:41 PM
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"Who wants women's rights????" "WE DO!!!! WOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!" "Who wants women's responsibilities?????" crickets
/r/MensRights22/06/21 04:31 PM
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No, I'm saying exactly what I said: That if fathers weren't considered responsible for children unless they agreed to have children beforehand, then it would solve the valid problem that you brought up in your original comment. Women would then know before conception how much responsibility they would have for a child. If a child was conceived then the mother could then make an informed decision on whether or not to abort.
/r/MensRights22/06/21 04:27 PM
1

Did your client tell you what he wanted? I ask because I usually get my dad things he specifically asks for for Christmas etc. and it's often stuff like this.
/r/MensRights22/06/21 04:22 PM
3

Here's an idea, and I'm not saying it's perfect but it does solve the problem you bring up. Why not have the law state that a father is not responsible for the child unless consent-to-reproduce is established beforehand? Then once she's pregnant, she either got pregnant knowing he would not accept responsibility for it, or she got pregnant after he's made a legally-enforceable promise to share responsibility for the child. (Believe it or not, society used to have a system very similar to this in…
/r/MensRights22/06/21 03:58 PM
1

Now the Nazis had a split decision on all this. For white women they said no abortion and for minorities they said forced abortion. Are you sure this is true? Wikipedia's article about forced abortions mentions nothing about Nazi Germany.
/r/MensRights22/06/21 03:49 PM
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My comment was that "speculation doesn't justify a criminal charge." That comment is 100% true in all circumstances.
/r/MensRights22/06/21 03:42 PM
1

I have a question about the flair for this post (currently "Intactivism"). I was under the impression that "intactivism" was in relation to circumcision. Does the word have a meaning beyond circumcision?
/r/MensRights22/06/21 03:37 PM
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This speculation, while reasonable, doesn't justify a criminal charge. Am I seriously getting downvoted for this? "I bet" is your standard of proof for charging a man with sexual abuse? There needs to be actual evidence.
/r/MensRights22/06/21 03:21 PM
90

As if this woman has a father.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/21 02:34 PM
37

Women don't care about anything but the present.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/21 01:22 AM
7

I don't understand. Why do women think that men make dating choices to reward or punish them? A man makes dating choices to pursue his OWN interests and desires.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 05:52 PM
8

It's a common joke to confuse the two.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 05:24 PM
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Wouldn't convincing someone to your PoV give you power, as you put it? No.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 04:51 PM
3

Pretty much all mainstream entertainment is social engineering nowadays.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 04:49 PM
3

Even if it means I’d be sexless for life. This woman's 14-year-old dog is not going to be around "for life"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 04:13 PM
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So lady, Keep posting your WAATGM screeds on the dating while over the hill sub. Your life is a warning to women. Notice the "Ex-sex worker realizing the internet lied about my prospects" post was [removed]. For anyone who doesn't know, [removed] means removed by a moderator, NOT deleted by the original poster. So there will be no warning anymore -- women are so desperate to maintain the narrative behind their failed life strategy that they'll keep other women ignorant.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 01:05 PM
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I'm pretty sure they see their kids as an enhancement to their value, otherwise they wouldn't include them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 10:02 PM
1

"I've had my fun. But that part of my life (you know, the fun) is over now."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 09:53 PM
4

I wonder, did he "cancel", or just reschedule? In any case I would consider this justified if a date canceled on me. "Game 6" means that it might be his preferred team's last game of the season if they're down 2-3, and even if they're up 3-2 it's a possible series clincher. The game is important and not reschedule-able. Your date IS reschedule-able. A good partner is an accomodating partner.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 05:31 PM
4

TBF it's not harder for a lot of men since a lot of their women abandon them at the first sign of turbulence
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 02:41 AM
19

It's also being increasingly used to de-gender romance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 02:38 AM
5

I have 3-motorcycles demanding my time. Honest question, how does 3 motorcycles demand more of your time than 1? You can only ride one at a time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 02:37 AM
16

Fried ice
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 05:12 AM
2

Well, she got all of the fulfillment that women get from working of course!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 07:28 PM
2

Who is this person? Is she like a regular writer for this site? Because this is so poorly written. Without exaggeration, it's the sort of writing that gets a C in a non-honors high school English class.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 03:05 PM
14

"As a tall 5-foot-4 man..."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 03:02 PM
16

A woman will say "None of the men I've met are good enough for me", but no woman will ever say "I'm not good enough for this man".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 02:58 PM
3

It doesn't seem like hypergamy is necessarily the problem here, it's more the Big Lie of "You can always have a family later".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 02:56 PM
10

The whole story here is told in these three bits: Mostly I can be happy for them, but occasionally I’m torn to pieces by the unfairness of it. Why do they get to have a partner AND children, when I get neither? ...when I’ve always wanted to be a mom and don’t get the chance? And how much will I be made to pay for not realizing that I should have spent my 20s “snaring” rather than learning and working and traveling and volunteering and whatever else I did? The reason they get to be a wife and mot…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 02:54 PM
13

"Relationship status: Please ask me" = not single
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 02:39 PM
11

Seems like it should be the other way around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 02:39 PM
25

She says NOTHING about herself except this liability/responsibility for a prospective partner. Also, off-topic but the attempt to obscure her face is about the most pointless waste of effort I've ever seen.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 02:37 PM
8

Great rhyme!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 04:06 PM
10

pretty much the only positivity going on there With how much she's slept around, I doubt that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 07:20 AM
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You aren't being punished, you are being assessed as a risk based on the information the insurance company has about you -- information which is, on a large scale, statistically proven to be an accurate predictor of insurable loss. This is how insurance works. You are buying into a pool of risk. From the perspective of that risk pool, you're not an individual. You could argue that it's unjust because you are compelled to buy insurance if you drive and so it's not voluntary, but apart from that, …
/r/MensRights11/06/21 09:16 PM
40

I’m also useless at cooking and anything to do with my car… but besides all that I’m independent. "I can't feed myself or get from point A to point B without help, but besides that I'm independent."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 09:04 PM
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You know, I was hoping to be able to just exit this but I cannot let this degree of strawmanning just pass by without comment. You are mischaracterizing my position to an intolerable degree. You seem to be under the impression you don't live in a society and function solely off your own means. That's not how it works and you know it. I have NEVER said this. Simply put, a fire department and a police department are not the same as paying for someone's CHOICE to have a child. You are trying to pre…
/r/MensRights11/06/21 07:47 PM
2

"You already pay for other shit so you should pay for this too!" holds no water at all and you know it. It's the laziest argument you could possibly make on the subject. Being forced to foot the bill for people -- women, couples, whoever -- to have kids who can't afford the costs does not help society and it is NOT MY RESPONSIBILITY, PERIOD. PAY FOR YOUR OWN PREGNANCIES AND CHILDREN. Not to mention you also pay for elected officials to take golf trips and vacations, and corporation subsidies who…
/r/MensRights11/06/21 07:19 PM
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Your solution -- "make the price the same" -- affects the people by redistributing the cost. Regardless of the unfairness of the cost, paying for anyone's child other than my own is not my responsibility.
/r/MensRights11/06/21 06:19 PM
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Yes it is. Your insurance cost should be commensurate with the risk, and men are a higher risk. And when I say "should" I don't mean on the basis of some moral framework, I mean economically for the consumer it makes no sense to buy insurance unless it's commensurate with the risk. If women were a higher insurance risk, would you be okay with paying the difference for the sake of equality? I wouldn't.
/r/MensRights11/06/21 06:07 PM
4

So because women give birth they should pay more in our busted system? Can't they share that cost with the husband?
/r/MensRights11/06/21 06:03 PM
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Ask Norah Vincent. She wrote "Self-Made Man" about disguising herself as a man for a while. I won't spoil it but it's an interesting read. https://www.amazon.com/Self-Made-Man-Womans-Journey-Manhood/dp/0670034665/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=self-made+man&qid=1623433165&sr=8-1
/r/MensRights11/06/21 05:40 PM
3

But then, it's not about being a male or female, it's about qualifications and merit. So then why would a woman pretend to be a man? It wouldn't change her qualifications, education or experience.
/r/MensRights11/06/21 05:39 PM
4

You're right... I jumped the gun and barely skimmed the article. My original comment ought to have as many downvotes as it has upvotes.
/r/MensRights10/06/21 02:46 PM
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"Mum", interesting, never seen that alternate spelling of "rapist" before.
/r/MensRights09/06/21 04:46 PM
1

I don't understand what you're saying/asking.
/r/MensRights09/06/21 02:54 PM
1

I'm teasing you for misspelling "bureau" as "burro". "Burro" is the Spanish word for "donkey", hence the joke. As for your actual claim, if you think that "international government pieces" are good sources for the problems men face, then we don't have enough common ground to discuss the issue.
/r/MensRights09/06/21 01:01 PM
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The point is that the criminal is the criminal and the victim the victim They are absolutely not the same and it's completely insane to lump perpetrator and victim together just because they're from the same demographic.
/r/MensRights09/06/21 07:18 AM
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the burro of justice Also known as the Donkey of Denial, the Mule of Malarkey, the Ass of Asinine
/r/MensRights09/06/21 05:19 AM
1

You will know your definition is fair when the statistics show an equal number. North Korea-tier remark lmao
/r/MensRights09/06/21 05:17 AM
6

The other big thing is that literally all the war crimes, in which vast majority of men were killed and women raped/impregnant (and the war itself, politics, as the nationalist ideology that started the war and the fascist movements Chetniks and Ustashe) were created / commited by men and only one woman ( ICTY Hague trials - List ). I would genuinely like to hear why you think this is relevant.
/r/MensRights09/06/21 05:12 AM
3

"level of equality not everyone wants" -- rofl nobody wants equality. They want what's best for their own interests.
/r/MensRights09/06/21 05:10 AM
8

You might like her but she don't like you
/r/MensRights09/06/21 05:09 AM
6

Why didn't you make your question a new topic? /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/06/21 03:42 AM
41

But she's hilarious!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 05:23 AM
2

This is why you NEVER fall for the lie that feminists care about men's issues too and that feminism is the solution. Some feminists have occasionally enacted changes beneficial to men and helped some victims of abuse get help -- though I would argue that feminist's behavior as a whole does far more harm to men than good. Nonetheless, one things feminists will ALWAYS do is they will ALWAYS demand control of the narrative. They will NEVER allow you to express and advocate for men's issues unless i…
/r/MensRights07/06/21 01:14 AM
1

Do you mean "It's not uncommon"?
/r/MensRights07/06/21 01:03 AM
4

The only people men can really open up to are paid professionals who are paid to help you get through your issues and turn you into a better person Men can open up to the right people. I'm blessed with friends, family and a boyfriend in whom I can confide. I know not all men have that luxury, but it is possible to find friends and partners that you can be open with if you look for them. Just saying this in the hope that men don't just give up!
/r/MensRights06/06/21 07:03 PM
2

I think it means that men, generally, want to die more than women do, while women, generally, want help more than men do.
/r/MensRights06/06/21 07:00 PM
1

Men are fine the way we are.
/r/MensRights06/06/21 05:39 PM
4

There was a thread in like the last week or so here about a study in the UK estimating that 91% of men who attempted suicide had sought out help before doing so.
/r/MensRights06/06/21 05:38 PM
2

I imagine in part because of people like you who attack their male identity.
/r/MensRights06/06/21 05:37 PM
1

Please don't put words in my mouth.
/r/MensRights06/06/21 05:33 PM
1

If people only give a shit because of a person or group's race or sexuality or whatever then it's not really progress "for men".
/r/MensRights06/06/21 05:26 PM
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Maybe you should just delete them and not make new ones then if all you have to contribute is kicking people when they're down.
/r/MensRights06/06/21 05:16 PM
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You don't get to dictate when and how men advocate for our rights. P.S. All lives do matter and straight people have just as much right to be proud of who they are as anyone.
/r/MensRights06/06/21 05:15 PM
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The western world's "patriarchal" governments will do anything to put men's money in women's pockets.
/r/MensRights06/06/21 05:09 PM
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What difference does it make what the nature of their relationship was? If he never accepted responsibility in a LEGAL sense for her financial well-being then he shouldn't have that responsibility forced on him. He made her quit her job How did he do that?
/r/MensRights06/06/21 05:09 PM
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I doubt that, but considering your account only has comments in the last half hour engaging in your victim blaming on this post, I guess there's no way to know.
/r/MensRights06/06/21 05:03 PM
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It's obscene the amount of power women have over men, it really is. Two years of hell and all she needed to do was fake some bruises and accuse.
/r/MensRights06/06/21 05:00 PM
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Again still feel like we're missing a massive amount of details in a story. Your girlfriend cheats, makes up some unknown lie you're not telling every one, gets you kicked out (again, no reason given). Do you react to stories like this from women with "There must be more to this story. What aren't you telling us???"? Serious question.
/r/MensRights06/06/21 04:53 PM
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DISSENTING OPINION ENCOUNTERED. ENGAGE NPC PROTOCOL 9381: CALL "INCEL", "YOU HATE WOMEN"
/r/MensRights06/06/21 04:49 PM
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The word that comes to mind from this picture is "festering".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 01:24 AM
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In American we sometimes say that a fat woman is like a moped (a bicycle with an optional motor) -- fun to ride until your friends see you with it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 01:16 AM
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They were attracted to me but I guess society made them feel bad about dating a fat woman. It's not "society" that makes men unattracted to fat women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/21 09:24 PM
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Right, because being pregnant is equivalent to going to war.
/r/MensRights04/06/21 04:02 PM
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Do you know of any subreddits dedicated to positive stories about men achieving justice? Might be a nice mind-bleach when things get too depressing.
/r/MensRights04/06/21 04:00 PM
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I often think the double standards about sexual misconduct are exaggerated. Then every once in a while I read a comment like this said without a hint of irony... Jesus
/r/MensRights04/06/21 02:19 PM
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The "bad brand" is BECAUSE of what you stand for. Feminists and progressives in general do not tolerate challenges to the narrative. You will never be able to advocate for men's rights and interests without being subjected to their contempt and hatred. I'm not trying to be a downer here, I'm only trying to say that trying to satisfy the standards of people who hate you is a waste of time.
/r/MensRights04/06/21 02:14 PM
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I hope you understand what cold comfort this "no true Scotsman fallacy" is to men who have been victimized by feminism. You can claim that "TRUE feminism stands for this and that" all you want, but for every "feminist" like yourself there are 99 feminists gleefully promoting misandry and treating men like subhumans. What's been done to Depp IS feminism in practice, regardless of how idealized your theoretical idea of feminism is.
/r/MensRights04/06/21 02:11 PM
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"But that's not REAL feminism. In fact, REAL feminism has never been tried!"
/r/MensRights04/06/21 02:06 PM
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The shadow justice secretary, David Lammy, said it was time to act on the record low conviction rates for sexual violence. “The Conservatives are failing to protect women and girls from violent criminals, which should be one of the first duties of any government,” he said. Wonder where protecting men and boys falls on that ordered list of duties.
/r/MensRights28/05/21 03:10 AM
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Because unlike most platforms of discourse, most people on here are not looking for the most generous-to-women explanation possible for a woman's circumstances. While I'm neither agreeing nor disagreeing with this sub's sentiments, generalization is a thing, generalization is useful and generalization will inevitably not be applicable to every single person's situation. I don't say this as a representative of this sub -- this is my first comment here -- but rather as someone who, no offense, get…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/21 04:03 AM
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