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| -7 | Feminists claim they seek equality when the very term 'feminism' implies support for one sex over another.Have you studied feminism at all let alone most of the other women's and men's movements through history? It sounds like you have absolutely no clue what you're talking about and I have no desire to engage in (or read a lame attempt to debate) with someone who can't do their basic fucking homework. Read some books and then come back and throw down your idiotic claims. I'd recommend the writings of Julia Wood - her books (especially Gendered Lives) are very informative overviews and she tries to … | /r/MensRights | 15/08/10 03:56 PM |
| 1 | It took 24 hours longer than expected, but I have an updatethanks :) | /r/MensRights | 11/08/10 07:59 PM |
| 8 | It took 24 hours longer than expected, but I have an updateExactly. Which is why I'm saying he should be aware and manage the situation. It's hard to look at a family issue in clear cause-and-effect terms, but you really do have to. And he should be careful of accidentally doing the same thing. Example - "I just don't think that school is worth the extra money" can be taken as "I don't think you are worth the extra money." Also, he seems like a decent guy, and decent guys tend to keep their mouths shut when stuff gets crazy - but if his mouth is shut he… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/10 06:14 PM |
| 4 | It took 24 hours longer than expected, but I have an updateYes. Thanks. Also a warning to weigh his own actions against how his daughter might perceive them. Sometimes parents get kind of focused on not losing any ground to the other person and don't realize that the fight is making the kids feel like it's all their fault. "If I didn't need school shoes, they wouldn't be fighting over this money. I suck." This guy is clearly justified in asking for a reduction because day care is out of the picture and he lost a job. Makes total sense. But, if it were j… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/10 05:36 PM |
| 3 | It took 24 hours longer than expected, but I have an updateMaybe some parents do that, but we really just couldn't afford it, and he said we didn't need it anyway. And, she made more of an effort to not alienate us towards him than I would have done in her shoes. She worked two retail jobs before landing a job in a phone bank for a major company (where she was able to get enough overtime to cover the bills). He kept the house - we moved out of state. Because of the property laws she still had to help pay on the mortgage (because he refused to sell the h… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/10 04:40 PM |
| 9 | It took 24 hours longer than expected, but I have an updateMy parents went through something similar (only there was no talk of private school). My dad was convinced that my mom was spending child support money on herself - not true - and raised a stink about it. My mom never said a word about it, just that we had less money coming in and would have to be more careful. "More careful" ended up meaning no Christmas tree, no sunday dinner, no doctor's visits, no dentist's cleanings (my dad said preventative medicine was a myth perpetuated by doctors to get… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/10 03:04 PM |
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