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| 3 | Question regarding “manhood”Dude, any of these neck beards who constantly tout about “traditional manhood” and “weak modern men” are usually fat neck beard slobs who couldn’t sprint 10 feet without going into cardiac arrest. Take what they say with a grain of salt. There’s a Stephen hawking quote about how people who brag about their IQs are losers. I think the same applies to dudes who brag about their masculinity. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/20 06:00 PM |
| 2 | What can a. Beginner guy do to start a fwb or hooking up?100%. Regrettably, I've done a lot of drugs that I shouldn't have, but the high of those drugs doesn't even compare to the high of being with a partner when those bonding hormones are flowing between the two of you. OP, until you've had feelings for someone or had your heartbroken, I would avoid any FWB or hookups. Take it from me, you do not want to have your first time experiencing romantic feelings to be with someone who is only a casual hookup. I'd rather be repeatedly kicked in the teeth wi… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/08/19 03:50 AM |
| 2 | What can a. Beginner guy do to start a fwb or hooking up?Agreed on only pursuing an FWB if you have strong emotional maturity. For awhile, I was hell-bent on getting into hookup culture because I was so convinced that's what everyone was doing and I had make up for lost time. My first dive into it was with a woman who I was in an FWB arrangement with. Later down the line, I caught really strong feelings for her. It was the first time in my life I'd ever felt that way about someone, I had no idea what was happening or how to handle how I felt, and it c… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/08/19 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Have you known a 'red-pilled' person before and after? Can you describe the changes?Personality-wise, cool hang but he also would act hyper-masculine like he was trying to compensate for something. The way he was trying to do "Game" came off as really douchey. As for how the women acted, it had the opposite effect. Most of the women looked at him like "wtf, dude" and just ignored him. Another woman straight up asked him if he was autistic. The one who got him thrown out was trying to be nice about rejecting him and said she had to go find her friend. He told my friends and I "S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/19 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Have you known a 'red-pilled' person before and after? Can you describe the changes?I've known one IRL. He didn't have so much blatant misogyny but did a lot of cringey "day game" and approaching. He used all the TRP lingo and lifted seven days a week religiously. He never mentioned TRP but I knew based on the terms he used and his commitment to fitness exactly where he was getting everything from. I watched him get tossed out of a bar by a bouncer because he was trying to "game" women at the bar and came off as real predatory, until finally one of chicks he was hitting on comp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/19 09:49 PM |
| 1 | The redpillers I sympathise with and the ones I don'tDefinitely agree. My story is similar to yours, I started TRP at 17 and left at 22. It turned me into an entitled, sociopathic narcissist who couldn't empathize with people. I have two really close female friends who I treated very poorly during my TRP days, and I feel ashamed about it almost everyday. I fell for the cult tactics and didn't realize I was in a cult until later down the line. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/19 06:37 PM |
| 7 | "The wall" men vs women. A rant.I've noticed what you're saying about late 20s men as well. TRP aside, most of my friends entering their mid to late 20s, men and women are starting to look beat down, fat, and losing their conventional "attractiveness." From what I've noticed, it has a ton to do with their habits. When I look at my friends who are starting to "hit the wall" I notice it's because they're drinking three to four beers a night, smoking weed almost everyday and in general just eating poorly. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/19 06:32 PM |
| 2 | I hope this is the right place to ask, but, can I have some advice?Good read. Thanks for that! | /r/ExRedPill | 14/12/18 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Did any of you guys here have a final straw that made you abandon TRP or start to question it?That's the biggest thing that drove me away was implementing their side bar in every social interaction. Exactly as you said, it makes you come off as a complete sperg with no social skills. If you would of seen what happened at this bar in the story I described above, you would of thought this dude was full on autistic. I don't think the high confidence being an IRL cheat code is any exclusively Red Pill idea either, mostly just common sense. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/12/18 07:34 PM |
| 1 | How to converse and be "fun" when you have no life experience and you're mid 20's?I wouldn’t sweat it that you’re almost 26 with no sexual experience. I graduated college a virgin, and didn’t lose it until later. Once you actually have sex it’ll probably be good but you’re going to wonder why the hell you made such a big deal about it in the first place. You said fake it til you make it isn’t working, and it won’t, because you’re doing exactly that, faking it. People with a strong social intuition will smell fake like a dog will smell meat. Most women especially are socially … | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Did any of you guys here have a final straw that made you abandon TRP or start to question it?I think a lot of them don't even know what they believe in. That's why adopt fringe ideologies to fill that void in their soul. Yeah, it was that VICE piece where the guy is showing off all his firearms in his hotel room, then gets maced and runs with his tail between his legs. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/18 05:53 PM |
| 3 | Did any of you guys here have a final straw that made you abandon TRP or start to question it?Agreed. One good thing it did for me was it got me lifting. I am in much better shape than I was when I first started. Taught me a lot about fitness to. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/18 04:07 PM |
| 8 | Did any of you guys here have a final straw that made you abandon TRP or start to question it?I think that a lot of them pick up neo-fascist politics cause it's edgy and against the grain. They want the shock value. Kind of like how Satanism was years and years ago, young people clang onto it cause it was edgy. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/18 04:06 PM |
| 2 | For those of you who are still straddling the fence -Saved this post. Should be pinned here. At the end of the day you need to decide whether or not you are ok with committing to taking on a completely new persona that is so unrealistic that you drive yourself nuts. Do you want every interaction you have with the opposite sex to be something you have to think hard about and strategize about to the point of stress? Do you want to live your life trying to be some fantasy version of a man that you will never really be able to achieve, all in the name… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/18 01:09 AM |
| 3 | I'm in the process of going full red pill, why shouldn't I?I don't think it's a Red Pill philosophy to believe that no one wants to be in a relationship with a whiny bitch. Both genders want to be with a confident and happy partner, not someone who's depressive, boring, and whiny. That's just common social intelligence, not Red Pill thinking. If what you're saying is true I'm glad your marriage is better but don't buy into their angsty and childish worldview that women only date assholes and never date nice guys. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/12/18 03:40 AM |
| 1 | How to converse and be "fun" when you have no life experience and you're mid 20's?I know everyone on here is going to tell you to start becoming the fun and spontaneous dude but I'm gonna say the opposite and just do what you're interested in and be your natural self. Both men and women can smell fake on someone from a million miles away. Don't be the dude that tries to be someone he's not just to get social approval. That'll make you miserable. I have niche and eccentric interests and hobbies as well. I don't keep up with "normie" topics, if you want to call it that but I ha… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 11:34 PM |
| 0 | Why does an interest in firearms trigger a reflexive ostracism from most people?Lol that’s good but I pulled a Kyrie Irving on him. https://youtu.be/GtahJP42gjY | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Why does an interest in firearms trigger a reflexive ostracism from most people?Cause the narrative in America now is that firearms are the root of all evil. I’ve been shooting and building guns since I was 10, I keep this to myself IRL. One of my professors at my university who I was very close with found out that I own a few guns and take them to the range on the regular. In his own words to my face: “I cannot believe that a bright young man like you can even bring himself to own a firearm.” When I studied abroad I spent a day with a bunch of Australians who I met partyin… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 08:21 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand why people hate the red pillFor the most part. Alex Jones is far right but he’s playing a character on the show that’s an exaggeration of his real personality and political views. He opened up about it when his wife divorced him and later talked about it more on an episode of Joe Rogan. He’s also high and or drunk most of the time on InfoWars. There’s video of him smoking pot live on the show. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/18 05:49 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand why people hate the red pillIt’s a comedy show is what it is. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do women like erotic literature, but not porn?Women love porn dude. Yeah they like their gay romance novels with Fabio on the cover but believe me, especially young Western women love porn like Whitney Houston loves cocaine. Whether they admit it or not women love watching depraved porn on the internet. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Why do women like erotic literature, but not porn?Every girl I know consumes porn like it’s water. Woman hating porn is a myth. I’ll find the stats chart but PornHub gets about twice as many female viewers than it does male. Woman love porn. They’re fiends for it. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 05:59 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand why people hate the red pillI’ve been here for years now and I don’t think it’s misogynistic at all. Almost everything that is taught here are basic life lessons and wisdom. I also think that this place is filled with a lot of dudes who are angry because they were at the bottom of the totem pole in their younger years whether it be college or high school, and now they’re trying to be the jocks in some sort of revenge fantasy. This place has given me some useful tools to help me get around in life, but to be honest everythi… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Best places to hire a prostitute/prostitution advice.That’s awesome. I need to go to Thailand. Not fucked up at all. I love my country (USA) but it’s anti-prostitution laws are fucking gay. I can legally go pay a stripper for a lap dance and to feel her up but putting my dick in her is apparently some crime against humanity. All these liberal twats I’m surrounded by are all about women having full liberty over their bodies and yet somehow if a chick wants to rent out her poon for some extra cash it’s all of a sudden some morally reprehensible crim… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Best places to hire a prostitute/prostitution advice.That might not be good for me, lol. I like cocaine to much... I REALLY like cocaine. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/18 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Best places to hire a prostitute/prostitution advice.Exactly this, I’m sexually inexperienced and romantically inexperienced. My problems with dating and sex stem from issues in the last like not being properly socialized and lacking a masculine father figure and role model. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Best places to hire a prostitute/prostitution advice.Jesus man for that price I’d probably never talk to a regular woman again if I lived in your neck of the planet. What’s cool is most most girls here are college age and trying to pay bills. There’s also a strip club a few of my friends have gone to where the strippers will blow you but for a pretty steep price. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Best places to hire a prostitute/prostitution advice.Damn, $88 is cheap. Most of the ones I know of in my part of the US go for $200 an hour. That’s probably because of the legal risks. When I was in East Asia it was relatively cheap as well, especially in China but it’s very risky. I’ve heard Thailand is also very cheap as well but even more risky. Almost everything I’ve read online has said the exact same thing you did, and that’s that they regret not doing it earlier. I’d looked into it when I was 18 and didn’t go through. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Best places to hire a prostitute/prostitution advice.He usually pays around $150-$200 every time he does it. He’s showed me the girls and they’re all very good looking. He says the experience is great, but that’s his opinion. I think it’s cheaper cause of the risk involved, my only worry with it is getting caught, which if I go through him, probably won’t be an issue. I’ve also thought about doing my first one with 2 girls if I can. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Best places to hire a prostitute/prostitution advice.Believe me man, I’ve tried with girls I’m not attracted to and it didn’t work out. No matter how drunk I was or how many drugs I was on I couldn’t band a girl I wasn’t into. I’ll see what I can score, but before I pull a chick on my own I have to go through with the prostitute route. It’ll ease my mental state. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Best places to hire a prostitute/prostitution advice.Lol. The best logic I heard was when one of my cousins went to Amsterdam and did. He said he’d never have the opportunity to do it with a woman who looked like that again, so he went through with it. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Best places to hire a prostitute/prostitution advice.If I could take a trip again this summer I would love to go to Belize. One of my friends went down there and did nothing but snort coke, shoot automatic firearms and have sex with beautiful Latina prostitutes. I was looking at taking a trip to Thailand as a graduation gift to myself and making the sexcation part of it. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Best places to hire a prostitute/prostitution advice.I’m looking to spend $200. I’ll go up to $300 if she’s my type and has good reviews. $500+ isn’t worth it to me. I could invest that money in other things I need or pay off more of my car. I plan on being honest with her, I’ve read a lot of the girls deal with virgin clients all the time and will know what to do. I’m in the Eastern US for reference, if that helps at all. I’ve heard girls in Europe and Thailand are cheaper. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Best places to hire a prostitute/prostitution advice.I already like the outfits I wear. I feel fine in them. I get what you’re saying, man but the metro sexual stuff isn’t for me. $175 for a haircut is way to steep. I already pay $20 to my barber who has cut my hair for years and I always walk away loving the work he does. The problem is my anxiety and self doubt when it comes to sex and the prostitute is going to help me get over that hurdle. It used to not bother me but once I hit 21 I entered into the mental cycle of being a virgin. Once you’re… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Best places to hire a prostitute/prostitution advice.I’m in the Eastern US. I have a friend who used to work for an agency and he still uses the girls from that agency from time to time. The agency is underground and illegal though. The owner runs it through backpage. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Best places to hire a prostitute/prostitution advice.I usually do about once every 3 to 4 weeks. It’s on occasion. I hardly ever do because I feel like shit after the act. I feel better and more confident when I go on month long streaks. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Best places to hire a prostitute/prostitution advice.Yeah, I’m kind of in the same situation, man. Starting a little over a year ago I started obsessing over it. It’s almost all I think about all day, lol. How much did you pay? I have bills so I’m not aiming to drop exponential amounts of money but I’ll go up to $200 for a good experience. Oh and where did you hire her? | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Are women in America mentally unstable, and immature or is game just different here, especially in the internet.True indeed. I’ve noticed I genuinely like spending my time with most Asian women I’ve met so far. I actually enjoy talking to them. Complete opposite of the American women, it sucks but most of them I find boring. Still don’t know why black women chase after me but that seems to be the only women I can garner interest from. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/18 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Are women in America mentally unstable, and immature or is game just different here, especially in the internet.Interesting video. I see what you mean. And I do mean Easy Asian, I went a few dates with a Chinese international student at my school, and like you’re experience, she was a great conversationalist, we could talk for hours. I could talk about all of my experiences and interests with her and it would be a great time. Same thing with the Easy Asians I met while I was in their country, I talk to them via Skype or other messaging apps frequently, and we can usually talk for hours. And it almost feel… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Are women in America mentally unstable, and immature or is game just different here, especially in the internet.American definitely. My experience is very limited with Australian and British women. I met a few Australians while I was in East Asia and they seem to have a nice balance between fun and being able to hold a conversation. The again these were three of them who I met. From my experience I click better with Asian and black women. Most Asian women who I’ve met I can talk to about my interests and experiences as well as there’s and they love it. For American women it’s almost like I have to speak a… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Are women in America mentally unstable, and immature or is game just different here, especially in the internet.I’ve found this to be entirely true. I noticed at my university, you can’t get an Americana huge girl’s attention without acting like a total clown and doing autistic shit on Snapchat. The same goes with Tinder, you constantly need to be a jester to even have them notice you. For whatever reason I find it a lot easier to click with the international students here, because a lot of the times a “hi how’re you?” opens up a door of endless possibilities with them. Most of the American white women he… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Can someone explain the lil' peep / youtube youth star culture to me?Correct. They are “living it up” in the sense that they do get to live the high life that’s granted to them by the label they’re a part of. On the other hand though, most artists who are huge are indentured servants to the labels and bound by contracts that they need to sell X amount of singles or records a year, take in X amount of money for the label, etc. A lot of them are bound by what’s called a 360 Contract and that means the label controls everything about the artist. Not just the music t… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain the lil' peep / youtube youth star culture to me?I work in the music industry, and after going to countless conventions and working at various studios, the vast majority of musicians and rappers are a product created by a corporation or label to sell for millions. I tell a lot of my friends that are in “normal” careers that if they worked in the industry for a day they’d have a whole different perspective on who these people are. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/17 06:50 PM |
| 2 | I need as much help as I can get. Severely depressed. Hate myself, don’t even know who the hell I am anymore.Thanks, man. I’d prefer to talk to you if you’d be down for that. In the four years I’ve been on this sub the common consensus here was to never tell anyone in real life about my issues or show any emotion, because it will inherently lower my SMV. Are there any specific therapists to seek out? What can they give me to cure my current mental state? | /r/askTRP | 31/10/17 03:56 AM |
| 2 | I need as much help as I can get. Severely depressed. Hate myself, don’t even know who the hell I am anymore.Polar opposite. Worked myself into the ground. I already eat clean and lift everyday, been doing so the past two years. I went from everything this sub idealizes to being a train wreck in the course of a month. I achieved everything I wanted so far and now I’m polluted with nihilistic thought patterns. When I wake up in the morning it’s more of a “why do I do all of this? I’m gonna die anyways. None of it really matters.” | /r/askTRP | 31/10/17 03:54 AM |
| 1 | How Do I Become Fun Again?Its been strange because I found myself worth when I was about 19-20. That's the time in my life I'm describing where I was "fun". I was much more secure, confident and in tune with my purpose when I was 16-20. I'd say around January this year is when I started to unravel. I don't know what happened. A lot of what you write i relate to. My dad is in my life but I never had much of a "masculine" relationship with my dad. I love him to death but he's high anxiety, emotional, soft spoken, unreasona… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 04:31 AM |
| 3 | 26, didn't make the transition to adulthood, need adviceCan agree. I'd give up everything I have right now just to have an N count 3. Don't make the "right" choices like I have so far to achieve your goals. I wish I fucked a lot of girls, skipped class, half assed my way through my major, spent every day smoking pot and wasting four years of my parents money. God damn. I'd do anything for that. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 03:37 AM |
| 1 | How Do I Become Fun Again?I have challenges but I'm also depressed, self loathing and somewhat suicidal for no reason. I feel like I've wasted my entire life. I wonder a lot if maybe I should of just done what most of my friends did, and that's half ass their major, fuck a ton of girls, smoke a ton of pot, waste their parents money for four years and then go work a soul draining, slightly above minimum wage retail job with all those good memories. I think I fucked myself over by working to hard and trying to better mysel… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 03:18 AM |
| 1 | How Do I Become Fun Again?I think it's partly that I've matured, and I usually feel really disconnected from every one my age. Mostly just due to my background. Only child, had a job in the firearms industry from 13-20, that entire time I was working with dudes in their late twenties to thirties. When I was 16 I was drinking, smoking pot and playing and writing music with guys in their 20s. I was "in the scene." Right now, I have the goal of getting a job in my field once I graduate so I can move to another city. My coll… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 03:09 AM |
| 1 | TRP advice for a guy going into his final year of college?I've got a huge weight on my shoulders right now and have no experiences with women. Its driving me up a wall, and I can't figure out how to play the game. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/17 04:42 AM |
| 1 | TRP advice for a guy going into his final year of college?To be honest with you man, I really have no idea how to do that. I'm inexperienced with women, and combine that with a weird childhood and virtually being isolated from anyone my age when I was younger, I can't figure it out how to do any of this. Its the one thing I can't overcome, and I have no idea how to. Or even where to start. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/17 04:40 AM |
| 1 | I start college in two weeks, what are some tips to start fast socially when I know very few people there?Don't be me. I made the mistake of not joining a frat because I had the whole "I don't want to pay for friends" mindset. I'm going into my final year of school and in a way, I wish I hadn't worked so hard and I'd partied more, did more drugs, and drank more. All I did was focus on my career. Don't do that. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 05:34 AM |
| 1 | 19 but feel like I'm 30.Have fun and enjoy yourself when you're on stage. Fuck what everyone else thinks. And you are correct, it would be ingenuine to try and be interested in something just for the approval of others. Be interested in what YOU like and if someone doesn't like it, or it doesn't vibe with them, that's their issue and not yours. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 01:02 AM |
| 2 | 19 but feel like I'm 30.I'm a musician to, and it's the same thing. What I've noticed with music and any music scene is it's based on the archetypes and looks. A jazz dude on stage at a metal show isn't going to be the hottest guy. I understand where you're coming from. I'm in a music school, and the guys who are fucking all the girls you wouldn't believe. The most 'alpha' dudes are mostly all below 5'8", and either dad bods or scrawny and introverted. One of my real good friends here is 5'7", 120 lbs soaking wet, blac… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Social media has me f'd upI used to have the same problem (I'm the same age as you, btw). I have friends who are Instagram "cool" or "snapchat "famous". To tell you the truth, yeah they get those likes or whatever it is, but almost all of them are miserable outside of it. Their Instagram or Snapchat story is just a highlight reel of one cool thing they did that day. All my friends who have the cool Instagram posts with 1000 likes and all the followers, whenever I talk to them in person I hear how miserable they are with … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/17 03:01 AM |
| 1 | 19 but feel like I'm 30.I've been this way since I was a teenager, am 21 now. For me, I had to just learn to live with and be around people my age. My first two years, and even well into my third year of college were ROUGH because I'd come in at 18 much more mature than my classmates. I found it so easy to talk to and relate to my professors than I did to my classmates. I didn't understand doing goofy autistic shit on Snapchat, I couldn't relate to anyone. Going to college for me was like being dropped into a backwater… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 09:02 PM |
| 2 | I spent half my summer in East Asia and the people there seem so much more happy than in the West. Why is this?Been to Japan. Not South Korea though. Japan seemed the same way to me that I described above. It was fun. I have read about the work related suicides in Japan though. Most of the people I met there were like I described above. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/17 02:31 AM |
| 4 | I spent half my summer in East Asia and the people there seem so much more happy than in the West. Why is this?Lol! That was good dude. 😂 | /r/askTRP | 29/07/17 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Took girl out on a date. She wants to Netflix and Chill tonight at her place. I have no sexual experience. Help.I don't watch porn. I've had some problems with it in the past. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/17 12:58 AM |
| 5 | Took girl out on a date. She wants to Netflix and Chill tonight at her place. I have no sexual experience. Help.I'm glad I made you laugh, big pimpin'. 😄 | /r/askTRP | 28/07/17 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Took girl out on a date. She wants to Netflix and Chill tonight at her place. I have no sexual experience. Help.What do you usually do to "make the move"? This has always been my downfall. I'm not sure what to do. I was with a girl in her room a month ago but I bitched out cause I didn't know what to do to make the move. I could tell she was expecting me to | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Took girl out on a date. She wants to Netflix and Chill tonight at her place. I have no sexual experience. Help.I will man. I'm just gonna see where it goes. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Took girl out on a date. She wants to Netflix and Chill tonight at her place. I have no sexual experience. Help.Cool cool. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Took girl out on a date. She wants to Netflix and Chill tonight at her place. I have no sexual experience. Help.I don't plan on much alcohol. When I had my first kiss I made out with the girl for a long ass time. I was black out drunk though and don't remember much of it. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 09:55 PM |
| 1 | If you were still a virgin at 21 would you have sex with a girl you're not attracted to just to get it done and over with?How did you stay turned on? Did you do it drunk? With this girl even the thought of putting my arm around her makes me sick. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 02:47 AM |
| – | If you were still a virgin at 21 would you have sex with a girl you're not attracted to just to get it done and over with?I've really considered that and I think it would crush my self esteem. How did it effect you? I know slot of people are different. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Should I hire a hooker to lose my virginity?What you're trying to tell me then is stop worrying about both and just do whatever makes me happy, because they're both totally irrelevant to my foundation as a person? | /r/askTRP | 29/04/17 08:44 PM |
| – | Should I hire a hooker to lose my virginity?Like they're ideals that being a virgin is bad and that losing it to a hooker is even worse? | /r/askTRP | 29/04/17 04:33 AM |
| – | Should I hire a hooker to lose my virginity?For us it's more of an abstract concept that isn't even real? What's with our society putting such a stigma around it? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/17 08:05 PM |
| – | Should I hire a hooker to lose my virginity?What's your suggestion for me? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/17 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Should I hire a hooker to lose my virginity?I understand. That's been my only drawback with this decision is how it'll effect my self esteem knowing I had to pay for it. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/17 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Should I hire a hooker to lose my virginity?Hah. Alright man. That's a ton of information, I'll work with it. She even said today how close and easy it is to get from her place to mine. So I guess that's a hint. And she kept mentioning coming over before I go to Japan. I'll work with what I can. Thanks again | /r/askTRP | 28/04/17 04:12 AM |
| – | Should I hire a hooker to lose my virginity?I see, thanks for the advice. Ive got a few who give me the signals. This one in particular follows me, our conversations turn sexual, and most of our interactions are pretty physical (touching and what not). What should I do? Just hang out with her one night, have fun and see where it goes? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/17 03:02 AM |
| – | Texting/Snapchat GameThanks man! Any examples of good texting you can give me? For logistics and nudes? | /r/askTRP | 18/04/17 03:54 AM |
| 1 | My life is exactly where I want it to be, but I want to start hooking up and having sex, but I don't know where to start.Cool cool. Tinder has been very mixed for me. I generally don't match a whole lot on there, and when I do, most of the time they ghost on me. Is what it is. Also I'm admittedly very poor with game when it comes to messaging and or texting. Now a days I prefer calling people but above all else interacting face to face. I find it way easier and more fulfilling than texting. Whenever I text or message I also tend to just shoot out one word responses or just a "Meet me at x location at y time" and w… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 06:01 PM |
| 1 | My life is exactly where I want it to be, but I want to start hooking up and having sex, but I don't know where to start.I've had mixed results with Tinder. I'd rather do most of it in person, I liked that rush I got off of face to face interaction. Thanks, man! | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 02:50 AM |
| – | My life is exactly where I want it to be, but I want to start hooking up and having sex, but I don't know where to start.I see. I'll give your method a go. But that's how it works? Is that the way most people hook up? That's another thing I've been trying to figure out. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 02:49 AM |
| – | Did any of you guys here have a final straw that made you abandon TRP or start to question it?Yep almost exactly what happened to me. Was seeing guys in college who were 5’7” skinny fat or dad bods with great looking girlfriends. | /r/ExRedPill | |
| – | Did any of you guys here have a final straw that made you abandon TRP or start to question it?But I overcompensated and did some embarrassing things, pissed some women off, felt like a creep on several occasions. I was learning. I remember trying so hard to be sexual up front so they wouldn't friend zone me. Trying so hard to maintain a woman's interest and being overly concerned with how attractive I was at all times. It was fucking exhausting. Definitely feel you on that. I went through the exact same thing. Luckily I never got into the whole cold approaching thing, even when I was dee… | /r/ExRedPill | |
| – | What led me away from Red Pill philosophyI agree that at least he was approaching but I think there is a huge difference between going and approaching someone in a socially acceptable setting and being the straight up local nuisance in your town. | /r/ExRedPill | |
| – | What led me away from Red Pill philosophyI see what you mean. About two years ago I'd posted on TRP with a different account asking about when game actually works, and I was having doubts because of the story I'd mentioned here where this dude I knew at school got expelled. I'd told them there that I was wary of cold approaching and running the "game" they'd recommended because I didn't want to get pepper sprayed or charged with sexual harassment. Most of all the answers I got were things like "Well that guy you know only got in troubl… | /r/ExRedPill | |
| – | What led me away from Red Pill philosophyIt’s very unrealistic lol. It’s almost predatory behavior, imo. Check out my most recent post in this sub, it was my wake up call. The cliff notes are that this dude I know basically took the whole “rejection is not rejection, and just a shit test” mentality way to far and got thrown out of a bar by bouncers cause he was being really pushy with a girl. Similar to the story I shared here. | /r/ExRedPill | |
| – | What led me away from Red Pill philosophyWhat red pill tactics did you use that got you laid? I’ve heard some people say it got them bedding tons of women but in my experience Red Pill “game” did the opposite and made me come off as a socially inept weirdo. I started getting laid and having better relationships with women when I dropped those tactics and just started being myself. Thankfully I never got into cold approaching. Even when I was deepest into TRP, the cold approaching advice and tactics they preached just seemed to me like … | /r/ExRedPill | |
| – | i thought i had exed the redpill but..It's a TV show dude, and it reads like Red Pill because TRP gets all their ideas from fictional tropes. It's why they all hold their standard of Alpha male up to Don Draper and James Bond, cause they're fictional characters, not reality. | /r/ExRedPill | |
| – | What "counter argument" situations you had which proved that redpill isnt truth?One thing that caused me to leave TRP is the emotional manipulation. Early on when you start the Red Pill you’re taught that women are emotionally manipulative and toxic by nature, and later you’re told to be emotionally manipulative via dread game in response. Kinda contradictory. In a truth the Red Pill is a cult. The way I see it, TRP is the Scientology of the current era. One project I want to undertake soon is publishing a large post here showing every single way that The Red Pill is a dire… | /r/ExRedPill |
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