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| 49 | What’s your go to bumble opener? And what’s your overall bumble game look like? | Thisthrowaway88 | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 02:26 PM | |
| 2 | Amazing date and sex then she got distant. How do I approach this? | Thisthrowaway88 | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 02:36 PM | |
| 1 | Going on a date with a Spanish girl. Any advice? | Thisthrowaway88 | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 02:29 PM | |
| 0 | Update: She flaked | Thisthrowaway88 | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 11:00 PM |
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| 1 | Going on a date with a Spanish girl. Any advice?Update: Date went about as well as it could have. The chemistry wasn’t really there on my end but she’s hot so I played along. I definitely nailed the date and she’s into me. We made out in my car afterwards. She got pretty “feelsy” downstairs and even pulled it out but said she wouldn’t get me off on the first date and she also “needed to get hers if I’m gonna get mine”. I kept trying but gave up after about 3 attempts to get her to finish the job. It wasn’t happening. We both had to work today… | /r/seduction | 16/02/18 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Going on a date with a Spanish girl. Any advice?Ahh jeez, yea I hope that doesn’t come up. She’s an easy 8.5 (from her pics). We’re going out tomorrow, so I’ll check back in Friday. | /r/seduction | 15/02/18 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Going on a date with a Spanish girl. Any advice?This girl seems really reserved! She’ll send me a selfie on Snapchat (she’s beautiful) - I’ll reply with triple heart eyes or just tell her she’s cute, and her typical response will be blush face or monkey with hands over eyes. I feel like she might be playing me with the reserved game lol. I guess I’ll find out soon. | /r/seduction | 15/02/18 12:17 AM |
| 5 | How do transition numbers into dates?I usually don’t I ask. I just say something like “Let’s grab a drink Friday night” or “Meet me for a drink this weekend” I’ve only been back in the market for about a month now but have scored a handful of dates with very cute girls. Made the mistake of constantly texting with one of them. Don’t do this. Like the seasoned guys on this sub say - logistics only, maybe a semi-flirty Snapchat here and there. If the dates a week or so out - I might send her a random text mid-week saying something lik… | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Going on a date with a Spanish girl. Any advice?Yea. I think I’m getting in my own head to much. I’m just used to dating white girls - so I’m kind’ve nervous. | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 03:00 PM |
| 6 | Thanks Fam: The cute girl at StarbucksGood stuff man. I was working in Starbucks last week and totally blew it with 2 cute girls that were working near me. I totally wanted to game them but I got into my own head, got anxious and had no idea what to say or what I was going to say after the convo started. I’m doing decent with the online dating but I have no cold approach game. I gotta stop being such a pussy and just spit it out. Props bro, it might seem like a small step but a successful cold approach must give you a good confidenc… | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 02:09 PM |
| 1 | What’s your go to bumble opener? And what’s your overall bumble game look like?Yikes man. Forget about being patient - I would contact customer service. See if there’s something up with the app itself. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 12:32 PM |
| 1 | What’s your go to bumble opener? And what’s your overall bumble game look like?I’ll get none some days and others a handful. Just be patient and keep swiping bro. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 12:42 AM |
| 2 | What’s your go to bumble opener? And what’s your overall bumble game look like?I feel your pain man. I'm within 5 miles of a major city and pickings are slim on Bumble and Tinder. As in - less than 1% are above a 7 or above. The good news is, they're totally attainable if your an above average guy. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 07:47 PM |
| 2 | What’s your go to bumble opener? And what’s your overall bumble game look like?Agreed. It's probably a huge advantage to be an above average guy on these types of apps as well, which i would definitely consider myself. I'm also close to a major city - which also would help I assume. I will say - I swipe left on over 99% of girls. Even Close to a major city, the pickings for hot girls are slim. Which holds true for the general population as well. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 07:42 PM |
| 3 | What’s your go to bumble opener? And what’s your overall bumble game look like?I agree, the whole bar scene thing is odd to me and semi creepy. Fuck it man - quality over quantity all day. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 07:37 PM |
| 1 | What’s your go to bumble opener? And what’s your overall bumble game look like?What’s the best one, in your opinion? | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 05:23 PM |
| 1 | What’s your go to bumble opener? And what’s your overall bumble game look like?Yes. By "opener" I mean what do you respond to "Hey" with. Like I said they "technically" open, but leave the door open for you to respond with something witty/original if that's your thing. Just curious what other people use. I've been doing OK with a basic response - then moving quickly from bumble, to text, to date. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Update: She flakedFuck man, I needed to hear that. | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Update: She flakedDamnit. I blew it with that one. How do I not think of this shit. | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 01:15 AM |
| 1 | What to reply if a girl says "maybe" when you ask her to a date.Exactly. As long as they start contacting you again, you have a chance to pull a yes or no out of them. | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 11:55 PM |
| 1 | What to reply if a girl says "maybe" when you ask her to a date.I’ve had a couple of girls say “yes, maybe” like WTF do you say to that lol. A straight up “maybe” - yes I’ll ignore till I get a solid yes or no but “yea, maybe” No idea how to respond to that. | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Amazing date and sex then she got distant. How do I approach this?Haha touché my friend. | /r/seduction | 05/02/18 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Amazing date and sex then she got distant. How do I approach this?I’m skeptical too man. Believe me I’m still confused AF. But I’m a confident guy and not toot my own horn but I’m well above average. I just wasn’t sure what to do in this particular situation cause I’ve been out of the game for a while. Don’t mean to be cocky I just don’t like being counted out. You know - typical male ego shit. | /r/seduction | 05/02/18 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Amazing date and sex then she got distant. How do I approach this?Goner huh.... | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Amazing date and sex then she got distant. How do I approach this?Thanks man. If the date goes down I’m just totally gonna play it cool. I’m pretty sure she’s down to be FWB and I’m cool with that. She’s a cool chick and she’s hot and I’ll still be free. Best of both worlds. It was just a mind fuck because we had a crazy natural chemistry and she was the one who kept pushing it. I played along. I’m mentally prepared for FWB though. | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Amazing date and sex then she got distant. How do I approach this?That's pretty much how our convo just went. Within four texts she said yes to a drink Friday night and our convo ended. Now, if she bails - she'll never hear from me again. | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Amazing date and sex then she got distant. How do I approach this?Yea I have zero expectations but if she's down for another date, well then fucking aye i'll take it. | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Amazing date and sex then she got distant. How do I approach this?I texted her. I said “Heyy” she responded back an hour later (just now) “Hey! How are ya”. Wait a couple hours, then reply? | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Amazing date and sex then she got distant. How do I approach this?I’m totally cool keeping things FWB but SHE was the one talking all the relationship-y stuff. At one point in our text convos she even said “I feel like I should already be calling you babe”. Red flag I know but we were vibing hard and I didn’t mind the comment at the time, she was being very sweet and into me. If she wants to take a step back and be FWB I’m fine with it. Girls are just confusing AF damn. | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Amazing date and sex then she got distant. How do I approach this?Yea definitely planning on keeping it short. Might text her today. I’m anxious as fuck. If I do I’ll keep you posted. | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Amazing date and sex then she got distant. How do I approach this?But worst case she doesn’t answer and I move on regardless. Why not make an attempt, it’s risk free at this point. | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Amazing date and sex then she got distant. How do I approach this?I’m asking how to get a second date. Worst case I text her and she ignores me. I just want the odds of a response and a “yes” in my favor. | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 03:48 PM |
| 0 | Amazing date and sex then she got distant. How do I approach this?I’ve got the bite marks to prove it. Pretty sure she ripped out some of my hair as well... and was loud. I know if a girls enjoying sex or not. If I thought even in the slightest it was bad or even mediocre. It would make total sense. Edit: she was also texting me for the next couple days. It was just less frequent and flirty. If she didn’t wanna fuck me again why not just ghost? | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 03:23 PM |
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