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Shouldn't the bar also be lowered for men, or is that too much equality?
/r/MensRights13/12/24 09:02 PM
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What movies are you watching?
/r/MensRights13/12/24 08:54 PM
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Passive suicidal ideation. One wouldn't jump in front of a bus, but if a bus were heading one's way, one might not necessarily move out of the way. In studying history, the amount of men that killed themselves during the Great Depression doesn't get talked about in grade school education. It wasn't really getting talked about while it was going on either. Money isn't real even though we treat it as real. Food is real. Shelter is real. There is no natural requirement for money to be able to affor…
/r/MenSupportMen09/12/24 01:08 PM
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Do the Vietnamese have anything like the "4B Movement?"
/r/MenSupportMen04/12/24 09:18 PM
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Take some time. Those feelings fade and become wisdom. You said you think it's both of your faults. Get clear on how it was your fault. Get clear on how it was her fault. She doesn't need to hear about it. The relationship ended. You do you and she does her apart from one another. That's how it works. You mentioned things being a "fog" for a while. If you haven't talked to your therapist about that, it would be good to. Brainfog can be a symptom of depression and some other things iirc. As far a…
/r/MenSupportMen24/11/24 07:02 PM
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No problem. Do you have a kidney stone? History/family history of them? Also, how long have you been at your current weight? I ask because being overweight can also be fluid swelling in the body, rather than fat storage. Finding time to walk would be a good first step (pun intended). It's exercise. It's moving meditation. Good for mental health. May help your appetite. Keeping fruits and vegetables around that you would eat helps. Apples are pretty good. They keep for a while when refrigerated. …
/r/MenSupportMen08/08/24 11:49 PM
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What's your average day like as far as movement? What's an average day like as far as food and drinks?
/r/MenSupportMen06/08/24 01:32 AM
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It's not weight loss; it is fat loss you're after. Do you have any other health issues besides being overweight? I used to work as a weightlifting and body composition coach with the primary focus being on postural health for stronger body mechanics. Meaning, I could train trainers.
/r/MenSupportMen06/08/24 01:21 AM
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Then how is there a Patriarchy?
/r/MensRights03/08/24 05:04 PM
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It is socially acceptable to manipulate a man into arousal because "he wants sex." It is socially unacceptable to manipulate a woman into arousal because "she wants to decide who to have sex with."
/r/MensRights03/08/24 05:02 PM
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I was translating for the other person.
/r/MensRights24/07/24 12:42 PM
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This is better: "Would you rather be raped or falsely accused of rape? Because it sounds like you'd prefer one over the other." Then, if they do, you can have a conversation about it.
/r/MensRights24/07/24 02:22 AM
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For me, it was the best I knew. Being in a relationship with an abusive woman was normal.
/r/MensRights23/07/24 11:19 PM
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Positive affirmations seem like a bad idea. Reframing thinking can be good though.
/r/MensRights23/07/24 11:11 PM
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What is it you would like to say?
/r/MensRights23/07/24 11:10 PM
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So...they make excuses that must be honored?
/r/MensRights23/07/24 10:59 PM
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Nah, women need information in the form of a song and dance routine or else they zone out if it's not about them.
/r/MensRights23/07/24 10:36 PM
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Oh, you into that BDSM stuff then?
/r/MensRights19/07/24 01:13 AM
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I prefer abstinence, but thanks!
/r/MensRights18/07/24 05:34 PM
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How about a flex-hose with a funnel?
/r/MensRights18/07/24 05:12 PM
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Perhaps as a mechanism of learned control. When bladders are full, we would instinctually seek to empty it. There absolutely could be a psychological impact due to "toilet training."
/r/MensRights18/07/24 04:14 PM
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Do you mean in relation to foreskin?
/r/MensRights18/07/24 04:11 PM
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Sure, visual stimuli can induce arousal. Nudity, hints at nudity (sexy/provocative clothing), and suggestive body language can cause arousal whether the aroused person wants to be or not.
/r/MensRights18/07/24 01:50 PM
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Something wrong with that?
/r/MensRights18/07/24 12:13 PM
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I figure it would be from relaxing core muscles (abs, lower back). The internal organs will shift some (could potentially press on nerves and glands)
/r/MensRights18/07/24 03:01 AM
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Yeah, I knew when I was 5ish yrs old, but was taught that I didn't know. Teach only what ya know I guess.
/r/MensRights18/07/24 02:20 AM
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I didn't hear about any bears helping either. Men, the bare minimum is the bear minimum. Go eat some salmon and scratch your ass on a tree. They want bears? I identify as a bear. My pronouns are rawr/rawr. Edit: I will gladly apologize to anyone offended by the preceding statements.
/r/MensRights18/07/24 01:54 AM
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I ate some rotting egg today. It'll make me sick. That's part of healing; in this case, it would be getting sick from eating rotting egg that is the healing. Once healed, I can continue eating rotten eggs or learn to avoid them. I could try to eat more rotting eggs while I'm still sick from the first one, but I suspect that would be a bad idea. If you see any of the "avoidant attachment" posts on social media portraying that "attachmen style" as wrong or needing fixed, they are advocating to "ea…
/r/MenSupportMen17/07/24 07:52 PM
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Why care?
/r/MensRights07/07/24 10:03 PM
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As a man, I understand. I've been raped by a woman, sexually assaulted by a woman and sexually harassed by women. As a man, please choose the bear if it's actually a choice.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 07:20 PM
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What is pride?
/r/MensRights06/07/24 06:49 PM
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It's not that men are the problem. The problem is some women are afraid of men, then expect men to be responsible for women's feelings. When it comes to women committing rape or other types of sex crimes, there is a lack of any real outcry on women's part - particularly feminists. As long as it's women raping/SAing men, women will feel safe. On a personal note, better to steer clear of vigilante justice. People will admit stuff under duress, but it may not be the whole story if you don't know wh…
/r/MensRights05/07/24 10:19 PM
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Yep. And being a guy, it's my fault if guys do that even though it's impossible for me to hold the hand of every other guy on the planet and walk them through better decisions.
/r/MensRights05/07/24 08:15 PM
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🤣 I'm no scientician, but can't women get pregnant if they rape a man? Raping men can also result in pregnancy...of the rapist. So does that make it even worse when the rapist is a woman? You know, because pregnancy. Edit: Almost forgot!! "HER BODY, HER CHOICE!!!" 🤔
/r/MensRights05/07/24 05:13 PM
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How would you know?
/r/MensRights04/07/24 09:40 PM
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Your point being?
/r/MensRights04/07/24 09:22 PM
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Take care in staring into the void.
/r/MensRights04/07/24 07:52 PM
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Don't attribute to malice that which can be better explained by ignorance.
/r/MensRights04/07/24 06:53 PM
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Because they don't know how to control/love men.
/r/MensRights02/07/24 11:25 PM
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Men need to do better because women are unable to. That's what I hear. So men have to be responsible for both men AND women. You know, like patriarchy. So the problem wasn't that there is/was patriarchy, it's that there wasn't enough patriarchy. The only reason that the patriarchy failed women was because the men within the patriarchy believed women could be equals which led to women believing they could be equals /s
/r/MensRights02/07/24 03:40 PM
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Getting raped made me an incel. In other terms, forced uncelibacy made me involuntarily celibate from the accompanying trauma. Yet people throw "incel" around like an insult when it's a repercussion of my trauma. The trauma is something I could work through, but isn't really worth it to me. I'm an incel? Thank god.
/r/MensRights02/07/24 02:13 AM
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What are the chills anyways?
/r/MensRights02/07/24 12:27 AM
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It later lost the 'condescending' part of the meaning because, surprise, people started using the word without bothering to understand the meaning. At least from what I witnessed. Could be wrong.
/r/MensRights02/07/24 12:13 AM
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Being a victim of mansplaining is a badge of honor to women that are overly concerned about their victimhood. As a word, mansplain means to be condescending towards a woman as a man. Any and all sexes can be condescending. Mansplaining though, is a way to play the sexist card while being sexist.
/r/MensRights01/07/24 02:18 PM
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# #savethebears
/r/MensRights01/07/24 01:48 AM
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Not so fun fact: much of the chocolate we consume is a product of child slave labor.
/r/MensRights01/07/24 01:30 AM
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Did anyone care to ask the bears how they would feel about that?
/r/MensRights01/07/24 12:09 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/MensRights29/06/24 04:19 PM
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The Moral Animal It will save you some time. Priceless.
/r/MensRights29/06/24 03:58 PM
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If she were to have gotten pregnant by the boy, does she get to keep the baby? I'm for abortion in cases of rape, but what do you do when the woman is the rapist?
/r/MensRights29/06/24 12:10 PM
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In most places. Assisted suicide is mostly illegal. Selling products for humane suicide doesn't really seem like a thing; not sure of the legality on that.
/r/MensRights28/06/24 10:51 PM
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Her? She's entertaining at least.
/r/MensRights28/06/24 10:11 PM
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It decreases the stigma of suicide while shoving the problem of suicide under all of our noses; whereas now, it can be conveniently ignored. The only thing to fear is people don't care as much as they want you to believe they care.
/r/MensRights28/06/24 05:16 PM
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Legalize suicide and offer humane options.
/r/MensRights28/06/24 02:07 PM
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Thanks!
/r/MensRights27/06/24 06:59 PM
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As we all know, forcing someone to have sex with you is completely different than rape. It's like comparing apples and apples. Rape, from the Latin word rapere...meaning to snatch, used to describe greedy actions. Culturally, often associated only with humans that have penises despite "snatch" being a vulgar term for women's genitals. Edit: Unfortunately, we get the word "rape" from Latin...meaning the word originated in the Roman civilization (the Patriarchy). To "smash" the Patriarchy, seems l…
/r/MensRights27/06/24 06:52 PM
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If they admit they are misandrists then they will have to face the fact that they are terrible people. But they can't be terrible people because men are the terrible people; therefore they are in fact good people by not being men. You know, like hate. Blinds the eyes and deafens the ears.
/r/MensRights27/06/24 05:57 PM
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There is clothing, then there is decorating one's self.
/r/MensRights27/06/24 05:53 PM
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That's who we want raising children!
/r/MensRights25/06/24 11:11 PM
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Some things aren't worth a rebuttal. Sounds like they dont understand laughter though.
/r/MensRights25/06/24 08:40 PM
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Listen to women but don't actually listen to women because they won't like when you listen to them because you should instead listen to them. Meaning, cater to women harder! Edit: You should be like a video game for a woman so she can adjust the difficulty setting at her leisure. She wanted hard mode. Not hard mode. Video game's fault.
/r/MensRights25/06/24 08:06 PM
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If she quit the dojo, your instructor loses money, friend. Might face a lawsuit if something untoward were to happen in such a case as you shared. Your instructor is protecting their butt.
/r/MensRights25/06/24 08:02 PM
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There's a book that can help you..."The Moral Animal."
/r/MensRights25/06/24 07:51 PM
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So I've heard. Any idea how they collect that info?
/r/MensRights25/06/24 02:12 AM
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$75/hr for you. It's a charitable offer.
/r/MensRights25/06/24 02:08 AM
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Oh. I got the "educate yourself" comment from a feminist honestly. I took them seriously. Guess I'm dumb for getting educated. How do I be as smart as you?
/r/MensRights25/06/24 12:11 AM
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Educate yourself. Specifically, educate yourself on the rest of history and the other humanities (sphere of studies). Also educating yourself on logical fallacies helps work through personal biases. Or, you can pay me to help you do it. It won't be cheap. Neither was my education. Edit: Please don't downvote questions even if you don't like the question being asked.
/r/MensRights24/06/24 05:03 PM
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I did. And they aren't grabage...just slow. Many confuse "blame" and "fault" since they are unwilling to face themselves. I was a dumb kid that thought better of women than what they actually are.
/r/MensRights24/06/24 04:40 PM
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Most victims we are aware of are women. Most men that are victims keep it to themselves because for various reasons, there isn't anything to really be done about it since sexist biases have shaped our treatment and prejudices regarding rape. I was raped. Took me about 8 years to figure out I was raped.
/r/MensRights24/06/24 12:35 PM
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Oddly enough, one of the consequences of raping is having raped. However, the "researcher" included there would be no consequences; therfore rape would not be rape. For instance, would you rob a bank if there were no consequences? Everybody would be fine with it. No police involvement or jail-time. You wouldn't feel guilt or remorse. No need to question your morality. It's really just free money. So would you "rob" a bank if there were zero consequences (meaning would you take free money)? It's …
/r/MensRights18/06/24 04:15 PM
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Here's the actual research paper: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/291567285_Denying_Rape_but_Endorsing_Forceful_Intercourse_Exploring_Differences_Among_Responders From a cursory look-over, the methodology has it's flaws and reads like someone that is out to prove their bias true. Edit: Researcher contends that language choice has been the predominant factor in people's willingness to be honest about desires to rape. They then formulate the question, "would you force a person to have sex…
/r/MensRights18/06/24 04:03 PM
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Nice.
/r/MensRights28/01/24 12:17 AM
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If you know anyone in "the business," I would be glad to help make movies/cartoons. My degree is in pedagogical history (teaching history).
/r/MensRights04/01/24 03:41 PM
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Nah, I'm better than that.
/r/MensRights04/01/24 03:28 PM
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Glad you enjoyed it!
/r/MensRights04/01/24 03:27 PM
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They're doing their best!
/r/MensRights03/01/24 02:13 AM
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Did she not have kids?
/r/MensRights03/01/24 01:36 AM
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I only hope my Women's Modern American History teacher is proud.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 12:06 AM
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Just take up baseball so you can practice your oppression!
/r/MensRights02/01/24 11:50 PM
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Because men were clubbing corn over the head to oppress everyone.
/r/MensRights02/01/24 11:43 PM
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That's not entirely true. Best wishes though.
/r/MensRights18/12/23 12:52 PM
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As to your edit: No, those are examples of sexism. As to #5: The men that were helping you might possibly be the type to ignore men in a similar situation as yours. I once had a girlfriend that wanted to put a comically large object in her sedan. Just looking at it...no chance of fitting. She had to try anyways. Glad to hear you could figure out how to get the furniture into the car.
/r/MensRights18/12/23 12:00 AM
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Forgive...yourself included.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 11:31 PM
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"Your internalized misogyny is showing." Then end the conversation since she will continue using you as a figurative punching bag.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 10:50 PM
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It's her internalized misogyny showing; unfortunately, it seems to be expressed as misandry if what you say is true.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 10:47 PM
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How might you be empathetic and compassionate towards someone that says "women = children lol"?
/r/MensRights14/09/23 07:47 PM
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Are men deserving of empathy and compassion?
/r/MensRights14/09/23 04:08 PM
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What would make the sub better?
/r/MensRights14/09/23 12:55 PM
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Aren't you the one who wants to understand though? Are you trying some sort of psychological trick? No, thanks.
/r/MensRights13/09/23 10:44 PM
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What is welcome and loved? I don't understand. Edit: Not joking.
/r/MensRights13/09/23 10:35 PM
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Thanks for the author and book! You might like "The Moral Animal" by Robert Wright.
/r/MensRights13/09/23 10:31 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/MensRights13/09/23 12:19 PM
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Great job!
/r/MensRights02/05/23 12:29 PM
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Studied much on slavery?
/r/MensRights01/05/23 11:52 PM
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When has that worked?
/r/MensRights01/05/23 08:58 PM
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Springer was a liberal capitalist. If men suffered to make money for the show, so be it. Concern for women's well-being was only to keep the show going given cultural gender-climate.
/r/MensRights01/05/23 03:51 PM
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Why?
/r/MensRights01/05/23 03:44 PM
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I had often been complimented on my appearance by my mother's friends (the female ones) as a child....it was gross. Later on I was often sexually harassed by women and didn't really think anything of it since that was par for the course in how women were treating me growing up. I'd later go on to be sexually assaulted by women and r*ped. But as a man, it was all my fault.
/r/MensRights01/05/23 03:25 PM
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What are you bitter about?
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