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Ive always told myself, “no expectations “
/r/seduction22/10/22 10:54 PM
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Also sometimes its not up you. Sometimes the followers settle into place and theres a default leader.
/r/seduction14/09/22 10:22 PM
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Im 32 and got shit for having a fling with someone that was 19. The line “because you cant attract someone your own age” came up. I thought it was funny because i had a fwb and booty call that were 29 and 26. Hell my ex was 30. I didnt even approach the 19yr old first. That line is them trying to understand how it could happen and just assume the dude is a dirtbag. The 19yr old was attracted to me and “wanted experience”. I didnt lead or groom her at all
/r/seduction08/09/22 01:10 AM
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“Ulterior motive” Thats kinda the point.
/r/seduction04/09/22 09:29 PM
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That last sentence is the problem. You actually dont know 100% that they aren’t interested in you until they say so or show blatant repulsion. This sub talks about cold approaches all the time in which the woman doesnt even know they exist until they are talking to her. Build up your confidence and that thought should go away.
/r/seduction04/09/22 10:04 AM
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Quick and cheap thing is a haircut, like a taper fade and you will look sharp. Expensive and long would be to straighten teeth
/r/seduction01/09/22 07:46 PM
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Whats the difference with Hinge
/r/seduction01/09/22 01:12 PM
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You got balls Just like the dude youre about to meet
/r/seduction30/08/22 03:35 PM
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Times when i cross touch barrier: Sidehug when you first meet Touching tattoos (or where they want them) Touching jewelry (start with hands or bracelets) Asking for their hand when crossing the street or guiding through a crowd Pulling/guiding her closer to you to hear in a loud environment (start with shoulder, then lower) Grazing legs when sitting next to each other. If they move away, they aren’t comfortable yet. If your legs are touching, they are very comfortable. Dancing in general Touchin…
/r/seduction29/08/22 02:31 PM
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There are two things communicated when you approach. Physically approaching to talk (besides happenstance) is enough to show interest. Verbally all you have to do is secure it. So if you approach with compliments or pick up lines or flirty words it saturates the intent. So basically dont overdo it with your words. She knows why youre there. She is now sizing you up to see if she would go out with you. If she is avoiding you immediately then you either failed the looks test or shes busy.
/r/seduction05/08/22 03:58 PM
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I dont think its about what they want. More like things are firing at a subconscious level. Many people are guided by things they dont understand yet. How we were raised, trauma in the past and present, socia groups etc. all are filters in choosing someone
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:03 PM
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What does ig mean
/r/seduction14/07/22 09:59 PM
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I would just start a regular convo and bring up the reminder in the middle of it
/r/seduction14/07/22 07:05 PM
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Trust your gut, it kight have been interest. But no you didnt fuck it up. It wont be the only time you see her and the first interaction (by your account) wasnt a shitshow. Ice is partially broken. You can say hi and introduce yourself next time you see her.
/r/seduction10/07/22 12:45 PM
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If we are out having a drink, i invite her over to chill out and sober up a bit. Also had success with saying i have more drinks at mine and its quiet
/r/seduction09/07/22 12:18 AM
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Just say thank you. Riff off of what they say bc they are just breaking ice. Like they mention you look similar to a celebrity, having a small fun convo (like 30 seconds) over shows/movies, introduce yourself and invite them to join you if theyre cool. Dont think too hard on the hair. They like it, used it as an opener and want to know more. Thats it
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:13 PM
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I would consider it a soft no. The only chance ill give her is if she reschedules herself but even that is shaky.
/r/seduction05/07/22 06:12 PM
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I would open with “have we met before?” And riff off of the good genes/accent conversation
/r/seduction02/07/22 07:38 PM
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You fumbled it Next time after the add just send hi :) or like a story. Build that shit up first.
/r/seduction28/06/22 05:07 PM
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Dm me more pics. You are baseline 7-8 from what you posted already. Im convinced its a just shitty vibe youre giving off
/r/seduction26/06/22 06:12 AM
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Ive been reading your comments and posts. YOU are the one not getting it. You are attractive enough but your personality is absolute dogshit. You can see it in your pics too. Id think “shes pretty but she also looks like a fucking buzzkill” . Then i read your threads and confirm, yes, you are a buzzkill.
/r/seduction26/06/22 06:05 AM
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Tbh you look like you would be a buzzkill. You’re attractive enough but i wouldnt care to approach.
/r/seduction25/06/22 03:52 AM
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Flow and vibe are fuckboi buzz words
/r/seduction24/06/22 07:14 PM
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Im confused Isnt that the same exact thing but w the words rearranged?
/r/seduction24/06/22 07:09 PM
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Yeah you said the fuckboy line.
/r/seduction24/06/22 07:04 PM
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Dont say that line lol
/r/seduction23/06/22 02:31 PM
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Mine is that i need to sleep with a woman almost immediately to see if she is worth pursuing further. All the nervous energy goes away and i can act on the red/green flags so much better. There are times where i bust and i feel the need to leave asap. Other times where we would just cuddle/hang out/make plans bc the chemistry remains post nut. Unfortunately telling a woman that i need to clap asap to determine if i like her isnt going to woo her all too much.
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:40 AM
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I swear i saw this post word for word not too long ago
/r/seduction29/05/22 06:42 AM
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You dont tell her you like her. You walk up to her, introduce yourself and ask to go out sometime. Dont say she is cute. If anything, id say “id like to get to know you better”, but that might come off too traditional. Point is. The fact that you are approaching her and asking to her to go out implies that you like her without directly saying it. Its part of flirting. Flat out telling her you like her or think she is cute takes away the fun of it all.
/r/seduction29/04/22 05:34 AM
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Sometimes if they are real far (40+miles) or real close (1-3 miles) ill write : 1 mile away 😳 should i start walking over now? 50 miles away 😳 should i start driving over now? I get a response most of the time and its usually flirty. Most other times are just playful assumptions based off their photos
/r/seduction24/04/22 08:40 AM
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Crossing the street makes this an easy move
/r/seduction18/04/22 05:22 PM
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What i usually do i touch knees or legs when sitting next to each other. Has to be subtle but she will notice. If she doesnt pull back, then she is comfortable. Then you pull back and restart the process. I would start doing this maybe 10 minutes into a date if we have chemistry
/r/seduction18/04/22 05:19 PM
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What helped you get the accusations dropped? Messages? Call logs? Witnesses?
/r/seduction08/04/22 02:38 AM
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Is it predatory when young women approach older men?
/r/seduction31/03/22 10:26 PM
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Would have just said “wasnt expecting that”. Puts her in a spot to clear up the intention. Plus that response is where you are at anyway, platonic w/ no expectations. Dont bend all of a sudden. If she says its for you or whatever then you can escalate.
/r/seduction10/03/22 04:42 PM
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First off i would just ask to swap numbers instead bc situations like this occur where you are waiting on her. You need to lead and you cant when you just give your number and tell her to text whenever. Its gonna be awkward from this point to recover. I would probably say “or lets keep talking here?” If no response, its a wrap. But next time ask to swap numbers so you can continue to lead
/r/seduction08/03/22 04:54 PM
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Been in that spot too. Reason it worked out for me was that the 4 women i was with were all workaholics. So seeing each one of them once every 2 weeks was fine with them. It was easy to spend time w each when the dates were so spread out. Also was easy to maintain my own responsibilities of work and self improvement. They all understood the relationship w me was casual. I would go about business as usual. Bail when necessary. Dont overhaul your schedule for them and if they wanna distance, so be…
/r/seduction18/01/22 03:18 AM
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It looked desperate bc it was a short paragraph. If you responded with “then what did” - she probably woulda said more.
/r/seduction19/12/21 07:18 AM
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End with an acknowledgement. My usuals are :) , 😊 , ♥️ (if close) or just “like” the message Leaving on read can be read as harsh and is more a punishment (save for if she flakes on plans or other bad behavior)
/r/seduction02/12/21 02:25 AM
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If you wanted to dm her why didnt you ask for the socials when yall were talking?
/r/seduction17/11/21 06:34 AM
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You wanna get rid of the awkward feelings? Man up and confront her about it. Thats not chasing btw, its setting a boundary. Clear the air already damn. The way you describe it sounds like she is weirded out by you and probably feels just as awkward as you do. That “banter” is probably her just alleviating an awkward moment to gtfo. If she had any interest (even as a shy girl), she would aknowledge you more than what you described.
/r/seduction10/11/21 11:04 PM
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Just ask when she is free and then ask if she wants to hang out. Needs to be as if you wanna hang w one of your best friends. “Watcha doin later? Wanna chill?” With fwb, i would ask only day-of. Day before is okay too. But anything further out and its more like setting up date w a potential partner not a fwb. If she dodges. Be ok with it. Dont reschedule. Just ask another day.
/r/seduction10/11/21 01:38 AM
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Exactly what i wanted to say. Glad it worked but its such a weird opener. She probably already knew op was staring and was interested. She probably already knows shes gorgeous. So cut that fat out. Op could have just walked up and said “hey, i dont think we’ve met. Im —-“ . Build rapport and swap info from there. Walking up and introducing yourself with the right tone and body language already implies your attraction. Let your actions do most of the work.
/r/seduction09/11/21 01:22 PM
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