ThorGrayV Archive

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5	sexual market value is a narcissistic concept This is actually a great example of a male ignoring the internal world of women (as noted above) and replacing her actions with ones that make sense to him - and as driven by biology or something like power. Most women simply do not think this way it’s just an easy way for confused men to latch on to because in some sense it explains themselves (projection) Most young women do not even have a concept of how beautiful they are or their “smv” and are just as insecure if not more than the boys thei…	/r/ExRedPill	16/09/19 02:26 AM
1	In Limbo Thank you - I wish you the best !	/r/Divorce_Men	08/09/19 10:52 PM
2	I’m so uncertain about everything, I met a girl I really like but I’m not sure she’s interested anymore It may be she’s more interested in him because he’s proactive and not making her chase him If you’re expecting women to do the heavy lifting in the beginning of dating you can expect them to lose interest when a more sincere and proactive gentleman comes along who is not intoxicated by game theories and believes in chivalry All that aside - after two dates and before exclusivity she’s well within her rights to be exercising her options - especially if women have a so called expiration date for m…	/r/ExRedPill	07/09/19 07:00 PM
1	Coming home from a work trip That’s sad Divorced men have a chance to start over and find a woman who fits them better and isn’t totally selfish But here they are told to go red pill and basically hate all women (cause you know; we are all like that) I’m single and never married - I’ve dated my share of divorced men who proceed to treat me like shit and give me the punishment I never deserved (I’ve never been married, never got the kids, never got the house, have only taken care of myself) Please don’t go abusing innocent p…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/09/19 02:56 PM
1	In the trenches She was trying to Communicate with you I’m not saying she’s right But I am saying most women will want your time and attention and love .... over your duty. They may not realize that you “doing” those things is love - you’ll have to say it for her to realize you are sacrificing as these duties come naturally to her I’d suggest considering this now as this is a male / female thing not a “your marriage” thing	/r/Divorce_Men	07/09/19 08:14 AM
1	In Limbo We are not all the same - you just married selfish b— forgive yourself for that The worst thing you can do is now go out punishing all the other women who did not put you on this situation Unless you are gay ... I suggest realizing that humans are humans and maybe you picked a bad apple .. or even a very entitled or destructive apple. If you can keep it together- and realize that - you have a great chance at finding real love - the kind you missed with her. Don’t punish those who have been mindi…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/09/19 07:27 AM
2	Doubting myself My theory is when young all the selfish people married the non selfish people Now in our 40s we have a chance to find each other The problem is ... we all have this baggage now and assume everyone of the opposite sex is so awful and we have triggers .... she got drunk? Oh alcoholic ... never doing that again! Oh... he didn’t plan the date or get me flowers... he’s a jerk. The challenge will remain being open hearted and believing another can have similar flaws but overcome them if they are able …	/r/Divorce_Men	07/09/19 05:26 AM
1	I almost ended up hooking up with a girl from tinder, but feel like I’ve shot myself in the foot? Disagree - most women are simlpy not looking for casual sex at all (exception being some older women closer to menopause and some briefly confused younger women) Many drunk women will be open to casual sex which is why the red pill methods probably work more frequently in clubs .... women are naive and don’t know what they are doing in those situations and tend to regret it the next day or become attached to someone wrong for them (occasionally it may just work out) Some young women may experime…	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/19 10:20 PM
0	I almost ended up hooking up with a girl from tinder, but feel like I’ve shot myself in the foot? Well I’d say I know very personally a lot more women than you do and I have a lot more experience than you do as an older woman I’m saying that the kind of women you are attracted to who are also on tinder are very likely not looking for casual sex but may be open to the “lets see where it goes” idea because they hope for an end game of a relationship It doesn’t indicate they are looking for sex at all - But to to date and see where it leads ! Any attractive woman can get sex by going outside an…	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/19 10:09 PM
1	I almost ended up hooking up with a girl from tinder, but feel like I’ve shot myself in the foot? No - it’s because 98% of girls are not looking to hookup and even if they have sex early it’s because they still want the relationship! This is why prostitution is a thing - because most women are NOT willing to give sexual favors for free when a relationship is not on the table Most of the time the girls who do feel very dumb and taken advantage of when they realize a drunken mistake was just that - a mistake and not even much fun once the guy doesn’t care about them Yeah sometimes a girl may h…	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/19 10:08 PM
5	I almost ended up hooking up with a girl from tinder, but feel like I’ve shot myself in the foot? You have a lot of false beliefs - I don’t have time to respond in full right now but you must stop thinking that tinder is just a hook up app - and also that hot guys are getting laid all the time (even if they tell you that) Most of us women do not use tinder to find hookups ad we don’t need to especially good looking women Just be honest that will be your guide - but expect even if honest some girls will try to have a relationship anyway. They don’t know themselves yet. No girl will make you f…	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/19 07:59 PM
2	I almost ended up hooking up with a girl from tinder, but feel like I’ve shot myself in the foot? Yes that’s what dating is and has been for at least the last 200 years But for many women it does not have to include sex until there is at least a very likely commitment (that’s why we qualify with dates first as men are more likely to commit after investing - though nowadays they will stick it out just to get to the sex) Realize if a woman wants to hook up all she has to do is go to a bar If you want to be treated with respect - treat others with respect Taking a girl on a date and spending a …	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/19 07:35 PM
1	I almost ended up hooking up with a girl from tinder, but feel like I’ve shot myself in the foot? How are you being taken advantage of? And by the specific person you may lie to?	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/19 07:30 PM
3	I almost ended up hooking up with a girl from tinder, but feel like I’ve shot myself in the foot? Yes - for all humanity please be honest	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/19 07:13 PM
9	I almost ended up hooking up with a girl from tinder, but feel like I’ve shot myself in the foot? No. -it’s because going on dates indicates he’s making an investment and interested in a potential relationship It’s not so we can just get to the sex - that’s awful Most women if they are ok with hookups will be ok with it from the get go It’s worse to draw it out then not actually be into a relationship after weeks of her thinking it could be	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/19 07:13 PM
2	I almost ended up hooking up with a girl from tinder, but feel like I’ve shot myself in the foot? Your post is exactly why I deleted tinder Guys trying to sleep with me who come across as nice at first Most of us actually are looking for someone to be nice to us Please go ex red pill and / or be honest about your intentions This is why internet dating is broken	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/19 07:11 PM
2	I hate my parents It’s really sick and sad and justifies their behavior and objectification of women	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/19 04:05 AM
16	I hate my parents Life means suffering for everyone - not just you. In time things will make more sense. Women get treated like shit too just in probably different ways. Try not to personalize things - life is hard for all. And most people don’t mean to reject you and probably are not - it’s that they are on different paths ... You sound young Sex means different things to girls - despite what you think you may know - most young women are rejecting most guys because they are not ready. It takes time to know and t…	/r/ExRedPill	09/08/19 05:42 AM
11	How do i stop getting mad at rejection? This is not normal - please please seek therapy No woman owes you a thing and women get rejected all the time too. It’s just a person on an app who has never even met you Women do have good instincts and may sense your deep rage	/r/ExRedPill	09/08/19 05:33 AM
4	Red Pill Is Toxic For Relationships Becuase It's A Wrong Interpretation of Game Theory (defections are the norm instead of exceptions) Well said - this is the nugget I’ve found most infuriating about red pill. If you can paint all women as these inhuman, terrible beings - suddenly it’s not so wrong to objectify them and use them, lie, cheat and trick. I have always compared this to actual rape and people get mad. But it is. If you trick another human into having sex with you and manipulate them - lie etc it really boils down to being ok with a type of rape. It may not be physical restraint but it’s still incredibly wrong. But h…	/r/ExRedPill	03/07/19 04:25 PM
3	TRP beliefs destroying a beautiful relationship - need help “How can she slap” hm sounds like quite the scientific documentary on this troubling new trend of men defending those evil women who don’t even get to sleep with them !	/r/ExRedPill	28/06/19 05:16 PM
5	TRP beliefs destroying a beautiful relationship - need help Ya that anthropologist and what sounds like an actual therapist and God forbid women have no clue what they are talking about!	/r/ExRedPill	28/06/19 05:14 PM
3	TRP beliefs destroying a beautiful relationship - need help Nope nope nope These are all nopes. Aloof and no effort - major turn off to an actual woman. May work in very beginning on immature women used to lots of attention but it would be short lived. Adult women are majorly turned off by no effort men. Can’t be bothered with them and know better than to play these games or be used or abused emotionally - no thanks. I only want a man who wants me and any woman I know is the same. Biggest douche bags on tinder post photos with women in them. Its like the…	/r/ExRedPill	28/06/19 04:24 PM
7	TRP beliefs destroying a beautiful relationship - need help I have a longer response but not time to write it right now. It’s good you’re questioning this. It’s sad this kind of thinking has ever taken hold anywhere. This thinking though is everything about you though and none of it your girlfriend You need to severely question evolutionary psychology for everything first of all - this probably doesn’t even apply to dogs much less men and women. This thinking is so incredibly damaging it’s actually hard for me to read it There is no winner in this thinki…	/r/ExRedPill	27/06/19 07:16 PM
6	If game doesn't work, what does? There is really nothing better than confidence combined with genuine humility The red pill is so binary - as is there are two modes and one is right one is wrong and if you show feelings you’re out It’s really the opposite And all people are inherently needy and connect through vulnerability Neediness is not wrong - we all are What’s wrong is putting you’re needs above another and objectifying people that is the root of true ugly neediness This is why classic “nice guy” doesn’t work - because he…	/r/ExRedPill	26/06/19 03:48 AM
3	TRP ruined my relationship and I’m not sure if it’s repairable 🤷‍♀️🎈okay	/r/ExRedPill	10/04/19 05:49 AM
7	TRP ruined my relationship and I’m not sure if it’s repairable Right - so you’re trying to say if he did Red Pill “right” all would be ok. Yes - I do actually understand why people are attracted to this cult and defend it The most insecure thing is this need to feel more powerful by “spinning plates” and increasing “SMV” First - it doesn’t Second - the whole basis of doing this is to achieve some kind of manufactured distance form your own insecurity / weakness / fear of being vulnerable to your emotions or gasp an evil human woman It does not actually mean…	/r/ExRedPill	10/04/19 05:16 AM
3	TRP ruined my relationship and I’m not sure if it’s repairable Thank you. I’ve been personally hurt by this myself and trying to reason with someone caught up in it can be really difficult if not impossible.	/r/ExRedPill	10/04/19 02:38 AM
1	TRP ruined my relationship and I’m not sure if it’s repairable Well said	/r/ExRedPill	10/04/19 01:31 AM
5	TRP ruined my relationship and I’m not sure if it’s repairable You do realize that entire playbook is based off the need for validation which points to such a deeply rooted insecurity it requires a cult like manifesto and an echo chamber of similarly disenfranchised souls for it to persist don’t you? The red pill is a giant mind creation to avoid human feeling or self doubt - which in no way will produce any sort of long term healthy confidence - and if you are already a sociopath and don’t care you don’t really need a rule book. If this guy actually treate…	/r/ExRedPill	10/04/19 01:28 AM
1	Is there a healthy level of oneitis? Yes - the only thing unhealthy is this abundance - plate theory crap. That’s what’s ruining every good thing that comes your way.	/r/ExRedPill	09/04/19 09:07 PM
23	TRP ruined my relationship and I’m not sure if it’s repairable I believe this has happened to me with a few men as well. It’s super sad First of all - the red pill is a pretty jacked up theory written by average men based on evo psych principles that are at more of a 2nd grade understanding That’s why it’s so dangerous There is some truth to it. If you’re not an idiot and have some reasonable experience with people and a spiritual side to you - nerdy men could benefit from it to start seeing some initial success with getting dates with women. Investing in y…	/r/ExRedPill	09/04/19 07:19 PM