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One thing I learned in my late 20s was to never chase a man. If I were you, I'd stop asking him out. He will either ask you out because he wants to see you and thinks you're worth the effort or he won't and then you'll know he's not the one. I would be concerned about marrying a man that doesn't initiate. It is important to still date each other even when you're married. You don't want to be the only one pushing for it.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/24 06:19 PM
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Right, I'm saying don't let it get to the point of even being serious.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/23 06:14 PM
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This guy is giving off red flags. I see from your post history that you have a child. Please don't bring a man like this around your kid. He sounds superficial and controlling.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/23 03:04 PM
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I understand what you mean. I am happily childfree. My husband works as a physician. After my first husband passed away, I never quite got back on my feet fully. I was always independent and hardworking, but I have my struggle with anxiety now as a result of his death. Coincidentally, my husband and I found that what works best for us is that he is the provider. He makes good money. I take care of things around the house, which is all the stuff he hates. I do laundry, I cook all his meals and pa…
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/22 02:55 AM
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My fiance is a physician and very booksmart and well-read on a variety of topics. I wasn't able to achieve the level of education I want because of finances, but I am very intelligent in areas of problem-solving, creativity, and strategy. He always says I'm the smart one and he's the educated one. He isn't threatened by my "good ideas" and I'm not threatened by his big brain. We praise each other for our strengths.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/22 03:24 AM
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Enjoy your adulthood while you can. Use these years to build a stronger relationship with your partner. Do you fully understand how difficult it is to raise babies? It won't be a fairy tale. Consider waiting until you have more adulthood under your belt and you mature a bit more. A lot of good self growth can happen between 18 and 24.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/22 01:38 AM
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As a rule, I do not respond to a man who texts that late until the next morning. As others have said, if you're okay with this behavior long term, then go for it. It just means you'll probably do more "planning." Be careful not to do the chasing here. If the only effort he expends is texting you late at night and making sure he's free on a weekend, for me, that wouldn't be enough. I'd need him to demonstrate his interest further than that, and I'd look for his willingness and ability to plan a d…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/22 02:14 PM
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I think this whole community is cringing.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/21 01:25 PM
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You're on the right path. Stay the course. My story is similar to yours. My mom left and she never taught me how to be feminine. If anything, she discouraged it. I dated the wrong men and found myself in some dark situations. But in my late 20s, I began to improve myself, started to think about the kind of man I wanted to settle down with, and have been focusing on red pill for 4 or 5 years. I'm now 33, I've been in a great relationship with a 6' doctor for 2 years and we are about to get engage…
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/21 05:38 PM
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Eshakti has customizable dresses. I just bought two for $50 each and they are high quality tailored to my size. They arrived in 10 days. Highly recommend. I don't shop at the mall because I don't like fast fashion or low quality clothing.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/21 01:41 PM
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Accomplishment: Nearing engagement. I've been lurking around here and lesrning red pill values for about 4 years. Although we were acquainted for several years, I began actually dating my boyfriend a little over a year ago and clearly communicated my stance on marriage at about the 6 month mark. I then relinquished any further desire to push or nag on the subject. After he took a month or two to think about it this summer, he decided he wants to get married and set a timeline for early 2021 to g…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/20 03:57 PM
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To me, it means he respects her and doesn't place blame on her for the relationship not working, which is a good thing. I had a relationship when I was 17-19 and I feel the same. Things may have been different if we were older. He didn't do anything wrong to make me leave. I was just too young for marriage and I needed to be on my own and experience life. It was the right decision. It doesn't mean I wish we had worked out and definitely doesn't mean that I want or think things will work out now …
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/20 02:43 PM
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I use Blinc. I find it at Sephora.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/20 04:13 PM
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I agree with what you've outlined. At 29, all of this finally clicked in my head. I used to bend over backwards, do the houswework, etc. and lost a sense of myself along the way. And it never yielded a successful relationship. You really hit the nail on the head here and I cant wait to see how my dating life changes over the next few years.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/17 06:53 PM
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