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Well stated. A very small % of men are truly socially incompetent to the point where it's seriously impacting their lives. Being nervous or anxious is normal, but when a woman has 100s of guys trying to get with her, she'll find anything to move onto the next person. Most women are inpatient and don't want to get to know someone. The stereotype that men just want to sleep around is largely a myth. It's actually women who do that and they project. Women will overlook flaws if you're attractive en…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:56 PM
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This just highlights everyone's preferences. Billionaires are dating women I wouldn't even consider dating. Not saying I could date those women if I wanted since they are probably high status and gold diggers. I could go into my local grocery store and find significantly more attractive smarter women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:51 PM
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Your problems will follow you wherever you go. You can't escape them. Traveling is enjoyable when you're in a good place in your life and can actually afford it. Many times on social media, they can't fully afford it and are blowing their money. Many women I know do this. They travel around, sleep around, and have no savings. What a life. I have ample money and can travel quite a bit but enjoy just hanging out where I live personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:49 PM
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Regardless why can't these billionaires find better women lol?? It's wild. The idea that men are shallow is 100% false. Women are significantly worse and this proves it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:54 PM
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What a bizarre world we live in. He's a multi millionaire and he settles for an old woman who's approaching 60 who was with Newsom. He could easily get with a much hotter younger woman if he wanted. To each their own though. Id be willing to bet good money he's a cuck behind closed doors
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:52 PM
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I'm not complaining. If I approach, I'll have the upper hand over other guys who may be even more attractive. If women started approaching, it would be over for men. It would basically just be dating apps in person. Women shooting themselves in the foot and not approaching benefits the vast majority of men and limits their options. Women are stuck with whoever approaches them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:48 PM
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It's a real thing. My buddies who are like 8/10s and extremely fit are stuck with mostly fat ugly women on apps for example. Most guys usually date 4 points below themselves. I did see an insanely attractive girl (one of the most attractive women I've ever seen) the other day who was with an ugly looking guy who wasn't rich. Certainly not the norm but blew my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:13 PM
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As far as that goes, a lot of the time they really don't have a glamorous life. Instagram highlights the top .001% of many peoples' lives. I knew a guy who shot himself despite living the perfect life on social media. My buddies who I really envy aren't even on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:09 PM
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Dating is extremely cutthroat for men and they are held to higher standards. As a man you need to plan everything, be charismatic, have a successful career, and dress well. A woman just needs to cake herself in makeup, not be obese, and show up to the date. Why aren't men holding women to higher standards? Most women I've encountered struggle to have any type of conversation and it's up to the guy to do all of it. That's a lot of pressure. Truth is, men have to be socially capable and smart to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:47 PM
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Yes, they can stretch to accommodate a larger penis but some women are naturally wider to the point where they'll need an extra large penis to feel anything. Its always framed that the guy is too small when it's actually the woman is too wide. Id say on average though, most partners are compatible with each other. I've personally dumped a woman for being too wide where sex was just awful. It's not super common to be that wide but does happen. Hopefully she'll find herself a thick 8inch dong beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:04 AM
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Interesting, to each their own. Why do you prefer a wide vagina?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:15 AM
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Don't say that bro, all vaginas are exactly identical with 0 variation. You're just an incel... You dont know female anatomy bro /s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:04 AM
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Lol there is. Maybe loose is the wrong word though. How about wide?? Not all vaginas are equal, some are definitely wider. Don't
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:36 PM
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Nothing wrong with that, glad it worked out
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:31 PM
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Id imagine so. 7+ puts a Weiner in the 95 percentile
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:24 PM
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You could be a little wider than average and there's nothing wrong with that. The reason I say that is because Ive encountered a few women who could barely handle 6 inches
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:19 PM
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We all talk about men having a certain size penis but what about women who have abnormally wide vaginas?? Average is considered 5.5 so you can't call that small. Statistically speaking small is like <5. If a woman needs something tha is significantly above average, she has a wide vagina. If you have an average dick and a woman complains, she has a baggy vagina. Even with a larger dick I've encountered women who were so wide I couldn't feel anything. Like having sex with a wet sock id say
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:18 PM
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7.5 is significantly bigger than average. 6 is slightly bigger than average. 5.5 is average. This is based on numbers alone. If you need 7.5, you could have a looser vagina potentially??? That's a thing too from what I've seen
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:14 PM
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Which ones? FDS is one that is no longer running but they still show up on the search results for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:14 PM
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Nope, those are my standards. Those women can find a guy who doesn't care
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:12 AM
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Truth is, bashing men is more acceptable in society. There's a reason why Reddit hasn't banned the misandrist subs and anything remotely negative against women is censored. If men weren't simps and actually defended each other, reddit would have to change their policies. Women try to gaslight and even complain that reddit is misogynistic when it's the complete opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:34 PM
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There should be no censorship and no banning of any subs unless they are clearly violent for example. Most of the stuff that is labeled as misogynistic isn't actually the case for example. OR Subs should be censored equally on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:13 PM
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Of course not, those nice guys don't know what they are missing out on. It's why I hate when people tell others they aren't missing out on anything when they have experienced something that others have not. Many guys who are missing out aren't targeting the average woman who actually works hard and has a good personality. Those guys are targeting the slutty attractive girl who has no intelligence. Nice guys really are shooting themselves in the foot sometimes. Find yourself a nice woman who is r…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:45 PM
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Of course not, those nice guys don't know what they are missing out on. It's why I hate when people tell others they aren't missing out on anything when they have experienced something that others have not. Many guys who are missing out aren't targeting the average woman who actually works hard and has a good personality. Those guys are targeting the slutty attractive girl who has no intelligence. Nice guys really are shooting themselves in the foot sometimes. Find yourself a nice woman who is r…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:44 PM
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Absolutely. There is a clear double standard against men on reddit. Almost every aspect caters to women. Unfortunately many guys are simps and they only fuel that. Women stick together and men throw each other under the bus to get a some female attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:28 PM
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I as a guy do not date any women who have friends they have slept with. Absolutely not. That's another consideration. If you sleep with someone, be prepared to completely break it off, or find yourself a cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:26 PM
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Humans naturally prefer to be with others and be social. If you prefer to be alone, there is something abnormal. If you can be alone for extended periods without issue, you do have a gift but sometimes you get lazy and don't mind sitting alone too much. I will say though that being more extroverted and thriving with others will make you successful. You can network, build connections, and whatever. Really depends on what your goals are in life. If you want to do certain challenges, being alone is…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:25 PM
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This can be the case, but from what I've observed is that women like guys who sleep with lots of women and treat them poorly. If a guy can give off the illusion he is desirable, women will go after him. Many women think alike and are easily influenced. I've known the ugliest men who were assholes consistently get with many women even though they all knew he was an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:21 PM
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It won't change your ability to get with highly undesirable women or men. Those men and women entertaining those assholes aren't worth it. In the end, those nice guys really aren't missing out. Yeah they won't be able to have sex with a woman incapable of forming a relationship but it's not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:16 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:17 PM
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Yet here you are engaging with me. I could be an overweight neck beard fedora wearing troll for all you know. That is certainly a strong possibility to be honest. Who knows though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:47 PM
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Of course women aren't interested in old men, but if you're reasonably successful and take care of yourself, you can date younger. I don't cry about women calling me a creep. It's the old women who shame men for dating younger and call them creeps. I have had opportunities to date women who were much younger and decided that it would be creepy to be honest. I'm glad I am doing well enough to where I don't have to be stuck with those older unattractive women. Id say I look better than most men wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:40 PM
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Interesting. You're describing the more undesirable men who are stuck with those older women who happen to be fat, wrinkly, and covered in cellulite. And false. Well off men can get with younger women and if not, they get with the hotter women in their 30s. Id much rather get with a hotter woman in her 30s than a woman in her 20s. Certainly not your average woman in her 30s I get a lot of attention from much younger women. Had a couple women who were 12 years younger randomly approach me for my …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:18 PM
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Absolutely, those average guys don't have much choice and are stuck with those options. The successful guys I know have bigger age gaps and prefer dating younger. My really successful friends in their 40s are dating women in their 20s pretty routinely There are women in their 30s who take care of themselves but it's somewhat rare. Same applies to many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:41 PM
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Not necessarily. All things considered equal, most men would much rather date someone in their 20s especially if they want to start a family. In my personal experience, the quality of options drops extremely sharply when I set my filters to 30s vs 20s. As a guy it's good motivation to be successful so I don't have to be stuck with those options when I'm older. Also, many women party and sleep around in their 20s, then somehow feel entitled/shame men when they get to their 30s. Not how it works. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:29 PM
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But then women whine and complain if a guy has any objections to whatever they do. Women scream he is insecure. Women don't like anything that doesn't favor or benefit them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:56 AM
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If you're not allowing your girlfriend to get a train ran on her each weekend, you're an insecure misogynist plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:54 AM
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Just provided it. Have a good day!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:08 PM
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Never said women outearn men. I'm saying they are going to surpass them in the future. Also, women do outearn men in many US cities. 50% of marriages have women making more than the husband. The reason men make more is because they do the more difficult jobs and they have the positions higher up. My buddy makes 250k being a driller without a HS degree. A job that no woman would ever want to do. Women don't like those undesirable high paying jobs. Most women would rather sit at home and not work …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 07:00 PM
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https://www.theguardian.com/news/2024/feb/01/gen-z-boys-and-men-more-likely-than-baby-boomers-to-believe-feminism-harmful-says-poll Here's all the facts you need. More people are against feminism. Don't really need to add much more. Good step in the right direction. Started off as a good movement but feminism has gotten more extreme and toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:51 PM
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You can't even spell evidence. I did provide evidence. More men are rejecting feminism. That's all I need to say. A good step in the right direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:47 PM
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Truth is, there's evidence to suggest that people are more and more against feminism (which is a good thing). Feminism itself isn't necessarily the issue, but it is used as a tool to scam men. It's hard as a woman to see where men are coming from. I have no doubt you are genuine and aren't toxic. Unfortunately many feminists I've encountered are incredibly toxic and scam the system in the name of feminism. The go to insult is calling men misogynistic, insecure, toxic masculinity, etc. The fact t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:44 PM
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That's a large chunk... 1/3 of men thinking a supposedly positive movement is harmful. That's pretty bad if you ask me? Youre asking for evidence, but the fact that 1/3 of men think that and it's only growing over time is reason enough to believe feminism is harmful. A huge chunk of guys arent just randomly thinking feminism is harmful. There's a reason for it, and it's hard as a woman for you to understand that. You can ask for as much evidence as you want, but the truth is, men are getting tir…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:27 PM
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She said, "insurance guys.' Who knows what that entails. Not saying someone who is 35 would date a 20 year old. You are kind correct though. If you're a man, it's good motivation to be successful so you aren't stuck with those older women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:23 PM
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Women are projected to surpass men income wise in the west and are going to college more often yet I encounter so many women who still yell and demand I pay for everything. They have their own jobs, tout they are independent feminists, why can't they pay? Ive had too many negative interactions with outspoken feminists. I've even dated women who made significantly more than me openly boast how successful they are only to have a full on tantrum when I suggest we split the bill, no joke. Also, peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:02 PM
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I'm just talking about America and Western countries. Of course women have less rights in those other countries. And yes, men are absolutely onboard with equal rights. Men just don't like feminism. The issue here isn't equal rights but feminism. I'll gladly support equal rights but never feminism since it's been twisted to scam the system
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:46 PM
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Not sure there's any research that explicitly shows women take advantage of the situation and aren't feminazis. Truth is, you just need eyeballs and you'll see it. The numerous double standards and entitlement tell the tale. There's a reason why people like Andrew Tate are getting so popular. Men are tired of feminism because it's gone overboard. Even my most progressive/liberal male friends say negative things about feminism behind closed doors. Of course they simp in public because they don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:34 PM
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That's not how it works though. Women aren't stupid, of course they'll take advantage of the situation and make the most of it. Most women are feminazis in disguise. People are just greedy by nature. You give them an inch and they'll take a mile. Equal rights for all is my viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:29 PM
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Id say on average women date average guys because they are average. It's only when they hit the wall when they settle for those average guys though. Nothing wrong with that in my opinion. Everyone has their strategies. I think most couples are very unhappy with their partner though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:26 PM
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Ok, statistics say 50% of women cheat. Those are only the ones who are brave to admit it. This doesn't even count the women who use mental gymnastics who justify their cheating or say it's not actually cheating for whatever reason. Even if we conclude that the statistics are accurate (they're not, especially for American women) why would any man marry a woman when there's a 50% chance of her cheating?? Of course women don't want to pay for anything either and they end up stealing all of the man'…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:21 PM
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I should clarify I am limiting this to American women in certain geographic locations. I think the world wide percentage of women who cheat would obviously be significantly lower. Yes, most men don't sleep around, only a few guys. Why would a woman cheat with an average guy? Makes no sense. Yes, those guys are extremely busy. It is a spectrum though, there are obviously average guys who are getting laid too but they usually aren't apart of the cheating. Keep in mind it's not like these women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:48 PM
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Lmfao even as a guy I know the YMCA attracts a certain type of guy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:40 PM
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The comments aren't even bad... Many of them are logical and well written id say. You guys lack accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:38 PM
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Imagine thinking 4 billion people are homogeneous and equivalent. A Western woman is going to have a very different perspective than a woman growing up in Iran for example. My sample size only pertains to Western women in America who I am actively observing/interested in. I believe American women cheat 85-90% of the time far more than other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:37 PM
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So why do male subs get banned all the time??? Those weren't meant for you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:16 PM
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They've all been banned. Even the extremely toxic female spaces are still up and running. Even some that are shutdown are still shown in the search results.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:14 PM
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Interesting, not what I see personally. Id say I'm a Chad and my standards are extremely low for what it's worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:53 PM
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It really would make things quite a bit easier and I do envy gay guys sometimes. I have met some wonderful women but it's like 1% id say. Id say it's worth it for me to wade through a sewage plant to find a diamond
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:33 PM
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That's your personal experience among shitty guys. That's certainly not the norm. I could argue the exact same points. Truth is, most women demand a man to have a successful career and pay for everything despite not working at all and having 0 career prospects. Men really have to work on themselves and have everything lined up.. As a woman, you can cake your face in makeup, not be morbidly obese, and then feel entitled to a guy who actually worked hard to build up his life. You really think an a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:30 PM
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What would be an example of that? Genuinely curious
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:58 PM
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Yeah YMCA checks out, not exactly the best demographic. Where I live, a lot of the men who are 35 are pretty well put together. They don't entertain those 35 year old women unless she is insanely attractive and took care of herself. As someone who is successful I certainly don't take those women seriously. I worked hard in my life so I'll date younger. Also those careers you named off are far better than what many women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:11 PM
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It's usually when the wrinkles, saggyness, and fat start settling in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:50 PM
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Major cope. As long as the guy somewhat takes care of himself and is somewhat out together, he can easily get with younger women. I know many 35 year olds who are with younger women. Let's be real, no guy 35 year old guy wants a 35 year old woman and it's always the last resort. Women age a lot worse than men. My buddies who are even more successful in their 40s date mid 20 year old women. Being successful should be good motivation for men so they don't have to settle for those old undesirable w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:45 PM
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I see a lot of women identifying themselves as that especially on dating apps. The reason they no longer want casual sex is because they want to settle down and know they are almost past their prime. Nothing wrong with that, but I'm not going to give in and date those women especially when they have nothing to offer. I'm not sure, 'lots of people' have casual sex in their 20s. I only knew of a few good looking guys maybe. Most guys were working pretty hard at their careers while it was the women…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:41 PM
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In my personal experience, most women claim they are demisexual once they are past their prime and want a guy to settle down and leech off of. They know that sleeping around is a highly undesirable trait so claiming demisexual lessens that in a way. And I'd never take any woman seriously who makes me wait while sleeping around with other guys. The N count is a very valuable number for me personally and factors heavily if I'll date someone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:31 PM
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That's the thing, is the reward of finding the right one worth it?? Women are absolutely headaches and in general are awful to date but for me it's worth sifting through the sewage to find a partenr
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:06 PM
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Most lesbians I know whine far more about dating women than straight women dating men... let's be real here, dating women is the problem and the common denominator. Men are far more simple and easier to please. The issue is whether its worth the headache of dealing with women and dating them. For some men, it's not and they've given up. For some it's worth it, if they can find someone Edit: id also like to add that the pressure on men is significantly higher to be successful when it comes to dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:56 PM
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Those traditional marriages don't work. The days of women leeching off men is pretty much over. Men are miserable because they have to work 24/7 to support a lazy partner who brings nothing to the table. More modern relationships provide much more satisfaction for men especially. Unfortunately there's a lot of men who cling onto those archaic traditional values for some reason. Especially those redpillers. Based on personal experience, women love traditional relationships because they can sit at…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:11 AM
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Your statement that, 'good dudes' are harder to come by is a myth and 100% false. There's plenty of good dudes out there. It's actually the other way around. Most men are tired of putting up with women and they aren't committing. Society actually shames men much more than women and men are held to significantly higher standards. As a woman you just need to cake your face in makeup and be a 5, that's your definition of a quality woman. Meanwhile a man has to have a successful career, be attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:05 AM
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This is pretty accurate and well said. I would like to add that many women get into a relationship solely because of the guy making $$$ and they aren't actually attracted to him. The women end up cheating because of that. Many women absolutely do view sex as a transaction in many relationships. A functioning relationship where both partners work together is incredibly rare. I only know a few couples who do this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 11:56 PM
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It's just my experience. Do I ignore what I see happen over and over again in reality or do I trust some flawed statistics online? My comment isnt unhinged... It's incredibly accurate. You can try to gaslight me but I see what I see. And yes, I am extremely paranoid and probably won't get married because of this. There really is no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 11:28 PM
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Lol, that's comical. You're telling me a celebrity is going to DM a random average girl across the world when they could easily go out and find a significantly hotter woman where they live? You're telling me they are going to DM an average woman when they could DM a significantly hotter woman? What you're saying makes 0 sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:00 PM
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I think the main issue is that women have all these male friends who they slept with, are ex's, or whatever. From what I've seen, men don't really have their ex partners linger around like women do and it's significantly easier for women to cheat. Truth is, most guys will always be suspicious if you have a bunch of male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:45 PM
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Men have no standards and there are plenty of single men. Most women sleep with the same group of men anyways. Most men don't even sleep with anyone or very rarely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:44 AM
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No no, I'm talking about women cheating not men. These women usually end up cheating with a friend, ex, coworker, or whoever they encounter really.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:33 AM
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I absolutely agree with what you're saying. For me personally I 100% doubt the statistics. Self surveys aren't accurate in my eyes and just recording the ones who were caught are definitely nowhere near accurate either. Unfortunately I can't think of a good way to find out the true answer. Based on my experience I say 85-90%. Feel free to disagree though if you've experienced different
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:16 AM
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This isn't just my social circle, it's what I've seen among acquaintances and random people I meet too. In my profession I interact with TONs of people and it's insanely common. It's so unbelievably common that it's too much of a coincidence that it's, 'just my social circle.' Over time, I began to realize the statistics absolutely do not add up at all. Not even close. I really hope I'm wrong because I see no reason to ever get married
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:56 AM
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There's a stereotype that the 'soyboy liberal' type are cucks but based on what I've seen, it's the overly masculine Republican types. It's actually pretty interesting that these boomers maintain their tough guy persona only to go home and be cucked. It's even more bizarre they criticize gay people and whatnot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:52 AM
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Based on personal experience almost every woman cheats and I've heard it from many of my friends too. Id put the number around 85-90% and I'd put serious money on it if we could actually design an accurate study. The statistics are severely flawed and I have no reason to believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:49 AM
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Your second statement only applies to the hottest well known women on Instagram. Your average woman or even attractive woman isn't going to be getting DMs from random guys across the country or world. Even the hottest women on Instagram can be found in numerous places. They aren't exactly unicorns. It's mostly lighting and editing anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:47 AM
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Not what I see in reality. Also even if you were correct, at least the woman is getting free meals and leeching off the guy. In reality the guy gets absolutely nothing in return while the woman freely sleeps around. Id say the majority of women cheat but they don't get caught. The statistics greatly underestimate the prevalence of women who cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:37 AM
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Many single mothers I see are desperate to find a guy to save them. Usually no job and no future. There are some single moms who do have a stable income. Even then, why would I waste my time who has a kid who is their priority. Also physically being a mom changes them whether people like to admit it or not. No thanks. Also what about the ex you'll have to deal with. Single moms are definitely not worth the headache
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:33 AM
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This is accurate too. If you don't see yourself getting married you should just dump the woman. Men have time on their side so they should be more patient and realize that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:42 AM
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Prenups are a good start. Should be mandated for every man to do this. Also men increasing their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:37 AM
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This is pretty accurate. Most womens' dream would be to sleep around freely while leeching off a man. Most women end up cheating and having to hide it instead but some are bold enough to ask for an open marriage. They usually trap the guy first before asking and they threaten divorce/stealing the guy's money. Many men have no choice but to comply. I see so many depressed guys who are cucks out there and it's really sad. The woman basically sleeps with tons of guys while the guy obviously cannot.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:35 AM
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I actually disagree with this. Women don't command as much respect in the workplace and almost every activity you do. If easy is defined as riding off the coattails of men and not having to work as hard, then yes, women have it easier
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:32 AM
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Many Republicans are actually cucks in disguise from what I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:23 AM
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Not necessarily. She has a kid she will prioritize, most likely is very tired with having children, physical changes, etc. I'll pass. Not saying single moms are bad, but I'd absolutely never date one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:17 AM
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Yes I do. Not from a financial standpoint necessarily. What's a positive of dating a single mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:04 AM
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Women are openly praised and encouraged for their standards but men are routinely shamed and called assholes, misogynistic, or shallow. What we get are men who are guiltripped into settling for someone they don't like. The body positivity movement is another big example of society pushing standards on men. Of course there is nothing like that for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:40 PM
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Is not wanting to date a single mom a high standard now??? Society really has damaged men nowadays. There is literally 0 benefit to dating a single mom and numerous negatives. If anything dating a single mom means your standards are low. The caveat is if you're sterile and can't have kids but want some. Other than that, I see absolutely no reason for a man to settle
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:44 PM
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100% false. There are plenty of women who aren't single moms and when using the apps, the majority do not have kids. For me personally I'd rather just be single for the rest of my life than date a single moms
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:41 PM
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Even women can't find anyone because they are constantly burning their options. I see women constantly remaking their profiles desperately trying to find the unicorn lol. On the opposite end of the spectrum, most guys end up settling for a woman they don't even like because they have no options
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:39 PM
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Speaking from personal experience I've encountered a few single moms looking to leech off of me. Of course they have no career or any ambitions in life. And of course they usually lie about having children. I absolutely will not date a single mom under any circumstances. I was almost close because she was insanely attractive but had to think logically and finally rejected her. Id rather date an average looking woman who isn't a single mom
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:37 PM
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I agree. Id say your standards are pretty reasonable but still low. What constitutes a woman as attractive? Also, those things you describe can be learned by almost anyone. No mention of career either which is one of the hardest things to obtain. In essence, if you're a woman, you have to basically be somewhat presentable and have a tolerable personality, that's it. You're asking for the bare minimum and the bar is on the ground. If you're a man, you need a solid career which takes years to deve…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:57 AM
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It's just how humans evolved, they are social creatures. There are very few people who enjoy just being alone and not wanting relationships on purpose. There are even fewer who are very happy purposely choosing to be alone. It is absolutely a problem if your kid is isolating themselves at an early age
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:38 AM
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Not me, I have high standards. I don't even sleep with women unless I can confidently see myself being with them as a lifetime partner. My buddies will absolutely sleep with every woman regardless. Im proud to say but I've rejected a a few who offered sex early on. Many guys would jump on those types of opportunities though. To each their own
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:35 AM
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I can confidently say that most men go through the motions to get mediocre sex. A man who is decisive with high standards is incredibly rare. Those men are also more loyal long term because they know what they want. Usually they are more of a catch too so they can have some standards. Men who have no self control and are impulsive is what most women wind up with. Even the most attractive successful guys out there act like this. Quite a shame
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:30 AM
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I do, but I can confidently say that most men absolutely do not. Many men are settling on whoever they are with in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:17 AM
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Of course women don't want to know their man has no standards, but in general women absolutely want men to keep their standards low. Most men especially on reddit would love if super models lowered their standards and dated them despite bringing nothing to the table..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:16 AM
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The way you do this is by being a supportive parent and helping your children be successful in other parts of life. They'll naturally be more successful. If they are shy, therapy can help or something like a life coach/mentor.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:58 AM
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Men have no standards. Women actually have some standards. You see how this greatly benefits women? This isn't womens' fault but men's fault. Men need to increase their standards and not be guilt tripped by these blatant biases. You're right, women are absolutely doing better by having standards
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:56 AM
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The two are correlated. Almost everyone seeks to be more successful forming relationships whether romantic or making friends. Those who struggle are a little more miserable. There's a difference between purposely being single and struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:47 AM
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And women don't do that when they put down short guys, average salaried guys, bald guys, small dick guys, etc? They do it all the time. When women have those preferences they are empowered lady bosses. If a guy doesn't want a fat woman who is hitting the wall, he is an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:45 AM
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Exactly, of course women are going to shame men for increasing their standards. Men having low standards greatly benefits women. The issue is other men shaming each other and being pick me types. Women don't really shame each other for their delusional standards. Men will gladly throw each other under the bus for a 5 caked in makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:43 AM
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Its definitely biased towards men and it makes sense. Women hold a lot of the cards when it comes to dating. The idea that men aren't picky and have 0 standards means that an average woman has a shot with numerous men despite having 0 career and nothing beyond being a 5 caked in makeup. If men suddenly had standards, those average women would literally bring nothing to the table. Shaming men is a way of guilt tripping them into settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:38 AM
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Well men need to step up their standards. Don't settle for a land whale or an unattractive woman. The reason why women have the upper hand is because men have absolutely 0 standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:31 AM
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I disagree with all of that. Women want what other women have or want. They don't mind being used and guys like that give the illusion they are a prize. And no, those women are looking for serious relationships and they aren't the 'slutty' types either, just normal women who want a relationship. I actually know multiple guys like this. When I was in a relationship I got far more attention from women than when I was single. Once again, women want what they can't have. Seeing other women get used …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 10:22 PM
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False. I know a guy who is average-unattractivr but he somehow gets with lots of women. He treats them poorly too. Many women just follow the herd and they keep getting with this guy for the sole reason that he's constantly with different women. Women are absolutely easily influenced and they follow trends. Now scale it up to social media and it's even more amplified. Most ust follow each other's leads but don't really think independently from what I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 10:02 PM
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I think it is. There's much more than being an attractive woman when it comes to sex. I've been with attractive women who were truly atrocious. If you find an attractive woman who knows what she's doing and has the ideal body type you'll know. You won't need to find another woman. Try harder finding better girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 09:57 PM
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Not necessarily. With evolving medical technology, we could live that much longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 09:53 PM
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If the apps are working, why get off? Many women I know find guys way out of their league on there pretty consistently. Also, some men have pretty good luck on there too but definitely more rare. Social media id agree with though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 02:52 PM
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Sex is important for some people. It's easy for women to say that when that's all they offer sometimes. There's also more to $$$ in a relationship, yet that's all they look for. The reason you're so angry is because these preferences don't favor women. Man has preferences and he's bad, women have preferences and she's a lady boss
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 02:50 PM
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The cat is unfortunately out of the bag. Men shouldn't be looking at porn or Instagram models but unfortunately it's everywhere in society. Id say some people are just bad at sex no matter what. Part of being a bad partner is someone who isn't willing to put in any effort, low sex drive, or to be 100% blunt, you're just not attracted to them. For me personally I absolutely will not have sex with someone if they don't meet a certain attractiveness threshold. It's really not an issue of bad vs goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:12 AM
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You can't blame women. It's the guy's fault for settling. Id say the number is pretty large for many guys. They take what they can get
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 04:58 AM
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I prefer monogamy with the right person 100%. Considering how bad most are at sex, casual dating doesn't fit my mindset. Some people enjoy mediocre sex with a new person though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:36 AM
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He doesn't have bad friends. Truth is, their girlfriends are either ugly or they are awful at sex. I think it should be normalized for men to increase their standards and dump women for bad sex or unattractiveness. Men are shamed or called players if they do this unfortunately. If you're with a woman you're attracted to who is actually good at sex, there is no reason to leave. That's rare to find so many men get bored quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:34 AM
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You're 100% mistaken lol. A guy who is a catch can easily get with another girl pretty quickly. Women don't like this obviously. Yeah, the average guy will struggle a bit more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:32 AM
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To be honest though he fits the average profile of a female in her 30s to a tee. He should be able to find someone. Most women have BMIs in that range, most are shorter, many have deadend jobs, many have wrinkly faces/fat, and there is a lack of self awareness. Truth is, he is on par with his candidates. Realistically there aren't many 6ft rich attractive guys out there. He's about average
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:28 AM
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Most women are also terrible at sex. I enjoy masturbating into a sock more than most casual encounters to be blunt. Yes, it can be thrilling but it's usually bad. Would rather get into a real relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:57 PM
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No they won't reward the man, but you'll be better off than being with a bartender lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:55 PM
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Find your wife a nice bull to satisfy her while you are away wage cucking at your job. The only reason any woman would get with you is because of your $$$. If a rich woman gets with me, it's a more solid connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:55 PM
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Exactly. Give me a successful woman any day of the week. Those redpillers/Andrew Tate types can take the traditional women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:52 PM
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I think it's a control thing for many men and desperation. With enough money, an average guy can essentially buy himself an attractive woman. Will it work out long term? Absolutely not. Also, many guys are insecure at the thought of being with a successful woman too. Theres absolutely 0 benefit to being a provider in this modern age. There will always be market for providers as many women don't want to work but the ability to do that will be less and less.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:51 PM
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Why not find an independent successful average woman who is in your league? In the off chance she does cheat, at least she can't steal all your money later on
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:30 PM
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This is kinda accurate id say. There is an analogous timeline for women too 20s - sleep around, party Late 20s - travel around, blow all of your money, and have no career prospects 30s- hit wall, realize you need to settle and find a relationship with the rich guy you're not attracted to since you have a deadend job. 40s- in a shitty marriage with kids Late 40s- divorce, steal all of the guy's money. Wonder why you're all alone. You see though how both sides complement each other. In the end tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:26 PM
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Wtf? That would make you a cuck. If a woman needs other guys, she's way out of your league. Find a less attractive woman in your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:20 PM
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The research contradicts everything you're saying. You can cheat nature, hence why humans live far longer with medical technology, have electricity, and large cities. Women are absolutely capable of working just fine and in many jobs, women actually do far better than men. You do you though! If you want to support a woman who's only with you for your money, that's all you! Don't get mad when you come home and you're the cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:05 PM
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The whole red pill movement is absolutely BS. The only logical relationship is 2 people with similar incomes. Most of these red pillers make nowhere near enough money to support an entire family along with a wife who is a dead weight. They then complain when they are cucked later on or cheated on. Relationships where both partners make good money and have teamwork splitting the duties in a fair manner are by far the most successful from what I've seen and the happiest. Personally I find those su…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:02 PM
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Women will surpass men in income. The whole traditional thing cannot work for long. There won't be enough men to go around so women can have the luxury of sitting around doing nothing. Financially speaking, things are also getting very expensive. If you're a guy and you want to be a provider (cuck) you'll need to be making a minimum of 200k in my opinion. A 2 household income presents more opportunities and there's absolutely no point in marrying a lazy woman who doesn't make anything. Also, mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:55 PM
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Based on personal experience, the women who partied in their 20s and have no future are the ones who desire the traditional lifestyle. Think waitresses, bartenders, and other low end jobs. And Why not? They get to just find a guy who will support them while they can be lazy and not have a successful career. Building a successful career from the ground up is far harder than sitting around waiting on a guy to pay for everything. Also from what I've seen those couples where both are working have go…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:51 PM
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I'm sorry but some are definitely unaesthetic to look at. There's a reason why they have the Arby's Roast Beef comparisons.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:44 PM
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No, some vaginas are absolutely more loose and baggy. Some are naturally just tighter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:43 PM
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There's literally nothing men can do on those apps... They are stuck if they only use the app. Should've clarified. If you want an attractive woman you need to go out in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:58 PM
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Not necessarily a replacement but I'd honestly enjoy doing my hobbies more than dating 99% of the women out there. I spend a ton of time on them so it's hard to date in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:56 PM
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I will say from personal experience most women are hungry for money and it's challenging sorting them out. Id much rather date an average woman who is genuine over a very attractive woman looking for retirement. I'm willing to provide in other ways, just not financially
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:09 AM
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Id you're a man without nothing going, you try to fill that void by finding a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:04 AM
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I agree but objectively men usually are stuck with matches far below their league which is why they need to branch out and try other strategies rather than blaming women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:03 AM
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No way. If a man is put together he has a significant advantage in his 30s. Women hold all the cards in their 20s. For the average man, id say women still hold the cards though. There is a catch though, if you're successful you don't want to attract those gold diggers but at the same time you don't want to wind up with an average woman you're not attracted to. It's a delicate balance. Most successful guys wind up being cucks id say I started making really good money and I tell women I make an av…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:56 AM
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I agree. I've personally had some decent luck on the apps and met some extremely attractive and compatible women but it's mostly a bad experience. Most men are better off getting out into the real world. Id say the quality of women are better off the apps too in general. More compatible options
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:52 AM
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Id like to add that it's not an issue with women and they are not to blame either. It's just how dating is. The dating market heavily favors women until you get into your 30s id say if you're a put together guy... at that point those guys have a massive advantage over Women. On those apps, Women are going to pick the best options available. If anything guys having 0 standards is what's wrong with the dating scene. It balances out in the end id say
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:39 AM
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Many men don't have any hobbies so they get desperate and end up settling for a woman they don't even like. #1, build up your life to give you more wiggle room to search around. Also as a man, time is generally on your side
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:01 AM
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The apps are for sure tough. In person I can easily attract women who are extremely attractive. On the apps, it's absolutely cutthroat. Any woman who is somewhat attractive has 100s of likes. Approaching in person is what sets you apart from those 1000 other guys. Generally speaking, as a guy you'll have to date below your league on those apps
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:59 AM
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False. Traveling isn't that difficult. These women just blow all of their money and don't have any savings. Fortunately some guy who worked hard will save them !
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:06 PM
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He must be a misogynist or an incel. Real modern men allow that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:12 PM
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I've personally been rejected a couple times for being vulnerable and know many guys who have. If you're with a woman, it's best to see a therapist or talk to your bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:54 PM
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That's cool, but I've seen it many times
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:20 AM
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Then find someone who doesn't care. Truth is, many will care. Don't get upset when you get rejected because of this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:15 AM
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Inb4 you're called insecure lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:06 AM
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I suppose that's a better way to put it. They have the potential but there's really no point. Guys are held to much higher standards in society. Why would any woman focus on her career in her 20s when she can sleep around and travel? I think men pride themselves on being successful and building something. Women aren't as into that which is a shame. Im personally attracted to those more ambitious women but it's rare to find
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:30 AM
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I don't think that's entirely the case. More realistically women are realizing that making their own money is actually pretty difficult. It's easier to travel and party in their 20s and know they can rely on some guy to pay for everything when they get older. Hustling and building a successful life is too hard for most women. That's definitely the vibe I get when dating. They also want all the benefits of feminism but all the benefits of traditional values too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:43 AM
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I see more and more women wanting and demanding more traditional roles. Suddenly going to work and making their own money is harder than they thought. Easier to have fun, settle, and live off some guy's money
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:40 AM
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Not all, but most id say
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:10 AM
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I'm not, I date smart lol. I don't let my emotions cloud my judgement
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:53 AM
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Yes most men are stupid when it comes to relationships. I've seen the most successful guys get robbed by women. I feel like investors would be the best at dealing with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:36 AM
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Like I said before, many men are blinded and think they'll find a woman who loves him. Men need to accept that most women just want money and to extract resources from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:25 AM
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If a woman divorces and steals all of his money and sets him back in life, he will absolutely want to move on ASAP.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:20 AM
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She's making claims too and passing them off as facts... until actual research is done, 99% of the stuff on this sub is just anecdotal evidence and theoretical
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:18 AM
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Unfortunately men are blinded and think those women truly love them. No man would voluntarily get into a relationship with a leech. Sometimes it'll take some men multiple divorces to learn from their mistakes. The biggest mistake a man can do is not getting a pre nup or dating down. Men should find women with equivalent careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:07 AM
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Women don't need to remarry after they stole all of the man's money lol. They got their retirement. Pre nups should be mandatory for any marriage especially when the guy is making the money and the woman is the leech
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:47 PM
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Id have to say this is incredibly accurate. Most women go into relationships solely for the money especially when they are older and hitting the wall. Once the money dries up, those women are gone lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:44 PM
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As a man though, you hit your prime later and have a much wider window than women. Contrary to what redditors think, the wall is a real thing. She may have left you, but she used up her youthful years which is one of the only things women bring to the table sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:41 PM
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The reason that is, is because men have no standards. You can't blame women for that. Men are held to significantly higher standards with regards to dating and life in general. Women just need to do the bare minimum. If men raised their standards, they wouldn't be able to replace you so quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:39 PM
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She didn't shred anything. Females don't understand where guys are coming from with regards to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:29 PM
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Most men don't have a ton of options so they settle with women they aren't attracted to. Let's be honest, there is a certain level of attractiveness a guy wants. No guy would choose an average woman if given the chance. I think you can have a good relationship with the average woman but let's be honest, most don't take care of themselves and they go down hill rapidly once they settle down. More men should absolutely be encouraged to get divorced or break up if they aren't satisfied. Men are sham…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:59 PM
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I'm literally high on drugs and can't concentrate on your arguments. I'm sorry. Nothing personal here, I'm a straight shooter. I have rebuttals. Just need my boys at Harvard to conduct the necessary research. Well no kidding women are poorer. They work at shitty jobs as a waitress after living it up with some rich cuck. Women are absolutely getting paychecks. I've seen it first hand. Why else would a woman every want to get into a relationship when they can sleep around with tons of chads. Unfor…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:45 AM
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You're getting defensive because you know what I'm saying is true. Sex is such a big part of a relationship and no guy wants to know he's in 2nd, 3rd, or 50th place in your case. As a woman you probably wouldn't understand as most at least get some paychecks out of the relationship or a nice divorce settlement $$$. If a woman cheats on a guy for that reason, she can just move on and find the next sucker. No career needed either. Obviously I have no way of ever finding out that information other …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:18 AM
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100% false. I know plenty of men who have big enough paychecks for that. It's not nearly as big as you think. It's not an issue that you experienced awesome dick. It's the fact that it was better than your current partner. For many people sex is a very intimate experience and they want to have it be special for each other. I don't see anything wrong with that. If anything women should be more insecure about this as it's a bigger issue for them. Like I said before, if $$$ was taken out of the equ…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:56 AM
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I think men can generally sense when women are truly into having sex with them, vs when they are just tolerating it so they can collect their paycheck. You're right though, there's no way they can tell if they weren't the best. I will say that I've observed time and time again that women will absolutely cheat with their ex solely because of the sex even if they were a toxic person otherwise. You're not responsible for anything... You're also not entitled to date someone who doesn't want to feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:17 AM
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Most women do absolutely cheat in my opinion but they just don't get caught. The statistics online are severely flawed. I think this needs to be normalized among men and they should absolutely not invest as much into women and keep their options open. For marriage a prenup is absolutely critical. As a woman would you be ok if your boyfriend said there were other women who were more pleasurable when it comes to sex? He says he is, 'happy' however and you're good enough. Here's my controversial op…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:26 AM
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Considering many (id say most in my personal experience) women cheat, it's a valid concern that a man may have. It goes both ways though, if a man has had significantly better sex with a woman in the past, he will absolutely miss that and be more likely to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:28 AM
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Id have to agree with this to a certain point. Yes, most women aren't great at sex but most guys don't really care, it's good enough. Id say sex can improve if you try different things but there is absolutely a certain level of attractiveness, personality, and stamina that most women don't have, sorry to be blunt. Most guys are satisfied with mediocre sex but it quickly gets boring because deep down their partner isn't ideal. There is definitely more to a relationship than just sex, but if you v…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:23 AM
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FULL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 12:34 AM
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Id have to disagree. Based on my time dating, id say $$$ is by far the most important thing when dating women. Most women especially if they don't have careers are just looking for a transactional relationship as they get older. I personally don't see an issue with that since they need to pay their bills and start a family but I avoid those types like the plague. More guys who are successful especially in their 30s need to keep their eyes open for this and not settle. Yeah, you can buy yourself …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:46 PM
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I respect your views on casual sex, but I don't see any place for it for me personally and don't want to associate with those types at all. I don't support sluts and I don't hate them. Just don't want to deal with them. I briefly tried casual sex but it's most unfulfilling and to be blunt, most women are downright awful at sex. It's not worth it. I enjoy doing my hobbies and jerking off into a sock more
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:50 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:38 PM
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Not me. I have enough going on in my life that I value a woman who is respectful to others. Yes, desperate guys who want a quick bang don't care though. Many guys do have the mindset you describe which is why women can easily take advantage and steal all of their money
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:17 PM
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Yes, the best women I've dated kinda came out of nowhere. For me personally I have to be in a solid relationship to have great sex. I have extremely high standards for that too. But yes, there's absolutely more to life than that. Relationships are important though. Most men chase after casual sex which most of the time is really bad. Maybe I just have higher standards
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:14 PM
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If you're a catch with lots going on in your life, women will practically throw themselves at you. I myself have plenty of hobbies so I'm not desperate. There's far more to life than having mediocre sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:52 PM
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Based on experience your types are usually very unsuccessful with dating unless you're extremely attractive. Even then, no quality guy would entertain a woman who is rude to everyone except guys she wants to exploit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:47 PM
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Yes you never agreed to be exclusive but I do think there is some responsibility to communicate with others to see if you're on the same page. Purposely withholding information to get some easy sex or potentially leading someone on is a little scummy. I don't know but I personally value respect and clear communication. Every woman I've ever dated was grateful for my style of communication even if it was potentially incriminating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:41 PM
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You're very open minded to admit you were wrong and change. It takes a big person to do that. Respect. You're still a lady boss in my eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:23 PM
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I think it's a little scummy personally to sleep with multiple people and then just dump someone or keep them as a backup. If you're not into a woman and you think there's better out there, then just dump her and be decisive. I get that you want to keep your options open but it's a little ridiculous. It never hurts to have that conversation, especially if you're potentially going to sleep with someone again. You're just keeping everything as vague as possible and avoiding communication for easy …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:20 PM
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You're absolutely wording it wrong. You could say, "Hey just a heads up but I am sleeping with and seeing others, just wanted to let you know so we're on the same page." You're purposely suggesting an awkward interaction and deflecting the fact that it is indeed a negative that you're doing that. I 100% think that better communication should be normalized. I personally like clear communication but if you like to keep things ambiguous for easier sex, then keep doing your strategy. I think you're …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:56 PM
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This argument is over then. You challenged me and I got you to change your opinion and mostly agree with me. Baby steps
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:48 PM
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Yes, which is extremely rare especially in america. Most are obese and horribly out of shape. I don't care what people do with their bodies but I personally don't want to see most Americans revealing anything. On a side note, I see many women and men claim they are fit only to look slightly less obese. The bar is on the ground for being fit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:46 PM
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Yeah you can do whatever strategy you see fit. I don't really use dating apps but I approach women who I am 100% into. For me there is no need to sleep with multiple women at the same time. When those women invite you home as you claim, why not tell them you're sleeping with others? The reason is that is a negative thing and you know it deep down. You want easy sex and you know if you told them, you'd probably get booted out lmfao. You know that too and it's exactly why you're purposely withhold…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:44 PM
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You obviously care about my opinion if you're responding to me and changing your tune after I called you out lol...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:38 PM
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You're the one who can't read as I was arguing that the whole time. I absolutely still think what you're doing is gross but not as gross as I was thinking. You were using the term dating and sleeping around interchangeably... You can absolutely sleep around, that's your choice. I can absolutely judge you negatively for it too. But yes, you did suddenly change your tune after I called you out. You're an empowered woman, you can do what you need to do. Don't be ashamed about sleeping with multiple…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:29 PM
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Ok, so you were indeed just sleeping with 1 at a time or telling someone beforehand... Why did it take so long to reveal this. I've literally been arguing against this the whole time and suddenly you change? My guess is you're ashamed and changing your tune now, and rightfully so. My guess is you did sleep with multiple guys at the same time with telling them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:16 PM
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'I see the consequences, but I take precautions.' lmfao. Do your partners know they are taking the same risk sleeping with you who has already slept with multiple other guys in the past week? Very selfish mindset. The reason you're so defensive about not wanting to tell people is because deep down you know it's wrong. Flying under the radar and hoping no one asks isn't exactly honest. Most people are too shy to ask and are desperate. Not me. . I personally have plenty of options and respect for …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:01 PM
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Yeah you can exercise just fine with your shirt on until you are in shape. 99% of people especially in America have no business wearing revealing clothing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:49 PM
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Why not display some self control and sleep with 1 at a time? You can date multiple women but not sleep with all of them... That's more than reasonable and most peoples' strategy. If you didndt like having sex with her, then move onto the next. It's not that you want to date and have more options, it's that you lack self control and want to have sex without actually putting in the work to find someone. Sleeping with multiple women at the same time while you are finding a relationship is so gross…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:44 PM
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Condoms aren't 100% effective, you sleeping around is still reckless, sorry. The fact that you're so defensive about not telling your partner you're sleeping around is because deep down you know it's wrong. If it wasn't a big deal, you'd be more open about it. You're just hiding it, hoping they won't ask. Let's be real here and cut the BS. It absolutely is a negative thing and you're coasting under the radar. More men and women should absolutely call your types out and be more direct about what …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:39 PM
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Obviously we don't see eye to eye and obviously you don't see the potential consequences. Condoms aren't 100% effective, they can come off, and there's other ways to spread things. Some guys are desperate though and don't care who they are sleeping with. I've demanded an STD test before sleeping with some women. Its not necessarily a huge issue that you like to recklessly sleep around, but the main thing is the potential health issues that come along with it. I also can't wrap my head around dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:28 PM
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From a pure health standpoint what you're doing is just reckless. Yeah, you don't have to share anything. Yeah your dick might be covered in barnacles and riddled with STDs but she didn't ask right! It's fair game, am I right??? I think it should be normalized that every partner reveals whether they are sleeping around and what they are doing with other people. Are you even wearing a condom? Are you banging street walkers? Jesus Christ bro. I don't know, maybe I'm just old school with dating but…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:36 AM
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Unfortunately in this modern age with all of the obesity, this shouldn't be encouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:32 AM
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Hell no, have you seen the average American woman lol. More clothes the better. I personally find most to be extremely out of shape and unattractive, don't want to see all of that, it's disgusting. Same applies to men who don't wear a shirt
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:30 AM
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As long as you're honest. It's bizarre that you'd sleep around with multiple people but you do you! Personally I think there is an assumption that you aren't just recklessly sleeping around while dating. There's also the risk of STDs and I believe you do owe it to your partner to let them know you are recklessly sleeping with multiple people. It's pretty disturbing and gross that you'd just do that without telling your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:10 AM
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Lol I love how you dodged my question and kinda proved my point. Once again, when you were dating, did you tell the guys you were sleeping with others?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:26 AM
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By lying and act like you're invested while sleeping with others. Do you tell guys you're dating that you're sleeping around? It is self explanatory. It's quite funny because many women whine about guys doing what you're advocating for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:19 AM
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That's totally chill but you should be honest with the women you're dating. I always ask and dump them if they have your strategy. For me personally I know what I want and I'll go all in on one woman. If you're less decisive and want your backup options, more power to you. I also find I can't form a connection as well if I'm sleeping around too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:17 AM
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If someone is sleeping around with other people, they obviously aren't as invested in forming a relationship with you and are just stringing you along. I'm not going to sit there and date someone while they are sleeping around lol. It's pretty self explanatory. I call out women all the time for this and absolutely do not date those types.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:34 PM
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It's not cheating but anyone with any self respect wouldn't tolerate it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:44 PM
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It's pretty disgusting if you ask me and I would immediately move on if I found out the person I was dating was sleeping around. Its a turn on for me and more attractive if you can decisively choose someone. Sleeping around and leading someone on is the exact opposite traits I am looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:43 PM
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I 100% agree. Unfortunately most of those guys end up with slightly above average women who take their money in the divorce. It's amazing some guys voluntarily betabuxx. It's also astonishing women demand money yet they get angry when men criticize them for their past and now blatantly settling after they slept around
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:58 PM
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If you're an average looking guy with money, you're by default betabuxxing if you're with an extremely attractive woman. It's an easy formula, if you could get with an attractive woman without money, you're not betabuxxing. Many doctors fit into the betabux category for examplr
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:04 PM
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An interesting phenomenon is that everyone thinks they are entitled to a partner way out of their league. The vast majority of the people think they bring more to the table than they actually do. Realistically most couples aren't actually settling. If you're a catch, you will find someone who is an objectively desirable partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:02 PM
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Men think the same way, they are tired of being used as an ATM machine by women and having all of their money stolen in the eventual divorce. I believe most couples don't like each other and are only trying to extract things from their partner for personal gain. Couples who genuinely like each other and are invested in the relationship are extremely rare in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:58 PM
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Yeah never said I wanted a woman who made more than me, not even sure where you came up with that. Just want a woman with a somewhat successful career. I make good money myself and am looking for a partner who also makes good money. Im personally not attracted to women who don't have a career but that's just me. No nuance is lost on me, most women who seek a provider are primarily seeking financial support especially if they don't have a career obviously. I'll be just fine as I go on plenty of d…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:59 PM
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Hes a rich guy with status, he can absolutely afford to do that. If he's happy, then why not? I see nothing wrong with it. Are we going to hold those women accountable who are willingly getting with a guy like that? It's not like Trump is forcing anyone to be with him. For many women, they are willing to sacrifice a good relationship for a bit of cash and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:17 PM
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Agreed, it's also comical when people have preferences yet they clearly bring nothing to the table and are obviously nowhere near their target demographics league.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:58 PM
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This is based on personal experience but my rich friends can get plenty of dates but the women don't actually like them. They just want money which causes issues down the line obviously. Of course these guys are shooting themselves in the foot by choosing those types of women. That's why its important to find women with their own career too, to weed out those ones who are looking to freeload
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:46 PM
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Love can happen, but most couples prioritize money and materialistic things they can extract from their partner. Of course it's no surprise those couples get divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:39 PM
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Why does it make a guy douchey to be with a younger woman yet women are praised for only chasing rich men? Everyone has their preferences Let's be realistic though. Most older men can't get with those younger women unless they are rich. Also most older women certainly aren't getting with a richer guy unless they are actually attractive and take care of themselves (very rare in my experience). In the end, most are average and will wind up with someone in their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:36 PM
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Absolutely. No bigger turnoff than a woman who wants to settle and has absolutely nothing going on in their life while expecting you to 'provide.' Cant think of a worse setup
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:23 PM
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You're really naive to think that a woman sitting around at home doing nothing isn't going to cheat lol. If anything I've noticed that women with careers have a higher sex drive and are more loyal. The biggest reason for divorce is financial issues. You really think those women sitting around are going to stay with you once their paychecks dry up?? Absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:22 PM
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People functioned for centuries without electricity or modern medicine just fine. What's your point? Times have changed and women are going to surpass men in income... I make more than enough money to where I could easily be a, 'provider' but that model doesnt work in this age. Also you don't have to slave away 50hrs per week. Many have flexible careers that offer a good work life balance. I have enough flexibility to where I could stay home a significant amount of time too. Good relationships t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:13 AM
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I don't really see it based on personal experience. There are a couple I know of but the best relationships I see definitely are not. The whole traditional thing is antiquated and no longer applicable in the 21st century
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:05 AM
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I was honestly just curious what your rationale was. You don't have to explain it if you don't want to. I've just never met a successful woman who was so opposed to not helping pay for any dates l. You may be the first so I truly was curious. All of my friends who are in successful relationships also split the bill especially after a date or 2. I'm guessing you're quite the catch and are a model?? Even then, no guy with self respect would pay for everything while you have a career of your own. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:49 PM
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That's your opinion, but I strongly disagree. A woman who isn't independent and refuses to pay is not a good catch. I make a significant amount of money so it's not even the money that's the issue for me. Im just more attracted to ambitious independent women. Also, why did you refuse to answer those questions is put forward? I'm genuinely curious if you could elaborate on how you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:08 PM
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I personally disagree with that. I'm not saying that career is the most important thing but I absolutely will not consider dating a woman if they don't meet minimum career threshold for me personally. There are plenty of women who are successful in their careers who make good mothers and wives. If someone is ambitious and successful, it shows positive character traits that I am looking for. Some guys don't care though but I'm personally looking for a woman who is driven in life who can inspire o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:05 PM
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In my view, the biggest simps are men who have no hobbies or goals in life. The men who have those things don't need to drastically lower their standards to get with women and they aren't desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:53 PM
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Yes, they are a simp because they probably had to spend a bunch of money and time for some average to mediocre sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:52 PM
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For me personally, I don't take any women seriously at all for a LTR if they don't have a successful career and aren't independent. Unfortunately many guys don't think like this and buy into the traditional BS. Edit: studies show that women working part time were happier than women who just stayed at home. Also children are equally as happy if they were raised with stay at home moms vs career women. If women are going to surpass men with regards to income, why not have stay at home Dads. The who…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:43 PM
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If you're a good enough catch as a guy, many women won't care if they have to split the bill. Women don't want to split because they want to date around without having to spend anything or take any risk. If a woman is willing to sabotage an option because she doesn't want to split a bill, more power to her! Also on a side note, most men appreciate when women put in some effort. Id much much rather take an average woman who shows interest rather than an entitled attractive woman. Those women who …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:35 PM
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If you were on a date with a guy who was otherwise a good match, would you sabotage it if he wanted to split? Also, how many dates/free meals do you feel entitled to: the first couple dates or the entire relationship? I see the appeal of having a man pay for everything so you can save money and date around more, but what makes it such a dealbreaker? You claim to have money so it seems bizarre you'd prioritize that so highly. Id personally never pay for more than a couple dates especially if a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:18 PM
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I definitely agree there are men who are waiting to find a woman who is only into them for his money. For me personally I'd much rather date an average woman with ambitions in life and a successful career rather than an attractive woman who offers nothing and leeches off society. Most guys unfortunately would choose the attractive woman every time. Those types of men aren't necessarily worth it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:17 PM
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Do you suggest 50/50? I've never encountered a woman who has ever offered to pay their fair share. Or are you saying you prefer 50/50 but you'll stay silent because you know the guy will pay?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:11 AM
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You say that someone who plans an elaborate date with a stranger is a fool, yet I see so many female profiles who essentially demand expensive dates off those apps (of course they aren't going to pay).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:08 AM
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Interesting response. Would you throw a tantrum and refuse to pay if a guy wanted to split?? I'm being 100% serious. If you're already on a date, what are you going to do? How are you going to find the guy who'll provide you free meals and paychecks?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:05 AM
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Your response is nuanced. You're fine with splitting, but you're certainly not going to offer. Most women 100% take advantage of this too because they know most guys aren't going to suggest that. In the current dating climate most men are essentially obligated to pay because there's another guy around the corner who'll shower her with free meals. In my personal experience, I've never encountered a woman who has ever offered to split anything in the first few dates. Even after women surpass men i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:02 AM
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If only it were that easy. Unfortunately most men are obligated to pay because that's just how things are. In my entire time dating 20+ dates in the past year, I've never encountered a woman who has offered to pay. It's just a bad look if a guy asks her to split the bill. I've even seen some women who flat out refuse to pay and it makes things awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:59 AM
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Yes its a muscle, but they aren't identical clones as most women suggest on reddit. Yes, some are definitely wider no matter how much exercise is done contrary to what women think. It is what it is. Fortunately if a woman is naturally wider, they can find a guy with a bigger wang if needed. On average id say most men and women are just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:58 PM
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Id have to agree with all of this. Id say the majority are average, not great but not horrible. Very few are great in my opinion, especially long term. Id also like to add that most men have very low standards when it comes to sex so they settle for whatever they can get. The difference between good sex and average (vast majority) is mindblowing. My standards for it are much much higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:56 PM
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Not necessarily, some women are absolutely wider regardless no matter what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:42 PM
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100% false. Some women are absolutely less tight no matter what. It's bizarre we can criticize penis size but absolutely cannot comment on women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:40 PM
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