Thrakmor Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	I posed the following question to ChatGPT: It is said that false accusations of rape are very rare and that they account for approximately 2 to 10% of all accusations. Do you think people would call it rare if 2 to 10% of women who report a rape were murdered Interesting... I hadn't heard of that. Do you (or someone else) have any more info on that? Sources, links, ect?	/r/MensRights	19/07/25 04:52 PM
3	From Coercion to Physical Force: Aggressive Strategies Used by Women Against Men in “Forced‑to‑Penetrate” Cases in the UK Do you have a link to that? I might be able to use it	/r/MensRights	18/03/25 12:38 PM
4	Wife told me she wouldn’t approach me because she thinks I would reject her Where did I suggest that we shouldn't approach women we find attractive? In fact, I said that I actually would: "If I'm interested I'll talk to her..." But let me try to paraphrase your post: Speaking with your wife, she told you that, even though she is very beautiful, she is too afraid of rejection to make the first move if there is any chance of a "no." Armed with the revelation that women can also fear rejection, you came here to tell us, "Guys! Ask her out! She might just be scared of you s…	/r/MensRights	01/03/25 12:19 AM
18	Wife told me she wouldn’t approach me because she thinks I would reject her No, I didn't. Thing is, men going up to and talking to the pretty girls is already what's expected. We don't know if they are interested in us, if they saw us but aren't interested, or if they aren't even aware of our presence yet, but we are still expected to go up an talk to them. We are expected to risk rejection. Your post comes from your wife commenting on how women are too scared of rejection to make the first move. So your response is to ... tell men to follow gender norms and expectation…	/r/MensRights	28/02/25 11:38 PM
34	Wife told me she wouldn’t approach me because she thinks I would reject her Ooorrr.... she can bite the bullet and risk rejection. Just like men are expected to do. Really, all I hear from this is "take the risk so that women don't have to." No, thank you. If I'm interested I'll talk to her, sure, but if she's interested it's on her to talk to me	/r/MensRights	28/02/25 11:13 PM
3	My (17M) gf (21F) does stuff to me in my sleep Since you clearly don't know: CNC stands for consensual non-consent. This means that everyone is consenting to the scenario. I don't see the lad here consenting, i see him confronting his partner ( which tells me he isn't okay with it) and her saying "you clearly liked it, therefore it's okay!" A similar argument to saying "you got wet/orgasmed, so you must have liked it and therefore it wasn't rape!"	/r/MensRights	25/02/25 02:57 PM
2	UK Prime Minister Keir Starmer Blames 'Young Men in Their Bedrooms' for Southport Knife Attack, Calls for Action on This New and Evolving Terror Threat That seems to have worked, thank you!	/r/MensRights	28/01/25 01:52 PM
2	UK Prime Minister Keir Starmer Blames 'Young Men in Their Bedrooms' for Southport Knife Attack, Calls for Action on This New and Evolving Terror Threat You wouldn't happen to have an easier to access source, would you? I can't read more than the abstract	/r/MensRights	28/01/25 12:03 AM
1	Women aren't better at parenting or even child care Thanks. I'll look through this. If you (or anyone else) have more sources, I would love them! I like to be able to cite my claims	/r/MensRights	05/10/24 11:08 PM
1	Women aren't better at parenting or even child care You wouldn't happen to have a link/source for that, would you?	/r/MensRights	05/10/24 04:50 PM
1	Cringe indeed Hell, I might put my clothes on in the car. Don't want to risk hearing a single word of that essay.	/r/MensRights	04/10/24 05:26 PM
14	Should DNA testing be mandatory at birth Question: what rights of the child would be violated?	/r/MensRights	03/07/24 04:08 PM
11	Friendzoning My theory is basic gender roles and expectations. Men are the ones expected to initiate and therefore the ones who are at most risk of being friendzoned. They are expected to be able to accept and handle it. Men understand it takes confidence and courage, and they understand how devastating rejection can be. Because of this, acting salty after being friendzoned can be likened to bad sportsmanship after losing a game. At least, in societies eyes. Women generally are not expected to understand thi…	/r/MensRights	23/09/23 05:37 PM
7	Need help with relationship Have you spoken with her about this at all?	/r/MensRights	18/09/23 03:43 AM
3	It’s men’s mental health month Im... improving. Or at least, trying to. Realized that I've been dealing with self-loathing for some time, which drove me into isolating myself just about as much as I could. But, I'm getting better. Have started to rejoin the world. Find it easier to believe that people actually want to be around me and enjoy my presence. Asked out a lass I had an eye for (she said no. Her loss.). Have a few people I might be able to call friend now. I'm also looking into therapy. I've managed so far but I can …	/r/MensRights	03/06/23 02:50 AM
4	Reminder: the stat behind "women suicide attempts are 3x mens" ignores that the vast majority of attempts are self reported and it's more likely men just don't report. Huh. That bit about the self harming being counted as an attempt os interesting. Can you point me towards a source for that? Not doubting, just want to look into it meself.	/r/MensRights	01/03/23 06:44 AM
1	Dares me to hit her No, we wouldn't suggest that she leaves for a few days while you work out your game-loss anger. We would suggest that she leaves. Full stop. Only if she absolutely refuses would we consider suggesting some sort of compromise, such as leaving the house for a few days.	/r/MensRights	09/09/22 03:01 AM
3	A call for Swiss women to do compulsory military service I dont think I would. But I seriously doubt a course on handling a gun safely will cover how to hold and aim it when trying to end yourself.	/r/MensRights	21/07/21 04:27 AM
3	A call for Swiss women to do compulsory military service I could understand easy access to guns increasing the gun suicide rate, but I don't understand how learning about gun safety does so. Most adults could probably tell you that the way a gun works is: the trigger is pulled, a bullet flies out of the gun, and if the bullet hits a person they suffer a potentially fatal injury. Don't need much of a lesson for that.	/r/MensRights	21/07/21 12:39 AM
3	A call for Swiss women to do compulsory military service Not sure I understand the link between knowledge of gun safety and gun suicide	/r/MensRights	20/07/21 10:59 PM
4	Misrepresenting men's worries about not being able to defend themselve against an abusive women into : men just want to hit women Nothing. Unless you are "defending" yourself from a woman, in which case you are a misogynistic monster who is using the complete lack of threat posed by that poor, innocent woman as an excuse to unleash your desire to harm women, just like all other men secretly want to do! /s	/r/MensRights	30/06/21 11:48 PM
7	Misrepresenting men's worries about not being able to defend themselve against an abusive women into : men just want to hit women Not at all what was said. What was claimed is that women are more likely to commit first degree (premeditated) murder which is generally considered more serious of a crime then second degree murder (which is what they claim men are more likely to commit).	/r/MensRights	30/06/21 11:43 PM
8	Misrepresenting men's worries about not being able to defend themselve against an abusive women into : men just want to hit women Then tell them to fix their own issues before they tell me to fix mine.	/r/MensRights	30/06/21 11:32 PM
5	Girl give up baby for adopotion. Everyone call her asshole There is usually a bot that makes a copy of the original text in the comments. You may need to dig around a bit to find it	/r/MensRights	28/04/21 01:29 PM
56	What Is Gaslighting and How Feminists Use It Being a feminist and being a gaslighter are not mutually exclusive	/r/MensRights	04/04/21 05:36 PM
4	Reproductive rights Women have more options than abortion. They can give the child up for adoption. If they don't want to do that (last I checked) in all 50 states there are "safe haven" laws that allow a woman to legally abandon her newborn child, which starts a process to sever all parental rights and responsibilities. It is also possible for the father to have custody of the child and the mother chooses to "ignore it and pay child support"	/r/MensRights	10/01/21 07:03 PM
1	she makes the argument that we were not there to see what really took place. so according to her argument we should stay neutral right? i stayed neutral and i still am neutral as i don’t know the full story but why are all these girls like her calling him a rapist even after he was found innocent? Innocence proves nothing, I guess	/r/MensRights	26/12/20 06:59 PM
20	How do people feel about Men's Rights? There are women who support men's rights	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/12/20 04:24 PM
11	More ignorant sexism mindlessly upvoted on feminist subreddits Honestly, I’m not sure I do see your point. Are you claiming that women are forcibly sterilized until they can prove they are ready to have kids? Or are you trying to compare “no abortions” to “forced sterilization”? In which case, I would agree that it ain’t a great example. A “role reversal” would be laws requiring men to provide for children they do not want, which currently exist.	/r/MensRights	28/10/20 08:42 PM
31	Karen’s man Yep, clearly a troll account. Even the name sounds like a troll account	/r/MensRights	16/10/20 08:52 PM
1	In a way the toxic masculinity crowd is right: men do need to express themselves more. Well that's exactly what we're doing in this sub. So are they going to listen to us, or do we need to get louder? How many therapists should I try? Keep changing until I find one that agrees with you? You forget that there are some issues that are incurable. Sometimes trauma never goes away and must be managed (you develop ways to cope with it). There are mental issues out there that cannot be talked away. Sometimes a persons brain is different and therefore they develop these non-trauma related issues that are permanent. It is not a case of being “not interested in experiencing such pain again,” it is a ca…	/r/MensRights	26/09/20 09:14 PM
1	In a way the toxic masculinity crowd is right: men do need to express themselves more. Well that's exactly what we're doing in this sub. So are they going to listen to us, or do we need to get louder? An idea that is often defined as “the simplest idea is most often correct” right? So you believe the simplest idea is that not only have I have been sabotaging attempts to fix problems by talking about them, and not that talking just isn’t an effective way of dealing with my issues? Let me see if I understand your point of view: method A has attained results from persons B, C,D, E, and F but not from person G. Rather than find a method that attains results from person G, you claim Occam’s razor …	/r/MensRights	26/09/20 12:40 PM
1	In a way the toxic masculinity crowd is right: men do need to express themselves more. Well that's exactly what we're doing in this sub. So are they going to listen to us, or do we need to get louder? Right. It must be my fault that talking doesn’t work. It can’t be that talking actually doesn’t work for me, it MUST be me unwilling to “repair the damage.” It is in no way possible that different things work for different people, no. It must be my fault.	/r/MensRights	26/09/20 04:35 AM
1	In a way the toxic masculinity crowd is right: men do need to express themselves more. Well that's exactly what we're doing in this sub. So are they going to listen to us, or do we need to get louder? Why is that important?	/r/MensRights	26/09/20 04:31 AM
2	In a way the toxic masculinity crowd is right: men do need to express themselves more. Well that's exactly what we're doing in this sub. So are they going to listen to us, or do we need to get louder? You don’t think I have? We spent several sessions talking about those events and others. It doesn’t help me. I have other ... “coping mechanisms” that I can and do use. Talking about it isn’t one of them. It does nothing to help me.	/r/MensRights	25/09/20 10:36 PM
2	In a way the toxic masculinity crowd is right: men do need to express themselves more. Well that's exactly what we're doing in this sub. So are they going to listen to us, or do we need to get louder? I was bullied for a short time. I was not molested.	/r/MensRights	25/09/20 10:14 PM
1	In a way the toxic masculinity crowd is right: men do need to express themselves more. Well that's exactly what we're doing in this sub. So are they going to listen to us, or do we need to get louder? No, it wasn’t because of a woman, believe it or not.	/r/MensRights	25/09/20 10:13 PM
2	In a way the toxic masculinity crowd is right: men do need to express themselves more. Well that's exactly what we're doing in this sub. So are they going to listen to us, or do we need to get louder? Some things have happened when I was young that have affected me for a good part of my life. That’s all I’m willing to say.	/r/MensRights	25/09/20 09:52 PM
3	In a way the toxic masculinity crowd is right: men do need to express themselves more. Well that's exactly what we're doing in this sub. So are they going to listen to us, or do we need to get louder? It doesn’t help me. I’ve been to a therapist, and talking it out didn’t help me with my issues.	/r/MensRights	25/09/20 08:45 PM
11	DNC speaker Donna Hylton introduced as “impactful community leader” convicted of torture, rape, murder of man in 1986. Squeezed testicles with pliers. Raped her victim with a three foot metal rod. “He was a homo anyway...When I stuck the bar up his rectum he wiggled.” Released on parole in 2012. It is not the same as saying “all men do this” unless you are trying to imply that “feminist” is just a synonym for “woman”. A better comparison would be “All MRAs do this” in which case if I disagreed I would try to show you a case of a prominent MRA that did not do that. Can you do so for feminism? I do agree that we shouldn’t apply blanket statements to genders, but I disagree when it comes to movements and organizations, especially when that movement/organization has shown that the blanket s…	/r/MensRights	22/08/20 09:46 PM
21	Feminism Stops When men are sexually objectified. Is he being sexually objectified here? Or is the intention to show another side (nerdy) to someone who might be seen as the stereotypical strong guy?	/r/FeminismStopsWhen	16/07/20 10:16 PM
2	If You Can’t Feed Em Don’t Breed Em! Don’t fuck a man who doesn’t want children/won’t stay with you if you can’t handle the consequences. Same argument directed at the opposite sex, with one teensy weensy difference: women DON’T need to suffer the consequences. They have options before, during, and after the pregnancy. Men only have options before.	/r/MensRights	08/07/20 10:49 PM
5	If You Can’t Feed Em Don’t Breed Em! Right, because we all know that condoms work 100% of the time with no exceptions	/r/MensRights	08/07/20 01:12 PM
4	Do i need to say anything? I “love” how people in the main post are automatically assuming it was satirical, after all no real feminist would ever say anything like that! /s, of course	/r/MensRights	28/06/20 10:54 PM
1	Another AITA post full of love for a working male parent Honestly, I kinda agree with the judgement. I’m sure the man works hard and definitely deserves some relaxation time, but I also don’t think that response being to an eight year old who just lost his dog with a “you’re on your own” isn’t the right thing to do. In that situation the lad needed his father to be there to help him. I really don’t think that moment was the right time to try to teach him about consequences and responsibility. Will say that I don’t think throwing out the Xbox was the r…	/r/MensRights	22/04/20 10:51 PM
2	Men should be trained for marriage! A female colleagues' FB post. Do you have any sources on this? I’d like to have a few links to point to for when Inevitably have to use this in an argument a discussion.	/r/MensRights	30/09/19 08:18 PM
33	This mind set has overtaken innocent until proven guilty. Men are usually perceived as immediately guilty now. Exactly. It’s the witch trials all over again. There were never witches in Salem, but innocent women were being executed purely because of accusations. Nowadays, innocent men are being labeled as rapists purely because of accusations.	/r/MensRights	16/09/19 09:24 PM
3	This is true of mensrights as well as conservatives First half of the pic showed two strong (and IMO completely badass) female characters, so definitely not. The issue i personally have is when a male character is recreated as a female character purely for the sake of having a female character, or the story is significantly changed to make that female character seem strong purely for the sake of making that female character seem strong.	/r/MensRights	09/08/19 03:34 AM
19	Not mine but thought it belong here.. Hey, to wear the kilt is his delight. It isn’t wrong, he knows it’s right!	/r/MensRights	20/06/19 05:19 PM
12	Is this not just straight up Jim crow level stuff? Separate it equal BS? I would also sleep better knowing my brother/son/friend/whatever was safe, should we add men only cabins?	/r/MensRights	29/05/19 12:26 PM
1	Rules only become an issue when its a guy that has them. Can you give us a few examples of those non-racist reasons you believe exist?	/r/MensRights	10/04/19 04:22 PM
2	You can only follow a woman and she must be of color. Are you following them because they are men? Or because they are people worth following who just happen to be men? The former is sexist. The latter is just fine.	/r/MensRights	14/02/19 04:31 AM
569	You can only follow a woman and she must be of color. If you’re in a movement based on the leaders sex and/or skin colour, you’re in the wrong movement.	/r/MensRights	13/02/19 10:48 PM
2	Feminist journalists describe... their preferred "perfect" Disney dicks. Imagine the outrage if genders reversed Groomed, eh?	/r/MensRights	28/01/19 07:42 PM
16	As a feminist that also cares about men's rights, this comment resonated with me. Why not? Why can’t a movement that is meant to be for equality (as many feminists like to claim) actually work for equality?	/r/MensRights	08/01/19 05:31 AM
11	As a feminist that also cares about men's rights, this comment resonated with me. ... and are so misinformed and ignorant about what feminism is. I agree entirely. Many people definitely don’t understand what feminism actually is. They for some reason think that feminists actually care about equality, the poor, ignorant fools.	/r/MensRights	08/01/19 05:28 AM
5	Getting grabbed at parties and made fun of when when I think it’s not ok. It is one thing for someone to lay their hand on your shoulder. It is another for someone to walk up to you and try to grab your dick or ass. That is sexual assault, and it should not be ignored or laughed at because the victim is male!	/r/MensRights	02/01/19 05:51 PM
4	Modern Feminism vs Nazi Germany What I’ve heard is that everything before the “but” is irrelevant and may as well have never been said.	/r/MensRights	01/01/19 02:31 AM
3	If you don't want to be falsely accused, then just don't rape anyone - feminists Well, there was that “scary time” song which basically said that in one of the early verses	/r/MensRights	19/10/18 04:36 PM
3	I am woman and I am offended by this #metoo & Believe the woman campaign. What do you say ? Also posted this on /askfeminists . I wanted to see mensrights perspective too Have you thought about posting this to r/FeMRADebates ? Might get a few more opinions there	/r/MensRights	15/10/18 07:07 PM
10	She's so terrible for believing that you need proof before you incarcerate someone An accuser shouldn’t need to prove they were assaulted for the accuser to suffer the stigma, but they should have evidence? Can I ask what type of evidence you would deem good enough for that sort of situation?	/r/MensRights	10/10/18 08:19 PM
4	Why do women always get the kids? So if, as you claim, the only reason men don’t get custody is because they don’t ask for it, I have a question for you: Why do they need to ask? Why isn’t equal custody the default? Why is it that of a man doesn’t ask for custody the assumption is that he doesn’t want the child?	/r/MensRights	15/09/18 12:18 PM
6	This rhyme pisses me off but r/wholesomememes fixed it Growing up, I’d hear the two swapped around depending on who was telling it; boys would say “boys go to ____ to get more ___ girls go to Jupiter to get more stupider” and girls would say it the other way around. -I used blanks because I would hear a few different things for the first part (mars for cars, for example, or Venus for genius) in the rhyme	/r/MensRights	09/09/18 05:28 AM
3	This is wrong. I'm all for women on Company Board as long as they earn it. Making it mandatory is a disservice to all those women who work hard to get where they are. You mean women trying to obtain the rights to vote without the responsibilities that came from it (the draft)? You mean the movement that some women were against because they were worried it would mean that women would be required to sign up for the draft?	/r/MensRights	03/09/18 12:10 AM
3	This is wrong. I'm all for women on Company Board as long as they earn it. Making it mandatory is a disservice to all those women who work hard to get where they are. Translation: I mistakenly believe I have a point, however when challenged am unable to support it.	/r/MensRights	02/09/18 10:20 PM
2	Have you ever been discriminated because you are male? Perhaps this is minor, but at my workplace I hear some of the women saying how they will get “one of the guys” to help carry something, or put something back on a shelf that needs a ladder to be reached (heard that one just last week). And it is usually the woman volunteering us guys to do it, instead of us volunteering ourselves.	/r/MensRights	17/06/18 05:10 PM
3	Someone just posted this on FB, what's a polite response? “Wow. I had no idea that women got so angry about football. It’s just a game, ladies, you don’t need to beat your husbands when your team loses.”	/r/MensRights	17/06/18 05:07 PM
3	Statistics on single mothers and single fathers Oh, so you have data that supports a worsening trend? Great! Post a link.	/r/MensRights	04/06/18 05:04 PM
8	School bans teen boys from wearing shorts in the summer — but skirts can be worn under its new 'gender-neutral' uniform policy Perhaps not direct discrimination. But you cannot deny that it affects the boys more than the girls. The girls have the option of wearing an article of clothing they likely already own, is considered culturally acceptable for them to wear, and is extremely unlikely to receive a negative reaction from people who see them wearing it. They also lose the option of wearing an article of clothing they likely already own, is considered culturally acceptable for them to wear, and is extremely unlikely t…	/r/MensRights	04/06/18 11:18 AM
12	Where are the protest rallies for men falsely accused of rape? Where are the hashtags I stand with him? So what is the evidence that convinced you those men did rape that women? The courts seem convinced they were innocent, why are you convinced they are guilty?	/r/MensRights	30/03/18 12:22 PM
16	Bill Burr - "White men privilege" doesn't exist Huh, I didn’t know “white men” were no longer considered men.	/r/MensRights	27/03/18 11:30 PM
2	I thought Feminism was about not making gross generalizations based on gender I can’t speak for the rest of people, but I personally refuse to use their names unless necessary (and would like to have their names stricken from history [not so much their names cannot be found, more so that people just don’t mention their names]) to avoid giving those psychopaths any glory.	/r/MensRights	23/03/18 06:55 PM
2	Is it not possible for young boys aswell or do they not get attacked? /s How else do you get to truly know someone?	/r/MensRights	14/03/18 08:23 PM
9	As a female, how can I advocate for the rights of men and boys? This is the part where we ask to be shown evidence that OP has been here before	/r/MensRights	13/03/18 09:34 PM
2	[Cross-post r/askfeminists] Am I encouraged to be both a Feminist and an MRA? I’m out of the loop, what’s the issue with the menslib sub?	/r/MensRights	13/03/18 03:05 PM