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ThrashMetalHead69/r/Divorce_Men12/11/23 11:21 PM
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Thank you for explaining that to me. I really appreciate all the advice. These are the things that I wanted to learn more about going in. I'm also glad you realized I work non-standaed hours lol.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 10:28 AM
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You're right, I need to go in with a mindset of "I'm an employer" and not "I'm a victim." What are some questions I should be asking? I have a lot to write down. I'm at work rn but it's my Friday so I'mma have a busy weekend. Thanks for this advice as far as how to vet a lawyer. 🙏
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 10:11 AM
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I'm not worried about that at all, I've come to terms with it. I'm just tired of seeing him there if this is a home for the kids and me to be in. Like go and start your own life somewhere else with her if you love her so much. They're so shameless, that bothers me. With that said, I can't wait till this is all over and I don't have to deal with her on a personal level anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 06:28 AM
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I love my kids and I love being a dad. 1 thing I learned about myself is that I am able to parent on my own. I don't need her for anything, just hope she gets her shit together but I can't worry about that. I gotta keep moving forward. And I'll take that advice of starting to communicate through text. I can see the good reason for that.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 05:33 AM
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Lacking all the details to give you the right suggestions. I'd be willing to answer any question you have as honest I as can be if you're willing to guide me in the right direction. I'll DM you but no pressure. My brother had a lawyer that basically just took his money and didn't help him really with his situation, so that's where my skepticism on lawyers comes from. But it looks like I gotta do my research and my due diligence to find the right one judging from everyone's suggestions here.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 05:30 AM
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That's a crazy story bro! Thanks for sharing, I'm glad I shared too. Makes me feel way less alone in my situation. Good luck to you!
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 05:24 AM
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Thanks for sharing bro! I'm managing pretty well. I've actually known my marriage has been over for awhile. Her getting pregnant just made it real. Before she got pregnant, in a way I thought maybe we could work something out. I hate myself for waiting so long to start getting this process started. I just gotta keep moving forward. Thanks 🙏
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 03:21 AM
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Understood, thank you 🙏
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 02:19 AM
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Understood. Thank you for the feedback 🙏
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 02:18 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 02:15 AM
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No offense at all! I know they don't know anything about law and they probably know that they don't know lol. Which is why they keep directing me to talk to some legal body. Thats the reason I came here for advice on where to start. I'm grateful for all the feedback so far 🙏.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 02:15 AM
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I did put love, good catch. I fixed it.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 01:44 AM
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Is it okay to ask how old you are? I'm 31 and barely realizing I ignored a lot of helpful advice.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 01:35 AM
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Is there a particular reason you're saying not to talk to family? We don't have mutual friends at this point so I'm not worried about that part.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 01:25 AM
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Thanks, I know it seems dumb to ask. I can't tell you how many people in the past month have told me paralegal, therapist, lawyer, judge???? My heads all over the place.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 01:07 AM
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I was told by a family member that I won't be able to finalize a divorce until the child is born. I was also told they consider whoever signs the birth certificate to be the legal guardians. But I gotta seek legal help as you've mentioned. I'm embarrassed posting this publicly. My hope is I'd get brutal feedback on Reddit and that would light fire under my ass to start somewhere. I don't have family and friends that are brutally honest. I can feel it.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 12:55 AM
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I've come to terms with that. I'm late, I know, but at this point I'm trying to move forward with however I need to for the well being of me and my kids.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 12:23 AM
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The thought of the other kids not being mine is inconceivable to me. But I can see where you're coming from. If she's willing to do all this. I will seek a lawyer then.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 12:14 AM
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I know it's hard to believe but this is my life rn.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 12:12 AM
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I'm happy to read a case where the more responsible adult gets more custody. I'm barely going to start going through mine. I just don't know where to even start.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/23 10:46 PM
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