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| 4 | Never Ask A Woman To Be Your GirlfriendI ask for exclusivity from time to time, but more specifically i pressure relationships when they seem mixed I have good results Many fold and leave as soon as i put pressure. Thats fine with me im in my 30s. Some step up to make things work. It is a good way to filter who is really into you | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/24 06:24 AM |
| 2 | Negging is DumbI think you're correct that it's wrong. I think maybe 1/10 or 1/20 might be "...okay..." with it And the other 90-95% would be like "f*** you" Your "right" statement on the other hand, I think is the opposite, 90-95% are going to take that well if they're into you | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/24 01:29 AM |
| 0 | What do you do before making a woman your girlfriend?This is probably a perspective that's not common on here but I enjoy it You can just talk to her and set expectations. If you really want to be serious then ask her if she does as well and then focus on each other. Or if you both want to collect and select and fool around talk about that. Or if you disagree then discuss a potential timeline and/or decide if the relationship is appropriate for your goals. Like if I were very serioud about settling down and marriage obviously partners looking to d… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/23 02:54 AM |
| 9 | THIS IS THE WAY to Text Girls on Tinder, Hinge or Bumble (Full Example + Breakdown)Interest is a resource that diminishes if not capitalized on you're correct about this I always think about that movie, ABC: Always Be Closing | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/23 02:06 AM |
| 7 | Establishing boundaries. Are they reasonable?"The picture is part of the strategy (fitness group that she’s a part of to get the fitness group new clients (not her personally)). I understand how you feel, but this is non-negotiable. We need to trust and accept each other" This had me dead lmao I love u for that edit | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/23 10:52 AM |
| 4 | Establishing boundaries. Are they reasonable?Yeah I mean I tend to kind of consider a lot of recommendations here and the whole "plate" thing as toxic concepts that I'm not all that into but i agree this guy doesn't have her respect if this stuff is going on | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/23 10:50 AM |
| 3 | [40M][30F] Silence in Long-Distance Relationship After She went out. Advice?Brother I think you might have overreacted lol I mean she went out with her girls, and some guys arrived. It would be incredibly unnatural for her to stand up and say "whoa whoa, I can't be in the presence of any men under any circumstances without my boyfriend's permission. Good day ladies!" and leave I did LDR, it was really really hard, it didn't work out. But I still support them. I think if you really love each other and aren't looking for something better, there are ways to make it work. B… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/23 12:57 AM |
| 3 | should I tell my father about the redpillmy last 2 dates were both taller than me and very okay with it and I'm very like - I don't want to ask "are you sure?" - I just kinda I'm like "I dont know man it's weird she doesn't seem to care." Definitely wasn't my experience before. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/23 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Stop going for girls you do not like, it will never improve your game.I haevn't been back to the US in a while but literally all my friends say the same thing telling me "you're gonna shocked when u get back here and look around" I'm like, you know, I might just pass on that altogether but thank you for the headsup | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/23 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Stop going for girls you do not like, it will never improve your game.I actually disagree with you just because I was with a girl below my standards once, and it actually taught me a ton because I was like "oh, this is how girls who are actually interested in you act. Now I realize how dumb I looked getting strung along by girls playing games" | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/23 01:25 AM |
| 2 | If The Girls In Your Friend Group Have Zero Sexual Interest In You, It's Time To Move OnI remember them lecturing me like "you don't come into our police station and rush US while we do OUR business." I was just thinking like "you f***ing tw*t I asked you at 4pm if we had time for this and offered to come back tomorrow if i needed to, you assured me it was fine, do your own commitments/word mean nothing to you, you embarrassing joke." But I just didn't say anything at all other than "alright" because I can just imagine if I talked back to him them being like "let's teach this guy a… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/23 05:43 AM |
| 19 | Had 8 year long redpill relationship with highschool sweetheart. Maintained frame like a boss until I didn't. Would like to know your thoughts.Bruh your relationship is 8yrs that's deep stuff If she says she wants to stay in the relationship with you just enjoy it, ficus in building yourself the way you wabt, and enjoying time together Dont worry about this broke frame once and cried in front of her stuff we sre all human. Everyone wants a relationship like what you have, no one wabts to be stuck in this hookup culture stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/23 02:34 PM |
| 1 | If The Girls In Your Friend Group Have Zero Sexual Interest In You, It's Time To Move OnMaybe hahaha I'm not saying you're wrong Just sounds like a really toxic relationship to me. Maybe one day it'll happen to me and I'll be like "yeah that wasn't so fun after all" Idk. I don't see myself sleeping with my close girl friends I would find a date on bumble/tinder or the bar instead if i needed or some girl who's not a close friend. But i can imagine girls that i would sleep with in that situation even if we did develop our friendship more between now and then. I'm just saying man if … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/23 06:36 AM |
| 1 | If The Girls In Your Friend Group Have Zero Sexual Interest In You, It's Time To Move OnI've never run into that issue I guess. Usually when I date someone, if we actually really like each other then we spend so much time together it would be difficult for either of us to cheat and if we're not spending that much time together then I'm not all that serious about it so I literally don't even think about/care what she's doing I feel like my perspective would be something like if the relationship came down to THAT being an issue, I see your logic and the problem, I would think the rea… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/23 10:33 PM |
| 1 | If The Girls In Your Friend Group Have Zero Sexual Interest In You, It's Time To Move Onthe majority of my close friends are girls the only real downside is that if they get a boyfriend it would questionable if they come over and just hangout at my place. but you can still talk on social media or go coffee whatever if you need to talk at that point | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/23 03:26 AM |
| 6 | If The Girls In Your Friend Group Have Zero Sexual Interest In You, It's Time To Move OnI only ever experienced the crabs in a bucket mentality once in my life, it was in the Philippines I was trying to submit a police report, and basically it was like 4pm and i was like "hey do we have time to do this? because I have a really important client at 8pm I need to be at work in time for, I can come back tomorrow if I need to" and they all assured me no problem we'll be done quick, then started being like (at like 8:30PM mind you) "Sir, you don't come in here to our police station and r… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/23 12:44 PM |
| 5 | If The Girls In Your Friend Group Have Zero Sexual Interest In You, It's Time To Move Onmy dates always like my girl best friend they usually become friends | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/23 12:38 PM |
| 48 | If The Girls In Your Friend Group Have Zero Sexual Interest In You, It's Time To Move OnWhat in the sweet lord's name did i just read Girls like it when you have close friends who are girls lol | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/23 05:08 AM |
| 2 | The gym is a waste of time.Title: The gym is a waste of time Body: The gym is not a waste of time | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/23 01:55 AM |
| -4 | The first rule about power is you do not talk about powerI mean people hire me for help with language/verbal reasoning exams liek GRE/GMAT/LSAT to get into Harvard I definitely read things very carefully It still sounds like you looked at this and were like "ah yes he's simply laying down the law and showing his wife who the alpha is but people misunderstood it as abuse" I think a better way to have stated it, instead of trying, would have been "an extremely misguided/perverse/corrupted attempt at" and then you could go on to explain all the ways that… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/23 12:07 AM |
| 2 | The first rule about power is you do not talk about power"To me, it was clear that Steven Crowder was trying to implement “red pill” principles in his marriage" Dude what the fuck You have lost it if you think Crowder was anything other than out of fucking touch with reality. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/23 02:28 PM |
| 1 | My last 4 dates were basically identical.It sounds like you're projecting a business-like mood onto the dates and that's why they're acting business-like I had that problem before when I left college because I was used to very business-like interactions in lab, like we didn't small talk that wastes time, we only asked questions that we needed answers to. But, on a date, wasting time enjoying each other is kind of the point. So maybe try to relax a bit. I can say though that we've all had those dates where the girl shows up and is super… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/23 04:23 AM |
| 2 | "So Whaddya Do?"This was a good post, "Wow! That sounds incredible, what do you like about doing that?" I really like this line. I think you've given me something today. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/23 03:02 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Your boy "social retard" forgot to isolate and close at the dance floor even though he was the one being approached.I'm saying that like normal people go to the club and meet people, and if you're having a good vibe it's totally normal to invite someone back to your place It's not like a forbidden or illegal thing you gotta use a magic trick excuse to isolate for. They're there to meet someone too and if they like you then there's a good chance they might be interested in going back to your place, especially if you've been drinking together all night, if you just met then you might just ask for their IG and h… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/23 09:19 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Your boy "social retard" forgot to isolate and close at the dance floor even though he was the one being approached.Uh i would've just asked if she wanted to go back to my place or for her ig Doesbt have to be super complicated | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/23 08:16 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Your boy "social retard" forgot to isolate and close at the dance floor even though he was the one being approached.Reading this stuff reminds me of when I was a teenager and never talked to girls before lol, it's really cute though I like story I can tell you had a great time. There's nothing like going to the club and meeting a pretty girl and dancing with her congratulations on the good time If you really want to isolate and close bro maybe just ask her if she'd like to go back to your place, have something interesting at home that you can tell her you want to show her. That shouldn't be too hard if you ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/23 02:50 AM |
| 5 | I got ghosted after the second date at my place and I would like feedback.ur problem is that you're not confident that she likes you for you, so you tried to make the date about this weird workout thing. You're on a date and it's not a gym date. Make the date about you, not about something that you think she'd find interesting (the gym). I know most dating gurus say to make the date fun and interesting but I think a boring date where you just get to know each other is 1,000,000x better for first 1-2 dates. I mean I met a girl and we friendzoned each other right away a… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/23 06:07 AM |
| 0 | Women and the trap of "oPeN cOmMuNiCaTiOn"I feel sorry for the people buying into this notion that you can't openly communicate and be emotionally vulnerable with your partner Guys. Open communication is not a trap, it's what 2 mature people coming together to make a relationship work do. The issues in your relationship are not due to healthy communication | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/23 02:05 PM |
| 25 | Encounter with a white knightSome people are just like that. I mean, even if you socially fumbled and made a very inappropriate joke, it's normal. Everyone's told a bad joke before. Making a huge deal out of it is as inappropriate as the joke imo. I tend to view harsh criticisms of socially inept behavior as the #1 behavior I try to say something about as opposed to letting slide. Being mad about a joke 6 mos later is a good example. But idk maybe try apologizing if u haven't. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/23 03:03 AM |
| 3 | Building Rapport is BullshitI would be willing to bet money that she has never gone out in her PJs like that before or since it was basically just an insult to my face. I'm telling you I knew her well enough to know she was not that type. She just had absolutely no real interest in me whatsoever but, for some reason, thought it was okay to schedule a date with me knowing my commute was like 2-4 hours. I was going to a medical school in the province and I'd commute to the city for our date on weekends. This was an epic-leve… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/22 09:15 AM |
| 8 | Building Rapport is BullshitI think she was just like hung over, barely rolled out of bed and made it to the date. Honestly i'd be fine if a girl who was actually interested in me showed up looking like that, I don't care, but I definitely saw that for what it was. I'm not really a redpiller in all honesty, I've only ever read a handful of posts. But I definitely agree with most of what I see. My conclusion with that girl when she showed up obviously not caring how she looked was like "wow okay, there are really people out… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/22 04:37 AM |
| 8 | Building Rapport is BullshitThere might be some truth to saying that you can be too bold, But honestly I think it's just fine especially if they're kind of fucking with you then it's like look bitch are we doing this or not. One of those things where you consider getting unmatched a positive outcome. I used to be ultra chill; and being a wealthy, white doctor who would legitimate invest a lot of effort and patience into someone, it led to several women who loved the attention/the idea of a doctor traveling for them but wer… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/22 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Asexuality is the way to goOne thing I would tell you bro is you should maybe think of things slightly differently in terms of self worth. You mention like "even aftyer you have accomplished things, good job, nice house, car, etc." the reality is that no one REALLY cares about that stuff. I mean, they do - they're all great bonuses, but if you focus on that stuff as being like the main course ur setting urself up to be very frustrated. I think that's where "major disadvantage 9.999 times out of 10" comes from. Just like b… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/22 03:33 AM |
| 4 | How to succeed with women. The complete guide.As far as the vast majority of women who are into the like real hardcore dark kinky stuff are concerned he's unimpeachably correct. Like there was an AMA recently by a girl who had genital surgery as a baby which got infected and required radical resection so now it's a major sexual issue for her and now she writes genital mutilation erotica. Like that's definitely not a coincidence. as far women with like forced in bed / rough sex fantasies that's definitely normal in totally untraumatized peop… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/22 12:04 PM |
| 2 | People are missing what Jada did, except maybe Denzel saw it for what it was.I mean I think this is all kind of speculative but it's a super compelling theory, like I'm sure it's one of a few totally possible things going on but totally plausible I definitely know what it feels like to be disrespected and thankfully I've always been able to just walk away from the situation. But I can't imagine being in love and married to someone with kids and then being hit with that disrespect. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/22 03:12 AM |
| 3 | People are missing what Jada did, except maybe Denzel saw it for what it was.Man I've never been in this situation but I felt this video so hard Like 1,000,000% | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/22 01:24 AM |
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