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ThreeArmedYeti/r/ExRedPill10/01/21 08:50 AM
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ThreeArmedYeti/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 04:41 AM
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You used the which is your fav dinosaur opener aren't you?
/r/seduction17/11/25 11:55 AM
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"Those who try to shame us and scare us by comparing the natural social interaction between heterosexuals to criminal acts?" What? Did you try hitting on a minor or rape somebody?
/r/seduction30/10/25 01:10 PM
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Boo was great when it launched. It had a pretty fair bonus system which rewarded interactions on the social tab or writing on someone. Basically if you were active on the social tab you could get rewarded with extra swipes, writing on someone without match or profile boosts. It was my main dating app two years ago and it was great. Until someone said we have to make it a cashgrab. Now it's a ghost town. All you can do with your points is have five extra swipes each level and a worthless medal on…
/r/seduction15/10/25 06:03 PM
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Both wrong. How the hell would 5m or even 10k followers mean high status when clowns and meme machines easily get that number? If you want to stand out with something it should be the content down there, not the counter on top.
/r/seduction03/10/25 03:58 AM
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Well it depends on what caused the breakup. Would you mind sharing it?
/r/seduction28/09/25 05:26 PM
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I don't like this. Tried similar stuff but it made convos dry out soon and lead me tonget rejected. Not instantly but soon. I'd rather respond something like "but you are still here". This can result either an instant reject (which is better than a delayed one) or she doubling down on staying. I'm into older women so I often get the "don't you think you are a bit too young for me" question.
/r/seduction28/09/25 05:24 PM
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It does not. But wouldn't you want to be free of the thoughts about her consuming you? I don't know what went wrong between you two but I'm pretty sure if you chase her she won't come back.
/r/seduction28/09/25 05:12 PM
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This is a good advice. Lot of guys having a fear of women, they treat them like they are a completely different species just because they get nerveous around them. If you befriend women you will find it much easier to approach others.
/r/seduction26/09/25 02:31 PM
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I think you are missed my point by a mile. I never said the issue was the lack of knowledge on mentioned. You bring up dancing so let me keep this analogy. You can do some basic dancing, but you want to dominate the dancefloor. What you take? You are right: extra lessons. Not learning how to walk. And if you signed up for extra lessons you expect extra lessons. Not to completely rewire your brain so you can't move again without proper instructions and choreography.
/r/seduction15/09/25 06:40 PM
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I was hooked on some in my teenage years but they made things even worse for me. What I noticed: -Instead of using your good skills as a base, all courses were about deconstructing your personality by making you feel like a failure and constructing a new one. No matter if it fits you or not. -Half of the stuff I got was self-promotion with the author's books and other courses. What it done to me: -Pretty much ruined my social life by making me overanalyze stuff. -I started to be afraid of groups…
/r/seduction14/09/25 07:43 PM
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Well since that section was about chat etiquette consider it as my chat game. I do it before first dates. Usually I start it as something innocent for example asking for her height. She tells hers, I tell mine then after her response I add something unusual as "you can stand on my shoes to shorten the difference" or " I would rearrange your stuff onto the top shelf". If the response is positive and playful, that's a green light inviting me to continue with the situation. If negative, you can bac…
/r/seduction11/09/25 08:05 PM
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Some girls don't want to be approached. Ofc you can and turn it into a date but that stuff needs good skills. If she doesn't show interest, it's time to leave unless you are sure you can spark attraction on her. It depends. If she's into you she will accept the date but option 2 is a safe play. I would recommend that as well since you were told you are needy. Treat it like a normal conversation and I mean the pacing, not the tone. If you have stuff to do, pioritize that, not the girl. Your homie…
/r/seduction11/09/25 06:34 PM
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You already made up your mind right? That's why you are sticking with the "I'm just ugly" narrative. However it's easy to debunk your second paragraph. There are couples out there who were in each others life without attraction. Think about coworkers. They literally were in a professional relation to each other: small talks in the elevator, work related convos etc. And suddenly you see them leaving hand in hand. Or even a better example: when couples started as friends. They went on for months o…
/r/seduction11/09/25 05:54 PM
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Not neccessarily. They agreed on a date with you right? That means until the date they found you attractive. If you didn't catfish them with older pictures I would say something on the date went wrong. My best quess is you didn't build sexual tension.
/r/seduction10/09/25 07:07 PM
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You can interpret it as sexual connection.
/r/seduction10/09/25 06:55 PM
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Well you better prepare yourself for failure if you go this way. As you said she is flirty with everyone. This means you are not special to her, just another customer. Your tactic is not bad at all but it's situational and has one requirement: the girl should like you at least. What I would recommend is flirt back initially, have a little chat and change character midways. This sparks a bit of mistery around you what she might or might not want to find out. Focus on chemistry and banter!
/r/seduction10/09/25 06:40 PM
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You are participating in this sub as well so...
/r/seduction10/09/25 06:30 PM
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What I suspect is you don't build tension. You might be a good partner to talk to, you might be a good man but if my suspection is correct, you approach in a friendly way. It's not bad but if you want to get somebody into your bed, you need something on top because if you are approaching in a friendly and gentlemanly way women will consider you as a friend, not a potential partner. As your next step I recommend looking for opportunities for a light banter with your next approach. It's a basic st…
/r/seduction09/09/25 08:32 PM
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Also don't mix the metals! If your main accessory is silver, make sure your others (if you have any other) are silver coloured too.
/r/seduction09/09/25 07:10 PM
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It's fine how you described it. Take attention to details and make sure you clean your shoes spotless! A lot of women are checking it. Btw don't bother with the NPC comments. You don't need to dress up like a clown for some attention.
/r/seduction09/09/25 07:08 PM
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Eat a few spoons of honey in the morning and drink ginger tea + ginseng food suppliment. I don't have a high sex drive but it did things in my pants under my work desk few times.
/r/seduction09/09/25 06:59 PM
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If you are emotionally intelligent, yes. Women 35+ are drawn to that and naturally good personal connection. I noticed how women are drawn to men who have something unique. Girls in their early 20's? It's rare for them to see financially stable guys in their age range but what about someone emotionally intelligent? They meet tons of guys who are but can't offer anything special besides that. Women over 30 are the exact opposite: they get hit on by -managers and guys in high position who can't ho…
/r/seduction07/09/25 07:04 PM
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Best PUA? This question is like asking which is the best car. You could say Porsche 911 or Bugatti Chiron but they can't do offroad neither haul your family of 5 for a shopping trip. You could choose a different car such as a Suzuki Vitara witch can do the later but can it go fast? Best teacher: your womanizer friend. Why? A lot of PUA instructors fall into the category of reinventing the wheel. Even if you have a strong core and you want to be just a bit better in the game the average PUA instr…
/r/seduction27/08/25 01:09 PM
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As always: depends on the partner. I've met women who appreciated me being open to these kind of deep talks and liked how I'm not trying to hide my sensitive self. Others shunned me for talking about it like how she hates men who complain about stuff. With some I didn't even feel comfortable sharing anything about it while a handful thought about it like a puzzle they want to solve and found my bipolar mood swings hot. Anyways I think the best possible time is when you two built a trust and the …
/r/seduction21/08/25 11:55 AM
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Get your priorites straight! What do you want in your life? Getting laid a lot or having a long term partner?
/r/seduction17/08/25 07:25 PM
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Sorry I'm not into cuckolding. Maybe I'll read some messages if he shows them for confirmation but being a third wheel just to confirm my bro pulled someone from IG is just weird
/r/seduction10/08/25 10:06 AM
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Yes. I would say it's even better than Tinder. The friend recommendation function is amazing. Some women are just downloading Tinder and if they feel a bit down they just check how many likes they got and maybe respond to a few DMs but Insta is different. Same platform they talk to their friends in their 20's so they will definiately check the mails. My advice would be to use cold approach as default. Respond to the girl's story might be a good starting point. And even if you can't write anythin…
/r/seduction10/08/25 10:05 AM
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I wouldn't. It might be good at texting but when you are on a date you can't pull your phone out to ask the AI what to do. Also there could be a big difference between your in-text and real life personality setting up a dissonance in her.
/r/seduction31/07/25 08:20 PM
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The woman you are with has free will. She can decide who she wants to be with and she choose you, not the simp. Maybe a creative line bouncing him off would do the job and if he insists on fighting for the woman he already lost just tell him to fuck off. You already made a connection to that girl, she will feel that too. But a "friend until she lets me bang" type of guy will distrupt that energy especially if he gets angry over her flirting with someone else than him. Don't even get bothered by …
/r/seduction31/07/25 07:49 PM
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The Tea app is problematic for other reasons, alerting about rapists is not one of them.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/25 08:17 PM
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My advice would be to befriend women. Seriously. Making friends from the opposite gender will make you understand different viewpoints in the dating world. And if you made some friends ask them about their dating experiences! I don't say this will instantly purify you from the redpill since I know some women who perfectly fit their stereotypes, one is getting attracted to millionaires and successful businessmen with a muscular figure, I even had dates where it ended with some deep talks about do…
/r/ExRedPill28/07/25 07:36 PM
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It's actually a double standard. Black dude dating white woman is wrong because the big rooster stereotype and how women will all search for xxl dingdongs afterwards... ...but incels going to SEA to take advantage of girls who would be considered minors here is totally fine (according to them)
/r/ExRedPill28/07/25 04:46 PM
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My thought is "what the hell is this data?" But seriously. Where is this coming from? I get that it's from Tinder statistics but Tinder is an already manipulated pool so the stats won't follow reality. What do I mean? When you register, you get 1 day of normal visibility. Based on how many right swipes you got the algorythm sorts you. If you got only a few you will be on the bottom of the list. So when someone arrives to your profile they already went throught most of the exceptionally well look…
/r/ExRedPill21/07/25 07:43 PM
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There is a big difference between dating advices and full on dating courses. Seeing your question you probably want more than a few advices. You probably want someone to review your dates and point out the mistakes you made. But here's an advice: Dating depends on two and even if you fix your game based on your past dates, it's not coming with a guarantee. There is a high chance your next date won't like the person you are trying to show yourself as. There is no better way but to be analytical. …
/r/ExRedPill11/07/25 07:54 PM
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Redpill made me struggle with forming bonds naturally.
/r/ExRedPill11/05/25 05:01 AM
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That's probably coming from the coaches. How else could you sell a full educational package and hook on unsuspecting guys? They don't have that many strategies, they are just naming the same thing multiple times to make others believe they know stuff.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/25 01:47 PM
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Because a part of them never got past the teenage years. No doubt teens are the biggest horndogs when they discover what their private parts can do. It's not a nice memory but I remember how we was when we were as 12-13 years old. We pretended to be experts on the topic while still being virgins. Same as incels. We looked at the topic of sexuality as something magnificent, something leading to a way better life, i could call that "ascending". Same way as incels. We watched TV shows with sexual u…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/25 09:37 PM
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No, they don't believe in such. As I seen the manosphere, they are sick of providing, caring and leading the family. They don't want to anymore. However they expect women to be dependable of them and to fit into the traditional stereotype of housewives.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/25 06:39 AM
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Biggest mistake I ever did.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/25 10:47 PM
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Congratulations! You just met PUA at it's finest where burned out bald men play pretend they are coaches. However I seen worse. From the memeable "how a real man walks" videos to such advices as getting acceas to her mp3 player (it was way back then) and record subliminal messages where you are saying stuff as I want to have sex with <name> and mix it with the songs she often listens to.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/25 10:40 PM
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She liked to hang out with me before the PUA as a friend. During the PUA period these hangouts were cringe. We never talked about it but she changed schools and even if she wanted to meet initially I can tell (I can tell now, couldn't tell back then) she was annoyed with my changes. For example she hates random touching and since my PUA instructor told me touching is a way to make someone to like me instantly I touched her hand randomly in a cringe way and she even called me out for it. Also the…
/r/ExRedPill10/04/25 04:42 AM
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Got into redpill as a teen with the PUA stuff. I just had a crush and I wanted her to like me. I saw an ad which promised me better results at the dating life. Long story short I fell deep in that rabbit hole. What I have become is a wannabe manipulator. I couldn't create natural human connections anymore because I was so focused on how to look like an alpha male. In a new group I measured everyone. I set men in 4 categories. If someone was way below my league, I never even talked to him. Worse,…
/r/ExRedPill09/04/25 06:45 AM
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I seen much worse with incels. They think a woman's initial view on relationships gets destroyed at the first time they get into a relationship. Which is usually in their mid or late teenage years so they aim for women younger than that. 14-16. What they think is the young children at those ages don't have anyone they can compare them with so they won't be booed at for being the socially awk.. i mean horrible guys they are. Long text short they want to date children because mature women can see …
/r/ExRedPill07/04/25 05:13 PM
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Settle one thing in your head! How many times have you got insulted in that gym for your looks and how many times was it inside your head only? Because I went throught the same. No one ever told a bad thing but in my head was a mess constantly saying hey buddy those guys who looked at your direction said what a fatty in their head. Or the girl on the treadmill next to you? You just embarassed yourself with your loud elephant like footsteps. And you know what? No such thing happened, just my inse…
/r/ExRedPill22/02/25 10:43 PM
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A word: Source?
/r/ExRedPill16/02/25 02:57 PM
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That's not a redpill topic. I bet you will find a subreddit focused on family issues.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/25 07:22 PM
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Why?
/r/ExRedPill10/02/25 06:44 PM
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TRP is a grifting itself. No wonder how it's targeted mostly to young insecure men or those who are in a deep phase of their life. I wouldn't say all the things they are saying are bullshit, for example the self-care aspect is a cool bullet-point but nothing more. And that's the reason why people who left redpill are still clinging on to some ideas in it. What redpill does is taking principles from the real world and wiring it together with shallow level knowledge or questionable theories and gi…
/r/ExRedPill28/01/25 09:47 PM
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To be honest Friendzone sounds like a cool place to hang out with your friends.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/25 07:25 AM
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That's true. According to an inner vote on the .is forum there are a very big number of people on the spectrum. As an outsider I just heard stuff about autism and had a few friends who have it and as I know they don't born with strong social sense but rather learn it. And if he puts himself out to the ocean of social life he could learn. But be caredul because it might be more draining for him than for a person outside of the spectrum
/r/ExRedPill15/01/25 09:09 PM
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Also on the other side there is Keanu Reeves. Pretty high value by redpill standards and still loyal to his wife. He disproves everything about redpill. Like the men naturally find teens attractive. I tell you he could easily switch to a much younger woman but chooses not to. Also disproving how being nice is just a burden in dating. When I talked about Keanu with women they found that the most attractive thing in him.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/25 09:02 PM
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Good advice however you looked over the autism part. People with mild autism could be smart by the book but socially there are issues. This is why they are so vulnerable to any pill ideologies.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/25 05:00 PM
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I wouldn't believe this guy. Did she have a previous stalker before the white car guy? Because only that case she did and the white car guy protected her from him i can imagine her telling him something like that. This was a highly situational conversation between you two. And even in that case it's possible for her to misinterpret his personality thinking he is not an insecure manchild who will stalk and threaten her. And also on your comment, there are bad guys and good guys, bad girls and goo…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/25 07:15 PM
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Masculinity is the most misinterpreted term in redpill. Somehow they left out parts what they can't achieve due to frustration and put more focus on what they kept. This is why their image of masculinity is a muscular, all-knowing, ultra independent man who does traditionally manly hobbies and work. But you can be all of that, that's only a surface level. But the traditional masculinity term is more about giving protection, reliability and a safe space to be in rather than being a testosteron-fu…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/25 07:08 PM
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You won't get any sympathy from them. What you will probably get is a "blame it on women" mentality
/r/ExRedPill09/01/25 10:15 PM
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Yes. What MGTOW is about? In theory it sounds nice but in reality what is happening there? I was frequent there a few years ago but all I seen was "hurr durr women". Ironic how "men going their own way" is the motto but in reality that way always leads back to women based topics. All I say is MGTOW is not a self-help group for men, it's rather a blaming field. What you probably looking for is self confidence, positive thoughts about yourself and feedbacks about how to be your better self but you…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/25 10:07 PM
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You are mixing it up with "nice guys". The one with quotation marks is the type who won't shut up about how nice he is and how well he would treat women but when something don't go as planned the manipulation takes place. Guilt tripling, gaslighting, tantrums, incorrect blaming are their most effective weapons. There is nothing wrong with being a kind, generous, honest and sensitive man, don't get me wrong! But those who use this image to cover their frustrated and desperate self which could bre…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/25 09:42 PM
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"you can meet other humans and women at the gym"
/r/ExRedPill13/10/23 06:42 AM
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You can join RP because there are some stuff you agree with but if you open your mouth about the ones you disagree, you will face their gatekeeping.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 03:33 PM
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/r/ExRedPill24/05/23 04:58 PM
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Personally I realized I couldn't maintain healthy natural relationships in RP. Ironic how RP says not to be an AFC but RP turned me into an AFC.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 02:34 PM
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I get this. They think muscle is masculine, money is masculine, being an emotionless douche is masculine. Just like a 12 years old boy. As I see they are obsessed with the ideology some guru made for them and trying to achieve goals in the borders of the redpill ideology and not for themselves. I'm saying it's even "wrong" to question the movement and the so called gurus because that's the way you instantly got labelled with the bluepilled cuck term.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 02:08 PM
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That is matching the red pill grind so I can imagine redpillers are falling for such trap.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 01:52 PM
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Basically everything about getting the woman with manipulation and toxicity. Encouraging to form trauma bonding is for those who can't maintain healthy human connections.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 01:24 PM
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LGBTQ agenda don't seek out kids to be gays. They want them to be who they are. Indeed they make more people come out but that don't mean they were heterosexual before they met LGBT. They just blended into heterosexual mass.
/r/ExRedPill20/11/22 08:29 AM
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I was tired making my whole social life a chess game where I feel the constant pressure to make myself into the so called alpha position in every situation possible. I was tired faking my personality to gain imaginary alpha points. I got tired of all my petty lies falling on me and me falling out social circles because I was toxicly tried to grind that whole community to make me the center. I was tired getting yealous on those who can naturally have good conversations with the girl I targeted (I…
/r/ExRedPill12/11/22 11:46 AM
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They can achieve goals. But when it happen they don't recognize themselves in the mirror.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/22 07:13 PM
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I don't think they target them. But mentally ill people are far mor capable of spending money on PUA. I remember one of the articles what made me leave redpill were from a psychologist who met an autistic man who got into the beginner PUA training 4 times because the instructor said it will help him.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/21 04:58 PM
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Think about girls as independent people. Like you and one of your friends. You may like blondies, he might like brunettes. You might prefer carrierist business ladies he might be into party sluts. You might like them being short while his preference is the nine feet tall goth vampire mommy. Same applies to all women and this is what incels usually don't understand. They have their own preferences. And some others could have similar preferences as well.
/r/ExRedPill04/02/21 07:27 PM
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Instantly disliked! Fuck you. This is not the right sub!
/r/ExRedPill04/02/21 03:38 AM
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Nah. Self promo shit. Don't worth watching.
/r/ExRedPill04/02/21 03:37 AM
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I'm in. DM me with the details. I would like to share my views and personal experience.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/21 06:34 AM
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Men's self care. That's one good thing I kept since I left the PUA cult.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/21 03:19 PM
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I don't care about other's N count. In a relationship based on love for each other it's insignificant.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/21 10:45 AM
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Avoid at all cost.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/21 07:00 AM
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Is PUA industry's first goal to convince vulnerable men to pay? Yes, they are most of the problem. While other websites recommended basics like "be kind", PUA offered a complete solution for my problem. Yeah I was vulnerable. I was 14.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/21 03:40 AM
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Yes it's illegal! As I know a teacher's contract contains terms about not doing adult services. At least my dad's contract contains this and that's not even a christian school. BTW How is this one anti-woman? If a man would sell his penis pictures online he would be fired as well because it's not about gender. It's about ethics.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/08/20 02:00 PM
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