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| 846 | This has nothing to do with men’s rights. It’s just a story about boys being young men. | General | ThreeHourNap | /r/MensRights | 08/05/20 10:23 PM |
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| 5 | what to say when people say misandry is just misogyny?Who is stupid enough to say that? | /r/MensRights | 18/03/22 10:57 PM |
| 3 | How can I be a better ally to the men In my life?The patriarchy doesn’t exist in the west. Feminists use the expression “The patriarchy hurts men too.” to dismiss arguments against their claim that the patriarchy exists. Then they propose “solutions” to societal problems that they claim are caused by this imaginary patriarchy. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/22 06:28 PM |
| 40 | How can I be a better ally to the men In my life?Never tell them that feminism is the solution to men’s problems or “Patriarchy hurts men too.” | /r/MensRights | 10/03/22 04:47 AM |
| 140 | She’s getting humiliated in the thread, and rightly soDiD yOu JuSt AsSuMe ThEiR gEnDeR? | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/03/22 04:47 AM |
| 24 | Is it wrong that I don’t want to take women on dates because in the past year I have not gotten a thank you for paying on all the dates.That’s got to be frustrating. I’m sorry, pal. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/22 07:52 PM |
| 6 | The people defending her fucking disgust me. She trapped him with a kid ffsCheaters are trash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 05:29 AM |
| 4 | "Just be yourself" is a terrible adviceI think you’ve made an unfair and extreme interpretation of OP’s post. Acting confident even if you don’t feel confident isn’t lying and it definitely isn’t rape by deception, which is what you seem to be implying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 07:27 PM |
| 3 | It's our mf rightThanks. I guess this one made it past my radar. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | It's our mf rightWhat? | /r/MensRights | 08/02/22 11:40 PM |
| 7 | It's our mf rightAs someone who used to be involved in activism for abortion access, I feel that I have some insight into why you’re only hearing outrage from women. Maybe you’re in a bubble. There might not be many men in your social media circles that are involved in abortion activism. In my experience, most pro-choice activists are women. Also, at least half of pro-life activists seem to be women. If you are connected to a lot of men involved in pro-choice activism, many of them may feel that they aren’t free… | /r/MensRights | 08/02/22 11:39 PM |
| 74 | So... what's the feeling about circumcision here?Objectively, it’s a painful and (almost always) unnecessary surgery that removes a very sensitive and beneficial part of the penis that’s performed on someone who cannot consent. In my opinion, it’s genital mutilation. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/02/22 11:18 PM |
| 51 | What is feminism? Wrong answers onlyAdvocacy for social, economic, and political equality for men and women. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/22 05:22 AM |
| 4 | Hi, I just wanted to say this to all the men here. Go to therapy and stop antagonizing women for a living.Would it be considered antagonizing my ex if I told her that I’ve been diagnosed with PTSD because of what she did to me? | /r/MensRights | 01/02/22 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Theyre trying to make tiktok videos and trick young men into thinking this mess is acceptable.Does anyone have a YouTube link to women like this? I could use a laugh and I don’t trust Tik Tok. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/01/22 05:38 PM |
| 38 | When is explicit(verbal) consent ever given by women for initial intimacy(touching and kissing). Is this practiced in reality?I can’t remember a single time when any woman has ever asked for my consent to engage in any sex act. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 06:58 AM |
| 2 | I am too addicted to spy calls. Why do 99% women don’t trade? SPY 500-510 eoyWhat? | /r/MensRights | 25/12/21 04:35 AM |
| 96 | “I like men, but without the n.”It’s acceptable in the west to shit on men. That alone gets applause these days. | /r/MensRights | 25/12/21 03:50 AM |
| 43 | What does it mean being a man?He’s not wrong. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/12/21 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Why is being the “prize” such a thing in dating/relationships?If you say so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Why is being the “prize” such a thing in dating/relationships?I don’t think I’ve ever heard anyone refer to a man nor any man refer to himself as a prize. Just women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 09:12 PM |
| 7 | I’m a Woman, Ask Me AnythingA day or two ago, I accidentally bit the inside of my cheek, and now I have a canker sore. It hurts. Why can’t I stop touching it with my tongue? | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/12/21 03:44 AM |
| 7 | YOU NEED TO CALM DOWNGrabbing his ass is sexual assault. Slapping her in response would be self defense. | /r/MensRights | 08/12/21 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Low libido is but a mere excuse for low attractionThe findings of this study don’t make sense to you because they seem to contradict what you expect to be true given what you believe to be true. Instead of considering that some of your beliefs might be wrong (e.g., that low libido is predominantly a heritable condition), you came here to argue that the study is wrong. Really? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 10:59 PM |
| 8 | YOU NEED TO CALM DOWNThat is a different issue. I’ve only been commenting in the friend’s behavior and your wife’s response. I understand why you didn’t feel comfortable saying anything at the wedding. It probably made everything worse to have felt like you couldn’t do much to stop her. | /r/MensRights | 07/12/21 10:37 PM |
| 2 | A fellow friend took his life today.I’m so sorry, pal. | /r/MensRights | 07/12/21 10:31 PM |
| 21 | YOU NEED TO CALM DOWNYou’re not understanding what I’m saying. This isn’t about trust. A person you and your wife are close to has, on several occasions, made you uncomfortable and disrespected your marriage by touching you inappropriately and trying to kiss you on the lips. Your wife’s response was to dismiss the your complaint and defend the person. You deserve better than that from your partner. | /r/MensRights | 07/12/21 10:29 PM |
| 28 | YOU NEED TO CALM DOWNWhen your wife responded to what you told her, she failed you as a partner. I’m really sorry, pal. | /r/MensRights | 07/12/21 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Probably not the first or last time this gets posted but..Age restricted | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/12/21 11:54 PM |
| 5 | Protect womenI’m pretty sure OP is being sarcastic. | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/12/21 07:15 PM |
| 149 | Protect women“Women are great at performing these positive stereotypes. Men, you have a duty to perform your gender roles that benefit women. I’m a progressive. Ask me how.” | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/12/21 06:29 AM |
| 6 | How can I tell someone that Simone deBeauvoir was crazy?I know very little about her. I was genuinely asking. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/21 02:54 PM |
| 3 | How can I tell someone that Simone deBeauvoir was crazy?What do you mean by crazy? | /r/MensRights | 24/11/21 02:35 PM |
| 106 | For those of you who say women never ever marry men they're not sexually attracted to... I TOLD YOU SO.“brave woman” | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/11/21 10:13 PM |
| 5 | How do you set boundaries as a man?I’ve cut a few people from my life for various reasons. Two of them were hard friendship “break ups” (for lack of a better term) because the women were sexist and racist and used their woke leftist beliefs to justify their sexism and racism. When I say hard break ups, I mean that I told them that I don’t want them to contact me anymore, and then I blocked them everywhere. Both of these people were very close to me. I loved them, and, in some ways, I still love them. I just won’t tolerate the fac… | /r/MensRights | 23/11/21 07:12 PM |
| 7 | "Hes hot...but I get the vibe he wasnt born hot, so I'm weirded out by him"Oh, fuck off. If that’s what she meant, she could have said it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 04:13 PM |
| 49 | 👨⚖️👨⚖️Heard publicly accused Depp of being an abusive piece of shit, but (Surprise! Surprise!) Heard was actually the abusing piece of shit all along. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 19/11/21 06:33 AM |
| 104 | "Hes hot...but I get the vibe he wasnt born hot, so I'm weirded out by him"Two things immediately came to mind. She isn’t interested in him, and this is how she’s justifying it. This is the explanation that’s most generous to your friend. She’s practiced at identifying people’s vulnerabilities (or vulnerable people) so that she can hurt and manipulate them. If she’s right about this guy’s past and pursues a relationship with him, she’ll use his former awkwardness to grind him down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 04:22 AM |
| 9 | For Non-Red Pill Men(this is about marriage or LTR): What sort of women do you like or seek?I am. Also, I like your name. Grimm was a fun show. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 03:19 AM |
| 29 | For Non-Red Pill Men(this is about marriage or LTR): What sort of women do you like or seek?I never wanted to get married before I met my wife. I was willing to get married if I met the right woman, but marriage was never a goal of mine. I even told her that when we first started dating. I proposed after 7 months. I had a feeling that I had found the right woman, and we’ve been married over a decade. A few things set her apart from the women before her. She was mentally healthy. She wanted the best for me. She fought respectfully. She accepted polite criticism. She was loyal. All in al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 03:13 AM |
| 22 | A little Pussy pass insultIf that’s how you feel, then fuck off. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/11/21 11:19 PM |
| 26 | A little Pussy pass insultSounds like you can fuck off. This is a thread to talk shit about a misandrist asshole. Take your gender grievance bullshit back to Tumblr. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/11/21 11:16 PM |
| 29 | A little Pussy pass insultI’m making a wild guess that this woman doesn’t work in a factory putting rivets into planes. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/11/21 11:11 PM |
| 6 | A little Pussy pass insultAnd the ones on leave. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/11/21 11:00 PM |
| 16 | A little Pussy pass insultThat was nicely done. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/11/21 10:31 PM |
| 717 | A little Pussy pass insultAnd the women often had to go to work in factories and do other unpleasant jobs. Edited because people seem to enjoy missing the point. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/11/21 09:23 PM |
| 137 | My man was not having it. The audacity of this woman smhIf I remember correctly, this was in some country where this kind of thing was semi-culturally-approved-of, but not to the degree that this woman took things. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 08/11/21 10:03 PM |
| 111 | Why not let her pay? Aren’t you all “independent?” Also mind your own business and stop embarrassing peopleI call bullshit. This didn’t happen. | /r/AntiFeminists | 06/11/21 04:03 PM |
| 15 | This is a discussion i had with a stranger on Instagram about prostitution. I'm sorry for the audio, it's mainly my sister defending me because she's a "terf" to those stupid feminists. I know this person said sorry in the end but i'm not buying it.Why did she ask your opinion if she was going to immediately dismiss it? As a debate tactic, that deserves only slightly more respect than if she she had put her fingers in her ears while loudly chanting “LALALA THE CAN’T HEAR YOU! LALALA” | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/11/21 12:56 PM |
| – | a lot of inkels are resentful towards women not for having the right to choose but for unattractive women overestimating their attractivenessI agree. I don’t know why you thought I was arguing with you. I was commenting on the incorrect comparison the other commenter made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 12:00 AM |
| – | a lot of inkels are resentful towards women not for having the right to choose but for unattractive women overestimating their attractiveness“A women being used for sex and then ghosted is the same as a guy getting friend zoned.” That wasn’t the comparison. OP was comparing unattractive women who get used for sex and then ghosted to unattractive men who pay for gorgeous mail order brides and then used for their money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 11:53 PM |
| 6 | Women who ruled the world and started warsReality is misogynistic. And racist. Didn’t you know that? | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/10/21 04:11 PM |
| 22 | This cashier is a gatekeeperThe cashier knew why was going on. The cashier is a bro. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/10/21 12:39 AM |
| 108 | Why are most womens dating standards so high in comparison to men'sThat guy would look better with a different haircut and a shirt that covered his shoulders. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/10/21 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Woman on twitter claims feminists only want equality, not payback. The lack of self-awareness is annoying.I don’t know much about MGTOW. Do they teach that all people, regardless of their past traumas or mental conditions, are responsible for their actions and should treat others fairly? | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 04:05 PM |
| 23 | Woman on twitter claims feminists only want equality, not payback. The lack of self-awareness is annoying.That’s interesting, but it has nothing to do with this statue. This statue is framing Medusa as a rape victim seeking revenge, which is foolish because that’s not the head of Poseidon, her rapist. This statue is based on a specific version of the Medusa story. | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Woman on twitter claims feminists only want equality, not payback. The lack of self-awareness is annoying.Falchion! You that’s the word I forgot. Thank you. | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 01:20 PM |
| 16 | Woman on twitter claims feminists only want equality, not payback. The lack of self-awareness is annoying.It’s not a katana. It looks like a scimitar. The spine looks like it has a point like the spine of a scimitar. | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 01:18 PM |
| 358 | Woman on twitter claims feminists only want equality, not payback. The lack of self-awareness is annoying.In some legends, Medusa was raped by Poseidon. In others, she was seduced, not raped. In this sculpture, she’s holding the head of Perseus. Medusa murdered men by turning them to stone. Perseus was sent to kill her. Regardless of which legend you believe, Perseus didn’t rape her. This statue may be more honest than the artist intended. A large, vocal, and powerful contingent of feminists today wants to harm men, not for the crimes those individual men committed, but for the real and imagined cri… | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 01:06 PM |
| 14 | Some idiots thinking patriarchy existsPromiscuous men are called fuckbois, dogs, and creeps. There are articles celebrating promiscuity in women as empowering. Sexual violence against women is abhorred. Sexual violence against men committed by men is the subject of jokes. Sexual violence against men by women is ignored. The wage gap is largely a myth. The income gap is real and almost entirely explained by individual choices. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/10/21 07:40 PM |
| 2 | "Where to start" indeed.. first time matching with one in the wild..Thanks. I didn’t know about bot mods. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/10/21 12:20 PM |
| 4 | "Where to start" indeed.. first time matching with one in the wild..Who’s a bot? The FDS mod that banned him? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/10/21 11:44 AM |
| 6 | "Where to start" indeed.. first time matching with one in the wild..If you’re on mobile, it’s just to the right of OP’s name above the pic. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/10/21 10:58 AM |
| 8 | "Where to start" indeed.. first time matching with one in the wild..I knew that sub was terrible. I didn’t know the mods were so weird. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/10/21 10:49 AM |
| 18 | "Where to start" indeed.. first time matching with one in the wild..If you’re on mobile, it’s just to the right of OP’s name above the pic. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/10/21 10:40 AM |
| 19 | "Where to start" indeed.. first time matching with one in the wild..Someone just told me to click the Imgur link to see the whole pic. It worked. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/10/21 09:54 AM |
| 1 | The reason most guys struggle with dating nowadays isn’t sone convoluted conspiracy amongst women or “hypergamy”.This is some sexist, victim-blaming nonsense. Women made a lot of gains decades ago in terms of gaining equality. Unfortunately for your argument, the men complaining today weren’t alive to live through that change. They aren’t complaining about their experiences with women are different now than they were in the 1970s. The vast majority of the women dating today weren’t alive to experience those inequalities. Men are complaining about how their experiences in recent years have made them feel co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/21 03:22 PM |
| 0 | What issue do you think best epitomizes why you have to be left wing to fully support men?No, it really isn’t. Remind me which party is championing free speech today? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/10/21 06:24 PM |
| 2 | What issue do you think best epitomizes why you have to be left wing to fully support men?That I agree with. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/10/21 01:16 PM |
| 1 | What issue do you think best epitomizes why you have to be left wing to fully support men?Free speech used to be a liberal value. It’s hard to argue that it still is today. It’s even harder to make that argument for individualism unless you go back to the Enlightenment. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/10/21 05:28 AM |
| 18 | A story from before my separationJust…god damn. I’m so sorry, pal. | /r/MensRights | 15/10/21 04:01 AM |
| -3 | What issue do you think best epitomizes why you have to be left wing to fully support men?https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Genetic_fallacy | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/10/21 03:00 AM |
| -3 | What issue do you think best epitomizes why you have to be left wing to fully support men?That isn’t my experience. It’s unfortunate if it’s been yours. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/10/21 02:47 AM |
| -3 | What issue do you think best epitomizes why you have to be left wing to fully support men?I agree. And If this was 1968, your point would apply today. Unfortunately, that isn’t the case. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/10/21 02:18 AM |
| 2 | What issue do you think best epitomizes why you have to be left wing to fully support men?Then you may be existing in a bubble. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/10/21 02:15 AM |
| 0 | What issue do you think best epitomizes why you have to be left wing to fully support men?You don’t have to identify as left wing in order to support men. Conservative values like individualism and freedom of speech are also necessary. Furthermore, an unapologetic disdain for communists is good for everyone, not just men. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/10/21 01:26 AM |
| 3 | Husband Material Mega-ThreadThis seems reasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/21 08:21 PM |
| 16 | The Case Against Contemporary Feminism. The New Yorker book review.This article is about a book arguing that feminism, as it currently exists, isn’t radical enough. It sees individualism and capitalism as problems. None of these ideas are good. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/21 07:43 PM |
| 29 | Still waiting for a response..Who is this dumbass, OP? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/10/21 04:36 AM |
| 9 | The UN gender studies are a jokeI hadn’t heard of this before. Thank you for pointing it out. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/21 06:38 AM |
| – | The red pill before and afterShe was going to cheat anyway. Becoming a bad boy means he got to fuck her too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 10:55 PM |
| 1 | (Serious) let's talk about coercionNo, I don’t know that that’s what you meant. I meant exactly what I said. You were erasing male victims and female rapists. Don’t do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 07:37 PM |
| 1 | (Serious) let's talk about coercion“We need to teach Women to say no, and don't stop saying no! We need to teach men, that No means No!” I was with you until you said this. Stop erasing male victims and female rapists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 07:18 PM |
| 5 | How Feminists Treat Women vs How Men Treat WomenAh, I get what you mean. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/09/21 03:05 PM |
| 5 | How Feminists Treat Women vs How Men Treat WomenPorn logic? | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/09/21 02:27 PM |
| 44 | 😳😳Equal rights. Equal fights. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/09/21 05:29 AM |
| 10 | They want to take away men's rights and blame everything on us!Why not both? Also, I have a feeling that this person doesn’t have a damn thing of value to teach boys. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/09/21 04:56 AM |
| 1 | I have to denounce this one idea common on this sub, might get downvotedI had a feeling that you were going to link the article published by Lisak in 2010 before I clicked it. I’ve read that article, not just the abstract, a few times over the years. You have misinterpreted the results of that study. That doesn’t surprise me. A lot of people that refer to that study have misinterpreted it. I believe this is partially due to the fact that most people only read the abstract, and, unfortunately, the last line of the abstract is misleading. It should say, “These results… | /r/MensRights | 07/09/21 09:58 PM |
| 2 | I have to denounce this one idea common on this sub, might get downvotedNo, I’m not. Re-read what I said. If the laws were such that women were required to notify the father of a pregnancy unless the pregnancy was caused by rape, this would create an inducement for women who don’t want to notify the father to falsely claim that they were raped. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/21 09:28 PM |
| 6 | I have to denounce this one idea common on this sub, might get downvotedFemale rapists don’t deserve any more sympathy than male rapists. Did you think I felt otherwise? | /r/MensRights | 07/09/21 09:14 PM |
| 24 | I have to denounce this one idea common on this sub, might get downvotedIn general, I believe that rapists are subhuman garbage who don’t deserve consideration, so no, I don’t believe that they should be notified. I realize that this creates an inducement for women to falsely claim they were raped in order to keep a child away from their father. I don’t know how to resolve that. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/21 03:42 AM |
| 12 | I have to denounce this one idea common on this sub, might get downvotedI believe that a man has a right to know if he’s a father and to decide if he wants to be in the child’s life. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/21 03:36 AM |
| 24 | I have to denounce this one idea common on this sub, might get downvotedOK, good. I just want to make sure. | /r/MensRights | 06/09/21 11:09 PM |
| 196 | I have to denounce this one idea common on this sub, might get downvotedI agree with this, in general. However, I think men should be able to opt out of parenthood within a certain period of time after being informed that they are or are going to be a parent. Some women hide a pregnancy or even the birth from a man. | /r/MensRights | 06/09/21 10:56 PM |
| 25 | Do you believe in the 'women are wonderful' effect?I think there’s ample evidence to support it. | /r/MensRights | 16/08/21 02:39 PM |
| 2 | People that think that creepiness is based on being ugly clearly don't have any EQ nor social skillsPlenty Plenty Plenty What’s your point other than being a sexist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a HVM if the relationship was 100% transactional?The first time I read this, I thought it said, “I hope YOU find a girlfriend this considerate, reasonable, and empathetic.” I immediately recoiled and thought, “I don’t! My wife would be pissed off if I found a girlfriend, no matter how awesome she was.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a HVM if the relationship was 100% transactional?Thank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a HVM if the relationship was 100% transactional?Thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a HVM if the relationship was 100% transactional?Done. Since we’re on this topic, I have a question about the appropriateness of another of my comments. I was going for a lightheartedly puckish restatement of someone’s argument. However, history has shown that I can’t predict how you mods will react to things. Can you look at the first sentence of my comment that begins with “Baebeez” and give me a ruling? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a HVM if the relationship was 100% transactional?Are you referring to either or both of these sentences in the first paragraph? If so, do you want me to delete them? “I get the feeling that you don’t understand that.” “You should work on that.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a HVM if the relationship was 100% transactional?“Baebeez!” isn’t the argument-ending magic word you think it is. If a woman in a relationship chooses to carry a pregnancy through delivery, her partner isn’t necessarily obligated to reciprocate anything for her making that choice. Of course, a good partner in a healthy relationship would offer her comfort and support to help address the discomforts and health issues associated with pregnancy and birth. These efforts, however, aren’t fundamentally different than the comfort and support that a g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 04:40 PM |
| 3 | Would you date a HVM if the relationship was 100% transactional?Re-read the post. You have the order of gift giving backwards. He won’t give you a gift and expect one in return. He won’t give you a gift at all until you give him one first. Also, the rest of the world isn’t obligated to live but his rules. If he ever does suddenly give you a gift, you don’t have to give him one in return. You don’t even have to thank him for the gift, but you should. Hell, you don’t even have to accept the gift. OP didn’t describe anything about this guy that makes him sound … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 02:51 PM |
| 9 | Would you date a HVM if the relationship was 100% transactional?Give the hyperbolic language a rest. It’s not coercion. No one is being forced to buy a gift or pay for a date. I don’t agree with how rigidly this guy maintains transactional equality in his relationships, but he’s free to make that a relationship requirement if he wants. Anyone who doesn’t like it is free to not be in a relationship with him. No one is entitled to a relationship with him just because they want one. Also, no one in a relationship with him is entitled to his resources. More gene… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 02:23 PM |
| 6 | Would you date a HVM if the relationship was 100% transactional?I don’t see how he’s manipulative. Can you explain? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 01:44 PM |
| 6 | Would you date a HVM if the relationship was 100% transactional?Before I made a decision about whether to continue the relationship, I’d first want to know why he insists on a completely transactional relationship. Does he have a history of being the committed partner in one-sided relationships where his generosity was taken advantage of? These could be romantic relationships or friendships. That’s the first possible explanation I thought of. Years of being disrespected, neglected, and taken for granted by partners and friends could make anyone guarded and r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 01:42 PM |
| 6 | Single Mothers: Men Don’t Owe You AnythingThank you for taking the time to type this out. You do a good job of walking from one complicated idea to another. | /r/MensRights | 28/07/21 08:28 PM |
| 55 | Olympics start today...The male swimmers seem to get it the worst. | /r/MensRights | 23/07/21 08:29 PM |
| 65 | Lecturer wins damages from #MeToo blog that falsely accused him of rapeThey should name the false accuser. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/21 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Why are there so many false stereotypes against men?That sucks, but it’s not a universal experience. I won’t speak beyond my experience. I’ve lived with women (both our names were on the lease) or cohabitated regularly at each other’s place so often that I knew their going out routine. About a third of my exes didn’t wear any makeup most of the time. They would usually put on moisturizer and/or lip balm for dry skin, but that’s it. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/21 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Why are there so many false stereotypes against men?Men are expected to pay for dates. It’s acceptable to mock men who don’t. It’s not acceptable to mock women who don’t wear makeup on dates or get their hair styled or buy a nee expensive outfit. Women are largely celebrated for any decision they make about how they choose to look. Society has different expectations for men and women. Women are allowed to simply exist. Men are still expected to perform. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/21 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Why are there so many false stereotypes against men?By choice. Some women chose to do that. Hooray for choice. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/21 03:56 PM |
| 20 | Why are there so many false stereotypes against men?I’ve gone on a dates with with women that smelled like cigarettes and body odor. Another one wore torn stockings to a professional event of mine. What’s your point? | /r/MensRights | 29/06/21 11:09 PM |
| 2 | I want to know how me and my family can help further a certain cause. Also, some advice would be helpful.It’s a screening test. They’re a common part of medical exams. Screening tests, by definition, are done when there is no indication that a condition is present. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/21 06:41 PM |
| 13 | I want to know how me and my family can help further a certain cause. Also, some advice would be helpful.Those questions were an intimate partner violence (IPV) screening. ACOG is the main professional association of OB-GYNs in the United States. For pregnant women, ACOG recommends that physicians screen for IPV at the first prenatal visit, at least once per trimester, and at the postpartum checkup. ACOG's recommendation was based on studies conducted by various organizations that evaluated specific screening tools (i.e., lists of standardized questions) in terms of their effectiveness at identifyi… | /r/MensRights | 24/06/21 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Women should stop having hookupsI’m no longer a fan of hook ups, OP, but you come across as either someone who can’t get a woman off or someone who can’t relax enough to get off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Father Gorilla steals baby gorillas from mother because she won’t let him play with them...Another gentleman who appreciates the classics | /r/MensRights | 14/06/21 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Father Gorilla steals baby gorillas from mother because she won’t let him play with them...I’m imagining Yakety Sax playing over this video. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ZnHmskwqCCQ&feature=youtu.be | /r/MensRights | 14/06/21 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Why don't men say "Can i be your boyfriend?" instead of "You want to be my girlfriend?" ?I never said every question was a complaint. If an individual who happens to be a feminist asks me this question while the two of us are halfway through a long road trip in a car with broken speakers, then sure, it’s possible that they simply made an awkward attempt at conversation. However, in most situations, I believe that a feminist who asks this question did so because they already thought of an answer that shits on men. It’s related to the dishonorable arguing tactic Just Asking Questions … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/05/21 03:36 PM |
| 5 | Why Does This Work Have to Be Seen As Anti-Woman?This is interesting. Apparently, this is what I’ll be thinking about tonight. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/05/21 10:55 PM |
| 9 | Using Simple GesturesI believe that this post comes from a good place. You’re encouraging men to empathize with women and modify their behavior accordingly. However, it’s not as simple as reminding people to be polite to others. You’re asking men to assume that women are scared of them by default. You’re telling men that they are a constant imminent threat to any woman existing nearby. That’s not true, and anyone who believes it needs therapy. I used to think the way you do, and it’s not healthy. | /r/MensRights | 26/05/21 12:52 AM |
| 7 | A genuine question about circumcision?How would you know if you had decreased sensation if you have nothing to compare it to? | /r/MensRights | 25/05/21 02:47 AM |
| 10 | Why don't men say "Can i be your boyfriend?" instead of "You want to be my girlfriend?" ?I did, and as stupid as that was, I stand by my statement. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/05/21 06:13 PM |
| 48 | Why don't men say "Can i be your boyfriend?" instead of "You want to be my girlfriend?" ?This might be the most ridiculous complaint I’ve ever heard from feminists. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/05/21 06:06 PM |
| 9 | Funny... not funny thingThanks for pushing back on that bullshit. Begging isn’t coercion (but it is sad). Telling them that you’re thinking of leaving them because you aren’t sexually satisfied isn’t coercion. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/21 03:42 AM |
| 5 | I am hurt inside. is is possible to get better?What’s going on, pal? | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 01:07 AM |
| 2 | I am hurt inside. is is possible to get better?Almost certainly. I know this. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 12:04 AM |
| 26 | What emotional manipulation tactics from women should you look out for?The healthiest way that I’ve found to deal with this behavior is to address directly in the moment. I’ll say something like, “Unless you can tell me what I did wrong and why I should have known it was wrong, then I don’t want to hear any of your comments about it.” or “The way I did this thing (e.g., plan a date, fold her clothes, cook fucking pasta, etc.) isn’t wrong. If you don’t like the way I do it, then you do it instead of complaining or pouting.” I try to say this politely, but that’s the… | /r/MensRights | 21/04/21 02:23 PM |
| 45 | What emotional manipulation tactics from women should you look out for?Near constant disappointment without specific details of what you did wrong. It’s a way to shame you into trying harder and harder to please them and provides them with an excuse to withhold efforts to please you. I consider it a form of manipulation because it’s more subtle than outright criticism. Each instance of this behavior leaves you feeling like a failure more than it leaves you feeling attacked. It grinds you down. Accusing you of being controlling when you establish a boundary. I have … | /r/MensRights | 21/04/21 01:35 PM |
| 6 | Why do we still call them feminists?Why do you believe that promoting equality between men and women is integral to feminism? | /r/MensRights | 10/03/21 05:45 AM |
| 5 | Men in MedicineIf you haven’t done it already, read The House Of God. Go into a No Patient Care specialty. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/21 03:37 AM |
| 4 | What's a good rebuttal when you mention about Child Custody bias and they say "It's because women are seen as primary careers according to men and they basically done it to themselves"This, OP. Look up Tender Years Doctrine. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/21 01:09 AM |
| 3 | Is there anything in this friendship/relationship worth saving, or is this a lost cause?It sounds like you’re still hung up on your ex. I think the best thing for you to do is to commit to no contact indefinitely. Having her in your life will only cause you pain. | /r/MensRights | 25/12/20 06:26 AM |
| 2 | Girl tries responding to every DM with her PayPal link and asking for money, fails miserably and gets $0.“A lot of guys are clued in to the fact that women want money for their time these days...” ugh | /r/MensRights | 15/09/20 03:07 PM |
| 7 | Questions from a teen.The good news about finding a girlfriend who treats you with respect is that the two of you get to decide together what kind of relationship you want. You both get to establish boundaries and teach each other how you like to communicate. If she doesn’t treat you right, you get to walk away from her immediately, completely, and forever if you so choose. What you’re dealing with from the feminists at you school seems to be a combination of bad arguments and bullying/harassment. If anyone close to … | /r/MensRights | 07/08/20 01:38 AM |
| 10 | Remember Nick Sandmann? He's already settled with two news outlets for $250 million and will be suing the Washington Post, CNN, ABC, CBS, The Guardian, The Hill and NBC for defamation.Good | /r/MensRights | 24/07/20 10:46 PM |
| 3 | I am a male sexual assault survivor and some people think I'm less of a man because of itTrue. Most resources are designed for women. The benefit of that hotline is that it puts the caller in touch with a counselor in their area. That counselor is in a position to potentially know what local resources will help men. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/20 12:44 AM |
| 39 | I am a male sexual assault survivor and some people think I'm less of a man because of itI’m sorry you experienced all of that. She was human garbage and the adults in your life failed you. This is the number for the National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673. You can call 24 hours a day to speak to a crisis counselor in your area (if you are in the United States). That person might be able to connect you to therapy resources locally. I strongly recommend finding a therapist. Recovery is possible. Good luck. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/20 02:25 PM |
| 12 | Apparently, "Claiming to be 'a man raped by a woman' is mocking REAL rape victims." because women don't rape men / boys, and when they do it doesn't matterBurn in hell. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/20 11:55 PM |
| 12 | Apparently, "Claiming to be 'a man raped by a woman' is mocking REAL rape victims." because women don't rape men / boys, and when they do it doesn't matterI’m sorry you have to deal with pieces of shit like this. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/20 09:26 PM |
| 0 | Generalized unrestWere you held under too long when you were baptized? | /r/MensRights | 03/06/20 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Neat way to say 60% Male...For what it’s worth, the example you just gave of “1 in 4 homeless are women” is a often sexist way to present data. The difference is that, in my experience, when an article for the general public says “1/4 homeless are women”, that’s the main point that they are emphasizing. That is not the same as the line in this article that I have been discussing. These two lines are presenting data in similar ways but they are doing it in very different contexts for differ audiences. I understand how some… | /r/MensRights | 14/05/20 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Neat way to say 60% Male...See my response to OP that I made just now. | /r/MensRights | 13/05/20 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Neat way to say 60% Male...I read articles in journals like this as part of my job. In my professional opinion, the line I quoted isn’t biased. I am not saying that the authors are not sexist against men. I am saying that presenting sex percentages like this is not good evidence that the authors are sexist. This line is a boring description of Table 1 in the results section. Most descriptions of Table 1 in articles like this are boring because Table 1 is often just demographic info. Trust me. I’ve read a shitload of them.… | /r/MensRights | 13/05/20 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Neat way to say 60% Male...Are you referring to this line in the results section? “A total of 5700 patients were included (median age, 63 years [interquartile range {IQR}, 52-75; range, 0-107 years]; 39.7% female) (Table 1).” If so, the authors are probably not attempting to ignore or erase male patients. This is a normal way to convey results in articles published in peer-reviewed medical journals. If you divide a study sample into two groups (e.g., male and female; control group and intervention group; age under 65 and … | /r/MensRights | 13/05/20 03:29 PM |
| 2 | This has nothing to do with men’s rights. It’s just a story about boys being young men.Thanks for the heads up about that sub. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/20 03:26 PM |
| 1 | This has nothing to do with men’s rights. It’s just a story about boys being young men.I needed this yesterday too. You’re welcome. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/20 03:25 PM |
| 1 | This has nothing to do with men’s rights. It’s just a story about boys being young men.Happy (late) TomatoChewer Day! | /r/MensRights | 09/05/20 03:24 PM |
| 22 | This has nothing to do with men’s rights. It’s just a story about boys being young men.I teared up a bit too. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/20 12:52 AM |
| 10 | This has nothing to do with men’s rights. It’s just a story about boys being young men.Yeah, me too. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/20 12:52 AM |
| 33 | This has nothing to do with men’s rights. It’s just a story about boys being young men.I’m not familiar with those subs. Thanks for the heads up. | /r/MensRights | 08/05/20 10:48 PM |
| 1 | I was sexually assaulted yesterdayThe number for the National Sexual Assault Hotline is 800.656.HOPE (4673). Once you call (assuming you are in the U.S.), you’ll be connected to a local crisis counselor. Maybe they can help you access resources in your area that can help. This link will give you more information about the National Sexual Assault Hotline. https://www.rainn.org/about-national-sexual-assault-telephone-hotline I'm sorry for what they did to you. I'm sorry for what you're going through now and for everything that's c… | /r/MensRights | 22/04/20 07:38 AM |
| 9 | Are there people here who actually think that Trump/Weinstein are innocent of sexual assault?Juries probably make fewer mistakes than trial by Twitter. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/02/20 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Gender parity for sexual assault (academic studies)Edit: Looking at this again, perhaps I was interpreting your comment too uncharitably. All you did was point out the legal definition of 'rape' which is highly sexist, without putting any spin on this, so it doesn't necessarily mean you agree with the legal definition. It was good of you to openly acknowledge that your initial response might have been based on a misinterpretation of what u/cromulent_weasel was saying. I just want you to know that I saw it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/02/20 08:15 PM |
| 13 | Kobe BryantGood cardiovascular conditioning doesn't protect you much in a helicopter crash. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/01/20 02:38 AM |
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