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I am a teacher, but I got into it in a weird way. I have a masters in my subject area and never “studied” education beyond getting the necessary certifications to teach. Most teachers are totally uneducated and don’t know shit about what they’re teaching. Their college curriculum consists of masturbatory educational theory classes, and they bring very little knowledge of their actual subject to the classroom. This results in most of them being insecure, authority whores who shut down questions b…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 02:24 AM
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It asks for it, but you can just as easily enter your username as your first name.
/r/MGTOW12/05/18 10:38 PM
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If people would learn to look at the current societal relationship between men and women as the culture-wide extrapolation of the dynamics found in every long term marriage, it would be much easier to understand.
/r/MGTOW12/05/18 04:25 PM
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Two solutions: A) Let the shit pile up in the diaper until the child reaches the age of self-sufficiency or the age of consent B) Continue to perform the cleaning tasks that parents have been performing for their children since the dawn of man. Which seems more unnatural? This is a great example on how fixations on the most banal applications of concepts have pretty much destroyed our society's ability to function not only healthily, but even naturally.
/r/MGTOW12/05/18 03:58 AM
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It comes from different circles, but the hatred of young black is far more intense on a micro level. Women see a single black man on the corner and, because of stigmas, believe that particular black man will possibly hurt them. The fear of white men is a more abstract macro fear in which women hate the monolithic notion of the WHITE MEN. In their mind, "white men" (or at least the white men they care to acknowledge, ie: the ones who have money and power and would be desirable as partners) have u…
/r/MGTOW11/05/18 11:49 PM
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Right, it’s never that direct. The key is to make it feel like the bikini or boobs or crotch is totally incidental so that you still have enough plausible deniability to criticize low value men for being perverts by noticing. I’d bet something like “finally, a day out of the office! The sand here is soooo beautiful!”
/r/MGTOW10/05/18 10:31 PM
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Fully agree. Nice guys aren’t so much manipulative as they are conditioned to have no spine. When they get angry or annoyed, it comes across as though they were being deceptive all along, when in reality it’s finally the emotions they had been repressing at last bubbling to the surface. If you feel like you have to be nice to everyone because you’re less than them, you can’t be truly nice. This is why you have to develop confidence and the ability to be angry. It’s counterintuitive, but possessi…
/r/MGTOW10/05/18 02:47 PM
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Baudrillard would argue that Harry Potter land is actually the only true reality.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 11:03 AM
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Apparently, nice people are never supposed to feel affection or seek human companionship. Most of these stories are “I had this friend, then I found out he wanted to be with me. I told him I didn’t want to and he didn’t want to see me anymore. A real nice guy!” Imagine if women, who are incapable of living with the notion that even those they’ve grievously wronged, were forced to acknowledge they weren’t nice because they developed feelings for a man.
/r/MGTOW09/05/18 12:36 PM
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It’s a great way of calling someone ugly without assuming the responsibility of judging someone. After all, criticizing someone on the basis of looks would almost make you an asshole, and we don’t like that kind of culpability. The word creep denotes (but rarely requires) some sort of aberrant behavior, so they get to criticize someone while implying that the defect is THEIR fault.
/r/MGTOW07/05/18 10:43 PM
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Third this. Honestly, I'm weird in the sense that I'm not really interested or desirous of women 99% of the time, but will fall HARD for women I love. The few times I've been in a relationship, I've been way, way more blue-pill than I'd ever want to admit and would basically do anything my girlfriend said would make her happy. Drive her places, buy her shit, listen to stories for hours on end, you name it. There were points when I was pretty much convinced that nothing this woman could do could …
/r/MGTOW04/05/18 11:32 PM
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Men are only wired differently in ways that prove men are terrible, aside from the toxicity, capacity for criminality, hyper sexuality, and the million other awful things women sweepingly apply to all men, the brains of the genders are totally the same!
/r/MGTOW04/05/18 10:08 PM
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Tech Industry Job Application 2019: List your most professional and sexual experience below, starting with most recent and most relevant. Please include references to confirm your date of employment/copulation. Note: Men only.
/r/MGTOW04/05/18 02:08 AM
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Yeah, I think you did the right thing. Letting you know that she's weighing you against someone else is bullshit. I've had that done to me too, and even I will walk when that happens. I can tolerate momentary disrespect (probably more than I should..), but something like that is so premeditated and conscious and continuous, that you just can't put up with it. Even if she picks you in a scenario like that, she obviously doesn't have any sort of investment in you as a person and will keep comparin…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 11:57 AM
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Fear of losing her ruined my last relationship and sent me into a spiral of misery that ultimately led me here. I thought I had done a lot of work to improve myself (had a good job, was working out, had lots of women interested, etc.) but all that was useless because I had done all of it to impress her. When shit got complicated or she treated me without respect, I didn't summon all that hard work to stand my ground and demonstrate abundance, I fell apart and became the dude I had been desperate…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 07:34 PM
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Bingo. It's the "women are the true victims of war" logic.
/r/MGTOW27/04/18 06:50 PM
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"Had sex with"
/r/MGTOW27/04/18 03:19 PM
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That’s because, to them, the sexuality of mediocre men is the most unethical act of all. I really believe that.
/r/MGTOW24/04/18 11:49 AM
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I mean, it’s not always hard to find a job, you’re just not going to make tons of money. Granted, some majors make it more difficult than others. I wouldn’t want to be stuck with just a psych undergrad, for instance. If you want to teach or work in editing, you really shouldn’t have any difficulty doing that out of college with an English degree, though.
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 04:13 AM
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Target is a haven for basic women. They love it there. Every woman I've ever known has trekked to Target at least once a week to load up on clothes and superfluous candles and jars and other bullshit household decor items. My friend has a "Nasty Woman" sign from this same display and keeps it proudly on her desk. The fact that these people can manage to feel like they're bucking the system and rebelling against the patriarchy with mass produced items purchased from one of America's biggest and m…
/r/MGTOW21/04/18 04:46 PM
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I mean, obviously "attractive" is subjective. For me, the basic criteria are: 1) Not being fat 2) Dressing like a woman 3) Seeming sweet/kind/nice Very few women check all three of those boxes. Most of the ones who are physically attractive either go out of their way to dress alternative (masculine clothing, tons of tattoos, ugly hair) or just project an air of such anger and misery that you wouldn't want to be around them regardless of how attractive they might appear.
/r/MGTOW08/04/18 02:40 PM
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Right, because to many women ALL straight white masculinity is toxic. “Oh, they talk about wanting girlfriends!” Etc etc etc
/r/MGTOW03/04/18 09:58 PM
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I think that makes sense in the sense that women want a taller man, but don’t want to feel short next to him. The sweet spot for a woman, it seems, is to be with a man who’s roughly 6 inches taller than she is. The one good thing about being tall is that there are certain very tall women with whom you you are basically a shoe in. Women who are 5’10 and up also want that same height ratio, but it’s obviously much harder to find. If you’re really tall, it’s almost impossible to strike out with tho…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 05:11 PM
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Good point. In essence, there's more of whatever it is you have to offer. If what you have to offer is unattractive, your size becomes grotesque.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 03:43 AM
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I’m 6’6 and I’m reasonably good shape (muscular shirtless but look lean in clothes) and I definitely don’t get the attention that muscular shorter guys get. I’m sure there are a zillion other issues to diagnose, but height isn’t an automatic.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 02:52 AM
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The more women are encouraged and celebrated for "going after what they want" and "being daring enough to articulate their desires," the most male body shaming is implicitly sanctioned. When we celebrate women for being open about their standards for sexual partners, we inherently open up a conversation that criticizes, ranks, and belittles male bodies and frame it as a sign of female empowerment.
/r/MGTOW01/04/18 02:56 AM
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The news media was very very different during the Kennedy administration. The media knew about it, but no major outlets touched it. Jfk did a lot of work to ensure that. Without it being in newspapers, there was really no way for it to be common knowledge.
/r/MGTOW28/03/18 10:28 PM
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I dated a half-asian girl who insisted on paying for everything all the time. To the point that it was annoying and emasculating. She expected many other things done for her convenience and comfort, but she was weird about paying.
/r/MGTOW26/03/18 10:44 PM
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I would bother with them more, I think. I actually like most women's personalities outside of the entitlement that comes with the vagina. If they didn't have that, they'd presumably have a lot of the qualities I enjoy without the arrogance that annoys me.
/r/MGTOW18/03/18 01:11 AM
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Oh, wait, now men AREN'T motivated strictly by sex? Because, for the past two years, every look, handshake, hug, door hold, meeting, mentorship, phone call, friendship, and invitation has been suggested as meaning precisely that by these very same publications.
/r/MGTOW17/03/18 01:28 AM
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He's just a little future rapist.
/r/MGTOW16/03/18 12:05 AM
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I don't begrudge anyone anything that makes them happy. If Jenner (and other trans people) want to live as a gender other than the one they were born into, fine. It's no big deal to me. That being said, there's a lot of intellectual dishonesty that goes into actually articulating what's happening in these cases. I am currently going to a therapist and have mentioned that I view myself as fat, even though I'm not. I was fat as a kid and the self-perception has always kind of stuck with me. She ha…
/r/MGTOW12/03/18 04:59 AM
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A fluid, abstract notion invented by women that exists to guilt men when convenient, shame men when useful, and limit men when expedient.
/r/MGTOW11/03/18 05:25 PM
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Aw, who hurt her?
/r/MGTOW07/03/18 09:08 PM
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You know most of the animals consumed as meat in the West are created explicitly for that purpose and confined to factory farms, right? It’s not like Walmart gets their steaks because some brave soul is out hunting herds of wild cattle. These animals exist because we eat meat. If we stopped, we’d cease to create them.
/r/MGTOW07/03/18 08:26 PM
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The thing is...at the end of the day, you have to be a pleasant human being to be around for someone to stay with you. It is crazy that female behavior has become a site of such relativistic interpretation that basic concepts like "being miserable will drive people away" are now viewed as indicative of some Freudian misogyny on behalf of the aggrieved. Every man, on every day, deals with bullshit that drives him insane. At work. On the news. etc. When he sits down to dinner with his girlfriend, …
/r/MGTOW28/02/18 03:12 AM
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It's a good thing that no woman would ever change her opinion about a man if he were to become miserable, constantly angry, or openly vindictive toward an entire gender. Would stand by him, support him, and empathize with him 100%, I'm sure.
/r/MGTOW28/02/18 03:08 AM
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This is all so stupid. By this logic, men who fuck attractive women are succumbing to the social power said woman has over them in the hierarchy of aesthetics. They can't be responsible for their actions because they found themselves at a social disadvantage. You can literally make this argument about anything. It's like asking "why did you want to sleep with them?" That answer - the one that ignites in you the desire to do something without complete rationality - can now be used to call somethi…
/r/MGTOW26/02/18 11:00 PM
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So brave. An icon of proto-feminism.
/r/MGTOW22/02/18 04:29 AM
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I used to be these guys. It isn't hard. These men embrace these ideas vocally because they're terrified of conflict, particularly with women. And, as with most people terrified of conflict, they will opt for avoidance over discussion when things aren't working out. This might seem like it doesn't make sense because she's focusing on how these two things impact her. When you examine it from their perspective, though, you understand that both the rah-rah feminist mentality and ghosting are motivat…
/r/MGTOW22/02/18 12:15 AM
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Same place they’ll be during world war 3, I imagine.
/r/MGTOW21/02/18 05:27 AM
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This is a hard lesson to learn, particularly because you're told (and rightly so) that withdrawing attention is being passive aggressive and petty. I've been in relationships where my impulse was to withdraw attention and just ignore a woman who was being disrespectful, but I forced myself to discuss my feelings and concerns because it seemed more mature. But ultimately discussing feelings either makes you look A) controlling or B) pathetic and, more often than not, a profoundly unattractive mix…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 01:45 AM
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The thing is, if you do look really good, the girls you're dating will be the girls who have access to other really good looking guys. Therefore, you are merely qualifying for her consideration by being really good looking. After getting in the door, you can still fuck things up a million different ways because, if she's a woman capable of landing a really good looking guy, there are other really good looking guys in the wings. The only way you can assure yourself of a woman's continued attentio…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 11:14 PM
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By standards applied to men, the VAST majority of women are emotionally abusive within relationships. Controlling, demanding evidence of affection or monitoring a persons whereabouts, threatening someone for stepping out of line, constantly withdrawing affection as punishment, etc. These are pretty much consistent traits that will show up with any woman you date before too long. It's happened to me and it's happened to every single man I know. Society excuses it as women being independent, or ta…
/r/MGTOW17/02/18 03:39 PM
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This is true. When I started grad school WAY back in 2010, I had never had a girlfriend. I was home schooled and basically learned to do without women. I liked having female friends, but all the relationships I had observed from afar had involved people being miserable or abandoned. At 22, I hadn't been lured into the cycle of chasing women, losing women, then chasing more women by my adolescent hormones, so I saw no reason to start in on a process that I knew would be destructive. I mentioned t…
/r/MGTOW17/02/18 12:14 AM
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The thing is, MOST men aren't doing anything special. Most men are muddling through life, living paycheck to paycheck, feeling generally unsatisfied about themselves and their lot in life, suffering from loneliness, etc. That's the price of being part of a capitalist society. You often don't get what you want despite working hard and you have to keep working hard even after the illusion of getting what you want is long gone. Many men have succeeded over the course of many hundreds of years, many…
/r/MGTOW09/02/18 05:35 AM
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Really sobering when you realize that, among the hordes of homeless men it's okay to ignore, there might be a precious woman suffering!!!
/r/MGTOW29/01/18 07:27 PM
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100 percent true. A "lonely" woman is a stranger only to the realization of her idealized life. She is surrounded by people, many of whom are men, who dote on, listen to, and validate her. A lonely man is a stranger to everyone and everything. I am a believer that very few American women know what it's like to be truly alone.
/r/MGTOW29/01/18 06:39 PM
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Aside from Ballad in Plain D, which he later saw as the work of a "sap," Dylan refused to write a self-pitying breakup song. The theme of every break up song he ever wrote was "fuck you, see who ends up better off." It's so cool because you can bet every woman he ever broke it off with wishes they could say today that they were married to Bob Dylan. Weirdly, for all the bullshit about women being sensitive and men being assholes, men tend to write songs about missing girlfriends and women seem t…
/r/MGTOW28/01/18 09:48 PM
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Emotional abuse of men by women has to be absolutely rampant. Conveniently, that abuse is the "least important" kind!
/r/MGTOW27/01/18 12:58 AM
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I agree. She shouldn't have pushed it afterwards and when he made the statement about honey buns (which may or may not have been true), she should've laughed it off and said "okay, just wanted us to be clear," knowing that she had made her point. But, whether conceited or not, I don't think there's anything inherently wrong about telling someone "hey, I saw you staring at me. Just want to be clear, I only want to work on the project." That's straightforward and gives him a very clear sense of wh…
/r/MGTOW24/01/18 05:07 PM
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As in real life, Barbie's "weakness" got her a studly husband, luxurious mansion, and top of the line sportscar. As in real life, He-Man's "strength" earned him lifetime enrollment in warfare and the right to be romantically teased by an entitled princess.
/r/MGTOW17/01/18 03:59 PM
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Woody Allen is maybe my favorite director of all time. An absolute genius and excellent interpreter of human nature. Also, in fairness, probably a pedophile. I believe in the concept of innocent until proven guilty, but just openly making films in which a character exactly like you played by you is having sex with 15 year olds is, you know, kind of a red flag.
/r/MGTOW12/01/18 07:06 AM
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I'll also point out that, no matter who you are, you can only tolerate so much disrespect before you eventually break and do something that makes you the bad guy. One of my first relationships involved me basically killing myself to appease and adapt to a girl who wasn't really respecting me. She'd cancel plans at least twice a week, she refused to talk to me on the phone, she told me about other male friends who loved her, she would offer up promises about things we'd do and then never follow t…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 09:18 AM
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"Addictive," ie: they just can't control it. Ie, if they get caught it was just a horrible mistake or the antidote to your wrongdoing that was taken too far.
/r/MGTOW01/01/18 07:13 AM
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This is an extension of the wish fulfillment world view of women. Feelings and needs should manifest as reality whenever convenient, and if they don't they will attempt to be argued into such. Women want men to act like men unless they are scared of those men or dating those men, in which case men should be sensitive and passive so as to ease their interactions.
/r/MGTOW01/01/18 04:38 AM
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This shit is deviant enough in college. It blows my mind that teachers in public school - where you're not even allowed to discuss religion or give students a hug - are allowed to systematically demonize students of one gender so that they grow up thinking they're inherently irredeemable. Disgusting.
/r/MGTOW30/12/17 06:17 AM
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Bingo.
/r/MGTOW29/12/17 12:50 PM
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So, after a decades long campaign to increase the percentage of women in decent jobs, they now complain because there are...too many women in decent jobs? What did they think would happen to the number of men in college and professional life if they made a concentrated effort to overtake those areas? This is basic stuff. There are finite numbers of degrees and positions. If you make a move to fill the majority of those with women, yes...shockingly..there will be fewer educated men. But now, beca…
/r/MGTOW26/12/17 02:20 PM
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"When you ain't got nothing, you got nothing to lose." - Bob Dylan
/r/MGTOW21/12/17 08:32 AM
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While I agree that these people should just stop, I love the notion that it's somehow impossible to genuinely philosophically support a woman's issue and still want to get laid. I've been around people like this - hell, I've probably been a person like this - and have seen how women basically wait for you to express normal male drives and then call you a hypocrite. It's especially galling considering that every staunch feminist - many of whom actively embrace a policy of hatred toward men - stil…
/r/MGTOW13/12/17 10:36 PM
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I appreciate all the comments. Like I said, I've always liked being alone. I was home schooled throughout high school, so I'm used to spending long, long periods of time in isolation. I've always found it therapeutic and rewarding. It's more because of circumstances right now. I lost my job, and despite constant efforts, have not been able to get another. I volunteer as much as I can, but recently money has made it difficult for me to even get to the volunteer site. I have hobbies, etc., but mos…
/r/MGTOW07/12/17 09:33 PM
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Even though it's sort of angsty in a way that would surely provoke derisive comments from women and certain men, I thought the point at the end was very well made. Fairness doesn't matter to most people until they're the ones being treated unfairly. Women who find themselves in a less than desirable social circumstance look at themselves, take stock of their natural human urges for companionship and love, and can't believe how "unfair" it is that their circumstances would deprive them of an oppo…
/r/MGTOW01/12/17 07:24 PM
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Right. In women's minds, they're always "humbling" the men they see as desirable, ie: men who have had power and privilege and access all their lives. The poor schlubs who want nothing more in life than to be accepted, competent, and loved are acceptable collateral damage. When I was 12 years old, my best female friend told me "no woman will ever really love you, I just want you to know that." She was completely serious and wasn't even trying to be mean. She was just stating a fact. I was fat (I…
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 07:44 PM
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Where did you get that sane conclusion? All I read is that this particular "trial" "failed" to "produce diversity."
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 10:06 PM
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Throughout life I've found that one of the easiest ways to distinguish between good people and bad people is this: If you are suffering, do you want to make others suffer too because you want them to know how it feels? or If you are suffering, do you want to make sure no others suffer because you know how it feels? Everyone makes mistakes and hurts people in the course of life. It literally can't be avoided, but if you actively, knowingly, and consistently act in accordance with the former princ…
/r/MGTOW22/11/17 08:38 PM
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Those school teachers aren't abusing or harassing students, they're carrying on "romantic affairs."
/r/MGTOW22/11/17 03:50 AM
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They exist, absolutely. I've met a few myself and have dated a few of them, often to find that the same dynamic plays out in other areas of their lives. Nevertheless, refreshing to say the least. The real thing is just incredibly uncommon given how widespread the "type" is.
/r/MGTOW19/11/17 08:48 AM
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Who broke up with who here?
/r/MGTOW19/11/17 07:02 AM
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This is clever, but - really - there are already so many instances of this that it's not even necessary to speculate. Women have bras that make their chests look bigger, pants that make their asses look bigger, bodysuits that make their waists look slimmer. Yet, believe me, if a woman found out that a man was stuffing his pants they'd mock him at best and chastise him at worst. The biggest and most glaring comparison would be hair plugs and wigs. Think about the social stigma attached to me who …
/r/MGTOW17/11/17 06:51 PM
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Women are not entitled to commitment any more than men are entitled to sex. This is another point that needs to be underscored now that the wants or desires of all men are stigmatized as "entitlement" and the wants and desires of women are elevated to the status of "rights."
/r/MGTOW14/11/17 06:12 PM
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As a tall guy, I wouldn't even consider being with a woman under 5 feet. It would feel like being with a child. I've been with women under 5'5' and even that feels weird.
/r/MGTOW14/11/17 06:05 AM
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Yes, but then the dudes they desperately want to see them wouldn’t be able to. This is all about trying to turn reality into wish fulfillment, where you’re totally anonymous when you want to be and totally noticed immediately when that’s your whim. What they’re actually shooting for here is a system in which undesirable men begin actively repressing their own sexuality, because in a woman’s mind male sexuality is repugnant when not attached to a desirable man. Forget about veiled women, a more a…
/r/MGTOW13/11/17 12:03 AM
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This is actually a total female fantasy of MGTOW. Basically, don't even bother me until you have built yourself up into something I'd want to exploit. Then, when you have adequate resources and social power, please start approaching me again.
/r/MGTOW11/11/17 08:00 PM
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I worked as a teacher right out of college and taught advanced english comp. I had worked as a writing tutor in graduate school, so I was pretty well versed on just how many people in all academic disciplines are incapable of writing a simple essay. I was shocked, however, when a fellow teacher (getting her Master's at the time..) came to me to ask for advice before teaching a lesson in the level below me. Her question? What differentiated an introduction from a conclusion, and could I possibly …
/r/MGTOW10/11/17 11:09 PM
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It's all relative. Women had it even worse, I'm sure!
/r/MGTOW09/11/17 07:02 PM
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Certainly agree that the overwhelming majority of great artists are male, though of course most liberal arts programs will chalk that up to representation and opportunity. Even though most of the best writers/musicians/directors are STILL male. In any case, I would consider Virginia Wolff and Margaret Atwood great artists. Marilynn Robinson is also one of the best writers of the past 25 years and may have the best prose I've ever read anywhere.
/r/MGTOW07/11/17 03:02 PM
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Imagine if this were an article about female sex toys: "But is the basic right to a sexual life the same as a universal entitlement to huge, unrealistically sized penis? Because it is being subverted into here." Surely, this would go over well. The suggestion that men engaging in private sexuality with non-sentient dolls/robots is somehow morally wrong or an affront to women in any way is not only intellectually insane, but also aggressively controlling. Feminists are almost universally pro-choi…
/r/MGTOW03/11/17 11:27 PM
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My last girlfriend insisted on paying for my meals all the time. To the point where she'd get angry if I tried to pay for my own stuff. It could actually be embarrassing because if I tried to take out my wallet to pay for my own meal, she'd grab my hand in front of other people. I was appreciative that she wanted to pay for her stuff, but it was kind of emasculating to not ever be allowed to pay for your own food. Also, she had huge issues in a number of other ways and I feel like her doing this…
/r/MGTOW29/10/17 06:37 AM
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This dude is complicit in rape culture. If he had any consideration for this woman, he would've gotten up and crossed to the opposite sidewalk so that she could sashay past with her latte with a greater sense of safety. I'm sure her implicit fear of men was only heightened by seeing one so....unkempt and poor and.... ugh... unsuccessful.
/r/MGTOW26/10/17 01:05 PM
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I wish I could say I did, but I didn't. It was early in the relationship, but we had been friends for years and I deeply loved her. In RedPill terminology, she was my oneitis in the biggest possible way. I left a job to be with her, etc. What actually happened was that, when she finally agreed to see me, I drove to her place on the foggiest night of the year and had a conversation with her. Things seemed to be fine, then I left and was hit by two cars on the way back, almost dying. Later, this i…
/r/MGTOW25/10/17 12:13 AM
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Ah, the hilarity of a woman chiding a man for not being "normal" enough while sending the most nondescript message of all time, despite having PAID for a dating app for the sole purpose of stalking her ex-boyfriend. One of these people has a right to critique the other's lack of normalcy. And it's not her.
/r/MGTOW23/10/17 12:39 PM
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Now, just to be clear, some of these stories detail predatory behavior such as stalking, legit harassment, and rape. I'm not justifying or defending any of those. Fuck those guys. But there's a far larger trend here in which women lament having to "deal" with the feelings of nice guys. The definition they achieve, very early in the thread, describes "nice guys" as men with poor social skills who are physically undesirable. Subsequent stories detail how these men dared to be nice to women and the…
/r/MGTOW21/10/17 02:37 PM
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In fairness, she was weird about money and often insisted on paying for both of us. I think it was so that she would never feel obligated/indebted. In her case, it was less about the actual money and more about seeing weakness and incapability. To her credit, she never really wanted me to spend all my money on her, but did want to feel like she had a man who was successful/well-off/confident. The minute any worries or misfortune broke that image, it was death. I guess, I was a utility in the sen…
/r/MGTOW16/10/17 03:39 PM
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Women don't understand war because, over the course of the past 2 centuries, only men have been forced to fight them. Can you even imagine if ONLY women had been drafter for war over the course of history and a MAN had the audacity to compare an economic inconvenience to the experience?
/r/MGTOW13/10/17 01:45 AM
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Being a male is an actual impediment to getting many jobs in education. No one talks about it because it's going to cut back on a safe, fallback job for professional women. And no one wants that. Teaching is doubly important in terms of what it reveals about women and their relationship to men in general. Any society that gave a shit about the health of its men would take a look at the number of boys growing up without father figures and figure out that cultivating more male teachers is VITAL in…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 12:08 PM
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General college acceptance and graduation rates favor women across the board. I once read an article lamenting that women "only" occupy something like 65% of the workforce in education. It's high, they said, but could be higher. This isn't about equality, it's about dominance. And the societal programming excuse may be true, but is deployed in a conveniently one sided way. As you said, it's the same in nursing and teaching, with boys getting the societal message that these are women's jobs. But …
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 10:52 AM
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The photo of the "good dudes" is very telling. Why, oh why, can't I find a built dude with a perfectly symmetrical face and a group of similarly attractive friends!? Again, the invisibility of 90% of man in full effect. When she says she's looking for "a man," she's implying that she's looking for a man who looks, dresses, and carries himself like that. Sorry, guys in their thirties who are good looking and well to do don't want you. They want someone younger, less cynical, and more enjoyable to…
/r/MGTOW08/10/17 09:51 AM
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If you're a confused woman and your behavior is dictated by society, it's society's fault and you're being oppressed. If you're a confused man and your behavior is dictated by society, it's your fault and you need to start being a man.
/r/MGTOW08/10/17 08:07 AM
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I get that this is sad, but I do think it's a little overboard for a crush. If this were a marriage proposal for a long term girlfriend, it'd be much sadder since all the time and energy spent on the project would be born of adoration for someone who's supposed to love him back. But if it's just some random girl he's been eyeing, he has no particular reason to think his love will be reciprocated. And having spent all this time on someone you might not know that well does seem a bit obsessive.
/r/MGTOW08/10/17 01:19 AM
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My favorite is the women who write "I'm sorta' hilarious" and then create a profile devoid of any humor whatsoever.
/r/MGTOW07/10/17 11:53 AM
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This is a perfect microcosm of the way feminists view the world. "What's yours is mine too, but don't dare fucking touch mine."
/r/MGTOW07/10/17 05:57 AM
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Agree with this. She probably could've phrased it better, but I think she's challenging you to align your thinking to the realities of contemporary life rather than pining away for a fantasy that is generations in the rear view. That doesn't mean you can't choose to adapt to that reality however you wish, it just means that to continually lament how much better things used to be is - in fact - going to lock you in a constant cycle of frustration and agitation.
/r/MGTOW07/10/17 02:04 AM
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I am in literally the exact same boat. Same age, same situation, everything. Here's the thing. Those women have always seen you as an option, even when you felt you weren't. You were friendzoned, but you were also a backup. They showed you enough to be friends with you, but never enough that you'd wiggle off the hook entirely. Ever since my last relationship, which was with a long term friend whom I loved for years and years and ultimately broke my heart, I've been hyper sensitive to the deeper …
/r/MGTOW03/10/17 08:27 AM
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Oh totally. This is not just superficial observation. This is a pattern of thought that has shown itself in each and every one of my relationships with a woman. For years, I tried to be above it, understand, adapt, and persevere, and it always ended with me being dumped, blamed in some weird way, and left to wonder why the fuck I had put up with any of it. In my last relationship, I had three actual fights over 8 months: The first was when my GF was running a race. I offered to come pick her up …
/r/MGTOW01/10/17 03:34 AM
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Oh totally. Of course. I can't even imagine being in a situation in which three frustrated, unemployed women were sitting at a table and men went on and on about how unfair it is that they're in good jobs making good money but can't seem to make quite as much as an executive manager. Both because the men would've tried to exhibit empathy and because the women would've started the conversation by complaining about not having jobs, rather than putting on a brave face in order to not ruin other peo…
/r/MGTOW01/10/17 03:11 AM
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Believe me, that's usually my strategy. I far prefer doing my own thing and am only lured into situations like this three or four times a year. If it hadn't been my best friend, I would've said no.
/r/MGTOW01/10/17 02:47 AM
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When women talk about "men" they are implying a select group of desirables that includes those men who are wildly successful, physically attractive, socially dominant, and financially well to do. This is why women can tell you with a straight face that their top criteria for a man is "humor" or "intelligence." To them, it's ASSUMED that all dateable men will already have the above listed base criteria, so they can honestly speak of secondary criteria as though it were primary. Men who do not mee…
/r/MGTOW30/09/17 08:05 AM
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Perhaps he wants his daughters to have their mother. Even though this woman obviously isn't the best parental influence, the sheer stability of having one of your parents with you as you grow up is definitely healthier than losing both of them simultaneously.
/r/MGTOW30/09/17 01:50 AM
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This is exactly it. The career=desirability notion is a total projection of their own value system. I've never met a man who cares about a woman's career one way or the other. They care about a woman's personality, interest and intellect, but not her career. That's a female preoccupation and one that warps her perception of how men perceive her. It's why half of female online dating profiles begin like a cover letter. This is what they want to know about men, so why wouldn't a man prioritize tha…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 10:51 PM
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I mean, I'd dispute the last statement in the sense that 90% of all graduate work in English is related to critical thinking and analytical skills. You're pretty much mounting arguments and synthesizing materials all the time. I've considered just going to law school many times, and probably should. It's really the only track available that holds any likelihood of consistent, high paying job opportunities. I don't know any other languages. A bit of Russian, but I wouldn't consider myself fluent.…
/r/askTRP24/09/17 01:13 AM
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My master's is in English. Of course this is not a particularly lucrative field, but I did parlay it into a teaching gig out of grad school and now have many many years of experience in education and education administration. At the moment I have virtually no money. If I had some, I'd be really optimistic about using this opportunity to do something new. But I've used the very minimal savings I had just to keep up with rent and buy enough food to sustain myself. I'm now at the point where I'll p…
/r/askTRP23/09/17 10:44 PM
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This is me to a T. But it's ultimately pointless. I was in love with my first oneitis for five years, including 4 years after she broke up with me. I didn't bother her or interact her, but I thought about her all the time. Furthermore, feeling inadequate due to her decision drove me to do everything I could to make myself someone better than the person she left. I got in great shape, got a good job, developed myself, etc. The combo of that and not giving a shit about any women resulted in four y…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 04:03 AM
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I get this, but I don't think the origin of this is anger. It's more a matter of measuring your needs/wants against what women can realistically provide, just as they do with men. If you're a very sexually driven man, you can accept the truths of TRP and still pursue women emotionlessly on the basis of satisfying your sexual needs. If sex is very secondary to you as a personal need, then the pursuit simply becomes effort prohibitive. I have worked on myself in all the ways prescribed by TRP, inc…
/r/askTRP30/08/17 05:38 PM
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Great point, particularly as it pertains to "support" in times of crisis. I learned this the hard way in my last relationship, which was with a woman with a veritable army of male orbiters. I tripped over myself trying to be a reasonable and decent dude to her, including making the mistake of showing her the respect of ignoring her male friends. Whenever she perceived me to have done something wrong, she'd immediately run to one of her male friends. There was a day when she was scheduled to come…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 02:20 AM
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Yeah, the stuff about reminding her about stuff she's done in the past - while potentially effective - is a bit extreme for me. That being said, tons of good info here in terms of how to maintain your own value and constantly affirm that via your interactions with her. I was recently dumped by a girl who totally took over the relationship in terms of dictating conditions, interactions, time spent together, etc. etc. etc. I knew she was lying or being purposefully avoidant all the time, but I was…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 10:23 AM
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