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| 3 | Do you guys ask for Instagram when you meet a girl on OLD? | Inner Game | ThriftStoreDildo | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Am I overthinking my date planning? | Inner Game | ThriftStoreDildo | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 06:02 PM |
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| 6 | My gf cheated on me. Here's what I learnedsomehow some guy's dick ended up in her mouth. But she didn't have sex with him. I hate when that happens! Yeah those are some big red flags, I could argue point 1 but the rest like.... I guess when you're young and in love you're oblivious to shit. Live and learn, there's plenty of fish out there. You also don't need to rush to other girls, even if casual. sometimes taking time to heal and grow isn't the worst thing either. I def took time for myself and then put myself out there, but every… | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Girl always expects me to pay for her in datesI dated a girl who let me pay for everything, didn't last long cause I ended that fuck that. Sure we had sex but I can do better than that shit. I'm looking for a partner not someone to constantly pamper. | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Are some people missing a gene for this?I mean I used to be socially awkward and then just learned to be myself and own it. I can flirt with the RIGHT woman all day and night but there's personalities that I just wont mesh with, and tbh theyre probs ppl I wouldn't wanna be around anyways. But there are millions of women out there, i've been on multiple dates and know I can socialized so why stress over people who dont wanna fuck with me? Plenty that do, and value me for me, both romantically and platonically. | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 02:20 AM |
| 0 | How do I get over the fact that I won't have sex until I'm a adult in my 20s and missed out on sex and dating as a teenager?I mean, I didn't capitalize much as a teenager, I kinda came together at 19-20 and soared there on out. I used to regret it when I was younger but as I began meeting more women, dating more, having more sex....the novelty of dating as a teenager really lost it's spark quite quick. Even thinking about it now, I had my formative years and that's that... Young adulthood is where it's at. I feel you're focusing on the past and not on the future that is MUCH brighter than the formative years could … | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Am I overthinking my date planning?Yeah we figured it out. Spoke to her on the phone and it calmed my nerves....just remembering she's human and she agreed to see me for a second time, puts it into perspective. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Am I overthinking my date planning?Yeah we have been non-stop texting since our last date. She puts effort in the convos too - i actually don't usually text this much but we keep fucking around and making jokes so whatever lol. She will be a bit late after work so we're just gonna get food then wing it but i know a few options post meal we can explore so itll be fine. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Am I overthinking my date planning?Oh it's def an objective but it doesn't have to be the second date. You're right, I'm there to have fun. I gotta change my mentality a bit. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Am I overthinking my date planning?Another commenter wrote it perfectly, that i should be the fun and not the activity. It's just little things like that that help calm me down. I act super anxious on these posts but then irl you'd never tell lol. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Am I overthinking my date planning?Thank you, you're right. The best dates I've had was because i was simply me and we vibed. I should stress less, cause if she's "meant for me" she will have fun with me regardless even if what we do is a total flop...then we can just make fun of it. I had a shit date a few weeks ago, she wouldn't reply and shit, think that messed with my head a bit but IDT i didn't anything could be incompatibility or she just was boring as shit. This new girl was talking non stop so i should remind myself that. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 08:15 PM |
| 1 | A girl who ghosted me reached out againa girl ghosted me a year ago and then we hit it off when she randomly hit me up and then it failed spectacularly i let my guard down. I would go in a little suspicious - but be open to something happening. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 04:29 PM |
| 1 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...Yeah I agree with these points as I've done this but you def have "taken it further" than I ever did. I get bored I guess, tbh. Number 9 is my only flaw, sometimes if I don't pull it gets to me but that's something I gotta work on and remind myself. I also calmed down a lot cause I kinda don't care as much anymore. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 04:26 AM |
| 2 | The only women I can get online are women I would have never approached IRLI get a few decent matches every two weeks and go on 1-2 dates a week. Depends how busy I am. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys ask for Instagram when you meet a girl on OLD?i kinda like saving that all for the first date. I'm pretty picky to begin with. I do have a date this thurs so wish me luck! | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys ask for Instagram when you meet a girl on OLD?I like leaving snap for later dates. I don't want to seem like I'm rushing stuff and tbh I don't care to talk too much when we barely know each other. | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Good recommendations to increase my texting gameI try to keep text 1:1 and if I'm always making effort then i just walk | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Do you guys ask for Instagram when you meet a girl on OLD?I used to ask for Instagram first but feel vice versa is better | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Good recommendations to increase my texting gameBro even a minute is damn long | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Good recommendations to increase my texting gameYeah i think I'm gonna start using phone calls more. Texting blows, also never discuss serious shit over text. | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls say one thing but seem to want something else?Cause the girls you talk to lack communication skills. | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys ask for Instagram when you meet a girl on OLD?Yeah i just asked the girl I'm talking to. She actually asked me for a first date so wish me luck! It's Thursday so I'll stop talking to her(end the Convo nicely) and follow up wed night to reconfirm. | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | First Date: Why is it bad to talk about past relationships?For some reason I'm really into emotionally unavailable women so i can't tell you how many dates I've had with women who opened up about their exes and some of the stories are seriously fucked up lol. I don't really mention my ex unless they ask when my last relationship was and i keep it brief. There's a diff between explain your past and being calm about it or being still obviously hurt and haven't moved on from it. | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Best place to travel to solo in Europe?Yeah i bet it's dope. I've always heard about Prague and Budapest lol | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 02:44 PM |
| 8 | Best place to travel to solo in Europe?What's a contiki | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 10:17 AM |
| 18 | Best place to travel to solo in Europe?I heard those places were insane party spots. I am thinking of going! Heard vienna was sick as well. | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 02:22 AM |
| 2 | why doesn't game translate well within america?Okay I've always wanted to visit Finland, thanks for the encouragement! | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 01:10 AM |
| 1 | If you are attractive, how much effort should put in?ah okay gotcha. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Managed to ask a girl out for the first time today.It's rude to ask her out and not her boyfriend as well... | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 01:51 AM |
| 3 | Breakfast dates are underrated - OLD Day game tipsIt was a 2nd date but i have taken a girl to mcdicks, for ice cream as well lmao. Yeah maybe in a bit I'm kinda tired of dating. I like to take breaks here and there. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Breakfast dates are underrated - OLD Day game tipsI'm honestly gonna try seeing if i can score a first date at McDonald's. Wish me luck. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Breakfast dates are underrated - OLD Day game tips"do not spend more than 20 on food" Bro wtf you order lmao | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 01:24 AM |
| 3 | If you are attractive, how much effort should put in?what lol, elaborate? | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 12:22 AM |
| 6 | Remember, the most important trait to work on is your weakest.Chug miracle grow? | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 04:03 PM |
| 2 | it really isn't difficult.yeah sometimes you have to go for it. But sometimes I feel like the situation isn't really right. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Bad social skills ruined my life 😞im legit saving it lol | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Bad social skills ruined my life 😞Yeah I don't get it. I mean I get upset when I fuck up but tbh if you're positive I can work thru anything. Some of these people just want to be fucking sad no matter what you say. EDIT: Yo now thinking about it, the biggest transformations happened to be from break ups, cause I legit said fuck you in my mind and did something to make my life better. Learned to surf, cycled, lost even more weight now you can see my six pack. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 05:06 PM |
| 5 | Has a girl ever lost interest in you but somewhat became interested again in the future?I can barely date cause i get turned off being an option. I'm a bit old school, but some people wanna talk to multiple ppl i'm like nah f that. If I am a priority, or a hell yes, then fuck it. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Bad social skills ruined my life 😞I was awkward as fuck when I grew up man, like I couldn't even look at a cute girl. But I faced that shit in HS and it took college to work thru it and now I can talk to a chick like it's clockwork(if that makes sense). Only thing holding me back is if theyre not into me or if I sometimes dont know what to brainstorm if theres nothing to discuss but I also realized it takes two to make convo so honestly if she's boring af then fuck it, someone cool and intriguing will match effort. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 02:43 AM |
| 9 | Has a girl ever lost interest in you but somewhat became interested again in the future?so like did yall get married? | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 02:07 AM |
| 1 | I am enjoying dating a women who has more money than meI dated a few girls with more money than me it was dope. I met this girl who was LOADED but it never went anywhere, damn... tho truthfully money doesn't mean much to me. I'm more about experiences as long as the bills are being paid haha. Hate when a girl never tries to pay tho. f that | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 02:42 AM |
| 1 | If I cut off every woman who didn't reciprocate my effort I would only have about one date every year or twoThat's a good reply. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 12:35 AM |
| 2 | How important are lingerie and sexy clothesHonestly it doesn't do much for me, but I have a spandex/leggings fetish that's a bit more than a regular guy imo lol | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Do you text a girl everyday until the date?lmao I read question as a question mark and I was like bro lol | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Do you text a girl everyday until the date?you should be sending her long paragraphs about your future together. it works everytime if this was actually a serious question, generally no unless she's talkative then I'll entertain it a bit but usually I set a date and then leave it until then. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 12:16 AM |
| 3 | What does confidence mean to you?Sigma male grindset. As much as it is a meme, I think it carries a lot of truth TBH. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 02:01 AM |
| 4 | Height is a killer for collegeright? Looking at the comments OP needs to work on some confidence god damn | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Height is a killer for collegemy friend is 6'6" and I pull more girls than him at 5'10. dude can't flirt for shit lol. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 01:49 AM |
| 5 | Height is a killer for collegeI'm 5'9/5'10 and height has only been an issue a few times. Honestly girls like that aren't worth your time. I've dated enough to know dope chicks dgaf, I've dated girls taller. Tbh the only girls who called me short was this girl who was 6'1, and the rest were 5'0 lol. EDIT: Actually, a few girls who were like 5'2" liked my height and said any taller would be a dealbreaker/not ideal. Don't generalize! | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Should I refrain from mentioning I go to therapy to a girl.If she doesn't want you if you go to therapy then f that lmao. Imo that's a red flag. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 12:21 AM |
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