Throughthebeerglass Archive

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9	Have your first impressions of men been accurate? My ex slept with my friend, who was in love with him, because I was in another relationship. He told me he had feelings for me, then he slept with her ( I remember when we talked about it, he said:"it was just sex, not even that good"). I could not trust him from the beginning, then turns out one year into the relationship he was cyber cheating on me with girls on a LANGUAGE APP. he was learning French, and he downloaded this app and he was FLIRTING in french. He thought that because I don't spe…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/22 10:14 AM
22	[Update] Good news about the post with the fiance telling his fiancee he wasn't attracted to her for two years. She left him. She left him? GOOD. I left my boyfriend after he told me he wasn't attracted to me because WE WERE FIGHTING ALL THE TIME. I flew to another state to see him, after being far apart for three months, and he didn't ever touch me but he said that. I left him not straight after, it took me a lot of Therapy but that thing he told me was one of the things that made me realise HE was the problem.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/10/21 10:05 AM
6	Is she high maintenance tho? My first boyfriend did the same. I was 21 and he was 26. He didn't like flowers but he gave me plants, because flowers die (turns out it was because his ex liked flowers and she broke his heart). He also said that normal and conventional Holiday are boring just so he could go with his friends instead of me. Don't ever settle. If you want to go to Mykonos as a load of other people do, DO IT. If you want flowers, THEY NEED TO BUY YOU FLOWERS.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/21 08:57 AM
2	GREAT ANSWER TO "WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR IN A MAN?" This!! Is!! The!! Vibe!!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/07/21 06:11 PM
3	When they lie about their ages on dating apps and think we won't notice 😂 And the AUDACITY about height. "Yeah I am 5ft11", but every time I go out with one of them (I am 5ft7) they're shorter than me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/06/21 06:11 PM
1	Nearly spit out my coffee reading this 😂 How to approach him in my opinion:"oh I am happy for you if you enjoy porn. Here's what I enjoy in comparison"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/06/21 09:42 AM
1	Nearly spit out my coffee reading this 😂 Or, if you don't like porn (for example, I don't get aroused with it), make sure you either find something that arouses you (50 shades of Grey...?) And LET. HIM. KNOW.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/06/21 09:41 AM
1	Nearly spit out my coffee reading this 😂 You're not tripping. He's controlling you and your sexuality. Try and watch porn yourself and make sure he knows. He'll go BANANAS. Same happened with my ex. He said he didn't want to have sex with me because we were arguing a lot all the time, but he was having thoughts about other women. some of them were MY FRIENDS.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/06/21 09:40 AM
17	We used to think we were always at fault That's so sadly true. My ex decided to not have sex with me (and said he wasn't attracted to me at that point) as an unconscious "punishment" for me, because we kept arguing for months because HE was a dick and thought that flirting around with other women was acceptable for our relationship, although the "don't flirt around" was the ONLY boundary I put. And I kept thinking: he doesn't want me, there must be something wrong with me. Turns out he was my problem. Bye biatch	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/21 05:06 PM
2	I have no words... How do you start? You should quote the great Ariana Grande:"thank you, next"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/04/21 08:31 PM
10	I don’t know which replies to this are worse, the NVM saying they don’t care or the Pick Me’s saying they only care about pleasing their man. I dated a guy that said that if he has feelings is more difficult to have sex for the emotional connection. I should have run then	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/04/21 08:00 PM
2	People on this subreddit downvoting me for telling OP to stand up for herself, AND OP FOR HER FEELINGS!! The gaslighting is next level. This happened to me as well. We agreed we were videocalling each other at X time, I was ready for that time and he wasn't calling. I messaged him, thinking:"what if something bad happened?" (Because yes you never think that he's being a narcissistic dickhead, you assume the worst). Then, after one hour of the X time, I called him, he said he was out with friends and forgot. He understood that I was mad, so he called me back in ten minutes and I Said:"I don't want to talk with you now" and he was…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/09/20 12:31 PM
3	What are some phrases LVM say in the beginning that are red flags in the early phases that we may not notice? I just split up from one hell of a LVM (long distant relationship for mostly the entire year we've been together, he has been around many countries because that's what he wanted to do). I Am starting to make a list of what are redflags, and I found out that mostly are: -my ex cheated on me so I'd never do that -i want light conversations, I don't want to waste the time we speak on the phone by arguing (and make me feel bad about it) -you don't see the effort I put in the relationship (the effort…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/09/20 09:48 AM