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I always forget how warped men's minds are because they're so used to looking at famous women. Everytime those rate me subs pop up they'll be a bunch of fools saying, "I love her beauty it's give average girl next door." None of these female celebrities are average girl next door. Most of them have nose jobs and Botox. Stop saying the average girl looks like the average female celebrity with plastic surgery. The average girl next door does not look like that unless the only shows you watch are f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 03:25 PM
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The internet keeps giving me a headache. I hate how everyone keeps complaining about the same actors being mentioned all the time, while only watching movies with those same actors. There are other indie films being made and people keep harping about the same old shit. "Why does Hollywood keep casting xyz" because those are the only films you basic people watch and talk about. I'm peeved.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 05:02 PM
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They're very soft especially if you're unfit. My partner says I'm soft but I'm kind of soft everywhere. I've always wanted to be muscular though and I've always wondered if a booty that's built in the gym feels more firm. But, in theory, I think all butts are soft whether fat or muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 04:49 PM
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My partner cooked for me, dropped off the food and then went home because I have to study. But now I don't want to study and I'm just horny. 😭I'm so embarrassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 04:45 PM
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I don't want to reveal my country but we're African and there are a few different tribes here. The tribe they're from is very traditional though and the most conservative of them all. A lot of women find men from that tribe to be a red flag due to their very conservative views. She could just be rebelling against her culture while also genuinely relating to him. Same language and culture make it easier realistically but at the same time I wonder how dating someone with those views would work sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 06:37 PM
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She's a slim hour glass. Baddie style (crop tops and short skirts) to class and has nice makeup. I found out through my guy friend that all the guys like her and I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 06:26 PM
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We are final year university students. 😭🤣But ya I should have said woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 06:24 PM
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This is going to sound so fake but I'm serious. This girl in my class constantly posts this kind of stuff on her status (the picture below is what she posted) and she's also the dream girl for 90% of the guys in our class (she's a baddie). This year I did a group project with her and this other guy and he asked her if she's a misandrist and she replied "a proud misandrist". After this meeting he expressed that the only reason men live and do anything is for women and that being gay doesn't exist…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 05:30 PM
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There are threads about women bragging about their men treating them kindly without any strings attached. They'll never post those ones. Or if they do they'll have to form some fake scenario where the guy is either rich or something like that just to say the attraction is not genuine. This entire sub is a confirmation bias hell hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 05:18 PM
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This is one thing that I have personally never understood a day in my life. Like who even benefits from this. Who?! Men will tell women to lower their standards. Nevermind lowering standards, why would you think you could ever be happy with someone you had to tell to lower their standards and settle for you. I know I'm not most men's cup of tea and I can't imagine being angry that the men who don't find me attractive don't want to date me. Like you already do not find me attractive, there's no w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 05:06 PM
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Whoever decided to cast mostly gen-z for the X-Men made a very wise decision because I don't think I cared to watch X-Men until now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 02:25 PM
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I really liked my long term brand because it got rid of all my horrible symptoms it only really just killed my libido. But ya maybe I'll check out another one so it doesn't mess with my libido. I recently tried a new one for a short while and it was useless and gave me permanent boob acne so I'm really skeptical about switching to other ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 11:36 PM
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Congratulations 🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 11:32 PM
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Quick browsing down and seeing the same thing over again. Where are you guys meeting all of these bi people?? I only know men who are exclusively gay and exclusively straight?? I only know one bi woman. Is it a thing for men and women to hide their bisexuality or is it just not that common?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 06:32 PM
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I went to bed with a tampon and a pad on and woke up with bad cramps and the sheets and protective mattress soaked in blood. I've been off birth control for the last 3 months and I've had my sex drive fixed and my sex life is better than ever but I think it's time to go back. I low-key can't handle heavy bleeding every two weeks, being hungry, cramps for hours and being overly emotional. But if I'm back on birth control I'll never feel like having sex and low-key hurting my partner. Then you hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 06:29 PM
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Someone who understands! You'd gag at the sight of me. I bruise very easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 08:59 AM
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Ya maybe. Third world for me. There's a lot of obesity in my country but most of the people I surround myself with are mostly skinny to underweight. Not Ariana levels but skinny. Being the kind of skinny like Ariana is very rare but it's also rare for me to see someone who is 600lbs but one makes me more visually uncomfortable for some unknown reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 08:29 PM
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For incels, I don't think they're ugly, in fact some of them might be attractive. There was a guy on PPD sometime ago, I can't remember exactly when, who posted a picture of himself after being a prick and the women dragged his looks. I thought he was actually not bad looking and could even be handsome but my guy and girl friends have hinted to me not always having high visual standards. 😅 I think it's a combination of they genuinely are assholes and western standards of beauty are very fixed. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 08:12 PM
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WARNING: A very unhinged and triggering view of body image Whew y'all are harsh in these comments so now I know this is the only place I can post this opinion without sounding controversial. I'm going to sound very crazy but I can't look at very anorexic people without it making me very uncomfortable. Not uncomfortable in the sense that I feel bad for them (I do but that doesn't trigger a visceral response), uncomfortable in the sense that I'm visibly unnerved, stressed and sometimes even disgus…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 07:39 PM
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They've been told many times the don't care. For many of us it's not even a cost thing it's a stress thing. School, stress, bills it's a lot when you're trying to maintain pretty for some of us. Beauty is an underrated skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 06:37 PM
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You have been through a lot. Apologies for the suffering. I hope recovery continues to go well and along with you I hope your life does go back to normal soon. Reading your paragraph I can tell you are truly blessed. I think one of the biggest blessings are the people we go through with life. I can see how full your life is because of your family, your partner and friendships. Their sacrifices are commendable and I love how you can express how grateful you are. Like, your life is filled with lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 11:47 PM
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I used to really like Alex in high school but it's a pity his style didn't mature with his audience. I'm such a basic bitch but it's my favourite movie of the year and I literally only watched it because Reddit wouldn't shut up about it. I literally forced my boyfriend to pirate it with me and then bought us cinema tickets to rewatch it the next weekend even after we agreed it depressed us. It was low-key even more fun the second time watching it. It's the easiest plot to understand but it's exe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 11:30 PM
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Your man did that? You've won the partner lottery. A man paying for you is not an indication that he'll treat you well. Many women are with rich men who cheated or would even leave them if they fell ill. Character is not dependent on a man spending a lot of money on you imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 11:20 PM
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You are low-key goals. You and I are actually kind of similar. I'm not super rich, probably lower middle class, but I've been privileged enough to not have to worry about finances like I see other students do, been able to travel and have my family pay my full university tuition which is not common in my country. I'm relatively very privileged and my one guy friend even said I have a habit of over spending on people I care about. I've seen my uncles foot big bills like you for us on vacation and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 11:16 PM
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Been there. I've gotten the "does he really care for you if he doesn't pay." 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 11:06 PM
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I 100% believe you about the nasty comments. I'm curious if anyone who went out of their way to DM you was a man or women or even both. I'm a believer that both groups are not used to rejecting the status quo. For me it started off as circumstances but overtime I realised I enjoyed it. I'm curious low-key if it's a part of your culture and where you're from. I think it's common where I'm from but nobody will verbalise it and puts up a front. Is it normal for you? Like we're you raised like that …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 03:56 PM
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Which group of women are you referring to? I don't think women who actively show contempt for men care for their allyship. I know of 2 YouTubers who used to post a lot of pro men content and then got criticised by those same men and started bashing them. Many women who have contempt for men probably had bad experiences/ have heard of other women's experiences and due to that try to limit contact with men as a group. My theory: They don't view men as moral so they feel like requesting for their a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 12:46 PM
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Ya it makes sense. It's practical. I actually don't know what's really common. Like I said I've been judged by both men and women and it's trendy to push the whole "provider man" these days so I'm confused about what's common I guess. Both people contributing and sharing makes the most sense but I only ever see people admitting that online, like here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 12:17 PM
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Yes I'd imagine perfectly 50/50 is more difficult. In my relationship it's more of if we want to do something the person who has funds at the moment will pay and as the one with more funds on average I'm just not strict about paying for the activities most of the time. It's not 50/50 per se but I don't know what else I'd call it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 11:57 AM
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You should make this a thread!!! I think it's also ironic how men know that they're not good people but are also trying to convince women to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 10:57 AM
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Out of all the repetitive conversations, I actually like the fact that this sub has open conversations about 50/50 and women admitting to paying for dates. When I've said that I don't mind paying the bulk of dates out loud both men and women have dragged the hell out of me to the point that I dislike speaking about my relationship for fear of judgement. I like that women on here can be like "it's not for me but there's nothing wrong with it". I wonder if some people are genuinely afraid of norma…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 10:53 AM
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You have to wonder what people were saying that Reddit felt the need to get to that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 10:42 AM
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I disagree with the suffering levels of pain. We can agree to disagree. More common where I'm from. I've seen it happen to my granny, 1 aunt, 1 uncle and obviously my friend. All the men stepped out in each case and had outside children. It's quite common where I'm from so I attribute the behaviour mostly to men. The Reddit thread surprised me because I didn't know that it happened even in western nations as much. I know women also cheat but I've barely heard of women essentially lying about the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 04:57 AM
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I feel like you're undermining the situation I gave you where a women has to worry about her husband stepping out and having a child on her. For some reason you're undermining the pain and hurt of finding out a man keeping a secret of infidelity and a child from you even after being on his death bed? Why would that not be the direct equivalent. Aren't men angered by the infidelity and lies of a child not being theirs? You're also missing the point where the scenario I've presented is more common…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 03:44 AM
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Shame on me to forget that there are gents like you on this sub and when I'm reminded I'm annoyed. You could have peacefully moved on without this dismissive response. It's still boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 02:51 AM
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But even then. Why do so many men here worry so much about paternity testing and illegitimate children when just as many or more women have come out being victims of finding out about their husband's children or even few of us know of women who it's happened to. I barely hear women or see them post about having an irrational fear over it the way I hear men do. The only time I hear women speaking about it is to recount their experiences with it. Men here complain about it occuring whilst not even…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 02:42 AM
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I feel like 90% of the things men worry about in relationships are actually commited by them. I know of more women who have raised illegitimate children than men (one of them being my granny). There's a recent ask Reddit thread asking about what people found out about their spouses after death. What a mess. So many women saying they found out about their husband's hidden children and a few even having their husbands confess to them that they never even found them attractive. Why do men even worr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 09:02 PM
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You do that everyday?? Even cooking everyday is way more of a chore than this. My boyfriend cooks and cleans way more than landscaping or plumbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 10:24 PM
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I don't know what your point is though. I asked if men are viewed as immoral by default and you're coming through with other things. Realistically I'm not viewed that way in the context of my country. I'm a short women. I've even asked men if they've ever felt visually intimidated by me and it's a no. I'm simply assumed as less physically intimidating due to size, gender and statistics within the context of my own country. The average man is assumed to be the opposite. My theory is it's the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 07:05 PM
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No they're not. I don't understand what their point is. Men have the highest violence and assault statistics from Africa to China.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 07:01 PM
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I'm black in a predominantly black country. My country has some of the highest rape statistics in the world. Many people here still view the default man as immoral. I don't know why you guys always make this argument, men's behaviour is regarded as the same across all races of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 06:58 PM
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I get the analogy. So women are essentially justified in their assumptions?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 01:26 PM
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Men assume other men are immoral by default, like I provided in the example above. An average man is realistically more willing to trust a male child with a female adopter than to trust a female child with a male adopter. That's not just a case of men punching down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 12:34 PM
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I 100% agree. Would you consider it as discrimination to assume immortality for men as a whole though?? Genuinely asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 12:29 PM
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But if you say that to men online they'll argue that you're being a misandrist, even though realistically said assumptions are used for self preservation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 12:27 PM
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Am I correct to say men, as a group, are assumed to be immoral by default? There was some thread about adoption and a male poster said they would never willingly allow a female child to be adopted by a single man. It got a lot of upvotes too. Another user pointed out how no one willingly hires a male nanny (I think this is more of supply thing but I understood the point being made). A common sentiment by undesirable men is not wanting to be lumped in with desirable men when it comes to immoral b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 12:17 PM
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Your partner seems like they value you as a person which is what I'm trying to see. I feel someone who just wants me as a person wouldn't have so many hangups about what I'm supposed to be like. You are very lucky girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:52 PM
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Yes it's the entitlement part that annoys me. Arguably I don't mind strict people but it's when the strictness goes in one direction. A lot of the time it is just shaming. Like saying your partner should have a low body count when yours can be high makes me feel like the person is not willing to date an equal partner. People like that always set off my hypocrisy bells. They're also the same kind of guys I've seen cheat on my friends. That's why I'm wondering if you date someone who has the same …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:31 PM
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Women with dating experience, are men who are more relaxed with their standards kinder/ better partners in the long run?? How do men who are less strict with things like looks, body count, body shaming, age shaming behave as partners in the long run? Where I'm from men are very strict with how many are supposed to act but kind of shitty partners. I've seen beautiful women being treated like garbage even when guys claimed they were their dream women because they were slimmer, had low body counts …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:11 PM
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Moderators are very strict with what they allow to be posted. Couldn't even post something because it had the word incel in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:42 PM
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I understand that now I just don't see how that doesn't get old over time. In reality, many guys I've met have evolving opinions or their opinions vary across topics. Here the opinions are always limited or I can always predict what most men are going to say. Women in my opinion differ enough. Some are traditional whilst others are non-traditional so I can at least feel a difference. I feel like I gain some value listening to some women even if I don't agree with them. I feel like I'm never enli…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 07:21 AM
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Your last sentence is exactly it! Like the attitude never changes. This sub works way better as an idea if it's not meant to go anywhere. If you're a bit more solution orientated with these kind of topics you might not have the patience I guess. It's like they work to actively not move their opinions even if it doesn't make sense. Even the worst guys, I know will have similar opinions about what's objectively wrong. Then you'll open PPD and see men defending and downplaying things like abuse and…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:53 AM
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It never gets old? I used to be here months back and left. Like you I was also fascinated but it got repetitive. Came back and these men are still the same. In fact they seem worse because I started engaging with more male friends. The men here are regressive to the point that I wonder how this doesn't get old. How do you feel like you've reached any new meaningful conclusions if these men constantly stay the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:25 AM
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Ironically enough I'm asking because I've come to realise how boring the men here are. I use to lurk, post and comment but after leaving and actually making more guy friends in real life I've come to the conclusion that subs like this are boring. Men in real life are way more varied and offer opinions with depth. The men here never change. The opinions never grow. They're so narrow minded and jaded in a way that real life men aren't that I'm wondering how one even has fun engaging in arguments h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:21 AM
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Women who use this sub why? Like what is the point in engaging?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:15 AM
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Not being able to change a situation doesn't mean using the situation to have sex with someone non-consentually he can 100% be blamed for having sex with her knowing the circumstances. Not raping her was still an option alongside killing or suicide but stick to being a rape apologist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:12 AM
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The writing is not bad if it got the same message across to everyone else, the average human being knows what rape looks like without having to see it spelt out in letters. You're just media illiterate if you need to read "he's a rapist" out in bold letters on the screen". Bear took advantage of a situation when he knew the person he was with could not physically consent herself. The director literally said he had to keep rewriting the script after test screenings to ensure that audience members…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:28 AM
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The actress confirmed that bear was raping her. Most men and women, including my male partner and friends, have concluded that Bear was conscious of the fact that Nikki didn't have autonomy over her body after the dinner phone call with Ian. At the very least he questioned it and whilst being skeptical of her consciousness he still went onto sleep with her and somehow this is not rape?? I think you are the only person who walked away with this opinion and that's saying alot. Somehow everyone els…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:10 PM
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I'm a woman. I'm saying all the benefits of objectification are in men's favour. They get what they want with little to no consequences or threats.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:07 PM
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Yep all the benefits are in their favour. I too would love being objectified if there were 0 consequences and threats.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:03 PM
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They jump to it because whenever we ask men what the solution is they never give us anything. All complaints and 0 solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:59 PM
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But women don't complain that lack of relationships will kill them overtime so how is it a "human" need?? You can't compare it to something that everyone technically needs. There are other ways to alleviate loneliness which is engaging with family and friends which is what women do so why don't men focus on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:08 PM
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