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FundamentalsThrowAway283837274/r/seduction04/10/21 10:37 PM
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Ok How does an incompetent 25 year old learn game?
/r/seduction09/10/21 06:19 PM
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Can you summarize game for me in a few sentences?
/r/seduction09/10/21 06:05 PM
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How old are you now when you went through this transformation?
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:41 PM
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I enjoy sports and thats basically it, and you dont really get to engage in deep, meaningful conversations there And with sports its usually just men anyways Ive never really been the type to enjoy lots of things, and ive always been a lone wolf
/r/seduction05/10/21 05:00 PM
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I realized I expressed myself a bit weird I can talk to strangers briefly sometimes, I can give compliments and I do sometimes To explain it correctly, what I genuinely struggle with is leading like a full on conversation, and flirting/talking with new women, that I just cant
/r/seduction05/10/21 04:44 PM
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I don't even look bad dude I probably could solve this shit, and I've probably had someone interested at some point but I missed it Its just that I dont enjoy going out to clubs, bars etc. and home parties arent really my thing either I cant fake the enthusiasm which is needed so my boredom/annoyance most likely shine thru which is obviously off putting. I just dont get how people enjoy that shit, I mean I dont even enjoy alcohol
/r/seduction05/10/21 04:38 PM
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Just no, absolutely not, I won't. It's pathetic and would make me hate myself immensely, add to that its illegal here and taken extremely seriously. I might have no game but I ain't dumb.
/r/seduction05/10/21 04:34 PM
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I admire your courage that I don't have myself
/r/seduction05/10/21 04:30 PM
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It isn't that easy, if they aren't attractive how are you gonna be able to have sex? It literally goes hand in hand, sex and Attraction, no Attraction then no sex Probably wouldnt even get hard and even if, how enthuiastic would you be to fuck someone you're not attracted to? Nah
/r/seduction05/10/21 04:27 PM
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I wish I had bros that would support me and that I could learn from, I'm all alone though And there's nothing cool about someone like me approaching people just for the sake of it, and what can you even talk about?? I'm honestly amazed at you people who can just go up to anyone and strike a quality conversation I can barely do that with people I know, nice
/r/seduction05/10/21 04:24 PM
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This isn't a US thing only I am literally the Swedish version of him, 24m, kissless and with the same mindset Wont ever go to an escort fuck that (pun intended), that would be humiliating myself
/r/seduction05/10/21 04:19 PM
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Hey are you me? I'm 24m and are going thru the same thing lol and have the same mindset, aint no way im gonna lose it to a prostitute, id rather die than pay for it
/r/seduction05/10/21 04:16 PM
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I don't see how it's weird, I doubt people just randomly know how to properly kiss, go down etc. the first time just like that, especially when you're awkward as hell and isn't used to intimacy Maybe I'll drink a glass or two before my first time when it happens and I'll be able to relax a little 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction05/10/21 05:58 AM
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Yeah sounds like the worst part for me as well Hoe does your swimming routine look like? Can you go to the gym, do other sports?
/r/seduction04/10/21 11:32 PM
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I have lots books but havent read for 4 monthd nothing because overwhelmed, cant focus and retain anything for shit Have a slipped disc and dont really know what I can do, can barely do any running without feeling my back getting all weird I was working on a side hustle earlier this year until I ran out of money, got a new job to be able to fund that and it burned me out recently and I feel like a pile of mash, had to resign and quit in 2 days Hobbies I have none really, I dont find anything fun…
/r/seduction04/10/21 11:29 PM
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How long ago did you get your injury? Its been 2,5 years for me come Xmas so a long, long time
/r/seduction04/10/21 11:17 PM
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I've been walking and running (to the extent my back allow it, got a slipped disc) for a year now and currently I havent missed a day since June 12th, it did help initially with my mental well being but lately it really hasnt, I just do it to get out and to keep my streak going really. I want to go to a gym again and start muay thai but I doubt my slipped disc will allow it
/r/seduction04/10/21 11:02 PM
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I'd rather end it than get a prostitute, and buying sex over here is illegal and taken very seriously Getting sex though isn't really the main issue, it's about actually becoming a high value man, someone girls would want to be with. I'd much rather get in a relationship to be someone who fucks around. Besides that, I just cant see my first time being a hookup, like I wouldnt even know what to do
/r/seduction04/10/21 10:55 PM
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It's not that it's not in my comfort zone, it's that I genuinely don't get what the "fun" part is about it I would love to get it, but I don't unfortunately I practically have no hobbies, my hobby was video games up until I quit it finally 1 year ago I'd love to get into Muay Thai and Tennis, got a slipped disc since 2 years and although I got enough help to live without major pain, I still can't really do any sports, feels like I'm gonna fuck it up for life. I dont have any faith in the Swedish…
/r/seduction04/10/21 10:49 PM
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I've tried therapy before twice in my life and it didn't work for me. I don't know what would for me honestly, its like I feel fuck all anymore.
/r/seduction04/10/21 10:43 PM
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No clue how you can work it out in your brain that I'm the sensitive one from simply telling you to stop being a snowflake 🤣 I was taking the piss out of you for being so sensitive you felt the need to tell people to stop using a WORD
/r/seduction15/06/21 07:30 PM
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No it really doesnt LMAO It would if I was on my main account, saw your comment, then switched to an alt account and dropped my comment But that is not how it happened you doughnut
/r/seduction15/06/21 12:14 PM
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Bruh lmfao You're hilarious I have different accounts for different subs and I go onto them all regularly, fuck are you on about? Of course ill reply to you on the account I initially replied to you on, why the fuck would I change account to continue?
/r/seduction15/06/21 08:37 AM
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Uhh, what are you on about? I wasn't on my main account lmao, I was on this account so I didn't resort to shit, why the hell would I waste time switching back to my main account? Had I been on my main account I still woulda commented cause idc, if you take offense over that word it's your problem, not anyone else's Stop being an easily offended snowflake is the solution
/r/seduction14/06/21 02:56 PM
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Not really lol
/r/seduction14/06/21 02:11 PM
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Lol, as if I would go onto my main account to find your comment again
/r/seduction14/06/21 01:41 PM
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Oh how I wish I had a friend like you
/r/seduction14/06/21 11:40 AM
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Stop being such a snowflake
/r/seduction14/06/21 11:33 AM
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Well since I keep it short I would say it looks good yeah, but when I let it grow for months upon months, it looked terrible and I definitely could not keep it together 😅 Maybe I should consider it and let a barber handle it When it grows out tho, it gets very much red/orange hehe, not as much when it's short, Wonder what the ladies think of Ginger beards together with blonde hair? 😏
/r/seduction30/05/21 03:53 PM
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Well that I already do, I thought it was an obvious thing people do when trimming their beard tbh, if there's no Neck line it just looks absolutely terrible I do have a beard wax but all it does is make it a little bit shiny, doesnt really make a worthwhile difference
/r/seduction30/05/21 12:43 PM
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I do all of these My skin is not bad, but its not exactly good either It just looks, average I guess?
/r/seduction29/05/21 07:05 PM
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Huh? I trim my beard down to 6-7mm and there's not really much I can do, maybe you're referring to longer beards? What else can I really do to a short beard than trim it? I've had my beard grow out longer before but it looked terrible, perhaps it would look good if I had a barber take care of it, but that would include looking terrible while it grows out
/r/seduction29/05/21 07:04 PM
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I can only do this when something funny is said, how tf is it even possible to genuinely smile with your whole soul etc. when your glancing over at a stranger across the room? It just feels so incredibly forced, never ever been able to genuinely smile unless I find something incredibly funny or if I'm happy I can't force it and make it genuine
/r/seduction24/05/21 01:35 PM
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Aayyy I got something down, cause I'm a great fucking listener I opened this post expecting to feel more hopeless but got surprised, thanks bro
/r/seduction22/05/21 03:32 PM
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Yes you did lmao, learn how to communicate properly via text "Sorry, this is all retarded. A genuine smile and eye contact gets you a lot further" You clearly said that it was useless and not as important as a smile and eye Contact, I didn't interpret it the wrong way, you just said it the wrong way clearly
/r/seduction22/05/21 07:51 AM
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Dude wtf lmao, you was the one saying that this post was retarded?? Lmao of course these things are obvious, but you made it seem as if they werent obvious to you
/r/seduction21/05/21 07:59 PM
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Yeah I mean I've already gone thru this process before From 2016 - 2017 I was unemployed, just stayed at home and gambled away all my money Then I moved abroad to Malta and met great people and made lots of friends, only thing is I never ever managed anything with a girl there had to leave tho last year as I didnt see a future for myself there, and now ive been back home again for 9 months and here I don't have any friends I need to move again ASAP I dont like it here in Sweden one bit.
/r/seduction21/05/21 02:58 PM
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Easier said than done, I mean sure if you work in an office you get to meet people, but if you're Self employed/work on a distance, how does on exactly make friends? Also extremely hard to find high quality people who are like minded, I have throughout my life found just a few high quality people and we had different goals and moved to different places Have never found any friends who I truly click with on basically all levels, im super jealous of people who just click and that they can do crazy…
/r/seduction21/05/21 02:36 PM
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and if you dont have good people or genuine experiences in your life, or dont know how to properly structure your Instagram, you're fucked yeah? Man I hate the modern day, would've loved to be born in the 60's or some shit, not this social media garbage society
/r/seduction21/05/21 02:27 PM
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This aint retarded at all lol, being well dressed is extremely important, and being Fit will help you get noticed a lot more
/r/seduction21/05/21 08:31 AM
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Derifine imperfections perhaps? Also, it's more of a broader network, no? Can't have an Infinite amount of friends because you don't have enough time to invest in each and everyone
/r/seduction21/05/21 08:22 AM
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Yeah thank you Idk why but every 3-4 weeks or so I get extremely down for like 2 days or so, and then I rebound and feel ok Cause deep down I know I'm not bad looking, like not at all I actually look quite good, and when I get in shape I'll look even better I am competent socially, if I can get along with almost everybody and make friends with basically everyone around me, which I have done on multiple different places throughout my life, I can get a girl lmao, just gonna take some balls that's …
/r/seduction20/05/21 07:38 AM
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No lol
/r/seduction19/05/21 04:17 AM
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Guy has personal issues and its clear as day Why in the hell would someone who has his game on point go onto Reddit, post about tips and tricks consistently and then argue with people in the comments and call them pussies? And he's 35 at that, guy is prolly sad for having a low ass IQ, I mean he looks like a model, anyone with a decent brain would understand that the majority of the stuff he can do is because of that, not because of how he is
/r/seduction18/05/21 08:07 PM
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Me? I don't know, but I'm not gonna sit back and not call out bullshit like this that only works if you have the looks Good looking people get treated better and that's the sad truth You could have everything in check, swagger on point, confident as fuck etc. etc. But if you are ugly then this would never, ever work, not in a million years. Because why would a group accept you to join just like that? They wouldn't The girls wouldn't have that initial Attraction because you're ugly and the guys w…
/r/seduction18/05/21 08:01 PM
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Imagine being 35, going onto Reddit with the sole intent of trying to appear better than everyone else and spark fights, and then all you can say is "pussy" And you don't realize things like this is only possible for you because you were blessed with a pretty face Too bad you weren't blessed with some intelligence Edit: Reddit, not Twitter
/r/seduction18/05/21 07:55 PM
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Narcissistic as fuck, posts all these things on Reddit but in reality it's all a form of searching validation because he "gets it", meanwhile it got nothing to do with anything besides the fact he's good looking, that's it Try and pull up to a random Group of people saying "hey, sorry im late" if you're ugly and you'll get rejected instantly. Dumbest post I've seen in a while here on Reddit.
/r/seduction18/05/21 07:51 PM
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Nah dude lmao, I've seen some other things you've said and they're decent, but this aint it Doesnt need to have any real life experience doing it, all it takes is envision some random dude coming up to a group setting, no one knows him and he pulls that? Would immediately think he's an idiot etc.
/r/seduction18/05/21 07:45 PM
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and as we all know, its a story not real life
/r/seduction18/05/21 05:05 PM
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Idk why I'm here, guess I'm addicted to reminding myself of the qualities I am severly lacking I'm 24M from Sweden, but trying would be the wrong words, never ever tried for various reasons/always being rejected growing up while everyone else didn't
/r/seduction18/05/21 04:26 PM
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No joke I used to be an insanely positive person but that has just faded away I guess the last few years, I've completely lost myself Undesirable about myself? That would be everything honestly, that'll take a while I am working on one of the main issues tho, getting in shape, but solving everything and becoming even remotely desirable just seems like something extremely unrealistic, I have a very hard time seeing a world where that'll ever happen for me
/r/seduction18/05/21 03:24 PM
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Been rejected all my life, how could that ever change if I'm clearly undesirable beyond anything platonic?
/r/seduction18/05/21 01:21 PM
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I get what you're saying but unfortunately there is no one out there for me, too ugly to even bother approaching anyone
/r/seduction18/05/21 11:30 AM
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Unfortunately I look like Shrek when Smiling, so nah everyone would run in the opposite direction, aint good looking enough to do this, but good advice for those that are, like yourself
/r/seduction18/05/21 11:24 AM
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Either this or it means to implement pauses before you respond, like they say something and you wait a few Seconds to respond Could also be pauses when you speak, it creates suspense, especially in storytelling
/r/seduction06/02/21 09:50 AM
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Bro, You literally become more attractive and good looking by becoming fit You can absolutely go from average to good looking by getting ripped
/r/seduction08/01/21 12:56 AM
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I just stopped using it because I don't get any matches That's what happens when you're a male who didn't get blessed with more than average looks I guess, shit's tough for us, while women can look like whatever and still get matches 😐
/r/seduction06/01/21 10:40 PM
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You're right I would actually say that my social skills are decent, if someone else is leading the call. I for example never struggled with job interviews etc. I always smahed them. The thing I need to get over is to actually lead, and convince myself that I can bring value to a conversations when I'm the one taking charge instead of the opposite. That's my issue, I know I'll smash it when I get over that because I'm not incompetent. I guess this is why I've been hooked up on wanting/needing to …
/r/seduction06/01/21 07:47 PM
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Thank you, I appreciate your constructive criticism and advice.
/r/seduction06/01/21 04:19 PM
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I agree that a person that never tries won't succeed, but where should a person like me even start? Approaching a woman is too big of a step to make right away, I often struggle a lot to even start a conversation with people I already know. Almost always it's someone else that starts a conversation and I fill in. How would you advice I go about things, what do you think my first step should be? Thanks
/r/seduction06/01/21 02:11 PM
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There's never been any shortcomings because I've never approached anyone, I don't know how to. I can clearly tell you don't know what it's like to have these diagnoses and that's fine, I'm not going to criticize you for it since you have no experience with it. But please, have an open mind about things you have no clue about, we do not function like the rest of you and it is a lot harder for us to function in social settings.
/r/seduction06/01/21 01:27 PM
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My problem is not being nice, I was never a "nice guy" I just don't believe there's any hope for me I've got ADHD & mild Asperbergs/Autism and it's impossible for me to flirt or do anything like that, even making friends and actually having good conversations takes a lot of time It's impossible for me to have a good conversation with someone I just met People tend to love me when they get to know me, but the only time people even get the chance to know me is if I consistently meet them like in a…
/r/seduction06/01/21 01:16 PM
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Really, has that worked for you? I'm not questioning, but I've always thought that asking generic questions about ones family is sort of... weird I guess? And by asking that you don't have anything to speak about so instead you resort to that. But what do I know, I'm probably wrong hehe Thanks!
/r/seduction02/01/21 06:03 PM
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Anyways, thanks for taking the time to chat with me, it's highly appreciated. I'll try and figure my mess out.
/r/seduction02/01/21 04:55 PM
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Well you sound like one of a kind, the courage you got is incredible
/r/seduction02/01/21 04:50 PM
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You're awesome for going through all that. Sure, stopping people and asking for direction or the time wouldn't be considered weird, but I know Swedes, especially us up North and people do not appreciate someone coming to you and trying to chat you up on the street. I'll keep this in mind though for when I move abroad again. I assume you're American? Based on what you have told me, it definitely sounds like it. How are the people there, more open to speak to strangers?
/r/seduction02/01/21 04:46 PM
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Thanks man, I really appreciate your advice
/r/seduction02/01/21 04:05 PM
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I have a plan for my business and where I'm going to go, that I do. Cool, I can say that I aim to sleep with 10 women this year, now I have a goal. But I don't know how to approach that goal. Approaching someone on the street in Sweden is considered weird, and you'd only get away with it if you're an attractive guy. I'm highly average so I don't fall into that category. Even if I was, in my current state I couldn't start a conversation with a stranger to save my own life. Serious question here, …
/r/seduction02/01/21 04:01 PM
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You're right, in reality it's companionship I'm craving, to "feel wanted" cause I've never had that, but I don't want to come across as needy. I was actually listening to it as an Audio Book a few weeks ago but I fell off it for some reason, I'll pick it up again cause I've heard good things about it. How would you recommend me going about my approach? I mean, I don't enjoy going out to bars or clubs, let alone by myself (never done it alone). I have no idea how I would even manage to walk up to…
/r/seduction02/01/21 03:30 PM
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I get what you're doing here, you're trying to make me think what I need to do, but I don't know, otherwise I wouldn't have made this post. The only plan I have at the moment is to make my business work, move abroad again, keep on losing weight and find a way to fix my back so I can hit the weights.
/r/seduction02/01/21 03:22 PM
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Thanks for replying. I would say I have a great personality actually, but it's hidden and it takes a lot for it to come out. It can take weeks or even months before my personality really show, until then I'm a very laid back, almost neutral shell of what I really am. That or just get me drunk, and I'm the life of the party talking with everyone about everything, but I also tend to over-drink (addictive personality, I can't stop with basically anything) and get over emotional eventually, and that…
/r/seduction02/01/21 03:19 PM
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Being reborn and win the generic lottery All jokes aside I honestly don't know, other than the fact I need to face my demons
/r/seduction02/01/21 03:02 PM
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Thanks bro, What's some good conversation starter advice you got? Cause I recognize I'm terrible at it, like really shitty at it, that's why I'm really worried now since I won't meet any women at an office anymore and therefore don't have much time to get to know them. Thanks again bro.
/r/seduction02/01/21 02:15 PM
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Funny thing is, I can talk to women when I've really gotten to know them, but my issue is its only in a friends type of way. I don't know how to go past that. Throughout my life I've actually had better and more deep friendships with women rather than men. It's been easier to talk to them, I suppose. My worry is now that when im trying to start a business and am working from home. It was always easy to make friends at work because.... Well you were with them 40 hours a week and legit had to talk…
/r/seduction02/01/21 02:00 PM
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I used to live abroad but left 5 months ago because it wasnt worth staying there paying 3x as much and being completely isolated. I only went home because it was cheaper (this helps me because im trying to build a business) and because I would rather be with my family during the pandemic than to be completely alone in another country. I have loads of friends there, but we couldnt really do anything because of quarantine. Its back home where I am now that I dont have any friends, im not going to …
/r/seduction02/01/21 01:57 PM
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You're right. Normally I'm positive and have a good Outlook on life, but every now and then I see something in social media that triggers these insecurities and lack of experience I have. Yes, I don't believe there's any other way. I've built up this stupid wall of belief that "If I get Fit, then my confidence will skyrocket and my life will be awesome". I don't believe in anything else because the opposite sex has never ever taken any initiative to interact with me. The few times I have tried i…
/r/seduction02/01/21 01:48 PM
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I haven't given up... I'm still trying with physiotherapy, praying for it to finally work. You know, I was going to the gym before my injury and it was going well, and I miss it because I know it would level up my life. I'm lost ever since.
/r/seduction02/01/21 01:24 PM
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Because I dislike Sweden as a whole and will be leaving it for good whenever the opportunity comes. I only ever went back (5 months ago) because I figured it was better to spend the pandemic with my family with less restrictions and live more cheap, than to sit abroad, alone and stuck in an apartment and pay 3 times as much. Situation there was so bad you legit weren't even allowed to go outside without a mask, so staying there was not an option. I genuinely don't like Sweden, not one bit. Thank…
/r/seduction02/01/21 01:13 PM
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I believe it all comes from my childhood. I don't remember ever having low confidence until like 6th or 7th Grade, when the bullying started. Ever since then, I've had shitty confidence and I've subconsciously avoided people as much as possible, which obviously doesn't help the issue but I didn't realize it until I entered my 20's just how much of an issue it was. I'll do my best reparing it, but a spinal fusion I won't be able to get. Here in Sweden the health system is terrible and many people…
/r/seduction02/01/21 01:11 PM
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Look, I get what you mean about excuses, but mine is valid. I have tried to fix my injury in multiple ways, I can't do anything that could make me shredded because it's like putting a knife into my back. So don't Say I havent even tried when I absolutely have. I didn't win the genetic lottery, so the only way I could ever be considered physically attractive is if I get Fit, there's just no way someone would find me physically attractive otherwise because I was not blessed with a pretty face or a…
/r/seduction02/01/21 01:02 PM
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Out of the people I met when I lived here before, I vibed with absolutely no one. Obviously, there's probably someone out there I could vibe with, I just don't know how to find them. Our city is really trash, and I am not kidding when I say that what most young people do is drink and party, and I don't enjoy it. Everyone who wants to do something with their life always move away from here (that's why I moved abroad in the first place) while the rest stay and work at a Supermarket, become a teach…
/r/seduction02/01/21 12:56 PM
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I don't live in the US, I live far up North in Sweden, where there's basically nothing. Small Village of 400 people, the city I mentioned 30 minutes away and the closest city after that is 2 hours away and it's also a small city. College Campus's don't exist like they do in the US. The culture is nothing like in the US either, approaching someone out in public is considered creepy and won't work (unless you're a confident, muscular chad, then maybe it would work). We're much colder in our approa…
/r/seduction02/01/21 12:51 PM
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I have tried, but you're unfortunately too ignorant to see it from someone else's perspective. I can't even do pushups without pain, that's how fucking bad it is. Even walking too much fucks up my back, I basically can't do shit man. I'm going to a physiotherapist, I've gone to a chiropractor, I've tried a lot of shit man and NOTHING is working. Seriously, don't comment if you're gonna be a fucking dipshit about it.
/r/seduction02/01/21 12:40 PM
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You're right, I should start with 1. But I genuinely don't know what to do. I have a slipped disc so me doing any type of weight lifting results in a stupid amount of pain. I've tried to fix it for over a year but it ain't working, So I can't get physically fit and more attractive and confident that way. I'm not looking for pity, I am genuinely asking for advice of what to do, because I have absolutely no clue. Thanks for replying.
/r/seduction02/01/21 12:23 PM
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