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Other option is to move countries. Asians tend to take their weight very seriously. Go to Southeast Asia and find a nice woman their who knows how to take care of her man.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 02:22 PM
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Second the escort route. That’s my plan post divorce. Focus on myself and fuck hot women
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 02:20 PM
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Second this. Especially if you’re looking for incredible sex. Women in their 20s are more open to doing crazy shit like trying anal or deep throating your cock. Women who are older only do these things if they like them otherwise she won’t do it.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 02:19 PM
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Best part of these women sometimes make more money than you so marrying them is less of a financial risk lol.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 02:16 PM
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Some men are happy with this arrangement. They basically get to have fun with the kids every two weeks. Take them out to do things. Buy them nice gifts etc but they don’t have to deal with the day to day headaches of raising children. So as OP said he gets to have a ton more free time to go to the gym and for his own hobbies etc. also it sounds like he wanted 50:50 but the wife is a bitch and is trying to take full custody.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 01:52 PM
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Yeah it’s tough call for sure. My wife does help more with the baby now which is good. The biggest issue I have though is her parents help a lot too and my wife just leans on them so she can be lazy. Eventually they won’t be able to help as much so that’s when shit might hit the fan. We have one kid so it’s not as bad. I will not be having anymore kids. Going to get a vasectomy as soon as I can. Don’t want to fall trap into having more kids.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/22 08:25 PM
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Shit man I was in your shoes very recently. My kid is now one years old but holy fuck was the pregnancy rough with my lazy as fuck wife. I should have seen the writing on the wall too. She’s always been lazy. Does the bare minimum or nothing at all. I make 3x what she does but at least she has a job. During her pregnancy I was miserable. She decided to just do nothing and that I should do all chores and wait on her hand and foot. Then the baby came and holy fuck is it tough. Not sleeping, consta…
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/22 07:11 PM
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The kids will realize this one day and resent her for it. Just remember that. They will be adults one day and able to make their own decisions.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/22 07:02 PM
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This is what scares me. I’ve heard such bad things about couples therapy seems like most of the time it doesn’t help anything and you end up paying some quack a bunch of god damn money. They really have no incentive to help you but to make you need more therapy sessions.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/22 07:01 PM
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Keep up being the best dad you can be. And also keep working out. Eat healthy and stay fit. You’re correct that some women will be turned off since you are divorced with two kids. Some women want a “fresh start” and just prefer to be with men who have never been married and or have no kids. At 31 you’re insanely young still. I’m 33 and considering a divorce. Although I only have a 1.5 year old. I’ve considered staying married maybe until my kid is 4-5 so it’s easier to raise the kid versus chang…
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/22 04:01 PM
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This. You basically get to start over fresh. It sucks she took the kids. Try your best to be in their life if they are ok with it but overall you’re in a much better position than most men. You get to keep your money and I know money isn’t everything but it will allow you to start fresh. Something many men will have trouble doing when their wife takes everything plus spousal support. Also I’m a huge proponent of sex tourism. Take a trip to Montreal, Tiajuana Mexico, Thailand if you can swing it.…
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/22 01:25 PM
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This. Or better yet don’t get married again unless the girl makes more money than you.
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/22 01:19 PM
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Yeah I think as we get older we realize how shit a deal marriage really is. Unless you marry someone who earns the same or more than you, the higher earner gets fucked in a divorce. I’ve worked super hard to get where I’m at financially and the thought of having to split half with my wife who has been lazy and coasted the entire time we were together is sickening. I’ve been married 4 years, but I see the light and I’m thinking of pulling the trigger. I make 180k a year and she makes 70k. I work …
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/22 02:16 PM
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Yeah I was young and dumb when I got married. I also had lower self esteem at the time. But now I earn about $180k a year as a CPA but I could potentially become a partner or CFO and earn over $500k a year. So my thought process is do I want to keep busting my ass while my wife just coasts making 73k a year? She has a super easy job but never works out and isn’t very fit. Doesn’t do much cleaning or cooking. I’d say chores are split 50/50 but I work more hours than her and earn way more. She sho…
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/22 02:10 PM
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Some people should be in monogomous relationships.
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/22 01:12 PM
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Every divorce case is different. The worst part of it is probably being wiped out financially. This is why I’m thinking of divorcing my wife. I’ve only been married 5 years but I make 2.5x what she does. We have a 1 year old now so that complicates things. I wish I didn’t have the kid with her. Love my kid but had the kid with the wrong woman. But I’ll never have anymore kids or ever get married again unless the girl I marry earns the same or more as I do. The issue with marriage is it completel…
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/22 01:10 PM
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Good advice if his wife wants to join in. You can’t force someone to workout though and eat healthy. I tried this with my wife for years. Tried to even get her to just take simple walks with me and she would always complain she’s too tired etc. my wife is just a lazy low energy person. There’s nothing I can do to change that. My advice is never get married. It’s not worth it. Have girlfriends. Cohabitate if you want. But otherwise it’s not worth it.
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/22 01:06 PM
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As a married man of 4 years who has a lot of married friends and coworkers I believe modern marriage is a fluke. Sure there is a very small chance you find someone and mesh with forever but part of the issue is both people change over time as well. I’m not the same person I was 10 years ago etc. 50% of marriages fail but of the 50% that stay, how many stay for the kids, or because they don’t have the money etc and just stay unhappily married? My guess is at least 25%.
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/22 11:43 AM
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