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ThrowMeLikeABadHabit/r/seduction05/03/19 01:04 PM
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That's not what I am saying mate Do things that makes you happy, if you are happy you will stop being miserable and believe me people will enjoy being around you, girls and boys alike. Exercising is good because it makes you feel more comfortable with your body, keeps you busy and releases endorphin so it s a good start
/r/seduction29/03/19 02:54 PM
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Mate, Sounds like you are feeling down, happens to me too. The harsh truth, is that look does matter a bit but it is not the whole thing. However if you are being miserable with girls then it is a major turnoff. You need to build some confidence and do things for you, i know you hear people saying "go to the gym " all the time, they re right it's not just for the look, it also releases endorphin in your brain, creating that feeling of euphoria. ​ Good luck mate
/r/seduction29/03/19 09:53 AM
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Mate I have the opposite problem. When I m getting intimate with a girl I can't refrain my feelings. It s just overwhelming and I get heartbroken
/r/seduction20/03/19 12:26 PM
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Hi mate, Lot of questions, I m going to answer to a few but not all of them. Also disclaimer, I am not a top shagger myself. 3- About the silences, just don't force the conversation, if you have nothing good to say don't say anything. You can be comfortable being silent a bit with her (obviously not for 30 min) but for a couple of minutes it s fine. And then just start again. 4- That might come as needy, she knows she can come back to you anytime. You need to tell her to contact you if she s fre…
/r/seduction20/03/19 12:12 PM
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Bro I had sex with a friend à month ago, à couple of time, she was the one who kept on repeating "just sex no feeling alright?". I was OK with it. Then one day she sees me texting a girl we both know and say "oh I talked to her she d definitely sleep with you if you tried on her" I told her I ll try to shag that new girl and she basically said "it s fine I m use to being the second best blabla we should stop here" So you see, it s quite difficult to let all the feelings at the door in that type …
/r/seduction20/03/19 11:43 AM
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I would say two things : ​ 1- People tend to remember more the bad experience, so those girls will tell you about the creeps they meet and not the nice one, because no one would care. ​ 2- Most girls will call a guy creepy if he is being really pushy, if you are relax about the whole thing you shouldn't come as being creepy
/r/seduction20/03/19 11:11 AM
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Most people, when they love someone do not want to imagine them getting "rammed" by someone else. Other don't care, but for most it can kill the mood.
/r/seduction20/03/19 11:08 AM
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Oh yeah you re right my bad. I meant more like "it might happen it might not" do you mind if I edit it out of my previous post (which would make your post useless?)
/r/seduction14/03/19 12:28 PM
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Disclaimer : definitely not a top shagger I too am pretty bad at flirting too mate. But I think we have the same issue, basically you enter the friend zone with a girl because, well you behave with her as you would with a boy friend. I know you work in sales (so do I), but do you still have an issue with rejection? Have you ever been rejected before, like a strong no? How did it feel? From what I gather from this sub is that you have to be more forward and not care about rejection, don't play no…
/r/seduction14/03/19 12:14 PM
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He is right, I don't mean to sounds like an arrogant posh twat, but in philosophy if you read Pascal or Comte Sponville, both tell you that you need to give up on "hope" to be happy. By "hope" I mean if you desire something that doesn't rely on you. If you think "I hope tomorrow s weather is cloudy" or "I hope I win the lottery" Or in your case "I ll be happy if some girl loves me" You will never be happy mate. You need to focus on what YOU can do, you can't force the rain to fall or a girl to l…
/r/seduction14/03/19 11:55 AM
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That s why he said "if you like the girl a lot" In that case it might be difficult to just let it go
/r/seduction13/03/19 04:55 PM
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Judging by your story I guess you are quite young. For the money if you ask nicely to your parents they might give you some cash no? (that's what I use to do growing up)
/r/seduction13/03/19 11:19 AM
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Yeah mate two things : 1- you don't have to answer absolutely all the time and directly, you can other things to do and she knows that. 2- if you wanna stop talking you just say "gotta go to sleep see you tmrw" or "I have to take my dog to his birthday party" that kind of crap
/r/seduction12/03/19 10:57 AM
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Hi, Stupid question here, but have you tried to tell him that his attitude is making you uncomfortable?
/r/seduction12/03/19 10:50 AM
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hmm ok, so same as what u/syn1us said, basically step back a bit, maybe go for other girls and she ll come back ?
/r/seduction05/03/19 04:10 PM
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I don't know mate, we are quite close, and she s like " when we leave the company (in may cause we both had enough and that s when the contract for the appartment ends) let's travel together for 3/4 months"
/r/seduction05/03/19 03:53 PM
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thanks mate really appreciate, as i said i am really new to the "game". i might contact you again in the upcoming days
/r/seduction05/03/19 03:00 PM
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Lol ok, i ll be frank, i m out of a rather long term relationship ( i dated a girl from age 17 until last december) So i basically have no game in matter of seduction, and my ego / self esteem got rekted quite a few times already. ( took a girl back to bed once she told me at the last moment she was allergic to latex and never got tested, another time i was too drunk to get an erection, and now this girl who rejects me twice) I am like "Wtf? i didn't know it was so difficult" ​ But thanks a lot …
/r/seduction05/03/19 02:32 PM
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Alright mate, cheers, When she tried it on with me the next day i told her " i should have said "no" that we would have been equally rejected one by the other" and she was a bit puzzled lol
/r/seduction05/03/19 02:28 PM
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Yeah you are probably right i mean she turned me down once a couple of month came back saw i was still up for it, so i guess she knows that if she wants it, i ll be ok with that.
/r/seduction05/03/19 02:15 PM
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Yeah I guess you are right. I mean i gave up on her when she first turned me down few months ago, had sex with another girl in the meantime, it's just the fact that she came back to me drunk and sober that fucked with my brain a bit. So you 'd say i am entering the friendzone ?
/r/seduction05/03/19 02:14 PM
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Alright cheers mate, Thanks for the help, guess i needed to hear that, so I will still try to sleep around
/r/seduction05/03/19 02:00 PM
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So you think i made myself look too needy ? you're probably right, plus i told her my intentions so i m guessing if she wants more she will come to me right ? It's just that she makes some effort to talk to me or to be around me, so idk if she s just playing hard to get.
/r/seduction05/03/19 01:52 PM
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Lmao, cheers mate, yeah i guess i like her a bit too much, it is probably because we ve been living together for long time and we have no other friend ( we are both expats working crazy hours in the office ". Whereas why i don't care about dating/fucking her is because she is going to quit end of May, so we shouldn't be living together for too long.
/r/seduction05/03/19 01:48 PM
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Mate, i don't know if that's a serious answer or not, because some of my friends IRL, told me to do the same, and I am just afraid she might think " oh he's onto someone else now, leave him and find someone else " and tbf if she did the same to me and I'll hear her moaning all night, i would be gutted lol. ​ ​
/r/seduction05/03/19 01:39 PM
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mate i told her i liked her like few times. But she s like " i m not looking for relationship", i am like "i don't care, i m fine with just having sex" But when i try to talk about it she s like "you're making things awkward, if it happens it happens, if it doesn't then ... *shrug*" It's just so confusing, the other girls I saw before, it was easier, like just sex and that's it but this one is weird. So i am just wondering if it is me who got too excited over something that happened once or if i…
/r/seduction05/03/19 01:30 PM
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