ThrowRA921731 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	I'm starting to believe that the "women are only attracted to the top 20% of attractive men" rule is only true for Autistic males BAP here... the main difference between BAP and Au is mostly social. So, what makes traits a superpower for some and a source of fragility for others can be deconstructed into a few perspectives - none of which I have the time to do here. What I have the time to do is point out the flaw in your reasoning. Being attractive helps, but what hurts you more than anything is trying to optimize a game through a set of rules that you've learned and pathologized. Travel the world, you'll see how vastly d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/25 02:10 PM
3	(CMV) As a man, pursuing bisexual women is the only serious choice if you're interested in dismantling patriarchy in your relationship When you define yourself by what you are not / claim to destroy, you merely reinforce its existence and narrow your own claim to represent yourself in a whole and integrated way	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 02:09 AM
3	Straight women in relationships, how do you act around men who are a lot more attractive than your partner? I'm a guy who gets a bit of female attention on pure physical features first, but then once they get to know me they can get kind of obsessed. I had a bit of a yogi phase a few years back, that has put me at an uncommon intersection for men, where I have islander genetics, am quite successful, a long-time bodybuilder, contortionist-level flexible, a savant in several academic and enterprise fields, while also quite conscious and vibrant. Most women I meet who are in relationships simply respect …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 04:28 PM
4	Straight women in relationships, how do you act around men who are a lot more attractive than your partner? So you're saying OP is super hot	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 04:05 PM
6	Straight women in relationships, how do you act around men who are a lot more attractive than your partner? It's a fair thing for OP to be curious about discussing. Anything deserves a whole post if there are people who want to talk about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 04:02 PM
1	Why do some men seem to refuse facts to remain miserable? Because Reddit is not commonly a place to have constructive conversations where people learn things and grow their awareness. Reddit is a place to vent about what's bothering you, and have others validate you with upvotes. If you say something that doesn't validate what someone else believes, they downvote it as a defense mechanism that protects them from the potential for cognitive dissonance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/24 11:45 PM
1	A more comprehensive post on why women handle being alone better than men, and why we need to find solutions to that. You are not the arbiter or decider of other people's truths and lived experiences. This is a waste of my time. Yes I have lived in SF area almost a decade and this is very common shit. Goodbye friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/24 06:59 PM
1	A more comprehensive post on why women handle being alone better than men, and why we need to find solutions to that. Your defense mechanisms are showing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 06:30 PM
1	A more comprehensive post on why women handle being alone better than men, and why we need to find solutions to that. They just don't like what it makes them feel. Doesn't make it untrue in a lot of scenarios.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 06:30 PM
–	A more comprehensive post on why women handle being alone better than men, and why we need to find solutions to that. I believe you. I think, though, there is a HIGHLY privileged and visible minority.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 12:05 AM
3	A more comprehensive post on why women handle being alone better than men, and why we need to find solutions to that. Well said!	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 12:04 AM
10	A more comprehensive post on why women handle being alone better than men, and why we need to find solutions to that. The thing I notice in my region is A LOT of polyamorous women. I've seen the same women on dating apps for over 5 years. There seems to be a culture of picking up as many partners as possible, lots of women talk of being "saturated" by partners and the literally thousands of messages and likes they receive on apps. This encourages women who are literally a 2 to act like a 10, because they have lots of choices and it gets to their head. But the thing I notice is no one is dumb enough to settle do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 12:01 AM
3	Women's infatuation with the lives of celebrities is a male ick I know of plenty of men who follow the lives of athletes in sports like it's their own child. I see it as the male version of what you're discussing. Both men and women, at least the ones with no sense of self, gravitate toward spectacle and cults of personality that the internet and society bombards them with. Being obsessed with some crappy musician who only sings songs about broken relationships, or their football player boyfriend, in both instances, is super super ick.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 06:19 PM
1	Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.” It actually is that complicated. People react based on their emotional memories, not necessarily logically to what is happening in the present. This phenomenon is all over trauma and ptsd literature in the psych field.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 02:41 AM
1	Men who regularly do the dumping are high value. I truly believe that a bond with a woman is like a sacred thing. I get close to my partners and they're almost like family in some ways. I think long and hard before deciding to leave someone, and I usually only do it if they are abusive and gaslight me regularly. A gay friend of mine with a lot of women friends told me that if there is a woman who is abusing you, she is doing it because she thinks you will tolerate it and when you put up with it you show her you will tolerate it. Once you show …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 05:02 PM
13	Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.” I think there is a nuance between casting a wide net and approaching everyone with a vagina, and genuinely and authentically trying to nurture vibes between you and a woman who is already giving you strong feedback in their body language. Women show whether or not they're open to being spoken to with their body language, these might be considered 'green flags'. But, the PUA approach is sort too much, because it's almost like an algorithmic approach to maximizing every potential opportunity, irre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 04:51 PM
0	Women have so many options that it's hard to sympathize with those who say they can't find a man. Not all men. There are tons of women I'd never go for. If someone is soft, eats a lot, doesn't have any goals, I can't. It doesn't mean I'm swimming in opportunities, but I respect myself enough to know what I have to give, and I will wait to find someone who appreciates me and gives me what I deserve too. I'm dating someone now who is about to leave me because my expectations are too high and affecting her negatively. My lifestyle revolves around going to grad school, working out 4-6x a week, b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/24 06:39 PM
2	Hey, men: You should stop expressing how hard it's to be single. I feel you and take your point well. I agree that the women are wonderful mentality has become like a toxic undercurrent full of arrogance and self-assigned exceptionalism. As a man who works hard on himself, and also used to complain a lot before I learned my own power, I find that so many women don't work on themselves but are still hyper-arrogant and believe they're exceptional simply for existing - not for working toward goals. I also lament that men do not have enough safe spaces and places…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 11:17 PM
4	Hey, men: You should stop expressing how hard it's to be single. I think you should stop telling other people not to open up about what they're struggling with. If you actually believe that anything men share here is impacting the way women perceive men, generally, you're over-inflating dramatically the importance of what truly is a very niche and small corner of the internet. Never tell people not to access and share something vulnerable, when men do that, it's actually brave of them and helps them individually heal because they're speaking with their own vo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 08:43 PM
2	How the hell can women commit to a man they don't lust after? I'm siding with you in this exchange. I will say, not all women are like that - which you obviously know. The interesting thing is that statistically, many of the good ones just end up becoming more rare. The worse ones are the players now. I will say that there are strategies to increase chances, but in my personal experience it has involved a personal transformation journey centered around mindfulness, meditation, yoga practices, etc. I've found quite a few women who gravitate toward me for my…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 12:26 AM
1	Women...ALL WOMEN...hate men who act like pussies It’s literally your post. You can zoom out from it and sidestep all the feedback you received but you were triggered enough to post it in the first place. Good luck friendo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/23 04:23 PM
1	Women...ALL WOMEN...hate men who act like pussies I think you're misinterpreting sensitive and grounded to mean weak and docile. Maybe that's all you've ever seen, or maybe that's just what you're insecure about in yourself. What women REALLY go crazy for is a strong man who is grounded, knows how and when to be vulnerable, and shows restraint (i.e. not flying off the handle). In the book The Four Agreements, there is a line that I love. It says, "warriors show restraint". This is what women LOVE (not hate), a man who is confident in themselves…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/23 01:55 PM