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| 6 | Why do you all seem to take people’s word at face value instead of accepting that our subconscious wants to protect our self-image as good person, and therefore people tend to say what makes them seem like good people?I don’t think he said only women have these contradictions, just that he only used women as the examples, probably due to him thinking about that side of things much more. I cba to re-read it tho so if he did say that it’s only women then that’s obviously wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 06:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The world would be a better place if males adapted to how women handle problemsMen do not need to adopt women’s way of dealing with problems. Instead both people in a relationship need to understand and accommodate BOTH people’s way of addressing problems. Men need to understand women and women need to understand men. Not to mention that how one deals with their problems and what they need from their partners is not a conscious decision, and beyond a certain age cannot even really be changed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: is this "the right" thing to do?Pretty fukken weird thing to do icl, I would assume that said person is highly socially dysfunctional, man or woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 06:44 PM |
| 10 | Why do men claim to want a virgin wife and yet try to sleep with virgin women saving themselves for marriageVery very few men desire a virgin wife in the west, you’re probably talking like <5% of non Muslim men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 06:42 PM |
| 28 | Why do you all seem to take people’s word at face value instead of accepting that our subconscious wants to protect our self-image as good person, and therefore people tend to say what makes them seem like good people?Imma be real, your statement is caveated enough that I can’t disagree with it. You ALWAYS have to read between the lines and use context clues whenever anyone says anything like that. You are also dead right that these contradictions are often subconscious rather than conscious. As you said tho l, just because some people who say these things are not telling the whole truth, does not mean that all who say them are doing so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Why do women say they want one thing but actually respond to the complete opposite thing?Straight facts icl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 10:56 AM |
| 2 | Why do women say they want one thing but actually respond to the complete opposite thing?I’m heavily tattooed, in good shape, dress a bit edgy and ride a crotch rocket. I’m also very much in touch with my feelings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 10:54 AM |
| 4 | Why do women say they want one thing but actually respond to the complete opposite thing?You might be surprised how differently most men act around women they’re dating when in private compared to how they act in public or with their friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Why do women say they want one thing but actually respond to the complete opposite thing?You can be successful in dating and not be tall my man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 10:45 AM |
| 0 | Why do women say they want one thing but actually respond to the complete opposite thing?Utter nonsense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 10:43 AM |
| – | Why do fat women who don't exercise try to date fit men?You surround yourself with low quality people then my guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Are unattractive men doomed to be the beta provider?This guy is a dumbass but you sometimes go WEEKS without sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 06:56 AM |
| 6 | Are unattractive men doomed to be the beta provider?My man it is so incredibly obvious that you are NOT speaking from experience it’s genuinely embarrassing ☠️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 06:52 AM |
| – | Why do fat women who don't exercise try to date fit men?My man this is just the men that YOU hang around with, not even close to all men ☠️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Can someone explain to me (passport bro) how a woman with a degree/higher income makes a better partner than a woman who only graduated high school/lower incomeIt’s more fun long term to talk to someone who is similar to yourself than someone who is different. And the vast majority of a relationship is finding someone who you like to talk to. If you wouldn’t be friends with her if she was a man then you probably won’t have fun dating her as a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 09:57 AM |
| 3 | Can someone explain to me (passport bro) how a woman with a degree/higher income makes a better partner than a woman who only graduated high school/lower incomeIf you’re smart and accomplished you’re probably going to want someone who is also smart and accomplished as they have similar lived experiences and values | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Women can seem unapproachable these days hence why we don’t do it.Whoever told you 200 a day is regarded | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Why does autism seem to be the only hyper-masculine trait which isn't attractive?Balding and nose hair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 05:24 PM |
| 9 | Women can be attracted to you but until they see another girl interested have no interest in pursuing or being receptive to engaging with youLmaoooo, bro going in for the kill 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Most of The Commenters on This Sub Have Basically Zero Experience In What They Are Arguing AboutNot basically none, but very few, and they’re normally weird as fuck or in a ho phase | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Most of The Commenters on This Sub Have Basically Zero Experience In What They Are Arguing AboutPlenty of women looking for hookups, but also plenty of women only looking for exclusive relationships, like my current gf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 07:36 AM |
| 2 | Most of The Commenters on This Sub Have Basically Zero Experience In What They Are Arguing AboutI wouldn’t say that all women only dating apps are easy, but most easy women are on dating apps. It’s a not all fingers are thumbs but all thumbs are fingers type situation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 06:57 AM |
| 6 | Most of The Commenters on This Sub Have Basically Zero Experience In What They Are Arguing AboutI probably disagree with most of your major takes on the dating landscape and I’ve been dating almost only using dating apps for the last 8 years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 08:46 PM |
| – | What are your thoughts on vasectomies?Most women only have children with a single man tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 08:43 PM |
| – | What are your thoughts on vasectomies?Why would we want to incentivise a reduction in birth rate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 05:27 PM |
| 5 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.Children are pre-sexual so it’s not an impact for them. Monks, preists and nuns need lifelong conditioning and a cult like environment and still often end up being sick sexual deviants | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Stating that sex and intimacy for men is a need, isn’t a proposal for sexual slavery. This is a common strawman that women propose because it would be ethically uncomfortable to acknowledge this being true.To me, the distinction between a need and a want is that you will be fine without a want. A person without sex or intimacy will not be fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 07:15 AM |
| 1 | What does the blue pill get right and what wrong?The main thing that bluepill gets that all other pills fail on is that humans and society are extremely complex. Very very few black and white rules will even end up being true for 51% of a population. Dating is complicated and weird. Men are complicated and weird, women are complicated and weird. No two people are the same. TLDR: nuance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 02:30 PM |
| 1 | AI and Robots Will Fix HypergamyOne thing to remember, AI and vr are probably only a decade away from something genuinely interesting in this space. Robotics however? Is MILES off, it’s currently not even close and won’t be for a long time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 02:23 PM |
| – | Speaking out of horses mouth: Men in real life admitted that FDS was rightIdk, most guys here seem to think it’s some weird power play to punish them for not being Chad ☠️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 02:13 PM |
| – | Speaking out of horses mouth: Men in real life admitted that FDS was rightSure dawg 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 02:11 PM |
| – | Speaking out of horses mouth: Men in real life admitted that FDS was rightI’m glad you have strong boundaries that work for you, not all women do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 10:21 AM |
| – | Speaking out of horses mouth: Men in real life admitted that FDS was rightSounds like you did well in weeding him out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 10:21 AM |
| – | Speaking out of horses mouth: Men in real life admitted that FDS was rightYes obviously, expecting to be wined and dined for a long period and then granting sex as a “reward” is shitty as hell behaviour which will lead to unhealthy relationship dynamics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 10:20 AM |
| – | Speaking out of horses mouth: Men in real life admitted that FDS was rightYou’re a moron if you trust strangers who want something from you. The point of dating is to BUILD trust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 10:18 AM |
| – | Speaking out of horses mouth: Men in real life admitted that FDS was rightYeah, this method is to specifically filter out playboys, most women don’t want to date that kinda guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 09:04 AM |
| – | Speaking out of horses mouth: Men in real life admitted that FDS was rightWomen do not unilaterally set the standards for sex. Otherwise women would literally never get pressured into sex or rejected from sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 09:02 AM |
| -1 | Hookup vs RelationshipThen why tf are you concerned in the first place lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 08:59 AM |
| -1 | Hookup vs RelationshipWhich will be outweighed by the feeling of discomfort by being with a guy who is too big | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 08:54 AM |
| -1 | Hookup vs RelationshipA big dick in porn is visual stimuli, during sex women cannot see the dick, so feel is wayyyyy more important | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Hookup vs RelationshipDick size is to men what hip dips are to women, in reality no one cares | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 08:46 AM |
| – | Speaking out of horses mouth: Men in real life admitted that FDS was right6 dates is definitely not a stranger, that could easily be over the course of a couple of months. But you do you brudda | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 08:27 AM |
| – | Speaking out of horses mouth: Men in real life admitted that FDS was rightDelaying sex is a simple method to filter out men who just want to fuck. Men who are genuinely interested in dating will stay interested for a while waiting for sex. You can’t go overboard with it else you’ll just put everyone off but like 3-6 dates is pretty reasonable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Guys here seem to want to berate women to choose better but then coddle undesirable men.“There’s ontologically many” wtf do you mean by this lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Guys here seem to want to berate women to choose better but then coddle undesirable men.She’s talking about creepy non-chads my guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Men need to get in touch with their inner asshole to acquire love.No my current girlfriend is not an 18 year old lingerie model, so what’s your age and bc excluding hookers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 11:22 PM |
| 1 | There should be a requirement to flair your sexual orientation when debating on this subIt’s was almost entirely a joke | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Men need to get in touch with their inner asshole to acquire love.Ah yes, there we go, the fried brain take | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Men need to get in touch with their inner asshole to acquire love.That wasn’t the question… at all? BC (excluding hookers) and age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 09:15 PM |
| 1 | People who genuinely believe AMALT or AWALT are chronically onlineShould probably bring up the fact that you actively hate a part of yourself with em | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 07:04 PM |
| 2 | People who genuinely believe AMALT or AWALT are chronically onlineSounds like you genuinely need therapy my man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 07:03 PM |
| 2 | People who genuinely believe AMALT or AWALT are chronically onlineBi and homophobic lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 07:01 PM |
| – | Who are your favorite women in your lives, and why?You don’t like any of the women in your life or you just don’t have any? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 06:47 PM |
| 1 | There should be a requirement to flair your sexual orientation when debating on this sub“Debating dating between heterosexual couples or prospects when they don’t have any personal experience” careful there bro you’re about to disqualify yourself lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 06:34 PM |
| 2 | What's actually a normal dating progress most men feel comfortable with?Sex is normally 1st-3rd date for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 05:49 PM |
| 3 | Men need to get in touch with their inner asshole to acquire love.What’s your age and bc not including hookers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 07:11 AM |
| 2 | Men need to get in touch with their inner asshole to acquire love.Even if you believe in measuring sex acts this is terrible advice. Again, when you clearly lack success why offer advice? You aren’t in an LTR with a woman who gives you as much sex as you want, so why give men advice on how to get such a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 07:02 AM |
| 9 | Men need to get in touch with their inner asshole to acquire love.That’s because his definition of a soul mate is a woman who gives you lots of sex lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 06:58 AM |
| 8 | Men need to get in touch with their inner asshole to acquire love.Fax, these guys should stick to complaining rather than offering useless or actively harmful advice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 06:57 AM |
| 8 | Men need to get in touch with their inner asshole to acquire love.Ah yes, frying your brain and viewing sex as something purely transactional with little to no need for foreplay or arousal sounds real damn healthy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Men need to get in touch with their inner asshole to acquire love.Why would anyone take this advice when it clearly comes from a place of little to no experience? Why do you think you’re poised to give anyone advice when it comes to women when you yourself struggle with them so much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 06:52 AM |
| – | Seriously, where do people meet?Dating apps, you are right that they take a lot of effort though as you have to properly understand how to use them to get results | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 04:32 PM |
| 0 | I have a weakly held view that many red-pillers underestimate the success of the average man because they overuse dating apps, and there are tractable ways of improving their luck.A gay man who’s bigger and stronger than me? Yeah I’d probably be pretty unnerved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 04:29 PM |
| 1 | I have a weakly held view that many red-pillers underestimate the success of the average man because they overuse dating apps, and there are tractable ways of improving their luck.What question were they asked in the poll? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 11:55 AM |
| 0 | I have a weakly held view that many red-pillers underestimate the success of the average man because they overuse dating apps, and there are tractable ways of improving their luck.The average man is doing just fine, RP men and incels assume that everyone is in as bad a situation as they are. Ironically it’s a cope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 07:53 AM |
| 1 | I have a weakly held view that many red-pillers underestimate the success of the average man because they overuse dating apps, and there are tractable ways of improving their luck.Sorry dude but no man is jealous of you. You are a threat to no man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 07:51 AM |
| 4 | I have a weakly held view that many red-pillers underestimate the success of the average man because they overuse dating apps, and there are tractable ways of improving their luck.Obviously they do, but that’s not even controversial. Ofcourse they only want to be hit on by men they’re attracted to. I don’t want to be hit on by women I’m not attracted to or gay men? This behaviour is both normal and completely understandable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 07:47 AM |
| 2 | Should virgin women over a certain age just “give it up”? What age does it become weird for a woman to be a virgin? Ala Pearl Davis’s argumentWho tf are you talking to lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 07:19 AM |
| 14 | Why is Pregnancy Talked About Like It Should Be A Punishment for Women Who Had Sex?Should probably give men less ability to walk away from women they impregnate then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 04:38 PM |
| 3 | How should child support work?Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 08:42 PM |
| 3 | How should child support work?A: I don’t give a fuck about the mother, I care about the child living a good life even if the parents are too immature to prioritise their needs B: I ain’t reading all that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 08:39 PM |
| 3 | How should child support work?Based and correctpilled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 08:37 PM |
| 6 | How should child support work?Sounds like a deadbeat who doesn’t want the best for his kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 05:56 PM |
| 2 | How should child support work?Seems you care more about being right than reading comprehension brother, more power to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 05:47 PM |
| 2 | RP isn’t synonymous with incels and hating women. RP discussion is best when based on observations of the reality we navigate, entirely free of judgment or bitternessI think you’re just going to have to abandon the “redpill” moniker then because that’s what it means now. Fresh and fit, Andrew Tate, Sneako etc, these are the loudest redpill voices | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 05:27 PM |
| 2 | How should child support work?I actually don’t in a thread about what the child support system SHOULD be. That’s what I’m talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 05:22 PM |
| 5 | How should child support work?Imma be real I have 0 patience for useless pedants. If you have a kid you have to provide for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 05:11 PM |
| 5 | How should child support work?I’m obviously talking within reason, no one is going to force you to donate a kidney to your kid, even though you probably should | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 04:17 PM |
| 1 | How should child support work?I’m talking about what should be, this is also the intention of the laws as they have been laid out. I have made no comment on what is. And don’t assume things like that when talking to strangers else you’ll just make an ass of u and me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 03:34 PM |
| 21 | How should child support work?Glad someone understands Jesus, so many people here view child support as punishment ☠️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 02:43 PM |
| 7 | How should child support work?No, the only thing that should be taken into consideration is the child’s wellbeing, with money being a component of that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 02:24 PM |
| 3 | How should child support work?Normally yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 01:34 PM |
| 6 | How should child support work?No, the should support their child at all times if they can afford to do so and if doing so would benefit the child 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 01:29 PM |
| 6 | How should child support work?It should mean this IF it would be the best for the child | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 01:28 PM |
| 6 | How should child support work?That’s bad. What are you expecting me to say? If the father wants to be involved in his child’s life that is almost always a positive for the child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 01:26 PM |
| 4 | How should child support work?If you want to see your child and it wouldn’t negatively impact the child’s life then you should be able to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 01:22 PM |
| 4 | How should child support work?Yes that would be good, the ideal would be the same but the parents come to this arrangement without needing the courts at all. Even in a 50/50 situation child support might still be needed if one of the two earns much less than the other. Again, it’s about what is best for the child (having a good relationship with both parents is always best as you said) not what is fair on the parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 01:18 PM |
| 17 | How should child support work?I’m fine with the police shooting someone on a murderous rampage, but I’m not fine with them shooting someone watering their plants. “DoNt YoU tHiNk ItS hYpOcRiTiCaL tO lEt ThE pOlIcE sHoOt SoMe PeOpLe BuT nOt OtHeRs” No, I don’t find it hypocritical because I’m not a mouth breathing moron. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 12:55 PM |
| 14 | How should child support work?No im not fine with this, obviously. That’s because they’re different situations so I hold different opinions and beliefs on them. If you disagree that parents should have to look after their kids then just say that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 12:48 PM |
| 18 | How should child support work?Parents have an obligation to care for their children, that’s it, it ain’t complicated. The court only has to step in when the parents are unwilling or unable to work it out on their own. The parents rights to complete autonomy ended when they had kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 12:41 PM |
| 16 | How should child support work?It’s your child, if you’re able but unwilling to pay for their needs I am 100% okay with the state forcing you to do it. Don’t like it? Don’t have kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 12:38 PM |
| 20 | How should child support work?Child support should work in the best interest of the child. If one parent has a good career and the other doesn’t then the child should be cared for by the one who doesn’t and paid for by the one who does. Child support isn’t about being fair to the parents, it’s about ensuring the best for the child. Assuming the child is young enough to require constant care (enough that it would significantly impact one’s career and earnings) and the parents are unwilling to work together and have to get the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 12:28 PM |
| 3 | Straight men and women generally cannot be friends.As a man with a long term, platonic female friend, you’re wrong dude 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Some men will always be unappealing to all women in a romantic sense.While true, this is sub 1% of men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested.Pure cope, plenty of women are self conscious about being bad at sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 04:11 PM |
| 1 | “Love” will be considered a scam 150 years from nowThe Song of Songs – Ancient Israel, 10th–6th century BCE The Love Poems of Sappho – Ancient Greece, 7th century BCE Mahabharata: The Story of Shakuntala and Dushyanta – Ancient India, circa 4th century BCE Tamil Sangam Poetry (Akananuru) – Ancient Tamil Nadu, India, circa 300 BCE–300 CE The Rubaiyat of Omar Khayyam – Persia, 11th century CE Metamorphoses by Ovid – Ancient Rome, 8 CE The Lay of the Nightingale (Laüstic) by Marie de France – Medieval Europe, 12th century CE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 04:08 PM |
| 1 | For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to FearYes, throughout the entirety of our evolution humans never lived alone unless forced to, being able to do so and not just die is an extremely new phenomenon on an evolutionary timescale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 03:00 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Hookup material is only a compliment if you care about nothing other than sex lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 02:45 PM |
| 2 | For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to FearI’d say this applies to 99% of people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 02:02 PM |
| 3 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menIf all average men dropped out of the dating market then most women would become single lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 02:24 PM |
| 2 | For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to FearHumans are not built to live alone. Life is a team sport and isn’t built to be single player | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 02:17 PM |
| 1 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeIf you think this about your husband/bf then yes you should leave him, for your sake and for his | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 10:52 AM |
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