ThrowRA_14611 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	Gave everything I could and it still wasnt enough		ThrowRA_14611	/r/Divorce_Men	29/09/25 12:16 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Man I cratered the rebound It happens, eventually you will not think about if you are ready you just will be. Stick to your rules,what helped me was keeping the contact with my ex-wife to a minimum. Over time she became more and more emotionally irrelevant to me, still not there. Its a process for everyone	/r/Divorce_Men	12/10/25 02:45 PM
1	Letting go of past friend groups Whe were in a friends group with 3 other couples and the women were all (so it seemed) close friends with my ex. After my ex wanted the divorce I was the one hanging out with the group and my ex wasnt invited anymore. Turns out the women never really liked her and told me after the split that they allways thought she was egotistical and bossy. Man was I blind. What I lost and what hurt was having no contact with her parents anymore after years of going on holidays together and spending a lot of …	/r/Divorce_Men	02/10/25 07:30 AM
9	It's Over! Only way is up from here!	/r/Divorce_Men	01/10/25 11:46 AM
1	Gave everything I could and it still wasnt enough Sorry to hear you had to go through similar experience. I allways thought having a kid with a disability would make us tougher and help us work through things aa a team. Guess you get wiser with the experiences lived. I have been distant with her for a while now only communicating the necessities with the kids and I can tell the more I distance myself from her the more she trys to interact with me. One thing is for sure Im never getting back with someone who doesnt want me 100%	/r/Divorce_Men	30/09/25 07:23 PM
2	Ex family. As others have noted the term blood is thicker than water hits hard and gets real when you split with your partner. My In laws were also my family, holidays etc. but the moment my wife wanted to call it quits they pretty much treated me like a stranger. Its tough realising you also lose that part of the family but I think its the way it usually goes	/r/Divorce_Men	30/09/25 07:16 PM
1	Ex family. I was really close with my wifes parents, we allways took them along when we went on holidays and they were a big part of my kids life. I never had a close relation to my parents and they never really were interested in their grandkids so i was happy that the in laws were in our lives. After my wife wanted to get separated I pretty much lost my in laws as well. They never reached out to me. I contacted them and asked how they were etc and it was pleasant but when I didnt reach out then we had no…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/09/25 07:11 PM
2	Gave everything I could and it still wasnt enough well said, how did you manage the situation with your wife, if she still is your wife? Did she eventually understand she cant have it both ways?	/r/Divorce_Men	29/09/25 04:38 PM
8	Gave everything I could and it still wasnt enough Think a lot of men go into marriage and see it as sacred, as did I. I would have fought and done everything to make it work because I allways believed strongly in the commitment being made. To not even try to make it work says a lot. Marriage used to mean something, what happened to the world	/r/Divorce_Men	29/09/25 04:34 PM
3	How to deal with post divorce emotions? Been separrated for about 6-7 Months now and I can tell you it does get better. Was in a similar place where my ex wife had a lack of respect for me and what I did and her family members were allways butting in, it sucked. In the first few months for some reason my brain only had positiv memories of our time together and I would long to get her back. What really helped me was writing down all the bad stuff in the relationship and to read the list when my emotions wandered to get balanced out. We…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/09/25 03:51 PM