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| 1 | Why does seeking explicit consent turn off so many women?Lol I'm so scared I'll definitely ask permission from you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 01:36 PM |
| – | Why does seeking explicit consent turn off so many women?Then don't say "everyone, every woman, most women, majority of women, etc". Instead, say, "from my experience, in my opinion, from my point of view, from what I've witnessed personally, etc". Don't generalize what you've experienced and make it seem like everyone else would have the same experience as you. Also, r/ihavesex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Maybe our view of marriage is outdated. It shouldn't be seen as a "forever" thingExactly. Divorce is way more common. That's why everyone is aware, which makes your whole point completely. . Pointless. Ugh. This is such a ridiculous conversation. You have a good day and learn some research. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Maybe our view of marriage is outdated. It shouldn't be seen as a "forever" thingOkay, do you expect a car to run over you every time you walk outside? God. Open your eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 10:50 AM |
| – | Maybe our view of marriage is outdated. It shouldn't be seen as a "forever" thingUm. . Why do you think the divorce rate is 60%? Coz most people are aware. . . . God nvm you're not listening. Adults aren't stupid. They're not idiots. They know divorce is a possibility but of course no one expects bad things to happen. Nvm. Good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 10:48 AM |
| – | Maybe our view of marriage is outdated. It shouldn't be seen as a "forever" thingLol Of course they're blindsided. But they're aware. Again, if I get stabbed, I'd be blindsided too. No one expects bad things to happen to them. But when you get married, you're aware of the possibility. Maybe you're too young or green to understand this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 10:43 AM |
| – | Maybe our view of marriage is outdated. It shouldn't be seen as a "forever" thingNo, every adult on earth knows it exists. But of course no one hopes and expects it to happen. Just like I'm aware of murder. But I don't expect to be murdered. Dude. This isn't complicated. People who get divorced are naturally upset. But they're not unaware and stupid. Your view on things is really incomplete and uninformed. Sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 10:34 AM |
| – | Maybe our view of marriage is outdated. It shouldn't be seen as a "forever" thingUm. . . Who gets blindsided by divorce? 60% is the divorce rate. Are you saying these 60% commit suicide? Um, no. . . They're adults who are aware that divorce in marriage exists. Duh. It's common. It's so extremely common. You must be new. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 10:29 AM |
| 10 | Maybe our view of marriage is outdated. It shouldn't be seen as a "forever" thingThat's why divorce exists. Yknow, if you want to leave, you can leave. But why would you want to "get married" with the expectation that it'll end? Then don't get married. If you don't like the concept of being with someone forever, don't get married. No one's forcing anyone to do so. Your viewpoint is. . . Completely unnecessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 10:23 AM |
| – | Why does seeking explicit consent turn off so many women?If it's just your experience, you can't generalize it as what everyone experiences. Ugh. This is basic common sense. Nvm you're not listening. Good luck man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 07:17 AM |
| – | Why does seeking explicit consent turn off so many women?Don't call it empirical lol It's just YOUR experience. Not everyone else's. Do some research lol you sound like you're new to this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 07:05 AM |
| – | Why does seeking explicit consent turn off so many women?Personal experience does not represent the majority. That is called anecdotal and cannot be used as evidence to prove anything. Maybe you need to study up a bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 06:51 AM |
| – | Why does seeking explicit consent turn off so many women?And you're basing this on what? Someone told you? If you're going to make a statement, at least have some evidence to back it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 04:35 AM |
| – | Today’s female dating strategy will lead to a demographic collapse of liberal progressives and a future where women are treated as second class citizens.What are you smoking? I had a intelligent reply prepared but I realized it's not worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 03:25 AM |
| 1 | The One and Only Problem In Front of Men is the Lack of LeverageBy your logic, many men would have lied too. Oh, are women the only liars? Maybe you should rethink your methods. Good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 02:44 AM |
| 1 | The One and Only Problem In Front of Men is the Lack of LeverageLol and I should believe you over a widely known statistic? The first step to bettering yourself is accepting that your knowledge is limited. Good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 02:38 AM |
| 1 | The One and Only Problem In Front of Men is the Lack of Leveragehttps://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america Men cheat more. Your "observation" is meaningless as you are just one person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 02:26 AM |
| – | Q4W: Do girls pursue or give signals only to good looking guys?like I said, looks matter but they're not everything. So if you don't have good looks, what're you gonna do? Lay around and complain? Or will you do something to compensate? That's the problem. Life's unfair. But you're not willing to do anything about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 02:36 AM |
| – | Q4W: Do girls pursue or give signals only to good looking guys?You sound like an amazing guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Men would probably simp less and be desperate for female company if they just got more positive reinforcement/affirmation in their everyday life, I will explain in better detail what I meanCouldn't have said it better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do girls pursue or give signals only to good looking guys?You're fulfilling your own nonsense with that mindset. Good luck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do girls pursue or give signals only to good looking guys?Won't get you anywhere as you're only focused on shallow things. Good luck thi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do girls pursue or give signals only to good looking guys?And so do men. Two way street. So you compensate. If you're not too lazy to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do girls pursue or give signals only to good looking guys?Lol sure and like I said, unhappiness is not exclusive to the average. You seen these actors get divorced publicly, athletes beating up their girlfriends? You need to know more couples. You're clearly living under a rock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do girls pursue or give signals only to good looking guys?Okay, so your solution is to complain and do nothing. Oooh ooh I wasn't born 7 feet tall, therefore fuck basketball. Oh wait, there are players who are under 6 feet and do well. That's simply a worse deal. You end up with nothing. You call it "not worth compensating". I call it "laziness". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 06:11 AM |
| 1 | The One and Only Problem In Front of Men is the Lack of LeverageMore guessing and speculation. Not a shred of evidence or anything resembling reality. You should listen to yourself and maybe you'll realize how silly your statements are. You've swallowed your pill so hard you can't notice what's happening around you. Good luck man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 11:00 PM |
| 1 | The One and Only Problem In Front of Men is the Lack of LeverageRight. So you mean every one of the millions of men in relationships right now are all model looking handsome dudes? Give me a break. Please stop being ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 10:00 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Do girls pursue or give signals only to good looking guys?Right. So you mean every one of the millions of men in relationships right now are all model looking handsome dudes? Give me a break. Please stop being ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 09:59 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Do girls pursue or give signals only to good looking guys?I don't know where your misguided anger comes from, but I hope you get help for it. You seem to be rambling about a lot of nonsense and I wish you the best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 07:47 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Do girls pursue or give signals only to good looking guys?Okay, and men care about looks just as much. Don't the boys lust after the cheerleaders and the ones with bigger chests? The point is, looks matter but they're not everything. For both sexes. You act as if only women care. Cmon. The entire industries of makeup and fashion exist for women to get more attractive. The point is you can compensate for your lack of good looks. Again, average men make up the vast majority of those in relationships. Millions of average men are married and millions more … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do girls pursue or give signals only to good looking guys?Nope. Do you really think that only good looking guys are in relationships? Do you think that the majority of guys are good looking? No. It's not complicated. Average guys make up the majority of the millions of married/in relationships. Do you see many Brad Pitts walking around? No. Being good looking is a hell of an advantage. But it's a rare advantage. Again, women aren't shallow in general. Looks matter, but they're not everything. You can compensate for your lack of good looks. But you cert… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 06:11 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: Do girls pursue or give signals only to good looking guys?I really don't get why so many men think all women care about is looks. Women care about many different things aside from looks. Otherwise, there wouldn't be hundreds of millions of average looking people in relationships. It's not complicated. Women are attracted to accomplished and ambitious men. Confident men. Men who have their shit together. Men who aren't shallow. Men who don't think women are just shallow. Looks matter, but they're not everything. I wish more men would realize that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 05:48 PM |
| 2 | The One and Only Problem In Front of Men is the Lack of Leverager/niceguys huh? God. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:33 PM |
| 1 | The One and Only Problem In Front of Men is the Lack of LeverageAppeal to nonsense - it's just nonsense and not worth talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 07:37 AM |
| 1 | The One and Only Problem In Front of Men is the Lack of LeverageI just can't. This stuff you're saying, it's just complete and utter nonsense. I just can't. I'm not gonna bother with that. Good luck man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 10:38 PM |
| 0 | The One and Only Problem In Front of Men is the Lack of LeverageLol And so all the attractive rich couples don't get unhappy and divorced? You act like unhappiness in relationships is exclusive to the average. Did you just wake up from under a rock? Your comment just lacks any type of sense. Sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 10:22 PM |
| -1 | The One and Only Problem In Front of Men is the Lack of LeverageTheir happiness is irrelevant. The fact that they agreed to a relationship and she said yes when he proposed means that his averageness did not impact her decision. It means she decided he was worth marrying based on other factors she found more important than the shallow stuff. If later, they grew to hate each other, that has no bearing. What, are the attractive couples not getting divorces? Are "high value" men and women happy in their relationships all the time? No. Getting unhappy in a relat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 09:59 PM |
| 1 | The One and Only Problem In Front of Men is the Lack of LeverageYou quoted one line and forgot the rest. Try again pal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 03:07 PM |
| 1 | The One and Only Problem In Front of Men is the Lack of LeverageCheck my comments and learn to read. No longer replying as you don't read. Good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 03:00 PM |
| – | The One and Only Problem In Front of Men is the Lack of LeverageLol your replies are completely not related to what I'm saying. You're not reading any of my replies. So yeah, forget it. You want to debate, read first. Good luck to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 02:57 PM |
| 3 | The One and Only Problem In Front of Men is the Lack of LeverageWhen did I say they don't care about money? Read my comments. My god. I literally said "everyone is influenced by money". Yeah, and no ugly guys are in relationships. Sure. How about you do some research rather than swallowing the pill so blindly? This is useless. You're not even reading my posts. Have a good day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 02:46 PM |
| 3 | The One and Only Problem In Front of Men is the Lack of LeverageAnd being in the doorway with nothing but your superficial things will make you stay in the doorway. No, this isn't about money. This is about developing yourself as a better person. That's all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 02:42 PM |
| 9 | The One and Only Problem In Front of Men is the Lack of LeverageLol Andrew Tate as the example. Rich assholes do get women. But he is NOT REPRESENTATIVE OF THE MAJORITY. How many Andrew Tates do you know? I'm outta here. Arguments only exist if you actually have stats to back up your side. You don't, so this is meaningless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 02:41 PM |
| 20 | The One and Only Problem In Front of Men is the Lack of LeverageOkay, here's your statistics. https://www.statista.com/statistics/183663/number-of-married-couples-in-the-us/#:~:text=How%20many%20married%20couples%20are,couples%20in%20the%20United%20States. There are 61.44 million married couples in the United States alone. That means 123 million people are married. Assuming maybe 60 million are men (there are some same sex couples), what the hell are you talking about? And that number only represents married couples, not those in boyfriend girlfriend relatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 02:37 PM |
| 12 | The One and Only Problem In Front of Men is the Lack of LeverageEveryone is influenced by money. I'm saying it's less of an influence now as many women have high paying jobs now. And that's the point of this whole dating thing now. You can't just be rich and an asshole and get the girl. No. You actually have to make an effort to be better as a person now. Continuing to think all you need is superficial and material things is not going to work as much anymore. And no, it's not about being a perfect package. You just need to adapt to the changing landscape. Li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 02:34 PM |
| 29 | The One and Only Problem In Front of Men is the Lack of LeverageYou act as if the billions of people who are in relationships/married aren't mostly average. What, do you think that there are hundreds of millions of model looking/rich guys that outnumber the average? They're called average for a reason - they represent the vast majority. So if the vast majority who are married and in relationships are average, the problem is simply mindset. If your mindset is that all women are shallow and only care about looks and money, then you're only in the market for fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 02:28 PM |
| 1 | The women telling you to not approach don't care about your successLol I'm literally just completely dumbstruck about how clueless you are. "My female friends agree with me" is supposed to be some kind of proof that this works? Good luck man. Sincerely, good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:33 AM |
| -6 | The women telling you to not approach don't care about your successUm, no. That's called "disrespectful" and "creepy". Men get pissed about rejection but they often put themselves in the position to be rejected. What you fail to understand is women aren't pieces of meat you can simply dig a fork in whenever you want. Women are people too, with their own lives going on, and they're not subject to being hit on in places they're doing their own thing. I guarantee your way of thinking will never ever work. But good luck. Come back to me if some girl in the library … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:26 AM |
| -1 | The women telling you to not approach don't care about your successOr you could also choose to approach women in places where they actually want to be approached. Not at basketball games or art shows or libraries where they aren't looking to be hit on. Or you could take into account that hitting on women as a complete stranger as your base move isn't the best approach. Women would rather build a relationship with someone they're friendly with to begin with and they already trust. So why not take a friendly approach instead of the aggressive stuff that has a low… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:14 AM |
| 10 | Women are completely delusional when it comes to their physical appearance, yet they constantly suggest men are the ones overrating themselvesDating isn't like a fish market. Most people aren't as shallow as you think. And it's a movie. Talk about delusional. Your take is barf worthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 08:01 AM |
| 6 | Is a man still high value if he invests his money instead of showing it off?"high value" is the most ridiculous thing alongside "alpha male". You're not getting anywhere if you're using these strange terms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 03:47 AM |
| 3 | There are good reasons why birthrates are fallingI'd say the latter. Probably mad at getting rejected or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 07:19 PM |
| 23 | There are good reasons why birthrates are fallingThis is all nonsense. The desire to have children has nothing to do with any of the stuff you outlined. Cost of living, cost of raising children, and more women joining the workforce are the only meaningful factors. Go look at the statistics. It's not complicated. If you want to debate, use some facts and not just your biases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 01:31 PM |
| 8 | Should ugly men feel guilty for being attracted to women? When is it objectification?Yknow the post itself was silly. But your comment takes the cake. You should reconsider your life choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 07:01 AM |
| 6 | Assuming traditional gender norms in dating, what do women offer in the initial dating stages?Haha yup. Lots of guys not understanding things around here. . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 06:07 AM |
| 2 | Assuming traditional gender norms in dating, what do women offer in the initial dating stages?Sounds like someone hurt you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 06:06 AM |
| 6 | Assuming traditional gender norms in dating, what do women offer in the initial dating stages?That's also not called a friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 06:02 AM |
| -1 | Assuming traditional gender norms in dating, what do women offer in the initial dating stages?Ugh. Your responses aren't even related to anything I typed. I'm not replying anymore. Just good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Assuming traditional gender norms in dating, what do women offer in the initial dating stages?Or. . You just have a reading problem. "Don't go into a date thinking about money" "Someone has to pay" What? Lol good luck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 02:21 AM |
| -4 | Assuming traditional gender norms in dating, what do women offer in the initial dating stages?And clearly, you didn't read my comment either. Ugh. I'm out of here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Assuming traditional gender norms in dating, what do women offer in the initial dating stages?Huhhh Did you even read what I wrote? Damn. I already said it plainly. Both parties shouldn't be going into a date worrying about money. They should be going in with the idea that they appreciate each others' company. The money shouldn't be an issue at all. What are you talking about? When did I say it's necessary for someone to pay? I'm saying that it shouldn't be your thought process when dating. Ugh. Nevermind. Read it again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 02:07 AM |
| 47 | Assuming traditional gender norms in dating, what do women offer in the initial dating stages?The way you think about dating, like it's some sort of give and take transaction, is also the reason a lot of dates don't work. See, treating someone to dinner isn't about the money or the food (unless you're dating a golddigger). It's not about being fair either. I treat my friends all the time to dinners. Coz I appreciate their company. And they treat me all the time as well. Coz they appreciate my company. Why do dates have to be different? You treat your date because you appreciate his/her c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 01:33 AM |
| 15 | Being shy or a little introverted can be considered an endearing trait in women, but is usually a very unattractive one for menThis is the most 'niceguy' post I've seen in years. You've been reading too much fan fiction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 12:20 PM |
| – | Q4W: does “size” make up for height, & vice versa?Yep. Regularly. Your post just takes the cake. Sorry, I said I wouldn't even try to reply. I just wanted to point out how silly your comment was. Anyway, good luck. Re-read your stuff before posting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 03:17 AM |
| – | Q4W: does “size” make up for height, & vice versa?Absolutely ridiculous. I lurk on incel forums to give advice yet this goes far beyond. Yknow next time before you post, try to reread it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 03:08 AM |
| – | Q4W: does “size” make up for height, & vice versa?Hoo boy. This is one of the most ridiculous things I've ever read. Won't bother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 03:03 AM |
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