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| 1 | For those who are very experienced with women, has dating made you trust them less?I've had this before. She had daddy issues, unloved as a child, neurotic, emotionally stunted, and I wasn't emotionally intelligent or secure myself so we had this same situation. She gaslit hard, dismissive, and was narcissistic from an anxious (none of her needs were ever met or expressed) angle. My job is to learn from that and walk tf away when signs of that appear. There is no deep fixing it, sure you can try but if it goes nowhere, run and find someone with more EQ. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 10:54 PM |
| 1 | I can’t turn it offIt's true. We are good enough. We need food, water, shelter. Social connection is important too. We don't need wealth, we don't need women, we don't need status. Those are all extras. We all have inherent value, I don't NEED to show or provide value to other people or women to be fulfilled. I can choose to, I can choose to want women to add into my life or friends or money. But we are good enough. Having that belief becomes very attractive to the women around, and having that belief actually hel… | /r/seduction | 27/02/26 07:14 AM |
| 2 | Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learnedThis is where OP is off. He's asking them to come over, hooks up, goodbye and then never sees 80% again. Like bro what are you doing. I've been there too, but after I worked on myself. Now I pursue less women, find the ones I genuinely enjoy spending time with and now I'm having my longest non-relationship duration with women, women who I actually enjoy spending time with. I was newly single last year, took a few months to work on myself, then started dating better. One girl 4 dates and a very m… | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Date was going very well until I said one sentenceI've had this a few times, it's fuckin weird. I think they're either crazy, or lose instant attraction for some reason at first impression. | /r/seduction | 27/01/26 07:41 PM |
| 5 | Date was going very well until I said one sentenceBro, let me be straight with you. Couple things. 1) your ask to go more private was a bit sloppy. Could've said more like - I really enjoy talking with you, spending time with you. Then say want to spend more time in private. Also, make some excuse to be more private (come see my rooftop, my art collection, Idfk). Give her plausible deniability, something to tell her friends. Oh we went to his place to see his turtle and then one thing led to another. 2) A secure woman could've said no, or quest… | /r/seduction | 27/01/26 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Hate Approaching Women? This is for youIdk bro. I get dates and action from apps. Good profile, good on 1-1 dates. IRL game requires more energy and is more chaotic for me. I'm good looking, but shorter, so I feel engulfed and lose energy in loud crowded bars. Whereas on apps, I'm like an 8+/10. I'm working on my text game and seeing immediate improvement for getting hotter girls off apps. | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Do women instictively know when you have options?Damn bro. It sounds like you have had a real difficult time and you're not alone. Dating can be tough. I was there and have since found myself and my style. Everyone's on a different journey. I used to think I was legit ugly and undesirable, and over the course of 10 years I've had a glow up and I'm probably a solid 8+/10. For men though, physical looks aren't everything. Women love confidence and how they feel. So if you can just improve the looks enough for what you can change (hair cut, styli… | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 08:16 PM |
| 3 | Do women instictively know when you have options?Dating apps bro, much more of a green light. I have never been a fan of in-person or friend dating. You need to keep shooting your shot, build up experiences, positive experiences, and you'll figure out what works and do more of it, your style. Do not give up yet. Talk to me after you've asked 50 women out. Whether it's dating, job searching, making friends. It's often a numbers game and takes a ramp-up to learn the game. Do not quit yet please. For context I'm in my 30s. Been on 100+ dates in m… | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Do women instictively know when you have options?Because they're still waiting for you to make moves and escalate. And you can do so with a chill nonchalant attitude. Chill escalation on a date: "I like talking with you, want to hang out at your place for some privacy? but I can't stay long, have an early morning". They're extra sensitive to the neediness for 2 reasons - it filters creeps and also needy/shy guys. So you have to demonstrate that you're that cool chill guy. Don't need to be Brad Pitt cool, just you-cool, but demonstrate it. | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 04:21 PM |
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