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| 10 | Seduction tips for the "classy" or "dandy" vibe | Fundamentals | ThrowRa_565657 | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 10:34 PM |
| 0 | 404 Brains not found; Can you seduce while also checking for substance, or are they mutually exclusive? | Outer Game | ThrowRa_565657 | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 01:20 AM |
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| 1 | 404 Brains not found; Can you seduce while also checking for substance, or are they mutually exclusive?The fault may lie with me, obviously. In which case, to go into detail and find an answer to this: - is it because of lack of "space" in the interaction- is it an insufficient frame that allows for just one to be able to showcase their smarts or interests ( it allows for an intellectual monologue but never a dialogue)? or people just naturally gravitating towards their complementary values, as in someone that is smart would look for one that is funny - is the timeframe skewed - as one should gen… | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 03:22 AM |
| -1 | 404 Brains not found; Can you seduce while also checking for substance, or are they mutually exclusive?I won't go into detail of the process of what frame and tapping into emotions are, plenty of posts on this sub and other materials elsewhere. My issue is that the discussion can never become too intellectual or philosophical or it risks falling into platonic. The question is whether I am the one that is unskilled in this sense (and if so, how to fix it), or whether there's an issue with intellectual conversations and seduction being incompatible. | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 03:06 AM |
| -2 | 404 Brains not found; Can you seduce while also checking for substance, or are they mutually exclusive?Imagine saying so many things yet actually offering nothing of value, then patting yourself on the back for being able to quote me over and over. There's no need to regurgitate my post back with some added slang and poor remarks, I can read the words myself tyvm. I'd rather hear some real answers or ideas... which you fail to provide. | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Can’t dance, and won’t do itJust learn a few "hilariously bad" disco moves online, do them with a smile ( and do them right ) and people will understand you are only there for a laugh. Then you can continue to just bop your head or whatever while smiling, it works. Dont do flashy arms or head stuff, that just looks weird. just bounce and bop, your problem will be fixed. | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 04:55 PM |
| 10 | How to approach women at the dance floorI found it pretty hard to talk lol Clubs are 90% about looks and confidence. If you are confident in your bodylanguage + you're confident to lead her while dancing, then clubs are a good place for you, you can definitely pull that way. Otherwise, you gotta change frame, go to some place where music isn't so loud so you can have a talk. Usually make a sign for cigarettes, if she's into you she will follow you outside and talk some more, if she's not feeling it she'll just stay dancing. Chances ar… | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 11:15 AM |
| 3 | How to approach women at the dance floorGo to the club sober or just slightly tipsy. If you're looking to party while drunk or high, raves are a better fit—they’re louder, more energetic, and filled with like-minded people. Clubs, on the other hand, can be overwhelming and more prone to drama and fighting if you're not clear-headed. A great night out depends on your energy. Show up with a positive mindset, let loose, and dance like no one’s watching. If you’re with friends, hype each other up; if you don't have friends with you, just … | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Seduction tips for the "classy" or "dandy" vibeActually the only good advice here, thank you! I'll keep this in mind | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Seduction tips for the "classy" or "dandy" vibeThanks for the feedback, appreciated! I'm a lawyer (so I think I can nail the dresscode/vibe accordingly), I have musician friends so I can get tickets sometimes for free at lounges/VIPs during their concertos. Not all shows are prohibitively expensive though, and going once every month with different people( around once every 3-4 months with same person ) is completely feasible. You can watch goldeneye, this movie will teach you how to pick on sex hungry russian female assasins that like to smo… | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Seduction tips for the "classy" or "dandy" vibeJust enough | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 11:48 PM |
| 4 | French or Spanish classes for maximum baddies?Spanish vs French? This question is dumb af. The one language you should study is obviously KIingon. Klingon all the way, hottest chicks around | /r/seduction | 09/03/24 09:31 AM |
| 1 | What do other girls think when they see you approach?Depends in what environment you approach. If you're likely to never see them again? -> why you worry? Even if you fail, no harm done; they'll likely forget about you in a few days. If you're likely to see them in a different context (aka from hobbies, work, school ) -> don't approach with the intent of dating someone / romantical. Just make multiple short-approaches with a group with intent of having fun and enjoying yourself (but not being friends). This'll signal high value (and that you aren'… | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Your girl does not want you to be vulnerablePoint is: Many women like to complain and appear vulnerable, whilst not taking effective action to better their status - they weaponize compassion and vulnerability to gain social credit and manipulate the people around them to step up and solve the issue for them, or atleast offer them validation. Meanwhile when men are emotionally vulnerable or in need of help, it's seen as disgusting/icky/low value to complain or ask for advice from our partners. Women are attracted to 'competent' men, be it … | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 10:48 AM |
| 5 | Your girl does not want you to be vulnerableI concur. This chick (I'll call her that cuz she was very immature) kept trying to tell me about her day/week and bitch about all the shitty things that happened to her (saying it's something she often did with her female friends). This happened almost every time we met, over a period of just under three months. I often just zoned out but allowed it since she seemed to REALLY need that. She kept asking me, almost BEGGING me each time to tell her how my day/week was, and complain about anything t… | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 10:43 AM |
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