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| – | Q4W: Why aren't yall just content with sharing a guy that has everything you want?I don't really need him to have everything as long as we have chemistry and we're compatible long-term exactly. people here are so weird. like ranking men/women you date in "value" based on subjective physical appearance and wealth. if we have chemistry, are at the right age, compatible, and we're attracted then that's all that really matters imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 01:18 AM |
| 2 | I wish men would stop normalizing women approaching them and trying to "shoot their shot". Almost every man i've seen feels very uncomfortable with a woman approaching themMan/Woman1: "Hi, I thought you looked cute. Want to go out some time?" Man/Woman2: "Oh that's flattering but no thank you" Man/Woman1: "No problem! Sorry for bothering you" If only...... instead it's Man/Woman1: "Hi I thought you looked cute. Want to go out some time?" Man/woman2: "FUCKING CREEP GET AWAY FROM ME" or Man/Woman1: "Hi I thought you looked cute. Want to go out some time?" Man/Woman2: "Oh that's flattering but no thank you" Man/Woman1: "FUCKING BITCH WHY DON'T YOU WANT TO GO OUT WITH… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Should men try to be friends with women first?A romantic partner, by definition, means you're fucking them or on the way to fucking them. asexual relationships exist. A crush is a romantic and sexual fantasy btw, typically involving an idealized version of a person someone knows. to me a crush is just someone you are attracted to, in other words has qualities to make a good partner. a close friendship, but more exciting, and more personal. this is half attainable in a platonic friendship. I don't know why society thinks that cuddling and in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 07:17 AM |
| – | Should men try to be friends with women first?jesus christ. fetishistic? predator? stalker? i just said i have an innocent crush on a couple of my friends 😭 i really don't see the problem here. But you don't respect her boundary, she wants a platonic friend, you're using her friendship to live off a fetishistic romance fantasy in your head that she is clearly unaware of. You're an opportunistic and camouflaged predator. i am her platonic friend, who has a crush on her. you say you're redpilled but you seem more like a chronically online rad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 06:54 AM |
| – | Should men try to be friends with women first?Platonic activities are by definition, not romantic. It's why the same platonic activity isn't romantic when its your guy friend doing it with you. those platonic activities give me romantic pleasure. to me, the perfect partner 1: has sex, and 2: is my best friend. honestly romance doesn't even exist. it's a social construct. like you can have platonically intimate friends (cuddles, hugs, emotional support etc.) and do all the non-sexual activities you would with your girlfriend and still get th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 05:37 AM |
| – | Should men try to be friends with women first?I don't refuse to act on them. my romantic motives are fulfilled when we do platonic activities. all i want is a friendship. all romance is is glorified, intense friendships, at least to me (romance is subjective though). if you love a person enough to marry them and only them forever, i would imagine you could also be great friends with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 04:40 AM |
| 1 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.unless you're so close with your friends that they are like brothers to you but it's rare to have friendships like that these days yeah.. with males. women have those relationships all the time with their friends, very quickly too. they can cry on each other, hug each other, even have sleep overs in the same bed and guess what? they aren't called lesbians unlike men who are called gay for the same thing!! friendships with guys doesn't just have to be "playing video games" it can be so much more,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 04:32 AM |
| – | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.our society has tons of awareness and sympathy for women’s issues i just don't have the energy to argue that i feel we'll both get nowhere. I disagree, but yes i guess i understand what you mean especially if you are just looking at the internet and not the real world. but none for men I do agree with this. men who are lonely are belittled for being undesirable and weak, they are also not as encouraged to seek therapy because men are strong or whatever. our society hates virgin and weak and "low… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 02:01 AM |
| – | Should men try to be friends with women first?many of my friends are girls and I'm not friends with them with for any ulterior motives or expectations of a relationship. but I do have romantic (asexual) crushes on them most of the time and am fulfilled with a one on one friendship. for some reason for me being friends with people I'm romantically attracted to seems better than nothing. like i love them so much i want to have them in my life at all even platonically. given the chance for a relationship i'd pursue it, again not the reason im … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 01:56 AM |
| – | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.no. if you go into a long term devoted relationship while you're cripplingly lonely and mentally ill it will fail. a relationship and sex should be complimentary to your already happy life. everything is just a temporary loneliness band-aid. your girlfriend could break up with you, could cheat, could die etc. having people around you to comfort you intimately (not sexual) and therapists help so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 01:46 AM |
| – | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.no. just no. what about male friends? making it normal for straight men to be platonically intimate with their friends for comfort without seeming effeminate or gay like women do all the time? or a therapist? or finding a community that loves and supports you? or finding your spirituality? a SO will help, but it's not the magical loneliness fix you think it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 01:12 AM |
| – | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.I understand completely. It's easy to resent people who mock your loneliness, basically adding salt to the wound, which radicalizes many young men to inceldom. it's also easy to see why it appears women have life on easy mode, they get everything you want in dating while you're left fighting for scraps. but you have to understand women feel the same way. they would rather be left alone forever than settle with an abusive man who objectifies her. in their mind, being lonely is life on easy mode, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 01:07 AM |
| 1 | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.there was always a significant amount of work a guy would have to put in to have sex with a girl but not like we're seeing today, to be fair. i also wouldn't say women have it "easier" when it comes to not being involuntary celibate yes when it comes to not getting raped or abused no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 12:21 AM |
| – | This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have to put in work to get laid and 90% of women don’t need to do anything other than show up.well, yes, i don't think they try to hide this. incel ideology is very clear that they are envious of women getting dates. the solution to male loneliness isn't just "haha look at this loser no bitches kys", but it's also not state mandated gf's. maybe if more straight men understood what it's like to be used and assaulted by men constantly when trying to date they would feel more sympathy for women, maybe if more straight women understood what it's like to not feel the touch of a human for mult… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 12:18 AM |
| 2 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is a non issuethey're assaulting women and promoting conservative/bigoted political movements. no one said anything about revolution, but men can be dangerous. it's not because they "can't get laid". they're not sex deprived. they're love deprived and can't realize it. all they want is a human to touch them and show them compassion but they're so fueled with hatred (and often mentally ill) they can't see it that way. but fuck it let's bully them and harass them until they kill themselves, reddit moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 08:49 PM |
| – | The “male loneliness epidemic” is a non issueno, they really don't. they just think sex will make them happy because that's what society tells them over and over and over again. so they make up strategies to get it by any means necessary, without realizing sex just won't fill the void in their hearts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 08:45 PM |
| 2 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is a non issuemost empathetic and compassionate blue pill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 08:43 PM |
| – | The “male loneliness epidemic” is a non issuelol. well we all know what happens when men stew in their own misery for too long, since they are expected to externalize their problems onto women expect to see lots of violence and reactionary movements. we have to look at broader social issues causing people to act like this, there shouldn't be such a large amount of incels in a good happy society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 08:08 PM |
| 1 | How do average looking guys get 10/10 Western women? Why is there less dating inflation abroad?there are some unchanging factors, but look at fashion trends that are different from culture to culture. society changes what they view as attractive all the time. from place to place, time period to time period, and culture to culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 07:42 PM |
| – | The “male loneliness epidemic” is a non issueyou seem like the "pull yourself up by your bootstraps"-esque conservative that causes incels to become radicalized. we need to show sympathy to lonely men. not by just teaching them to "wOrK oN tHemSeLvEs" (reason I'm not blue pill, I hate individualism), but instead giving free therapy, letting straight men know it's ok to be platonically intimate with their male friends for comfort, letting them receive basic community support, and also once they're happy and healthy, giving them positive dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 06:52 PM |
| – | How do average looking guys get 10/10 Western women? Why is there less dating inflation abroad?then why does every culture and even decade change what looks good or not if it's completely biological? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 06:46 PM |
| – | How do average looking guys get 10/10 Western women? Why is there less dating inflation abroad?However, an obese woman with a pretty face and well-kept hair would be considered more attractive than an obese woman with dirty hair and a hairlip. you are just describing basic hygiene and self care. of course, this applies even outside of sex and dating. but i dont think many people in our world would describe an obese woman who just doesn't have dirty hair attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 06:38 PM |
| – | How do average looking guys get 10/10 Western women? Why is there less dating inflation abroad?I really don't understand why whenever conservatives hear words they don't understand they immediately disregard it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 06:33 PM |
| – | How do average looking guys get 10/10 Western women? Why is there less dating inflation abroad?rating people isn't inherently patriarchal, right. rating their value as a person based on how much they can please a man, and rating man's value as a person based on how dominate or masculine they are probably is. a woman can look beautiful and it can have nothing to do with men or sex, society generally does not see it that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 06:31 PM |
| – | How do average looking guys get 10/10 Western women? Why is there less dating inflation abroad?yes, depending on what culture you're in. if society thought obese women were super sexy, the same men would be chasing after obese women. it could not be based on personal preference. it could rather be based on what we're taught to like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 06:21 PM |
| – | How do average looking guys get 10/10 Western women? Why is there less dating inflation abroad?yes, they do. never said they didn't. this isn't a man vs. woman statement. that's not what i mean when i say patriarchy. im not specifically blaming or vilifying men, it wasn't my point either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 06:06 PM |
| – | How do average looking guys get 10/10 Western women? Why is there less dating inflation abroad?again, define "hot" in women. someone who looks sexually valuable to men? that seems to be the trend. I feel that if we looked at people, as people, despite things we've been exposed to in media about short men, or about plus sized women, or about tall women, or about people with skin conditions, etc. more common people would be 7/10, or 8/10 to us individually. I think the society we're in limits our preferences in a way. When we think about short men, I think of effeminate, weak, and low value… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 05:57 PM |
| – | How do average looking guys get 10/10 Western women? Why is there less dating inflation abroad?um, yep. i would consider society rating women based on how sexually valuable they are to men, and society rating men based on how dominant or masculine they are, very clearly a patriarchy. that being said this wasn't the point of my comment. whether we live in a patriarchy or not, who determines how "good" people look? and is a 1/10-10/10 scale really accurate? It changes based on time period to time period, and culture to culture. I prefer plus sized women (not obese), society does not, this m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 05:40 PM |
| – | How do average looking guys get 10/10 Western women? Why is there less dating inflation abroad?genuine question, what do people mean by "10/10"? I could date a woman the patriarchy says is 5/10, but I think is 9/10. Where do these numbers come from? I don't think there's an objective measurement in beauty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Can feminine men be in a relationship with feminine women? can masculine men be in a relationship with a masculine woman? or does there always need to be balanceWomen will always find someone who loves them for who they are; feminine, masculine, or otherwise. women will find people to sexually assault and abuse her fairly easily, much more than men. as for being loved and looked at as human? i think all genders struggle with that. I guess you could say women have a higher chance at opening the door towards a relationship where she is treated as human than men are (since men are often just blatantly neglected), but she is much more likely to be abused. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecuritiesIt's a defense mechanism, like "I never even wanted you anyways because you're such a dumb b*tch cat lady!! ha!" to regain the power they lost. Which is understandable, the problem is they bring women down to regain that power. Instead he could say "well, yes, I never wanted you anyways, because I only want to date people that are open to partners. lonely people aren't my type." which is absolutely true. I don't understand incel ideology because they have no end game or plan, just angry bitter p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 12:57 AM |
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