| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | I (23F) want to make a move on my older neighbor (52M), not sure of how to go about itEveryone in the sub says this but most women date around their age bracket. The idea that men become fucking machines at the age of 30 is some bs thrown around to aleviate the fear of being alone. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 01:27 AM |
| 1 | looking for a mentor in Arizona area (19M)Yeah I know that but how do you solve not being in a relationship. Like I'm not depressed or anything like that but it's a major insecurity for me. I enjoy improving myself but that insecurity is always there. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 02:07 AM |
| 1 | looking for a mentor in Arizona area (19M)I am trying to get into more things but honestly Idek why I've never had a girlfriend and it's a major insecurity for me. Like I know I'm handsome now but I just kinda feel like nobody wants me because of ugly duckling syndrome. Hell I look at pictures of myself a few months ago and I cringe at how bad I looked. I'm still grinding but Idk it would just be nice to have someone I can spend time with. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | This is becoming extremely demotivating and makes me feel unworthyIf it's not for you it's not for you. I'd be lying if I said I'd rather do a random makeout with a random girl at a party while drunk than kiss a girl I really like when I'm sober. It's honestly not the greatest feeling ever like it's portrayed in the movies. Also you might be overthinking the whole romantic feelings thing, some girls make out with a LOT of guys and don't give a shit. It's just being drunk and kinda horny. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Dating in college as a dark skinned Indian guyIk it doesnt matter that much and Im not even attacted to her but Idk how to not et shit like that get to my head. It's not really one girl it's just media in general. Like I could be enjoying a show and then suddenly an indian pops up and makes me cringe immensely. Yeah i was just feeling bad for myself which I should never do. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 06:18 PM |
| 11 | This is becoming extremely demotivating and makes me feel unworthyI haven't been succesful yet but I'm similar yet slightly different. I've made out with a couple of girls but havent even been on a date. Frankly the fact that women have approached you romantically is extremely impressive to me. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Dating in college as a dark skinned Indian guyI get that and I'm proud of who I am but saying race doesn't matter is cap lol. I've met one girl literally call herself a white man's whore. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Dating in college as a dark skinned Indian guyI am going to parties but I just only recently went through a "glowup" getting contacts,piercings and gaining a few pounds. I stil would like to gain 20 or 30 pounds for my peak physique but i think 15 is more realistic. I just frankly need to know more girls and it's kinda hard being a cs major. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Dating in college as a dark skinned Indian guyOh lol Ur right I misread it. Yeah im just kinda lost on what to do. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 11:05 PM |
| 3 | Dating in college as a dark skinned Indian guyLike I get what you're saying and I've been called handsome by a few women already because of the effort I've put into my appearance but Hasan Minhaj isnt exactly a great example lol. A big reason I made this post is that all the good looking indian guys in media are hella light skinned. I think I honestly look more similar to black guys than indian people in media. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Dating in college as a dark skinned Indian guyYeah Ik that's why Im saying 6 figures will help out later. But yeah I'm trying to gain experience and rejection really sucks rn lol. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Dating in college as a dark skinned Indian guyMost people skip class and there are only like 2 girls in class. I'm "friends" with a few women in my major but it's pretty hard to hang out with them when the groups we hang out with aren't connected. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Why are women even on this subreddit?I honestly think women give better advice on who is attractive or not but don't really offer much on how to becomes like those people. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Should I just wait?The problem is I'm just not meeting them through my friend groups or even clubs. I don't know what to do I'm just struggling tbh. | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 03:44 AM |
| 1 | I’ve been having a lot of sex lately.not really, I'm trying to fix it but I've struggled too hard already. | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 03:56 PM |
| 2 | She JUST did this on an OLD post. I actually appreciate it because it just further validates that they can also be at fault and toxic, not just you guys. I'm also proud of myself for not going off on it. T'was hard.Bruh this just makes me feel worse | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/02/22 10:47 PM |
| 3 | How am I supposed to not get emotional over rejection?I cry like every other day man. | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 10:32 PM |
| 12 | How am I supposed to not get emotional over rejection?It really isn't man I have to be honest. I've even given up on approaching girls because I have this mentality that they are gonna reject me. | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 05:45 AM |
| 2 | Am I just horny or is this a sign?Dang bro gl I hope it goes well! | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 03:59 AM |
| 6 | Stop begging for girls attention, be abundant.I don't get this at all. I hate saying this about myself but social approval increases my confidence more than anything else in the world. I can't separate myself from that ever. Honestly if what other people think of u didn't matter then people wouldn't become lonely. There's not a single person on this planet that is somehow immune to the need for social approval. | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 12:27 AM |
| 0 | for newbies: big dating subreddits can do you more harm than goodjust get off Reddit it makes me wanna die | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Where to cold approach in college for maximum success during Covid?I'm actually gonna try doing that next year when I get a nicer apartment. Houses in my area are often near 7 figures so I don't think I can get a house lol. | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Options for social life after collegeGoddamit I'm wasting my college experience, aren't I? | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidYeah that's facts but honestly it kinda stresses me out sometimes that everyone I know is gaining sexual and romantic experience by simply going to class while I have to put more effort in. | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidYeah, I hope I can join a cool frat and I thank you for all the effort you've put into this highly detailed post but there are other things I need to consider. For example, a lot of frats at my school have a history of racism so I don't think I have the best shot of getting into any frat I want. | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidFrankly, I would likely choose something in STEM or just not go to university at all. I hate the fact that it's so goddamn hard to meet women in my major but I likely wouldn't abandon it because of that. My second major within stem would probably be biology. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidBruh I'm so jealous. Literally, every time I talk to a hot party girl they're either psychology or a business major. I wish I knew about this stuff before I started college so I wouldn't have to suffer so much with trying to gain romantic interest. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidThanks, man. Honestly, I'm trying not to get too hyped about it because this is my hardest semester academically and the pressure of a lack of romantic entanglement coupled with the possibility of rejection from a frat would honestly put me in a bad state. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidI'm trying to join a frat because it's hard to make friends in clubs or other majors as a result of Covid. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 10:36 PM |
| 63 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidBeing in a STEM field fucking sucks. THe gender ratio is garbage and you are never gonna have as much time as the guys not in STEM to go out and do stuff. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 03:21 PM |
| 1 | How to view yourself as a prize and have an abundance mentality when you haven’t had success with women in the pastidk man just get out of this sub. | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 06:53 AM |
| 3 | How to view yourself as a prize and have an abundance mentality when you haven’t had success with women in the pastHonestly I think getting out of this subreddit is a good way to feel better about yourself when it comes to not having success with women. I've never felt more insecure or depressed about never doing anything remotely romantic with a girl then when I came to this subreddit. | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 12:11 AM |
| 3 | A girls perspective on ‘nice guys’What if you actually genuinely need to improve yourself though? | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 04:43 PM |
| 3 | The more you want them the less they want youBruh what then why are you even on this sub. I get the whole don't be desperate thing but this statement makes it seem like you should just do nothing and women will be interested in you. | /r/seduction | 03/11/21 03:39 PM |
| 3 | What's worked for meeting girls in college?Lmao thx bro | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 05:34 AM |
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