Throwaway-weary Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Wife is pushing me to take money and file uncontested - want to check for all the blind spots.. She would probably pay more than 30k to you (i.e. spousal support, assets 🏠 ) if you contested the divorce. You shouldn’t be financially responsible for her either. Sponsors have to ensure the sponsee income is at least 125% above the federal poverty level and she is. If you do it her way, it will benefit her. You should contest	/r/Divorce_Men	14/04/25 09:05 AM
11	Did your Ex stay with the AP? Ended worse for my stbx. A woman with a 5 month old baby kept contacting me only to not believe anything without proof. She believed it after she walked in on him with another woman and the baby in a soaked onesie crying in another room. I’m not sure what she expected	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/25 08:21 PM
3	How did your kids react to your divorce? How are they now? Mine are not OK because their other parent essentially is divorcing them too. They have withdrawn from parenting, visiting etc. they do a little but not even bare minimum and even that is inconsistent. they say they’re trying and want to be better. I’ve heard it’s not uncommon. I think as long as both parents are doing their best, being mature and supportive that children are resilient.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/12/24 09:45 PM
3	My wife is a lawyer. A badass one. How to get a divorce without being killed? Good luck. Also what’s her info? Ha	/r/Divorce_Men	25/11/24 06:09 PM
2	Thoughts on being divorced at 25 without kids? Lucky! My stbx will be 24 with 4 kids. We share 1 but all were born of the marriage. He’s aged so much	/r/Divorce_Men	04/07/24 04:34 AM
1	Beware the new cupcake No. I mean a child in a state I live and one in another.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/05/24 02:46 AM
1	Beware the new cupcake What if you have children in different states?	/r/Divorce_Men	20/05/24 09:48 PM
0	Can I get a Hell Yea? I know plenty of women that pay child support to their ex and they all made significantly more than their ex husband. Seems fair	/r/Divorce_Men	16/05/24 09:53 PM
1	What is the worst that can happen? Did it start out that way? I just want peace and healthy coparenting.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/05/24 07:34 PM
1	"Bad Person" Are you dating my STBX? He says this to me often 😂	/r/Divorce_Men	08/05/24 07:44 AM
1	I wish someone would tell me what to do. I’m going insane. I’m going through this and I truly want it to work. However I’m not going to be upset if he chooses to move forward. It will hurt but I’m not going to force it.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/05/24 03:52 AM