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Okay but it also helped women in those terrible ones. For example, until 1998 in England, you could legally rape your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:26 PM
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Equivalent and apt comparison are two different things. And yes, you’re acting as if just cus it’s other men doing it, it doesn’t matter that men are so much more likley to be killed. And it’s part of a wider issue, men are more likely to be homeless and kill themsleves too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:24 AM
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So we’re victim blaming now? This is the same as saying “what were you wearing”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:23 AM
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Yeah and peoples perception of others makes consent hard to prove too. Like if a person seems more vulnerable, people are more likely to believe them, and vise versa. It’s why women can make false accusations and why male victims arent taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:52 PM
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Which is why rape is hard to prove. OP clearly doesnt know how rape works in the legal system.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:50 PM
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Yeah rape is different, no matter what anyone says, sex is not the same as a simple action, it’s not the same as being forced to open a cash register.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:49 PM
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Im so sick of people acting like sex is just some carnal thing we use for release like animals and move on. Being forced to pleasure someone would be extremely degrading, horrifying, disgusting and humiliating. It’s also why people don’t take male victims seriously, because they think “men want sex so they must have enjoyed it”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:48 PM
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No but people are allowed to have whatever relationship they want, 2 consenting adults csn do what they please, even if i personally wouldnt do jt
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 06:48 PM
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I don’t think he’s necessarily calling you a misandrist, or at least dont take him as someone who speaks for us if he is. His point is that just like misogynists have wives, misandrist can have husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:56 PM
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Because it’s relevant to his comment, and you said you said it because of his comment
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:47 PM
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No I didn’t because she specifically said that men were treating women like theyre for sex and nothing else, even if not in those words, that was her point. And crazy how you haven’t actually responded to what I said but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:47 PM
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Seriously are you misinterpreting me on purpose like Lilith? Although I disagree that “all rational men” do that, my point still stands that since sex is an important part of a relationship, its unfounded to act as if someone is objectifying women just because he has a preference or looks for something in that woman, because thats just one part of the relationship. Hell, if you were right and he was just objectifying, then by your same logic, he doesn’t care about attractiveness since he didn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:38 PM
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I didn’t fucking say that omg. It’s like you go out of your way to misinterpret me, im saying i don’t care about sex as much as most so I would be okay with an ace person, not that women who don’t “put out” instsntly are ace. And don’t say “you guys” cus I for one dont care about forcing a woman to do something she isn’t comfortable with or having constant sex, and niether do most men. Just because you read some guy say something on one of your countless posts that are targeted to that kind of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:34 PM
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You didn’t, but you’re acting like it isnt by implying that men wanting someone theyre sexually compatible with means theyre sexist objectifiers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:23 PM
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Did you read anything I said? Personally id be fine with a relationship with someone who was asexual or that just didn’t want to have sex, but most arent. Dont be delusional, many things need to be compatible in a relationship for it to last. It’s the same reason you might not date someone who is broke, who has very different political beliefs, who doesn’t show affection, etc. But of course you resort the baseless rhetoric that all men want is sex, when we’re talking about sex, on a post about s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:22 PM
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Depends on the person, some can really quickly feel that connection or spark, not everyone is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:18 PM
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Men arent monoliths, the same guys you hear saying one thing, arent the same that say another. Dont strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:17 PM
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No but youre a dumbass if you think sex isnt an important part of a relationship. It’s like if a woman said a man has to have a job so he can help support her and any kids and a guy responded “cus guys are just walking wallets to women”. Money, sex, attractiveness, compatibility,etc. theyre important.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:16 PM
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The same way it’s hard to prove rape, it’s hard to prove false allegations. Would you say not to take non proven rape allegations seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:33 PM
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No that would be different. That’s like when mothers tell their daughters that they have to be wives and clean and cook and stuff like that. This is about feminists perpetuating things like “be a man” or “all men”, “don’t cry”, “dont hit girls”, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:30 PM
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Yeah I see ones with 1M+ likes all the time, and then if any guys saying anything, it’s always “calm down pretty princess” and stuff like that. It’s so weird, like youre trying to promote “equality” but then youre saying vile sexist things? I’ll never understand it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:28 PM
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Or women, they only voted thst way cus of their husbands who didnt vote/s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:18 PM
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I think this is more of an anecdotal thing. Not to be rude but my male friends are equally open to me as my female ones. The main difference lies in that from childhood were told by the SAHparent, usually mothers, things that reinforce toxic masculinity, stuff like “Youre the man of the house” “Men dont cry” “Man up” I think this comes down to what was being said before about the victim blaming. The state of Mens mental health is a biproduct of the patriarchy, but that does not make in Mens faul…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:24 PM
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Same country where 54% of white women boted for trump and 80% of brown and black men voted for kamala?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:18 PM
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Yeah but not everything works for everyone, and also mental health as a field is dominated by women which can make it intimidating for men or just make the therapist unable to relate and build that meaningful connection necessary for a good therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:17 PM
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What so I gain from marriage that makes the risk worth it. If it’s the commitment then a ring and kids would be all I need. Ive seen the shit that happens to people that get married and it’s just not worth it. If someone and I truly love eachother they’d understand, if they don’t then we don’t match up properly. If several years had passed and everything’s great I might do it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:19 PM
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I know
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:26 AM
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I don’t know man, just someone I like. Unless they’re taking advantage or they stink due to high weight idrc, just wanna be happy with them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 11:09 PM
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I just want a girl I enjoy spending time with who enjoys spending time with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:46 PM
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Because seeing a man’s success and being attracted to it is different to solely being with a man for wealth. Do yall not understand basic nuance?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:45 PM
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Perfectly written and acknowledges the gaslighting we always see on Reddit of “ot must be your personality”, because of course it cant be that people are shallow, there must be sokething wrong with you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:16 PM
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Thats obviously not his point
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:15 PM
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I think youre either generalising too much or just thinking of redpills, not men. Men need relationships to feel emotionally healthy and feel validated, whatever those relationships are is up to the man. The same way we shouldn’t judge women for just wanting sex, we shouldn’t judge men for it. Personally, I don’t think I would have sex with someone if I didn’t have a strong emotional connection, but whatever other people want/need is up to them. Why do people on this sub refuse to see both sides…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:04 PM
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How? Women carrying the fetus has nothing to do with the man’s rights, it’s like if you said women couldnt have abortions because men make the sperm, it’s irrelevant and illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:06 PM
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It’s not relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:01 PM
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It’s also probably why some men are going right more than before, if you’re constantly being treated as if you’ve done horrible things you havent, whilst your own problems are disregarded, youre going to become a more cynical misanthropic person. Personally ive seen men go down those rabbit holes, villainizing kids for the actions of adults is a sure fire way to cause harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:59 PM
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Im not saying you were, but youre the ones teaching us so like if this is an issue, it isnt is causing it. Besides as long as people are dating, id rather we sat through these than people not understand basic consent
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:37 PM
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Gen z hangout in parties and stuff, we don’t generally go out to places especially in clubs. People also tend to only socialize or date people they know. People are plently social but because your generation has forced us to sit through countless sessions learning about how women are made uncomfortable by men approaching, and we constantly see online how guys are recorded or called creeps, why the hell would we address people outside our circles. Most the guys responding here are redpills so don…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:19 PM
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I meant cus you said the details of their relationships leading to divorce with you. And I mean I don’t see why him not having practiced safe sex would be a reason to divorce for me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:36 PM
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As in if he was abusive or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:32 PM
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Well you’re wrong, hope this helps
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:40 PM
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I didn’t see the post because I don’t spend every minute of everyday on this sub reading the incel/femcel rhetoric that love isnt real and “all men are trash” or “all women are trash”. If I had done, Id say the same thing to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:01 PM
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What is it exactly they should expect? A life of solitude and loneliness?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:13 AM
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Because being anti Misandry, doesnt make someone not racist or sexist or anything else. It’s the same way someone can be a feminist but still pro choice, or be a feminist and still transphobic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:11 PM
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One guy out of all the men someone knows? No
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:33 PM
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And yet it’s still a tiny chance of happening, the fact is that saying “on average men commit violent crime mkre often means that men treat men worse than women do” is illogical because the average man is not someone who has done those things and so is not liable nor is it fair to prejudice them against women using that metric
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 05:04 PM
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So then you disagree with this “proof” of this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 05:02 PM
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Women do that to women too. Women do that to men too. Comparing how men treat eachother based off men doing that sruff more often is dumb. No guy I know has done that so saying they treat me worse than women is illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:41 PM
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The 15 million women arent but the less than a hundred thousand men are?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:40 PM
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Death grip is completely different and has nothing to do with circumsizion. And also again, what the hell are you talking about, do you think men with death grip have no self control and ignore their partner, just based off that? Death grip is literally called that because it makes it extremely difficult to finish, whereas circumsizion a surgery that makes men feel less stimulation. It’s like saying cutting a nail and ripping it off are the same thing, theres different levels to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 02:49 PM
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I think that acting as if circumsized men have no self control is stupid. I think that youre also heavily overestimating the lack of stimulation circumsizion causes, it would be like if you as a man said women were too rough in bed because it takes more for them to orgasm, it’s an illogical statement because you don’t have one and don’t know how it feels or what it takes to feel pleasure. Theres literally circumsized men who will finish from light stimulation in less than a minute. It’s not like…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 02:43 PM
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I still think saying it’s a “primary” reason is a huge exaggeration
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 02:21 PM
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While I agree this could be a facet in it, thats blaming the wider outcome on just one possible factor. Theres plently of uncircumcised men that act like that during sex, and many of circumsized men who don’t. It’s probably more of an issue of women encountering men who do that, regardless of if their genitals were mutilated at birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 02:06 PM
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Yeah regardless of whatever the evolutionary process was, it’s yeilded an end result of people craving love and other emotional connections that can be often found through sex, i don’t know why thats hard to grasp for some.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 01:50 PM
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Mb bruh im just in a foul state right now, also its after midnight and im sleep deprived. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:27 AM
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If my own female friend will say it, what chance do I have with a stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:04 PM
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Like 90% of my male friends, so like 12 people, along with multiple bullies I had growing up. I overheard a female friend say it about me when she thought I was asleep. And one girl said “eww hes so short”. I fear to see what guys who are even shorter than 5’4 hear
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:57 PM
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Both
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:53 PM
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Thanks I couldn’t figure it out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:28 PM
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Dayum
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:42 PM
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I know this might be a dumb question cus it’s not like you speak for all women, but do you think I’d be better off specifically trying to date girls around your height? Most of the girls im attracted to are around 5’3 or 5’5 like me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:51 PM
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Yeah that’s fair I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:24 PM
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Curious what height you are
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:23 PM
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Well no cus if a short guy is confident, people say he has a big ego, if he isnt, then he’s insecure. Im put in a negative box either way. Ik im being gloomy or whatever but like I can’t just act like height isnt a factor
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:04 PM
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But by saying life isnt fair you literally acknowledge they aren’t, keep doing mental gymnastics ig
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:58 AM
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What would you say constitutes good hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:58 AM
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That has nothing to do with your post dumbass, you said the problems are your fault, they aren’t so your post isnt valid, use your brain pleeeeeease
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:54 AM
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See how quickly it goes from “your problems are your fault” to “life isnt fair dont be a pussy”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:51 AM
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Wouldnt it be easier to just ignore dumbasses instead of thinking about the few of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:21 AM
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It’s not like I want to care about height, but when I’m constantly being told by men and women that im not datable because of my height, I’d like to know what I can do to surcumbvent it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:31 AM
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Were you initially attracted to him or was it like a, you “got to know him at work or school or through friends and clicked” situation? How did you meet? How old were you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:30 AM
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I don’t know man, seems kinda mean to call someone stupid for a preference. Besides being taller than the average woman in heels is like what 5’10? Again tho, im a 5’4 guy so tm if height was irrelevant thatd be great, but since it is, theres no use complaining about different levels of preference in it. Also, you used the word “need”, which isnt the case here, because it’s “ideal”, it’s barley even a want, itd just “thatd be a nice bonus”, 99% woman in this comment section are not gonna have “t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:27 AM
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Are we deadass? The privlige in this post is laughable. So a 4’11 ugly balding man in a wheel chair who struggles with dating is his own fault? A 6’4 woman with a thyroid condition making her obese, with alopeica, who struggles with dating, is her fault? Bffr
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:58 AM
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I get what you’re saying, but this is the ideal man, it makes sense there would be hyper specific small details that don’t matter much, that’s what makes it ideal. I mean hey, in a perfect world we wouldn’t be judged as partners based off stuff we can’t change, but this ain’t a perfect world
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:51 AM
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I mean women are generally attracted to tall men, and like wearing heels, it makes sense they’d want the ideal man to be taller when they’re in heels
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:34 AM
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This. They act like there has to be something wrong with us, it cant be that theyre shallow like everyone else, its us thats the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:21 AM
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They don’t gaf about things that don’t effect them and then get bent out of shape that we don’t conform to all their beliefs and support them in every way
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:53 AM
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Lmao, you don’t know shit about me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:03 PM
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“Why do you cry about it on ther internet all day” I don’t. People arent monoliths and we aren’t all online at all times, if one person posts their frustrations, and then another does, thats not the same as the same person posting twice
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 08:49 PM
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We know it’s unfair, it’s just upsetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 08:36 PM
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It honestly angers me even though I know it shouldn’t, it’s literally the perfect example of what fucked dating culture, “guys have to try to be perfect and girls already are” is how it’s seen
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/24 08:58 PM
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My mum and dad both abused me physically and mentally, my sister was “a fragile girl” even though shes 4 years older than me, so of course she barley had to deal with anything relatively, and I had to do pretty much every single physical task from the age of 6. Hearing people say that sisters have it hard and sons have it easy drives me nuts.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/24 08:56 PM
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He specifically admitted on stream that he moved countries to avoid “the strict laws” and then went to countries known for human trafficking and low ages of consent, after making misogynistic comments, and then happens to be accused of human trafficking and women are found with his name baranded on them. If that’s not sufficient smoke i don’t know what is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:57 AM
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I don’t know man, my looks are constantly pointed out by others, it’s hard not to think im cooked
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:31 AM
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When theres THAT many a legged victims and proof, yes we should take it with a grain of salt
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:27 AM
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Dude I’ll be so deadass, you look normal, you even got the tall dark and handsome thing going on
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:15 AM
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Wdym? Im guessing you looked at my old post or something? Trust me, my side profile is fugly, im obese, and im 5’4, im constantly told how clapped I am, and im not blind
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:51 PM
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Dude seriously, im ugly 5’4 and obese, I mog no one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:49 PM
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Maybe this is correct for the average man, but im unattractive as fuck, like I’d never be seen as a sexually viable person, and people would be judged if they even went out with someone like me. It’s not always body dismorpfia or being focused on the wrong things, some people are just very unnatractive and it’s depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:46 PM
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You can find anyone saying anything if you look at alt media. It’s like if you said violent racism is socially acceptable because of the kkk
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:31 PM
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If you could give any example of a mainstream show in the last 8 years I’d appreciate it, but keep gaslighting us into thinking we’re all up in out feelings ig
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:30 PM
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Umm im agreeing with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:27 PM
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I thought you were the other commenter
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:27 PM
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Does that change the fact hes heavily criticized? Do you think any mainstream media would present him as positive?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:26 PM
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You gonna prove your point or just pretend it isn’t valid and hope someone else does it for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:10 PM
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Examples? Only person I can think of is Andrew Tate and hes constantly criticized
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:09 PM
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Because when examples from twox or feminism are pulled up, it’s always “thats a minority of women”, “thats just Reddit”, “they probably had trauma from men”, wheras these are concrete leaders celebrated by the world
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:08 PM
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So the women found with his name branded onto them and all the victims that came out should be ignored because he was found innocent? Diddy was found innocent for some of his crimes a couple decades ago, does that mean he’s innocent now? Better yet, if diddy is found innocent now, should we just accept it as fact? Where theres smoke, theres fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:05 PM
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I don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:59 AM
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Lmaoooo, I’ll die before I go to war
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 08:53 PM
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It’s not. All over twitter, news sites, and tiktok, women are saying men exploited her, which is dumb because her and her mother organized it, and are doing 1000 next month
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 04:03 PM
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Ive met out of thousands of men, maybe 10 that might actually care about “masculinity” and theyre all just catholic ir Muslims Tate bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:05 PM
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You see most people divorced or dead? Tf do you live, the slums?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:54 PM
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Is OP 12 or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:45 PM
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Andrew Tate also traffics women and so listening to his politics is very concerning
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:42 PM
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Men and women are treated poorly in their relationships because of the patriarchy imo, the bell hooks quote above is a perfect example of how it effects men. And yes demonizing all/most men because of the “power” they hold is dumb, because it’s really just the very rich men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:38 PM
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Tf? Weird ass, go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:36 PM
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Could you explain what benifits a man would have from the patriarchy? The only men that truly reap these rewards and stuff are the top 0.001% rich and famous
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:36 PM
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Saying that what women want is for men to stop harming them, implies all or at least most men, because otherwise it would be a moot point since some women hurt men too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:35 PM
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Im saying that treating all men as bad because of some bad men as a way to win an argument is sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:27 PM
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Mens lib is ran by and taken over by twox Youre last statement is a harmful Steryeotype. Imagine I said that “trump supporters would be okay if my fellow minority men didnt harm white people”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 03:58 PM
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My issue is that feminism picks and chooses what it cares about depending on what benifits women or drags down men, instead of what results in equality. If feminism truly was for equal rights, it would help men and women, and it ceritnaly wouldnt have hundreds of organisations that activley stop men from getting help for things like safety from female dmv. And it wouldn’t hide or ignore figures like 1 in 9 men experiencing forced vaginal assault (rape) (10 years ago and men are way less likely t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 02:55 PM
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Because most the other subs got taken down by Reddit so now the red pills are all on the same one as the others who want to help men. Only exception is left wing male advocates but you still get loads of red pills and feminsts either calling you a sjw cuck or misogynistic man pig
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 02:50 PM
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So what are men supposed to do? All Mens spaces are invaded by feminists and called right wing when they aren’t, it shouldn’t be on men to help women but not on women to help men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 02:49 PM
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Cus we don’t wanna die alone and without love?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:44 AM
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It is a weird generalization but personally ive seen it with a couple women and no men, so it’s fair to say it’s a woman thing, I also hear a lot about women being on their phones during dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:53 AM
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You speak for all feminist men? Your question doesnt make sense, what does danger from women have to do with a bear? And also all your statements treat men and women as a monolith, Mens issues shouldn’t be irrelevant just because you think there’s more bad men than bad women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:51 AM
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Does that make it not sexist? Many women say internalized misogynistic things, does that make them untrue? Think next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 07:18 PM
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I hear all of this all the time. It is man hating to say youd rather be with a bear than a man. Men who say men are generally misogynistic tend to believe feminists aren’t generally misandrist, niether is necessarily true but that doesn’t make it any less sexist to say men are sexists based on nothing but their genitalia
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 07:17 PM
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(Gonna take a “wild guess” and say that youre a male feminst that took offense to tbis but im gonna ignore that urge and take you at face value) Feminist men who actively say things like “Women are better than men” “Men are useless” “Men have to realize that they have massive amounts of internalized misogyny” “Men are dogs/monsters” “I’d pick the bear too” “I know how men think and it’s disgusting” Stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:29 PM
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If you haven’t seen male feminists having loads of internalized Misandry then you’re blind to it Edit: a lot of arguing here huh? To be clear, im left wing and dont have anything inherently against feminists or male feminists, as long as they don’t say anti men stuff. Someone for example im not sure about would be bell hooks, she says a lot of men stuff but a lot of it is ACCURATE and shes right about intersectionality. The problem is that male and female feminists will ignore the fact that men …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 01:05 PM
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I disagree with anyone healthy relying on the benifit system
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:39 PM
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Either it’s sexism, or you’re inconsistent in your beliefs. And saying im throwing buzzwords and then calling go me an sjw is so goofy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:03 PM
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What irks me is that dating is already difficult for men, and many average men are struggling, so going through a bunch of shit to try to make up for me being below average seems useless because best case, I’ll be struggling the normal amount
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:34 PM
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I think youre taking a leap, i don’t disagree that women see these posts and reach the conclusion that that’s what Mens problems are, but it’s missing the wider issue. Youre looking at the consequence/symptom, not the diease. Women have better social support systems and more recourses for help for things like abuse/assault, and also arent seen as weak or “ick” when they show emotion, anywhere near as much as men. This means that men feel unloved and alone. Those problems of men can be solved thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:24 PM
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Just like OP, who makes posts saying that shaming men is okay. Shes mad because she is a delusional misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:19 PM
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Because women on this sub assume the worst in all men, and it’s inconceivable that men want something good without it secretly being because they’re sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:18 PM
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Because any bad thing women do is either not bad or Mens fsult /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:15 PM
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Yeah you’re right, tbh something that annoys me about this sub is that it’s like a 1 in 1000 chance the other person is open minded and willing to have an actual discussion or change their mind. The amount of people i meet irl who lack even a basic amount of empathy is also astounding
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:42 PM
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Redpills and extremist feminists both do this and it drives me nuts. Like how dense do you have to be and how selfvictimizing to think the opposite sex has it super easy and you have it super hard
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:43 AM
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How is my analogy innacurate? Theyre both experiences men and women do not share that a man or a woman would not understand. And the thing said was identical in both. It’s literally a perfect example of an analogy. Stop yapping. Youre just mad I called you out on your sexism
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:34 AM
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You when analogy: 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:58 PM
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Oh so when a woman does something, it’s Mens fsult because men do it too? So does that mean male rapists arent bad because women do it too? No obviously not, men and women do bad things, calling it out in women, doesnt mean im saying it’s good when men do it. It’s also extremely childish to deflect by saying “they do it too 😡”, grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:13 AM
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I see many women on this app that say all men are potential rapists and that all women hate men or are victims of men, if I judged all women off that and genuinely thought they thought that, I wouldn’t speak to a woman again lol. But unlike many people on this app, im capable of using my brain and talking to both sexes in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:08 AM
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Except they aren’t because women csn choose to get rid of responsibility via abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 10:28 PM
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No but it shows their belief system is inherently strong and that they support the pedo, so regardless of if they’d do it, I despise anyone whos okay with that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 10:09 PM
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Are you dumb? It happens all the time, google it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 10:07 PM
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Men dont have those options. Many boys get raped and pay child support when they turn 18 or just ment in general get stealthed, or a condom breaks, all the same reasons women should have the ability for abortions, men should have financial ones. Men do face consequences tho? Youre literally justifying the consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 09:29 PM
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Muslims all strive to be like Mohammad, the guy who did that, so why would you ever want to be like him? You don’t seem to understand that Muslims are very extreme and faithful to their religion, all of them. You literally cant be a Muslim without falling the 5 pillars which influence your entire daily life, and you have to take everything that is said as word of god which you have to follow. Why do you think many Muslim countries have and are lowering the age of consent to 9?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:57 PM
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A man doesnt get to decide if he has that child or not, a woman does, they should both be able to choose if they have to support the child: the woman by getting an abortion, the man by getting a financial abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:53 PM
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How is it a lie if it’s a legal contract?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:52 PM
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I have 0 dating experience and am invisible when it comes to romantic relationships with women. But no fucking way do I think that the 666 rule is what I’d need. I have a friend who is broke, doesnt have a car or anything, hes 5’7, and he works out but definitely doesn’t have a 6 pack. He has had multiple pretty girlfriends. I think the closer you are to 666, the better your chances, but that’s obvious. Im fat asf and 5’4, so yeah maybe if I worked out out more and was 5’7, I’d have a better cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:48 PM
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Men arent a monolith, many of the men shaming promesicus women arent the same ones wanting sex quickly. As for the ones that do do both, they probably don’t respect promiscuity as something they’d look for in a LTR but would want it if they just want sex. Or they want sex early because they want to know they are going to have a lot of sex in their LTR, being promiscuous and being sexual are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:38 PM
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Waffling. 1 is true, but if there is actually a lot of women doing it, most aren’t posting it on social media so it’s not that deep. 2 is dependenton a huge issue imo. Being vunerable and trusting your partner are big parts of a successful and healthy relationship, women have relied on men for centuries and didnt all become homeless and left for dead or whatever crazy situation youre conceiving/implying. 3 is a weird one because it comes down to a difference in what people believe equality to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:34 PM
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It’s like when you see a minority saying racism isnt a big deal or doesn’t exist anymore. Meanwhile people are being killed and discriminated against every day for their race
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:01 PM
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No people would “settle” and everything would eventually reach either a good place or go back to how it is now
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:30 PM
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If a woman said a man had no idea what it was like walking home alone at night for a woman, and I replied saying “excuses excuses”, I’d correctly be called a sexist piece of shit, so what does that make you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:29 PM
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Men arent a monolith and we aren’t obsessed with sex and nothing else
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:27 PM
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I find it very funny that OP acknowledges men can do the things women are known for in relationships but it didn’t cross his mind that the reverse is true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:47 PM
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The world isnt black and white, im saying that if someone calls themselves good, then not only does it mean nothing in terms of them being good, but it also means they aren’t humble and consider themsleves superior. Again, not black and white, not guaranteed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:42 PM
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Lmfao it happened anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:48 PM
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Because if you call yourself a “good guy”, it means at the very least that you have a superiority complex and feel entitled due to being a normal person
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:52 PM
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Didnt read that part, well then, Shed be bubbly, kinda, cute, healthy, not wayyy more experienced than me. As for the broke and job stuff, im okay with supporting her as long as she supports me at home. I don’t care what she eats if she’s healthy, i don’t care if she wants to pleasure herself, her body her choice. I wouldn’t just give her a chance, id climb a mountain to get a chance with her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:01 PM
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Solid 9/10
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:33 PM
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Well we would call it nagging, like I said, definitions are subjective and ever changing and contextual
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:32 PM
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Whole ass South Park reference on accident
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:43 AM
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My mother used to come home or come into my room and activley look for things to be angry about and repeat, thats nagging. You also cant use this definition to justify it because someone can use a word to mean different things AND More importantly, they could be nagging about something you can’t change or shouldn’t, nagging in this scenario is emotional abuse imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:42 AM
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Men are conditioned to endure suffering and hide pain, women are much more likley to initiate divorce. Men are reluctant to divorce because a man’s worth is decided by whether or not he has a partner, or even a wife and kids, as well as his financial status. Divorce leads to a loss of money and that wife + kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:33 AM
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Men arent a monolith, nice try tho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:22 AM
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It depends on the man and woman. A good guy being badgered by a bad woman whos yelling in his ear can justifiably say shes nagging. But a misogynistic man could also call a woman just trying to make him listen a nagger, so no real way to quantify.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:12 AM
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Every single comment is just not debating OP? Do we just not care how the sub works or what? As for your post, although yes this is partly true, it goes both ways, women who threaten to break up over everything are being emotionally abusive and it’s a form of coercive control imo. Nagging also isnt the same as voicing your concerns in a reasonable manner. Youre treating men as a monolith as if men who say either of those things say both of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:22 AM
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Go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:56 PM
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Base level attraction, kind, bubbly/sweet and fun, smart enough to hold a conversation on important topics, open minded, emotionally intelligent. In no order, you have most of those and it’s all I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:03 AM
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Generalizition after genralization and all based off biased anecdotal evidence or just straight up social media bs. I can refute this whole thing for myself right mow: Im unnatractive, I have attractive female friends, I don’t want to date them, they don’t want to date me, we are very close and dont hate eachother. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:20 PM
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A lot of those are reoffenses and also your statistic is stupid in this context. Being the majority of a minority doesnt mean anything. It’s like if I said theres not a lot of black haired rapists and you said “well most rapists have black hair”, it doesn’t change the amount of rapists with black hair jus t because they make up more if the percentage. Not to mention that men are incarcerated at higher rates for the same crime, and that it doesn’t change the fact that the vast majority of men hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:12 PM
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💀
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:33 PM
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It’s so dumb cus this should convince them but it doesn’t 99% of the time
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/12/24 04:31 PM
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Yeah why would women want to date if they see stories of men raping and attacking women online, and why would men want to date when they see stories of men being taken advantage of for money or safety and then left, leading to suicide. When you add gender wars and echochambers, men and women have never been so hostile towards eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:33 AM
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My comment was about unattractive men, as I said multiple times. As for generally, as again, I already said, it’s a dumb and gross generalization, men value personality otherwise they’d never end relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:24 PM
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Saying either gender is less/more attentive is reductive and a stupid thing to generalise because all it does is reinforce preconceived notions that breed hostility in relationships and between the sexes in general. As for the video, there could be dozens of good or bad reasons he did what he did or it could just be fake. And regardless of anything else, if I love someone and they love me, and the difference between water or not we get married is where I propose, then I don’t want to marry them …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:23 AM
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Social media objectively has negative effects on society. When you factor in echo chambers and trends like #ihatemybf, obviously it can be problematic for relationships. Saying it’s an addiction doesnt change anything, 99% of men would pick real sex over porn, masturbation helps negate prostate cancer, 99% of men would stop watching porn if it was the only thing stopping them from having a perfect relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:44 AM
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No it’s part of what leads to the male loneliness epidemics and high suicide rates
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:34 AM
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While this is part of it, many relationships dont have kids and men still stay in relationships when both are working or getting paid the same
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:33 AM
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Being conditioned to endure suffering and hide pain. Being taught to derive self worth from a wife and kids
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:28 AM
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I mean half naked, like no top
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 07:15 PM
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I cannot for the life of me understand what the hell youre trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 04:10 PM
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Are you being intentionally dense? Asking if you would apply the same philosophy in another situation is not saying that they are equal. Blaming men for not seeking help with a problem predominantly effecting them in worse ways (mental health that leads to suicide) and saying that the recources for help are there so it’s their fault for not doing anything about it, is illogical. To show you that it’s illogical, I put the same logic into a situation with similar structure: a problem predominantly…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:20 PM
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It’s reasoning by analogy, dont strawman 🤦🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:43 PM
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You gonna say the same to women who domt tell the police when they’re raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:39 PM
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If Mens mental health was cared anout by society, they would go
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:00 PM
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Probably the 75% of suicides that men make up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:06 PM
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Yeah if I ever go back to therapy, itd have to be a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:06 PM
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This is the equivalent of a woman saying women arent raped anymore, just because you haven’t experienced a struggle doesnt mean ut isnt common with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:05 PM
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Yeah I think that’s a much more important issue than “freeing the nipple”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:51 AM
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I said misinterpret, not misread, which is why I rephrased it, there would be no point in rewriting the exact same thing. Your logic of men saying they want love when they really want sex, is the same anecdotal bullshit redpills use when they say women just want your money. Be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:50 AM
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Yeah idk lol, just what I’ve heard from girl friends
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:45 AM
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Yeah I don’t know of this happening, ive seen plenty of people breastfeeding publicly, at most they’ll be asked to use a blanket or something
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:44 AM
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Did you purposefully misinterpret everything I said or are you just tired? I didn’t say that love is sex, I said that people want sex and it’s rare to fall in love with someone if you don’t ever want to have sex with them/arent attracted to them. Otherwise youre basically just siblings or friends. Also, I didnt say ut was an attractive quality, im just stating a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:18 PM
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The amount of men on this sub who say that + the amount of men in mensrights <<<<<< the millions of women who have said they’d rather be with a bear than the random man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:12 PM
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I’d probably ask “do you like to cook”, it’s nicer and comes off as if you’re actually interested in their interests, or just straight up “what do you like to do at home”, if a woman wants to tell you shes a good cook, she will. Personally i don’t care lol cus I can cook and think everyone should learn to but idm if my partner cant cus it’s something I could do for them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:32 PM
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😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:29 PM
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Nah i was literally talking about this with my friends yesterday, it’s pretty weird. I also am not sure why it’s always said to be grey
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:26 PM
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Glad to say none of the men and most of the women I speak to think crazy shit like that. Sorry you’ve had to engage with people who think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:25 PM
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Oh as in normally women don’t care but social media makes it seem like they do? I guess that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:25 PM
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Tiktok video? Sorry i don’t know what you’re referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:22 PM
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DAYUMMMM
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:22 PM
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Sorry but could you say what it was since the original got removed?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:21 PM
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Well 54% of white women voted trump, if women can fear men because one out hundreds or thousands or whatever commits a violent act, am I not allowed to disregard white womens words when there’s a worse than 50/50 chance she supports a rapist president?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:20 PM
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Bro what thats wild as hell, any guy saying something about a woman is “too tempting” is basically admitting theyre a rapist ngl like wtf. Also to even notice that theyre “swaying” surely youd have to be doing a lot of staring which is a little creepy but also like everyone zones out every now and then, but if you’re consciously looking and then saying it’s “too tempting” - thats wild asf to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:16 PM
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Yeah but women say the same thing to men wheras men arent paranoid about women on the same scale. I agree with your statement but it seems to me like generalising men is much more socially acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:12 PM
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I feel like this is more of a societal problem than anything else, men and women tend to associate nipples pertruding as slutty. And ive seen women doing the same thing with..guys showing forearms for some reason? Im not attracted to men so i don’t know why, but people tend to sexualise and stare at eachother in general. I do sympathise though, knowing the only reason you can’t do something is because you’re a woman and not a man must suck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:10 PM
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Yeah but again this doesnt effect my post or answer my question. Also, burkhas and niquabs are sexualised because women are inherently sexualised and oppressed in Islam, nothing to do with breasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:08 PM
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This isn’t a question that applies to me but I am a man so I’m gonna say something. Guys that say this are either sluts or pick mes. I see women say it way more
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:06 PM
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I don’t see anything there that has anything to do with my post, maybe im blind lol. I obviously know having a big chest can lead to a lot of problems, not only in how youre treated or feel, but also back pain and stuff. But again that has nothing to do with my post
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:03 PM
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Men and women can tend to expect eachother to help in friendships. Maybe women expect men to help them move or build furniture, and men expect women to be there for them emotionally, filling the gaps for eachother that friends of the same sex might not be capable of or as good at, ut just comes down to gender roles again. Also, your “test” is dumb because it’s a small group with a pre conceived answer leading to confirmation bias and is inherently anecdotal, therefore mostly irrelevant and not r…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:35 PM
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Doesnt justify it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:26 PM
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I didn’t say they did Lilith, but base level attraction is necessary for a relationship. I specifically said in my first comment “unnatractive men”. I’d like to add guys dont cream when they see an attractive women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:14 PM
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I can’t tell if you even read my comment. I didn’t say anything about bad boys, i didnt say anything about men liking for women who value personality. Most men and women value personality but attraction is a must have for relationships, people want sex and fall in love with people they are attracted to and there’s nothing wrong with that. It also doesn’t change anything about OP’s dumb generalization. Beeides,regardless of what they prioritize, men simply have fewer options.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:42 PM
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Keep generalising and treating all men on the sub as some of the redpills you’ve seen, im sure that will go great and not lead to more animosity! Also, guys are told all the time that if theyre unnatractive, they need to maximize confidence, muscle, and money, what do you want them to do, die alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:32 PM
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My point isnt that feminism is bad because of those subs, my point is that it’s unfair that feminists treat those male subs as all of Mens advocacy but then ignore problems in their own communities. It again comes back to what I said, if feminists ignore or act like they’re completely separate from thst part of their group, then a feminst can do literally anything and we can’t blame feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:15 PM
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Why are you here if you arent left winged?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/11/24 03:09 PM
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Being attracted to people isnt a negative trait so there’s nothing wrong with giving into it, if sleeping with unnatractive people cured cancer and sleeping with attractive people gave them cancer, wouldnwe be a slave to those instincts still”? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:29 AM
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Maybe I should post “do yall like Nutella or peanut butter more” and list it as q4w, itd probably have more purpose than this post
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 07:50 PM
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Respectfully…I ain’t reading allat, any chance you got a tldr?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/11/24 07:44 PM
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What even is the point of this post
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 07:40 PM
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The problem with feminism as a whole is thst there isnt like a set rules or beliefs that feminism aligns with so whenever anyone calls out an issue, they just say it’s a minority or it’s not true. There’s multiple posts in two x talking about hating men with thousands of upvotes, but then there’s also multiple posts saying that men who say feminsts hate men are liars and incels, woth thousands of upvotes It’s hard to criticize something that has a different meaning to everyone thats a part of it…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 07:14 PM
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It won’t, itll just make those who are single happier. Anyone who’s actually used it enough, knows that it’s very detailed and can feel lifelike but is in no way a replacement for a real human. The majority of the user base are young teens and young adults, people who are anxious and Lonley. You also cant have kids or an actual relationship with ai. Ai is like a vice: drugs, drinking, etc. it’s a distraction from the depressing real world. Edit: a lot of the comments seem to think only/mostly me…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:18 PM
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Psychoanalysing an entire sex based off evolutionary tendencies is dumb. We aren’t slaves to our instincts, it’s what separates us from monkeys
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 08:26 AM
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OP is straight up justifying cheating in the replies and post, it’s just rage bait
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 10:25 PM
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It doesn’t surprise me that the movement that has been accused of being used to attack innocent men, is also ignoring male victims. Thats so wild, it just shows how so many parts of “progressive” society becomes just as toxic as the conservative red pills. It really bothers me that its controversial to say youre not feminist but then its controversial to say feminism should help men and women. I think either egalitarianism needs to be more widely accepted or feminism needs to call out its own to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 10:22 PM
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If I were to guess I’d say the homelessness issue is due to a variety of things. More government support for women, especially women with kids A woman can be poor and not be seen as any less desirable. Since being a breadwinner is traditionally what’s looked at in men, they can’t just marry into a stable income if that makes any sense. After searching it up, the common answer is: men are more likely to turn to drugs and alcohol due to increased mental health issues and stress, which lead to home…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 09:30 PM
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Straight up sexism right here ^
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:56 PM
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I think it was the part OP said about tv shows and the media and male dv being played for jokes. Rape/SA and hitting are both violent acts that people tend to be more sympathetic towards women for, at least from what I’ve seen in the law and within society. We have things as simple as boys being told “dont hit girls” instead of “dont hit anyone”. Or wider things like rape being taught as an issue that only effects women, and even does under the law like in the uk. Having gendered laws/attitudes …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:47 PM
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From a male pov, there is definitely an aspect of a lack of attention so they feel that they should be greatful and even seeking a “dominant” woman/woman in position of power because it’s like theyre being thirsted over after receiving zero affection. Whenever I hear a guy say stuff like that, the thing that makes them shut up pretty quickly is “it wouldn’t be a hot 10/10 baddie, it would be a smelly, never showering, morbidly obese, 40 year old woman forcing herself on you while you cry and try…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:22 PM
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I mean idm either way. I’d enjoy being protective and nurturing but I’d also enjoy being nurtured and cared for. I’d enjoy being in a dominant or submissive ot equal role, as long as im with someone I love, idrc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:22 PM
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I didn’t say I don’t go by evidence, I just literally dont have a head for numbers, always been more into writing, comes to me naturally. As for what you said, you literally wrote the words “side note” and had it in brackets, which led me to believe it’s what you believe in general, not just for how it effects the stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:09 PM
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Youre a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:05 PM
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Because the guys who say that want to believe that all their struggles are unique to them so they can blame women. And the women who say it are blind to their own privileges and cant accept the idea maybe they have some advantages over men because they’re always told how much harder they have it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:04 PM
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Any guy ive ever seen with “lynx Africa” or anything like that, gets immediately clowned on by all the guys around them. When guys wear cologne they also tend to only put a little bit because they don’t want the smell to raidiate off them or be overbearing, they want it to seem like a natural nice scent you can only smell if you’re super close and that stops any sweat or BO smells that arise during the day that deodorant doesnt completely stop. The guys who do wear overbearing amounts of cologne…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:59 PM
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I didn’t mean inherent biologically, i don’t know if you misunderstood me on purpose or not but mb if I didn’t explain. Gender roles are definitely still instilled in society and simply being aware of them and our biases doesnt eradicate them and can actually create new bias. I also said “tend to” because obviously there will be plenty of men that fall outside this category but that doesn’t negate the vast majority of men who still are effected by them. It’s like saying women arent effected by g…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:57 PM
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I think hes saying that say if you’re on a sub like twox and talk about how a man hit you and so you now hate all men, you’ll be told youre justified and that you should be afraid of these “monsters. But if you’re a man, you’ll be told that you’re a misogynist who needs to work on his issues in therapy. (There are plenty of feminists who won’t do this but we aren’t gonna act like the thousands of comments and posts by feminsts like this dont exist).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:53 PM
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Yeah it’s simply not possible to find a definitive objective answer that everyone will agree on. I do hope we can all agree that men being hit and SA’d all the time in shows as a joke or being ignored in recent shows is wrong and very fucked up. Gina SA’s Terry all the time in Brooklyn nine nine, which is very weird and fucked up because the actor was SA’d in real life, yet its played as a joke. And this is a show that claims to be progressive and has episodes ABOUT RAPE, it pisses me off so muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:50 PM
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Literally never seen the women are wonderful effect be so obvious before, you basically just said “even if women hit more, it’s probably just because it’s in self defense or theyre weaker”. It’s that kind of thinking that perpetuates gender roles, stops men from reporting, and makes women feel weak/vulnerable. Even if you were right in 100% of cases, which obviously isnt true, do you think feeling weak is a justification for violence against men? Does that mean it’s justified for a white person …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:41 PM
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Why would her beliefs match reality? It makes her feel better about herself so it must be true! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:34 PM
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Yeah but there’s things as men we tend to feel happy about inherently because of gender roles. Like when boys try to hold all the heavy shopping bags at once or kill insects scaring a girl. And then when they’re older it’s satisfying a woman sexually and providing for them and/or making them feel safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:32 PM
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It’s not about the insect, it’s about “protecting” the women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:31 PM
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No guy thinks this in gen z lol. It’s gonna be a random issue some guys have and some girls have. When women have it, it’s “women arent a monolith you misogynist”. When man have it, it’s “let me go to Reddit and ask why men as a whole do this non gendered thing”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:29 PM
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(Guys are fat too)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:58 PM
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If you can only have a spark in your relationship when there’s conflict, youre toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:33 PM
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I mean the post is so incredibly long and there is so much irrelevant bs that it’s so annoying to read that nobody can even grasp what you’re trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:34 PM
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Ts is so long and the tldr is useless and seems like ChatGPT.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:09 PM
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Saying you trust men more than women and treating women as a monolith. Keep strawmanning tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 05:58 PM
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Your statements are inherently sexist in my view so there’s no argument to be had.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 05:55 PM
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Lmao stop yapping
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 05:51 PM
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Feminists as a whole don’t care about how men who don’t agree with every facet of their ideology think. They don’t seem to want progress as much as they want to complain and attack men. They say things like “misandry isnt real” but then others of them say “im a misandrist and i don’t care”. They say “im not here to stroke male egos who are trying to get their dicks wet”, its inane bullshit. There’s a lot of good feminsts out there, but as a whole 4th wave has never been about equality or equity,…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/24 01:56 PM
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“I don’t trust women to self report” is all I had to read to know this guy is a piece of shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:50 PM
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Holy shit, this. Just this. This is my thoughts put so eloquently.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:39 PM
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People are inclined to stay inside because they can do pretty much anything from their homes. People see the entire worlds tragedies and fearmongering at the fingertips. Algorithms are built, incentivized and designed to breed hostility between people and create echo chambers in order to profit off you. Dating is reduced to the superficial act of seeing a bullet point or two and what you look like and then swiping left or right, with bots and filters making things even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 09:33 PM
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Nah youre good lol, it is hard to tell on a often hostile sub like this tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:33 PM
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No man thst wasn’t already the type to be a rapist is gonna become one because of redpill bs. Rapists are rapists, theyre not gendered
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:32 PM
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STOP SENDING THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:01 PM
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Shut up troll, ive seen you say this more than once
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:57 PM
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Well there’s currently example still up, i don’t know why you not seeing it means anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:56 PM
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Professor Suzanne Steinmetz tried to spread awareness about male victims of abuse. She received the brunt of the attacks - feminists wrote and called her university urging that she be denied tenure; calls were made and letters were written to government agencies urging that her grant funding be rescinded. Professor Gelles Richard J. Gelles, along with, Murray A. Straus tried to shed lights on male victims of domestic abuse and they both got the same treatment like Suzanne got. All three of them …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:55 PM
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I can give more than just these if you want: Professor Suzanne Steinmetz tried to spread awareness about male victims of abuse. She received the brunt of the attacks - feminists wrote and called her university urging that she be denied tenure; calls were made and letters were written to government agencies urging that her grant funding be rescinded. Professor Gelles Richard J. Gelles, along with, Murray A. Straus tried to shed lights on male victims of domestic abuse and they both got the same t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:54 PM
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(I misunderstood the meaning of radfem, I meant extreme feminists)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:49 PM
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Pretty much, until a few minutes ago I thought that’s what it meant
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:48 PM
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Its not not being around them, it’s prefering being around a wild animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:48 PM
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How is she possibly agreeing with me? She said men dont experience problems based off their sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:47 PM
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Feminism as a whole may do this, but hundreds of feminst organisations do the opposite and fight against it. Im not saying feminism or feminists as a whole are bad, far from it, but there’s so many feminists that are just straight up men hating pieces of crap
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:46 PM
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Yeah wtf is wrong with people smh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:44 PM
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Yeah you do. There is currently replies on Reddit telling men theyre happy they got raped so they know what it’s like to be a woman. Those comments dont get taken down though because it’s against reddits policies to police racism to whites or sexism to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:44 PM
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My point was that women do say that “men cant complain cus they made this society”. As for the radical stuff, I think we just have a different understanding of the meaning. Pretty much everyone ive spoken to would define radical feminism as extreme feminism, usually man hating and vile. You seem to definitely not fall into the category lol. I don’t care about saying the “men” created this society but it’s not relevant to those contexts i brought up and is whataboutism. I literally had someone on…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:41 PM
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I could do the same thing for women. And im not saying there’s not bad men, or that women are bad. But feminsts that think men dont have issues or that we’re monsters as a collective are just not well adjusted and just as bad as red pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 04:49 PM
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Thats completely different. He physically did something to make you feel like you were in danger beforehand, female abusers are abusers, not victims. Did you get charged with dv? No id assume not
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 04:48 PM
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Yeah but it goes both ways unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 04:46 PM
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I don’t know if I said it in my other comment, but im mostly talking about the radicals I see online. So many posts on feminst subs are just straight up hating on men and all the comments are hating on men. If you don’t think saying “kill all men” “mam or bear”, “all men”, etc. isnt Misandry, i don’t know what you’re talking about lol. Misandry isnt systemic but thst doesn’t mean it’s non existent, and by not acknowledging it, youre invalidating Mens struggles. And if you want an example of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 04:44 PM
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Men arent a monolith. Men arent responsible for the actions of previous men any more than you are. Are you seriously gonna judge a man today off the action of a different man a thousand years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 04:39 PM
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If those women didnt put their hands on men in the first place, it wouldn’t be an issue. There’s hundreds of examples of feminist organisations stopping Mens support places like shleters from being built. Whatever the definition of rape is, the point is that it carries a harsher sentence and is looked at differently. As far the pregnancy thing, there’s been many cases of women raping boys, sorry “sexually assaulting” and then the boy had to pay child support when he turned 18. I know toxic mascu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 04:38 PM
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I mean I doubt subs like twox will wanna hear about a man being raped by a woman, so many people there think that men are just monsters, i don’t think it’s a healthy place for OP. Hed be better off in therapy or r/self
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 04:34 PM
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But what most men want is a loving and happy relationship, that doesnt come from aggression ig you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 04:30 PM
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I mean is men dv stats not proof of this? Women are just as likely to engage in dv and more likely to initiate it, but men arent even allowed in the vast majority of shelters. Men cant be raped by women in many first world countries. Men experience casual Misandry and constantly told by some women to be: strong, silent, etc but then told by others that theyre toxic. If you check my post on r/mensissues you can see a less spur of the moment and factually backed up list of Mens problems, most of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 04:24 PM
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Most the women i see on this sub or places like twox or any feminst subs, seem to think one of two things, either: “men have no problems” or “mens problems dont matter”. OP said women have no problems, ergo, he is doing what they do. I don’t know what you define as radical for a feminst, but it’s rare I see one that isnt misandrist, I don’t have a problem with feminism until it’s actively attacking or blaming men for everything like red pills do to women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 04:16 PM
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I meant more thst hes acting like women have no problems, the same way radfems act towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 04:13 PM
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As someone who advocates for mens issues, OP is a a dumbass. He’s literally just chatting out of his ass and doing the same thing radical feminsts do but in the opposite direction. The reason dating sucks for men can be partly attributed to online feminsm and the red pill but overall it’s just social media in general
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 04:06 PM
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Could you elaborate on the beginning of 2 please
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:49 PM
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I’d like to add that lower classes also do it because of the cyclical element to abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:47 PM
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I swear it’s like both red pills and radical feminists both think that men are monsters. Like bruh im just a chill guy, and there’s chill girls too, but there’s bad guys, and bad girls too. Why can’t that be the end of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:43 PM
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These are all obvious to anyone who isnt a bad person or extremely new to dating/clingy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:09 PM
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The common thing I hear from people who are very red pill or very blue pill is “you can leave anyone at anytime for any reason”, sure….you can…you can still be a dick for it. The only time that phrase should be used is an abusive relationship or where you genuinely dont like the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:04 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:02 PM
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I don’t chase women lol, never even held hands with one, in a romantic way anyway, im just explaining what guys tend to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:39 AM
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Youre the entitled type that women think unnatractive men act like
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 11:59 PM
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Yeah but studies show that OLD only helps women and the top percent of men find partners, in most cases anyway. As for you meeting most your partners that way, im sure thats the case a lot, but it doesn’t change what im saying. Men play the numbers game when they’re activley looking for a partner because it’s all they can do (average or below average men).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 05:44 PM
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Most feminists that are actually active in their role or see it as a lifestyle, activley hate on or enforce stereotypes about men. The comment op is talking about was on my post with a list of hundreds of feminst organizations attacking men and women that stand up for mens issues INCLUDING OBAMA. I agree with your premise but it isn’t the case that most feminists care about men (again im talking about feminsts thst arent just women who call themselves thst)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 05:42 PM
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Yeah, it might be who they end up with or look at for a long term partner, but they have to have that attraction first to get there foot in the door
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 05:38 PM
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Yeah but I mean not much else men can do atp unless they wanna be alone, sucks for both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:53 PM
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Holy shit wtf this makes me feel ill
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/11/24 03:31 PM
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If feminists don’t care about men why should men care about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:22 PM
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Like either looking REALLY good or seeming funny/having an intrest in them as a person
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:13 PM
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Seriously? Ive never met a guy who thinks like that or would react that way as far as i know, maybe it’s a cultural thing, im British
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 09:55 AM
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Trust me no guy is gonna feel uncomfortable with that, most will take it as a compliment, guys are not used to being even compilemnted let alone asked out. The “creep” asking you out is more of a woman thing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:45 AM
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Im guessing it’s a thing of guys playing a numbers game, just ask out anyone you like even a little out of fear of being alone, but women have more options and they know they can just open a dating app and look for someone whenever, so they only approach if they have a genuine significant interest in someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:44 AM
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Yeah but I’d have to desire them too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:53 PM
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Im 5’4 cuh, objectively undesirable by most women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:40 PM
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And the feminist women on the list who were attacked for supporting men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:10 PM
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You don’t treat men like people, you treat them like an ageless monolith and it’s wrong. The men in that list have done nothing wrong and feminsts attack them. And again, believe whatever you want but it doesn’t make me sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:04 PM
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DID YOU READ THE LIST
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:56 PM
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So you didn’t read the list then. Im not supporting an org that has hundreds of subsidiaries that attack good men. That doesn’t stop me from being anti patriarchy, sexism, and it doesn’t stop me from being prochoice. You can’t just say im sexist because it fits your narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:49 PM
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Men and women attack women, feminism attacks men that have done nothing to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:00 PM
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This is what I think feminism should be, it usually isn’t though, from what I see anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:11 PM
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Because I’m not conservative and I don’t blame women for that anyway. And I don’t use Reddit for that, I use the long list of things you just read, I hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:41 AM
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Yeah and those women were attacked and shamed and their efforts fruitless. I know feminism has a lot of people but when even many women in these comments say the opposite of what you just did, how are we as men not supposed to feel that feminism is anti men. I think until places allow discussion and criticism around feminism and feminists denounce feminist groups that do that stuff, it’s gonna be difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:37 AM
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Yeah but I’m not part of a “anti feminism” group, im just anti feminism. It’s like saying that because I say Black Lives Matter im part of BLM.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:18 AM
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No because “anti feminst” isnt a group, thats like saying exmuslims and Christian’s have the same values
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:14 AM
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Im talking about feminists attacking men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:06 AM
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This post is literally about feminism so obviously im gonna be talking about feminism and men. If you scroll through my comments you will see many a time where I call out sexist red pills, but I use Reddit way too much for that to be easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:04 AM
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This is why teenage boys are 3 times more likely to kill themselves, this delusion of men having everything easy and men being told not to express their feelings leads to everyone thinking men dont have problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:02 AM
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This is why teenage boys are 3 times more likely to kill themselves, this delusion of men having everything easy and men being told not to express their feelings leads to everyone thinking men dont have problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:02 AM
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The first comments I saw filled me with hope that men are being understood and seen as humans, then I kept scrolling and saw so many women saying men have it easy. Fuck this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:59 AM
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Bros a Jedi 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:57 AM
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Them being bad means that feminst actions are above criticism? Men arent a monolith, attacking all of us because of some is stupid. But feminism is a group, not a sex, so when so many of your group is doing those things and you don’t denounce it, youre being like those sexist men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:55 AM
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Hundreds of feminst groups are. As someone who just thinks everyone should be equal and we should help eachothers problems, which I can’t believe is a hot take, I denounce sexist men who think those things, but most feminsts deny it happens or support it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:54 AM
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They don’t need to help men, they just need to stop attacking men, read the list
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:44 AM
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I have many complaints about that sub and left it a while ago, i don’t think I’ve even gone on it in a while, unless youre talking about leftwingedmaleadvocates. Im not saying feminsts have to help men, im saying that hundreds of feminst organisations attacking men that are just trying to help men is proof feminism is anti men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:43 AM
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Because feminism helping women shouldn’t mean that it attacks mens issues. Im not saying feminism should prioritize men, im saying that hundreds of feminst organisations attacking men and women that help men is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:40 AM
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I agree but this doesn’t change what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:37 AM
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Well then I don’t see why men are disliked for not being feminsts. If men are activley attacked for wanting to help men and women instead of just women, why would they align themselves with feminism. In a good society men and women should want to help eachother, if feminism isnt in favour of thst, then it’s flawed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:12 AM
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Depends what you define as masculine. And assertive woman is attractive to most men I know, but not one thats super muscley or anything. Being fit and in the gym is attractive just not to the point they have abs, but there’s also loads of who dig that. The reason I thought you were being transphobic is because of what you said about gender roles, mb i misunderstood. You can totally be into traditional gender roles and seek out a relationship like that, but enforcing them as the norm is where it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:10 AM
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Seems interesting and I probably will, but I am very much aware of many of women’s issues. I kinda had to be when I studied: ethics, law, media, English, etc. Hell in the uk women could be raped by their husbands legally until 1991 or something like that. The issue is that that shouldn’t detract from mens issues. It’s like if BLM was attacking groups lifting up Asians and using Jim Crow laws to justify it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:05 AM
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Icl I don’t think this is the average feminst view point because if it is then it contradicts most things feminists do and say, especially on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:53 AM
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I mean it’s good that you are civil to them and agree theyre human, but it’s kinda goofy to “disagree” with their identity. This isnt to do with my post tho so I’m gonna ignore it for now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:46 AM
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I can agree with that first part, and then you had to go and ruin it with transphobia, pro gender roles, and religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:42 AM
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Oh right. But if men are lacking things, and we’re “equalising” women, would that not just end up in a matriarchy instead of equality?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:41 AM
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Sorry I shoulda been more specific, I meant why do you think you see the issue of feminism becoming what it is today, not the kissing up thing, still interesting though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:37 AM
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Yeah but I think there is a tendency to see those men and just hate on them instead of seeing what leads them there, and when they do, it leads to being condescending to young boys which leads them down those rabbit holes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:33 AM
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Equalising reality? What does that mean if not equalising men and women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:31 AM
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Many of these things are ongoing and recent. Men of today being blamed for the patriarchy didnt make it any more than you did. Feminism being about men isnt the point of this post, you taking it that way is kinda reductive. The point is that it’s often said that feminism is about helping men and women or that it’s anout equality, but if feminsts are currently fighting against equality, do feminists not have an obligation to speak out against it? The same way men have an obligation to speak out a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:30 AM
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Many of those examples are women actively fighting against men fighting for their “identity” or rights and even fighting against feminst women trying to help men, does that not refute your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:27 AM
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Damn, I mean this sincerely i don’t know how to respond to this. I think the issue is that asking “men” here usually ends up meaning the red pill rediditors instead of the average man and then we just get lumped im with them. But I mean in my eyes the fact youre willing to have an open mind makes you better than most on this sub, man or woman
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:26 AM
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So im against equality of the sexes now too? What next am I racist holocaust denier? Im left winged in pretty much everything, im pro choice, pro lgbt, pro equality, and im a minority. But because I said feminism hurts men you are saying im against equality and a Stalin apologiser?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:25 AM
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Yes but women and feminsts say every often that it’s for equality and dismantling the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:23 AM
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Lmao I love how you have to say that i arent kissing up to men just to say that feminism isn’t perfect. It’s the same energy as when guys get called cucks or simps om right winged subs for not hating on women. Can you elaborate on why you think you see this issue and most women dont? Personally I think it’s just like a bias thing but im not a woman so i don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:22 AM
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I agree but the men and feminst women in that list are the ones who understand eachother and feminsts attack them. How can we rectify this problem without feminsts calling this out? Youd think with the millions of posts on feminst subs you could talk about the issues of feminism like this and not have it taken down if feminism was anti these problems. I do agree that for you feminism may be that, but in practice, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:21 AM
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I don’t know why it would hurt your algorithm, anyway i dm’d it to you, feel free to reply to this comment after reading it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:19 AM
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So im a Stalin apologist because I said feminism hurts men? Nice one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:18 AM
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Isnt that more socialism than anything else? (I don’t have a problem with that). And I mean sure the “goal” of feminism might be to do that but that’s clearly not what happens in practice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:17 AM
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I dm’d it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:15 AM
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It’s a left winged sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:15 AM
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I don’t know what this means, men are actively attacked for helping men by feminsts, how is that changed by what you said?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:14 AM
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Yeah but did you read the list? Most of this is men and feminst women trying to help men and then being attacked for it by feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:13 AM
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There are hundreds of feminst organisations mentioned in that list. That’s not cherry picking. Im also not right winged so this doesn’t mean much to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:12 AM
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It won’t let me, I think it’s too long, why cant you just click it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:11 AM
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So you only read 2 of the things and just ignored everything on there from the last 10 years and even currently ongoing? Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:07 AM
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This
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/24 01:06 AM
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BLM has many issues, but if someone says they support BLM, it doesn’t mean they have beliefs that are anti or hateful of white people. Most people who support BLM are just people anti racism, feminism is mostly people anti men or who just say theyre feminist because they don’t wanna say egalitarian
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/24 01:06 AM
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Even Kakashi calling me short 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:53 PM
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It’s an analogy, you cant say it doesnt make sense just because theyre differing levels of extremity
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:52 PM
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It’s not purely insecurity if it comes from things women say and do. If a woman said she’s sick of misogynistic men and rapists. Would it be okay for a woman to reply “i don’t know girl, ive never seen a sexist man or been raped. This just smells like insecurity.” Would that be okay? No, obviously not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:49 PM
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I don’t understand how men being taller signifies health and fitness but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:20 PM
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So my options are make a normal living and be alone, or make a lot of money and be distrustful? That sucks high key
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:12 PM
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So if im a unattractive man I should assume women just want my money?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:56 PM
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Being taller is healthier?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:54 PM
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Short men wouldn’t have naturally been more financially successful than normal or tall men, which means short men were still picked over them on occasion. Besides, again, nobody is blaming women, just feels frustrating to be taken as a joke or non sexual person because of something out of your control
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:44 PM
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So im cooked 😭🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:42 PM
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What’s the difference between muscular, large, and masculine? e.g., could a short man be those things (other than muscular obviously)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:22 PM
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Short men arent entitled to women, theyre entitled to a chance though. I don’t mean women should give them a chance, I mean thst for short men to exist, the short gene must too, and as time goes on with male beauty standards and online dating filtering for height, it’s harder for short men to date, especially with negative steryotypes of short men being pushed all the time. Short men arent blaming women, theyre blaming society and theyre justifiably upset that they can’t change their height and …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:21 PM
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Literally, there’s such a stupid mentality of women being victims no matter what and men being bad no matter what. Women are wonderful effect. The issue is that feminsts pick and choose which gender roles they care about, when we should get rid of all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:13 PM
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This difference is so minimal compared to what it’s made out to be
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:09 PM
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So women are victims when they do wrong and men are still bad when they do good cus they aren’t doing enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:08 PM
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52% of white women vote for trump, the vast majority of black men vote for kamila, yet men are blamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:08 PM
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Im 5’4 so im cooked for dating apps, haven’t tried and am not going to, not tryna ruin any remaining confidence or self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:18 PM
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I think the point is that women have a much larger dating pool so it’s easier to be pickier.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:33 PM
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Am I being dumb or did you miss the whole point? If women are gonna go and work, and we’re getting rid of gender roles, then the men who don’t make much money would just be stay at home dads, but that doesn’t happen like it does with women. A man has to be okay with his wife working or being at home, but the opposite isnt true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:33 PM
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Real, rare to see someone on this sub giving a reasoned response and it not being downvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:55 AM
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Woah, no need for all that. You can be a party girl or promiscuous and not be a druggie whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:20 PM
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Believe that if you want but until I see a study that impericilly proves men are worse leaders because of a competitive nature through testosterone, tbis is just a baseless generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:51 PM
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Okay dont? I haven’t done it and it has nothing to do with me and there’s no way to see if it’s the case or not. But there is a reason and you can’t just sum it up to “men bad”. Well you can but it would be dumb. It’s much more realistic to take one well documented thing and use it to explain another.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:57 PM
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Guys have that well documented“die of a broken heart” thing, my guess is that they can’t stand to see someone in pain like that knowing that they can’t do anything so they grow distant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:57 AM
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304?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:52 AM
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Yeah I think you hit the nail on the head there. Personally, I don’t think I could do it, if I had the choice, just because I’d get emotionally attached and invested, maybe for like a one night stand or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:51 AM
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Just bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:13 PM
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No im saying idrc about my status
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:43 PM
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No it’s not. Source - am a man, dont gaf about status, just wanna be happy and not suicidal ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:32 PM
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It’s not random, women have committed crimes like thst out of hate for men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:29 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:28 PM
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Yes, especially once religion dies out more
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:41 PM
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So much this, currently a closeted exmuslim and my dad didnt really tell me any fucked up religious things other than beating me for not knowing surahs in the Quran and making me learn them. But my mum was the one trying to turn me into an emotionless homophobe obsessed with gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:36 PM
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If you have to go through such a degree of trauma to think that way, then it’s not a healthy way to think and that women needs therapy. Also, ive seen many stories of the same thing happening to men by women so i don’t know if this is a “gotcha” or what. If a white guy said to me “your people killed my father in 9/11 and I nearly killed myself because of it, so I hate you and your people”, it would be a very fucked up view to have, but understandable thst they have it. (Exmuslim but the example …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:33 PM
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So then you arent who im talking about. The simple fact you can say “i dont hate men” and “most men are not rapists and are decent people” is something the majority of women on twox cant say. And it still doesn’t make man vs bear okay, because it’s inherently antagonizing men that haven’t done anything. Sure it can make men aware of how women perceive them, which sucks for us, but as you said safety > feelings, even if men make up 75% of suicides, but it doesn’t do it in a way that would make me…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:29 PM
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One question, are you a redpill man or what cus these dont seem like things I usually hear from them. Anyway, I agree, but that doesn’t mean that the “minority” of several million women on Reddit, YouTube, and TikTok, dont still exist and believe this, and it doesn’t make it hurt any less to see people talk about men thst way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:19 PM
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It still doesn make it okay or make your point with the image valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:16 PM
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Yeah even the shitty Middle East countries have a type of “respect” for women, even if they don’t respect their bodies or rights, they say that heaven is only accessible through your mother, and I think those countries are fucked up and backwards, yet even they have some sort of give and take for both sexes. Not to mention, that a lot of the time in these societies, the men and women agree with and perpetuate these ideas. Like how there was men helping suffragettes and women fighting against the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:15 PM
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The point is obviously that women have shown they can be just as bad as men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:13 PM
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Lmao, this is peak brainrot. The uk had a female monarch and pm at the same time more than once in the past like 10-15 years or something. North Korea was about to have a female dictator who would’ve done things the same as Kim Jon un. Kamala couldn’t think of one thing shed do differently than Biden. People currently have a problem with unproductive governments. Men and women can be good and bad and unproductive and productive leaders.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:12 PM
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I go outside and talk to women, still won’t get a relationship or laid tho. Can we stop talking about 4B? It’s exhausting and such a minority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:09 PM
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Just fyi im not red pill and i agree with pretty much 95% of feminist/left beliefs. Also youre treating men as a monolith with that statement but that’s beside the point. Women’s safety shouldn’t mean hating men or saying men are potential rapists. Saying “im worried about my safety when I’m around people who are strong and men are stronger so I’m worried when I’m around men” is a lot better and less hateful than “I hate men, am a misandrist and i don’t care because no entitled big ego potential…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:06 PM
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Are all the women on two X rape victims? Did you actually read his post? He specifically says he had no negative feelings towards women in the circle which means his hate is not towards women, it’s toward people that remind his of his rapist. On top of that, saying “I got raped and now I hate women but I’m not a misogynist” is different to “I hate men and im a misandrist and no man will ever convince me different and they don’t deserve to” and “im glad you got raped because you’re a man”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:57 PM
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wtf are you talking about? In what western country can men do that and get away with it? And in what country do women not kill men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:21 PM
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Men aren’t afraid of men tho. Being afraid of what some people who happen to be mostly men will do, isnt the same as fearing all/most men like women do
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:20 PM
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And it also doesn’t make men responsible. It’s like if I said all white people are potential slave owners, except worse because my ancestors didnt own peoplebut both men and women have ancestors that built the patriarchy. Blaming or fearing men for the actions of all of our predecessors is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:48 AM
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So the women that tie up, torture, rape, skin, and murder husbands, sons, and baby boys arent hateful? You literally just said women cant hate like men do, which is sexist asf and is the same kind of thinking/mindest red-pills have.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:25 AM
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Youre bring disengenious, instead of blaming men, they should be blaming rapists/misoginsts. It’s the same as hetting attacked by a black criminal and saying black people are dangerous instead of criminals are dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:24 AM
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If I said or tweeted something hating on women, I’d be judged immensely and/or lose my job, female celebrities actively say “I hate men” and get applauded.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:12 AM
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Oh right I misread the first part. I don’t know, even just thinking about twox gets me riled up, its pathetic as fuck to let it get to me, but knowing there’s millions of people that hate me for my sex is really disheartening, being brown wasn’t enough apparently, I needed more hate thrown at me for shit out my control.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:10 AM
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And on twox, you don’t even need to say anything for them to hate on men and shout support women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:07 AM
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The comments and posts on twox contradict this. And again, most men dont hate women, and most women dont hate men, but it’s socially acceptable to hate men for the actions of other men, unlike misogyny, racism, homophobia, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:06 AM
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But men arent fearful of women, theyre fearful of the laws and government. Fearing an entire sex breeds hostility on a different scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:28 AM
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And the comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:27 AM
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Im ngl i didnt read allat. But so you know, I am a minority and I support women’s rights. And im talking about young men, shoulda made it clear. I agree with most the stuff youre saying…because it’s just facts? Young men of today feel sick of being blamed and told they created the society of today when they’re suffering too and didnt create it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:49 AM
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Oh no, I don’t think they are for gender dynamics, I just meant genrally in terms of what people say and on Reddit. I’d say if we were just talking about how men treat women and vice versa in real life, women have it harder. But men definitely have a lot of issues. Personally I think the concept of the patriarchy is the problem, men and women tend to misunderstand it. Men see it as “men have all tbis power and built this society? I didn’t do that, so why am I being blamed and told to deal with m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:29 AM
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Im anout to nerd out really quick cus I wanna use my English a level for once, im this context “and” was a coordinating conjunction, not a subordinating conjunction, meaning I was linking two separate ideas together, not adding to the first one. I was saying we were taught about toxic masculinity and the consent stuff, often side by side, which created the idea that men are toxic and that masculinity leads to predatory behaviors. I know this isnt the case or point of the teaching, but it’s how m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:16 AM
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I agree completely, I just think it’s disingenuous for anyone to act like the Misandry isnt at least as bad. At the end of the day regardless of which is worse or more prevalent, Misandry and misogyny are a serious problem and both of them lead to young men and women hating eachother which isn’t good for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:05 AM
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I should be okay with women saying my sex is all potential rapists because your dad said it to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:03 AM
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Hearing my own sister say that men are all potential rapists hurt…a lot. Shes 4 years older than me and 17 at the time, I think she grew out of it but still, I can’t forget that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:01 AM
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You are treating us like a monolith. I don’t wanna be grouped in with the men doing that, but women on those subs and this one act as if we’re all like that. I don’t know why everyone on this sub likes attacking the other sex. It’s wild to me that it’s controversial to say “ you shouldn’t judge someone based off their sex”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:59 AM
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You are the reason women hate us
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:56 AM
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Men alive today being blamed didnt do that and the women alive today didnt experience it, its the same logic as racists. Itd be like Jewish people alive today saying all Germans are nazis
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:56 AM
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Are y’all seriously flexing suicide right now? Why can’t we just accept men and women have it bad and improve society for all? I don’t view women as bad, why do women view men as bad. Yes some men do the same, but it feels more socially acceptable for a woman to hate on men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:55 AM
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So a woman can be a homemaker but not the man? I wouldn’t mind being the bread winner or homemaker. Ideally, we’d both work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:52 AM
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Isnt the fact that twox is a default sub enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:51 AM
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Yeah but men alive today thst are being blamed didnt do that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:50 AM
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Yeah most men don’t wanna be with women thst view men as predators, the spineless losers thst get with these women are crazy to me. It’s like a woman who gets with an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:50 AM
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Agreed thst this stuff is weird, and W for calling out OP, but it doesn’t make twox any better, it has millions and millions of women on it actively saying they hate men, no im not putting words in their mouth, there is many posts woth “i hate men” im the title. All the mens subs except for mensrights have been taken down, so of course the worst of the worst are gonna end up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:48 AM
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Because his point is thst the same way black people aren’t inherently committing crimes due to being bad, neither are men. Men are more likely to be less educated nowadays and are perceived as dangerous, which conditions them into being it, courts are also very biased against men because of men being seen as dangerous and the women are wonderful effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:35 AM
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Really? It’s a mix of two things ig, and which ever is stronger is what decides. Either: I can’t look at you without thinking of her and her lies. You haven’t done anything wrong, she did. Whichever is stronger to them is what ultimately decides if they stick around I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:37 PM
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Constantly hearing my mum spout terrible cultural and religious dogma anout men, women, lgbt, minorities, abortion, etc.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/11/24 08:34 PM
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I disagree men are becoming more conservative, I think “progressive” is just becoming less about improving society and more about prioritizing women over men. It’s the same reason fathers of daughters are more likely to vote for women’s issues and mothers of sons are more likely to vote for mens issues. Most men i know, and all of my friends are pro choice, pro lgbtqia+, anti extremism, etc. but they feel that feminism is constantly blaming men as a whole for issues that the majority of men aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:46 PM
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As for that last part, it made me realize yet another double standard. People see women switching that have sons and have been taking it as women care more about men/sons than themselves. And when it’s a father or brother and it’s about rape, they say that you shouldn’t need to have a daughter or sister to care. It’s like no matter what men are to blame
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/24 10:26 PM
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I think you mean non marginalized, or at least they do. Men and women are obviously not a majority minority situation. Still, insane Reddit rules wtf
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/24 06:34 PM
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Another thing is the amount of doms I see on those subs that relish in the idea of even record themselves ignoring safe words, or that treat a sub like shit. It’s really fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:20 PM
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The fact that so many feminists cant accept that men have it hard too and that they need men to help them win an election, is depressing. Like, im not gonna get into it, but the majority of people/women, especially the white girls hating on men on Reddit, haven’t been through the shit I have. But im pro choice, pro lgbtqia+, support equality, etc. yet I see myself entire sex be compared to monsters, powerful dictator, egotistical maniacs, and rapists. I don’t know, it just makes me feel sad and …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:27 PM
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I mean this with 100% sincerity, could you please link these things? All i see is men being blamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:24 PM
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So we can believe Simeon who says they were raped, but not someone who says they were falsely accused? Both happen, statistically, both are unlikely for the average person, please use your brain, and not double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:01 AM
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That’s not the point, youre derailing. Yes, I agree, men shouldn’t have to deal with that shit, but it’s nowhere near as bad AS BEING RAPED
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:03 PM
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Wow. Please just be quiet. There is no fucking way that you think men are the real victims of banning abortion, please seek help. 60 women are raped and forced to keep the baby in the US every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:46 PM
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Yes but young men were the swing voters and the ones that kamala was struggling to get
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:45 PM
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And also because men arent some savage animals who will do anything to fuck anyone and anything
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:44 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:39 PM
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You’re misinterpreting, im not saying republicans are good, far fucking from it lol. Im saying democrats need to improve
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:01 PM
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So if im a pro abortion man who is a virgin, how am I out for myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:17 PM
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💀
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:16 PM
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The issue is it’s sexist, not wrong. Women got the right to vote, they should be drafted too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:06 PM
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I can’t find it tbh, but I remember seeing the thing where they vote their opinions on possible candidates for the demo party, and she wasn’t well liked
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:05 PM
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Yeah but that’s like saying a woman who is celibate or infertile shouldn’t care about abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:00 PM
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You’re delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:59 PM
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Wasn’t kamala hated in votes by the democrats too?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:58 PM
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💀 youre so brainrotted. Yeah bro 100% women got the right to vote using sex, can you hear yourself? Im a virgin and im srill pro abortion, so your point is dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:58 PM
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Oh right, I think I was going off the predicted votes a week or two prior to the election. It does make sense that men wouldn’t want to vote for either though. Trump cus hes a piece of shit, and kamala for the reasons said.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:06 PM
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I was honestly scared of being lumped in with the Andrew Tate stans. Also, the women believe it, so we kinda have to tip toe around it if we want to be seen as normal people instead of monsters or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:01 PM
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Damn, I can definitely sympathise with you there. I think stories like this are why my sister thought I was becoming an Andrew Tate stan when I reposted a satire Patrick Bateman TikTok a year or two ago. I also sympathise with your brothers fear, hopefully next cycle he switches back.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:00 PM
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I don’t know how old you are, but we grow up in schools being taught about toxic masculinity and how men ignore consent all the time as part of our curriculum throughout all years of high school in the uk.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:57 PM
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Trumps a piece of shit and is a terrible president choice, but men feel actively threatened by kamala. Not because they’re afraid of a woman in power or any other bs, but because young men are effectively told that they’re toxic and they see men be vilified all the time. From what another woman said, it seems the left, Biden specifically, did have a lot of things that would help men, by Kamala didnt think to advertise those facts, instead saying “vote kamala to get laid” and “women we know your …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:56 PM
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Damn so even more reason that I would’ve voted for kamala. Tbh it kind of seems like she was a shitty choice, she acts more as a celebrity than a politician, I guess they were trying to emulate trump. The issue is that trump just lies, and that wouldn’t be possible for the left. I respected a lot of the work Biden did, but tbh, they should’ve gone with bernie. I don’t know a whole lot about American politics but from what I’ve seen, bernie is pro lgbt and abortions, and he seems reasonable. Also…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:51 PM
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That’s wild, americas legal and political system never ceases to amaze me. Thanks for the insight though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:46 PM
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I understand it, but I’ll never be able to agree with it. Though I know you don’t care if I agree with it. I do just wanna say this tho, if I was in your shoes, im guessing a woman directly effects by abortion or queer, I would want an open dialogue where I could’ve changed the minds of the men and women who are swing voters and could’ve helped me get the rights I need to be myself without fear of the law punishing me. Like if a gay person lived in the Middle East, they would want to be able to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:45 PM
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THIS. If even one woman on this post accepted this instead of saying shit like “men like to see women suffer”, itd make my fucking day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:41 PM
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And the men who work themselves to the bone and then kill themsleves while providing for women dont help women? As for your argument, many people with that same user flair as you in this post and sub have said “men like watching women suffer” and “why should we gaf about mens issues”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:39 PM
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The issue is the far left psychos can call them selves feminist, just like many people on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:37 PM
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If admitting men have issues is changing your values then that’s wild, gl with going through life thinking men have it super easy ig
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:34 PM
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Men did have a say tho, like regardless of what women may have said, men make up over half of the Supreme Court. I agree with most of what you’re saying tho, women want men to care about their issues but don’t want to care about mens issues
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:33 PM
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Youre cherry picking and misunderstanding me. I said men kill themsleves due to a lack of companionship and your response is to say they want to get laid? Honestly this conversation is exhausting so whatever, good look with your day (and also my condolences that you have to live in a country with that piece of shit as president)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:31 PM
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“Perfectly balanced, as all things should be” YAY I WIN 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:29 PM
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Oh sorry didnt realize, I meant it’s misandrist to say that men are just trying to get their dicks wet, and also that this person has left a lot of comments like that in other posts. And I guess it’s not totally misandrist to do what you said, but it’s not good for society and women dont like it when men do it. Hell if not for caring about the other sex, women wouldn’t be able to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:28 PM
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Im very much aware, but that doesn’t change the fact men are more likely to be attacked. It’s like blaming black people for black on black crime instead of what causes it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:24 PM
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(Not American and i woulda voted kamala) And im not asking you to change your values. Why do people insist that they have to trade beliefs, you can believe women have it hard while still acknowledging men have a lot of issues too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:23 PM
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Exactly? Im not saying they did a good or justified thing by voting for trump, im saying they had the same mindset as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:22 PM
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😭😭 no please im so bad at this. “Fine, I’ll do it myself”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:20 PM
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I’ve shown complaining? Im saying I showed that i don’t judge all women by a few comments on Reddit, while you seem to judge all men by Reddit. You also either haven’t read or won’t acknowledge the list of mens issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:19 PM
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Girl in my highschool thought it was funny to slap the asses of guys who she found ugly. She did this in front of people, everyone either laughed or was like WTF? No punishment ever came and no girl ever called her out for it. Yet I don’t judge all women for it, but if a man does something im supposed to accept being associated with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:16 PM
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Sorry maybe im being dumb here but why? Is this to do with the electoral college or something. As a Brit I don’t know a whole lot about your voting system. Why do republicans not need a majority?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:14 PM
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You would rather lose the election and miss out on improving gay/trans/minority/workingclass/women’s rights than accept that men have issues and acknowledging them will make them vote for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:10 PM
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Im not saying they aren’t idiots, im not even saying that they’re not bad people. Im saying that we need their vote to win.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:09 PM
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Because people woulda rather act like those men are the same as the incel red pill Andrew Tate type of men, instead of acknowledging they’re just normal men who are sad and end up killing themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:08 PM
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I literally showed how I don’t do that. Also, that post is very long with many issues and a summary at the end, why ask for it when you can just click the link? As for what you said about alimony, abortion has been legal here for decades, I still think it’s important to talk about it in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:07 PM
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So straight up misandry right here. Im guessing you also didn’t read my post or read it disenguinly. I also remember you from a few posts and it seems you like treating men as a monolith and as if they’re all just sex obsessed women haters or something. Also, you understand you come off as a piece of crap right? Like regardless of if you care or not, you wouldn’t like a man who said “who cares about women’s abortion rights, they want control of their bodies yada yada yada 🥱🥱🥱” “well deal with ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:05 PM
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Okay I get that, im guessing from your beliefs that youre someone whos had an abortion, or wasn’t able to get them, or is queer or something. Not the beliefs being supporting those rights but the fact you find people voting against them vile. I definitely support your right to despise someone who opposes your rights to be who you are or have control over your body, but cant you see that from a political standpoint, to win the election, this would be a big help.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:01 PM
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Yeah I guess I was just projecting my own beliefs on guns, mb lol. I do agree overall, though many trump supporters want all their beliefs, not just part of them. Though this would bring back swing voters so yeah you aren’t wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:59 PM
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You aren’t thinking logically, idgaf about homophobic anti abortion hyper religious gun freaks that voted for trump. But there are many young men that went from left to right, imagine 4 years from now the progressive men you know, that believe all the same things they know now, vote for the right. You would want to know why and undo it, would you not? Even if you personally dont, it’s important because we need those votes. We’re talking about over half the American population here, you can’t pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:57 PM
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Agreed, but again, this is Reddit and also a sub with a lot of red and black pills that don’t represent a lot of society, just losers and victims who hate women. Though, an issue I have is that the female equivalent can call themselves feminists and get away with it, just like some of the comments on this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:54 PM
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“Fear it, run from it, destiny arrives all the same” (I hope I got that right 😭)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:52 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/Mensissues/s/TeO0wOSviB A list i made of men’s issues a while back. Also, it’s been proven many times that regardless of facts like capability, men are less likely to get custody and are made to pay child support. In general in courts men get harsher sentences. As for alimony, if a woman is able to work, she should work, not taking the money of a man she isnt with. But as a Brit, i don’t know much about alimony I’ll admit. I don’t know if you’re joking, but wth do you mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:52 PM
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Ummm…what? Im not sure what that means, but i don’t know why you wouldn’t believe me if that’s what that means, im guessing you didn’t read my post. Im pro abortion, pro nhs, anti gun, pro gay and trans rights. I would never vote for a 35 count felon who spreads disinformation and racism and is clearly anti abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:45 PM
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Taking up right winged views doesnt help the left, it just makes them less “the left”. Personally, I doubt I’d vote for a pro gun government, unless both sides were pro gun, which would be the case actually so maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:43 PM
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I agree but voting trump for economic reasons is dumb, even though it’s what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:41 PM
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Because people who voted left moved right, and we want them back?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:40 PM
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Do you actually think men were gonna vote kamala and then went “im going to punish women”. Kinda narcissistic tbh. I agree trumps bitch ass doesnt do much for men either, but he talks about mens issues on things like the Joe rogan podcast, which has millions of young American men listening to it. Kamala teased going on it….and then just didnt. Also, please dont get your view of men from Reddit comments. One of the comments on my post here says “most men like women’s suffering” in itd first sente…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:40 PM
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Im not American and im pro Harris and Biden and Obama etc. fuck trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:36 PM
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I might be wrong but wasn’t the push for young men voters because men are moving left and women are moving right? And more young men are voting left in many years? I get your point about maybe it not being at the forefront, but at the end of the day, people will be much more likely to vote for you if you acknowledge their issues instead of kamala pretending to be on the phone or faking talking about beer when she “definitely didn’t know the cameras were on. But yeah I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:35 PM
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Yes but they haven’t gotten away with it if you know that stat, and women have it much easier in courts
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:55 PM
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This is the issue, it’s hard for men to be “masculine” without being “toxic” because what people associate with “good masculinity” is still a by product of toxic masculinity. Of course it’s a woman’s choice if she wants a masculine man that she hates parts of, but as a guy, idrc if a woman is stereotypically feminine or not (in terms of personality).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:54 PM
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Also, and im probably in the minority here, and i don’t know if this applies for women too, there is a sort of hot fantasy about the crazy attractive clingy type, for me anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:52 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:51 PM
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Most single men and i, are just fucking lonely, we want companionship. Do you think the men killing themselves are doing it because they can’t fuck? No, it’s cus they feel alone and unloved. Get a fucking grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:49 PM
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Therapy. Yes you can have whatever standard, as long as it isn’t due to prejudice, but ive seen many women say that if you don’t go to therapy, youre a huge red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:47 PM
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No real way of knowing, but considering how much married femdom porn there is, I’d say there’s a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:45 PM
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Straw man after strawmanning. The facts are that men that support democratic beliefs in the past, including things like abortion, moved to trump at a percentage not seen in a long time. Democrats didnt care about a single male issue, and then when they realized they needed votes, they spent 10 million dollars saying “vote kamala if you want to get laid”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:21 PM
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So you can blame sexist women on the patriarchy and men, but not sexist men on women? So when mothers raise their sons, telling them not to cry, does that not lead to “toxic masculinity”?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:18 PM
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It makes sense, just because they’re undesirable, doesnt mean they desire undesirable, we’re all just people and being unattractive doesnt make you attracted to unattractive people. Lowering your standards and working on yourself if the method
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:33 PM
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lol, yeah I guess I was misinformed on those stats or I misinterpreted them, it’s nice to have a normal conversation here for once. I will say I think the reason it focuses on SA is because most countries it focuses on cant have a man be raped, and also the definition of rape can be subjective sometimes. Personally, I think it’s messed up cus a woman could do literally anything to a man in the uk and not be charged with rape, on top of an already existing inherent bias against men, especially mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:20 PM
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Chronically online parasocial radical feminists that are jealous of a baby boy for being Barbie’s kid
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:56 AM
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While I agree woth most of what you are saying, I wasn’t saying that this is because of misandry, my own fault for not being specific. I was more responding to the idea that regardless of whos killing men, men are being killed more, so women fearing men much more than men fearing men is probably because of fearmongering. As for your stats, if you would like to look into them, women are much more likely to initiate domestic violence and domestic violence is highest in lesbian relationships, whera…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:44 AM
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https://x.com/arrivalleneuve/status/1853099268032106897?s=46&t=OUb9QqYZtII7QSb2lnSuzA
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 08:42 AM
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You can easily find them, Im not gonna pm it to every person that asks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 08:35 AM
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I agree, and I try to keep my time on it to a minimum but a lot of these things happen on Reddit and TikTok too, not really anywhere else to have these discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 08:33 AM
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28 thousand likes saying Margot Robbie should kill men everyday? Thousands of likes on posts saying women lost?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 08:29 AM
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I get that, but can you see how as a guy on social media feminist circles, im pretty much forced to watch women bash men at every turn, and even when they acknowledge good men, it’s treated like they’re the minority of men. And then when I try to respond, the mods hit me with the “dont detail conversation”, “women only”, or i I just get down voted for disagreeing with blatant misandry. Then the few comments from women actually being objective are massively over shadowed by the sexist ones
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 08:29 AM
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This. Many “feminists” are just sexist women whos views are socially acceptable because they can use feminist talking points
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 08:22 AM
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Yes but you specifically looked at the tweets i mentioned and decided to focus on the one with 50 likes instead of 28 thousand
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 08:22 AM
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Okay? Well good for you, you can easily search it up and see the tweets im referring to, but if you wanna stay in your close minded bubble, that’s okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 08:17 AM
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My issue with these theory’s is they treat men like a monolith, many of their ideas of men are that they are these piece of shit Andrew rate fans or men from 50 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 08:15 AM
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I wish I could, but the women on that sub seem to hate men and view them all as either rapist creeps or recovering misogynists
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 08:09 AM
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This has nothing to do with what I said, you can minimize any point by blaming it on bots
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 08:08 AM
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Men arent a monolith, its not fair to minimize men being attacked much more by saying “men go out more”, it’s like saying “who cares if men are raped, men are the ones raping them” or “ who cares men are 4x more likely to kill themselves, men built this society”, etc. Itd be like if I blamed roe v wade being overturned on women just because many women were anti abortion. The point is that men get attacked much more, but men dont leave the house in fear, its reasonable to assume that online algor…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 08:05 AM
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Men are much more likely to be attacked and killed, women being more fearful comes from fesrmongering imo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:50 PM
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Yo I don’t wanna be rude but are you dumb? That’s the likes for the comments being responded to, not the likes for the tweet, I just checked it again myself, it’s got 28k likes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:14 PM
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I literally just follow dog videos, anime editers, youtubers, random celebs. X is just a cesspool ig
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:12 PM
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Yeah id say I agree with you. I think the conflict comes from, yes there’s more rampant misogyny but I think misandry is more socially acceptable, especially in feminist centric circles. Like most the posts in feminism subs dont like men commenting and say stuff like “yes non sexist men exist but they’re so rare”. I don’t know that just seems like bs to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:07 PM
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Heavily exaggerated? The number of likes and shit i put is real. Do you think it’s acceptable to “joke” or satirically say that male babies should die of clot death? Im guessing not, i don’t know why it’s hard to just say “yeah that’s fucked up and needs to be spoken about more because hate against men doesnt help equality between the sexes”. And my post doesnt have arguments because it’s a question
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:03 PM
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I agree that it probably does happen in the reverse, but I meant more that if it was seen/reported on in the reverse it would be taken more seriously. Also, huge agree on the feminist thing, i get really annoyed when it’s written off as “oh well they’re radical feminists teehee”, if feminism is about equality then it needs to call out both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:01 PM
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I can assure you this isnt some case of me being stuck in an echochamber or algorithm or whatever. Besides, the main point of my post is about misandry and how feminists can deny it exists when this kind of talk does. If a women came here complaining about how much of a piece of shit Andrew rate and sneaky fans were, I wouldn’t call her chronically online.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:50 PM
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No she said I wasn’t dealing with it BECAUSE I didn’t want to tell her everything that’d happened to me straight away. I told her I didn’t feel comfortable doing that yet and she said to punch pillows. I don’t know what I wanted her to say, but being forced to go to therapy and then your therapist trying to force you to tell them shit you aren’t comfortable sharing with a stranger isnt my idea of helping. I was willing to talk, but I wasn’t just gonna sit there for an hour going through things t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:02 PM
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You seem chronically online. In the circles youre sucked into online, men call women “bops” or “sluts” when they have fun and women call men “preds” or “creeps” when they have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:16 PM
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Im 16, cant exactly go around finding a bunch of therapists. And she did say that, word for word, bar for bar. She said I wasn’t dealing with my anger healthily because I didn’t want to talk about it with someone i barley knew, so I opened up, she then said “you need to let it go, or release it, next time you’re angry try punching a pillow”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:15 PM
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Receptive to help? My therapist literally told me that I have to feel X and Y about what happened to me, instead of giving me these apparent “tools to cope”, she said that when im angry i should punch a pillow. That shit didnt help me. As for being “receptive to help”, I am, but talking to friends or anonymously online asking for advice are helpful too. Youre litch being an armchair psychologist right now, calling me a “huge red flag” because you did something that i did and didn’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:49 PM
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The gym is way cheaper and has actual guaranteed benefits for everyone. Ive been through a lot of shit, and therapy didnt help, it’s not for everyone. I didn’t like being in a room with someone who couldn’t even comprehend that what ive been through and they try to act like because they read a few books they can tell me how I should feel. It’s not for everyone, and it’s fucked up to think that just cus something works for you, it works for others. Working out and shit is how some people work thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:36 PM
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Lmao, i don’t know a single guy who wants woman you described. A strong fiesty but bubbly and fun girl is the dream. And lots of guys perfect assertive women too, and wouldn’t feel demasculated as a stay at home dad or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:51 AM
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Most as a guy I also agree with. The only one that Ickes me is therapy. Why does that have to be a requirement. It doesn’t work for everyone and costs a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 11:45 PM
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I might feel a little insecure and be surprised about why she has pics of her ex. Other than that, idgaf
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 11:24 PM
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Male abuse victims are going to be preyed on by male abuse victims? And we need male specific ones BECAUSE most of them are female only.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 11:20 PM
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Don’t know why you’re saying “but”, youre agreeing with me lol. Women do the same thing but get matches so Lilith, just like every rage bait post she makes, is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:21 PM
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He literally answered you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:06 PM
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The issue is that women do the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:06 PM
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Women do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:02 PM
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You have any stats for this? Or are you saying generally and then just using an anecdote?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:35 PM
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Someone posted this on this sub and all the women said that a man shouldn’t lie about being a virgin, yet they also said that they are much less likely to date a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:32 PM
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This post and the commenters all just think “men dumb” “men incel”, “women smart” “women good”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:43 PM
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To be honest this is dependent on the man, I think men only get this treatmeant if they’re decently attractive and tall
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:19 AM
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Yeah that guy saying “it’s exactly the same” is kinda dumb considering he’s never going to be able to experience it. Objectively people fear minorities more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:17 AM
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I acknowledge and agree with the end of what you said. As for the parts above, it seems like either you only care about or only know about stats of men doing wrong. Women are more likely to abuse children, women are more likely to initiate domestic violence, women are more likely to get away with every single type of violent or sexual crime. This doesn’t mean I think because you’re a woman, I think youre inherently evil. Because men and women are both prone to horrible crimes, it makes 0 sense t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:36 PM
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Deflecting from my points by gaslighting and trying to minimize my arguments without actually acknowledging them is childish. If you aren’t open to changing your mind and having an open discussion, get off this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:15 PM
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Youre strawmanning. Like I said, men are in charge so of course they’d be the ones starting the wars. You’re acting like during ww2 women weren’t going around shaming men who didn’t go to war, marking them with white flowers or something and shaming them. And if you look online you’ll see hundreds of studies showing that women in the exact same circumstances as men get no or much lesser sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:52 PM
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Actual straight up Misandry, and also it’s proven that courts treat women better than men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:36 PM
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Men start wars? Yeah cus they usually end up in charge. Men are convicted more? Yeah cus courts are biased against men. Men get more angry than women? Sure but that’s a stupid thing to average, it’s like when men say “are you on your period”. “Men will do anything for sex”, stupid and harmful stereotype. “Men are impulsive drivers”, there’s a steryotyoe of women being bad drivers, all you’re doing is flipping it. You’ll notice men insulting women more often because of your bias, I notice the opp…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:49 AM
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No lol.
/r/MensRights22/10/24 11:12 AM
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You arent listening
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:28 PM
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Agreed but it was an analogy so this isn’t relevant. I’m not in America but I’d vote kamala. However, her insulting men isn’t helping her get male votes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:27 PM
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You can be empathetic without ignoring the proven fact men live lesser because of stress, kill themseleves almost 4 times more because of stress and not being able to open up. I didn’t say you said men shouldn’t open up but what you are saying is acting as if women don’t hold part of the responsibility of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:47 PM
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Ahh so when women say something wrong it only reflects them and isn’t a big deal. But when men do it reflects them all and is? Nice one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:44 PM
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Making postive generalizations of women and negative of men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:27 PM
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Ahh so when women say something wrong it only reflects them and isn’t a big deal. But when men do it reflects them all and is? Nice one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:56 PM
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You aren’t understanding, I’m saying Mens mental health is worse because of their lives and not being able to open up, whereas women objectively live under less stress and with more ability to open up and actuslly have people listen. I’m done responding btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:26 PM
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I did read it, you are acting like men and women are the same when it comes to this, which objectively isn’t true and isn’t just based of stereotypes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:03 PM
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Well women who have pretended to be men have historically killed themselves and all the guys who couldn’t get play before would find it easier now, so a lot of lesbian sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:56 PM
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Wondering what you consider small normal and large. Personally I’d say below 5.3 inches is small, 5.3-6.3 is normal, and 6.3-100000 is big
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:54 PM
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I’m a man and it was a hypothetical. Also, again, if you csnt sympathize with someone who is MURDERED or left alone because they were told beforehand, youre a bad person and chronically online
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:48 PM
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Friends for the men and the women. Also, you are a misandrist because you are diminishing issues that effect men and making it about women, whilst also generalizing. If a man said the same stuff you did but reversed, he’d be called a mysognist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:46 PM
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So basically you are a bad person. Ok. What kinda psychopath doesn’t have sympathy for someone who made a mistake and doesn’t dislike someone who commits a horrible act. Also, I guarantee that regardless of what you say, if it was a man who left her wife for being ugly, you wouldn’t act the same. Or again, youre a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:43 PM
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Wow. Just wow. You are a giant misandrist and clearly don’t know enough men. I’ve had many women trauma dump on me, did I complain? No. I helped them through it, cus I’m a good person. My male friends on the other hand, just stuff everything away and try not to think about it, they don’t cry, they don’t shut in, they just try to move on, no matter what it is, it’s so rare they want to talk about it, and if they do, it’s very minimal. Yet I have some male friends who don’t do that and female frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:35 PM
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I wouldn’t, but you are distracting from the point, it doesn’t matter if someone made their intentions clear, it doesn’t redeem their actions. Not in a court of law, or in the court of public opinion. It’s like if trump said “I’m gonna kill every immigrant if I’m elected” gets elected and does it, and everyone says, he told you he was gonna do it, so let’s not punish him or view it as wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:30 PM
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“If we date I’m gonna hurt you” “Dates” kills “She’s in the right, she told him, no prison time”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:24 PM
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People don’t seem to care about how men feel
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:23 PM
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Feminism denies many issues of men, says men must be ally’s to feminism, but when men talk about their proven issues, feminists say thst men created the system and they can get themselves out of it. There’s also so many TERFs and feminists who are just insanely toxic without any regulations on those subs. I’ll check out that sub you mentioned, thanks
/r/MensRights16/10/24 02:13 PM
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I just feel that so many subs about male rights get overrun with toxicity and a lack of forward thinking. I wanted to have a sub where feminists and pretty much anyone, can come and talk about male specific issues. This builds awareness and leads towards a better society instead of men vs women. Even this sub has so many men in it that are the type of guys that lead to women who hate men
/r/MensRights15/10/24 04:14 PM
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💀
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:42 PM
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Bro what. No way you don’t think straight or gay women exist, are you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:34 PM
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I’m kinda on both sides, which is why I clicked purple pill. Abortion = good Both sexes discriminate against short men. Male issues are overlooked: circumcision, the draft, suicide, rape, SA, body positivity, family courts, etc. it feels like society only cares when it’s about women Women had it much harder even 20 years ago, hell in the uk a man could rape a woman and wouldn’t get punished until 1991 if they were married. But men and women have it too similarly bad/good now for one to definitel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:32 PM
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Could you post this in my sub? r/mensissues Its goal is to highlight men’s issues constructively and I think this would be a great post to do so.
/r/MensRights14/10/24 05:09 PM
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Could you post this in my sub? r/mensissues Its goal is to highlight men’s issues constructively and I think this would be a great post to do so.
/r/MensRights14/10/24 05:08 PM
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Could you post this in my sub? r/mensissues Its goal is to highlight men’s issues constructively and I think this would be a great post to do so.
/r/MensRights14/10/24 05:08 PM
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Could you post this in my sub? r/mensissues Its goal is to highlight men’s issues constructively and I think this would be a great post to do so.
/r/MensRights14/10/24 05:07 PM
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Could you post this in my sub? r/mensissues Its goal is to highlight men’s issues constructively and I think this would be a great post to do so.
/r/MensRights14/10/24 05:06 PM
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Texts are like the easiest thing to doctor
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:55 PM
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Testimony is never proof, people spend ages preparing for court. My question is if both sides have an equally strong voice/story, but neither has proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:55 AM
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Proof it didn’t happen? What if they had sex and she is claiming it was rape? His word against are hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:12 PM
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Cautious != pessimistic and prejudice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:53 PM
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If you go outside and talk to a man or have any male friends, you’ll see that many of them are in normal healthy relationships, sure there is parts of dating that are way harder for men, but same for women. It’s like if I assumed that all woman were actuslly looking for 6,2 men making 6 figures with a 6 pack
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:47 PM
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When I see some women say “kill all men” or I see a man being dismembered and all the comments saying “what was he wearing”, I don’t act as if that disgusting behavior applies to all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:43 PM
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Well I wouldn’t know because I’m not part of the Mano sphere, but ik for a fact that men and women generalize but it’s condemned a lot more in general if it’s a man generalizing women. Besides, the internet is not representative of men as a whole and especially considering so many men frown upon fellow men, statistically when you see their outer group bias
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:29 PM
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umm so im a man, so i know what men think, and im anonymous, so by your logic i'm not lying. You are really funny by the way, you're a woman who thinks she knows better about what men think than men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:34 PM
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Ugh I wish the rest of Reddit and TikTok could comprehend this but no just because they’re too chronically online and have no or barley any members of the opposite sex in their lives, they judge the entire sex off social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:58 PM
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Yet if I said the same thing about the extremely radical feminists I’d be told to “get off the internet/go outside” or that I’m “lying”. Judging all men off some random TikTok comment or whatever is stupid, all you have to do is go outside and see men and women dating various ages of men and women, usually of similar age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:56 PM
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They definitely should. Men and women are just as Likely to commit dmv, but women are more likely to initiate/escalate physical confrontations/fights and women are more likely to abuse children. If you combine that with men being more likely to be incarcerated for the same crime, women being more likely to be seen as the victim, and the significant in group bias of women and small outer group bias from men. It’d be stupid not to be prepared for the relationship to go sideways as a man or a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:50 PM
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Do you feel the same about guys who sleep around
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:00 PM
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Settled but only if they consider it picking
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:08 PM
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They’re getting rid of the nhs and are very clearly racist as you can see from all the videos circulating online of the leaders. Muslims are basically just new age Nazis, they don’t allow people to be gay or women to be equal
/r/MensRights06/10/24 03:17 PM
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Oh right, very true
/r/MensRights06/10/24 02:18 PM
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Reform is dogshit, racist, and classist. Hope this helps!
/r/MensRights06/10/24 02:18 PM
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NEETS?
/r/MensRights06/10/24 02:16 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:51 AM
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Tbh it seems like you and OP are basing just off anecdotal evidence. Whereas we can all agree that women are seen by many to be strong for being single and independent, and men are shamed for not having sex: being called gay for saying no and being called an incel for being a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:30 PM
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I agree with the first half, not the second. I think it’s cus men would rather be in a relationship than alone because they’re shamed for being single/virgins much more. Whereas women are seen as empowered for being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:24 PM
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No, it’s not difficult to just have your beliefs and not make them effect your everyday, go enjoy your life while you still can, it might to be too late for you all. I’m decently young and really good at convincing people of things, and i agree with many aspects of men’s rights and feminism so I’ll probably still settle down.
/r/MensRights04/10/24 05:21 PM
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So all issues men have are caused by men, but all issues women have are caused by women? Even though women have an in group bias which causes them to favor female students and mental health and laws. Whereas men have an outer group bias. Clearly you aren’t gonna change your mind so I cba arguing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:01 PM
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Okay? did I say something wrong? She got asked to define it and cried because she did.
/r/MensRights03/10/24 04:14 PM
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This is exactly what OP means, pretty much everything you said was about the past. You also made it very clear you don’t know what issues men have. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/sJHKyVivyI I go very in-depth here in the issues of men about a third of the way through to the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:11 PM
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Source?
/r/MensRights03/10/24 04:03 PM
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And then the cunt cried because she got asked to define mysogny 💀
/r/MensRights03/10/24 04:02 PM
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I have no clue what this means
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:54 PM
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Errrm, I keep seeing this but don’t see how this applies to women hesitating to acknowledge having it better and maybe not having it worse than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:53 PM
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I posted recently on the teenagers sub about some personal stuff and mentioned that I’ve considered and almost did self harm and a girl there said that I should’ve done it because I’m a lurker on the mensrights sub. Like wtf. Unfortunately although we are progressing, I’d be surprised if we were rid of stigma against helping all people before another 80 years
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:52 PM
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Yes but I think OP is arguing that men also have issues like these and that since women have it so much better than they did, it’s impossible to quantify which sex has it better as both have it better than they did. Just because women used to have a lot more problems, doesn’t mean that they don’t still have problems, yes I agree, but it doesn’t mean they still have more problems than men or even that the problems they face effect the average woman often enough for so many of them to bash and res…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:46 PM
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My dumbass read it as illegal mb. I don’t know why the other guy got so many upvotes as if he isn’t spreading misinformation
/r/MensRights03/10/24 03:43 PM
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So basically pretty privilege. If a man is attractive then he’s confident and husband material. If he’s not then he’s a weird creep
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:52 PM
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6
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:50 PM
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“Men are 3x more likely to kill themselves than women, now thanks to suicide watch, they’re 6x more likely”
/r/MensRights30/09/24 08:28 PM
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This
/r/MensRights30/09/24 12:11 AM
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This. I’d say the key difference is that feminists don’t believe misandry exists
/r/MensRights29/09/24 02:16 PM
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Anecdotal evidence and doesn’t prove that having a life long partner ship with a woman is bad or possible
/r/MensRights28/09/24 08:50 PM
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Source?
/r/MensRights28/09/24 12:25 PM
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I think the commenter means that I wouldn’t call myself a MRA but I support many of the beliefs of the men’s rights community
/r/MensRights28/09/24 12:25 PM
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Any violent crime
/r/MensRights28/09/24 11:32 AM
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This sub is brainrot
/r/MensRights28/09/24 11:13 AM
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To have a life long partner you love?
/r/MensRights27/09/24 08:10 PM
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Life experience doesn’t prove shit. And I can’t prove a negative smart guy, you’d need to prove your point for me to refute it. If there’s no evidence of it being true, why would any logical person believe it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:36 PM
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Sure bro, source?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:29 PM
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Not what you said at all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:06 PM
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Women don’t biologically get repulsed by men showing emotion
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 06:51 AM
1

Ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:51 PM
1

So basically keep trying to not die alone or die alone ? How is this okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:50 PM
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I’m cooked
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:48 PM
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The problem isn’t men not doing it. The problem is women not liking it when they do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:46 PM
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I don’t know about that. Women were expected to get married and have kids but men are the ones who are specifically shamed for not having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:42 PM
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Because he’s redpill and probably supports with gender roles
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:40 PM
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Are you being intentionally dense?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:05 PM
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Relationships are about more than sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:00 PM
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How is a man not crying a lot harming you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:38 PM
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“We” doesn’t equal majority. What part of anecdotal evidence do people not understand. I know loads of women and girls who don’t do anything like that, just cus you did and know people that did, doesn’t mean anything. Not to mention, even if you were right, there’s a lot more to raising a kid than experience and you get experience by having a kid. Imagine I went up to my only child female friends and said that I’d be better at raising their child than them because I had to take care of my siblin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:09 PM
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Most single mothers didn’t before their child. I’m pro choice but the idea that men can’t be single dads like single moms is so dumb. Most parents aren’t ready, who cares about their sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:01 PM
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It’s different. If it was “the way society treats men is harmful” instead of “the way men act is harmful” then it’d be okay
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 08:52 AM
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What about women that check if their man has been on a register
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:34 AM
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All the time women say things like “when was the last time you cried” or call it toxic masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:33 AM
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I mean I haven’t tried dating before and won’t for another year or 2, maybe I’ll change my mind if when I try I never meet someone I like
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:50 PM
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Craziest part is Women shame men for being sad Women shame men for not being sad Like bruh tf y’all want
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:09 PM
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I’m saying like if your girlfriend said you aren’t allowed to have female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:07 PM
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But other men will have traits that are impossible to replicate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:35 PM
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I don’t know how old you are or where you live but I’ve been to several countries and I’m on the younger side and I can tell you that i always see guy half the women and men in this comment section clearly have no idea what it’s like to be the other sex, have no empathy, and assume a million negative things
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:30 PM
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Not unless they directly harm your mental health like “don’t have X sex friends
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:17 PM
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School taught me that if I have sex under any false pretenses, it’s sexual assault. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:10 PM
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So it is a good metric? And men do it more? But men don’t have it harder based on OPs findings? Instead of just saying stuff, how about you tell me what you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:16 PM
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So suicide and depression aren’t good metrics of deciding quality of life? 💀 Also this guy literally has sources and you have yet to disprove anything he’s said.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:27 PM
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Disagree massively, firstly, not being high up in “value” is a good way to garner sympathy, if someone is lower class or a single parent, people could be more sympathetic. On top of that, you’re literally talking about objectifying people. Not to mention, we shouldn’t gaf what people think
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:26 PM
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Their point is that it’s misrepresented in a way that specifically makes it seem like women have it harder than they do, and makes it seem like men have it easier than they do, so we can assume, until a unbiased study proves differently, that they’re equally privileged in quality of life. When you then combine that with the higher suicide rates, higher depression rates, higher killed rates, more physically demanding work load, etc. it would be fair to assume men have it harder in terms of qualit…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:20 PM
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Idgaf, honestly being a stay at home husband seems so much better
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:46 PM
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If there’s 0 evidence and no police report, do you consider that guilty?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:00 PM
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Everyone’s always taking that gamble.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:10 PM
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Or.. OR when someone’s found innocent, you don’t assume they’re guilt based of their gender
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:09 PM
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You assume that any man accused of rape is probably guilty, Idgaf that if you care or not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:19 AM
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Femcels*
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:05 AM
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In that case women aren’t allowed to decide if their baby gets circumcised
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:00 AM
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This is the only comment in this entire post that pisses me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:52 AM
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