Throwaway45_RA Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
38	I think my 23F boyfriend 23M has ED (possibly related to porn usage?) and it’s affecting our relationship and my self esteem	PORN SICK, LIMP DICK	Throwaway45_RA	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/09/20 08:48 AM
3	Should a DTR Talk be an Ultimatum	SEEKING ADVICE	Throwaway45_RA	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/09/20 09:17 AM
1	Should I (23f) end a 2 month situationship with (24M) or attempt to DTR?	SEEKING ADVICE	Throwaway45_RA	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/09/20 04:03 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	I think my 23F boyfriend 23M has ED (possibly related to porn usage?) and it’s affecting our relationship and my self esteem Thank y’all for all the advice! It’s definitely become clear to me now that this is a porn issue and that I don’t want to be stuck with this for potentially years	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/09/20 06:26 PM
9	I think my 23F boyfriend 23M has ED (possibly related to porn usage?) and it’s affecting our relationship and my self esteem Well about a month ago he told me that he watches porn and he told me he masturbated around 4-5 times a month. Now I’m beginning to have a hunch that he lowballed the frequency.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/09/20 09:56 AM
-23	I think my 23F boyfriend 23M has ED (possibly related to porn usage?) and it’s affecting our relationship and my self esteem He recently got tested and he’s clean, he showed me his test results. He’s had one previous long term partner, and one fwb. I mean the fact that he doesn’t cum from Hj/Bjs doesn’t bother me in and of itself necessarily, it’s that I just feel bad and inadequate that he spends so much time getting me off multiple times in one sitting, and I can’t do the same.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/09/20 09:41 AM
25	I think my 23F boyfriend 23M has ED (possibly related to porn usage?) and it’s affecting our relationship and my self esteem I want to use condoms and BC simultaneously. The abortion laws in my state are archaic and some of the strictest in the country and the financial and emotional stress isn’t worth only having one contraceptive method at this point. I don’t want to risk only using condoms and putting myself into a situation where I potentially might get stuck with a kid.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/09/20 09:34 AM
3	I think my 23F boyfriend 23M has ED (possibly related to porn usage?) and it’s affecting our relationship and my self esteem He tells me that it has nothing to do with me and he rarely has been able finish from BJs/HJ’s in any of his other relationships. He told me he normally can only finish from sex. I won’t be able to be on BC for another couple months and he has had 0 qualms about that and has never prematurely tried to push me to do anything I wasn’t comfortable with.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/09/20 09:26 AM
23	I think my 23F boyfriend 23M has ED (possibly related to porn usage?) and it’s affecting our relationship and my self esteem Wait so is he only spending that much time on me to overcompensate for the fact that he can’t keep it hard?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/09/20 09:16 AM
5	I think my 23F boyfriend 23M has ED (possibly related to porn usage?) and it’s affecting our relationship and my self esteem No I don’t know the answers to those as we’ve only been dating for a couple months and official for a short amount of time. He’s mentioned watching Porn and jacking off to me, but has implied that it’s infrequent. I wouldn’t even know how to bring it up, as since we’re not having sex, and I’m finishing, him finishing has no direct effect on me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/09/20 09:12 AM
14	I think my 23F boyfriend 23M has ED (possibly related to porn usage?) and it’s affecting our relationship and my self esteem I mean he will spend an hour to an hour and half just on me, and I will spend 10 minutes on him before he says it’s not going to happen. He more than puts in the work, I just feel bad because I feel like I’m not doing enough.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/09/20 09:01 AM