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| 1 | TRP Vet at crossroads with potential LTRThank you. I appreciate the response | /r/askTRP | 21/10/16 06:29 PM |
| 1 | TRP Vet at crossroads with potential LTRYeah abundance mentality is everything honestly. It fixes everything not just LTR. You're right though. As long as you know when it's time to walk. I care about her very deeply. I really don't want to hurt her. We're going to talk today. I don't see this going well though. It's probably better I walk away for good, in the long run. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/16 12:57 PM |
| 1 | TRP Vet at crossroads with potential LTRYeah you're right. It just seems like she wouldn't mind in the scale of things because she's basically ghosted me anyways. Obviously she didn't like that idea. She's going to call me today so we'll see what happens but overall I'm not very hopeful for this anymore. Something just doesn't feel right anymore. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/16 12:49 PM |
| 1 | TRP Vet at crossroads with potential LTRGenius. Well written. I'm going to use this mindset. She plans on talking to me soon, we actually had a brief conversation earlier. It seems she hasn't written me off completely. I think I'm on the outside but I think she understands my intentions are genuine. I'll probably go high risk here because worst case scenario, I'm back to playing the field. It feels like neither of us are looking to go back that direction though. She insists on assuring me she still isn't talking to anyone without me p… | /r/askTRP | 21/10/16 02:09 AM |
| 1 | TRP Vet at crossroads with potential LTRI was all in with her before the last couple of weeks. She kept telling me to be patient and that she'll be good eventually. The strain on me for trying to eliminate her insecurities of me cheating, but never dealing with it damaged us. The lack of communication was too much right now. When you care about someone, you care about their well being, the condition of their mind. It was making me feel inadequate in all this. I just couldn't stand to sit on the bench until she was ready. So I did the … | /r/askTRP | 20/10/16 04:40 PM |
| 1 | TRP Vet at crossroads with potential LTRYeah that definitely comes off how I made it seem. Hind sight is 20/20. I just couldn't deal with the lack of communication. I don't know how she's doing, how her family is doing, hell we hadn't talked on the phone in weeks. Plus before I found out about this she was projecting I was cheating because I was at a destination wedding. So we never had a chance to deal with that underlining issue. As I type this all out, I see more and more that we were doomed before this even happened. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/16 03:18 PM |
| 1 | TRP Vet at crossroads with potential LTRI really appreciate the response. As have I. I've lost two family members and I completely understand where she is coming from. I am trying to step up in a different way. A friend way. I thought by explaining that it would help us. She has no energy to try and continue a relationship right now. I was basically giving her the freedom and space I thought she would be seeking. In hind sight obviously that was not what I was doing, I was unintentionally abandoning her. I just feel awful about it. I … | /r/askTRP | 20/10/16 03:11 PM |
| 1 | TRP Vet at crossroads with potential LTRAlright I'll add just a little more although I agree with everything you just said. I had been supportive for a few weeks despite her projecting that I had been cheating before hand. Lack of disclosure on issues of her dad and other family issues. She had pretty much ghosted me outside of her texting 'morning' - 'how'd you sleep' - 'l miss you'. She failed to follow up with multiple phone calls. I know I botched this but I can't just sit around in a 'relationship' when I'm not getting any sort o… | /r/askTRP | 20/10/16 02:43 PM |
| 1 | TRP Vet at crossroads with potential LTRGood point. I suppose that did come off as choppy, I suppose I'm curious if no contact is smart. I left the door open for her to reach out. Would you recommend giving space the way I did? I feel horrible for abandoning her during this although I did try to remain friends. Is no contact really smart here? Or should I be more of a temporary orbiter? The roles aren't very defined for this type of situation in my eyes. Edit: I do want the girl back, but not now. I can't see myself dating her exclusi… | /r/askTRP | 20/10/16 02:22 PM |
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