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| 1 | A lot of guys who lack confidence have this fantasy.Yes, so, basically, it is a double-edged sword. You still need to step out of your comfort zone to get a woman who is comfortable with the fact that you are introverted. Basically, you still have to do what is not natural to you. | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 02:52 PM |
| 181 | When age turns them offThe way you have phrased this as "older women" and the way that 24 year old girl responded to you by saying she thought you were "21, not 20" truly reveal your ages. You both sound so young and lacking in life experience. Honestly, she should have just given you a chance as she hardly sounds much wiser. I am not saying this to be harsh but you have the wrong perspective. A 24 year old is not an "older woman." She is young and inexperienced like you. The fact that she could even say that she thou… | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 12:13 PM |
| 1 | A lot of guys who lack confidence have this fantasy.If you are an introvert, you will likely never have the gift of the gab. Your best conversations occur in your inner world, not your outer world. It does not come naturally to you. People tell me all the time that the reason I am almost 29 and have never had any fun with women is that I have "no mouth." No matter how many times they tell me to get one, I just don't because it is so antithetical to my nature. | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 09:18 AM |
| 1 | You’re Hotter Than You Think: Why Attraction Makes No Logical SenseYou are just too shallow. Yes, of course, you are entitled to like what you like but selecting a woman purely for her chest size is ridiculous. Don't expect her to appreciate you very much if that is all that matters to you. | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Feel lonely when no girls texting or contactingYes, she is even more clingy than I am. We are on the same page. That is why we are meant for each other and that is also why most people are not for us and vice versa. | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Feel lonely when no girls texting or contactingMen and women do need each other. | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 08:53 PM |
| 0 | Feel lonely when no girls texting or contactingThis is not true for everybody. I don't need friends in my life. I only need my woman and my personal interests. | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Best European city for partying and getting hot girls?Can't be much of an introvert if you got that right. | /r/seduction | 12/05/25 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Your ego makes you think rejection is more important than it really isAnd if people, men or women, DO judge you for approaching women, guess what, they are the weird one, not you. There is nothing morally or practically wrong with approaching a stranger you find attractive or interesting and trying to talk to them. In fact, it is literally the only way to meet somebody you did not have a previous connection to. Literally millions of people have met new friends, lovers, and spouses through cold approach. The subreddit r/IncelTear should learn about this. | /r/seduction | 03/05/21 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach #REJECTED 😂Will you be comfortable if/when you see her again the next time you need to buy something at the gas station? | /r/seduction | 02/05/21 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Who else is in their late 30s and still trying to learn how to be proficient at attracting women?True. | /r/seduction | 11/04/21 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Who else is in their late 30s and still trying to learn how to be proficient at attracting women?I am only in my mid 20s and I am already resentful of all the lost time and lack of opportunities. | /r/seduction | 11/04/21 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Who else is in their late 30s and still trying to learn how to be proficient at attracting women?So, you are saying that only a woman is entitled to be emotional? | /r/seduction | 11/04/21 01:09 AM |
| 1 | I am nearly 30 years old, have autism, and never been on a date. Women block me when they learn about my inexperience. What can I do to improve my dating chances?The reason members of this subreddit analyse male-female interactions so methodically and nitpick is because most relationships were formed after the men took initiative to establish connections with the women. Even in this day and age, most women don't take the lead. So, men have to devise strategies by observing the successes and failures of other men. Women overall are also more choosy than men. The men, thus, have to maximise their appeal. If the dynamics were changed and the roles were reve… | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 02:03 PM |
| 1 | I am nearly 30 years old, have autism, and never been on a date. Women block me when they learn about my inexperience. What can I do to improve my dating chances?Okay. I wouldn't say you were exactly encouraging an open ended conversation but alright and come on, lol, this has nothing to do with your being a woman. If you were a man, I'd have said the exact same thing. | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 05:14 AM |
| 1 | I am nearly 30 years old, have autism, and never been on a date. Women block me when they learn about my inexperience. What can I do to improve my dating chances?Yes, and her choice of words indicates some sort of resentment or anger. Her message reads like an angry outburst. | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 04:54 AM |
| 0 | I am nearly 30 years old, have autism, and never been on a date. Women block me when they learn about my inexperience. What can I do to improve my dating chances?Good lord, the hostility from this woman is astounding. | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 04:34 AM |
| 1 | I am nearly 30 years old, have autism, and never been on a date. Women block me when they learn about my inexperience. What can I do to improve my dating chances?I have heard other women say that it is not acceptable to approach women in any of those settings except through friends. Take a look at the r/inceltear subreddit and you'll see claims that no matter where you approach women, it is never socially acceptable in their view. You might say that, as a woman, you would know how other women would want to be approached but there are other women who would disagree with you as is the case in the subreddit I mentioned above. Everyone seems to have a differ… | /r/seduction | 09/04/21 10:41 PM |
| 0 | I am nearly 30 years old, have autism, and never been on a date. Women block me when they learn about my inexperience. What can I do to improve my dating chances?Has it ever occurred to you that men often choose young women because they find them attractive? | /r/seduction | 09/04/21 03:11 PM |
| 1 | I am nearly 30 years old, have autism, and never been on a date. Women block me when they learn about my inexperience. What can I do to improve my dating chances?So, it is cringe-worthy because Cgt1234 on Reddit said so, lol. So, if they can't do it in malls or on the street, where should a man unfortunate enough to be over 30 years of age do it then? At a nursing home? | /r/seduction | 09/04/21 03:09 PM |
| 5 | Woman needs just 3 seconds to decide whether you're attractive. Let's make the checklist on what to improve:Not necessarily over 6'0 foot but taller than the woman, yes, unfortunately. | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Woman needs just 3 seconds to decide whether you're attractive. Let's make the checklist on what to improve:They are trying their best to achieve success. The game of seduction is not an exact science. They are experimenting with techniques. If you'd be so kind as to provide a manual with all the exact rules of the game, maybe this game of experimentation wouldn't be necessary. | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 12:44 AM |
| 2 | I am nearly 30 years old, have autism, and never been on a date. Women block me when they learn about my inexperience. What can I do to improve my dating chances?If you are too old for most locations, how are you supposed to do it then? Who said you can't do it in a mall or even a college campus for that matter? Those are primarily adults on campus and they can always say no if they want to. If they are of legal age, then you are well within your rights to approach. They can turn you down if they want to. | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Life is great until a woman enters itI've never so much as had women show any interest in me besides a few glances now and then while I am out in public. Maybe you and I could exchange places for just a few weeks and I'll give you an updated perspective. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 09:02 PM |
| 8 | I am nearly 30 years old, have autism, and never been on a date. Women block me when they learn about my inexperience. What can I do to improve my dating chances?Because that has definitely worked out for him so far. No, the chance will not come. It never has and it never will. He can make chances, not hope they find him because they won't. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 08:16 PM |
| 3 | Some guys lives just suck. No matter what they do, how hard they work, they're pathetic, they go back to where they started, nothing changes. This is just true. And there are guys who are just lucky. They have it all. Partner, friends, career, money, look they have it without much effort.One of the most mercilessly cruel revelations you can experience is the sudden realisation that all the effort you have exerted for years won't achieve the goal you had in mind. When I was at school, I believed that if I behaved as best I could, achieved good grades, displayed good manners, kept my composure, never made crude jokes like my male classmates, etc, etc, that the girls would recognise my value and select me over those who embodied none of those values. Instead, the girls drooled over… | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 09:46 AM |
| 10 | Is it ok to not get verbal consent for a kiss? If you misread a signal and kiss someone by mistake because you thought they wanted too does that automatically make it sexual assault, even if it was an accident?Buddy, I can't offer you advice but I can say this: be prepared for a flogging on this post from some zealous individuals once they spot the headline. Good luck mate! | /r/seduction | 08/03/21 08:47 PM |
| 1 | 35 year old virgin needs advice on escorts and international womenIdeally, yes, he should be working on a long term solution to his problems and a nice girl with whom he can form a relationship will improve the quality of his life but it is only an ideal, an ideal that will require emotional resources. He may no longer have the fight left in him to pursue that ideal. I think he would achieve more if he set his sights on a more manageable goal. Then, he can work towards the ideal solution. | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 10:23 PM |
| 1 | A women says i like your skin toneMight be both or might be neither. I have had women tell me I have beautiful skin but those women had no romantic feelings for me. They can find you attractive even if they don't desire to win your affection. | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 10:12 PM |
| 1 | My tinder date turned out to be taller than me.I'll keep this in mind if I come across a woman with a physical flaw. Let's see how that works out for me (: | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 10:01 PM |
| 1 | 35 year old virgin needs advice on escorts and international womenHe is 35 and never had a relationship or even a sniff of sex or sexual prospects. I think his enquiring about escorts is not at all surprising. How can he not be desperate at this stage? I think he is well past maintaining a facade of apathy or composure. | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 09:55 PM |
| 1 | 35 year old virgin needs advice on escorts and international womenIt is easy to accuse others of being thirsty when you are not in the same position. I am not saying you have what he doesn't but you see what I am saying? | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 02:58 PM |
| 2 | (Urgent Advice Required) Going on a trip with 8 girls and a guy. But, the other guy already has all the girls competing and swooning over him. What do I do?Leave them be. If they are head over heels in lust for this guy, then don't allow yourself to be distracted from your work by this unnecessary negative experience. Focus on your work and if they want to be around you, they will gravitate towards you. The purpose of this trip should be your academic success, not your sexual or romantic success. | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 11:02 AM |
| 2 | My tinder date turned out to be taller than me.You should reply: "Why didn't you tell me you were this ugly inside and out, in real life?" | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 09:46 AM |
| 3 | My tinder date turned out to be taller than me."Don't hurt her feelings?" Yet, she is trying to hurt yours. | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 09:41 AM |
| 12 | A woman's POVWhy can't the women take initiative as well? | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 10:46 PM |
| 4 | A woman's POVWell, there are those who claim that a woman out on her own does not want to be bothered and it is presumptuous and degrading for a man to assume she wants to be approached. Apparently, there are those who believe this is genuine harassment. Furthermore, the woman may be ill-mannered, arrogant or be offended that a man she finds undesirable would dare to express his interest. On the other hand, there are those like yourself who want to be approached but there is no knowing which hand you are get… | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 10:39 PM |
| 1 | I've finally found the what truly makes me happy - WomenCongratulations! I do have a question for you though: Are you by any chance fairly tall? If so, I am not the least bit surprised you are getting validation. People can say height is not what matters until they are blue in the face. I have seen otherwise with my own eyes. | /r/seduction | 27/02/21 12:55 PM |
| 2 | One of the two guys at a party of 12. All other girls and attractiveI'd say wait for one of them or a group of them to begin a conversation. Be sure not to sit in a corner. Right off the bat, get in there and stay nearby. Then, wait for one of them to say something on which you can elaborate in an informative manner. In other words, make it appear as though your participation occurred naturally. Pay attention as the conversation flows. If that goes wrong, you can tell everyone that you refuse to continue putting up an act and you are just there to score a date, … | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 11:27 PM |
| 2 | 1 girl is a anomaly. 10 girls is a trend. 100 girls is your reality.I know this is not related to the purpose of this topic but reading a statement such as "what 100 girls think of you is your reality," is the sort of mindset that makes a lot of women conceited and hyper self-important because this approach implies that they have a great deal of indirect mental power over you. | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 11:04 PM |
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