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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	Request for advice - communication issues & feeling like we're not on the same page	ADVICE	Throwaway976923	/r/RedPillWomen	16/11/21 09:52 PM

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1	Request for advice - communication issues & feeling like we're not on the same page I don’t think that’s the case- I’ve made it clear throughout our relationship that I’m not motivated by wealth and I would be happy at the place we are now, but that I support his endeavor if he wants to gain wealth. I tell him every day that I love him, appreciate him for who he is, etc. Honestly he told me that he’s getting frustrated because he’s soft and comfortable. I think he wants kids because as he said, he “wants to raise strong men”. He has said I’d be a good mother because I’m nurturi…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/11/21 01:08 AM
3	Request for advice - communication issues & feeling like we're not on the same page In the beginning, we were working together on the same page. We both read the Millionaire Fastlane and were working towards building his businesses and him gaining wealth. But we had a sense of unity, a goal that no matter what, we would succeed together and we would be happy. Somewhere along the line though, he started to push me out in favor of this new group of friends (which I get because they’re rich and have experience in this sort of thing) but our relationship suffered. He started tellin…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/11/21 10:03 PM
2	Request for advice - communication issues & feeling like we're not on the same page The group he became a part of is very “red-pill-y”. He came to me around a year ago and said that he wants to work on financial independence and freedom and wants to become wealthy. So I said ok, I will help you with whatever you need. I work in tech and have a pretty good salary. It means I was also able to help with tech things. I have helped him with his main business, built a website, helped with courses he was launching, edited a book. I helped in his side business by getting the computer s…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/11/21 08:22 PM
1	Request for advice - communication issues & feeling like we're not on the same page I’m starting to feel a little like this too. He recently (last night) told me that if we were to have children, he would spend even more time away from home as men do not need to be around their kids all the time, and that he would no longer want to see me as often if I were pregnant or had given birth because I would be unattractive. I get his point, I may gain weight, be emotional, etc, but what kind of a relationship is that? And does he love me only for my looks? After we talked, though we h…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/11/21 08:22 PM
1	Request for advice - communication issues & feeling like we're not on the same page His goals are now entirely about money and the rest as far as children and family seem like an afterthought to be accomplished only after he achieves financial success. I’m not willing to wait the potential years that could take and he feels angry when I ask for a timeline because he considers it selfish of me.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/11/21 08:18 PM
5	Request for advice - communication issues & feeling like we're not on the same page Yeah, time has definitely been a concern for me. I'm anxious about it and think about my clock literally all the time, and I can't say that it hasn't been a factor affecting my happiness/mood and therefore affecting him. I'm afraid that if I leave though, I won't be able to find someone else because I'm already 28 and live in a very liberal area.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/11/21 11:24 PM

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