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There are plenty of men who dominate BS and "social" jobs. I know as I worked with them.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 06:13 PM
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Hah I think they expect it to be like the office or other sitcoms. Also some women and men just don't want to work, and think that they can just do whatever they want or that it is just time to be social.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 06:10 PM
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Thanks, I learned it as a teen working in restaurants. My parents and grandparents who had worked in restaurants before said not to get involved with the after work or outside work socialization with co-workers of going to bars and drinking, drugs, gossip, dating co-workers, etc. I also would keep in mind it is just temporary.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 06:01 PM
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That really isn't surprising. I was in university in the late 1990s and extremely early 2000s, and even when I graduated there were women in classes I was taking who would try to spy or sabotage other students' work,not just men but especially other women. I worked in an extremely large academic testing company. They did the same thing with hiring completely unqualified uneducated people from slums and the hood in various cities in NJ, PA, NYC and promoting them, focusing on diversity, firing ev…
/r/MensRights11/05/24 05:31 PM
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I think he or she means this: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Princess_sickness I HAD ex-friends from Korea and Hong Kong, the man from HK was sort of a "prince" in that he thought nothing of just spending his parents' money on a sports car and extremely expensive designer clothing, etc. nevermind the reality and fact that he didn't have a driver's license. The Korean guy was extremely narcissistic, would go into temper tantrums if he didn't get his way and we were living near NYC and several othe…
/r/MensRights11/05/24 05:21 PM
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What are they unhappy and miserable about? I have worked in restaurants, retail, blue collar jobs, academia and education, freelance, WFH, temp work, cleaning, and in large companies/offices. I didn't complain about work and I didn't call in sick. I would just do my work or job, work well with others if needed, and go home and go to the gym. I usually only would get close or socialize at work with my manager or boss, and would avoid co-workers and colleagues who just wanted to complain about thi…
/r/MensRights09/05/24 06:20 PM
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I blame social media and consumerism. Of course there are men who are like this too.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 05:09 PM
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Even before #metoo it was like this. When I worked at various different companies men I worked with advised me not to become "friends" or to talk to any women co-workers. A friend's brother had this happen where he worked with a black woman and he would say hi and polite, and nothing else. She got ​him fired for sexual harassment and "racism" when he is married and monogamous with his wife.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 05:07 PM
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Which women are like this or which jobs are they working at? I know two who are like this but they made the choice to drop out of university, not get any degree or certification, and go crazy spending money and go into massive debt, and marry people who are also without degrees, technical skills, trades, etc.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 05:02 PM
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I think it is because they have unrealistic expectations. If you read the FIREyFemmes forum on reddit a lot of women there just expect or demand high paying jobs when these take years or decades to work up to, and you have a lot of women who are super materialistic and go crazy with spending. Of course there are men like this too. I am friends with one.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 04:58 PM
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It is also this way in Korea and Japan.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 04:53 PM
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damn those are not good countries, stay safe.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 04:51 PM
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Ok understandable.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 04:47 PM
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Therapists cannot prescribe pills or meds. Psilocybin is not harmless I have seen people have bad trips where they went into psychosis from Psilocybin, LSD, DMT/ayahuasca, Ketamine, etc.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 03:18 AM
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I am not trans, a friend thought he was trans but he is bi and androgynous and he married someone who is non binary ftm. He came to this realization while seeing a therapist. I have no idea about the sex or gender of his therapist. Therapy can help but if the therapist is not to your liking or you have issues with them, find someone else. I only saw therapists both men and women when I was sad and depressed when friends and relatives died. It is not a magic cure or it won't automatically solve a…
/r/MensRights09/05/24 03:08 AM
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Which countries are you sent to?
/r/MensRights09/05/24 02:46 AM
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I read the article. It sounds crazy or weird but in 2008 and in 2020 and during covid I was working and things were not that bad for me. No I didn't make lots of money but I didn't go crazy spending what I made or go into massive debt the way friends all did. Just the other day I met a woman working in a supermarket and she talked about wanting to spend lots of money out of her savings, I told her to please reconsider.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 12:30 AM
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Doesn't the electrician job have a pension? You have better job security. Teaching isn't really stable though. You can teach 3-5 classes full time even summer classes, and still barely make ends meet and you still have to work another job even if you are teaching full time. Unless you sign a contract and are actually teaching there is no job security, and the retirement and pension plans are not that good. I know people who taught for years or multiple decades in districts and they got little to…
/r/MensRights09/05/24 12:25 AM
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I hope you found another therapist and quit seeing that racist.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 11:51 PM
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If you get hired for it, even like it, and decide to keep teaching. I know many people who have a Masters in education and were never hired for full time teaching jobs, who were hired and signed contracts but quit as they hated it and for all of the work done the pay is super low, and you can have multiple advanced degrees and teaching experience at all levels and still never get hired. It is like this at all levels Kindergarten through university, you are more likely to get a job as a substitut…
/r/MensRights08/05/24 11:48 PM
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It is not just men, women do not want to work and it is people of all ages. This has been happening for awhile now, look at the anti-work group on reddit. A lot of people are spending money they don't have, going into debt and not paying it off, think the internet will make them wealthy when yeah you can get some money from it but not enough to quit your regular job, and ​even teens and students in college/university do not want to work or have zero work experience.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 11:20 PM
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Where are the best places to meet women in a post covid world that are not bars, classes, gyms, or churches? Going every so often is fine but I am not Roman Catholic or fundamentalist and would not want to go weekly or multiple times per week. A lot of women do not like men talking to them or approaching them in public, yet then on the apps wonder why they are alone.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 10:45 PM
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It seems like it, but the online sites and apps are fake most people on them do not read profiles, do not want to ever communicate, and even less actually ever want to really meet or date. Most people use multiple apps and have the same profile for all apps. I know this and am careful I am picky who I meet, I set very clear boundaries, know what I do not want, and I assume that a lot of what is written on there is fake as there are lots of women and men who aren't there to date or make friends, …
/r/MensRights08/05/24 10:42 PM
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People with NPD, and bipolar/mania/hypomania also do the idealization, devaluation and discard/rejection. The trick is to do it to them first, establish healthy boundaries, and go no contact.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 04:47 PM
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I blame social media also most of those women are not rich, they just want to present the image that they are. A lot of them are in massive debt and completely broke. Or their relatives might be wealthy but they have no access to any of it.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 04:45 PM
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She was expelled or punished, told to attend a different university or college, or dropped out. This is not uncommon.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 04:41 PM
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Where did you get the 60% of women have cluster B? Or do you mean that women are the majority of Cluster B personality disorders? I wouldn't be surprised if this is true, on reddit's raisedbyborderlines forum the vast majority of people discuss women.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 04:40 PM
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Talk to a solicitor or lawyer, put everything you own into a trust with the childrens' names on it, not her name. Good luck. My advice is going by what you wrote about yourself and your marriage, you are not happy, do not want to stay married to her, cannot fix the marriage or her, are planning on divorce, etc.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 02:43 AM
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What happened with the love bombing? People who are bipolar and manic also are hypersexual and do love bombing. I had one bipolar ex who tried love bombing me with sending gifts and saying "I love you!" like in retrospect very fast like 1.5 years, but I do not like gifts or people I am dating buying things for me unless it is for my birthday or Christmas and then it is just some small inexpensive items, something I need or use, etc. and if someone says "I love you" very early that is a major red…
/r/MensRights07/05/24 02:38 AM
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Exactly. On the BPD, bipolar, NPD forums here on reddit I wrote the exact same thing that people who are cluster B types are best avoided and people got angry but if you have dated one or been "friends" with one you know it is true, the best and only thing that works is zero contact, but if you must communicate try to go extremely low limited contact let them contact you 1-3x per year and do not tell them anything personal, but the best is zero or no contact. If you date a cluster B cut off all …
/r/MensRights07/05/24 02:24 AM
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Hah! Or just be like me and always have open relationships. Don't hate, I did not plan it this way but it always has just been this way. I am bi and all of the women and men I have dated or had as partners-never married-we always had open relationships. No it was not like a porn film or like a constant orgy, and yes safe sex was practiced.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 02:05 AM
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I know someone like this, she is not obese but I feel bad for her she married her sugar daddy, they wasted any/ all money they ever had or that she earns-he doesn't work at all, she has no degree or skills or trade, and is in an abusive marriage with him, he doesn't even take care of their kids, their home, doesn't cook, etc.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 01:52 AM
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DO NOT take her back, get involved with her at all, and whatever you do DO NOT MARRY OR COMBINE FINANCES! USE BIRTH CONTROL or just don't have sex with her. Cut off all contact with her. Put any $€£ you have into a trust so she and other people who you get involved with cannot get it. If you own a home etc.also look into putting it into trust as well as it will protect you and everything you have worked for.​ Sorry for the caps but she is playing games and manipulating you, and does not see you …
/r/MensRights07/05/24 01:47 AM
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I have had friends in your situation. Volunteer, meet male friends, get a dog, avoid dating or looking for women as partners only platonic friends but be careful, be extremely careful who you meet online. Also see a therapist if you have not already, contact your old friends and co-workers, talk to neighbors, and join a gym. Churches and religious, spiritual, or other self help and discussion and mental health groups will help. Learn to cook if you don't know how to, do not use drugs or alcohol,…
/r/MensRights06/05/24 08:05 PM
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