ThrowawayBecauseTRP Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	Sober Sex		ThrowawayBecauseTRP	/r/askTRP	30/01/16 06:12 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Sober Sex Thanks for the tips. I'm no stranger to exercise, was heavily into powerlifting from 16-18 so I know the benefits it can bring and how to plan and undertake a proper training regime. I have run into one problem though, and I might ask for your advice on this because you seem to know what you're talking with regards to nutrition. How the fuck do I eat properly on a broke ass student budget? Both my parents were huge health food people, so I never had to really worry about proper nutrition when I …	/r/askTRP	31/01/16 04:40 AM
1	Sober Sex Yeah I agree that going out 3 times a week isn't balanced, but it's just a habit I've got from hanging around people where this is the norm. Surrounding myself with positive and inspiring people that I enjoy being around is definitely something I'm working on, but I've lived where I am now for less than a month, and going to parties or clubs is the only real way I've met new people in the past (apart from school and backpacking, where you would have to try your hardest not to make friends). My s…	/r/askTRP	31/01/16 04:32 AM
1	Sober Sex Up until this week I'd never go out on 3 glasses of wine. Average night probably like 2 litres of wine and a few dexys/md. For reference I'm 70-72kg but my alcohol tolerance is probably pretty fucking high because of how much and how often I drink.	/r/askTRP	31/01/16 04:21 AM
1	Sober Sex Up until this week I'd never go out on 3 glasses of wine. Average night probably like 2 litres of wine and a few dexys/md. For reference I'm 70-72kg but my alcohol tolerance is probably pretty fucking high because of how much and how often I drink.	/r/askTRP	31/01/16 04:21 AM
5	Sober Sex I dunno man I'm finding that pretty hard to believe. Like sure you can be confident and charismatic when sober, and you can be a pathetic loser if you're drunk. But saying that alcohol itself has no effect on your confidence and it's all in your head, not sure I agree with that. Alcohol lowers inhibitions that's a fact.	/r/askTRP	30/01/16 08:51 PM
3	Sober Sex To be honest half the reason I didn't post on my main is that I have several friends who know my reddit username (not trying to hide the fact that I haven't had sober sex, they already know that) and are just pretty apathetic losers who play videogames all day, like I was, and I don't think they'd react well to me putting so much focus on self improvement. So your comment about conflict aversion is probably more accurate than you would've guessed. I've already gone cold turkey on videogames and …	/r/askTRP	30/01/16 08:47 PM
1	Sober Sex You're right, I should've phrased it as 'I have become accustomed to relying on alcohol to mask my beta-ness' or something similar. I was just trying to show that I have relied EXTREMELY heavily on alcohol to deal with social situations in the past (to the point where I had, and still have a reputation with friends from where I attended highschool as the one who always gets fucked up), and it's something I want to change. Especially considering I've just moved cities, about to start Uni and I wa…	/r/askTRP	30/01/16 08:35 PM
1	Sober Sex Should've put an /s after that first sentence honestly But at the same time don't you actually get shadowbanned from some subreddits for posting/subbing to TRP?	/r/askTRP	30/01/16 08:26 PM
1	Sober Sex Drunk "alpha" is not alpha at all -- in my opinion. Oh I completely agree. I've used it as a crutch and become dependent on it for being comfortable in social situations for way too long now. I can only think of a handful of parties/nights out since I was like 15, not including this week, where I have been sober and they were extremely uncomfortable. Hence why I'm trying to approach this problem as part of my overall self improvement. I'll check out Rollo Tomassi, thanks	/r/askTRP	30/01/16 06:26 PM